Dad was on a non stop loop regarding his youngest son Josh. Dad thinks he is still a child. Dad had been on the Josh Loop for half an hour before this video.
Dan, I absolutely love your dads sense of humor and wit. When you were explaining to him that you and Josh are both his sons so Josh is your brother and he goes "well you have a point there " I lost it 😂😂 His spirit still shines through so strong !
Props to you Dan. It takes extreme patience, and a lot of love, to do what you do day in and day out. It is also heartbreaking to see this disease progress with someone you love. So much respect for all of you.
At least he is working and not counting on his siblings to support him like some people I know in my family. You'll should be happy over his success as a medical sales person. I wished I had that talent to drive all over the state and cities too. Good job.
Oh my😢 I had the same conversation with my dad all day long. Men of their generation were defined by their work, how they took care of their family. My dads dementia and his inability to drive, work and do for others like he used to was the source of sadness, frustration and anger for him. 😢
He's absolutely precious. You're very fortunate that he's not combative. I know it's not easy taking care of him, but as you know, it could be a whole lot worse.
You are great with him. He really wants to be productive. We had a similar situation and a dr told us to give them a "job". Something simple like fold some kitchen towels or match up socks. It helped and made him feel like he was contributing to the house. Seemed to help mentally as well.
What a sweet man and you are a wonderful son. I'm almost 70 and bought a home with my youngest son. I have arthritis that makes it hard for me to do some things some times. But my son makes sure I have everything I need and everything I want. I'm very Blessed like your Pop.
Grandpa despite his dementia, LOVES his family, I am grateful he still knows you, Danielle, Josh, Mark and all his Loved ones, even his poor brother who no longer is here, he still Loves and Remember, Thank You for all you Dan😊😊😊
A good parent is always a good parent no matter his or her condition. Telling Dan that he appreciates him and that he is a good son. What a wonderful dad. God bless him and bless Dan too.
It's a good thing you keep a close eye on Dad, otherwise he would be outside splitting wood and re-roofing the house. He feels compelled to contribute to the family effort. What a great Pop.
You're so patient, kind and positively doing a wonderful thing taking care of Pop. He's a great dad and dignified in his position. He knows that he's got memory problems, but trusts you so much. I wonder what he would have said if you asked him what he wanted to do instead of hang out. ? Does he ever say what he wants to do? I would like to see you ask him..... Thank you for sharing. You're both inspirations.
No doubt . . You'd put your dad in a nursing home . . . Because you wouldn't feel any loyalty to your dad and probably would also do the same with your mother . . . Hopefully they never need your help . . . You probably be to busy to even go to there funeral . . . That's pretty sad .
I love watching you and your Dad. My father passed almost 15 years ago when I was 26. As hard as it must be to deal with this disease, you're a lucky man to have your Dad still. It's a blessing and I love that you don't take for granted the time you two have together. Many don't realize until it's too late. God bless you and yours.
Yea, and that’s bcos the two issues are in the right memory part of the brain. Early in his life - 3-10yr Danielle is in the recent memory part. She is new
Dementia is a terrible thing but I love how your Father is always thinking about responsible things. Work , Kids, Family, dogs, just general caring about things that matter. Even keys checkbook wallet ect. I 've seen many with dementia that are angry and mean to their care givers. God bless your Father and your Family for caring for him and not dumping him some home.
40 minutes?! To go around the block? 😂😂😂 He still holds his sense of humor during the confusing times. It shows his sense of strength as well & maybe just maybe thats how hes been able to be going on 92yrs old. 😊
Pretty much everybody remembers there birthday . . . There are people that can't remember there phone number . . But they can remember there birthday . . . So it's not so unusual for him to remember his birthday .
Oh, Dan bless you! You and Danielle are my heroes. Your dad is such a sweet man, always worried about his family. Always so surprised that he is 91 years old. Born in 1932, he will remind you, but due to the deep trust he has in all of you, he accepts what you say, scratching his head. I wish you all the happiest New Year Year. And thanks for sharing your precious dad.
Ed’s blue eyes looked so beautiful in this video. They reminded me of my daddy’s eyes. He also had dementia/Alzheimer’s. You all take such good care of him. Unlike my dad, Ed seems to know that something isn’t right with him and his memory. As difficult as it is that I no longer have my dad, I really respect what you all do with Ed and for him. Caring for my dad was so hard but I’d give anything to still be able to do it. God bless all of you!❤
Your Dad is an absolute gentleman. Especially, when you consider how confused he is sometimes. I salute you and your lovely wife for how you handle the situation - with grace, good humour and respect. God bless your patience. You're doing a great job.
Everyone Loves Grandpa!! He is Absolutely a joy. I know it's not easy but may God continue giving you good health and strength to continue caring for your dad.
You are wonderful with your dad! As a special education teacher who teaches students with cognitive delays, I would suggest visuals for him. You could make a family tree book or chart with family members’ pictures names and relations and include some information about them. He might enjoy just looking at it and it will help him remember everyone. I love watching your videos. You are an example of how to care for people with dementia. ❤
Something that I found helpful with my Grandmother was giving her "work" to do. Simple things like folding towels, counting items, putting things in a box or taking them out. Just simple things to make her feel like she had work to do. In those moments where she was bored, it really helped.
Thank you Dan for sharing your life I am sure you are helping a lot of people who have family members with your father's condition, you are so patient and kind. love from the UK x
My dad was put on hospice a week ago Friday in my home and my heart is so broken 💔 I am so happy to see Dan not taking this time with Dr. Ed for granted and taking such good care of him.
Bless him! He has been a busy, hardworking man, concerned about his family and always spent his time wisely. Now he is healthy and energetic and has nothing to do and no one to worry about. I feel his pain. My kids are gone hundreds of miles away and I am alone with nothing to do that makes me needed. 😥
Greetings from Panama 🇵🇦 you guys are my # 1 favorite family. Dan Blessings to you for your care and love. We love Grandpa Ed , always worry about his children ❤❤
Grandpa was an active man of service in his day to his family and now feels like he should be doing something. Amazing human. Thanks Dan for your deep love and patience. You're definitely a chip off the old block. Blessings and love❤🙏
Awe. You can see the worry, fear and frustration but he handles it well. It's getting to be seconds apart now. Awe Grandpa! Such patience from You and Danielle as always
“40 minutes to go around the block”…. hahaha… you can’t outsmart Grandpa Ed for sure👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Lol..He understands 40 minutes away isn't around the block
Thank you for sharing!
He passed
@@samikjeans8509 who passed?
The more you talk the more questions Dad ask😂
You can tell he was never a man to just sit around. Bless his heart! I love his personality!
He was a man of Great Love for his family always involved
Dan, I absolutely love your dads sense of humor and wit. When you were explaining to him that you and Josh are both his sons so Josh is your brother and he goes "well you have a point there " I lost it 😂😂 His spirit still shines through so strong !
I noticed that 😊
he makes me laugh at times 😂
That was my fave part, too.
Josh is his step brother from his 2nd wife
😅me too
Your Dad is so concerned about his family, what a kind person.
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I love when Dad replied 40/minutes isn't around the block. XO we love him.
This man is incredible. Always ALWAYS concerned for his family before himself.
"He's the youngest of this boat." 😂 Grandpa Ed is the best! Those one liners get me everything! God bless him.❤😊
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I TRULY AGREE!! HE HAS GREAT COMEBACK REPLIES 👏🏽 ❤️ 💙 😅
Where is Josh's mother?
Janice was Joshs' mother.
Dr. Ed is never going to believe he is 91! Bless him! 😂❤
"You are a good son". That touches my heart.
Props to you Dan. It takes extreme patience, and a lot of love, to do what you do day in and day out. It is also heartbreaking to see this disease progress with someone you love. So much respect for all of you.
40 years old is basically a baby in grandpa's mind.
40 years ago grandpa was in his late 40s early 50s, wonder how that last “little miracle” must have happened 😂
At least he is working and not counting on his siblings to support him like some people I know in my family. You'll should be happy over his success as a medical sales person. I wished I had that talent to drive all over the state and cities too. Good job.
@@usefulprogrammer9880 i think Josh is a half brother to Dan, could be wrong
@@John_Lee_they have the same father and mother I assume
@@Jessica-ml6td I thought they just shared Ed as a father and had a different mother
Oh my😢 I had the same conversation with my dad all day long. Men of their generation were defined by their work, how they took care of their family. My dads dementia and his inability to drive, work and do for others like he used to was the source of sadness, frustration and anger for him. 😢
Even in his darkest time in life...his thoughts are always his family❤ if only all dads were like Ed.
@DawnDingayan-sc2sf Yes I agree...the prisoners need to be freed from the Israeli jails.
@DawnDingayan-sc2sf
Free Pal_estine
You asked to free the in-vaders ?
He's absolutely precious. You're very fortunate that he's not combative. I know it's not easy taking care of him, but as you know, it could be a whole lot worse.
Always so kind and thankful 🙂
So true..my mom is so combative and hard to deal with😢 we must be thankful in all areas of our lives bc it definitely could be worse!
You are great with him. He really wants to be productive. We had a similar situation and a dr told us to give them a "job". Something simple like fold some kitchen towels or match up socks. It helped and made him feel like he was contributing to the house. Seemed to help mentally as well.
What a sweet man and you are a wonderful son. I'm almost 70 and bought a home with my youngest son. I have arthritis that makes it hard for me to do some things some times. But my son makes sure I have everything I need and everything I want. I'm very Blessed like your Pop.
"40 minutes to go around the block?" Awe pops! Love you ❤
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Grandpa said it takes 40 minutes to go around the block. Love this man
Grandpa despite his dementia, LOVES his family, I am grateful he still knows you, Danielle, Josh, Mark and all his Loved ones, even his poor brother who no longer is here, he still Loves and Remember, Thank You for all you Dan😊😊😊
He has a big ❤
"He's the youngest of this boat" ❤
"I hope you're right"... 😂 "You got a point there"...😂 Got to Love Him💕
I am a personal support worker in Canada. I absolutely love your videos with ur dad. The dementia kicks in and it seems they all need something to do.
A good parent is always a good parent no matter his or her condition. Telling Dan that he appreciates him and that he is a good son. What a wonderful dad. God bless him and bless Dan too.
I love how he can seem to forget a lot of stuff but always know what year he was born.
1932 ❤
That's cute..he thought Josh worked at a kennel ❤
I have never realised that dementia can do that to people. You're a beautiful family.
It’s a truly horrible disease
You lose your loved one a little bit every day.
Dan, your patience is amazing. Grandpa you remind me of my dad. Everyone loved him, just like you are loved
Absolutely❤
Boredom is killer for us all. In different ways…
Hearts go out to the whole family..❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
"Well, you got a point there..." Ed is so wholesome ❤
It's a good thing you keep a close eye on Dad, otherwise he would be outside splitting wood and re-roofing the house. He feels compelled to contribute to the family effort. What a great Pop.
Yes I agree. That made me laugh. Thanks so much love to hear your days .
The father and son conversation is amazing. Dan your patience to your dad is amazing.
Sounds a little like GTA(global transient amnesia) the way he forgets after 10 seconds or so.
We love grandpa. Thank you for continuing to share him and your family’s journey with us. I have gotten so much out of them over the past year.
You're so patient, kind and positively doing a wonderful thing taking care of Pop. He's a great dad and dignified in his position. He knows that he's got memory problems, but trusts you so much. I wonder what he would have said if you asked him what he wanted to do instead of hang out. ? Does he ever say what he wants to do? I would like to see you ask him..... Thank you for sharing. You're both inspirations.
Thanks so much
I think Grandpa's memory thinks that all his kids are still young and I think that's why he ask all those questions. This disease is so sad.😢
Yup
He's great! He knows "not 40 minutes to go around the block"! He's got it! 😄
Memory loss doesn’t mean the old BS meter doesn’t work😂
I think, something in his head, tells him that Josh’s birthday is coming soon! Dr. Ed is an adorable person, always thinking about his family! 😊
40 min away & just down the street. He got you on that one Dan! Lol!
" I still get a good appetite " Ed is hilarious. He's old but his appetite is still young.😂
Oh man, Dan, you're awesome! I don't understand how you do it but I praise you and your wife for being so patient with your dad ❤
No doubt . . You'd put your dad in a nursing home . . . Because you wouldn't feel any loyalty to your dad and probably would also do the same with your mother . . . Hopefully they never need your help . . . You probably be to busy to even go to there funeral . . . That's pretty sad .
My comment wasn't to put Dan down but to praise him for his patience with his dad. Come on, why be so rude!!!
ALWAYS ASKING ABOUT HIS CAR AND MONEY ....🤣🤣🤣
I love watching you and your Dad. My father passed almost 15 years ago when I was 26. As hard as it must be to deal with this disease, you're a lucky man to have your Dad still. It's a blessing and I love that you don't take for granted the time you two have together. Many don't realize until it's too late. God bless you and yours.
I’m sorry for your loss I hope you’re doing good
Dad is always looking for something to do, while many of us don't wanna do anything ! Daddy's got a lot of ambition 😊😊😊
I’m so sorry for your loss
Oh so Grandpa had Josh at 50 That man had so much energy at 50 no wonder at 91 he is so much full of life.
Exactly what I was thinking. Lol
He seems to consistently remember two things: The year he was born and Danielle's name!
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Yea, and that’s bcos the two issues are in the right memory part of the brain.
Early in his life - 3-10yr
Danielle is in the recent memory part. She is new
Ed married Danielle's mother who died from cancer.
Dementia is a terrible thing but I love how your Father is always thinking about responsible things. Work , Kids, Family, dogs, just general caring about things that matter. Even keys checkbook wallet ect. I 've seen many with dementia that are angry and mean to their care givers. God bless your Father and your Family for caring for him and not dumping him some home.
So True❤❤❤
40 minutes?! To go around the block? 😂😂😂
He still holds his sense of humor during the confusing times. It shows his sense of strength as well & maybe just maybe thats how hes been able to be going on 92yrs old. 😊
I understand Dan … I cared for my mom .. it can be exhausting but we do it bc they took care of us ..
Your a good son .. and family
Same💕
God Bless🙏
He never ever forgets the year he was born . Interesting !!!!!! That really stands out in his mind
Pretty much everybody remembers there birthday . . . There are people that can't remember there phone number . . But they can remember there birthday . . . So it's not so unusual for him to remember his birthday .
It’s like Groundhog Day every day. Dan is the best son and so patient.
Dan I love when you call him “POP” ❣️❣️❣️
I have almost the exact same conversations with my 92-year-old mom!! She lives with my brother and SIL but it’s the same conversations everyday!! ❤❤
Oh, Dan bless you! You and Danielle are my heroes. Your dad is such a sweet man, always worried about his family. Always so surprised that he is 91 years old. Born in 1932, he will remind you, but due to the deep trust he has in all of you, he accepts what you say, scratching his head. I wish you all the happiest New Year Year. And thanks for sharing your precious dad.
❤️❤️. Happy New Year.
@@dsalnorcal1434 Thank you!
Ed’s blue eyes looked so beautiful in this video. They reminded me of my daddy’s eyes. He also had dementia/Alzheimer’s. You all take such good care of him. Unlike my dad, Ed seems to know that something isn’t right with him and his memory. As difficult as it is that I no longer have my dad, I really respect what you all do with Ed and for him. Caring for my dad was so hard but I’d give anything to still be able to do it. God bless all of you!❤
"You got a point there!".... this was so precious hahaha love you all so much! ❤❤❤
Grandpa makes me laugh 😆 bless his heart. His innocence is everything.
“He’s really not your brother he could be” 🤣 bless him Lord. ♥️
Your Dad is an absolute gentleman. Especially, when you consider how confused he is sometimes. I salute you and your lovely wife for how you handle the situation - with grace, good humour and respect. God bless your patience. You're doing a great job.
Aww, I love pops. Thanks for sharing him with us Dan, I love his laugh; it's infectious. When he laughs, I am laughing.😄😄
Dad seems the most confused just before dinner. Aw you rock Dan
Everyone Loves Grandpa!! He is Absolutely a joy. I know it's not easy but may God continue giving you good health and strength to continue caring for your dad.
Such a loving and caring father and grandpa. The world needs more Luke him. ❤❤
You are wonderful with your dad! As a special education teacher who teaches students with cognitive delays, I would suggest visuals for him. You could make a family tree book or chart with family members’ pictures names and relations and include some information about them. He might enjoy just looking at it and it will help him remember everyone. I love watching your videos. You are an example of how to care for people with dementia. ❤
OMG I love this idea so much!!!
Super idea 🙌
Something that I found helpful with my Grandmother was giving her "work" to do. Simple things like folding towels, counting items, putting things in a box or taking them out. Just simple things to make her feel like she had work to do. In those moments where she was bored, it really helped.
Danielle often has Ed count coins or match socks - which works when and only when he feels like doing those things.
So true
I can tell he was very active in his younger days, cause he’s always wondering what he’s going to do. I absolutely adore him ❤️
What a comfort you are to your Dad. Instead of seeing strangers all the time ❤❤❤
His love and concern has surely been in his big heart for all his daddy years. Even when the mind has become fuzzy, his spirit is steadfast and sure.
He always cares for his family ❤
Oh it broke my heart and brought me tears....❤ when he said " you are a good son"
Don’t ya love grandpa’s blue eyes, the long eyelashes, and I even love the beard growth. Grandpa Ed is beautiful inside and out! ❤
I love how you patiently walk him through his confusion. You clearly have a lot of empathy. Poor fella. I love him. ❤
Grandpa Ed always puts family first. Dan, you always makes sure Grandpa has an understanding of the topic. ❤❤
The way you work with your pop is truly amazing. I love watching you and him interact. You have got such patience and love 🥰🤗👍👍👍👍
Dan, you and your dad are both so delightful and endearing, i look for your video everyday!
Thank you Dan for sharing your life I am sure you are helping a lot of people who have family members with your father's condition, you are so patient and kind. love from the UK x
Thank you so much
Such a lovely and loving discussion. Dr Ed was quite funny wirh his, " 40 minutes just to go around the block?!" Bless you all. ❤
Dan you are soooo reassuring towards your Dad. You have a good emotional bond
Me too Grandpa Ed..."I don't know what's going on" either....😂😂😂
Dr. Ed and Dan are loving and hysterical together.
Dan has incredible patience, a great example how to treat a parent who has taken on mental problems
I like how appreciative he’s & always asking abt his kids & family. Even tho his memory messin w him, he still tries his best to try and help out
My dad was put on hospice a week ago Friday in my home and my heart is so broken 💔 I am so happy to see Dan not taking this time with Dr. Ed for granted and taking such good care of him.
Grandpa loves the mailbox bless his heart ❤
Bless him! He has been a busy, hardworking man, concerned about his family and always spent his time wisely. Now he is healthy and energetic and has nothing to do and no one to worry about. I feel his pain. My kids are gone hundreds of miles away and I am alone with nothing to do that makes me needed. 😥
Volunteer! Seek out people who need help. Deliver meals on wheels. Volunteer to call shut-in to chat with them daily. So many things you could do.
@@bythebayou5351
Great ideas!! There's always something to do if you look...
Greetings from Panama 🇵🇦 you guys are my # 1 favorite family. Dan Blessings to you for your care and love. We love Grandpa Ed , always worry about his children ❤❤
The eyes tell it all. Your very patient Dan. Because that happens all day to you and Danielle and the kids. My mom is the same way.❤
Grandpa Ed you're the best sir and Dan thank you for everything you and the family do for your dad
He so badly wants to do something to provide value. His instinct is to worry about his kids. Today is Josh’s day. God love him. 💙
This whole exchange was sweet and funny AF.
Grandpa loves the whole family. Happy birthday josh in few days
Grandpa loves his family no matter what! He also very polite. Everyone loves Grandpa thanks for your patience Dan and Danielle.
Grandpa was an active man of service in his day to his family and now feels like he should be doing something. Amazing human. Thanks Dan for your deep love and patience. You're definitely a chip off the old block. Blessings and love❤🙏
You are a good son and he must have been a good loving dad!!!
I absolutely love this sweet man! Dan, you are the best son!
Dealing with dementia takes a lot of patience, i just started to care for my mother, you inspire me. I don't think I could do it without you and Pop.❤
Your Dad is so sweet and you are such a compassionate, caring son!
That was a really good video, I appreciate you taking the time to do this and share your journey with us all . Xx
Awe. You can see the worry, fear and frustration but he handles it well. It's getting to be seconds apart now. Awe Grandpa! Such patience from You and Danielle as always
I appreciate that alot.. You are a good son... Magical words... So many people in the world could give everything to hear those words from their dad
Your dad is so endearing and he cares so much about all of you. Such a blessing!
Thank you for your patience Dan!!!.Please dont change and continue to be understanding with your dads condition. Sending Love ❤❤❤
Grandpa ed always concern about family members god bless you all lots of love from India
He’s a brilliant person. Ed eventually connects the dots. Such a dear man. You share a very special bond. A real cohesive bunch!
Dan, you have a heart of gold, you care for your pop with such patience. Making him happy is your main goal for the day. God bless you
In his 90 s and bored..how healthy is that…awesome god bless❤️
Oh grandpa!!!Thank you so much Dan for loving your dad we love him too❤
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You and family are being people, love seeing these videos
Dan, thank you for answering his questions repeatedly with patience. Bless you! ❤