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  • čas přidán 17. 08. 2024
  • Every interaction, whether in dating, love, or friendships, acts as a mirror reflecting your true self. If you're on a journey of personal development, introspection, and mental health, join us as we uncover the layers of our identities and understand how relationships shape who we truly are.
    Whether you're looking to improve your relationship or gain a deeper understanding of yourself, this video offers valuable insights for anyone seeking a path to self-discovery and authentic living.
    #personalgrowth #personaldevelopment
    Writer: Chloe Avenasa
    Editor: Kelly Soong
    Script Manager: Kelly Soong
    Voice Over: Gabriel Miles
    Animator: Naphia
    CZcams Manager: Cindy Cheong
    References:
    The School of Life. (2023 Nov 15). How Love Can Teach Us Who We Are. www.theschooloflife.com/article/how-love-can-teach-us-who-we-are/
    Wilkerson, M. (2023 May 18). How Intimate Relationships Help Us Be Our True Self. Marriage. www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/how-intimate-relationships-help-us-be-our-true-self/
    Chesebro, A. (2022 Aug 1). 13 Things Romantic Relationships Can Teach You About Yourself. Bolde. www.bolde.com/13-things-romantic-relationships-can-teach-you-about-yourself/

Komentáře • 238

  • @niasiamack9333
    @niasiamack9333 Před měsícem +166

    I love the message of this video

  • @casology
    @casology Před měsícem +102

    timestamps !!
    0:23 - the mirror effect
    1:42 - history repeats itself
    2:55 - your true vs. your best self
    remember to drink water

  • @Matvey_Kirpichenko
    @Matvey_Kirpichenko Před měsícem +84

    There's Kel in first seconds.
    This video is canon.

  • @TheDarkPlace-p6t
    @TheDarkPlace-p6t Před měsícem +133

    My relationships revealed my true self as the love child of awkward silences and bad life choices.

  • @pumpkingamebox
    @pumpkingamebox Před měsícem +115

    When you accidentally use personality A with friend group B

    • @shugoriuchiha
      @shugoriuchiha Před měsícem +3

      And that creates another personality C

    • @pumpkingamebox
      @pumpkingamebox Před měsícem +4

      @@shugoriuchiha No, usually everyone just stares at you for acting out of character. Since they only know your B personality.

    • @TheIronPanda12-ct7un
      @TheIronPanda12-ct7un Před měsícem

      ​@@pumpkingameboxthat profile pic, do you watch the show it comes from?
      Also, I have a similar issue when I welcome someone into my close friend, or only friend circle.

    • @pumpkingamebox
      @pumpkingamebox Před měsícem

      @@TheIronPanda12-ct7un You want to talk about Code Geass? Why else would you question me otherwise.

    • @TheIronPanda12-ct7un
      @TheIronPanda12-ct7un Před měsícem

      @@pumpkingamebox You bet 👍

  • @echuzen8282
    @echuzen8282 Před měsícem +294

    babe wake up Psych2Go posted

  • @DaestrumManitz
    @DaestrumManitz Před měsícem +75

    We are not what we think we are, but we are what we think people think we are.

    • @Lolcoca
      @Lolcoca Před měsícem +4

      People think the way they think about myself or anyone else or everything ! That’s their PERCEPTION not MINE . . . And hopefully, that’s what we called diversity . . .
      We lived in society that we put labels on everything and anything and sometimes on nonsense thing so Welcome to the World 😂🤣😂🤣

    • @MichelleMuck555
      @MichelleMuck555 Před měsícem +2

      @@Lolcoca
      It isn’t a reference to other people’s perceptions of us, but to one’s own inner deep subconscious reflections, and although suppressed, penetrate speaking volumes to our conscious mind.

    • @AlvinCwk
      @AlvinCwk Před měsícem +2

      I need 5 min to process this sentence

    • @l00k4tstuff
      @l00k4tstuff Před měsícem

      One's existence is the cumulative perception of those the one encounters.
      Really negates those "you matter" signs people put up when most people treat others like NPCs.

  • @x_kAngelkawaii_x
    @x_kAngelkawaii_x Před měsícem +72

    Omori reference ⁉️⁉️💯💯🔥🔥

  • @Council_member6
    @Council_member6 Před měsícem +27

    They summoned the worst but best fandom again

  • @isaacb5610
    @isaacb5610 Před 29 dny +5

    Anyone else scream for joy when seeing omori references in psych2go?

  • @chromathedragon_
    @chromathedragon_ Před měsícem +82

    OMORI REFERENCEEEE

  • @EthanNSenpaiVN
    @EthanNSenpaiVN Před měsícem +13

    From what I believe, there are no true self, only the self that we believe is what seperate us from others. People faces situations in life with pretty much an endless amount of masks, some people may wear the same type, but some consider it to be their unique trait. Personally, I can be both an introverted, cunning, unpredictable yet still friendly but hard-to-be-close-to person and an extroverted, rebellious, party-hard kind of guy. Though I still believe that my introverted self is what makes me unique and embrace it as my true self, which is also the self that is more "matured". Anyways, a very nice video as always. Much obliged, Psych2Go.

    • @Lolcoca
      @Lolcoca Před měsícem

      I don’t care about labels that we put for everything and for everyone ! Everyone can say whatever they want ! I have mine too 😂🤣😂🤣
      I actually use it just for laugh like you’re introvert 😂😂 or INFJ or the worst is Astrology 😂🤣😂🤣 It’s all BELIEFS (and I understand that’s what people want to connect to be with others even it’s not logical) for me ! My mind is very logical and don’t have a place for those nonsense things but I talked with my family as a subject to be laughed not a reality ! I don’t believe on anything actually because I use logical mind (most of time) . . .
      And there is difference between how someone perceive you and how you perceive yourself . . .

  • @kamilkreis1197
    @kamilkreis1197 Před měsícem +18

    "What do all of your closest friends and loved ones have in common"
    They don't exist

    • @rosegomez6591
      @rosegomez6591 Před měsícem +1

      Good one❤

    • @rosegomez6591
      @rosegomez6591 Před měsícem +1

      This is the most truth coming out of anyone ever. Your smart . God loves u .

    • @FfIbrahim-nk8hq
      @FfIbrahim-nk8hq Před měsícem

      Ah. Here’s the comment I was looking for!

  • @dogerman202
    @dogerman202 Před měsícem +7

    Being told that "i care too much" made me question if im healthy to those around me and even myself. Now its even harder to open up to someone i love or care about and i truly think im better off not loving people for a while xd I cant approach people anymore, the thought of being to much to people is draining me in ways i didnt think it was possible.
    I know it takes time to heal but i wish i'd never heard those words. Im a different, colder person now, afraid of talking and expressing myself, just like i am in my core family.
    god loving people is hard and it shouldnt.
    (cant say this words to friends, family or professionals, dropping this on the internet so that at least im feeling heard somewhere).

    • @rosegomez6591
      @rosegomez6591 Před měsícem +1

      I get you. Everything these days is backwards hunny. Give your respect and love to those who respect love you. Do not stop being yourself because this world has become mean no heart and dilluisional. Do not drop your values, love , respect for others because the media has influenced this world in to believing good is bad and and is good. Keep your kindness morals values be good. God will reward you with his kingdom. Love protection.

    • @ayanabeads1614
      @ayanabeads1614 Před měsícem

      When someone says you’re “too much”, it means they don’t want to match your energy.

  • @post-humangod2575
    @post-humangod2575 Před měsícem +13

    Carl Jung describes it as "The Shadow". I urge everyone to explore this topic.

  • @Soapy.musician
    @Soapy.musician Před měsícem +19

    yesterday i started my first relationship and made me realize how affectionatei actually am

    • @rosegomez6591
      @rosegomez6591 Před měsícem +2

      I'm happy for you. It's a double good plus when a partner gives you space to be loving

    • @Soapy.musician
      @Soapy.musician Před měsícem

      @@rosegomez6591 thanks

    • @shreyak9962
      @shreyak9962 Před měsícem

      Were your mom and dad very affectionate with you?

    • @Soapy.musician
      @Soapy.musician Před měsícem

      @@shreyak9962 yes they were and are but i am kinda cold

    • @shreyak9962
      @shreyak9962 Před měsícem

      @@Soapy.musician that’s impossible. Is one of them cold?

  • @Definitelynotabot4
    @Definitelynotabot4 Před měsícem +3

    Makima and Denji SPOTTEDD

  • @MissFirenze1
    @MissFirenze1 Před měsícem +2

    1:42 - this part when talking about emotionally distant partners definitely hits home, my own father wasn't very affectionate if anything had more abusive tendencies and the men I've dated in the past showed certain behaviours like emotionally distancing themselves or withdrawing without saying anything. My ex- tried to encourage me to seek out 'someone else' because he wasn't sure about the relationship, it also caused unnecessary tension between myself and my mum whom I'm pretty close with.

  • @star-by7yv
    @star-by7yv Před měsícem +4

    A bit random but I'd really appreciate another video about Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. There's so much stigma surround ocd, and it's a really misunderstood disorder, so I'd be super cool if there were more videos about it covering the symptoms and compulsions and signs.

  • @ancientlaserrifle1496
    @ancientlaserrifle1496 Před měsícem +1

    my relationships tought me, that i am not enough - no matter how hard i try. They always left me for someone else. and than they told me the usual 'ut's not you it's me' and 'you are just too good of a person - you deserve better than me'. yet here i am. still single. gave up on love and dating.

  • @LotusSiga-hj8vi
    @LotusSiga-hj8vi Před měsícem +5

    Every video of this channel gives me reason to live 💓

  • @Zackery275
    @Zackery275 Před 26 dny +3

    How many omori references can we put in this video.
    YES

  • @Jhi65667
    @Jhi65667 Před měsícem +20

    Where’s our favorite narrator Amanda Silvera 😔😔

    • @rosegomez6591
      @rosegomez6591 Před měsícem +5

      Her voice so calming but we need to evolve trust another narrator.

  • @Robert-ug5fp
    @Robert-ug5fp Před měsícem +2

    Kel is in the video LETS GOOOOOO

  • @talithahope4779
    @talithahope4779 Před měsícem +2

    I see your channel making Omori references and im so happy 🥰

  • @Mae_099
    @Mae_099 Před měsícem +3

    Thank you for all the videos you post, I've gotten amazing advice! ❤

  • @NesarAhmadYawari
    @NesarAhmadYawari Před měsícem +1

    Love showed my true self.
    Love taught me how to love myself and others.
    Love changed me more than anything.
    All thanks to my ex-partner. We ended our relationship a while ago but I still hold a great respect for him for everything he did for me.

  • @Alastoraltruice
    @Alastoraltruice Před měsícem +5

    never been in one but judging myself at 17yr i think i am a person with deep feelings with the fear of being vulnerable with the trait of compromising myself so that my partner can have whatever he needs. wait that sounds bad

  • @ahmadisterriblyharam
    @ahmadisterriblyharam Před měsícem +3

    This helped a lot. Also, the animator did great! (Also the Omori refrences..)

  • @Fandomerr
    @Fandomerr Před měsícem +5

    Early again, thanks for posting 🙃

  • @user-ur1tv7bk1f
    @user-ur1tv7bk1f Před 28 dny +2

    The omori references !! I love it 😍❤!

  • @marfand1181
    @marfand1181 Před 29 dny

    My relationship taught me how to love myself more , i started to go beyond my comfort zone.

  • @StxrryNight_864
    @StxrryNight_864 Před měsícem +5

    Omg Its an ✨Omori reference✨

  • @reMote_prototype
    @reMote_prototype Před měsícem +3

    Even though I do not have a relationship now, this video is still useful for future 😉

  • @Wallaceshusbandreal
    @Wallaceshusbandreal Před měsícem +13

    Omori ref WOOOO

  • @kenny5the
    @kenny5the Před měsícem +2

    THE OMORI REFERENCES I CANT-

  • @clareoreilly7187
    @clareoreilly7187 Před měsícem +2

    Great advice.
    Thankyou so much.

  • @yuugihasgalaxy
    @yuugihasgalaxy Před měsícem

    ❤thank you for this...
    It gave a lot to think of and realise how much should pay attention to ourselves and feelings of those we love it really helps to talk it out

  • @glefyr
    @glefyr Před měsícem +9

    omori mentioned

    • @Limeshade
      @Limeshade Před měsícem +1

      Omori = instantly liked video

  • @BoinkySponge196
    @BoinkySponge196 Před měsícem +1

    WHOEVER IS MAKING THE PSYCH2GO THUMBNAILS AND THE ART ILY

  • @LordBrittish
    @LordBrittish Před měsícem +1

    “Wub! Twoo wub! Is what bwings us here today!”

  • @woahsummiiii
    @woahsummiiii Před měsícem +3

    OMORI REFERENCEEE AAA

  • @SAHILBtsarmy814
    @SAHILBtsarmy814 Před měsícem +6

    OMFG I'm hereee❤

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před měsícem +1

      THANKS FOR BEING HERE EARLY!

    • @SAHILBtsarmy814
      @SAHILBtsarmy814 Před měsícem

      @@Psych2go Imagine getting a reply from ur Fav Channel 👀💜

  • @unicycle1017
    @unicycle1017 Před měsícem

    “There is a crack in everything, that’s how the light gets in.”
    - Leonard Cohen
    “The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.”
    - Elisabeth Kübler-Ross
    “If you could only sense how important you are to the lives of those you meet; how important you can be to the people you may never even dream of. There is something of yourself that you leave at every meeting with another person.”
    - Fred Rogers

  • @bali9523
    @bali9523 Před měsícem +2

    Bro made a OMORİ reference and thought we wouldn’t notice

  • @ChaklekFamily-xl4mm
    @ChaklekFamily-xl4mm Před měsícem +4

    here an heart for everyone :D ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @user-gj7sr7xx9o
    @user-gj7sr7xx9o Před měsícem +1

    Watching this while having no relationships

  • @TsUkasa-sUM
    @TsUkasa-sUM Před 24 dny +1

    Kel and sunny !!

  • @dandelionblyat
    @dandelionblyat Před měsícem

    I am deeply insecure in friendships and I often fear they’ll end
    I’m insecure in general
    I need to learn to respect other people, as I think they judge me, I judge them as well

  • @zi4558
    @zi4558 Před 19 dny

    OMORI MENTIONED 🗣🗣🔥🔥‼️‼️

  • @TheNonameHousehold
    @TheNonameHousehold Před měsícem +1

    I'm definitely masking with my family.

  • @Louise_funAndAll
    @Louise_funAndAll Před měsícem +2

    OMG I LOVE THE OMORI RELATED STUFF(off topic, sorry-)

  • @shiftybat7318
    @shiftybat7318 Před měsícem

    I always called it Social Chameleoning and Emotional Vampirism, the way I get different energies and behaviors depending on my company.

  • @isocute6077
    @isocute6077 Před měsícem +3

    THE OMORI REFERENCES OMG [thats basically what got me to click this video lol im a huge kel basil and sunny kinnie (somehow)]

  • @user-im2tk1jq6d
    @user-im2tk1jq6d Před měsícem +2

    OMORI MENTIONED 🔥🔥

  • @A55a551n
    @A55a551n Před měsícem +1

    Timestamps
    1). The mirror effect 0:22
    2). History repeats itself 1:41
    3). Your true self vs your best self 2:54
    Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

  • @user-wd9ww9hj9b
    @user-wd9ww9hj9b Před měsícem

    makima part was gold.

  • @hiddenartist145
    @hiddenartist145 Před měsícem +1

    Hello Psych2go!! I recently had a conflict with my mother for not allowing me to go on dinner with my girlfriend.. I saw your videos on toxic mother.. and toxic parents.. and i was also searching for a video on toxic child.. but unfortunately i couldn't find any videos on your channel.. i see you as a trusted source on youtube.. can you please guide me if children can be toxic or not..??

  • @kysrza
    @kysrza Před měsícem +1

    i knew that was sunny from omori in the thumbnail 🤩🤩‼️‼️

  • @kazuma7232
    @kazuma7232 Před měsícem +1

    I am thou. Thou art I.

  • @pedramravangard1169
    @pedramravangard1169 Před měsícem +1

    I really liked this video ❤

  • @rainyx0265
    @rainyx0265 Před měsícem +2

    OMORI!!!!!

  • @nietwojinterePL
    @nietwojinterePL Před měsícem +1

    Do you know any advice on how to get back to the person you love? Even after a breakup

  • @arjaymartin0701
    @arjaymartin0701 Před měsícem +1

    More of them with you guys

  • @yoio1537
    @yoio1537 Před měsícem +1

    Damn, Sunny in the thumbnail really hits diffrent

  • @flippomane
    @flippomane Před měsícem

    man see psych2go upload, man watch, man happy.

  • @user-ui5zr7mi1d
    @user-ui5zr7mi1d Před měsícem

    I’m late I know lol anyway thanks for posting. This was very educational and helpful. I feel like I could relate to a lot of The topics mentioned in the video.

  • @whitneydorcelus
    @whitneydorcelus Před měsícem

    Psych, always know what I've been thinking lately.😮😅❤

  • @Arcandra_2
    @Arcandra_2 Před měsícem +1

    what does it mean when im distant from family and friends?

  • @shiswhbwcys
    @shiswhbwcys Před měsícem +1

    Honestly just clicked just bc of the Omori thumbnail. I didn’t even read the title 💀😭

  • @damnablethief
    @damnablethief Před měsícem +1

    I attract the most broken people...like I need people under my wing for some reason. Idk it's dumb but I have loyal friends...really lucky there...even if I do attract the wrong people sometimes...

    • @nickthompson1812
      @nickthompson1812 Před měsícem +1

      You don’t respect yourself enough to think you deserve/can keep someone who isn’t broken, who doesn’t need to be under your wing. It’s part of learning to be a man. Right there with you.

  • @Nataliexgiselle
    @Nataliexgiselle Před měsícem +1

    Great video🥹

  • @DAWOLFzNotDrawingStuff

    OMORIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS yipee thanks psych2gooooooo

  • @psych2gomandarin
    @psych2gomandarin Před měsícem

    0:00 intro
    0:22 The mirror effect
    1:41 History repeats itself
    2:54 your true versus your best self
    4:16 conclusion
    4:30 outro

  • @dylxn_cxle
    @dylxn_cxle Před měsícem

    Nooooo where'd the OG Lady go?
    Lol. Really good vid

  • @JoyCat333
    @JoyCat333 Před měsícem

    1:50 it's me i found someone Who love me and help me.
    But i am affraid about start the arguing and continue apologize for EVERYTHING

  • @kaeshow
    @kaeshow Před měsícem

    MARI THUMBNAIL SPOTTED GUYS

  • @AugustoCuervo-hx9pr
    @AugustoCuervo-hx9pr Před měsícem

    Me, having the "bad habit" of having a noisy voice. I have been rejected by many because of that, because people think I am aggressive with my speech. But, the truth is that, it is my true nature and natural voice. Do I reject myself, just to please others?

    • @MissFirenze1
      @MissFirenze1 Před měsícem +1

      No, it's not worth compromising who we are personality- wise because someone thinks you're aggressive, that could also mean that you're passionate about something and it's important to you.

  • @garimasingh4659
    @garimasingh4659 Před měsícem

    Best video..Thanks 👌 ❤

  • @christianbarnes9936
    @christianbarnes9936 Před měsícem

    What should I do if I can't find and pinpoint any of my red flags? I've tried to figure out what they are but I struggle with registering myself enough to find my flaws, but even when I ask those around me i never get anything I could work upon because they usually can't "think of anything" but I feel I could be over thinking it

  • @minecraftstoryroblox2227
    @minecraftstoryroblox2227 Před měsícem +1

    close your eyes

  • @xoxo.ritaaa
    @xoxo.ritaaa Před měsícem +2

    OMORI AND CHAINSAW MAN REFERENCE???

  • @lashonnakennybrew4847
    @lashonnakennybrew4847 Před měsícem +1

    I'd love to message of this video about what it's like to be your true self being your true self is like wanted to be yourself like falling in love starting a family getting the woman you are pregnant having babies kids having a lot of women or if I'm just misconception some things

    • @Lolcoca
      @Lolcoca Před měsícem

      Or That’s what they want you to think . . .
      You do whatever you want . . . Life is very large ! Your experience is not their experience ! Your way of thinking is not the same as theirs ! But that doesn’t mean that if you don’t have the same in this video then your life is sad or boring ! Not necessarily being in love or married or have a kids or having many women . . . Means happiness actually it’s the opposite 😂😂🤣
      Remember : perception is individual not universal ! Happy life for you maybe depressed for others and vice versa . . .

  • @Louise_funAndAll
    @Louise_funAndAll Před měsícem

    What if i have a friend that I know I shouldn’t be friends with, but I can’t just get rid of them like that because i have been frends with them for many many years-?😮

  • @caaliizz
    @caaliizz Před měsícem +1

    OMORI REFERENCE !!!!1!

  • @Len_Shows
    @Len_Shows Před měsícem +1

    I love those Omori reference (if you do a video about domestic abuse could you make another omori reference with Spaceboy and sweetheart since lt canon she abused him ? And my life is yours🙏🏻)

  • @Yume-AW
    @Yume-AW Před 29 dny +3

    is that omori

  • @emuscreeches6092
    @emuscreeches6092 Před měsícem +1

    it's official psych2go ships suntan too

  • @zUltraXO
    @zUltraXO Před měsícem +1

    What does empathy have to do with Bluetooth lmao
    Tho tbh I feel like recent relationships have helped pick up and return the pieces of myself that I've lost in the past.

  • @axel.cloudyx6432
    @axel.cloudyx6432 Před měsícem +1

    NOT DENJI😭😭

  • @majohladky3249
    @majohladky3249 Před měsícem

    ...It thaught me that relationships are traps(imo). Since 3 years of age I wasn't really trying to get to know anyone because I believed that everybody is lying to me and so I stuck with lying to other as a means of protection. I never had a romantic relationship, I have one male friend that is my friend only because he is occascionaly reaching out to me. I'm not particulary polite, talkative or positive. I tend to overstep peoples boundaries and get angry when they overstep mine... Im basiclly a 3years old bad tempered child at the age of 27. Thats what my relationships thaught me so far...

  • @skapeedits
    @skapeedits Před měsícem

    I have a question: can dark empaths/ narcissists or psychopaths also be good people if they use logic or philosophy to have empathy? Can a dark empath or a narcissist also understand the principle behind ethics even though they lack empathy?

  • @kipispan6230
    @kipispan6230 Před 27 dny +2

    OMORI REFERENCE

  • @GBA2Loop
    @GBA2Loop Před měsícem

    Love Psych2Go when they upload

  • @leMiG31
    @leMiG31 Před měsícem +1

    Omori mentioned

  • @Pika782
    @Pika782 Před měsícem +4

    I omor 💀

  • @laboluke
    @laboluke Před měsícem

    The only thing i'm thinking with this title is "PERSONNNAAAAAAAAA" just the entire time

  • @bertog1217
    @bertog1217 Před měsícem +1

    I want the other narrator back. She is so much better thsn this 1

  • @FurinaHydroArchon937
    @FurinaHydroArchon937 Před 2 dny +1

    BRO WHO AT PSYCH2GO IS MAKING THESE THUMBNAILS?! SOME OF THEM ARE JUST OMORI-

  • @dillon2938
    @dillon2938 Před měsícem

    I just wish they would understand I'm not sad nor have alternative motivation, just wanting to spend time with them is my reason. But I don't "speak correctly" or understand social cues so am used to the constant judgment

    • @Lolcoca
      @Lolcoca Před měsícem

      If you live in people’s mind ! Then you become their prisoner !
      Be your own life and mind ! The people (like your family) who loves you knows who you are and trust me you don’t have to justify your life . . .

    • @dillon2938
      @dillon2938 Před měsícem

      @@Lolcoca my family doesn't love me, probably best to not assume. I'm happy to wait because I know they also need time, I'm always myself