How to make a narcissist feel bad: The very best revenge against a narcissist
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How to make a narcissist feel bad: The very best revenge against a narcissist
How can you make a narcissist feel bad?
So you've been hurt by a narcissist and you're thinking you wanna get a little payback, right?
In this video, I'll help you recognize that what a narcissist fears most is being ordinary, unimportant and totally forgotten.
We will discuss narcissistic rage and narcissistic injury, as well as how to deal with making a narc feel the worst way you can.
So as I'll explain, the best way to get revenge against a narcissist is to find your bliss and fill the rest of your life with happiness and love.
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The best revenge is knowing they will always have a miserable existence.
Monica Laux I've known narc most my life just didn't know it had a name to the behavior. But as you would like to "make a narc feel bad" Bc of all the things they do to you...being happy that their lives are miserable isn't something to brag about or even want! We are all human! They have a very ugly mental disorder its not like they asked for it or thought when they were younger "humm when I grow up, I want to be a narcissist" if you can't love a narcissist then move along..you don't have to entertain them and/or put them down. I understand how painful and how disruptive they can be but they are human and deserve respect after all this is a mental disorder not something they wanted. And there is someone out there for everyone not everyone will be hurt by a narcissist. And I would never try to be with a narcissist if they weren't actively getting help. I mean that would be common sense, so you're basically just asking for your world to be destroyed by being with someone mentally unhealthy, knowingl, knowing they aren't "at least" receiving help. people can have a mental disorder diagnosis and be healthy as long as they're getting the proper help.
No, not good enough.
Amanda Peterson there bullies
Caroline m exactly...they kno what they are doing... Mine did everything he knw hurt me etc on purpose so yea its a disorder but they arent innocent either
Monica Laux ,I agree
Best way to get back at them is to do well, live a good life, and be happy. It will kill them inside because you've done it with out them.
really?
@@emmaalvarez1794 Absolutely! Block them from your life - work on yourself. Come back in a couple years to see them... only to know they are STILL miserable in their lives (narcissistic people hate changes)
Dean Anderson I'm at the stage where I'm not interested at all in what my ex is doing, or with whom, but I do feel for his targets. And I've learnt that many narcissistic people don't even think about what their exes are doing (it was always about them anyway), because they're after the next new shiny object. I'm very aware that some don't like to give up the power and control easily though. 🙁
They never go away though you can’t get rid of them they manipulate you if you have children or they were in your family long enough you were inner a huge spider web of a hot mess the only escape his death
I don't want revenge... I just want away!
Maria Vlahon-Allen sometimes it's the only way out.
What I have learned is to get away, stay away. Avoid at all cost. No contact. THEN, Get a new life, have fun. Be happy. Forget them
I agree
Expose them. Ethiopia Elias is a narcissist leo.
Mee too
I dont feel like hurting someone whos already in 24/7 pain. Just go no contact and heal yourself. Don't waste time on the narcissist.
Agreed... it takes a long time to unravel all the tentacles, to recognize and admit for a narc to hurt us we let them in, and stayed there... and to see why we have to be the one to gain freedom... they are going to do what they do to whoever allows it! Instead of worrying about revenge and hate etc... I have enough on my plate healing, staying no contact, being present with the good loving people in my life, building my happy life back up, (I was super happy before getting re-involved with him, so I know I can and will get there again)
Working on a better life with people who are better for me ... is a great use of time, energy and dreams.
I stay on these CZcams vids to resist and hover, and have crickets my only response to anything...
not out of anger No Contact, out of necessity sanity and ... really what's the point of staying engaged at any level... never mind for some sort of revenge? I am actually sorry he is that way, and feel it is enough of a burden... karma... without me piling on.... plus I just need non-disordered people in my life... not Cluster bs.
Don't worry about them , They are invincible . they are not normal people
That's beautiful Barbara! A good tree produces good fruit. In you there is no guile.
doesn't seem like it's enough pain for me at all!
@@robinsmith560 very well said, exactly how I feel about my situation.
They are extremely secure in their defences & manipulative behaviours,. They aren't insecure in the way a normal person is insecure, they are 'victims" they are psychopaths who need external validation.
..If they had the intelligence to pursue practical and creative hobbies, they could make better use of their time, and 'validate' themselves that way..like most normal people do. They could then stop being the, often lazy, abusive 'pains in the bums' that they are. There should be narcissists' correction centres!
Wrong? They can never be wrong. They have no empathy.
I met a narcissist once. This guy didn't like that I disagreed with him so he went out of his way to get under my skin. No matter what I said or how calmly I said it he wouldn't stop. So I smacked the shit out of him. He stopped.
Yea,right!
lol!!!!
Nomad -81-
Oh I think about that often...unfortunately I would never do it.
hahahahahaahaha
How any individual (including narcissists) treats others is a direct reflection of how they *feel inside.* Unlike ourselves, narcissists *cannot* control their inner world; but with us we are keenly aware of the fact that _"the kingdom of heaven is within!"_ We *celebrate* the success and happiness of others, whereas narcissists *DESPISE* happy, fully-functioning people. Remember, you can only make yourself as happy as the thoughts you *CHOOSE* to have inside your head; therefore, choose *HAPPINESS!*
I love this! Wow!
God bless you
Right on!
I know, very well, about narcissists. The man I love, is a true narcissist. I have drawn the line, and am looking at moving out of state, as soon as he isn't around...no contact. The emotional abuse, and betrayal is over. I will not put up with it any longer. I value myself, too much to settle for his jealousy, anger, betrayal, disloyalty, stalking, and control.
Diane Morgan
How are you doing now? I hope you managed to take your life back.
Run as fast as you can protect your peace
Expose him. He needs help. Get him therapy.
Way to go Diane! We all deserve so much better than to put up with abuse from these miserable slimebags
I noticed what really gets them is to be ignored, and not responding with any emotion when they are trying to antagonize you. My solution to my ex narc is to have no contact at all. Let them go on and harm others, then burn in hell for eternity!
He called 911 on me. But they took him. Good attention on him lol
Peony Prashanti took him to the mental hospital??
Classic.
What an idiot! I got threatened with that, nothing happened though, to stoop so low, really sad!
@@luvingmerevivedandblessed8520 Mine did file a false report on me. No one went to jail but i did have to leave until morning. The scariest, sickest people you will ever encounter. True Evil!!
She called 911 on me too
Angie THANK YOU so much for your videos. They gave me the confidence to finally leave the dangerous drug addicted loser narc I was with for 8 years. I finally got the last of my stuff out of the house today and he already had another woman moved into the bedroom. I'm just glad I'm free.
moonbeam that was his last attempt to"make you jealous" ( what some narcs don't understand is that is a complete and utter turn off like how could we go back to that after there's another woman laying in our bed... the nerve of some people!! It was more like a two-in-one, hit or miss type thing if you didn't get jealous, he always had his back up, the girl! The things they do amazes me sometimes! Glad you got out of that hun!!!
The rages are the worst!
Yes and no,
I think the mind bending, altering is worse. The deliberate deception and mind fuckery. The betrayls, the half truths, omissions and lies
Forget the Narcissist........best advice love you thanks for being here
I'm finding the best revenge on an emotionally abusive narcissist is to expose their evil to the people around you and then completely block them from your life. It may sound cruel, but it doesn't hold a candle to the damage my narcissist did to me. It was the only way I could escape.
MayOrMoo Me too
It's cruel to yourself not to block them.
MayOrMoo sounds good to
Me.
Doing as you said is kindness not cruelty
@Beeblebrox One True. narcissist can turn the table on you and will make you look evil and they are the innocent
I've been saying for years now."I have to get away from him.hes killing me"
Now I know why and how hes doing it.
Every single thing you said, I have lived. i have only recently taken back my home and my life. My family is amazed at the difference in me... all to the better. I never even realized they were so worried that I was so beaten down and unhappy. Thank you. You always make me feel better.
Kati OBrien you will just go on and on you'll be fine now. Freedom how easily we give it up. Good for you. You take back your life
I knew on the first date when he said he was best friends with all his former girlfriends and ex-wives that we were doomed. And I walked away, but wondering if I was doing the wrong thing. I talk to my sisters and they said it doesn't matter what he is if he creeps you out like that get away. I'm so glad I listened and 4 years later he called and asked if we could go to lunch. I didn't reply. Thanks for the info it was not too late because it just reinforces what I already thought
If you're still thinking about one date years later, he really got into your head.
I had a similar experience. My crush came over to my house after hanging out, and told me there will always be an open door for his ex girlfriends to come back into his life . I didnt understand why he said that but later I learned what kind of person he is. It's strange how Narcissists are so similar.
My ex narc wanted to be friends. Well after all the shite she put me through i said no thank you.
"_Narcissists are predators who feed off of your kindness - and your emotional energy"_ *Y🤓U* are the business!!! Thank you!!! 💖
These are excellent observations. The only issue for all of us is that we are attracted to their looks on a visceral level and that is how they get their hooks in you.
Luckily... the world is full of attractive people who aren't a black hole of narc supply grabbing beasts! LOL
Go to specsavers... They will help you....
I had another approach, I got my life nicely together, visibly enjoyed life to the fullest, refused to be embittered, remained friendly (but aloof), raised a wee bit of hope and f'ed up her next marriage in two months flat. She got married in August and divorced in November of the same year. Thereafter I broke contact.
Easier said than done, when you had a kid with one of these reptiles.
RS S I feel you!! I’m on the same page
The best thing to do is to protect your children from their toxic ways, they have a (mainly boys) genetic predisposition for becoming a narc.
Omg!!!! Its a LIFE SENTENCE. Would've preferred to have gotten knocked up by a stranger than have to co-parent with my narc ex.
Same here!
My narcissistic husband wasted thirty years of my life but the worst part is that one out of two of our children (our daughter) is even more narcissistic than he is. The two of them together formed a team against me early on which did not allow me to be the disciplinarian that was so very needed. This division they created obviously split our family apart and left me with no family to speak of in the end. I gave up everything for my family because a good, loving family is all I ever really wanted in life. My biggest wish now is to be young again and to have a 'do over'. I would have NEVER given this man a second look back then if I knew how sad and lonely he would make my life. I wish I knew what to look for back then because his narcissistic personality traits were very evident right from the start. I also did not understand that this personality trait can be genetic and that I would eventually be 'implanted' with another narcissistic monster that came out of my own body!! Oh....you haven't had the full narcissistic experience unless you have been ganged up by two of them!! Shoot me.
I did what revenge,at the time. But,the best way I get back at him was to smile 😃. As well as be happy with my life. I was no longer sad and broken.
Its hard to get away when your poor in debt and have children
I feel you Aaron. Hope it gets better for you.
Run and save your children, There is help for single mothers. You need to make your children come first. If you can live with this person believe me you will be happier living alone with your children and have peace, peace, and happiness again. Start calling agency's to find help. Don't worry about your debt you won't go to Jail. Good luck!
My problem.
Poor in debt and can't hire a lawyer.
Krisluvsutube run like Michele
100% correct! The ONLY way to is to ignore and forget them!!!
Except take the narc 101 lessons they taught you and never let another narc predator in... as friend , love, biz partner etc. Side step these cluster B crazies. I am grateful my lessons were fast and brief... and for family and friends that saw me through the worst of it and then some. I am so glad that my eyes were opened that people like this... soulless, empathy devoid, one track supply minded, have their Love bombing - degrading- ghosting-discard templates out and ready to apply to any warmblooded creature... am, woman child or beast... that they encounter. I was too impatient and too much in his face... so my torture in the narc dance was short... discard came fast for easier prey! Take the lessons, and side step these demented people in the future! I know I have avoided a few since him... I see the behavior and I say... oh narc? Not thank you...(Also the other disordered ones... Bipolar, psychopaths, etc that really mean NON_CARING. They give fk all care about anyone or anything other than SUPPLY ... Little did I know in the fog of coDependent, that the discard was the BEST thing he could do for me.
I love this one. Funny and different and STRONG. I'm still laughing.
Needed to hear this today. Thank you Angie!
Narcissists are already in a LOT of pain, even though they pretend to be happy. Why would anyone want to cause a person who is already living in hell even more pain? Just move on and try to heal.....that's what I did.
Get real. They are pure evilness...
I hope I'm still watching 'how to get revenge on a narcasisst' after I've moved on to. LOL
Thaaaaank you Angie! You are like a life coach for those of us who've suffered in this way. The info is great n I love how positively you put put the message. I feel validated. Thank you again, you're a very special person n you help so many. Many blessings ⭐
Totally monica. They feel bad already that's why they act up. Love your advice angie.
I said "Goobye .........". And left. Best two words I ever said.
I am in denial that I am wih a Narc. At first , I was the best thing that ever happened to him. As I point out things Im unhappy with I get told I should not feel that way and get called names. The latest is.."You knew what I was like and you chose to be with me..now deal with it". He has an excuse for everything. I feel tired and stressed. When its good its fabulous. When its bad its heartbreaking.
Honestly, just get OUT!!
They deny deny deny, any thing is wrong with them. Therefore, they will never change.
Does it matter if this person is diagnosed as a NARC??? Shitty personality, that will never change. It's gets worse as you both age.
That exuse " you know what I was when you got with me" is narc code for " I'm a POS, why didn't you see the red flags "? For once he's telling you his truth in this statement...believe it!
If you want abused and be unhappy for the rest of your life, by all means stay. NOBODY deserves this treatment, life is too short.
Patricia Mercado your words gave me chills. I'm still in denial event though I've gone no contact. He used to tell me the same thing. I knew how he was so pretty much it was my choice and my fault. wow! Good luck, Patricia listen to your gut please.
Patricia Mercado sounds like a tyrrant. ask Christ what to do.
hmm, i wouldnt say im a narc but I have told my boyfriend before that I was the way I am before we met. Why did he get with me if he doesnt like me this way? I am not here to become who you want me to be... And if you dont like me that isnt my problem. The problem is with him if he got with me hoping he could change me into something or someone else. It doesnt make me a narcissist just because I am confident in who I am and do not want to change who I am to fit someone elses desires... It is really up to you. If you dont like someone you leave. dont try to change them. its up to them to change. not anyone else. and just because they dont want to change doesnt mean theres anything wrong with them. stop blaming other people, take your life into your own hands, realise other people are not there to fit your desires or needs and find people who do and become who you want them to be. I really hope all these people out there who are quick to point the finger to say hes a narc or whatever really do live up to everything they are critisising about the other person...
look how stupid this is: Your friend likes oranges. You hate oranges. Your friends likes oranges so much she eats them everyday. You hate about everything about it so much so you want to vomit and it makes you feel like crap. so whos wrong? Is it her fault she likes oranges and that you dont like them and that they make you sick? Well you could say it is because she can change right? She could change and stop eating oranges and stop loving them so you can be comfortable right? Wrong. Its not up to you to decide how someone needs to be. If you dont like someone you dont need to be with them. No need to call them narcs or bad people or whatever. Why do you think youre so superior to them and that they need to change for you? Who is really the narcissist here?
As an empath I always end up attracting narcissists in my way and especially at work. First thing I detect on them is that I feel stressed around them and cannot act naturally. I think that this is the first thing we have to be looking for when we meet one. They are not real people with emotions, they are just faking it What about you? How do you spot a real toxic person?
I'm now addicted to getting a narcissist to freak out..... I have been surrounded by narcs all my life... this one is on u tube he has the most outrageous smear campaign going on against me....I can't stop playing with him .... I learned how to live in their world... keep saying to myself... don't do it ... might be taking a life's worth of frustration out on this "hopefully " last one .... 😓😓
Ruby Ice well if you know how to live in their world you know how to get them. As much as it doesn't deplete you. There are times I WISH I could get the tactics to do the same thing!!! Desperately !! Just to see how they react to their own behaviour
Ruby by give attention . It's keep it going .
Very sad inhuman individuals. I have no pity for them because they have none for them selves.
Bless you Angie, your like the best friend I never had, your knowledge and advice is precious to all of us who have been narc abused. I wish you were my sister growing up instead of my older narc sis. Keep up the great work! Love to you and yours. X
This was great Angie! Thank you soo much, and right on time for me too. My family surprised me with a visit and tons of food the other day. It was a long overdue reunion. The isolation I'd been put in kept me from seeing them for over a year. Yay! Moving forward! Love and hugs to you Beautiful!!❤
Very Cute Video Angie!!! I'm happy to say I think Ive made the ex Narcissist feel bad!!! Finally!! I finally found someone I want to be with & have NO desire to be with him anymore! And he knows that as of yesterday!!
I can definitely identify with the narcissist being figured out. My fiancé's ex wife is a narcissist and she just knew I knew exactly who she was when we met and she can't stand it to this day. I was married to a narcissist so I know the signs but I actually didn't know at the time that they we're narcissists, I just knew that they were exactly alike.
Great post Angie! Your helping a lot of people with these videos. Good work.
I've always suspected something to be wrong with my mother, and I'm now finding out that narcissism seems to be the only possiblity. She does almost all of these things to me, my brother, and my dad. :( I'm only 16 and I hate dealing with this. It's sad seeing my mom act this way for YEARS. I just want a normal, happy life. :(
Asha Crimson Thank you for the advice, you're completely right. :)❤ I really appreciate it. And sorry you had to go through all of that. :'( no one should ever have to experience these things in life. :(😔😢*sigh
the title should be loving, like the video is. my mother is a black hole narcissist. she feeds off how sorry i feel for her. her arrogance and self love and lies of twisted reality are getting worse with age. there is nothing i can do. i am a behavior analyst that hung in way to long. her bad childhood can only be helped when she stops manipulating situations and realizes she deprived herself being in denial. she could stop creating problems to devide people also. very, very sick. she will remedy a situation, to destroy it to her liking again, and again and again, always blaming you, since she knows you know about her condition, and would prefer that you lie to her to get along. she is also a degenerate gambler. i think she blames God for not being subservient to her also. it all is a defense mechanism. she wants you to hurt, if you dont find everything she does to be grand. you can only help someone if they want to be helped. it realy is nothing short of demons moving in on her. Christ is real folks. thank God for Jesus Christ!!!
I have spent many years working for one. When he goes off on one I simply take the neutral, adult approach and tell him his behaviour is disproportionate to the actual situation. He will then deflate and apologize.That is the closest I will ever get to experiencing a form of empathy from him. I am grateful for his impact in my life because he is a superb teacher. He makes me contemplate myself and guides me in the opposite direction. We are all each others teacher.
Thank you for sharing that as well as your perspective
I love to hear U say " You Feel Me"!!! Thanku so much for the work that U do!!! #ProudEmpath 🌺
I really needed this today. I know it's an older video, I still thank you for it Angie. Peace and love xx
Great video Angie! Simple, animation and to the point!
So RIGHT ON, Angie! Thanks. 😘
Angie thanks so much for your support
Hi Angie! Thank you for this video and all the others you do. I appreciate and put to use your sound advice and admire your cool demeanor. I had to visualize you giving me a look just the other day to stop myself from feeling sorry for the narc in my life. Instead I called him out with a series of questions illustrating how he constantly lies to get his way. Naturally, he got upset that I wasn’t going along with his (convenient) delusions. He started trying to divert attention from himself by asking ME for explanations about why I was “being an asshole”. I told him I didn’t need to explain myself and that HE did a while back but now I’m not interested . Then I dismissively told him to “just” get the f#$k outta my life to which he said “Fine.” At least he got the “Fine” part right! That’s exactly what life is without him and his kind. I’d be twice as insecure even if just half as toxic! Anyway, I thank you dearly once again, Angie!
You're a lovely soul, Angie. I loved your creative production in this video. Thank you for the inspiration.🙋🏽♀️
feeling good begins with revenge! until then you will always hate yourself for letting the narc do what they did. revenge first then live well. living well isnt revenge. the Narc could care less about you and what youre doing with your life, and they wont know what youre doing anyway, living well or not. living well is for YOU, but it's not revenge.
NOMADIC FILMS _ you have to be like narc to revenge narc . Put your best events and wins in the narcs face - don't wait till they see
I say bring them back down to where you picked them up from. Cause as much emotional damage as you can. Cause them some misfortune and leave them when they are in some type of need for you. When they cry blood and beg never look back. Allow them to kill themselves. Give them a taste of their own medecin. Of course they will never realize that's what is going on but who cares.
I am currently dealing with one and I am doing exactly that. He will never win. He thinks he has pulled me down and he's coming up.
Karma is the revenge. Was cruelly discarded and smeared. He ended up ghosting me after a 10 yr relationship. I went immediately no contact. Accidentally saw him months later when I was with out with my hot new boyfriend. He was like a deer in the headlights, then started blubbering like a cry baby. Yes Asshat right back at ya...take that....
agreed, I'm not a narcotics and a very empathetic person but everyone has their limits. I collected evidence and outed his arse, he relocated, closed all his social media and shuns his family because of the shame.
It is because they envy you. They want to see you fail. That's why.
Angie.. I had a narc. He had no empathy. He only interested in himself. He hates being lonely and abandoned.
I Love your calmness. It's inspiring. I feel confident just listening to you being confident. You make it sound possible so I believe it also. Thank you.
Thanks for all your wonderful advice. Sometimes you can forget that you are not alone when it comes to dealing with narcs.
So happy to be free from a couple of people in my life that treated me badly. Free to be myself!
Wow you are so dead on,you always have my undivided attention,this is good stuff,a real confidence builder.
Angelo Nelson The "undivided attention" might be the case and goal darling. I don't know about here yet there are narcs everywhere on the internet who uploads videos gather spiritual communities to feed on the response of others. This is so widespread you woudn't believe. Selflessness ain't a thing around the internet. And they might feed people with false info too. Those are just elementary level infos on narcs and they are not fully true too. An empath never uses robotic voice for starters. Another clue for you. Think on the terms of mass attention and admiration hence energy and ego feeding. :) See?
There are some sophisticated narcs who take the spiritualism concept, empath narc etc concepts at hand and use this formulae for their energy feeding attention feeding needs everywhere on the net. :)
So my advice is to never fully trust such sites places and people. Even this short reply to your comment has way more thought and heart and work put into helping someone than this video. Don't feel admiration for such anonymous and never personal stuff like those. :) You can't know for sure if you are just feeding a fake empath a narc or else.
Have a great life.
Basically be happy and ignore they ass. Period. They miserable and there’s nothing u can do for them. Hint: if u let them mk u miserable with them they win. Stay happy
Narcissists are like little kids. They can never be satisfied.
Fire signs have problems with unhappiness.
Water signs can be unhappy/unstable.
Wow..... hit me like a brick.... hard.......so simple...."arent you ready to be happy now? You're here.....forget the narcissist."
They are already in more pain than any of us could ever imagine........only another narcissist would hurt a person who is already hurting so bad........
I've been dealing with this from my older sister she publicly humiliated me with lies saying I'm a narcissist and I'm jealous of her, she turned my friends against me and expected me to look after her kids when I told her no, she didn't like it so she carried on playing the victim with more lies about me so I can look the bad guy in this scenario, but I realise it's just her reflection of her insecurities bouncing back onto me.
Simple yet deep. Thanks for the insight! I saved to replay again. Helped me.
Great summary and strategy: ignore them.....and be happy!
You want to keep it going allow ever you want. Putting yourself and others in danger
I try to go by the teaching "Vengeance is mine, says the Lord." And try to let God handle my narcs (notice I said, try). I've even pray for them (not always easy).
nato2panama I believe blessings will come back to you for that. That's what we're supposed to do. Because if we can only love the lovable what good are we as Christians
nato2panama what she said about God is true Vengeance is his pray for your soulmate to come into your life and be happy god bless you
But make sure you are nor enabling them. You need to choose life, and do God's will... Pray for them, yes, but that shouldn't mean you erase yourself and live for them.
expose them. 2 Timothy 3.
Great video Angie! Thank you💖
This could be your best one yet Angie! :)))) x
Feel overwhelmed by your film thankyou
Got my life back , don’t want any revenge , won’t drain my energy more on this
THIS VIDEO CLIP ADVICE ON HOW TO OVERPOWER A NARCISSIST IS SO UNREAL.
The narcs never know who the victim knows. It's about that time to teach them a lesson 📆
Angie you are the best one who speaks on narc straight to the point no rambling ❤
Hugs, thank you!
@@AngieAtkinson welcome
@@AngieAtkinson welcome 🤗
I really liked this one. It was informative, creative, genuine and challenging. Great talent! Great teaching style!! 👍🏻👍🏻
I FEEL YOU!!! Happy New Year AND Many blessings throughout your life long...and then some! Thank You, Angie LOVE, from ANGIE F.
Thanks Angie
Don’t worry be happy
Love and light to everyone
Take care
its not more then karma, that the victim of a narcissist will climb out of the emotional abuse pit and gets stronger and a happy life again and the narcissist only looses everything around him, family friends lovers neighbers, the whole circle 1 by 1, and what is left is the excesive abuse alcohol which increases deseases 1 by 1 . Let everybody walk there own life path but never join the path with a narcissist
oh yes so true
Very accurate summary Angie 🙌
Never waste time and effort on a narc. It's just validating their importance to you. Just simply be indifferent.. and leave and no contact. Nothing more satisfying than being free of abuse and being at peace finally. The effect is long term vs short term satisfaction, but abuse will still continue. Whats the point of revenge right?
If we’ve sussed them
Out and gone wow what a lucky escape.
The scars show still the Ecos are there in my minds eye but both will disappear.
Onward and upward ✊☀️😁
You rock ❤️🙏🏽🦋🙏🏽❤️
I took back my life. I am happy joyous and free...
I got the narcisists out and that left so much room for me ❤️ I am living my dreams. I live in a rainforest in a sustainable hut . My neighbors are cows 😊 I started a school for sustainable living and it has taken off big time.
I am doing everything I always wanted to do and have a great group of friends who supported me all the way .
When he walked out my life started .
❤️🙏🏽🦋🙏🏽❤️
Hugs, thank you! And I am so glad to hear you are doing well! Thanks so much for sharing!
Love your videos. Yes, forget the Narc, move on. At least fake it til you make it, and appear busy and happy publicly, until your heart catches up
Hearing this short makes me sad. Rip. You are missed.
While you waste energy trying to get revenge on your ex, you will remain unhappy. When you move on, taking control and living your life as you want, without reference to them, then you will start to be truly happy and their problems will no longer be yours.
Exactly Phil and well said. Revenge is a waste of time. And you are so right, moving on is always the answer.
LOVE THIS!! Thank you!!
when u figure them out they are viscous
TY Angie great video and great advice.
Narcissists are arrogant. They are not insecure about being arrogant.
Tawny C. tell them the world doesn't revolve around you.
Sara Poat thinks the world revolves around her and she thinks she's born smarter than everyone.
Great video!
Great vid, Angie!
Families Supporting Trauma Recovery1 second ago
It is so difficult for victims to articulate the reasons for going no contact with certain family members. I believe it is a basic moral imperative to make that effort. I also think that I have responsibilities towards family members and the last thing I would ever want on my conscience is to be destructive toward the undeserving. To go no contact is a grave choice with consequences to vulnerable human beings that can be of catastrophic proportions. Especially the message it sends to children. When you hear a person come up with superficial or frivolous evidence to completely pathologize others it is a sign of delusion and irresponsibility to the extreme. ive heard on other channels human beings being objectified, their need for others described as "supply" for "machines". I feel responsible to make sure that I work very hard on my own understanding of my character defects and healthy social moral values. I think it is very important to be an ethical human being, and not to harm others, and the last thing I want to be is a hypocrite. Keeping the focus on the ways that I myself can be selfish, self centered, dishonest, afraid, lazy and ignorant and a host of other imperfections is a big job. People can crush us in so many overt and covert ways, and we can have diabolically destructive family members who appear as angels of light. I had no idea what I was dealing with. I made so many mistakes in my recovery. I did not understand my feelings and my human rights. And I definitely fell far short of the mark on my responsibilities. To get to some kind of mental clarity took some doing! And still so imperfect! Daunting!
Thank you so much! im struggling with a new Narcisstic Manager!
Your videos are a clear light to me ! !
I'm so happy to hear that you're finding some help in my work, Kat! Hugs and love to you my friend - so sorry to hear about your manager. Hugs and love to you!
Here's a video I did about this awhile back: czcams.com/video/0dYFTwyiHGg/video.html
Thank you!,
I work in Maintenance at a Nursing home for the City of Toronto (public employee). I got Warning letters and unpaid day Suspension and these letters stay in my record for 2 years.
I have a Union (Local 79) and we will have a dispute resolution meeting with my female manager and the administrator of the home soon. I have 9 years of experience with the city, i transferred from another nursing home, i have 14,000 hours of seniority.
My manager is changing my reality making me and everyone believe i do not know how to do my work. i suspect she is extremely jealous, i could feel her inner RAGE when she is near me.
Human Resources called me saying im a candidate for a full time position due to my seniority, my mistake was trusting my manager and gave her this information.
In my personal life i have encountered Narcissists but it never occurred to me to believe that a Manager of building Services for the City of Toronto - a government public manager could be an envious, childish NARC. This is my position and job that i saw my future self retiring in.
Narc wants you to loose your job .How to win this: By putting Narc on trial - in the corner. Start to drill him, dissect his arguments one -by-one. Pay attention to monologue.
You love your new job project.
Narc says: " Your Boss is gonna hate it"
You know that my boss did not see my product yet. You just have Narc's word on that. And he's fictional character.
Narcs says back:" Your boss will fire you"
You - So what, I still go with that.
Now it is a time to create an accurate picture yourself:
Make a list of everything you have ever accomplished , personal or public. What you overcame in your childhood, academic successes , titles, the assets , including any congratulatory emails, clients recommendations , than you notes, report cards. Also your failures , lessons you've learned . In fact , they might lead to more incredible accomplishments.
You won. Narc lost.
Angie, this was very helpful
That's sad that will never be happy xo yeah I feel you babe
Taking back my life! Thank you!
I love happy and am doing well. I WIN. My life is GOOD. I win
Thanks Angie! I FEEL you!
I needed to hear this....thank you!!!!
I agree with you on the point that a person should be happy n focus on herself
Wow that video is so accurate to my life right now x
Hi Angie wonderful message, I was going to say become a borderline but temporary narcassist yourself because it's the victims secret weapon, while it sounds like dirty play when your just leveling out the playing field with your 100%defined narcassist, I've tried this tactic myself with narcasstic past girlfriends as reverse psychology and it actually worked they caught on and left them speechless without words and awestruck! I know it was a cruel and silent reverse control method, but I didn't want to be controlled myself and they quickly left me without a fight! And I ask you folks, was that a devious plan or what?
+ Paul. Nice take on the situation. Nihilist tops Narc everytime....lol
PAUL BROOKS omg I would Ssooooo want to do this! But how!??
PAUL BROOKS
@@oeu3669 yes, HOW? I don't know the first thing about being self centered, self serving, manipulative etc
I don't want to get even or hurt the narcissist in my life I just want to keep her from attaching herself to the other people in my life, who don't really understand what a narcissist is and using them as her new supply. Even after I have attempted to warn them.
Your talking about fly monkeys . Got cut even these people out . If there take narc side . Only way .