How to Interview “Almost” Anyone | Mike Dronkers | TEDxHumboldtBay

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  • How to Interview “Almost” Anyone
    Mike Dronkers is the program director, music director, and mid-day host at KHUM-FM. Dronkers’ popular radio program has a devout following locally and nationally, and his behind-the-scenes work has earned
    him several national prizes, including an Edward R. Murrow award for radio documentary. Through his eclectic radio show he’s interviewed hundreds of people, including Grammy™ winners, Emmy™ winners, monks, authors, snipers, chemists, composers, lawyers, speed freaks, hobos and toddlers. He claims that they’re all equally interesting.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 189

  • @guiabohol9525
    @guiabohol9525 Před 4 lety +304

    Making the other person tell you how they are the "good guy in their own movie" -- that blew my mind.

    • @fernlulham8837
      @fernlulham8837 Před 4 lety +4

      I loved that quote too. Although I can imagine someone using it about another person who can never accept responsibility for their own actions: "He's always the good guy in his own movie!" Is that just my cynical mind? 🤔

    • @limathiam
      @limathiam Před 4 lety +3

      100 💯

    • @mutalemalama
      @mutalemalama Před 3 lety

      Aren’t ted talks great!

    • @AkankshaThokade
      @AkankshaThokade Před 3 lety +4

      Agreed! I loved that part too! Also this one - "Bored people are boring. Interested people are interesting."

    • @ThomasJordanTV
      @ThomasJordanTV Před 3 lety

      Agreed! Great quote!

  • @secondpsycho6577
    @secondpsycho6577 Před 4 lety +275

    Step 1: Do Prep Work.
    Me, who is just trying to get some tips for an interview in 15 minutes: "Oops."

    • @fernlulham8837
      @fernlulham8837 Před 4 lety +8

      Bonus tip: Find out tips on how to interview a good week in advance! 😃😉

    • @LizY9271
      @LizY9271 Před 3 lety +1

      😆😆😆😆😆

    • @Gloryfs
      @Gloryfs Před 3 lety +2

      I can relate but it is in 5 mins :|

    • @anishathete4123
      @anishathete4123 Před 3 lety +2

      So how was it?
      Also, how do get to interview people?
      I have a lot of questions for a lot of people but I am not sure as to how I can approach someone to sit down with me to answer them all

    • @ExoticNibbles2
      @ExoticNibbles2 Před 3 lety

      @@anishathete4123 easiest answer is to just ask

  • @calebbunch3990
    @calebbunch3990 Před 5 lety +163

    Before interview:
    1. Do some prep.
    2. Find interviewee's answers in other interviews for followup questions.
    3. Find verbal interviews for social cues and intangibles that interviewee will bring.
    During interview:
    4. Break the ice.
    5. Listen.
    6. Use dead air chicken.
    7. Set the table for your guest to be comfortable. Make curiosity your hobby.

  • @adamdeshon1275
    @adamdeshon1275 Před 3 lety +38

    Great advice not just for interviewing but for life. I use the line that "only boring people are bored" with my kids (which they don't much care for!). When I speak to Middle / High School kids about being an engineer I always include the advice to be curious. It is hands down the best thing you can have to a fulfilled life. Great Ted Talk Mike!!!

  • @lennon_richardson
    @lennon_richardson Před 5 lety +85

    "Curiosity is a muscle" - Mike Dronkers

    • @fernlulham8837
      @fernlulham8837 Před 4 lety +2

      I loved that quote too! I'm always gonna be flexing it now. 💪

    • @AkankshaThokade
      @AkankshaThokade Před 3 lety

      Ain't that beautiful ✨

    • @DJK-cq2uy
      @DJK-cq2uy Před 2 měsíci

      How original..I too can tupe..u 🤪

  • @moshefabrikant1
    @moshefabrikant1 Před 3 lety +57

    1:50
    Just be quiet
    2:03
    Prepare.
    Show your guest how much you know about them.
    And if they have a book look at other podcasts that interviewed him
    4:10
    Find verbal interviews of them
    5:20
    Look at the smallest podcasts. That interviewed the guy
    6:08
    Ask small question that bring you to other big topics
    6:56
    Focus and be present.
    8:35
    Set the table for your guest.
    Be interesting, and have curiosity.
    10:40
    Good guy in there own movie.

  • @emilioflores8052
    @emilioflores8052 Před 9 měsíci +8

    Love this! Some really great tips here! I myself am a journalist for two local papers and am wanting to expand and have my own podcast and become a better interviewer. Some notes that I made:
    Curiosity is a muscle, strengthen it and be curious about EVERYTHING! -Find fascination in everyone you talk to. Set the table and show the uniqueness that every individual has.
    I loved the quote you left with:
    “Every man I meet is my superior in some way and in that, I learn from him.”

  • @athathoitayenjam4770
    @athathoitayenjam4770 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you. This has been an eye opener

  • @theresnoi9792
    @theresnoi9792 Před 3 lety +42

    "how did you even know that" i immediately thought of hot ones

  • @nextcent
    @nextcent Před 4 lety +4

    Awesome content. Well delivered!

  • @BuildLessons
    @BuildLessons Před 4 lety +8

    Awesome advice!!! I've noticed through my limited interviews for my social media videos how hard it is to shut up! thanks for the great advice.

  • @user-cn2yq9by3z
    @user-cn2yq9by3z Před 4 lety +4

    I like how it is short and to the point!

  • @rasktattoocraze5320
    @rasktattoocraze5320 Před 5 lety +9

    Thnx sir..being a student it was of great use for me

  • @LotusHoshi
    @LotusHoshi Před rokem

    This was fantastic! God Bless!

  • @zach.bashir
    @zach.bashir Před 8 měsíci

    this guy was great, and straight to the point and flowed seamlessly

  • @seanwoodburn2616
    @seanwoodburn2616 Před měsícem

    It's predictably brilliant...
    Mike is one of the best interviewers I ever had the privilege of listening to.
    Cheers!

  • @GiadaValenti
    @GiadaValenti Před 4 lety +1

    Very helpful tips.Thanks

  • @melvinbowen2nd
    @melvinbowen2nd Před 5 lety +1

    Thanks Bryant for real love you bro!

  • @losmisteriosdeltarot
    @losmisteriosdeltarot Před 5 lety +6

    Awesome, ready to see some interviews on CZcams and to shut up. Thanks!

  • @pattsoyao2056
    @pattsoyao2056 Před 7 lety +20

    Awesome talk, very well said. I'm a Headhunter and I always tell my team that curiosity and enthusiasm is key to an interesting and engaging interview.

    • @stephenjemyers
      @stephenjemyers Před 2 lety

      Ask a question you fear being asked in an interview

  • @heyLORDitsme
    @heyLORDitsme Před 3 lety +2

    He’s so right about being curious about everything!!$

  • @Ricadamu
    @Ricadamu Před 4 lety

    Great tips Mike. Cheers.

  • @steveshepherd333
    @steveshepherd333 Před 5 lety +1

    Good stuff ... thanks 🙏🙂

  • @evander7654321
    @evander7654321 Před 6 lety +3

    Great advice that I use for my interviews for my YT channel!

  • @coachclaudius8160
    @coachclaudius8160 Před 2 lety

    Every person is worth listening to ... well said Mike

  • @alexandrgretsky4395
    @alexandrgretsky4395 Před 2 lety

    Very very useful. Thank you.

  • @oursmallmajority
    @oursmallmajority Před 3 lety +3

    This helped us improve our interview skills. Thanks a bunch!

  • @knight.jpeg.9334
    @knight.jpeg.9334 Před 4 lety

    This is fantastic

  • @pjgdba306
    @pjgdba306 Před 5 lety +8

    Great vid, nice share. The Emerson quote is a great platform to use with anyone - being interested is being generous, too.
    That strong statement comes to mind "Are you listening or just waiting to talk?"

  • @davidberry3126
    @davidberry3126 Před 3 lety +3

    My take away. Set the table for others and don't step on their answers. I think this is great advise.

  • @celebratelife865
    @celebratelife865 Před 3 lety +2

    Thanks for the great talk, it was very inspiring. I watched the TedX with Nardwuar yesterday and it was equally inspiring. I recommend it!

  • @Marshal_Dunnik
    @Marshal_Dunnik Před 4 lety +2

    Excellent advice. Especially the part about shutting up and letting your guest speak.

  • @fernlulham8837
    @fernlulham8837 Před 4 lety +13

    How many people have heard an interviewer who needed these tips? 😃 Loved this talk - so insightful and definitely something I will pull from in the future. Thanks, Mike! ❤️

    • @Winwithmonifa
      @Winwithmonifa Před 3 lety

      I will be conducting interviews and I need some tips

  • @lisaholmblad2831
    @lisaholmblad2831 Před 4 lety +1

    Sound quality could have been better, but I loove the content!!

  • @abrahamleancorne7852
    @abrahamleancorne7852 Před rokem

    Thanks so much !!!!

  • @ZertMusic
    @ZertMusic Před 4 lety

    Awesome killer speech!

  • @mohammadsatidjoyo311
    @mohammadsatidjoyo311 Před 4 lety

    thanks hombre for the tips

  • @tessayasmine3673
    @tessayasmine3673 Před 2 lety +9

    Any journalism students here? 😄

  • @CalebErosa
    @CalebErosa Před 2 lety +1

    I think 10:24 is the most important unspoken rule… you have to genuinely care and be genuinely open to hearing and learning from your interviewee.

  • @auyabbaby
    @auyabbaby Před 5 lety +2

    I don't know if i can like this video any more! I am currently struggling with this topic more and more that now since I've been interviewing on the regular. The message is trully insightful. Thank you TEDx!
    Creator name: raunchy_tacos.

  • @TheShutterSessions
    @TheShutterSessions Před 4 lety

    Great video

  • @davidberry3126
    @davidberry3126 Před 3 lety

    Awesome!

  • @alexanderSnilsson
    @alexanderSnilsson Před 7 lety +26

    Great tips - gonna go out practicing them today when im gonna record my rejection therapy challenge and ask random people about the meaning of life!

    • @kulwamapunda4414
      @kulwamapunda4414 Před 6 lety +1

      Alexander Nilsson its a duration of living born to death. Its a big gift god has given to living creatures.

  • @MARK-hk7bh
    @MARK-hk7bh Před 6 lety +65

    I'm really happy for you I'ma let you finish but nardwuar the human serviette is the best interviewer of all time

  • @socoden2732
    @socoden2732 Před 10 měsíci

    Good talk

  • @RobertPlank
    @RobertPlank Před 2 měsíci

    I've never thought about using silence as a tool in interviews before. The idea of 'dead air chicken' is both amusing and genius. Can't wait to see how it works in practice.

  • @westieweardogkilts9715
    @westieweardogkilts9715 Před 11 měsíci

    very helpful

  • @heneedssomemilk4156
    @heneedssomemilk4156 Před 3 lety +9

    What he said: dead air chicken
    What he actually meant: minecraft chicken slowly falling

  • @UrbanCraftTv
    @UrbanCraftTv Před 7 měsíci

    Very nice

  • @imanilwilliams
    @imanilwilliams Před 6 lety +3

    I got some good tips :) Thank you!

  • @JOSHOCEANS
    @JOSHOCEANS Před 5 lety

    Wow what a great vid

  • @dibyenduadhikary168
    @dibyenduadhikary168 Před 7 lety

    Hi Tedx,I think it's an odd question. but for me it's important to know, can you help me out please. if I go for a Skype interview and my Webcam positioning at the bottom of the screen(like dell xps 9560). Then does it could spoil the interview impression?

  • @voidnerdvs7660
    @voidnerdvs7660 Před 5 lety +7

    Amazing advice, even for my school paper that no one reads.

  • @sweetlife3623
    @sweetlife3623 Před rokem

    Every single person is worth listening to

  • @MissLesy
    @MissLesy Před 6 lety +16

    he reminds me of lew from ,unbox therapy

  • @keepthemomentum
    @keepthemomentum Před 5 lety

    Awesome job.

  • @NosebleeddeGroselha
    @NosebleeddeGroselha Před 3 lety +17

    I’m doing an interview for my college assignment in a few hours, it’s the first time I interview someone so I’m kinda nervous, I don’t want him to feel uncomfortable and the interview is about a culture I’m not 100% expert about so I’m scared of saying or doing something offensive.
    I’ll come back later saying how everything turned out!

  • @sweetlife3623
    @sweetlife3623 Před rokem

    Interviewing makes you a better person

  • @FeelingIsHealing
    @FeelingIsHealing Před 3 lety +3

    "Just shut up" Love that!

  • @jt3512
    @jt3512 Před 3 lety +5

    I have my first interview on camera tomorrow. I have done my prep questions, I have watched many of my guest's vids on CZcams, to get a real feel for her. The nerves are kicking in but I pray all goes well🙏

    • @hellohappyvegan
      @hellohappyvegan Před 3 lety

      How did it go????

    • @ThomasJordanTV
      @ThomasJordanTV Před 3 lety +1

      @@hellohappyvegan Looks like we had the same question haha

    • @hellohappyvegan
      @hellohappyvegan Před 3 lety

      @@ThomasJordanTV guess we’ll never know... hope it went well!

    • @ThomasJordanTV
      @ThomasJordanTV Před 3 lety

      @@hellohappyvegan Who knows, hopefully he replies sooner than later.

  • @sweetlife3623
    @sweetlife3623 Před rokem

    You are genuinely interested in your interview when you are learning from the person you are interviewing

  • @HaroldLathrop
    @HaroldLathrop Před rokem

    1A. just listen, be quiet 1B.I learned to sit back relax and listen. 2A.I think making curiosity m
    a hobby is great advice iy will allow me to learn and connect with a multitude of individuals.2B. I see myself prepping on various culture's and different activities to connect ct with clients.3A no questions about the interview process at this time.2B.I am looking forward to learning new things and how others think.3A. My concerns are that I may be to direct.

  • @Na9rawi87
    @Na9rawi87 Před 2 lety

    Larry king one of the few interviwers who listens to his guests silently also Marc Maron in his podcast. You can how comfortable the guest is.

  • @rishikachutani2508
    @rishikachutani2508 Před 5 lety +11

    Chandler 😁

  • @ojaswiishani372
    @ojaswiishani372 Před 2 lety +1

    I am going to interview people in few hours for my sociology assignment.

  • @itsaditya9832
    @itsaditya9832 Před 10 měsíci

    I have my first interview tomorrow and i don't even know who i am interviewing but gona try my best

  • @Gulchik_Art_pet_portraits

    Thank you!

  • @ana_goncalves
    @ana_goncalves Před 2 lety +2

    Jimmy fallon missed that first tip of "just SHUT UP"

  • @frankie7275
    @frankie7275 Před 6 lety +49

    Holy ear bleeding loud clap....

    • @chavanne3
      @chavanne3 Před 4 lety +2

      +Frankie rightttttttttttttt

  • @jinamatcharia8027
    @jinamatcharia8027 Před 2 lety +1

    And I always thought I fall in love with humans after interviews

  • @jinamatcharia8027
    @jinamatcharia8027 Před 2 lety

    I always thought that 8:50

  • @humblekellie7464
    @humblekellie7464 Před 5 lety +3

    He looks very good in those jeans , like they fit him perfectly

  • @WickN
    @WickN Před 4 lety +3

    Sean Evans is a master of this.

  • @leowhogoestothedojo8523

    Cool.

  • @davanmani556
    @davanmani556 Před 7 lety +2

    Trial and error

  • @sweetlife3623
    @sweetlife3623 Před rokem

    Definitely use icebreakers

  • @abdullahatif7854
    @abdullahatif7854 Před měsícem

    Thanks man, I just spent the last hour on similar topics, they had good content but they didn't have your style. Like seriously, as an interviewer or a starting-out interviewer I don't want to dehumanize the conversation with the traditional tactics.

  • @sweetlife3623
    @sweetlife3623 Před rokem

    As an interviewer you wanna hear from your guest "how did you even know that?"

  • @bethesdasupport5846
    @bethesdasupport5846 Před 4 lety +4

    Bethesda approves

  • @fatimazayed6010
    @fatimazayed6010 Před 4 lety

    let curiosity be your hobby

  • @flashmodeify
    @flashmodeify Před 4 lety +1

    Speaking of curiosity, I wanna know why one side of his shirt is tucked in and the other side isn't.

  • @pabloalonsorodriguez8339
    @pabloalonsorodriguez8339 Před 4 lety +2

    I was going to add a thank you comment but I think I rather shut up

  • @anishathete4123
    @anishathete4123 Před 3 lety

    Hey guys, can you please tell me how you get people for you to interview them?
    I would love to conduct these kinds of interviews but I don’t know how to approach people to come and sit down to let me interview them.

    • @anishathete4123
      @anishathete4123 Před 3 lety

      What is a polite way of asking, can we make a video interview because your life intrigues me
      (This is for the not so famous people, like they’ll probably respond to my DMs but might get awkward and suspicious of my intentions)

    • @wesleypatterson2284
      @wesleypatterson2284 Před 3 lety +2

      This is really late, but start small. Go for local entrepreneurs, politicians, media personalities, etc. As you gain more traction in whatever it is your conducting these interviews for, famous people will start coming to you

    • @anishathete4123
      @anishathete4123 Před 3 lety

      @@wesleypatterson2284 It’s not late at all, I’m still searching for ways, so thank you!
      I’ll be on the lookout for local newsworthy events and people to write about.
      Thanks again!

    • @wesleypatterson2284
      @wesleypatterson2284 Před 3 lety

      @@anishathete4123 No problem! Good luck!

  • @trshxgod8040
    @trshxgod8040 Před 3 lety +2

    I’m watching this bc my teacher made me

  • @drebr9721
    @drebr9721 Před 5 lety +10

    Tips:
    Study Nardwaur
    The end

  • @alexanderpadalka5708
    @alexanderpadalka5708 Před 4 lety

    🗽

  • @pavanshinde1634
    @pavanshinde1634 Před 3 lety

    Hisenberg lite

  • @PokeBaltz
    @PokeBaltz Před 8 měsíci

    Bored people are boring, interested people are interesting.

  • @lucialu2x
    @lucialu2x Před 2 lety

    1 prep
    2 relevant icebreaker
    3 shut up and listen
    4 be interested. Be curious.

  • @dracohendrix1668
    @dracohendrix1668 Před 2 lety

    CURIOSITY!! BE INTERESTED AND YOU’LL BE INTERESTING! Research the interviewee before the interview!
    Prep and practice before the interview.

  • @perdykool
    @perdykool Před 4 lety +1

    Okay I'm here to do some prep work because I am planning to meet with a celebrity I look up to and I have no idea how to talk to this person who is way "out of my league". I need to know how to make a conversation flow and not make it awkward be the one rambling. I need to learn to "shut up"

    • @gee2541
      @gee2541 Před 3 lety +1

      Who was it and how did it go?

    • @perdykool
      @perdykool Před 3 lety +1

      @@gee2541 was missing Amber Liu with her tour X starting I California. She was super chill, the sweetest personality and easy to talk to. Not awkward at all, just like meeting up with a best friend you haven't seen in awhile. Made a video of it to

    • @gee2541
      @gee2541 Před 3 lety +1

      @@perdykool Oh wow I hadn’t heard of her before but that must have been exciting :) Glad she was friendly and it went well! I’d love to do interviews like that in the future one day and get experience talking to public figures.

    • @perdykool
      @perdykool Před 3 lety +1

      @@gee2541 I've met a few celebs before and it's always been fun, they're people to, with feelings and anxieties like anyone... just better looking and with more money. Lol. Jk but seriously had great times.

  • @jakescott5857
    @jakescott5857 Před 24 dny

    Cool hair do

  • @queenk555
    @queenk555 Před 4 lety +2

    In curious to see how 'dead air chicken' works. I'm the type if I'm being interviewed, I'll ask, 'Are you done or are we finished?" Instead of keep going. Lol

    • @ThomasJordanTV
      @ThomasJordanTV Před 3 lety

      Have you got to try it yet? If so, how'd it go??

  • @civilizeddiva
    @civilizeddiva Před 2 lety +1

    Step 1: Prep:
    Research your interviewee: online, print interviews
    Review curriculum vitae (academia)
    Step 2: LISTEN
    Don’t think of your next question or joke
    Listen intensely
    Look for connections: your background research and new information presented during your talk

  • @onlyguitar1001
    @onlyguitar1001 Před rokem

    Lex Fridman watched this video.

  • @adamdavis9343
    @adamdavis9343 Před 4 lety +3

    Joe Rogan breaks all of these rules. 😂

  • @eliasekstrand5149
    @eliasekstrand5149 Před 3 lety +1

    Joe Rogan is that good.

  • @100peopledislikedyourcomme6
    @100peopledislikedyourcomme6 Před 6 měsíci

    Takeaway: Shut up 😂😂

  • @einsteindarwin8756
    @einsteindarwin8756 Před 9 měsíci

    Dead air chicken doesn’t work for live tv.

  • @shannakelly7635
    @shannakelly7635 Před 5 lety +11

    I wish there wasn't cursing in this so I could use it in my classroom