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  • @DAngeloWallace
    @DAngeloWallace  Před 3 lety +4720

    yeah it takes a lot at this point for family channels to surprise me but they somehow managed that
    anyway i recorded this video a while back, hence the BOTW cosplay LOL if you want to be in my next video, come join tomorrow's stream: twitch.tv/dangelno

  • @keisha_james
    @keisha_james Před 3 lety +3708

    "exploiting our kids but putting an IG filter over it so it looks cute not illegal" THE ACCURACY.

    • @GriffinZambia
      @GriffinZambia Před 3 lety +1

      czcams.com/video/Cmp1R7frXWw/video.html
      .

    • @kelsynicole9135
      @kelsynicole9135 Před 3 lety +47

      It’s technically not illegal on social media but it should be!! There are laws for child actors, there should be laws for kids on social media (even tho kids shouldn’t be on social media in the first place)

    • @anoblesteed5685
      @anoblesteed5685 Před 3 lety +48

      @@kelsynicole9135 I feel like CZcams should shut down family channels because filming kids 24/7 and exploiting them is unethical

    • @kelsynicole9135
      @kelsynicole9135 Před 3 lety +34

      @@anoblesteed5685 they won’t tho bc family channels are “ad friendly” 🙃

    • @DropAndTop
      @DropAndTop Před 3 lety

      LOL THE VIDEO GOT SPONSORED BY MEEE

  • @jennifer540
    @jennifer540 Před 3 lety +3841

    “I couldn’t shove a camera in the child’s face. So I decided to simply not adopt them”

    • @Kaybye555
      @Kaybye555 Před 3 lety +7

      At least they even have the chance to take the kid back

    • @nimeryaspawnbrd1049
      @nimeryaspawnbrd1049 Před 3 lety +120

      honestly, given the way they dealt with the family dog once he became too much effort, that kid dodged a massive bullet... 😒
      and I genuinely pity their natural child.
      people like those two shouldn't be allowed near kids nor animals.
      also, screw the "no offense" that became mandatory after this kind of comment, I mean every word I wrote in the most harsh and offensive way possible

    • @ac6155
      @ac6155 Před 3 lety +48

      In a way, I’m glad they didn’t adopt because they just wanted them for clicks and profit off of “I-am-a-good-person” points

    • @augustaseptemberova5664
      @augustaseptemberova5664 Před 3 lety +30

      "I couldn't capitalize on the adoption (forget the kid). So I decided to not adopt."

    • @jennifer540
      @jennifer540 Před 3 lety +10

      Look mom my comment went viral, I’m practically an influencer

  • @milorodriguez3739
    @milorodriguez3739 Před 3 lety +4036

    they talk like they're shopping for an exotic pet

  • @Whatlander
    @Whatlander Před 3 lety +2045

    Makes me think of how Grace and Ryosuke from "Texan in Tokyo" straight up left CZcams when they were about to have a child. It's been four years, and they haven't posted a thing since their goodbye videos explaining how they refuse to vlog with kids until they're old enough to give consent.

    • @lizd.2343
      @lizd.2343 Před 3 lety +346

      Honestly king vibes there

    • @gateauxq4604
      @gateauxq4604 Před 3 lety +269

      Damn. Good for them, I hope they’re doing well.

    • @sukiBambina
      @sukiBambina Před 3 lety +136

      👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 we need more of this energy

    • @OguriShunLuver248
      @OguriShunLuver248 Před 3 lety +28

      Yes, and I loved them lol

    • @OguriShunLuver248
      @OguriShunLuver248 Před 3 lety +11

      Something my Korean husband should have done lol

  • @MiaFa_x
    @MiaFa_x Před 3 lety +1608

    As an international trans-racial adoptee (east Asian in a white family), the fact she couldn't document and exploit the adoptive process was *such* a deal breaker, to me just screams white saviour complex and ignorance. My personal viewpoint as an adoptee is that people like them should not be able to adopt, and her video about it honestly hurt to watch.

    • @nalad9387
      @nalad9387 Před 3 lety +78

      its funny because she could have still exploited the process. there's a ton of videos she could've made w/o showing her baby for a year, and then she could've did a big reveal after a year's worth of build up. they just feel so entitled to being able to do whatever they want

    • @KateGrealy1
      @KateGrealy1 Před 3 lety

      100%

    • @amyg8176
      @amyg8176 Před 3 lety +7

      They didn’t just want an Asian child, either!! They wanted a child with special needs!!!

    • @thevexussy
      @thevexussy Před 3 lety +16

      the moment when these people can adopt but me a transbian can not

    • @magice3494
      @magice3494 Před 3 lety +6

      @@thevexussy much sadge, transbians poggers (if by that you mean trans lesbians, never heard of the term like that but still pog as a trans person myself)

  • @soupcorvus7451
    @soupcorvus7451 Před 3 lety +7898

    as a korean kid, them going “and we found out we could get a baby from korea that’s so exciting!!” made me just about throw up in my mouth, we are not some sort of decorations for white people to feature in their lives just because they think we’re all a certain way, that’s so gross

    • @nono-hl2hi
      @nono-hl2hi Před 3 lety +895

      it's genuinely kinda scary how much poc are commodified, objectified and dehumanised by most white people,,,, they don't see us as humans

    • @rainbowrose2048
      @rainbowrose2048 Před 3 lety +684

      there is a huge difference between “we just found out we could adopt a baby!” and “we just found out we could adopt a baby from *insert place*!”

    • @Bottomsupyours
      @Bottomsupyours Před 3 lety +536

      Yeah, that legit was the grossest part of the video. It had "I'm adding a Korean to my baby collection" vibes.

    • @Anna-zx9xj
      @Anna-zx9xj Před 3 lety +385

      The idea of picking a country where you want to get your baby from is just kind of gross in general. It's very tokenizing.

    • @beaniepanini
      @beaniepanini Před 3 lety +173

      I don't even understand the mental process behind these people at all. Its just absolutely idiotic they treat a child like this.

  • @LC-fh3ui
    @LC-fh3ui Před 3 lety +2447

    Reminds me of the mommy vlogger that “rehomed” her “adopted son” (never just son) from China because he wasn’t the “quiet, sweet, shy” stereotype she wanted.

    • @AmyAberrant
      @AmyAberrant Před 3 lety +349

      These adoption agencies need a better vetting process. They can’t just be giving kids to people who discard them like last year’s fashion whenever they get bored.

    • @riles3045
      @riles3045 Před 3 lety +94

      myka stauffer i think?

    • @OguriShunLuver248
      @OguriShunLuver248 Před 3 lety +17

      Yes and the agency lied about the problems he had and they weren’t ready for that

    • @Mari-cb9tz
      @Mari-cb9tz Před 3 lety +178

      Yep, I’m pretty sure she adopted a special needs’ child and people warned her about the difficulties she may face. So appalling

    • @kc-eq4tk
      @kc-eq4tk Před 3 lety +72

      And bc they thought his autism would be easy to deal with

  • @piper_says
    @piper_says Před 3 lety +576

    "it" is bad enough, but saying that "it" "wouldn't be theirs" for a year is REALLY telling, if you were serious about adoption that child would be YOUR child before you even bring them home

    • @piper_says
      @piper_says Před 3 lety +55

      also why are they, like, country shopping when they could adopt a kid here

    • @cinderellaskeleton6720
      @cinderellaskeleton6720 Před 3 lety +1

      I’m gonna give them the benefit of the doubt and say they meant it because they hadn’t decided what gender they wanted it to be yet.
      Just saying it is a lot easier than saying she/him all the time.

    • @kai_fatallysapphic
      @kai_fatallysapphic Před 2 lety +18

      @@cinderellaskeleton6720 I mean, singular they/them pronouns exist.. there's really no need to use "it".

    • @cinderellaskeleton6720
      @cinderellaskeleton6720 Před 2 lety +6

      @@kai_fatallysapphic that person is probably the kinda person who thinks they then pronouns are plural.

    • @kai_fatallysapphic
      @kai_fatallysapphic Před 2 lety +1

      @@cinderellaskeleton6720 yeah, those two seem like the type :/

  • @uhh9919
    @uhh9919 Před 3 lety +281

    adopting a korean kid isnt weird obviously but being excited thinking “i want to adopt a kid from korea SPECIFICALLY” is ... uh .... not the best look. its like they just want their family to look more ethnic or use them as an aesthetic lmao

    • @cdevine9459
      @cdevine9459 Před 3 lety +30

      They act like they’re picking out a breed of puppy. Disgusting.

  • @iwantpastries5649
    @iwantpastries5649 Před 3 lety +2982

    Can you imagine the audacity of being like "Hey guyssssss, we're not adopting a kid from Thailand because we can't film them for a year, soooo. NOPE!" Like God dang

    • @samkeiser9776
      @samkeiser9776 Před 3 lety +47

      I mean, no need to imagine it.

    • @Rayglisse
      @Rayglisse Před 3 lety +33

      the worst thing is, they did it 🤡

    • @MoahGentle
      @MoahGentle Před 3 lety +17

      Shows their priorities, clearly.

    • @JBC352
      @JBC352 Před 3 lety +30

      And that wasn’t what cancelled them. Insane. I’m with D’Angelo, this couple is literally the best example of the hopelessness of humanity.

    • @samkeiser9776
      @samkeiser9776 Před 3 lety +9

      @@JBC352 I feel like cancelation is so fickle, like there are so many people who deserve high scrutiny, but cancel culture really only ever goes after people who do something to set it off.

  • @ritasprinkle5098
    @ritasprinkle5098 Před 3 lety +1322

    Honestly, the dad is a creep. The way he stands there. The way that adopting from Korea "excites" him. Like... what is actually going on with him? I just kinda get the feeling it is more than a white savior complex.

    • @nettoyagedelamaison9557
      @nettoyagedelamaison9557 Před 3 lety +125

      He really is gross

    • @Anon00113
      @Anon00113 Před 3 lety +166

      Watch he’s gonna wanna adopt a girl

    • @Dani_1012
      @Dani_1012 Před 3 lety +58

      @@Anon00113 Good god that better NOT happen

    • @djsuperqueen1248
      @djsuperqueen1248 Před 3 lety +37

      He’s the one that was like well we will put down the dog like in that movie

    • @ritasprinkle5098
      @ritasprinkle5098 Před 3 lety +40

      @@maydayjanette226 it wouldnt surprise me. But either way, it is not okay. No child should be in the same vincinity as him.

  • @gandalfthegrey
    @gandalfthegrey Před 3 lety +443

    The US prevents foster parents from posting about their foster kids too. I only know this because my neighbors adopted a bunch of kids and couldn't post about any of them until they were officially adopted. Maybe I'm wrong but Thailand isn't alone in this rule.

    • @nataliersutton
      @nataliersutton Před 3 lety +40

      You're totally right about that, at least in some states (might vary I'm not sure). I watched a few videos from a foster mother who specfically did not film, say the names of, or give info about her foster children. Only her biological and adopted children would appear in the videos. Once the foster children went throught the entire legal adoption process and it was finalized only then were the children introduced / names, etc.

    • @green_goose1
      @green_goose1 Před 3 lety +8

      yep! at least with foster kids, if pictures are ever posted of them, they need to have a sticker/emoji/blur etc over their face for privacy concerns!

    • @hamianagrande
      @hamianagrande Před 3 lety

      My brother

    • @Komaedasympathizer
      @Komaedasympathizer Před 3 lety +1

      Yep! As someone who was in foster care I wasn’t allowed to be posted about. I was in that foster home for two years.

    • @m.j.mbrooks1859
      @m.j.mbrooks1859 Před 2 lety +2

      There are different levels of the openness of adoption too. It depends on the agency. My older brother’s birth mother was not allowed to contact him before he was 18. I think there was an obligation on our parents part to give her a photo update of what he looked like every couple of years, but she herself could not email him or call him on the phone, or post pictures of him online (although social media wasn’t hardly around back then) until he was 18. Our parents are very private people who have no social media’s to this day anyways, so it’s a non issue for them, but I think in part it has to do with what the openness of that adoption are. My adoption was international. But my birth mother chose not to leave her name, photo, letter, nothing. All I know is that she was 16, and that I was born three months early, and that there was a lot of blood. Nothing more, nothing less.

  • @kt_jpg
    @kt_jpg Před 3 lety +7629

    As an adopted child from China this is so disgusting. They are acting like they are adopting a puppy that can be pranced around on their channel for clicks and ignored when its not making them money
    Edit: Not advocating for maltreatment of animals whatsoever but ppl on the internet always assume the worst of everything

    • @tired690
      @tired690 Před 3 lety +243

      @@rosalinahope9752 I'm also an adopted asian from china and I'm furious at these people. They're vile and why I've started to advocate for no international adoptions of asian children tbh

    • @josselinsalgado2951
      @josselinsalgado2951 Před 3 lety +92

      What that’s not ok to do to puppies either.

    • @lj9392
      @lj9392 Před 3 lety +246

      @@josselinsalgado2951 they killed their dog, they're kinda past that point

    • @wmdkitty
      @wmdkitty Před 3 lety +96

      As an adoptee (white, American), I don't have words for the emotion I'm feeling rn. It's like a combination of anger, confusion, and horror.

    • @feelingevaporated2912
      @feelingevaporated2912 Před 3 lety +10

      @@josselinsalgado2951 it’s a lot better than doing it to a human…

  • @Emily-ui3sc
    @Emily-ui3sc Před 3 lety +2186

    they make the child sound so expendable. like, they dropped the kid as soon as they heard they couldn't film them. like, i'd think if you wanted to adopt a child you'd love them enough not to put them on the internet for a year. them not going through with it just proves they didn't adopt the child because they wanted another and loved them, they just wanted views

    • @GlamGoddes101
      @GlamGoddes101 Před 3 lety +99

      It’s insane when you think about it, they don’t want the baby enough to follow the law. It’s like for them the baby is just an asset to their CZcams channel/business

    • @geolex4560
      @geolex4560 Před 3 lety +53

      LITERALLY like... obviously, i don't think family channels should exist PERIOD but wouldn't decent parents want to let their adopted child adjust to life with them before holding a camera in their face 24/7? like regardless of the law? one year is such a short amount of time in the grand scheme of things, but they literally only see dollar signs and want to parade their new kid around asap. it's 100% gross and wrong

    • @emmainkeri7497
      @emmainkeri7497 Před 3 lety +24

      exactly. this also comes off as so disrespectful to people who can't have kids or want to adopt but end up waiting years for their child but these people are ready to not have that kid because they can't get money off of it... And even if we preted filming your child online is okay, a year isn't even that long? unless you ofc wanted them for views in the first place...

    • @morley364
      @morley364 Před 3 lety +9

      Also the fact they begged the government to allow them to film the kid when that rule is clearly set up TO PROTECT THE CHILD. It's like going to the government and begging to be allowed an exception to having to buckle in your kid or something! It just really highlights who they care about here.

    • @v.958
      @v.958 Před 3 lety +3

      Hmm just like that poor dog was expendable

  • @easternflower6476
    @easternflower6476 Před 3 lety +562

    As someone with adopted sisters from Guangzhou China, this is so hurtful to me- the country of origin is such an important part of an adopted child’s identity. I could never imagine discounting any country or any child for SOCIAL MEDIA REASONS. My sisters are my sisters, I could not imagine life without them for any reason, let alone something as dumb as that.

    • @Ilikefrogs..
      @Ilikefrogs.. Před 3 lety +4

      Just curious, are your sisters twins? Or did your parents adopt them separately?

    • @easternflower6476
      @easternflower6476 Před 3 lety +85

      They are twins- they were born during the 1 child policy, and their birth mother (we refer to their birth parents as their angels) couldn’t bear to separate them, so she left them where somebody would see them and put them up for adoption. They are the best sisters anyone could ask for, smart and kind

    • @beccag2758
      @beccag2758 Před 3 lety +23

      Also Chinese adoptee and same. Even the thought of adopting for social media presence has never crossed my mind. Honestly typing “adopting for social media presence” makes me feel gross

    • @easternflower6476
      @easternflower6476 Před 3 lety +21

      Right?? So gross that these people see children as influencer boosters rather than actual humans. Such a crazy idea that I cannot wrap my brain around.

    • @parkthepenguin6344
      @parkthepenguin6344 Před 3 lety +14

      Ok this is heart warming. I hope my siblings have the same mindset as you :)

  • @melwarat5766
    @melwarat5766 Před 3 lety +513

    The minute she realizes she can't exploit her kid for views and money, she decides she doesn't want them. It's disgusting. Kids aren't accessories or business assets, they're people with feelings

    • @BeanKally
      @BeanKally Před rokem +4

      As a kid, I can confirm we are are actually sentient
      Shocking, ik

    • @cap4life1
      @cap4life1 Před rokem

      *she and he. They both were going to exploit the child.

  • @starilvara
    @starilvara Před 3 lety +721

    Them/the adoption agency: "Can you make an exception because their whole lives are online, it's their business?"
    The Thai government: "Okay but that's worse... You do get how that's worse, right?"

  • @Kakorrhaphiophobe
    @Kakorrhaphiophobe Před 3 lety +11397

    That literally needs to be a law EVERYWHERE, if not being able to profit off of your adopted child is a deal-breaker for you... maybe you don’t deserve kids

    • @angelabaird7135
      @angelabaird7135 Před 3 lety +533

      EXACTLY!!
      That rule is both genius and common sense. It showed it’s absolute effectiveness by ruling out these parents and preventing another Myka And James Stauffer incident. The fact that they did not adopt for that reason shows how prevalent it is for these family channels to do that. The rule worked perfectly and should be implemented in EVERY country!

    • @seekittycat
      @seekittycat Před 3 lety +325

      @Chocolate Stars Hell just make it so you have to tag everytime a child appears in a video and those videos get no ad revenue. Also it can't exceed a certain amount of time. So like casual videos of a kid on his b-day for relatives is fine. A daily video where parents force their kid to be actors for their parents profits can go hang.

    • @Rain-np7tk
      @Rain-np7tk Před 3 lety +129

      @Chocolate Stars fair. If they cant watch normal youtube they shouldn't be filmed and monetized for youtube content

    • @kjlandon9140
      @kjlandon9140 Před 3 lety +14

      @@angelabaird7135 reminds me of the horrific Hart family murders

    • @interndoug2750
      @interndoug2750 Před 3 lety +2

      Even if this does get passed you heard foster care they will just use that to profit

  • @unerevuese
    @unerevuese Před 3 lety +81

    This is why Thailand has these types of laws protecting adoptees because of these people!

  • @frankie9772
    @frankie9772 Před 3 lety +102

    I think we can all agree that children’s privacy is incredibly neglected on social media at this moment.

  • @chantalkellyman2187
    @chantalkellyman2187 Před 3 lety +589

    She takes white privilege to a whole other level. Like "Oh government with your laws can you make an exception for me, I mean I really want to do this unnecessary thing"

  • @weeginboots9970
    @weeginboots9970 Před 3 lety +875

    That year long rule from Thailand is GENIUS, and needs to be rule/law everywhere... But also, how crazy is it that enough people over there recognized this would deter a certain type of person from adopting for the wrong reason.

    • @heidibangbang
      @heidibangbang Před 3 lety +68

      Thailand's always had pretty serious child endangerment issues, so maybe their laws are finally starting to catch up.

    • @sera6593
      @sera6593 Před 3 lety +4

      Absolutely.

  • @alexia3552
    @alexia3552 Před 3 lety +138

    The look on his face when he was like "we'll have a child in our house for a whole year and it's not even our child" like... holy shit? you're THAT disgusted at the thought of taking care of another human being? Please do not adopt, I hope they get blocked

  • @CarpeDM27
    @CarpeDM27 Před 3 lety +129

    I am predicting if they do adopt from Korea, the kid will have the same name as somebody from BTS. "Korea excited me" yeah, I'll bet it did, you vulture.

  • @par9968
    @par9968 Před 3 lety +3895

    As an adopted kid, I would’ve been so unbelievably upset that the people that were gonna adopt me decided to not because they wanted to exploit 6 year old me (that’s when I was adopted) but couldn’t. Absolutely disgusting

    • @SpookyMingo
      @SpookyMingo Před 3 lety +81

      that's a very reasonable response! i'm shocked they don't see that automatically. I'm so glad they have that rule to stop people like that, yikes!!!!

    • @michaw.2168
      @michaw.2168 Před 3 lety +17

      I wonder if they implemented this rule because off the stauffer's horror show... i got so angry seeing this. It's true people that are horrible to animals dont treat people right either. How can they think that's a way to treat a baby...

    • @m.j.mbrooks1859
      @m.j.mbrooks1859 Před 2 lety +8

      I was adopted when I was almost two from Guatemala and was at the developmental stage of a six month old. Like the immense physical and emotional challenges that me and my family underwent, not to mention extensive physical and psychological therapy that I underwent for years post adoption to catch up to other children was beyond challenging. Like I would never want anyone to film the times where I would scream incessantly for hours on end if I was left alone in a room for half a second. My dad, no exaggeration, had to sleep on the floor next to my crib every night for over a year, holding my hand through the bars so that the rest of the household could get some sleep. And I have no memories of anything before adoption. Like there are pictures of me at the orphanage. But I don’t remember anything. I can’t even imagine the struggles a six year old that can remember things before adoption would go through to adjust to a completely new family. Or that there are people out there that would exploit those struggles for clout. It’s repulsive.

    • @meowmeow3156
      @meowmeow3156 Před 2 lety +4

      I almost got adopted into a white savior family, I ended up getting kicked out after 3 years. My brothers weren't as lucky. Now they are looking for a young black boy to replace me.

    • @monkiram
      @monkiram Před 2 lety +1

      Well if it's any consolation, it wouldn't have been a six-year-old because they said they only wanted a baby. That's another thing they made a big fuss about. After cycling through a bunch of countries, none of which worked out, they decided to switch to domestic adoption, which they realized was too expensive, and then to fostering because they were hoping to game the system and adopt that way. But the foster agency told them no because they can't guarantee they'd only get babies which they then made another angry video about, accusing the agency of lying to them

  • @kale3504
    @kale3504 Před 3 lety +1721

    The way they talk about adopting a human child is like a kid trying to pick a toy that has the coolest look

    • @GriffinZambia
      @GriffinZambia Před 3 lety +1

      czcams.com/video/Cmp1R7frXWw/video.html
      ...

    • @samkeiser9776
      @samkeiser9776 Před 3 lety +47

      “Yeah, we aren’t adopting children from Thailand anymore.”
      “We would’ve *adopted a child* from Thailand but it’s too inconvenient for our vlog”

    • @bioticjedi3864
      @bioticjedi3864 Před 3 lety +4

      Probably because that's how they view him

    • @kat74055
      @kat74055 Před 3 lety +4

      the kid wanting a random cleaning supply because it’s purple and shiny

    • @parkthepenguin6344
      @parkthepenguin6344 Před 3 lety +6

      @@GriffinZambia G o h o m e

  • @ttjust2011
    @ttjust2011 Před 3 lety +164

    As a person who was born and raised in Thailand, that Thai law is the best law ever that I heard from the Thai government.

  • @cristian_i350
    @cristian_i350 Před 3 lety +72

    As an adopted person, I would disgusted if someone just wanted to adopt me for views. And the fact that they didn't want to agree to a simple rule for a year is disturbing. The world is already messed up enough, no need to make it even more worse.

  • @Moxilock
    @Moxilock Před 3 lety +4717

    Whenever chat hears "Being held hostage" they just start freaking out and that's fantastic. Let them suffer

    • @GriffinZambia
      @GriffinZambia Před 3 lety +1

      czcams.com/video/Cmp1R7frXWw/video.html
      .

    • @donteclarke9955
      @donteclarke9955 Před 3 lety +67

      @ARIANA'S NEIGHBOUR shut up bot

    • @redvelvet1552
      @redvelvet1552 Před 3 lety +28

      @ARIANA'S NEIGHBOUR I’m just going to keep replying to these bots 🤖✨

    • @koronteh807
      @koronteh807 Před 3 lety +24

      @ARIANA'S NEIGHBOUR shut up bitch

    • @Qo0_0
      @Qo0_0 Před 3 lety +1

      Summon

  • @daviedarling
    @daviedarling Před 3 lety +471

    adoptive parents can be extremely extremely toxic and abusive to their kids, almost fetishizing their ability to "save" someone and/or their child's ethnicity or country of origin like the husband here and it doesn't get talked about enough!!

    • @cdevine9459
      @cdevine9459 Před 3 lety +19

      The fact that loser parents like this couple are able to adopt when so many couples are out there trying to adopt a child because they literally are unable to have children.

  • @beccag2758
    @beccag2758 Před 3 lety +327

    Chinese adoptee here. If you’re reading this, please know that basically all normal people do NOT adopt out of a desire for followers, but an actual desire for children. Also *PLEASE* be careful throwing around the white savior label when discussing adoption. While there are rare cases where this is applicable, this is just not true for an overwhelming majority of adoptee parents so please do not make this the new negative stereotype. For years I’ve seen many people treat adoption as like, a gross failure of parenthood, we do not need another fake and negative stereotype that keeps potential parents from considering adopting and plants worry and doubt into adopted kids’ heads.

    • @1ceapaire990
      @1ceapaire990 Před 3 lety +1

      Hey! I recognize you from the Blimey Cow comments section!

    • @cinderellaskeleton6720
      @cinderellaskeleton6720 Před 3 lety +9

      @i did you just gloss over that POC will bully other POC if they don’t share the same culture as they do

    • @m.j.mbrooks1859
      @m.j.mbrooks1859 Před 2 lety +15

      @i which is really sad, because my parents always made sure that I learn anything and everything about Guatemala, I mean I had all sorts of books, they kept all my outfits, I mean I still have a doll that my mom got that had my same skin and hair color, (which I mean, back then I didn’t think anything of the time) but you know the fact that they didn’t just “white wash” me and just give me a blonde haired blue eyed baby doll means a lot. Like they made sure I grew up aware, and proud of being from Guatemala, but I also never felt self conscious being the only Latina in a whole family of white people. Like I was Maria their daughter, cousin, granddaughter. Like the color of my skin did not make me any less nor was it something to be ashamed of. God knows being adopted didn’t get me special treatment 🤣 like “Yes you are adopted. You still have to eat your vegetables and finish your homework.” Like questions from non adopted children were interesting.

  • @hamishstewart5324
    @hamishstewart5324 Před 3 lety +40

    I would rather be the offspring of a Komodo dragon than the child of a family vlogger.

  • @robinmitchells
    @robinmitchells Před 3 lety +1346

    IMO, if you “accidentally” Snapchat while signing an NDA, that’s social media addiction at that point and you need an intervention stat.

    • @blueismylove3128
      @blueismylove3128 Před 3 lety +116

      I've chosen to go full days without my phone, but these people can't sign an NDA without pulling up Snapchat? Wtf is this world? Is this who we've become?

    • @angelabaird7135
      @angelabaird7135 Před 3 lety +81

      Exactly! They are both grade A douche bags and I’m so glad they were prevented from adopting so we don’t have another Myka Stauffer incident.
      All countries should have that rule to prevent those who are adopting for the purpose of exploiting the child.

    • @vubzs
      @vubzs Před 3 lety +50

      Exactly. That's a straight up social media addiction... I go days without going to Instagram, if ur doing something important why would you go on your phone LMFAO???

    • @Nuti196
      @Nuti196 Před 3 lety +22

      I would feel SO GOOD walking up to her and her husband, taking their phones, smashing them on the ground and watching them suffer...
      I guess I would get arrested for that but totally worth it

    • @avocado3-in-182
      @avocado3-in-182 Před 3 lety +24

      @@blueismylove3128 i can’t live without my phone but I am not this stupid enough to pull out my phone and take a picture of confidential documents. That woman is a crazy Karen.

  • @Hip.Username
    @Hip.Username Před 3 lety +1649

    Honestly those Thai babies dodged a bullet here. They would be dealing with transratial struggles being raised by parents from a completely different culture anyway, but on top of that being a hot topic on CZcams, and possibly being rehomed like a pet like that other blogger family did to their adopted child with autism. Thank you Thailand for protecting the children from people like this

    • @GriffinZambia
      @GriffinZambia Před 3 lety

      czcams.com/video/Cmp1R7frXWw/video.html
      ...

    • @samkeiser9776
      @samkeiser9776 Před 3 lety +44

      I Guess Thailand’s policy is doing what it’s supposed to.

    • @frida507
      @frida507 Před 3 lety +34

      Most of all they were saved from these idiots.

    • @anshi5098
      @anshi5098 Před 3 lety +16

      god bless Thailand for this rule.

    • @isaiahchang2295
      @isaiahchang2295 Před 3 lety +22

      Ok but the transracial thing? 100 thousand percent true. I was adopted into a white/asian family and growing up here was hell.

  • @shimmi285
    @shimmi285 Před 3 lety +34

    I hate people who adopt children to 'save' them, you adopt because you *want* children, not because you want to 'save' them.

  • @lelaweber47
    @lelaweber47 Před 3 lety +52

    And this ladies and gentlemen is what we call: the white savior complex (Adoption edition)!

    • @israelmills7442
      @israelmills7442 Před 2 lety

      And this ladies and gentlemen is what we call
      Race baiting ( American edition )
      Because it literally only happens in America

    • @lelaweber47
      @lelaweber47 Před 2 lety

      @@israelmills7442 explain

  • @imagitext1342
    @imagitext1342 Před 3 lety +2414

    "Then this is not what God wants for us." So it's more believable for you that God wants you to vlog your child than to adopt at the first opportunity possible?

    • @Window4503
      @Window4503 Před 3 lety +205

      God was definitely looking out for the Thai kid they were going to exploit. May he also protect the Korean kid!

    • @MoahGentle
      @MoahGentle Před 3 lety +58

      If there was a God, hopefully his plan is to never allow these folks to have children, in any way.

    • @lemonblesssed3753
      @lemonblesssed3753 Před 3 lety +87

      Right? And this girl has a tattoo of James 1:27 which talks about taking care of the orphans. I must have missed the part of the verse that says “unless you can’t vlog and exploit them to make money”

    • @kcat44
      @kcat44 Před 3 lety +32

      Christians like them use their belief in God to excuse all their terrible actions 🙄

    • @JaneDoe-po4gu
      @JaneDoe-po4gu Před 3 lety +24

      " God wants us to exploit vulnerable children for money "

  • @FortuitousOwl
    @FortuitousOwl Před 3 lety +1220

    “We decided to cancel an adoption because we won’t be able to monetize it and that’s clearly the only reason we are adopting” also…there are SO MANY kids in America that need adopting. It seems like they are shopping for a cute foreign kid rather than actually looking for a child.

    • @Purpleturtlehurtler
      @Purpleturtlehurtler Před 3 lety +37

      Right? My fiancee and I don't want to have our own biological children, but the idea of adoption when we have a house and are married has been floated, but we self-doubt about our qualifications for being parents. We both had pretty shitty upbringings and we don't want to project the kinds of things our parents put on us onto our own future kids.

    • @frida507
      @frida507 Před 3 lety +21

      Exactly. Shopping for a kid to make content. They should be blacklisted at all adoption agencies.

    • @bioticjedi3864
      @bioticjedi3864 Před 3 lety +15

      Ikr, they act like domestic adoption isn't a thing and here are tons of non-white kids in the US that need a home, it would probably be better on the child cuz the culture and language shock is minimized

    • @Rayglisse
      @Rayglisse Před 3 lety +1

      great translation. this is ridiculous

    • @PumaArg
      @PumaArg Před 3 lety +1

      and the fact that they proceeded to have one of their own only makes you think that more...

  • @me9981
    @me9981 Před 3 lety +49

    Lmao he really wants to SAVE a kid from Korea... He should travel more. He should visit South Korea and see that South Korea isn't the same country it was 60 years ago.
    Dude, there are so many kids in the US that are waiting for adoption, but people like these are going to Asia or Africa for some reason to be some kind of saviors... Give me a break.

  • @moomoomachines7193
    @moomoomachines7193 Před 3 lety +20

    I'm a Korean American living in Korea and I was listening to this video while doing homework and as soon as they said Korea, I audibly said FUCK NO. My parents were livid for me cursing, but after watching the video, 100% agreed.

  • @kalaturru
    @kalaturru Před 3 lety +2422

    watching this made me realize that in 20 years there could be a whole lot of people suing their "parents" for exploitation because of these family channels

    • @GotInterest
      @GotInterest Před 3 lety +215

      probably a lot sooner than that. Family vlogging started being a thing in the early 2010's. Some of the kids from those early family vloggers are teens now and will be adults in a few years. I've already seen articles written about tween and teen children begging their parents to stop putting their whole business online.

    • @GummyDinosaursify
      @GummyDinosaursify Před 3 lety +160

      Good. I hope they get every penny.

    • @galaxyocicat5660
      @galaxyocicat5660 Před 3 lety +68

      Thought unfortunately that would mean the harm has been already done, at least they get to sue them as adults.

    • @studybuddy.
      @studybuddy. Před 3 lety +21

      Can’t wait for the groundbreaking first case

    • @SaphireXari
      @SaphireXari Před 3 lety +14

      I wonder if there is already some precedence for this, such as a child actor whose parents pushed them into the industry and took advantage of them and their finances.

  • @Sydney_head
    @Sydney_head Před 3 lety +3430

    The cosplay fund was one of the best things to ever happen

  • @thequeenofcringe1585
    @thequeenofcringe1585 Před 3 lety +18

    They said that they’re not adopting because they can’t post about the child for a year, but it was never specified if they could take photos and videos of the child and just... *NOT* share them for that year long period if they’re *SO* insistent on exploiting that child for content.

  • @MaresBarres
    @MaresBarres Před 3 lety +13

    Thai government: You can't use children as indentured servants for your U-List celebrity career.
    Family vloggers: But whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyYYYYYYYYYYyyyyyyyyyy?

  • @pyromaniacalmagpie3198
    @pyromaniacalmagpie3198 Před 3 lety +4298

    I hope the kid they would have adopted is living a happy life with parents that really genuinely love them, with *privacy* and *autonomy* and *respect*

  • @hanna-ep2lb
    @hanna-ep2lb Před 3 lety +846

    they treated their poor potential child as a business asset. i'm genuinely disgusted. i really hope they won't ever be able to adopt any child because no child should go through this :(

    • @PumaArg
      @PumaArg Před 3 lety +18

      Nope...they had one of their own, which might be even worse

    • @hb7580
      @hb7580 Před 3 lety +10

      It has very much child trafficking vibes. A LOT of these agencies and organizations need to be investigated.

    • @parkthepenguin6344
      @parkthepenguin6344 Před 3 lety +7

      @@PumaArg Lowkey glad they didn’t adopt. Being treated like shit by two families messes you up. :|

    • @AmyAberrant
      @AmyAberrant Před 3 lety +2

      That child dodged a bullet

  • @AngeliqueElijah
    @AngeliqueElijah Před 3 lety +13

    They were literally like, "Oh I can't post our kid on social media for 1 year? F that orphan, we're influencers!"

  • @keysaunt
    @keysaunt Před 3 lety +10

    I’m pretty sure this isn’t exclusive to Thailand. My Chosen Auntie and her wife adopted through the foster care system here in America and they weren’t allowed to post pictures until the adoption process was complete either. I believe it’s pretty standard with any agency because until you’ve signed the papers (and in some cases even after) nothing is certain so you’re not supposed to post pictures, state names, or anything like that.

  • @cedarmay4245
    @cedarmay4245 Před 3 lety +835

    I've said this before but I'm worried for when their child doesn't want to be filmed anymore and also the mental toll of having your entire life on the internet. The lack of privacy is sad and dangerous and they did that to him.

    • @angelabaird7135
      @angelabaird7135 Před 3 lety +57

      I hope one of these family vloggers children grow up and sue the parents claiming punitive damages and maybe lost job opportunities or something if they are declined any position for having their whole life public without permission.
      And I hope they sue them for millions of dollars and it makes these exploitive families think twice. If CZcams and the law itself isn’t gonna put a stop to it,then that sort of thing is the only kind of justice or chance to slow or stop these things.

    • @bwicket
      @bwicket Před 3 lety +56

      I watched a video once where one of the stories discussed was of a girl who bought herself a hoodie that she printed "I do not consent to being photographed" and "I do not consent to being videod" all over it so her blogging mom couldn't use any of the content she wore it in. Brilliant, but also pretty sad. At some point most kids don't want it.

    • @Noumm
      @Noumm Před 3 lety +3

      Yeeaah I did say in my comment that this process already happen is some social medias, the poor future child that did not have a righ to say "no I don't or yes I want".

    • @PlasticDoll.
      @PlasticDoll. Před 3 lety +5

      @@angelabaird7135 I could see it happen sometime in the future, eventually. After all there has to be a reaction somewhere out of all this..

    • @crazyowlgirlcncowner
      @crazyowlgirlcncowner Před 3 lety +4

      @@bwicket I saw that one in one of SimplyNailogial's podcasts. It's so sad that the girl even had to do that.

  • @senselesslibraa
    @senselesslibraa Před 3 lety +735

    the fact that their reaction wasn’t ‘okay that’s fine my child deserves privacy’ is so scary

    • @chrissy3875
      @chrissy3875 Před 3 lety +39

      like they realise they could still have a channel and just not create content w the baby.... its to messed up. they only had to wait a year

    • @ritasprinkle5098
      @ritasprinkle5098 Před 3 lety +8

      Yeah, it is scary. And really sad.

  • @eze4068
    @eze4068 Před 3 lety +22

    i feel like this is the only channel where everyone that watches this channel actually scrolls down to the comment section

  • @taynannataly686
    @taynannataly686 Před 3 lety +21

    I think if D'Angelo decide to make a video on the creepshow art situation i think he would make a big one on the other channel it definitely is big enough so he may take his time

  • @AdubsVAmeep
    @AdubsVAmeep Před 3 lety +3006

    Aww shit D’Angelo is talking about whatever he wants

    • @AammaK
      @AammaK Před 3 lety +7

      boost

    • @AdubsVAmeep
      @AdubsVAmeep Před 3 lety +12

      @ARIANA'S NEIGHBOUR aye lemme boost this then fr. I hope you get your mic ❤️

    • @GriffinZambia
      @GriffinZambia Před 3 lety

      czcams.com/video/Cmp1R7frXWw/video.html
      .

    • @GriffinZambia
      @GriffinZambia Před 3 lety +9

      @@AdubsVAmeep lol no

    • @sludgemute
      @sludgemute Před 3 lety +43

      @AdubsVA its a comment bot, don't sub

  • @aeriellee3067
    @aeriellee3067 Před 3 lety +905

    WHEN THAT MAN SAID "Korea excited me the most" I REALIZED THE REASON WHY, IS BECAUSE OF THE UPTICK IN POPULARITY OF KPOP IN THE US, AND THEY WERE GONNA MARKET THAT BABY'S ETHNICITY AS BEING COOL AND HIP, FOR THEIR FUCKIN VIEWERRRSSS

    • @GriffinZambia
      @GriffinZambia Před 3 lety +2

      czcams.com/video/Cmp1R7frXWw/video.html
      ...

    • @arriibacon531
      @arriibacon531 Před 3 lety +40

      Damnnn exploiting her child even more and just because the baby is Korean 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @kimwhitehead9096
      @kimwhitehead9096 Před 3 lety +57

      Korea excited them because it has far less restrictive adoption laws.

    • @aeriellee3067
      @aeriellee3067 Před 3 lety +14

      @@kimwhitehead9096 oooooh, damn that HORRIBLE

    • @aeriellee3067
      @aeriellee3067 Před 3 lety

      @@GriffinZambia hey, this is good!

  • @aspendraws6173
    @aspendraws6173 Před 3 lety +11

    Shannon situation?

  • @khaki9337
    @khaki9337 Před 3 lety +15

    are you gonna say anything abut the creepshow art allegations?

  • @monicapie
    @monicapie Před 3 lety +903

    “This is not what God has for us”... is that what she said? Oooof. No. This is not what the law has for you. They literally just want things in life they can exploit.

    • @mammoneymelon
      @mammoneymelon Před 3 lety +90

      i don't think God would be a fan of them exploiting children and the entire adoption system but?? they can go off ig

    • @shytendeakatamanoir9740
      @shytendeakatamanoir9740 Před 3 lety +68

      I don't pretend to be a Bible or theology expert, but I don't remember exploiting your kid for fame being part of God's message.

    • @Noumm
      @Noumm Před 3 lety +41

      Yes implying religion for your bad behaviour LMAO

    • @notthatcreativewithnames
      @notthatcreativewithnames Před 3 lety +17

      Here's a fact, not sure if it adds anything, the major religion in Thailand is Buddhism, which is less theistic than Christianity or Islam.

    • @Moszan
      @Moszan Před 3 lety +14

      That sounds about right. If anyone reads the Bible, there's a ton of horrific shit done to children in the name of God.

  • @fiat5242
    @fiat5242 Před 3 lety +357

    I'm so mad, as an asian i just wanna say that asian people aren't decorations for them to display and adopt just for "aesthetic" purposes

    • @nimbusstormysheep9553
      @nimbusstormysheep9553 Před 3 lety +9

      As a white American I completely agree. It's disgusting how people treat each other like objects just for being different.

    • @burn3627
      @burn3627 Před rokem +1

      As a white European, we know. Literally everyone knows this. You don’t need to explain that or disclaim your ethnicity. This is some random foreign family in the US, most US people know this is weird too.
      There’s stupid people in every country and region. Including your own.

  • @tiggzr9744
    @tiggzr9744 Před 3 lety +13

    Are you going to do a video denouncing Shannon creepshow

  • @studybuddy.
    @studybuddy. Před 3 lety +10

    It’s like they’re picking out a dog not adopting a child

  • @calielizabeth4714
    @calielizabeth4714 Před 3 lety +245

    Nikki put out a video where she was talking about covid 19 and literally said “people who supposedly died” and talked about not trusting science so...that’s the kind of person she is.

  • @leighallison4297
    @leighallison4297 Před 3 lety +1715

    The government: “So we like to give the children who are adopted privacy”
    These people: 👁👄👁

  • @reshiramlodke3884
    @reshiramlodke3884 Před 3 lety +7

    They really gave me the "It's not my child until I can profit off it." vibe with that one comment they made. Like YIKES

  • @digitusmedius8258
    @digitusmedius8258 Před 3 lety +2

    5:08 This screenshot sums up their entire marriage.

  • @apocalypseready6256
    @apocalypseready6256 Před 3 lety +2933

    They literally say “it’s going to be living in our house for a year.” Not just the “it” part unsettles me, but they act like the child is a roommate or a freeloader and not, y’know, their _child_ Like the 6-year-old would have to earn their wages to live in these generous people’s house. They distinctly said “our” house, like they’re already distancing themselves from being the parents of this adopted kid. Not “our kid is going to live with us a year early!! Yay!”
    Is that not the most messed up, unsettling thing you’ve ever heard? Ugh.

    • @sweethysteria8737
      @sweethysteria8737 Před 3 lety +22

      well... my dad says that kids basically are freeloaders and that if kids could work they should. My dad says kids are basically property and they should do whatever they want with their kid.

    • @taiy5296
      @taiy5296 Před 3 lety +208

      @@sweethysteria8737 sweetheart are you okay? 😦

    • @user-pt5cl2ro6f
      @user-pt5cl2ro6f Před 3 lety +96

      @@sweethysteria8737 that's not a dad

    • @tolslog6101
      @tolslog6101 Před 3 lety +14

      They're literally the worst kind of stupid family setup

    • @sweethysteria8737
      @sweethysteria8737 Před 3 lety +3

      @@rahulpaul4355 uh... The USA

  • @nicolemeneses3323
    @nicolemeneses3323 Před 3 lety +826

    People who actually want kids, who wanna care for them and help them, would do whatever it takes to be with them. I've seen people wait up to 3 years until the adoption is finalized, without complaining and with hope to have the kids

    • @blondesense1708
      @blondesense1708 Před 3 lety +74

      In my country there is an 11 year waiting list to adopt and I have seen friends do the wait. My Auntie and her wife did end of life foster care - which is exactly what it sounds like, fostering terminally ill kids in foster care because they were so dedicated to their work. Over the years they had several children pass away in their care. That is true desire to be a parent.

    • @nicolemeneses3323
      @nicolemeneses3323 Před 3 lety +48

      @@blondesense1708 Your auntie and her wife sound like amazing people, i hope they have a great life 🥺

  • @forgetthes5824
    @forgetthes5824 Před 3 lety +8

    That Thailand law should be a law everywhere and for all children under 15

  • @chaostears
    @chaostears Před 3 lety +2

    “korea excited me for some reason” that’s called racism

    • @rj2291
      @rj2291 Před 3 lety

      not racism fetishization

  • @madhusree1472
    @madhusree1472 Před 3 lety +173

    Getting excited about a Korean child is like one of those people who get excited about adopting a certain breed of animal.....only a hundred times worse

    • @samkeiser9776
      @samkeiser9776 Před 3 lety +8

      It’s like they think the children will stay babies forever. Like they seems like they have no recognition that they are signing up to raise another human person.

  • @lillyofthenorth8798
    @lillyofthenorth8798 Před 3 lety +303

    "I hate that we can't share the adoption on social media.. We are just...SOOOOO uninteresting on our own, I mean, what else are we supposed to talk about?!"

    • @GriffinZambia
      @GriffinZambia Před 3 lety

      czcams.com/video/Cmp1R7frXWw/video.html
      ...

  • @clementine1169
    @clementine1169 Před 3 lety +4

    Ah yes my favorite CZcamsr Dan Jello Wallpaper. My autocorrect is really messing with my two brain cells right about now.

  • @thatonedog819
    @thatonedog819 Před 3 lety +10

    Dogs don't bite "out of the blue" BTW - in case anyone was wondering.
    Also, Thailand has the right idea. Many places in the US have the same law/policy regarding foster children, which is what this kid would basically be coming from Thailand since the adoption isn't fully finalized until that year is up. So I don't know why this is such a big idea.

  • @animethighs6357
    @animethighs6357 Před 3 lety +773

    I feel like anyone who exploits they’re family’s/kids daily or weekly they seem sketchy and end up being badly toxic

    • @animethighs6357
      @animethighs6357 Před 3 lety +20

      @ARIANA'S NEIGHBOUR Who is ANG, and what does that have to do with this vid? Bot

    • @justacatinabath1309
      @justacatinabath1309 Před 3 lety +32

      @ARIANA'S NEIGHBOUR everyone, remember to report bots like this

    • @hynjnlvr530
      @hynjnlvr530 Před 3 lety

      right

    • @jodiew7472
      @jodiew7472 Před 3 lety +3

      yep! that’s why i exploit my family monthly, so i still get that cash but it isn’t sketchy and bad 🤩🤩

    • @alexstyles5808
      @alexstyles5808 Před 3 lety

      But we only call out the white families for this 👀

  • @corvideer1738
    @corvideer1738 Před 3 lety +582

    The year-long social media delay was policy for my little adopted brother, and my parents literally had no issue outside of having to remind his daycare provider not to post a picture of him. Once the year period was over, we had a celebration and took some nice photos with him and made a social media announcement. They could take as many pics and vids as they want, just not post them on social media. It's literally that easy

    • @lemonblesssed3753
      @lemonblesssed3753 Před 3 lety +80

      It’s soooo easy to abide by unless you’re literally trying to exploit them. I’m a foster and adoptive mom and I cannot post them while in care but I rarely post them after adoption either because I feel like it’s not right to without their consent.

    • @averyeml
      @averyeml Před 3 lety +18

      I’m assuming this is why so many people I know who foster and adopt or the charities I follow on Facebook about fostering and adopting cover the children’s faces in 90% of the pictures. That plus the whole “we’re fostering a kid who may have family that shouldn’t know where they are” kind of thing.
      It isn’t hard. Even if they did post pictures of something in the house where the kid happens to be in the background, they just stick an emoji over the kid or something.

  • @callmewasabi8498
    @callmewasabi8498 Před 2 lety +2

    I just checked their channel they now have a another video called “why we are no longer adopting from Korea”

  • @greenology6192
    @greenology6192 Před 3 lety +5

    "SAVE US" "WE ARE IN THE BASEMENT" "HELP" dangelo: Totally don't know what their talking about

  • @Floviah9
    @Floviah9 Před 3 lety +252

    So this family would rather shove a camera in their child’s face regardless of their mental health, than (God forbid) adopt a child in need. All I see is selfishness smh 🤦‍♀️

  • @NiteLights
    @NiteLights Před 3 lety +742

    As an adopted kid, this makes me very happy to see that they were stopped/deterred by this. I couldn't imagine my entire life just put out on the internet for everyone to see. This case reminds me of the Myka Stauffer one with the kid she had to "re-home."

    • @i.am.heather
      @i.am.heather Před 3 lety +9

      Look up “crazy pieces” and “crazy middles” .... almost all adopted kids, parents exploiting their adoptive children’s stories. It’s disgusting.

    • @GriffinZambia
      @GriffinZambia Před 3 lety +1

      czcams.com/video/Cmp1R7frXWw/video.html
      ...

    • @man-wv8xj
      @man-wv8xj Před 3 lety +4

      i can’t imagine being an orphaned child and when someone finally gives me a new family is a vlogging family. that sounds like the cruelest fate

    • @isaiahchang2295
      @isaiahchang2295 Před 3 lety +1

      Agreed (also adopted)

  • @marianunes8472
    @marianunes8472 Před 3 lety +10

    imagine adopting your kid purely just for BUSINESS... we do have to start having some kind of parenting test before ppl can adopt or have children cause this is insane.

  • @noni6903
    @noni6903 Před 3 lety +39

    hi d'angelo, i'd love to see your take on the recent creepshow art situation considering you instantly shut hopeless peaches down when she tried to defend herself :>

    • @emilian234
      @emilian234 Před 2 lety +1

      Wait what? Wdym "shut" what happened exactly? Because I am familiar with all the horrible things Creepshow Art did, so like ?

  • @aaaallleex
    @aaaallleex Před 3 lety +332

    “Oh my gosh! We could adopt a K-Pop baby!”

  • @jamesmason7979
    @jamesmason7979 Před 3 lety +509

    "No one should be allowed to put their child in a vlog ever."
    Amen!

    • @KateGrealy1
      @KateGrealy1 Před 3 lety

      Absolutely

    • @pinkqueenscookie
      @pinkqueenscookie Před 3 lety +1

      Why? We tell our kids what to eat, how to dress, when to sleep, where they live, everything. Filming is up to the parent. But they should keep in mind not filming their child upset, that’s not right or children who are saying no about the camera. But again their choice. Children don’t have many choices until 18.

    • @lazyperfectionist3978
      @lazyperfectionist3978 Před 3 lety +25

      @@pinkqueenscookie - because the stuff you listed is expected of you as a parent and not doing so is considered neglect.
      Filming your kid to put online publically for 'cute content' and basically money as youtube family vlogs are basically employment for some families is child exploitation

    • @pinkqueenscookie
      @pinkqueenscookie Před 3 lety +1

      @@lazyperfectionist3978 Yes but they don’t get to choose. That’s my point. Your parents can force you to be vegan, carnivore. You can hate green and that’s what you wear.
      I get what you’re saying, I don’t really watch those family channels but that money is benefiting their kid too 🤷🏽‍♀️
      Is it child exploitation to put your kid in ballet in hopes they’ll be a professional? Pageant kids can be scary too....
      I don’t think it’s a big deal if they are treating their child with respect. And if a child ever doesn’t want to be filmed they don’t. But just my opinion.

    • @asmi14
      @asmi14 Před 3 lety +12

      @@pinkqueenscookie because they are exploiting their child for money

  • @murderotica_
    @murderotica_ Před 3 lety +6

    The way she looks at her husband is so SO creepy. Something isn’t right there, idk what but it doesn’t sit right in my soul.

  • @taylormagliarditi2920
    @taylormagliarditi2920 Před 3 lety +2

    your videos are helping me so much right now. i have BPD & i’m having a rough time at the moment, but when i put your vids on i feel like i’m hanging with a friend. thank you :-P

  • @keeweebir
    @keeweebir Před 3 lety +545

    Family channels seem so detrimental to children. Like, so many of the kids on family channels are so young, they can’t consent to having recordings of themselves posted on the internet and their parents can blab about their kids’ feelings, thoughts, etc that they trust them with- just so many violations of privacy.

    • @seekittycat
      @seekittycat Před 3 lety +32

      Honestly I get chills to thinking of those kids in middle school. Just hours and hours of embarrassing footage online. Everyone in school who knows their name can find it with a click of a button.

    • @NoName-dx1no
      @NoName-dx1no Před 3 lety +15

      Even child actors and actresses have to have regulations but CZcams? The kid is shown to millions on a daily basis and there’s no limit on age or how much money they should be getting. Not that being a child actor is the safest thing to do but at least they have some regulations

  • @nicoanderson428
    @nicoanderson428 Před 3 lety +979

    i was adopted through Holt International, and I am also from South Korea. This couple makes me feel sick, I too was adopted into an all white family, and my biggest fear is that the only reason I was adopted was for the "aesthetic" of having a mixed family. They should 1. understand there are more reasons behind why the child cannot be filmed 2. simply respect that guideline for one year and 3. stop acting as if them adopting ONE international child is saving them all. Theres hundreds of thousands Domestic Adoption agencies available.

    • @thepeacefulbuddah
      @thepeacefulbuddah Před 3 lety +23

      Nico, What makes you think that you were adopted only for your race, How did that thought arise? Did your parents do anything to make you feel that way

    • @ladycaticorn2950
      @ladycaticorn2950 Před 3 lety +32

      I'm so sorry if your adoptive family has made you feel tokenized in any way. I cannot speak for them, but as someone who wants to adopt (either domestically or internationally), I value giving a home to a child in need regardless of race. If I happen to have a transracial family, awesome. I think some people go into adoption with selfish intentions but many adopters are not like the Phillipis and just want to give a home to a child(ren) in need.

    • @paradox9369
      @paradox9369 Před 3 lety +32

      Watch out, don't let that fear turn into resentment for people who have given you a home. Talk to them

    • @saraa1741
      @saraa1741 Před 3 lety +21

      I hope that your family treats you well, and you feel loved. Don't let these fools make you feel that all families are like them. Sending you much love.

    • @beccag2758
      @beccag2758 Před 3 lety +20

      I’m truly sorry you have that fear. Personally I’ve never felt that way (I was adopted from China) so I can’t imagine how hard it must be to have that worry in the back of your mind. I would encourage trying to talk to someone about this. It doesn’t have to be your parents if you don’t feel comfortable with asking them about it yet, but please talk with someone so you don’t have to deal with this anxiety alone.

  • @morganmatlock5467
    @morganmatlock5467 Před 2 lety +2

    They have a Karen understanding of basic human rights. Favorite video so far.

  • @hannahhelton3789
    @hannahhelton3789 Před 2 lety +2

    I hope adoption agencies see their video and deny their applications. These people don’t understand what adoption is and they’re going to ruin a child’s life for their own egos and enterprise.

  • @floofzykitty5072
    @floofzykitty5072 Před 3 lety +1048

    This has major Myka Stauffer vibes with how she adopted a special needs child then sent them away because she didn't realise that special needs children actually have special needs.

    • @peyton1817
      @peyton1817 Před 3 lety +60

      They actually have some ties & have met up (since they’ make the same “genre” of video). I remember Nikki posting a video about the Stauffer family adoption situation, trying to separate herself. Disgusting behavior.

    • @PumaArg
      @PumaArg Před 3 lety +84

      I remember watching that and finding it very...remarkable how they thought "what if he hurts my children?" about the adopted child in a way that made it seem like they thought he was an intruder and not one of their own children. I personally think no one, NO ONE, who doesn't view their adopted child as if they had come out of their own fucking womb should adopt

    • @hannahcroft3630
      @hannahcroft3630 Před 3 lety +14

      when they forget that the “clout” also comes with a fuckton of dedication/responsibility

    • @LolitaAngel6
      @LolitaAngel6 Před 3 lety +14

      Not to mention Myka expected that poor kid to die in a few years so she and her awful husband would just get pity and not have to take care of the child anymore.

  • @swagatthedisco1789
    @swagatthedisco1789 Před 3 lety +507

    This child most likely needed a home, and they refused to take the kid in just because they couldn't post about it. These people suck.

    • @GriffinZambia
      @GriffinZambia Před 3 lety

      czcams.com/video/Cmp1R7frXWw/video.html
      .

    • @blueismylove3128
      @blueismylove3128 Před 3 lety +46

      I mean, it's not "most likely" if they are up for adoption, but do we really want these people having more kids anyway?

    • @vubzs
      @vubzs Před 3 lety +20

      Its so gross thinking about it. Yes I grew up in an era where social media wasn't really a thing for my mom, but I couldn't imagine having a camera shoved in my face when I was a child and having me be online everywhere as a child. Its gross that they cant even go without a year of not posting their kid on social media.

    • @jollybear_wastaken
      @jollybear_wastaken Před 3 lety +17

      I really hope that kid was given a home. Every child deserves a home but not every home deserves a child

    • @you_when_u_eat_paint_dust4428
      @you_when_u_eat_paint_dust4428 Před 3 lety +2

      Atleast the kid didn’t end up with them. They don’t deserve children.

  • @bvnnychan3218
    @bvnnychan3218 Před 3 lety +10

    make a vid about creepshow art plssss

  • @boppop8703
    @boppop8703 Před 3 lety +7

    There’s drama in the art community again 🤡!!! Look up ‘creepshow art drama’ its abt a bully stalking their victim for like a decade

    • @piguu7226
      @piguu7226 Před 3 lety +1

      And apparently D'Angelo is friends with Shannon. Big yikes, hope he's not biased this time unlike the previous situation involving Peaches.

    • @piguu7226
      @piguu7226 Před 3 lety +1

      @@bpbeep6526 Yea I think they were sort of "creator friends" back when the drama happened. He's still a featured creator on CSA's channel. D'Angelo probably has distanced himself overtime.

  • @ladygaygay94
    @ladygaygay94 Před 3 lety +174

    “Let me speak to the manager of Thailand!”
    Honestly these people suck so much but that line got me lmfaooooo

  • @farhatlamisa4451
    @farhatlamisa4451 Před 3 lety +101

    Every country should have that sort of adoption law to discourage these family vloggers from adopting a child for clout and then later discarding them once they've milked enough content out of these poor children.

  • @lizzfrmhon
    @lizzfrmhon Před 3 lety +9

    Why not an American kid? I’m sure there are kids needing adoption in your own country. These shallow, ridiculous people are not gonna raise their kids right and CZcams shouldn’t allow it.

  • @OGimouse1
    @OGimouse1 Před rokem

    So good to see your videos coming back up in recommended and relayed again ❤

  • @roseta5017
    @roseta5017 Před 3 lety +385

    When they said the child won’t even be theirs since it takes a year for the adoption to be finalized....... you can tell they won’t ever truly love any child. You don’t need official papers to love a child as your own 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @mamafett6320
    @mamafett6320 Před 3 lety +607

    They were like: "OH NO! MY CLOUT!!!!"
    Then they were like "It's not in god's will" over it 😂😂😂
    "We wanted a non-white kid for views" 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺👉👈

    • @AmelieAnthrax
      @AmelieAnthrax Před 3 lety +8

      Asian kids are in this season 🥺🥺🥺✨✨✨❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @masterfulmoonlighter5402
    @masterfulmoonlighter5402 Před 3 lety +29

    Can you please talk about Creepshow Art? She's done some shitty things and you were/are acquainted with her

    • @gofarbehappy
      @gofarbehappy Před 3 lety +22

      *they are/were acquainted with each other. we don't know anything about their friendship status, and it's important to make that distinction for the sake of accuracy and sensitivity, as she targeted him as well as others.

    • @masterfulmoonlighter5402
      @masterfulmoonlighter5402 Před 3 lety +6

      @@gofarbehappy You're right, thank you for correcting me!

    • @PV-wi5jq
      @PV-wi5jq Před 2 lety

      What happened