Abby Lee Miller Should NEVER Teach Kids Again | Dance Moms Analysis

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  • čas přidán 2. 10. 2023
  • The hit Lifetime show, Dance Moms, aired for 8 seasons straight. It isn't rare to see clips from the series to go viral on various social media platforms and with this, many people have noticed the traumatic reality of being on a show like Dance Moms. With the dance teacher, Abby Lee Miller, starting a new show, I wanted to discuss why Abby Lee Miller should never teach kids again.
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  • @zarinarapstv7894
    @zarinarapstv7894 Před 7 měsíci +1203

    Can’t get past her forcibly kissing a child on camera and then proceeding to force that child to kiss another child … that’s criminal behavior

    • @jetchiken
      @jetchiken Před 7 měsíci +57

      Oh my god WHAT
      That's disgusting

    • @sarahdanielle12
      @sarahdanielle12 Před 7 měsíci +29

      i honestly don’t remember seeing nor probably processing her kissing Maddy but forcing her to kiss the boy i agree was weirdo behavior

    • @zarinarapstv7894
      @zarinarapstv7894 Před 7 měsíci +51

      @@sarahdanielle12 Abby grabs Maddy’s face and kisses her in the video!

    • @sarahdanielle12
      @sarahdanielle12 Před 7 měsíci +24

      @@zarinarapstv7894 oh, yes i saw and realized now! it just never connected that abby did that to her 😭 it was they way she placed her hands on her face which is messed up anyway

    • @remigal899
      @remigal899 Před 7 měsíci +30

      That’s such degenerate behavior. She should be in jail or punished for her abuse in some way at least.

  • @Dolphinboi
    @Dolphinboi Před 7 měsíci +1148

    Abby’s hateful racism towards Nia should be discussed more. Poor girl.

    • @redvelvet6604
      @redvelvet6604 Před 7 měsíci +26

      I agree.

    • @smileyfan16
      @smileyfan16 Před 7 měsíci +51

      I always thought Jill was racist towards Nia.

    • @miriam.6304
      @miriam.6304 Před 7 měsíci +6

      Spot on!

    • @catieq5270
      @catieq5270 Před 7 měsíci +8

      She has another video that goes in depth about that

    • @JadeFalconer
      @JadeFalconer Před 7 měsíci

      If y’all really think that this is racism your actually delusional

  • @shaylahatchett5722
    @shaylahatchett5722 Před 7 měsíci +570

    I would love to know your take on Sia's obsession with Maddie as well! I think these adults having such an intense interest in her at such a young age has always been super weird.

  • @emilyrosefunk1342
    @emilyrosefunk1342 Před 7 měsíci +397

    Growing up, I would watch Dance Moms every Tuesday night (when new episodes would air). I loved watching the dancing and I always wished I could dance like them… but now as an adult, I feel so bad. They are being straight up abused 😭

    • @genesiselaine
      @genesiselaine Před 7 měsíci +28

      literally same. made me want to be a dancer but now that i’m in college and learning ab childhood development im appalled a production crew sat around and lined their pockets whilst all this happened

  • @shaniahpaster12
    @shaniahpaster12 Před 7 měsíci +252

    That episode Maddie Ziegler forgot her solo there was a bonus scene on the show that didn't air but Abby was screaming and yelling at maddie the judge came in and said Maddie was allowed to dance again she yelled at him and maddie and said no the only reason abby hugged Maddie bc the producers told her to and the main reason abby was crying that day was bc her mom was in the hospital

    • @JulianSteve
      @JulianSteve Před 7 měsíci +55

      Wow, Abby’s the worse….

    • @murderjai
      @murderjai Před 7 měsíci +48

      not related but maddie has said abby has pinched her so hard she bled once.. shes insane

    • @shaniahpaster12
      @shaniahpaster12 Před 7 měsíci +45

      @@murderjai wow and people still say Maddie was Abby's favorite no Abby she liked that she can manipulate and abuse Maddie without her mom stoping it that's the only reason Maddie was Abby's " favorite"

    • @emmyjo720
      @emmyjo720 Před 7 měsíci +23

      Abby gaslit Maddie for years...and abused her sister...

    • @gaylittlegoblin
      @gaylittlegoblin Před 6 měsíci

      yea everyone talks about maddie like shes also a villain when she got tons of breakdowns cuz of the show but nobody talks about it

  • @CurlMvrck
    @CurlMvrck Před 7 měsíci +148

    Abby didn't like Chloe because she wished she had the beautiful face and long lines like Chloe. She hated Jojo because she couldn't break her spirit. She was just straight up racist when it came to Nia.

  • @sadgurlhrs6289
    @sadgurlhrs6289 Před 7 měsíci +179

    Abby didn’t like Chloe bc even with the INSANE lack of attention, instruction and basic respect you show to a student she still won. she set her up to fail intentionally so many times and Chloe still prevailed regularly. that’s why she tore her down the way she did cause she figured well I’m not teaching her shit and she’s still pulling out wins, better start making her question if she’s good or worthy at all. it’s twisted.

    • @MotherofWeePigs
      @MotherofWeePigs Před 6 měsíci +10

      Narcissistic of her

    • @jasmineblaylock1319
      @jasmineblaylock1319 Před 4 měsíci +5

      In my opinion Chloe was honestly better than Mattie. The reason I feel Maddie did better was because Abby treated her better, gave her better materials, and gave her more opportunities than she gave Chloe. I feel that if Chloe were given the same opportunities as Mattie she would have excelled and done soooo much better than the rest.

    • @paulocosta795
      @paulocosta795 Před 4 měsíci

      She barely won tho. She only won 12 times in about 50 solos

    • @raevyn1463
      @raevyn1463 Před 4 měsíci +1

      ​@@paulocosta795 she may not have won 1st place all the time but in most of her solos she either had a really good score or placed in the top 3-5. Overall she regularly succeeded in many ways and clearly Abby had some sort of jealousy lol

    • @paulocosta795
      @paulocosta795 Před 4 měsíci

      @@raevyn1463 Maddie won 54 out of her 64 solos. Only 2 times did she not score in the top 3. Forgot only one solo and got 4 th place with musical theatre

  • @abigaelrarts2257
    @abigaelrarts2257 Před 7 měsíci +127

    there is no reason to add a kiss in a dance between 8/9 year olds. it's just completely unnecessary and of course is going to make them uncomfortable. idc if it's completely innocent. also abby kissing her? absolutely not! she didnt consent to that.

  • @ToMockaKillingBird
    @ToMockaKillingBird Před 7 měsíci +164

    The way Nia backed up when Abby was aggressively making a remark on her braids was really heartbreaking. Abby is deffs someone who never cared about the passion, only having a sense of power over others hence why kids were an easy target. 🥲
    Also good luck with your move, sounds so exciting 💃🏽

  • @oliviahunter2821
    @oliviahunter2821 Před 7 měsíci +136

    I have friends who are now professional dancers, and they’ve had some strict instructors. Even their strictest instructors haven’t been as problematic as Abby has been.

  • @AimeeStClaire63
    @AimeeStClaire63 Před 7 měsíci +132

    26:56 I had no clue Abby stole Maddie’s first kiss then made her kiss a little boy saying it’s no big deal. Wtf.

    • @ToniBryanneTV
      @ToniBryanneTV  Před 7 měsíci +42

      Yup, I didn't remember that part either until researching!

    • @JulianSteve
      @JulianSteve Před 7 měsíci +31

      Yeah, when you think about it. It’s really unhinged. Shaking my head🤦🏾‍♂️….

    • @bibsp3556
      @bibsp3556 Před 2 měsíci +1

      It's maybe the worst kind of message you could send to kids? especially as a coach. Insane.

  • @rheathecreative5612
    @rheathecreative5612 Před 7 měsíci +159

    Growing up and watching these episodes, I always thought that this grown up woman would always perpetuate her own insecurities about herself onto the students she taught. These were children who were judged in front of millions of people and now that they’re older adults, they will have to deal with the adults who treated them so bad, mainly their own dance teacher.

  • @citrinestone6884
    @citrinestone6884 Před 7 měsíci +74

    I saw her in the airport recently (I work there and helped her up to TSA). She had another prodigy with her and she looked as miserable as ever. I just felt so bad for the little one 😭

  • @phillinsogood
    @phillinsogood Před 7 měsíci +112

    I’m surprised Nia and her mom stayed on this show for so long I get contracts but couldn’t be me

    • @azizablackgal
      @azizablackgal Před 7 měsíci +16

      Holly wanted that check!!

    • @phillinsogood
      @phillinsogood Před 7 měsíci +17

      @@azizablackgal lol she sure did 😂😂 cuz ain’t no way I would’ve stuck around that long as a black person

    • @blackcurlmagicgrey-sloan8640
      @blackcurlmagicgrey-sloan8640 Před 7 měsíci +14

      I wish all of the parents just own up to the fact that they stayed because they wanted the check. Constantly talking about being under contract is bullshit to me especially when your child’s mental health is it stake

    • @thatvalensteingirl
      @thatvalensteingirl Před 17 hodinami

      Those contracts had to be renewed; Holly sold Nia's mental health, happiness, and well being for that check and those 'opportunities' that lifetime/collins avenue provided just to create drama for the show.

  • @idk_5681
    @idk_5681 Před 7 měsíci +49

    There is a difference between strict and just straight up being abusive. She’s just making excuses

  • @kimmyt1024
    @kimmyt1024 Před 7 měsíci +46

    The mindset of “well someone’s going to be mean to you so I’ll be mean to you to toughen you up” is so confusing to me… it’s like telling people to watch out for flying objects before throwing an object at them

    • @phoebevaughan5095
      @phoebevaughan5095 Před 7 měsíci +13

      It's basically glorifying abuse to these girls. It's a miracle Maddie and girls like her are as nice as they are considering what they went through.

    • @YouKnowImOnMyPeriodYah
      @YouKnowImOnMyPeriodYah Před 7 měsíci +8

      It’s also normalizing and excepting the toxic industry and abuse. How about we work to get rid of the toxicity in show business so that future performers don’t have to experience that? Why are we just excepting the awfulness?

  • @mommak10
    @mommak10 Před 7 měsíci +74

    The episode that was most heartbreaking to me was the episode where Abby made fun of Chloe’s eye (the producers edited it), and Chloe heartbreakingly say “I heard Abby “ 😢

  • @nathalianunez6692
    @nathalianunez6692 Před 7 měsíci +60

    Maddie was 10-11 at the time she did the kiss. But still, that was creepy and wrong.
    Also, when the Moms sat in the parking lot, wasn’t only because of Kelly, it was a protest against the producers because the moms wanted a raise and a better environment for the kids

    • @emmyjo720
      @emmyjo720 Před 7 měsíci +9

      The issues with producers was the contracts which trapped them while their children were breaking, and the hours. The girls were working until midnight, had no time to eat, have showers or do homework...and were exhausted.

  • @officialJOY1229
    @officialJOY1229 Před 7 měsíci +56

    Parents allowing their children into the “industry”….evil.

    • @phoebevaughan5095
      @phoebevaughan5095 Před 7 měsíci

      Hollywood is a twisted place at times - has been since day 1 just look at how Judy Garland was drugged and molested at MGM studios. Awful.

    • @sharrrat96
      @sharrrat96 Před 7 měsíci +7

      Agreed

  • @laydi543
    @laydi543 Před 7 měsíci +262

    toni im proud of you, make sure to be more private with your location and also details because others can have it out for you for exposing them. people think you guys are small youtubers but when the script flips and the devil time runs out they’ll be gunning for everyone who is dying to fix things. im right there with you and thankful for your voice

    • @ToniBryanneTV
      @ToniBryanneTV  Před 7 měsíci +66

      Thank you so much!! Will make sure to be discreet. I appreciate you!

    • @belikejonae1022
      @belikejonae1022 Před 7 měsíci +2

      You’re paranoid

    • @artisthusnatalal3099
      @artisthusnatalal3099 Před 7 měsíci +37

      ​@@belikejonae1022The world is dangerous

    • @GoddessOfThree
      @GoddessOfThree Před 7 měsíci +29

      ​@@belikejonae1022​​ People get doxxed and threatened all the time...

    • @SmileAway21
      @SmileAway21 Před 7 měsíci

      @@GoddessOfThree Girl, all of the points in the video have been said before. No one’s going to get doxxed 😂

  • @sadgurlhrs6289
    @sadgurlhrs6289 Před 7 měsíci +39

    something I also see getting glossed over often is weekly comps with new numbers EVERY WEEK. i did competition dance for 12 years the mere idea of learning that many numbers, with a camera in your face, a grown woman berating belittling and bullying you then your mom fighting with your friends moms all on top of it like it’s literally insane to even think about

    • @sadgurlhrs6289
      @sadgurlhrs6289 Před 7 měsíci +11

      like they were learning group routines, duo/trios and solos in two days at like 9 years old that’s bonkers

  • @aromaladyellie
    @aromaladyellie Před 7 měsíci +74

    The way we just ignore child abuse when it’s filmed as “entertainment” is terrifying. From shows like this to those godawful “family vloggers”, abuse is rampant and let slide.

  • @awseven1144
    @awseven1144 Před 7 měsíci +59

    I think you’re spot on with your observation of how Abby stunted Maddie’s froth and long-term prospects as a dancer. I grew bored with her because she basically had the same dance every week and she never had the opportunity to challenge herself because Abby needed to stay in her fantasy. It’s just a shame, because I agree who knows how much farther she could’ve gone.

    • @bibsp3556
      @bibsp3556 Před 2 měsíci +2

      She was living in a narcissistic delusion, at the expense of literal children. And now because some got famous, mainly because they worked so hard, she's got an out to say "but it worked, they're famous now"

  • @babyg7796
    @babyg7796 Před 7 měsíci +45

    I literally never got into Dance moms. I watched a few episodes here and there and wasn’t here for it-and nor was my mom. My mom had me in gymnastics & competitive cheer from age 3-17/18 when I graduated HS. It got to a point for 2 years I was competing on 3 different teams-level 3, 4 and the Worlds team @ level 5 b/c I was that well rounded and there wasn’t enough girls who could memorize 3 different choreos for 3 different teams & perform them the day of competitions. Very frequently I was the ONLY black girl in the sea, and not to brag but I was always the top performer, gymnast, tumbler, flyer etc b/c of moms & coaches like Abby and I had to try 10x harder and DEMAND my respect even as a child. I blame the parents-my mom has had her fair share of cussing my coaches from hell and back in public & private for being disrespectful to a child(like telling me to lose weight) or backhanded racial comments and she never tolerated it. She even pulled me from a couple teams…all of which asked me to come back. I feel like the moms chased fame more than the kids did and felt ok to constantly put their kids in that mentally draining environment. If I could pick up on that as a young child, I know damn well the adults on this show could.

    • @lornacharles3858
      @lornacharles3858 Před 7 měsíci +2

      AMEN AND AMEN THE PERFECT WILL OF DADDY YESHUAH JESUS CHRIST IS LORD AND SAVIOR AND COMING BACK FOR HIS BRIDE, THE CHURCH 🥰🥰🥰.
      Your comment is BEAUTIFUL 🥰🥰🙂

  • @annadau8612
    @annadau8612 Před 7 měsíci +36

    Last night, I was re-watching season 8 of Dance Moms where Abby had a full new cast of dancers with Lilliana coming back on the team. There was a key scene where Abby is giving nasty criticisms left and right about the group dance and little 8 year old Lilly has a panic attack (hyperventilating, crying, can’t breathe, everything) and Abby chalks it up that it’s Lilly’s mom who caused the anxiety attack not Abby 😢 that made me so angry

    • @mommak10
      @mommak10 Před 6 měsíci +7

      Omg that panic attack was terrifying! It was just as bad as Paige’s panic attack when she couldn’t breathe 😢

    • @annadau8612
      @annadau8612 Před 6 měsíci +2

      @@mommak10 I know right.

  • @ilysm58
    @ilysm58 Před 6 měsíci +17

    When Chloe said I heard Abby my heart literally shattered like Abby was constantly abusing and berating Chloe

  • @bLYSfullyhere
    @bLYSfullyhere Před 7 měsíci +18

    That scene where Abby is crying to Maddie makes me violently uncomfortable. It is so horrible to watch.

    • @emmyjo720
      @emmyjo720 Před 7 měsíci +4

      Christi said it was sickening when she and Kelly talked about that episode. She was really upset. Maddie has panic attacks now.

  • @Liya_007
    @Liya_007 Před 7 měsíci +22

    There's also that time when she only accepted hugs for certain girls and pushed the others away and when she started a whole new rivalry between elliana and liliana

  • @evelinagocheva8083
    @evelinagocheva8083 Před 7 měsíci +15

    I am not a professional dancer but have had dance classes as a kid and in my adult life, the teacher should be able to demonstrate the move in order for the student to try understand and copy the move. How is this Abbey lady a dance teacher? We have never seen her dance.....am I missing something? Honestly confused

    • @evelinagocheva8083
      @evelinagocheva8083 Před 7 měsíci +2

      I just googled her and the fact that she was a dancer is still irrelevant if she CURRRNTLY can't physically demonstrate the movement ...🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @evelinagocheva8083
      @evelinagocheva8083 Před 7 měsíci +1

      @bingchungus I had no idea, fair enough I just haven't experienced that. So how does it work teaching dance if you can't dance? Do they do it verbally or showing videos of others people doing it? Genuinely curious

    • @madeleine.b8826
      @madeleine.b8826 Před měsícem +2

      @@evelinagocheva8083 I was a competitive dancer for about 6 years. U learn a lot of terminology in dance and are expected to know what words mean and most are in French, so u kinda just listen to what ur teacher says and convert the dance words into the dance moves if that makes sense lol. I can give examples if u don’t understand tho :)

  • @nayshine7875
    @nayshine7875 Před 3 měsíci +5

    I remember Kelly saying that Brooke was a straight A student taking AP and honors classes so she would consistently stay up until 1am every night to do homework since her daytime was dedicated to school. These kids were going from 6am in the morning to almost 11pm at night working. That’s more hours than most adults work.

  • @Boity_M
    @Boity_M Před 6 měsíci +16

    We need a ‘surviving Abby Lee’ documentary 😩

  • @JulianSteve
    @JulianSteve Před 7 měsíci +58

    Abby’s malicious to society. I give you props for giving her grace after all the negative she has done. I do know that Abby went through a lot of things and something’s we may not know. However, she shown a side of her on national television, and interviews that reflects her badly. At least she has a show now (yeah, I’m being a bit sarcastic)😅💯

  • @orlencadelacruz5166
    @orlencadelacruz5166 Před 7 měsíci +21

    Is the fact that as a teenager I would watch this madness. Now as a mom of 2 girls I can not fathom allowing a kid bully my girls let along a grown woman. Looking back this was pure madness.

  • @livenitup862
    @livenitup862 Před 7 měsíci +18

    What i also find weird is that abby was their dance teacher, but never taught them the actual routines. Is this normal? I'm from Germany and was a hobby dancer for a while& all of our teachers were our choreographers as well.

    • @ntielman2072
      @ntielman2072 Před 7 měsíci +5

      Ikr!! I'm wondering the same thing 🤔. I'm from the Netherlands, my dance teacher's have always been our choreographers as well.
      I see that Abby is in a wheelchair now, and am just wondering how she's going to be teaching these people to dance??
      and if she's not choreographing, then what is her role as "teacher" really?

  • @BeautifullAnyae
    @BeautifullAnyae Před 7 měsíci +20

    Abby = Ms. Trunchbull

  • @pearmarni
    @pearmarni Před 7 měsíci +17

    this is such a unique trauma to be carrying

  • @nesawest7506
    @nesawest7506 Před 7 měsíci +21

    We also have to hold the mothers accountable ,they let there children have to go through it

    • @orlencadelacruz5166
      @orlencadelacruz5166 Před 7 měsíci +4

      I absolutely agree with you. As I mom myself I don’t understand the mindset to allowed your child go through all this belittling and humiliation.

  • @jydakota95
    @jydakota95 Před 7 měsíci +23

    I don’t know if it’s unrealistic that Maddie would be “ helping the kindergartners” I just don’t think it was only Maddie. When I was in fourth or fifth grade, we had a program called reading buddies or something like that and the whole class was assigned a first grader to read with, and we did that during school for a couple of months or something I don’t specifically it was a long time ago. I assume what was happening with Maddie with something like that and her mom decided that it was a waste of Maddie’s time so she pulled her out of school.

  • @rebeccawatson4218
    @rebeccawatson4218 Před 7 měsíci +14

    Maddie was the favorite because Abby knew she and her mom and sister could be easily manipulated

  • @blackcurlmagicgrey-sloan8640
    @blackcurlmagicgrey-sloan8640 Před 7 měsíci +15

    season four and five were very dark. She pushed and pushed Chloe and Christy and it was hard to watch. Also the way that Melissa and Jill turned on holly and nia broke my heart. they were so scared of abby that they turned into mean girls. I also didnt like it when jill CONSTANTLY referred to her daughter as Maddies best friend. I always felt that was a jab to Nia . It was jills way of trying to get ahead and in the long run it NEVER WORKED

  • @raynashacannon4012
    @raynashacannon4012 Před 7 měsíci +14

    In regards to the tutoring thing it definitely happens. If you’re ahead or finishing your work that fast, the school gives it as an incentive. It’s basically a reward for “good students”. My friends and I throughout elementary, middle, school, and even in high school were given this option. Though I did not attend public schools so I can’t say for sure if they are different.

  • @dridri7296
    @dridri7296 Před 7 měsíci +16

    have you watched Bring It? It's refreshing to see a coach/dance teacher being tough and giving the girls tough love but also being caring and actually caring about all the girls!

  • @MelissaMayhem99
    @MelissaMayhem99 Před 7 měsíci +10

    Abby is like Tyra with ANTM with the whole "Do your time, this is how the industry is" bullcrap

  • @kimwithaheart
    @kimwithaheart Před 7 měsíci +23

    This is such a coincidence... I was just watching your dance moms video like, a few hours ago! And I wished it was longer, and here's a new video just posted! 😮

    • @ToniBryanneTV
      @ToniBryanneTV  Před 7 měsíci +8

      Omg I was wondering why it all of a sudden was spiking in views😭😭

  • @debbydavid5715
    @debbydavid5715 Před 7 měsíci +12

    The dancers never have to thank Abby, without you to teach she would never have had any relevance. It's your talent, your existence. She really had ugly internal issues

  • @aurorakulp7049
    @aurorakulp7049 Před 7 měsíci +13

    im currently rewatching dm for like the 100th time but as an adult I see it wayyyy different and wow is she a monster! im a dance teacher myself and could NEVER talk like this to kids…. do I get stern absolutely but this is disgusting

  • @markbelle8052
    @markbelle8052 Před 7 měsíci +7

    I danced for this company for 2 years as a child (2004) Abby is very much WHO SHE IS on this show. You would walk in excited to dance and leave out with anxiety and feeling like you were nothing.

  • @ashleydaugherty3373
    @ashleydaugherty3373 Před 7 měsíci +12

    In the same interview she was saying that the girls use to get beauty PR and she should of been the one to get it over them bc ppl would wanna buy it if she was using it promoting it😂😂😂😂 No One wants to be anything like this horrible rude and selfish woman. Mind blowing 🤯

    • @tianalee4126
      @tianalee4126 Před 7 měsíci +1

      her head is in the clouds wow😭 i don’t understand why she doesn’t know that a majority of people find her and her behavior revolting. she is delusional.

  • @brainst3w
    @brainst3w Před 7 měsíci +24

    prayers and positive vibes for you and your next step! congratulations love 💕

  • @2hyucks
    @2hyucks Před 7 měsíci +14

    i just screamed because i rewatched your other dance moms video this morning and saw that you posted another one☺️

    • @ToniBryanneTV
      @ToniBryanneTV  Před 7 měsíci +4

      Yessss!!! I posted that video a year ago this week!

    • @JulianSteve
      @JulianSteve Před 7 měsíci +4

      That video’s really good and eye opening👏🏾!

  • @user-sd4jj1ku7e
    @user-sd4jj1ku7e Před 7 měsíci +9

    The way I’ve BINGED Dance Moms for the past few weeks! Oh, this is so the tea I need on this fabulous Wednesday. Abby was a M-E-DOUBLE S MESS, hunny! Whew! 😮‍💨

  • @hopeharlow9110
    @hopeharlow9110 Před 7 měsíci +12

    Contractually, ALL of the girls were managed by Abby. That’s what makes the favoritism so much worse, bc anytime a mom tried to do something outside of ALDC for their kids Abby would verbally abuse them

  • @user-zv5iz5nx3b
    @user-zv5iz5nx3b Před 7 měsíci +6

    KUDOS young lady....GOOD PRESENTATION 😊😎
    The deepest worst part are THE PARENTS sell or allow their own to be treated this way for MOUNTAINS of reasons 😮

  • @cabelgirl
    @cabelgirl Před 7 měsíci +15

    Just found your channel and have been bing watching. Started with the Hollywood videos, then the exploitative videos of children (mommy vlogging), etc. Great content! I swear, social media has brought a whole new world to life.. it's crazy when you put it all into perspective.

  • @Jayjen35
    @Jayjen35 Před měsícem +2

    The thing is - a lot of what Abbie did is fairly normal with serious dance students.
    Encouraging competition among the students, telling them that they need to copy what good students do - like extra classes, etc. - to be good themselves. That stuff happens in most successful dance schools.
    And in schools like the School of American Ballet (SAB) that feeds into New York City Ballet or the Jacqueline Onassis School that feeds into American Ballet Theater both have students from 10 years old. They spend part of the day in school but they leave school to go and take dance classes during the day. In some cases parents will homeschool their kids so that they can attend all of their dance classes.
    At 17 or 18 when most kids are getting ready for college kids that want to be professional dancers - for the most part - are beginning to audition for places in dance companies or for jobs in shows.
    This stuff is pretty normal for pre-professional dancers.

  • @Thesheepskingdom
    @Thesheepskingdom Před 7 měsíci +17

    They could have did the thumb thing to make them fake kiss so there lips aren’t actually touching

    • @bluebuffy5
      @bluebuffy5 Před 7 měsíci +3

      Or kiss on the cheek close to the lips

  • @rosannesweitzer4778
    @rosannesweitzer4778 Před 7 měsíci +8

    Great presentation! You definitely said everything right ! I always hated Abby , because of all the meanness that she said and did ! But we must not forget about the producers who brought on a lot of the drama. I am not watching this 'Mad House ' garbage! Good luck to you , Toni on your journey. Take care. 👯‍♂️👯👯‍♀️

  • @stephanieperez4775
    @stephanieperez4775 Před 6 měsíci +2

    I just found you this morning and I've already watched 3 videos. I really enjoy your fresh take on these topics and all the information you've gathered up 🎉 Thabk you!

  • @MyHandle14
    @MyHandle14 Před 7 měsíci +10

    Abby is the female cartman 🤧

  • @tabithamayer2442
    @tabithamayer2442 Před 4 měsíci +2

    The tough love thing has become like a thing. My kids have done competitive gymnastics and I pulled them out because of the coach. My kid is tough and she cried more than once. Theyve also had a dance teacher who was nuts.

  • @Yokohamadoll
    @Yokohamadoll Před 7 měsíci +7

    I absolutely enjoyed listening to this, love your deep dives 🙌🏼❤️

  • @niaanais895
    @niaanais895 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Asia from dance moms did a podcast interview with another girl off that show and they said Abby was horrible to them

  • @Catsaresupreme
    @Catsaresupreme Před 7 měsíci

    Yessss this mini documentary was so good. Congratulations on your new chapter 🎉❤

  • @blackcurlmagicgrey-sloan8640
    @blackcurlmagicgrey-sloan8640 Před 6 měsíci +4

    regards to her being kendalls manager she did that one video with her, maybe two was trying to put her against Nia because at the time Nia was getting attention from producers also recording. She lost interest very quick and shelved the rest of her music, then had the audacity to try to show interest in Niah’s recording career. It was a joke. Jill eventually sever ties with Abby as her manager, but that was conveniently once Abby was about to go to prison.

  • @luxedesignsresinart3611
    @luxedesignsresinart3611 Před 7 měsíci

    Full circle moment here. I found you from that first dance moms video last year and have been subbed ever since! 🎉

  • @graceymacca5165
    @graceymacca5165 Před 7 měsíci +16

    The fact I was obsessed with the show as a kid because my dad is the male version of Abby 🙃 word for word. I knew how those girls felt. My dads still the same angry nasty man. People don’t change :(( at least the girls had parents who loved them. I never got away from the negativity.

    • @phoebevaughan5095
      @phoebevaughan5095 Před 7 měsíci +2

      I'm so sorry for what you went through - and sadly I don't know if all these girls had parents who loved them. I think some - if not most - just wanted them on TV. It takes a child's childhood away and leaves them with scars. It's not good.

  • @fubyyzwrld
    @fubyyzwrld Před 7 měsíci +4

    the wheelchair kills me 💀

  • @rebellarose6434
    @rebellarose6434 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Abby needs to understand why she is wrong 😭

  • @Ferocious_Fairy
    @Ferocious_Fairy Před 18 dny

    @Toni Bryanne TV ~ *THANK YOU* for your 2 excellent videos about Dance Moms! I never watched the show and I love your critiques. Great job!!! 👏😊

  • @durrs1179
    @durrs1179 Před 7 měsíci

    Thinking back your original dance moms video is how I found you! Full circle lol love your content

  • @Danny-jr3uy
    @Danny-jr3uy Před 7 měsíci

    I LOVE when you make long videos ❤

  • @zoemosoeu1340
    @zoemosoeu1340 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Hey Tony... You have blossomed so beautifully...love from South Africa 😊

  • @juicy9575
    @juicy9575 Před 7 měsíci +5

    I love how you put scriptures I was talking to God and wanted help of reading scriptures and more ❤

  • @ozzzyd922
    @ozzzyd922 Před 7 měsíci +7

    Great videos. Sad how much content can be created of these dark topics though. You are stunning btw

  • @ninairish763
    @ninairish763 Před 7 měsíci +3

    The moms talked about the walkout for Kelly was actually really about them re-negotiating their contracts for a higher pay.

  • @calebivey1776
    @calebivey1776 Před měsícem +1

    Oh God i freaking love your voice!! Omg with each word and each pronunciation you drive me crazy baby girl!!!!

  • @sk8razer
    @sk8razer Před 5 měsíci +3

    Another tangent lmao
    I'm definitely thankful for certain things that I learned in university. But overall, I felt extremely pressured into going and I absolutely regret going. Especially since the Internet has made it so incredibly easy to learn outside of school. I love being a proficient writer (I swear I'm actually really good at writing, even though my comments are always bananas ramblings here lmao) and it was pretty cool having a background in epidemiology. But overall, I would 100% argue that it's *NOT* something everyone should do and it's not the safety net that it's presented to be. Though that may have to do with me entering the adult world around the housing market collapse.
    I originally went to university right after highschool, dropped out after a year, then went back at 24. So I've had a solid 9-10 years to really understand that it's not *that* much of a fall back.
    Getting a trade certification is a much more solid fallback. Especially with healthcare jobs, like nursing or dental hygien. And, yeah, it's true that a lot of trade certifications can be obtained via an associates degree at community college or a private trade college/ "university". But that's definitely *NOT* the same as the college experience that's available at large universities. Like, if you wanna have the experience that you're seeing on movies & shows about college life, then you really have to go to a larger university (one with Greek life) right after high school.
    But it's important to understand that a lot of people who go to university for that college experience have either considerable family contributions financially and/or hefty scholarships.
    Even if you're eligible for grants and lower income scholarships, attending university right after high school is probably going to be extremely stressful and it's probably going to drown you in a lot of debt that's not actually justified via the income opportunities afforded by your degree.
    A lot of university degrees offer salaries that are on the low end of middle income and the job market is extremely competitive... In case you've been wondering why so many people who have bachelor's degrees wind up going into trades or becoming CZcamsrs or continuing to be a barista or a server or whatever.
    Anyway, that was a much further tangent 😂😂😂
    If you don't have the financial means to have university be like high school part 2, then *do not* taking attending an expensive university right after school lightly. Very seriously consider a wide range of options, including the fact that you can start university in your mid 20s and older. Like if you decide you want to go to medical school or become a professor or something. Working in a trade or lower income job your preferred industry prior to trying to get into a highly competitive career path, like becoming a medical doctor, will help you A LOT. And simply being older and wiser can make getting a fantastic GPA much easier

  • @yanniewilliams
    @yanniewilliams Před 5 měsíci +2

    I've heard Abby had hate for Chloe n her mother because they would NOT sign a contract she was demanding be signed..and Kelly w the girls, it's said Abby did NOT want the girls on the show from the beginning!! She actually told producers they HAD NO TALENT!!

  • @allisonjoyell1702
    @allisonjoyell1702 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Your channel came across my feed. I saw a couple of videos and I immediately subscribed.🤩🤩
    You said you had a second channel I went to the search and I can't find it. I also checked your description box and I didn't see it. 🤔🤔 Can you please put it in your description box. When I searched "Toni Talks TV" it never pulled your second channel .
    Congratulations on your move I know you will continue to move up p

  • @kayysoocool5455
    @kayysoocool5455 Před 7 měsíci +3

    since we're on the subject of dance do bring it next

  • @wb9913
    @wb9913 Před 7 měsíci +15

    There’s a theory that Abby hates Chloe and Paige so much bc her own mother wasn’t very good to Abby, most likely having to with Abby not being the tall blonde beautiful dancer she wishes Abby was so she hates her two two blonde dancers bc Abby is weirdly jealous. I believe it, Abby is emotionally immature enough to do it

    • @soulangel835a
      @soulangel835a Před 7 měsíci +2

      I said something similar

    • @stacy4329
      @stacy4329 Před 7 měsíci +2

      I’ve always believed that this was a huge part of why Abby hated Chloe and Paige, because they were pretty, skinny blondes and Abby was jealous.

  • @jaydencannon-wright1180
    @jaydencannon-wright1180 Před 7 měsíci +6

    Toni, you make amazing. content

  • @lolamead5227
    @lolamead5227 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Love your channel, especially the scripture and quote right before 💕

  • @Betttty
    @Betttty Před 5 měsíci +1

    Very educational i learnt something from abby when you working with kids you need to be patient, selfless and understanding

  • @Guiltyangel605
    @Guiltyangel605 Před měsícem

    Great video! Great insight!

  • @shayanejulmice
    @shayanejulmice Před 7 měsíci +2

    omg i remember your dance moms video, it was the first video i saw on your channel

  • @AM-qg6bj
    @AM-qg6bj Před 6 měsíci

    Ohhhh I’m a new subscriber…Girl your hair up is SOOO Flattering of your face! Luv this look on you! Beautiful!

  • @cormacbowman6595
    @cormacbowman6595 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Go Toni!!

  • @genesiselaine
    @genesiselaine Před 7 měsíci +3

    OH GIRL LEMME GET MY SNACKS IM READY FOR THIS ONE

  • @jessienerdis4179
    @jessienerdis4179 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Omg I'm so excited to watch this but I have uni all day so excited for after though (or sneak during my break)

  • @karleeeveee
    @karleeeveee Před 7 měsíci

    girl u are slaying this look purr

  • @elsvaughn7959
    @elsvaughn7959 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Apparently her mother (Maddie) took her out of school so shed be ahead of the other girls. Abby said any of the girls cldve done the same thing if their mothers had done the same.
    Edit: you included it lol. I was allowed to practice AT school, but never leave. Thts ridiculous.

  • @gwendolynmorgan7803
    @gwendolynmorgan7803 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Great video. It does sound like a Melissa excuse to say "oh Maddie doesn't have to be at school because she's the best" lol.
    Random input: my religious school did have us teaching kindergartners how to read every morning. I think it was 3rd and 4th grade that I did that.
    I haven't heard of another school that had that setup though.

    • @YouKnowImOnMyPeriodYah
      @YouKnowImOnMyPeriodYah Před 7 měsíci +5

      My middle school gave us a kindergarten buddy and we would do activities with them sometimes and we went on a field trip together. I often wonder how she’s doing now lmao

    • @ToniBryanneTV
      @ToniBryanneTV  Před 6 měsíci +2

      We had that too at my school when I was in 4-8th, they called them our "prayer partners" lol. However, we met with them maybe once a month, never on a daily basis.

    • @gwendolynmorgan7803
      @gwendolynmorgan7803 Před 6 měsíci

      @ToniBryanneTV We had those, too! Haha It was a separate thing. We got paired off by grade (8+1,7+2,etc) My first partner was horrible and got kicked out of school 😆

  • @jennbati6277
    @jennbati6277 Před 6 měsíci +2

    I don’t believe they would pull a student out of class to help w smaller children they will get a staff a paid staff not a child. I don’t even think that would fly in high school tutoring is an extracurricular activity outside of school hours

  • @Laneybug
    @Laneybug Před 7 měsíci +4

    wow I was just waiting your dance mom video from a year ago and this popped up

    • @ToniBryanneTV
      @ToniBryanneTV  Před 7 měsíci

      Yessss, I would love to hear your thoughts!

  • @prophecychild
    @prophecychild Před 6 měsíci +1

    May God continue to guide and protect you on your journey be blessed ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sk8razer
    @sk8razer Před 5 měsíci +2

    7:47 this makes me so mad in the context of kids/teens & authority figures. They're not "talking back" and "being disrespectful". They're standing up for themselves because they feel that you are treating them unfairly or even cruelly.
    Even if you're actually being very reasonable and your behavior is in their best interest, punishing them for standing up for themselves is *not* the move. Try explaining your reasoning more clearly. If they're just struggling to deal with their disappointment, then talk with them about *that* and help them learn how to manage that emotional without needing to lash out at someone. Because disappointment is a frequent fact of life.
    Anyway, sorry for tha tangent lmao

  • @sgjdsyevkfhao
    @sgjdsyevkfhao Před 6 měsíci +1

    I love you are so wise all you say is true i also love that you are like a genuinly good person so you say like the truth and you are like a genuinly kind and calm person like i feel safe watching you and are so your so pretty like once i littrealy made a sketch(of your prifilepicture) because your so pretty and beutiful i love you you make life worth living i wish there was more people like you take care and have a great life❤❤❤❤

  • @miriam.6304
    @miriam.6304 Před 7 měsíci +2

    I love the biblical verse’s in the beginning of the video it’s always something I need to read at the moment!!

  • @leeparks15
    @leeparks15 Před 7 měsíci +4

    I would have BEEN flipped Abby! She had one time with mine!