A Must Read Book for Expats to Read Before Coming Here !!! Only 99₱ !!!

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  • čas přidán 25. 06. 2024
  • A brief talk on a great book to read on dealing with some of the problematic people we deal with Daily here in the Philippines.
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Komentáře • 46

  • @RayHaffenden
    @RayHaffenden Před 21 dnem +17

    Two sayings about idiots
    1. Never argue with an idiot, they bring you down to their level and beat you with experience!
    2. Arguing with an idiot is like playing chess with a pigeon, they knock down the pieces and crap on the board!

    • @Synfulz
      @Synfulz Před 21 dnem +2

      😂😂

    • @drewrhodes2820
      @drewrhodes2820 Před 21 dnem +2

      Can I throw one in too. “Never wrestle with pigs. You both get dirty and the pig likes it.” -Shaw-

    • @Lawrencerice
      @Lawrencerice Před 20 dny

      @@drewrhodes2820 Hey! I just might like it too! Call it a guilty pleasure... LOL.

  • @johnclark1469
    @johnclark1469 Před 21 dnem +8

    Steve our $2billion company where I am on engineering teams has required training in this! We each had to go thru questionnaires to identify our personality “color” strengths and guess that of others for team building. its no joke😮. It works to understand others. We all have the 4 color blocks stacked in order of our tendencies on our desks. Mine: Blue”get it right”, Red “do it now”,Green”in a caring way”, yellow ”Make it fun” Can you tell im an engineer? 😂

  • @robertnunn3015
    @robertnunn3015 Před 21 dnem +1

    Great content Steve ! I agree that we all need this for many reasons ! Thank you

  • @paulharwood6864
    @paulharwood6864 Před 21 dnem +3

    The key to getting along with people is to either lower your expectations or learn to drink 🍺

  • @dw9890
    @dw9890 Před 19 dny +1

    Another great book as far as looking in the mirror and saying I need to make some changes in order to alleviate some of the issues that sets us off. The four agreements is a must read

  • @ShikokuFoodForest
    @ShikokuFoodForest Před 21 dnem +2

    Hi Steve, the book title is making me think. There may be some truth to this. This just made me realize, we may want to choose carefully who we hang out with as an expat or otherwise. Yes, learning how to deal with different types of people is valuable. Keep well, David in Japan.

  • @Lawrencerice
    @Lawrencerice Před 21 dnem +1

    Funny you brought that book up. I just bought that on Shopee as part of a 3 book set yesterday. Small world!😊
    Keep your dive planes level as you navigate life. GO NAVY!

  • @lazylarrylee2421
    @lazylarrylee2421 Před 21 dnem +1

    Steve, great advice, I will have to get the book sometime to read. However, I am not moving to the Philippines to get away from people but moving for the cost of living.

  • @tman46544
    @tman46544 Před 20 dny +1

    I agree, it's like living in a village here, but most everyone has the "village idiot" title.

  • @icemaster54isaac86
    @icemaster54isaac86 Před 17 dny +1

    Have a blessed night/day, everyone, and stay safe!

  • @user-rp8nf3mk8p
    @user-rp8nf3mk8p Před 21 dnem +2

    The title of this book was my life when I worked as a nightclub musician

  • @sl123sl
    @sl123sl Před 20 dny +2

    Sounds like this only complicates things ...your talks on "boundaries " imho...is much more doable , practical and effective

  • @edwardgriffin6042
    @edwardgriffin6042 Před 21 dnem +1

    I have a friend/former co-worker that hardly a day goes by that he does not blow-up (over nothing). He gets mad at God,
    that he has no children (in his 40’s now). I keep telling him that kids are expensive and despite having a degree, he works for tips. I can imagine a child would get kicked out of pre-k. Maybe, I’m the only friend that tries to keep him calm when most avoid him or make fun because he has no kids and or works for tips.

  • @Frank_Nemo
    @Frank_Nemo Před 21 dnem +1

    In the UK, 'blowing up' is pretty much regarded as a sign of weakness and that the person does not know how to deal with situations they find themselves in. Being in control of situations and yourself is regarded as a 'good thing' here.
    There is one single exception - be cruel to an animal or child, then you'll see red mist blowing up from someone from the UK!

  • @mikesimpson9997
    @mikesimpson9997 Před 21 dnem +1

    Interesting

  • @zzashkittyzzonna2474
    @zzashkittyzzonna2474 Před 21 dnem +1

    I got a little bit inside of me of what you mentioned and I see idiots all the time in my life, I choose not to hang out with some people.

  • @gerrymcnally9344
    @gerrymcnally9344 Před 21 dnem +1

    Excellent video. I could have used that book when I was working. I still might get it. Idiots keep breeding and making more idiots. The great circle of life.

  • @tedjohnson4451
    @tedjohnson4451 Před 21 dnem +1

    True Colors is about the same info in slightly different packaging.

  • @PHExpatPrepper
    @PHExpatPrepper Před 21 dnem +2

    Nice one Steve... made me laugh, now go read "who moved my cheese"

    • @MrSteven5975
      @MrSteven5975  Před 21 dnem

      lol, I thought everyone everyone would have a good laugh or unsubscribe…. Lol

  • @Neal_only1
    @Neal_only1 Před 21 dnem +2

    Pretty funny, we'll be seeing you tomorrow

  • @megadeth999polaris
    @megadeth999polaris Před 21 dnem +2

    Wrathchild America has a song with this title.

  • @philrose7716
    @philrose7716 Před 21 dnem +1

    That book is a free download on the internet either PDF or Epub as (ebook)

  • @comm2531
    @comm2531 Před 21 dnem +1

    Im surrounded by idiots but im never an idiot.

  • @jsully4064
    @jsully4064 Před 21 dnem +1

    Ah yes, lots of idiots everywhere. Good video, Steve...Jim

  • @CraigKerwood-001
    @CraigKerwood-001 Před 21 dnem +1

    Another one is: "Unf*ck Yourself" by Gary John Bishop

  • @TDE1593
    @TDE1593 Před 21 dnem +1

    Steve, anyone exploding "at the drop of a dime" at a minimum have a behavioral issue at worst Explosive Temper Disorder. Both are treatable.

  • @Neal_only1
    @Neal_only1 Před 21 dnem +2

    Steve, do they have a VFW or American Legion like here in Manila

  • @jamesalan1354
    @jamesalan1354 Před 21 dnem +1

    Cool, hey we need some new apartment videos.

  • @comodice905
    @comodice905 Před 13 dny +1

    Too late I left there 1976

  • @MrDarrenkt
    @MrDarrenkt Před 21 dnem +2

    Hi Steve sounds a good read heheh ,i:m sure they are other book with amusing titles good to see you hope all well

  • @blackwoodrichmore4531
    @blackwoodrichmore4531 Před 21 dnem +1

    Hi Steve, if you're really into reading, then you might enjoy a Pulitzer prize winning book entitled:
    "A Confederacy Of Dunces", by John Kennedy Toole.
    It's humorous, & if you read it, you may recognise the story's characters in other people.
    🤠🍻👍🏻

  • @thomasrobson6370
    @thomasrobson6370 Před 21 dnem +1

    I know I'm an idiot 😔.

  • @zzashkittyzzonna2474
    @zzashkittyzzonna2474 Před 21 dnem +1

    There is freedom of speech by constitution if someone wants to boast about their
    Fortune they should be able to, without being critized by vloggers.