Yes but also I think it's great for the 2 left that he's made that decision. Means baby isn't a burden but a choice. Means baby has a devoted parent. Could have had nothing less.
Omg … you just yanked my heart out of my chest 😢… that is so tragic … wow I think I’m putting my phone down and praying for them … and Iam not so religious but this deserves a prayer
As a Respiratory Therapist, pulmonary embolism is such a quick, tragic death! You can be in mid conversation with a patient and they stop, their pupils dilate and they slump...gone! In a moment! That poor man! Raising a newborn alone, I'm sure with help from otherst, still. Condolences to him!
Amen Kim! I'm a retired ICU RN & I've seen this & some happened after a long bone break. We're never in charge, I'm in Vegas, saw wealthy, " celebrities " that Never got that message!
@@sherriehinz6582 Yes, that was patient was a motorcycle accident with long bone fx, and another was a fresh post op gallbladder. Both in their 20's. And another post C-section, got her heart back and that was it. More common than most folks know. God bless you!
I was 45 when I had my husband’s first child. He’s a bit younger than me. This sort of thing scared him to death. He has no family out here to help him. He tells me all the time he’d be lost without me. I know he wouldn’t, but it’s nice to be appreciated.
My wife just told me a month ago that we're having our fourth child I did not need to hear that right now. But my thoughts and prayers go out to this man that had to be the most horrible thing happened to him. God please bless his family and that poor child that has to grow up without a mother
For his daughters sake I’m still glad he came to that realization because if he had decided his career would be more important her life would have been terrible.
His family is even more important, now. He has to love that baby for both of them. I hope he & his baby are doing well. She left him the best thing she had, the ultimate symbol of her love for him, her child.
As much as this story is tragic I think he may feel his revelation of family first, this set him up to be a great dad. He will always remember his choice life and family are the best for him to reflect on.
Wow & we all think the problems that we are dealing with at this very moment are so profound until you hear something like this & realize this man's whole world is totally rocked & changed- forever
This is the exact kind of moment that breaks people and makes them hate “God” or whatever controls fate. Just such an unbelievably cruel twist of the knife, and for no identifiable reason.
That would be so devastating. I remember when we had our last child my wife had to have a c section and I was SO nervous about something going wrong. Can’t imagine what that nightmare coming true would feel like while also having to care for a newborn child alone.
My wife died in my arms from a pulmonary embolism. My kids were 8 and 6 years old. I raised them by myself. They are grown and doing very well. The family became number one for me
True, my ex had a stroke about 3 weeks after giving birth to my daughter. The lady that was left was not the same person, and my dream of a family, a father, mother, kids, and wham it's all over.
@@danajaye2911 I look at it this way. What happened to the mans wife and boys mother may have been unavoidable (God doesn't control everything, we have free will and with that bad things eventually happen to people, even if the cause of those bad things happened deep in the past, or even by other people). He was given the opportunity to decide what type of father he was going to be, committing to family or business. Imagine with me for a second how those choices could have effected him after finding out his wife died; If he had chosen business he would have likely sunk his time into it, ultimately neglecting his child in one way or another (he may have rationalized it by saying he was providing for him but there would still be some level of neglect, I'm sure you know that old story). If he had chosen family he would have likely sunk his time into his child, allowing them to both heal from their loss because they were together in a loving and connected state. God can't interfere with free will, but knowledge and wisdom can be passed down. Allowing free will based in truth rather than free will based in ignorance. There's more to the dynamic and I'm not very much a fan of the word "God" because of its ties to confused theologies, but there is more to reality than meets the eye.
My first child died when I was 25. I was fired for leaving work to go to the hospital. Next day.. my daughters mother, my wife, died. I had it all figured out. Yet lost it all in 2 days. Life is fickle. Got to keep on truckin son.
It is true, once you see your first born child it becomes all about the child. The child is the future. Your legacy. The sad thing is some people do not achieve that realization.
@@dr.decker8185 Jesus Christ loves you , friend!!! God wants to show you and do great things in your life but you must surrender and choose correct over wrong !!! Be a light in this dark world! I promise you God is absolutely real brother!!!! Surrender to The Lord Jesus Christ and repent from our ugly and sinful actions and thoughts and you actually feel better!!! Come to Jesus and He will show you amazing things!!! I pray you come into the light and fight the good fight!!!!
He lost so much, yes, horrible. But, his wife left him something else to love for the rest of his life. His baby is something. Know it isn't the same as his wife and child together, but his last comment.... "as everything is taken from me" also made me sad.
Legit a few weeks ago a close friend lost his wife. 36 years old. She had cancer for a long time and it effected her reproduction ability. Told they would never have a child. Crazy enough, they had/have a beautiful little girl. She's 2 now. She just started to break down. Loosing all of her weight. Not being able to walk. And just left for the next chapter in this world. I'm just broken thinking about them. About their daughter not really knowing her mother. It I think at the moment is saving his life cause he is broken. Try and check in on those people that really need it. Be a friend. Be a brother. Be there.
I have a friend who is Extremely wealthy ....he's in the 1%. However he has zero peace of mind and a tragic family relationship with his family. In truth he is one of the poorest people I know. This story is for all of us rich and poor.
Says it’s “Sort of a sad story” and then proceeds to tell the absolute worst nightmare of any married man 😂
Only sort-of a sad story! I wonder what his idea of a sad story is?
He comes from the Dog eat Dog world.
Getting divorced and losing your children is worse
@@george2113 Both are hell but this has bombshell shock
@@carlosmarcos4070 not only that but the dude said, "everything was taken away from me" where'd his child go???
I literally don't know what to say...how absolutely horrifying, heartwrenching... there are no words...
That was quite a few words, actually
🤣
He said he was just gonna let life be his family... he already accepted it at that moment...
Makes you question everything..
That is so sad, especially for the baby who never knew the Mama. 😢
Yep, I feel for the husband, but weep for the child.
@K M W lmao what a miserable life you must have 😂
Yes but also I think it's great for the 2 left that he's made that decision. Means baby isn't a burden but a choice. Means baby has a devoted parent. Could have had nothing less.
When he said everything is taken away, I thpught, well he still has the baby..so not everything. Just the same, very sad.
That baby knew the mother for about 9 months !!! 🙏🇺🇸
Omg … you just yanked my heart out of my chest 😢… that is so tragic … wow I think I’m putting my phone down and praying for them … and Iam not so religious but this deserves a prayer
Thank you. 💔
As a Respiratory Therapist, pulmonary embolism is such a quick, tragic death! You can be in mid conversation with a patient and they stop, their pupils dilate and they slump...gone! In a moment! That poor man! Raising a newborn alone, I'm sure with help from otherst, still. Condolences to him!
I guess the silver lining is it was quick and painless. But man that is absolutely tragic
Amen Kim! I'm a retired ICU RN & I've seen this & some happened after a long bone break. We're never in charge, I'm in Vegas, saw wealthy, " celebrities " that Never got that message!
@@sherriehinz6582 Yes, that was patient was a motorcycle accident with long bone fx, and another was a fresh post op gallbladder. Both in their 20's. And another post C-section, got her heart back and that was it. More common than most folks know. God bless you!
I was 45 when I had my husband’s first child. He’s a bit younger than me. This sort of thing scared him to death. He has no family out here to help him. He tells me all the time he’d be lost without me. I know he wouldn’t, but it’s nice to be appreciated.
probably not. dude had money. other than that fathers are seen as second class citizens in our society.
Damn. Hit me right in the feels
My wife just told me a month ago that we're having our fourth child I did not need to hear that right now. But my thoughts and prayers go out to this man that had to be the most horrible thing happened to him. God please bless his family and that poor child that has to grow up without a mother
For his daughters sake I’m still glad he came to that realization because if he had decided his career would be more important her life would have been terrible.
I lost my wife this way, 9 days after our second child was born. It ruptured and she was gone. Sorry for your friend.
His family is even more important, now. He has to love that baby for both of them. I hope he & his baby are doing well. She left him the best thing she had, the ultimate symbol of her love for him, her child.
That is so sad. Prayers for that man and son 🙏🙏🙏
Poor guy and poor baby! I hope they're both doing okay.❤
"Sort of a sad story" - jeeezuus, it's heart breaking..
As much as this story is tragic I think he may feel his revelation of family first, this set him up to be a great dad. He will always remember his choice life and family are the best for him to reflect on.
Its so tragic, but everything wasn't taken away. He is still a father. He still has a family.
Wow! this clip is a punch in the gut
Its almost like as soon as you make a plan in life, the powers that be change everything about your plan.
It's moments like this that give you hope in humanity. However, LIFE relishes every opportunity to beat you down.
Life is what happens while your busy making other plans..feel sad for them..damn
Wow & we all think the problems that we are dealing with at this very moment are so profound until you hear something like this & realize this man's whole world is totally rocked & changed- forever
This is the exact kind of moment that breaks people and makes them hate “God” or whatever controls fate. Just such an unbelievably cruel twist of the knife, and for no identifiable reason.
So sad that his wife died but he still has a family his child is his family
That's Heartwrenching! 😢😢😢
Been seeing this clip all over. Everyone should see it. 😊
Life will keep you on your toes and never be easy
I'm so sorry for that guy. . It certainly changed his life. Can you imagine the horrific shock. Finding out she passed away. .
Definitely profound and endearing!
How devastating may God bless him for the rest of his life.😢❤❤
That would be remarkably difficult to overcome. Wow.
Me: hears the saddest story I've ever heard in my life
This guy: I'll tell you an *interesting* story
That would be so devastating. I remember when we had our last child my wife had to have a c section and I was SO nervous about something going wrong. Can’t imagine what that nightmare coming true would feel like while also having to care for a newborn child alone.
This is me but anytime I'm not depressed the world's hold up! Why is he happy. Breaks my transmission
Good one I ask both times for happy healthy and safe child and know 23 years later I think God blessed me with my wishes
The day I saw my first kid .... nothing matter, just for family be happy.
Life gets pretty bad sometimes, just remember that it could always be worse.
Damn it! I want ready for that!
Whoa…. I think that was God putting those thoughts in his head so he automatically knew what his path was♥️☮️🌹🙏
Wow..that's..no words
Saddest story I’ve ever heard!
My wife died in my arms from a pulmonary embolism. My kids were 8 and 6 years old. I raised them by myself. They are grown and doing very well. The family became number one for me
HEARTBREAKING 😢
Crap…. That tore me apart hearing that. 😔
Prayers for that guy
Where I'm from family is first no exceptions. Family is the church we should all be attending. In my opinion.
He says he still remembers till this day... i would hope so
Life,literally. 😊
Wow...
God bless your triumph
Wow, that's terrible, am sorry to hear abawt this
True, my ex had a stroke about 3 weeks after giving birth to my daughter. The lady that was left was not the same person, and my dream of a family, a father, mother, kids, and wham it's all over.
That was God telling that guy something important
Thats bullshit
What...?
Yes exactly. Glad somebody out there understands this!!
@@fruityflavored4517 when a deep and monumental thought comes suddenly from nowhere. It’s god speaking
@@danajaye2911 I look at it this way. What happened to the mans wife and boys mother may have been unavoidable (God doesn't control everything, we have free will and with that bad things eventually happen to people, even if the cause of those bad things happened deep in the past, or even by other people). He was given the opportunity to decide what type of father he was going to be, committing to family or business. Imagine with me for a second how those choices could have effected him after finding out his wife died;
If he had chosen business he would have likely sunk his time into it, ultimately neglecting his child in one way or another (he may have rationalized it by saying he was providing for him but there would still be some level of neglect, I'm sure you know that old story).
If he had chosen family he would have likely sunk his time into his child, allowing them to both heal from their loss because they were together in a loving and connected state.
God can't interfere with free will, but knowledge and wisdom can be passed down. Allowing free will based in truth rather than free will based in ignorance.
There's more to the dynamic and I'm not very much a fan of the word "God" because of its ties to confused theologies, but there is more to reality than meets the eye.
Damn, praying for that guy.
Oh my word, that is so sad
When he says and he still remembers to this day
Yeah no shit
Schrodinger's cat got me wondering if he chose wrong
Sometimes people report knowing the moment a loved one dies even across the planet...I think it was like this
I know this for a fact unfortunately!
Thrust into the reality of utter commitment because of tragedy to the singular cause of child rearing...and not even flinching. Thats courage !
Just Dang!!!😢
Hopefully he is a good dad?!🤷♂️
So sad !!😔
Life has a funny way in both a good and bad to reminds that everything is temporary.
Each one with his own challenges
Heartbreaking! God family country, community.
This one hit me hard 😢
My first child died when I was 25. I was fired for leaving work to go to the hospital. Next day.. my daughters mother, my wife, died. I had it all figured out. Yet lost it all in 2 days. Life is fickle. Got to keep on truckin son.
That's so sad😢
It is true, once you see your first born child it becomes all about the child. The child is the future. Your legacy.
The sad thing is some people do not achieve that realization.
God
There is none.
@@dr.decker8185 Jesus Christ loves you , friend!!!
God wants to show you and do great things in your life but you must surrender and choose correct over wrong !!!
Be a light in this dark world!
I promise you God is absolutely real brother!!!! Surrender to The Lord Jesus Christ and repent from our ugly and sinful actions and thoughts and you actually feel better!!!
Come to Jesus and He will show you amazing things!!! I pray you come into the light and fight the good fight!!!!
He lost so much, yes, horrible. But, his wife left him something else to love for the rest of his life. His baby is something. Know it isn't the same as his wife and child together, but his last comment.... "as everything is taken from me" also made me sad.
Dam!!! So fing sad
Really sad
Legit a few weeks ago a close friend lost his wife. 36 years old. She had cancer for a long time and it effected her reproduction ability. Told they would never have a child. Crazy enough, they had/have a beautiful little girl. She's 2 now. She just started to break down. Loosing all of her weight. Not being able to walk. And just left for the next chapter in this world. I'm just broken thinking about them. About their daughter not really knowing her mother. It I think at the moment is saving his life cause he is broken. Try and check in on those people that really need it. Be a friend. Be a brother. Be there.
Man makes plans and the gods laugh.
Kinda like Job.
Tragic 😢
OMG 😥❤️
I have a friend who is Extremely wealthy ....he's in the 1%. However he has zero peace of mind and a tragic family relationship with his family. In truth he is one of the poorest people I know.
This story is for all of us rich and poor.
Ain't that just the way it goes?
Well thanks, Captain Buzzkill.
God is good
This happened to me too
Thats life
So sad.
There has to be a lesson in there somewhere. WHAT!!!
Realization and loss are related.
That thought was his wife making sure he knew what was most important.
Damm😢
I feel for the kid. Guilt once he/she learns the story😢
Giving birth is no joke. It could literally be a life/death Russian Roulette situation
Nice Ayrton Senna shirt
This happened to my auntie a few years ago. Her husband is still broken 🥺
As the Dude buys a single banana! Yeah 🤦
** Life is a mystery **
That’s a sad thing. Interesting thought, he only bought himself a banana not two so his wife who just labored for however long.
His tone definitely did not set the tone for that story... what an ending...
Life always was my family not me family
Their first kid…. How did a second kid come to be?
Mb harvested her eggs
❤😢❤
Norm Macdonald would have killed this joke.
Then again, venture capitalism has its perks.
Man who steel's banana man then puts into great bung holio meets the great banana maker in the skylight zone.
😲OMG 😲 💔 😭