I was rejected for marriage because of Hijab! 🧕😼

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  • @sgoins0904
    @sgoins0904 Pƙed rokem +151

    Everything happens for a reason and if you hadn’t been rejected by those people then you wouldn’t have the wonderful husband and family that you have now đŸ˜Šâ€

  • @hengwin
    @hengwin Pƙed rokem +281

    I don't think the MIL and her overbearing attitude regarding your clothing was the problem. A grown man ready to build his own family who lets his mother mingle with his business like this is a problem and a red flag. You dotched a bullet there.

    • @fakhrulislamhaq
      @fakhrulislamhaq Pƙed rokem +16

      Ironic how mothers cannot be perfect and be the reason for her kids destruction

    • @Deen_Over_Dunya_Love
      @Deen_Over_Dunya_Love Pƙed rokem +59

      But if the MIL doesn't like you, your life will be pretty hard, so I'd say both are a red flag. You're not just marrying the person. You're marrying the family.

    • @louisenielsen7106
      @louisenielsen7106 Pƙed rokem +7

      ​@@Deen_Over_Dunya_LoveThat's such a toxic way of thinking. You absolutely don't marry the family. You marry the one person. And sadly we don't pick our own family. Family is the people we're forced to spend our time with, that doesn't mean that you have to love them too, not if they're not good to or for you.

    • @Deen_Over_Dunya_Love
      @Deen_Over_Dunya_Love Pƙed rokem +17

      @louisenielsen7106 lol I meant that you're marrying the family as in you now have to deal with the family too, not just your spouse. So you should choose wisely. I don't mean choose your in-laws like you choose your spouse. I mean, when you choose your spouse, make sure your in-laws aren't going to make you suffer. What's toxic in that?

    • @myrthasmascary4086
      @myrthasmascary4086 Pƙed rokem

      B happy and do u girly whatever 2 those people

  • @halalme
    @halalme Pƙed rokem +58

    I am 18 , and i am also a hijabi. I started wearing hijab on my own when I was of 13 and i am still wearing it to this day. Alhamdulillah. I don't remove my hijab when I go to weddings and some people and relatives say that no one would like you or choose you for their son. Stop being so extreme. But Alhamdulillah my mother is so supportive and understanding, and i have faith in
    Allah (s. w. t) that he will give me the best.

    • @RichardWilliamson-cx5hz
      @RichardWilliamson-cx5hz Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +1

      I'm muslim and I prefer a woman who wears modest clothing. We are out there for you sister.❀

    • @abdulbari4460
      @abdulbari4460 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +2

      The worst thing is when your own Muslim friends and relatives are just ridiculous to you for wearing hijab. I'm also 18 and I started covering my head at the age of 15. Before that, I was just concerned about my friends' reaction. I also want to start it in the weddings but I'm again worried about the reaction of people. Hope I will break this ridiculous trend of weddings.

    • @huzaifa7679
      @huzaifa7679 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +3

      Oh sister i would really love it if allah were to marry me with a girl who would do hijab as you do.... 😌
      Dont worry allah will find a right guy for you!!!😌

    • @halalme
      @halalme Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +2

      @@abdulbari4460 Don't worry about anyone and go ahead sister. If you will do it sincerely for the sake of Allah he will definitely help you , Inshallah . I also used to get upset initially by the taunts but in the end it feels very good knowing that I did all of it for the sake of Allah .

    • @abdulbari4460
      @abdulbari4460 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +3

      @@halalme May Allah make it easy for all Muslim sisters to observe hijab Ameen. Hijab is a gift for the woman. Allah has ordained her for hijab because he has made her special and precious. A pious girl is queen of Islam.

  • @jadeterrain4771
    @jadeterrain4771 Pƙed rokem +21

    I'd rather be single, and never get married, than have to give up on my beliefs.

  • @marshavilkas3512
    @marshavilkas3512 Pƙed rokem +38

    Oh girl, people always will have something to complain about. You found an awesome person who loves you for the way you are and matches you spiritually. That counts more than anything else!

  • @Azra171
    @Azra171 Pƙed rokem +10

    After my wedding my father-in-law told me not to wear a burka(jilbab) because my mother-in-law does wear it yet so he told me to take my jilbab off before I went out of the house. The sad thing about this was my husband just stood there and did not say a word but I stood my ground and didn’t take it off. Seeing me being stubborn my sister inlaw told her dad that I shouldn’t have to remove my jilbab and told me to go where I was going. My father inlaw prays 5 times a day and still this was his mentality!!!

  • @louniece1650
    @louniece1650 Pƙed rokem +39

    Darned if you do, darned if you don't. I guess this is why it's important to be true to yourself and your journey. đŸ„°

  • @AmnaNavarroAhmed
    @AmnaNavarroAhmed Pƙed rokem +48

    Asalamu Alaikum sis. Im being told off by my own family for wearing hijab and also trying niqab because they say “It will be hard to find a man who accepts you”. Before I also had a liberal lifestyle, I was still criticized by my family. People will always be dissatisfied. You are more encouraging about keeping things halal than my own family. May Allah bless you and protect you! Do continue to make such videos because there may be people who need to hear this.

    • @savila3694
      @savila3694 Pƙed rokem +2

      Aoa sister, please stay strong. Shaytan will not miss a single chance to attack you. My prayers and all the sisters prayers are with you. May Allah makes it easier for you.

    • @AmnaNavarroAhmed
      @AmnaNavarroAhmed Pƙed rokem +2

      @@savila3694 thank you sis. May Allah make it easy for everyone who struggling to stay upon the right path without anyone to support them.

    • @AmnaNavarroAhmed
      @AmnaNavarroAhmed Pƙed rokem +2

      @@savila3694 May Allah bless you and protect you too sister💜

    • @savila3694
      @savila3694 Pƙed rokem

      @@AmnaNavarroAhmed JazakAllah sister 💜💜

    • @savila3694
      @savila3694 Pƙed rokem

      @@AmnaNavarroAhmed ameen

  • @bethowens8863
    @bethowens8863 Pƙed rokem +94

    Not a Muslim, but I definitely resonate with the idea that women will never quite fit the ideal that is held up before them. I often get frustrated with how one-dimensional the idea of 'empowered womanhood' is within Western culture. Women as supposed to be 'effortlessly' beautiful (because trying too hard makes you vain and self-absorbed), experienced with dating, but 'too' experienced. You're supposed to show some skin and be proud of your body, but not 'too much' or it makes you promiscuous. You're supposed to find the right guy and have beautiful kids and a beautiful house, but only at the 'right time' because your career should always come first. If you settle down 'too young', you often get judged as not being 'ambitious' or having life goals, but choosing to stay single and child-free into middle age is to be pitied and viewed as a failure.
    In sum, just ignore societal standards because you will always be lacking somehow. Do what makes you content.

    • @rikita6417
      @rikita6417 Pƙed rokem +1

      WOOOORD🙌✹

    • @ahzokatano0611
      @ahzokatano0611 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

      Find Out, Through Prayer, What God Has For You, And Follow That Path, Making "Life Decisions", Without God's Guidance, Advice, And Intervention, Is Like Driving To An Unknown Destination, Without Your GPS
      ...You Will Always End Up Lost!!!

    • @bilsid
      @bilsid Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

      Do what makes the Creator content. Because doing what makes us happy will never make us happy, nor content.

    • @ancientdarkness3102
      @ancientdarkness3102 Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci

      Then leave Western culture if it bothers you so much

    • @bilsid
      @bilsid Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci +2

      @ancientdarkness3102 Define "western culture" with consensus please. It's unfair to expect to hold someone to a term but not defining the term.

  • @AspergirlJahda
    @AspergirlJahda Pƙed rokem +43

    Being a woman is the most controversial thing in this world. I struggle with these contradictory expectations too. May Allah bless you for your honesty and shining a light on these hidden cultural problems

    • @AbdulRahman-it1fv
      @AbdulRahman-it1fv Pƙed rokem +1

      Allah will never have any contradictory expectations. Humans are useless. No use trying to please them

    • @yayvids
      @yayvids Pƙed rokem

      yeah :(

    • @phoebescott6787
      @phoebescott6787 Pƙed rokem +3

      Exactly! If she covers everything but her eyes and hands, it's a problem to someone. If she covers less it's a problem to someone. I'm so glad she is headstrong and self loving enough to never settle for someone who does not value her as a person.

    • @RichardWilliamson-cx5hz
      @RichardWilliamson-cx5hz Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

      ​@@phoebescott6787I wish I had someone like her.

  • @ninimeggie4771
    @ninimeggie4771 Pƙed rokem +29

    Definitely a story of do what you know is right for you, regardless of what others think.

  • @alisha5236
    @alisha5236 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +5

    I am very thankful to you for my journey even though i was born in a muslim family but i never try parda coz i was afraid what if people don't like me but after viewing your channel i started wearing hijab and believe me i had never experience such peace in my life ,a big shout out to you

  • @tanyaflores1560
    @tanyaflores1560 Pƙed rokem +9

    That’s very common I was also rejected my ex and his family are catholic and I’m not he was ok with it but his parents were not in the end out of the blue he stopped talking to me it hurt a lot because I loved him I saw him as my one and only true love I was convinced he would fight for me and when he didn’t I was devastated but now I see why god took him away from me after a while I realized that his parents were right I was definitely not a good match for him he’s a rancher and honestly I couldn’t live in a ranch I was born in the city and have my own opinions and now I have been married to the most wonderful man in the world who loves me for me at first I was scared to love again because I was afraid he would also reject me for my religion but when I told him he gave me the support I needed and told me that he loves me and his family cares for me a lot we have been together almost 3 years married for almost 1 and he’s the sweetest if I had the chance I would thank my exes parents because of their cruelty of not even meeting me and rejecting me based on my different religion I got the chance to meet my amazing husband who I adore

  • @islamic_life308
    @islamic_life308 Pƙed rokem +23

    Alhamdulillah.. I'm 20 and I have started wearing the niqab recently.. Please make Dua for me so that I can continue living my life according to the Islamic Shariah fullyđŸ„ș
    ....May Allah bless you and your family 💓 Assalamu 'alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

    • @maheenarif547
      @maheenarif547 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

      Walaiqum Asalam warahmatullahi wabaraqatuhu

  • @maheenarif547
    @maheenarif547 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +5

    I don’t get any proposals because I’m a hijabi and now 27 years old 😊
    Oh, and I’m happy about it 😂

    • @butnotgenz37
      @butnotgenz37 Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +1

      Allah is gonna send you the best. ❀

  • @marcellocolona4980
    @marcellocolona4980 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +4

    Our adult daughters are reverts but we as a family have lived as Muslim since they were 4 and 5 years old in Saudi Arabia. They wore hijab starting around age 10. They started wearing the niqab right around when they attended university and now wear full face coverings. We are so happy for them. Stay strong and realise you can never please everyone. If being hijabi turns off a potential husband and his family, then maybe it was never meant to be. BTW, your true beauty shines forth; you are a beautiful person, it shows.

  • @habeebahamza-st9ot
    @habeebahamza-st9ot Pƙed rokem +2

    this is sooo true we cant please people enough , no matter how much we try at the end they will always let yuh down. rather put your effort and spend your time in pleasing allah he will never let yuh down ❀.

  • @IconicTheaterKid
    @IconicTheaterKid Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +2

    You have such pretty eyes!!!

  • @MaryamMannan-pf3zg
    @MaryamMannan-pf3zg Pƙed rokem +6

    Oh Wow!! That is really inspiring and admirable ;)) This is so true and relatable. Enjoyed this vid! Much love! đŸ„°â€

    • @Hannestv4607
      @Hannestv4607 Pƙed rokem

      *what a mistake in the Qur'an!*
      Allah himself testifies that he has a son and he is the son as Christians understand it! Only the Koran writer was too ignorant to know what Son of God means! Allah's word which created everything is Allah himself too! *The Word Allahs which created everything is the Son of God according to Christianity!*

    • @Hannestv4607
      @Hannestv4607 Pƙed rokem

      Son of God does not mean that God has a child in Christianity!
      *what a mistake in the Qur'an!*
      Son of God are 2 titles one referring to the Word of God and one referring to creation (humans, angels, demons)

  • @ChambersBunch
    @ChambersBunch Pƙed rokem +6

    To many women live to please the creation and NOT pleasing the creator.
    I think One of the most beautiful things about Islam is covering my body and only revealing my body to my husband. Not only shows my loyalty to Allah but shows my loyalty to my faith and my loyalty to my husband that only he is worthy of seeing me.
    What is more beautiful than a loyal woman.
    Keep spreading Islam sister much love to you.

    • @JasonLovesJesus
      @JasonLovesJesus Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

      I have a question is it true women are compared to animals in Islam?

  • @juju03
    @juju03 Pƙed rokem +7

    So true
    We should live our life's only to please Allah
    U so Inspiring masha Allah
    May Allah bless u ❀

  • @_deen.over.dunya.
    @_deen.over.dunya. Pƙed rokem +3

    *1.* _Alhamdulillah_ (10x)
    *2.* _Astagfirullah_ (10x)
    *3.* _Subhanallah_ (10x)
    *4.* _Allahumma ajirni minan naar_ (10x)
    *5.* _Allahu Akbar_ (10x)
    *6.* _La Hawla Wa La Quwwata illa Billahil Aliyyil Azeem_ (10x)
    *7.* _La ilaha illa anta subhanaka inni kuntu minaz-zalimin_ (10x)
    *8.* _La ilaha illallahu, wahdahu la sharika lahu, lahulmulku wa lahulhamdu, wa Huwa 'ala kulli sha'in Qadir_ (10x)
    *9.* _Hasbunallah wa ni'mal-Wakil_ (10x)
    *10.* _Ya hayyu ya qayyum birahmatika astaghees_ (10x)
    *11.* _Allahumma innee as'alukal jannah_ (10x)
    *12.* _La ilaha illa anta subhanaka inni kuntu minaz zalimin_ (10x)
    *13.* _A'udhu bi kalimat Allaah al-taammaat min sharri ma khalaq_ (10x)
    *14.* _Subhanallahi wa bihamdihi subhanallahil azeem_ (10x)
    *15.* _Alhamdulillahi Rabbil Alamin_ (10x)
    *16.* _Allahumma Antas-Salam wa minkas-salam Tabarakta ya Dhal-jalali wal-ikram_ (10x)
    *17.* _Allahumma salli `ala muhammadin wa 'aala ali muhammad_ (10x)
    May Allah SWT accept all our good deeds and forgive all our sins done knowingly and unknowingly, those which are public and also those which are private. May He SWT grant us hidayah and abstain us from doing anything against the rulings of Islam and may Allah SWT protect you, me and the whole ummah from the fitnah of Dajjal and the torment of hellfire. Allahumma ameen ❀

  • @Ssllmd
    @Ssllmd Pƙed rokem +1

    Very good lesson to all of us, Jazaki Allahu Khairan

  • @AngeSteward
    @AngeSteward Pƙed rokem +2

    I've been wearing a niqab for 8 months before I did my shahada and became a Muslim. I would never go out in public without ,only free at home. Although when I got into the community I was the only one wearing it. Being new I would uncover only in masjid, around my people now but I'm still unsure of even that and how to go about wearing one around Muslims who don't even wear it. I feel right only uncovered at home. Or when praying. ... My question is around other Muslims who don't wear Niqab, and men, is it your custom to only uncover at home?

  • @ayeshaok6274
    @ayeshaok6274 Pƙed rokem +2

    Nedded that today. Because of hijab others think i am extreme and i am feeling very lonely. thank u, Api sidra... i was feeling the same, and this video popped up đŸ˜ąâ€

  • @glorias.2930
    @glorias.2930 Pƙed rokem +1

    That's really interesting. Thank you for sharing! ❀

  • @martarozko2420
    @martarozko2420 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +2

    I agree with you in 100%!
    I'm not Muslim but I love watching you and learning from you. You are so inspiring person!
    People will always have an opinion about every aspect of our lives. I believe that no one have to tell me that my coffe is tasty. I know it.
    The most important is to live in harmony with yourself.

  • @ihiratanveer
    @ihiratanveer Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +1

    Just started wearing niqab, really needed this :")

  • @C-SD
    @C-SD Pƙed rokem +6

    You can't make everyone happy, but that's ok because its not your job to make everyone happy. You and your husband seem so happy together, I'm glad you found each other.❀

  • @nina.kifrawi2412
    @nina.kifrawi2412 Pƙed rokem +1

    So true, you can’t please everyone. I have stopped people pleasing ages ago because it is so stressful. What’s important is that you please Allah, and if ppl appreciate what you have done, it’s a bonus. But sometimes I worry that is probably why im still single 😅

  • @anj1134
    @anj1134 Pƙed rokem +6

    Wow! I have had similar experience sister! for some I was too liberal and modern because I am working and independent. While some had a problem with my Hijab n considered me to be sort of an extremist- Lol. I mean I dont know ...But I am happy with me-

  • @SilenceExterminator
    @SilenceExterminator Pƙed rokem +1

    your videos are inspirational ❀❀

  • @rushb8142
    @rushb8142 Pƙed rokem +1

    Alhamdulillah you are better off. ❀ look at you know, happy marriage with kids and being pious ! Allahuma Barik may Allah azzawajal bless you always.

  • @perla5465
    @perla5465 Pƙed rokem +4

    I think the way you wear it is lovely, it looks bad when they just throw it over the shoulder in my opinion. How do you do it to look like that?

  • @olaadel9416
    @olaadel9416 Pƙed rokem +5

    First 🎉
    Gorgeous as always ❀

  • @user-fp8dx4vg5p
    @user-fp8dx4vg5p Pƙed rokem +3

    You only have to please yourself and stay true to your beliefs! I admire you and your journey!

  • @quadri87
    @quadri87 Pƙed rokem +1

    Following what's right for oneself does hit hard at home.
    When that mother mentioned about your hijab, I feel like she felt little jealous because she couldn't do what you have done. She knew in heart that you were right but couldn't speak out because of her family hearsay.
    At the end of the day, one's relationship with Allah is special and no one can take that away.

  • @SyedaKhairunnisa12
    @SyedaKhairunnisa12 Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci +1

    Loved this❀

  • @Swaggychic99
    @Swaggychic99 Pƙed rokem

    This video popped up on my feed at the exact right time. There was some one who sounded like a good man(didn’t meet me yet but his mother spoke to mine) and said he doesn’t want a ‘hijabI’ girl. It did make me feel very sad at the fact someone didn’t even want to get to know me just because of my hijab

  • @corinne4189
    @corinne4189 Pƙed rokem +4

    I think you had a narrow escape,you cant marry a man who does everything his Mother says.The hijab your wearing is gorgeous

  • @DawnSaleh
    @DawnSaleh Pƙed rokem +2

    As-salamu alaikum. Would you please do a video on why it is okay for us to wear florals and colors? I pray you are well.

  • @afsha53
    @afsha53 Pƙed rokem +3

    No one judges a girl more than people who consider her for 'rishtas'(marriage). And that in my opinion is Absolutely Disgusting and I never ever want to go in front of such people to enable them judge me for their boy

  • @JTHThatHijabi
    @JTHThatHijabi Pƙed rokem +2

    When I started wearing hijab I was 10 most people would respect me and some would stare at me in a disgusting way a few people asked me to take it off and alot of other people wouldn't care but since I was a child I wouldn't get really any hate.

  • @anneswag4928
    @anneswag4928 Pƙed rokem +1

    I agree, do what is right for you and dont let what people say change you. you are an intelligent woman mashaallah

  • @dispekfulchikensammichwith431

    Allah took care of everything, bc you got to meet your husband, and the two of you are adorable together. 💜

  • @mirou0039
    @mirou0039 Pƙed rokem +2

    And that's how you know, no matter what a woman lives she'll never satisfy ppl, satisfy Allah and that's enough, that's why you were created 😊

  • @maddmunkee2
    @maddmunkee2 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +1

    I am not Muslim, nor do I wear a hijab, and that left me confused
lol ( the opinion and thought of your Hijab from that lady.) However, she left you amazing priceless gifts 
 not an egotistical way, but to your head up and even higher from that point on, to be more proud of who you are, the courage it took to stand up for yourself. You are did not allow yourself to be bullied and manipulated and to take a look at one’s self, without excuses and unwilling to compromise yourself , and most importantly, your self worth and value. I think we sometimes get confused. And we want to please. But not you, she gave you the gift of confidence in your choices, and any expectations you were looking for in a partner. What a precious gift, because many people won’t, or will ever receive an opportunity like that or they never understand when an opportunity like that comes along. And not just that, but how one can benefit from a situation like that positively, instead of walking away angry or disappointed and sad. And of course, it made room for your now husband to walk through that door so you can live your of happily ever after. She really did save you from a huge mistake ,many sleepless nights, heartache, and headaches and being stuck in a situation that would’ve been a absolutely horrific situation
. so yes, she did give you the best gifts

  • @paigehavice3089
    @paigehavice3089 Pƙed rokem +1

    I feel this so much ❀ I wear the hijab at work and I usually get looks from people because even though I’m a Christian. I dress modestly at work and do my best to follow God as much as possible. I was getting trash cans emptied from outside and I heard this man speaking loudly and clearly say “WE DO NOT NEGOTIATE WITH TERRORISTS” I just ignored him and walked away to the next trash can and he again repeated himself saying “YOU HEAR ME SON WE DO NOT NEGOTIATE WITH TERRORISTS”. I stopped for a second and I was angry but also upset because I’m dressed “differently” I’m considered a threat? I then continued my job and as I was I saw this man have five children with him. The oldest couldn’t be more than 8. Since that encounter I have been continuously praying for both that man and his family that they may understand that dressing different isn’t wrong and covering up out of modesty or faith or religion doesn’t make us a threat but would make us as better friends. ❀

  • @min5899
    @min5899 Pƙed rokem +1

    Great conclusion

  • @hafsaatif3098
    @hafsaatif3098 Pƙed rokem

    I wanted to ask you a question are positive affirmation subliminals halal to listen to as indeed everything happens by the will of Allah ❀

  • @sarahplainmom7500
    @sarahplainmom7500 Pƙed rokem +1

    Yep, you absolutely ended up where you were supposed too!❀

  • @jessica4987
    @jessica4987 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +1

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    I have a question ,I am so sorry to put this in your comments because you are one of my favorite CZcamsrs and I watch you ALL the time but we are desperate and I don't know what else to do besides put a link all over CZcams. With your permission may I put my GoFundMe in your comments for your followers to see please?

  • @fatimaalzahra384
    @fatimaalzahra384 Pƙed rokem +1

    When I first wore the hijab I was always anxious about what people would say about me,but after I told myself that I did this for god and no one else,and put god first I didnt give a wit about what people think of me because obviously god is more important than anyone else
    .

  • @akasharaye
    @akasharaye Pƙed rokem +1

    Exactly. We should only please God.

  • @somebodythatiusetoknow2027
    @somebodythatiusetoknow2027 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +1

    Who knew that finding a spouse is just as equally difficult as dating but good on you if you feel that those people weren’t the right ppl to marry into your family

  • @User_tyty
    @User_tyty Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +2

    As a hindu, i love your traditional thinking and dressing style😊 in this period of time, its very hard to find a traditional girl. You know what's going on in reels, social media videos, various girls posting certain type of reels and videos for gaining subscribers and like.. So i appreciate and respect your traditional way of living in life..

  • @aminahchimpinde9256
    @aminahchimpinde9256 Pƙed rokem +1

    I love you so much ninja mommy❀❀

  • @tzchicsta
    @tzchicsta Pƙed rokem

    Do you have any recommendations on swimwear?

  • @sifatara1079
    @sifatara1079 Pƙed rokem +1

    I'm born in a Muslim family but.. I love to wear modest fashionable clothes. But I'm thinking of wearing hijab with those dresses.. I'm thinking to changing my style with loose yet Fashionable outfits and to wear hijab with them Insallah 😊

  • @user-yd4xp5us9z
    @user-yd4xp5us9z Pƙed rokem +1

    You are great mashallah, it's all for your benefit

  • @shannonlynchtravers3635
    @shannonlynchtravers3635 Pƙed rokem +1

    Asalamu alaikum sister may I say you look so beautiful in hijab and niqab ..I LOVE niqab .I pray to Allah he gives me the strength to wear it and keep it on .,.I have worn it in the past and been verbally abused outside which was very frightening but I did keep the niqab on for a while .In shaa Allah I put the niqab back on .Lots of best wishes to you sister

  • @swathisiva5408
    @swathisiva5408 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

    I have a question, so do you have to be fully covered wearing a niquab/ hijab even on your wedding day ? like the guests aren’t allowed to see you ? Genuine question

  • @fatimaslifeline
    @fatimaslifeline Pƙed rokem +1

    Absolutely only please Allah❀

  • @shaguftaquazi
    @shaguftaquazi Pƙed rokem +1

    Wow...Your story is sooo similar to minee😂😂😂......Wait...not similar...IT'S THE SAME 😅😅😅

  • @0IOOI0
    @0IOOI0 Pƙed rokem +1

    1:40
    And the most correct thing is that you cannot please all people. So reall 👌

  • @MKsBawlz
    @MKsBawlz Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +1

    Wow. I’m glad you found the right husband

  • @anglewings9355
    @anglewings9355 Pƙed rokem +2

    I am trying to convert to Islam, and your videos help me a lot with understanding about the religion. I have had bad luck with other religions, so I want to do Islam so I can feel more free, be near a God that I can believe in, and wear what I want. I want to wear the hijab, niqab, dresses, and abaya.

  • @enjolireyes643
    @enjolireyes643 Pƙed rokem +11

    Though I may not be Muslim there is something that I learned through Christianity
    If people can judge, try and then crucify Jesus Christ, what makes you think they won’t do that to you?
    No human is perfect so stop trying to please everyone else and do what you must to please God or Allah or Elohim. As He is the one you seek your eternal walk with.
    May you continue to be blessed on your journey! The beauty from it is seen from someone who walks a slightly different path but can appreciate yours!

    • @shahriarchowdhury7871
      @shahriarchowdhury7871 Pƙed rokem

      Idk if you realize, but you actually think like a true muslim should, that all of our actions should be to please God and none of His creations. I humbly suggest you look into the Quran if you are in the search for truth. Better if you go through all the religious scriptures and compare if you have the time! May Allah show you the path.

  • @cynthiabobst8794
    @cynthiabobst8794 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +1

    I think you are wonderful because of your faith. Any one who is religious, regardless of what they believe should be celebrated because of their strength in adversity. Amen to you Ninja Mommy!!!

  • @sherritdc
    @sherritdc Pƙed rokem +2

    So long story short.. people are impossible to please.. so do what makes you happy ❀

  • @TheSaiyanPrincess
    @TheSaiyanPrincess Pƙed rokem +2

    Completely unrelated, but I've always wondered, for any religious woman wearing head covering of any kind, what do you do in a situation where you have to take it off in public, like when you're getting your ID renewed or things like that? Are you still allowed to wear your coverings on account of religious belief? Are special accommodations made so that you have privacy?

    • @_from_the_river_to_the_sea
      @_from_the_river_to_the_sea Pƙed rokem

      not sure about other places but I can get out ID's taken with hijab. In the case that we do have to take it off for medical reasons or anything else, we request a woman. If its not available and it is an emergency, it is allowed for us to remove it.

  • @stly786
    @stly786 Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci +2

    Hi di
    I was wearing abaya in the age of 11 and cover my face in the age of 12

  • @amyn.duncan1982
    @amyn.duncan1982 Pƙed rokem +1

    TBH. I think you are beautiful

  • @IconicTheaterKid
    @IconicTheaterKid Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

    Kinda weird question, but what is your ethnic background?

  • @averysentertainmenthub7052
    @averysentertainmenthub7052 Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci +1

    That sounds like a controlling and manipulative a woman. If you had married into that family, she would've made your life a hell for sure. And that man didn't even say a word to her about how wrong she was, meaning that he will only listen to his mother even if she is wrong. You dodged a bullet.

  • @RawsonBlogUK
    @RawsonBlogUK Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

    MasaAllahđŸ„°đŸ€Č

  • @sherizamohammed_786
    @sherizamohammed_786 Pƙed rokem +1

    Allah is the best of planners

  • @zackabee5498
    @zackabee5498 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

    It’s ok sister I was rejected couple of times cause I’m short.

  • @ayeeshaparveen6705
    @ayeeshaparveen6705 Pƙed rokem

    Please tell me sister CZcams ad earnings haram or halal

  • @505douglasfahrenholz7
    @505douglasfahrenholz7 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

    Can non-Muslims say the five daily prayers?

  • @aspieangel1988
    @aspieangel1988 Pƙed rokem +1

    Oh my goodness Sidra. I am so sorry. Something similar happened to me in college. I had a good friend in college who was Muslim and she was always super friendly and gave me hugs and had a kid and her sister was in my class. Her sister had given me her Q’uran to borrow for our religious class because everybody was required to read all types of religious text. Rather than buy one she decided to lend it to me because she had it memorized. Well come summer, her mother tells her she’s not allowed to be friends with a “sinful Mormon” and banned her from seeing me again. Her mom pulled her out of school. Her sister was a single mom and so sweet and still hugged me and tells me”you are sweet! Yeah I got kicked out after I got pregnant but I’m very loving to everybody Allah loves you” she was so sweet. You can imagine how insulted I was though that her mother treated another human being like that. I found out later the sister was a Shia and the mother supported sharia law and believed women should have no rights and believed all not Muslim burn in hell. The sweet sister was a Sunni and believed good people go to heaven as long as they accept Islam even if they won’t convert. I guess Sunni’s are more accepting than Shia’s? I don’t know đŸ€·đŸŒâ€â™€ïž I’m not aware of what the difference is but it’s what I was told is one believes non Muslims go to hell and the other believe good people go to heaven as long as they accept Islam even if they won’t join Islam due to being Christian. Accepting Islam doesn’t mean you have to join it or agree with it, it just means accept it as a religion of God from what I heard. I’m Mormon for example and I accept Islam as Gods people. However being Mormon, I do believe Christ died for us, but I believe his body disappeared at the cross as Islam teaches and another man was crucified in his place to trick the Jews thus explaining the resurrection. Some Muslims interpret the verse to mean he was never crucified but people like me interpret the verse “he wasn’t crucified” to mean he wasn’t crucified spiritually but was crucified physically. Just as Christianity has different interpretations of scripture, Islam does as well. Some interpret it literally, others interpret it spiritually or metaphorically. There are parts of Islam I do believe are true but I don’t agree with all of it but I do accept Islam as a religion of God. I’m a spiritualist so I believe all faiths are connected and have a piece of the gospel. When I first read the Q’uran I was expecting something horrible but I was in shock when I read the majority was almost identical to the Bible and Book of Mormon. Love, compassion, forgiveness, mercy, ect; Then I dig deeper and found in Corinthians that women should wear head coverings during prayer and should not shave their heads. I was in shock and thought oh my gosh Islam teaches that too! My family was like nah Jesus erased that. I’m like uh Corinthians was written AFTER the events on the cross so I’m like nope that came from God lol 😂 My college professor got pissed at me one day though for our religious class. I can be a pain in the ass when I wanna be. When we got to Mormonism she kept reading off abunch of crap that wasn’t true. So I went home got my Bible, Book of Mormon, D&C, Pearl of great price and historical documents I had of the church and our articles of faith and started comparing Bible verses to other scriptures and reading off church history to the teacher in my paper in front of the class proving that our scriptures are no different from the Bible and told her off that yes we do believe in heavenly mother, baptisms for the dead, eternal marriage, ect; and yes polygamy was in the past but I also read to her in D&C our prophets revelation of how polygamy was never from God and Joseph smith was deceived by Brigham young, how Brigham admitted he was not a prophet as where Joseph was, and how Joseph asked Gods permission and his wife Emma smith recieved an entirely different revelation that polygamy was wrong and that we don’t get our own planets but the 3 kingdoms within heaven are backed up by the Bible itself. It’s also backed up by Islam except they believe there’s 6 but the Islamic 3rd heaven and the Mormon 3rd heaven are exactly the same. I had all this evidence and this professor was an athiest. The entire class started laughing. My Muslim friends said “wow you got nerve. She doesn’t believe us either but you are brave girl” apparently she failed my Muslim friends thinking she knew the Q’uran better than they did but turns out she didn’t even read it! She only read their papers. So she grabs my paper, crumples it up and sends me to the deans office and tried to fail me. The dean could not stop laughing. He said “get outta here you knucklehead” teacher sends me back and gets called into the office. Turns out she had failed every catholic, Jew, Christian, Muslim and Mormon (me) in the classroom and passed all the Hindus, Buddhists, witches, Satanists, ect; we did have one witch, one satanist, one Buddhist and 2 Hindus in class and everyone else was Christian, Jewish, Muslim or catholic as I was the only Mormon and there were no agnostics or Athiests in the class. The dean passed the others with a c and I got passed with a d for being a disruption to the class but the teacher got her ass fired so I barely passed but the revenge was worth it lol 😂 my parents were in shock but proud of me 😅 so yeah people are nuts and I’m sorry you had to deal with a lady like that sidra.

    • @noogomm7350
      @noogomm7350 Pƙed rokem +1

      Do you believe that there is no one worthy of worship except Allah , and prophet Muhammad is his last messenger, and Jesus was only the messenger of Allah and is not a God ?

    • @aspieangel1988
      @aspieangel1988 Pƙed rokem

      @@noogomm7350’m Mormon/LDS. I believe Jesus Christ is the literal begotten son of God, that Christ died for us. However, I do believe his body disappeared after the crucifixion, thus explaining the resurrection and I believe someone else was crucified in his place to cover it up. I’m an LDS Spiritualist so I believe Islam, Judaism, Christianity, Catholicism and Mormonism are all connected and have a piece of the gospel and that the nations were scattered. I believe Allah is different from Elohim and that he is a prophet who rules the 3rd kingdom of heaven and was an exalted spirit (god with a small g) created by Elohim, God the Father. Mormons do believe there are other gods but they aren’t true gods. They are spirits who declared themselves as gods. If I’m wrong, it doesn’t bother me because I have had 3 NDE’s in my life and multiple spiritual experiences weather they were real or just dreams is a mystery but based on those, that’s my personal beliefs. Truth is nobody except God knows what the true religion is because every religion including Islam and Christianity thinks everybody else is going to hell so I choose to believe my own way after being condemned by Christian’s for years for my Mormonism. I left Christianity and Mormonism for Spiritualism a long time ago. That about sums up my beliefs so I say we all believe what we want and see what happens. As for a prophet, Mormons do consider Mohammad a prophet but we believe in modern day prophets so our prophet is President Russel M. Nelson. I will give credit to Islam for one thing. At least you guys love others and practice what you preach. Most Jews, Mormons, Catholics and Christian’s won’t. Most Muslims accept me the way I am and love others. ❀ God bless đŸ™đŸ»

  • @Alexwalker210
    @Alexwalker210 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci

    As you have pointed out this is entirely your decision whether to wear the hijab or niqab so really while it’s going to your religious beliefs it has been said allah will love you no matter what so it’s more them insulting your personal choice on how you follow that religion: I know sometimes I seem too factual and I do get that way I observe a lot and draw too many conclusions but that’s how I see it (really hope it’s not disrespectful at all I really try to understand but I’ve also been mia from this channel for sometime)

  • @PTskrn1
    @PTskrn1 Pƙed rokem

    Salam sister.
    You are good enough, no matter what people are saying.
    Your clothing respresent that you worshipping Allah swt. and that is a beautiful thing.
    In shaa Allah, Allah swt will give you a good spourse.đŸ€Č

  • @Tyrosecat
    @Tyrosecat Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci

    Nice video❀

  • @Mishka7653
    @Mishka7653 Pƙed rokem +1

    I always say never change who u are for someone else god made u who u truly are and those who can’t see that then that’s their loss u are a beautiful and kind person ❀❀ never forget that

  • @nellemryazkhan
    @nellemryazkhan Pƙed rokem

    You can't make everyone happy. You'll be too less for some people and too much for others. So live according to you, what makes you happy, what feels right to you cuz in the end, it's your life.

  • @dissidentart5603
    @dissidentart5603 Pƙed rokem +1

    Have you considered that the Hijab is not the only dealbreaker you possess?

  • @AnilM1230
    @AnilM1230 Pƙed rokem

    Question: What if you were in a medical emergency and were dying. Would you accept mouth to mouth resuscitation, or the hyminac maneuver for a male doctor, a CPR professional, or a stranger who may know one of these life saving strategies?

  • @juliehodes5454
    @juliehodes5454 Pƙed rokem +1

    Wow that's messed up

  • @symeebryant
    @symeebryant Pƙed rokem +1

    ❀

  • @Jdjd786
    @Jdjd786 Pƙed rokem

    Looks like you dodged a bullet there!!!

  • @ahzokatano0611
    @ahzokatano0611 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

    Don't Be Heart Broken, Sister...Sometimes, Even Though It May Not Seem Like It, When Allah Lets Something, Or Someone, Leave Your Life, It's Always For The Best...A Mother-In-Law, Like That, Would Have Been A NIGHTMARE!!!
    REMEMBER, ALLAH ALWAYS KNOWS BEST, IN THESE MATTERS!!! HE SEES AND KNOWS
    THINGS WE WOULD NEVER EVEN BE AWARE OF!!! WHAT LOOKS RIGHT TO US OUTWARDLY, DOESN'T ALWAYS HAVE TO BE!!!

  • @WillowMurdock
    @WillowMurdock Pƙed rokem +2

    Allah (SWT) saving you for your AMAZING Husband!!! đŸ„°
    Live for Allah and He will guard your Heart (even in Marriage!!!) đŸ«¶đŸŒ

  • @Mariam-lj8fz
    @Mariam-lj8fz Pƙed rokem

    Lesson: Do everything for the sake of Allah.
    People should always come second and NEVER the other way round.

  • @shaziyataranum710
    @shaziyataranum710 Pƙed rokem

    I wore the hijab at 11 all my relatives don't really care if I wore hijab or not but my parents are telling me when we go to India take it off otherwise no one will be your friend (in my building everyone is hindu) I proved her wrong.
    And now my mom is telling me to take it off for weddings, and to this day I'm still trying to convince her to let me wear hijab all the time

  • @christines2787
    @christines2787 Pƙed rokem

    The only person who needs to be happy with your choices is you.
    Im not saying you shouldn't compromise or do things to make others happy, but when it comes to your personal choices, thats between you and God.

  • @hassanmaryam2363
    @hassanmaryam2363 Pƙed rokem +1

    ❀❀

  • @livegives1chance
    @livegives1chance Pƙed rokem

    Wow ... Lord save men from these extremist...and women do not get influenced

  • @savanahdahlsten3149
    @savanahdahlsten3149 Pƙed rokem +1

    The only thing extreme about you is your pure unadulterated beautiful soul!

  • @user-yw6wt4ne8w
    @user-yw6wt4ne8w Pƙed rokem

    Assalamu alaikum sis,
    I have a doubt
    Is drawing human faces is haram in islam
    Please replay me
    I want to know this