The TERRIFYING TRUE story that inspired Candyman

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  • @lucyboyce7491
    @lucyboyce7491 Před rokem +7831

    It's actually so sad and ironic because Ruthie was so strict about locked doors and when she died her door was locked yet still was murdered in her own home. She wasn't even safe with the door locked 😥

    • @bodhixxx1
      @bodhixxx1 Před rokem +2

      ya that is a real strange creepy way to die. Who would think to check behind your mirror for a intruder?

    • @LadyEowyn
      @LadyEowyn Před rokem +218

      I didn't even think of that! Brb crying.

    • @RosyHeart408
      @RosyHeart408 Před rokem +87

      Sadness 😥

    • @rebeccahherdener2068
      @rebeccahherdener2068 Před rokem +225

      Poor Ruthie and her grandbabies.😭
      They didn't deserve any of that.

    • @reversalmushroom
      @reversalmushroom Před rokem +214

      I think it's ironic because the locked door actually killed her because it deterred the cops from investigating any further. If it wasn't locked, they would've opened the door, saw her, and rushed her to the hospital.

  • @ethanhederman
    @ethanhederman Před rokem +4657

    I am 39 years old and I still refuse to look in the mirror and say candy man. Logically I know nothing would happen but why risk it

    • @michaelwallin7033
      @michaelwallin7033 Před rokem +145

      Same 😅😅😅

    • @bobococo89
      @bobococo89 Před rokem +79

      Me too!!!

    • @kevinbernhardt3568
      @kevinbernhardt3568 Před rokem +114

      Lol, I’m 38 never have and never will

    • @rshop1837
      @rshop1837 Před rokem +22

      Amen

    • @gypsyqueen3806
      @gypsyqueen3806 Před rokem +61

      This movie literally scared me so bad and it’s so hard for me to find movies that scare me!!! I’m the same, I’d never say candy man in the mirror, ever!! lol

  • @jessicabrown6604
    @jessicabrown6604 Před rokem +765

    So heartbreaking. She was so close to being in a safer environment and getting to see more of her grandkids. Even worse Ruthie never even got justice.

    • @DeviceAnathema
      @DeviceAnathema Před 10 měsíci +17

      You can thank religion.

    • @fromdeathtolife2076
      @fromdeathtolife2076 Před 9 měsíci +38

      @@DeviceAnathemaevil people did this to her not religion.

    • @Oceans_away
      @Oceans_away Před 6 měsíci +15

      @@fromdeathtolife2076evil people used religion to exploit her…. And you’re probably thinking “oh it was just a few evil preachers but every other preacher is good.” Christianity is 100% about making money every single time

    • @santhoshnta
      @santhoshnta Před 6 měsíci +7

      ​@@Oceans_awaypeople will not agree. Negative they will blame people, positive happening in random they will attribute to God.

    • @jonfitz8280
      @jonfitz8280 Před 5 měsíci +2

      What judge is gonna say Candyman 3 times

  • @Rat_Queen86
    @Rat_Queen86 Před 11 měsíci +346

    This broke my heart.
    That poor lady. I worked in mental health for 10 years and it used to infuriate me how often those with mental illness would be overlooked when they were terrified.

    • @ChloeShaliniArt
      @ChloeShaliniArt Před 8 měsíci +21

      Same here. And I've also had personal experience with psychosis, everything about you becomes labelled as part of that. In reality it's often trauma related. As I'm sure you know. Thanks for working with us. I hope you look after yourself these days. ❤

    • @JohnMarston-sf1vk
      @JohnMarston-sf1vk Před 5 měsíci

      RELIGION: The biggest scam.

  • @amymoquin8636
    @amymoquin8636 Před rokem +2152

    Poor Ruthie. If you think about it, she was incredibly brave. Even though she suffered from mental illness and paranoia, she would go around to make sure her neighbors locked their doors. Sure, she went about it in an odd way but for someone who was afraid of everything, she put herself in harm's way so that her neighbors would lock their door and stay safe. This was actually a really sad story.

    • @barneyronnie
      @barneyronnie Před rokem +8

      You're special; I sense it after looking at your profile pic. Take Care!

    • @amymoquin8636
      @amymoquin8636 Před rokem +45

      @@barneyronnie I'm not really sure how to take that. Seems like an insult, though I'm not sure why.

    • @AshNikkosWife
      @AshNikkosWife Před rokem +36

      I hope they didn’t mean it like that. I assumed they meant cause you look happy, and kind.

    • @amymoquin8636
      @amymoquin8636 Před rokem +44

      @@AshNikkosWife Oh, thank you. That's very sweet of you to say. This person might mean well. It just kinda sounds like an insult. People can be such jerks on CZcams. The other day I commented on a video about 9/11. All I did was say something empathetic and how it's still heartbreaking all these years later and someone attacked me and literally said they wished it happened to me.🤯

    • @concretehippogaming
      @concretehippogaming Před rokem

      ​@@amymoquin8636 Yeah well you're feeling sorry for someone that's incredibly stupid, I mean she spent money on blocks of wood to make her younger lol at that point are they just sending her copies of herself? Since she's just a plank, so yeah you're kind of Special as in weird for feeling sorry for someone like that.

  • @Tikikat22
    @Tikikat22 Před rokem +3081

    I feel sad for Ruthie especially after hearing about her close bond with her grandchildren 😪 what a terrible and scary thing to experience. RIP Ruthie

    • @PorcupineTheOneandOnly
      @PorcupineTheOneandOnly Před rokem +71

      And if only she didn't fall for scammers, so she might have had a chance to leave to see her grandkids .

    • @ludotoyhunter8492
      @ludotoyhunter8492 Před rokem +83

      I’m born and raised in Chicago and I was little when this happened but I remember my grandparents and great grandparents discussing this. It was in the newspaper and everything. This happened in the height of the “crack era” when crackheads were doing savage things to get money for drugs. The police here never ever ran into those project buildings so if someone was being chased by cops they would run into the buildings and the other gang members would block the lobby by just standing there in big groups. The cops got tired of the hassle so when the guys got to that vestibule, cops stopped and gave up chasing them. The buildings had thin plaster walls where in between some apartments, someone could get into those maintenance spaces between the wall that could run the length of the whole floor. They robbed and stole things from many people that way and they did so without being arrested or charged or caught by the residents. It was sad as hell, man. I’m glad they tore most of those project buildings down because plenty of awful things happened there.

    • @EMILYHERRERA
      @EMILYHERRERA Před rokem +31

      ​@@ludotoyhunter8492why tf were they built like this?! There's no privacy or security if the only thing required to traverse the entire building is to use the Mirror System. As soon as I heard this, I immediately wanted to know why and WTF.

    • @MrViking69
      @MrViking69 Před rokem +7

      I feel sad for the like button's toasted bread.

    • @aaronjohnson1005
      @aaronjohnson1005 Před rokem +3

      @@EMILYHERRERA uhhh for profit?

  • @ContentMadame
    @ContentMadame Před 11 měsíci +308

    My mother, who was also severely mentally ill, was targeted heavily by those televangelist con artists. It's disgusting that they still have tax exempt status.

    • @-Jason-L
      @-Jason-L Před 6 měsíci +6

      The church is tax exempt, not the preachers.

    • @santhoshnta
      @santhoshnta Před 6 měsíci

      ​​@@-Jason-Lthey can enjoy the benifits like register in the name of church

    • @debrajones4010
      @debrajones4010 Před 5 měsíci +13

      Oh those who are using God’s word to gain their own glory will definitely have their own payday when they are met with Him on judgement day. I feel sorry for those who believe what they are saying and telling them what to do and how they’re gonna be showered with blessings upon blessings. Pray to the Lord for your blessings and no one else.

    • @JewelChick01
      @JewelChick01 Před 5 měsíci

      They are nothing but criminals!

    • @twstdreality
      @twstdreality Před 5 měsíci +6

      @@debrajones4010amen to that! Only Jesus

  • @slop4683
    @slop4683 Před 11 měsíci +207

    Ruthie's story is sadly a common one (outside of the odd details of her murder), very frequently people with mental or physical disabilities are entirely disregarded and forgotten. Police and medical professionals very often will treat us with less respect than we deserve- especially in the cases of those of us that suffer from hallucinations or delusions. I remember one story circulating a while back where one individual in a mental facility reported a bat in their room, but all of the staff assumed it was a hallucination, until they walked in the room and saw it hanging in the corner. It's a sickeningly common phenomenon for terrible things to happen to disabled people because everyone chooses to pretend we're invisible for their own comfort instead of giving us the support we need.

    • @ayethebeatgooff
      @ayethebeatgooff Před 9 měsíci +10

      I feel like people with less concerning mental health issues should be going into the medical field more often. A good back ground check and a psychological evaluation should be done. More people who can actually have some empathy towards the mentally ill being in those positions I feel would greatly increase the amount of proper care they receive.

    • @desireer6915
      @desireer6915 Před 9 měsíci +12

      I also feel like it's a combination of things. Everything you mentioned, plus compassion fatigued (which is common anyways in medical fields), and also burnout. I think if medical professionals were more selfaware of these issues and treated every situation with professionalism and the same efficiency in response time, there would be less cases like what you and this video describe.

    • @xXTwigManXx
      @xXTwigManXx Před 9 měsíci +12

      Obviously if someone is constantly talking about seeing nonsense, people aren't going to take it seriously. Ever hear of the boy who cried wolf?

    • @Twy7chTec_Vayper
      @Twy7chTec_Vayper Před 6 měsíci +5

      Have to highly concur with the leading subject of this. All of us on Disability (I've got both serious Physical & Mental Disabilities) have to say, never felt, treated even by the medical field like I was invisible, and like I'm talking to f'ing wall 98% time. Just cause I'm a cash cow(someone whose a guaranteed paycheck cause they charge the insurance 99% without issues). You end up becoming a bit more of an A**hole the longer you're on it (became disabled at 22, turn 39 next month). But, I've definitely become more of an advocate for epileptics, PTSD folks, and anyone just struggling through the process cause hell, you/they aren't alone. Thanks 👍 for making this post dude, I know I needed to read something like this🤘😎🤘 keep on rockin' like Dokken

    • @JewelChick01
      @JewelChick01 Před 5 měsíci +1

      So many people make a habit of disregarding others. It's a total lack of empathy. Until they experience something firsthand, they cannot put themselves in another person's shoes. I don't get how people grow up to be this emotionally stunted.

  • @charlescrawford2821
    @charlescrawford2821 Před rokem +660

    The thought of people creeping through the walls and coming out of mirrors is truly terrifying. Scarier than the movie. Poor Ruthie.

    • @jasondesselles9168
      @jasondesselles9168 Před rokem +21

      After spending 30 years in construction, you would be surprised how easy it is to gain entry to someone's space. Especially some place with shared walls, like an apartment building.

    • @nmstranger
      @nmstranger Před rokem +4

      @@jasondesselles9168 I live in an apartment with a similar layout. My apartment mirror has a small space behind it and than my neighbors bathroom mirror. The reason I know this as management needed to do some pipes and they removed the bathroom mirror and right next to it is a neighbors bathroom mirror.

    • @jasondesselles9168
      @jasondesselles9168 Před rokem +4

      @@nmstranger Bathrooms in apartments are back-to-back, for plumbing reasons usually. Besides that, there's only 1 inch of sheetrock separating you & your neighbors.

    • @Nelsathis
      @Nelsathis Před rokem +4

      @@jasondesselles9168 Not living in the US i dont understand how that even works. Can you not take down the mirror yourself? How do people not know there is a crawlspace behind that? How did you not see that when moving in?
      My appartment doesnt even have a single mirror, because.. i never bought one. And even if there was it would be on the wall leading to my kitchen.

    • @jasondesselles9168
      @jasondesselles9168 Před rokem +8

      @@Nelsathis Here in US there is a particular type of bathroom medicine cabinet / mirror that's inset inside the wall. The thieves in her apartment building removed the medicine cabinet / mirror, realizing there was a crawlspace behind it where they could access other apartment units. Most residential homes don't have these crawlspaces..

  • @vaevictis8249
    @vaevictis8249 Před rokem +668

    What I had imagined as you described someone crawling out the hole in the wall really creeped me out. Imagine how she felt. Poor woman.

    • @faridaaminy9734
      @faridaaminy9734 Před rokem +10

      I was really scared 😳

    • @casiecalhoun1325
      @casiecalhoun1325 Před rokem +12

      Absolutely terrifying

    • @QueenWolf7
      @QueenWolf7 Před rokem +3

      I love being terrorized. I've once or twice thrown my phone accross the room

    • @osarubadiaru1713
      @osarubadiaru1713 Před rokem +6

      The alliteration in this reply thread is palpable, i.e., there are the names "Vae Victis" (OP), "Casie Calhoun" and "White Wolf," excluding "Farida Aminy."

    • @jamescheddar4896
      @jamescheddar4896 Před rokem

      i would have smashed him in the face with a toilet tank cover

  • @AdamJWM
    @AdamJWM Před 9 měsíci +179

    The Candyman movie was set in Cabrini Green, very dangerous place in reality. The mirror removal thing is absolutely terrifying. Great story telling Mr. B!

    • @kel-kel1723
      @kel-kel1723 Před 9 měsíci +15

      I wouldn’t even stop at the traffic light in front of Cabrini Green ( before it was demolished)

    • @nadolfc8008
      @nadolfc8008 Před 8 měsíci +2

      The book was based in Toxteth, Liverpool

    • @katiesiouxlamoureaux7757
      @katiesiouxlamoureaux7757 Před 8 měsíci +5

      They finally tore those apartments down

    • @najeanwaters2505
      @najeanwaters2505 Před 8 měsíci +3

      use to be very dangerous, it has changed a whole lot, I work in Cabrini-Green the area is so much nicer. But there are still some areas that still CG lol.

    • @rhysdaniels1003
      @rhysdaniels1003 Před 6 měsíci

      @@nadolfc8008near me I’m in Wigan 🇬🇧 UK

  • @jurgenvonjessica4656
    @jurgenvonjessica4656 Před rokem +101

    I love that Mr Ballen leaves in some of the original takes when he can't help laughing. Also, I like how he builds in context and information for non-Americans (listing metric conversions, geographic details for locations in the US, etc.) and details for Americans when talking about international locations. This helps all viewers around the world to enjoy.

  • @sarahpriddy3720
    @sarahpriddy3720 Před rokem +584

    This story just breaks my heart. That poor woman spent her time trying to protect her neighbors and then she was murdered so tragically. I hope her family was able to find peace even with a lack of justice.

    • @Boo675jhggg
      @Boo675jhggg Před rokem +34

      She locked her door - that's the ironic things about this story. She was thought that was going to keep people out. She wasn't really crazy was she?

    • @mahouaniki4043
      @mahouaniki4043 Před rokem +11

      Crowded poor urban neighborhoods usually come with cold/careless neighbors and incompetent polices, unfortunately.

    • @byunniq9060
      @byunniq9060 Před rokem +3

      ​@@mahouaniki4043 cold/careless neighbors? Bs

    • @dandy-dani
      @dandy-dani Před rokem +9

      @@byunniq9060 do you live in one like really? if so do you speak to your neighbors? it doesn't matter if you do or not, would they help you in crises,
      do you genuinely believe that?
      chances are
      when they hear what may sound like gunshots it'll be chalked up to fireworks even if it doesn't sound like it at all
      and I wouldn't blame em, if you live in a neighborhood like that and you get some sap arrested your still not safe you probably even put a target on your back.
      if you don't have these worries and have the luxury to judge them then have another decent day

    • @DamiesEvilTwin
      @DamiesEvilTwin Před rokem +12

      She was discriminated against, for being old, disabled, poor, and black. All of these combined made police lackluster to respond to any concerning incidents before someone ended up dead. The movie itself delves further into the agonies surrounding the area and the case, albeit thematically and metaphorically. It's so fucking sad. And of all the people they murdered, the fact they killed some little old lady who nobody believed anyway is so fucking atrocious.
      I can't understand people like this at all. Not the murderers, the thieves, or the cops who shrugged it all off at first. It's so inhuman.

  • @abigailtrumbo178
    @abigailtrumbo178 Před rokem +688

    My heart breaks that she tried so hard to fix her life and the schizophrenia just brought her down again. No one who’s sick like that should be left all on their own all the time or expected to just suddenly be better.

    • @grmpEqweer
      @grmpEqweer Před rokem +8

      Agreed.

    • @cr3237
      @cr3237 Před rokem +32

      What's so sad is that she obviously had family. Why didnt they help her or give her a bit more support? The building was notoriously dangerous, I wouldnt have left my mum in a place like that.

    • @lar-zd9rs
      @lar-zd9rs Před rokem +11

      What does one do though when they live here on a greencard, lost their kids to each father, had 3 divorces because the husband's couldn't handle her and the hospitals won't keep her longer than 3days- sometimes a week? They get her meds straight and then she refuses to take them within a few days of being released and goes to hallucinating type drugs. I had a neighbor for 12yrs that I watched go through all the above and tried to help countless times and she just recently moved and now we just watch her hallucinate on social media.

    • @cr3237
      @cr3237 Před rokem +10

      @@lar-zd9rs I haven't got all the answers. I think the root of the problem is that all the mental hospitals have been closed. In them, patients got the assistance they needed, drugs, therapy or just a safe place to be nutty in. (My mum worked as a nurse in one for years.) Now it's called 'care in the community' which obviously isn't working for many. If you have a mental illness that needs controlling with medication, but your mental health state isn't stable, (and if it was, would you need the meds anyway?) then you aren't going to take the meds you need to straighten you out. If you don't have family or very good friends to help you, then you are f'd. A vicious circle and the mentally ill suffer, and often their neighbours.

    • @lar-zd9rs
      @lar-zd9rs Před rokem +7

      @Anon Y mous for years I tried to help and just be there for her and listen. Then it got so bad that many of us neighbors were having to call her in under the bakers act. I don't understand how she's allowed to live alone. If anyone tries to help her, she gets extremely violent with the tongue and blocks you out of her life after receiving help (refer back to bakers act comment) for a few weeks until she decides that she's high enough again to talk to us. I don't know how to help her and she refuses to stay on her meds and seek a drug program, go to counseling, etc. But yet, she's deemed sane enough to live alone... She almost burned down her apartment. I can't even imagine what that would've done to the other tenants if a neighbor wouldn't have banged on her door to wake her butt up. We check in on her, it's always, "I'm good. I'm on my meds" but, social media videos show something much, much different. I just don't know how to help anyone in this state is all.

  • @DdraigGoch84
    @DdraigGoch84 Před 11 měsíci +25

    Candyman was actually directly based on a Clive Barker short story, but barker had based the story on real life events such as this. Poor people, living in dangerous neighbourhoods essentially being forgotten by the govt and police.

  • @wolpertinger.
    @wolpertinger. Před 7 měsíci +7

    John laughing during his own ads is actually the cutest thing 😆💕

  • @BeeKee404
    @BeeKee404 Před rokem +397

    This is just so tragic. Nothing saddens me more than hearing how someone who lived in constant fear finally experiences those fears becoming a reality and to top it all off, she never got justice.

    • @bradsanders407
      @bradsanders407 Před rokem +16

      I'd like to hear the guys explanation of how he came to be in possession of her tv and how the other guy was named.

    • @fuhyfelax8218
      @fuhyfelax8218 Před rokem +6

      @@bradsanders407 he could’ve gotten the tv and not killed her tbh I feel like he did but with how many people are in the walls and the mirrors already smashed in he could’ve just climbed in and took the tv

    • @ActiasLinnaeus
      @ActiasLinnaeus Před rokem +10

      It really is. Strange, also. It feels like reading a work of fiction. What she experienced must have been incredibly traumatic. A true nightmare.

    • @mfauz96
      @mfauz96 Před rokem +2

      @@fuhyfelax8218thought the law said if you break into someone’s house and someone dies, you’re responsible for the death even if you didn’t do anything.

    • @fuhyfelax8218
      @fuhyfelax8218 Před rokem

      @@mfauz96 if that’s the case i didn’t know that then fair enough he’s guilty

  • @mackenziewarnick
    @mackenziewarnick Před rokem +1430

    I feel so bad for Ruthie never truly getting justice, and that just because she lived in a dangerous place the cops didn’t take the calls seriously. Thank you so much John for bringing her story to light and speaking about her in a gentle way. As an anxious and paranoid person myself I cannot even image what those last few moments of her life were like.

    • @vuvu5152
      @vuvu5152 Před rokem +118

      Finally, a comment that talks about Ruthie injustice instead of worshipy comments over Mr.Ballen. Im a fan as well but the fans are repetitive all over the comments

    • @000MIMS
      @000MIMS Před rokem +49

      Yeah I was in tears by the end, my heart breaks for her. I hope she is at peace

    • @bluetextonwhitebg
      @bluetextonwhitebg Před rokem

      sadly, they didn't take her seriously due to her mental illness. they likely responded to a lot of calls either for or about her to the point that they couldn't take anything she said with merit.

    • @MP-ut6eb
      @MP-ut6eb Před rokem +37

      ​@Dont Read Profile Picture please.. stop doing that. Thank you.

    • @fooliecoolie5284
      @fooliecoolie5284 Před rokem +46

      It wasn't really because of the neighborhood she lived in, it was the fact that she was a known troublemaker in the apartments and they thought it was just Ruthie being ruthy again

  • @sleeperholdASMR
    @sleeperholdASMR Před 10 měsíci +70

    The paranoia of her mail being from someone trying to take all her money is not an unreasonable paranoia lmao. I feel the same way when I get mail 😂

  • @not.alexanderr
    @not.alexanderr Před rokem +135

    As someone with schizophrenia I could tell like immediately that she had it, she's lucky no one shot at her when she would just straight up walk into peoples apartments

    • @Packend
      @Packend Před 11 měsíci +8

      right? especially living in chicago

  • @KimStogner1
    @KimStogner1 Před rokem +382

    This was horrifying!! The thought of people creeping between the walls would be my worst nightmare. So sad for Ruthie!!😢

    • @DMBGirl1234
      @DMBGirl1234 Před rokem +6

      It is crippling terror For REAL

    • @jimskeuh
      @jimskeuh Před rokem +1

      i wonder if this was a room next to her room? like an empty room? that they were staying in and tried to go through that hole

    • @Jianju69
      @Jianju69 Před rokem +2

      @@jimskeuh Seems there were maintenance passages in the walls for plumbers and electricians.

  • @jonahlefholtz8219
    @jonahlefholtz8219 Před rokem +549

    I've lived in Chicago since 2003, so I'm familiar with this story, but haven't heard such an in-depth and humanizing telling of it before your retelling. You have such a gift for making stories relatable and the people in them real.

    • @abc-wv4in
      @abc-wv4in Před rokem +15

      Mr. B is always respectful of the people in his stories. His YT success couldn't happen to a better storyteller.

    • @mansourbinfahad
      @mansourbinfahad Před rokem

      @@abc-wv4in Agree 100%

    • @beccadis2823
      @beccadis2823 Před rokem +4

      Cabrini Green when coming from the South into Chicago you had to pass it on the Interstate. In the yearly 90's while living in the corn fields of Indiana between Indianapolis and Chicago we visited Chi Town often. The Greens always stood out with a grim decaying look. It's all gone now but I still remember the burnt out and boarded up Windows of those apartments before the last of them was Finally vacated and it ALL finally torn down.

    • @sheacat77
      @sheacat77 Před rokem +2

      @@beccadis2823 (from a small town nearish South Bend, IN originally, so howdy kinda neighbor!) For me the first true display of urban decay and human misery was just getting through Gary and Hammond. I think by the time we got to that area I was overwhelmed by all the sadness so Cabrini didn't stick out to me. I do remember my friend pointing it out and feeling bad for the folks that had been living there.

    • @tiatokkesdal1745
      @tiatokkesdal1745 Před rokem +3

      He embellishes too much and it’s not believable.

  • @eldendad5743
    @eldendad5743 Před 8 měsíci +9

    Truly sad for Ruthie. Imagine being in her shoes, thinking everyone is out to get you. And when all is said and done she was right

  • @blkwng
    @blkwng Před 11 měsíci +28

    It was hard listening to this. How have things changed so little? An old person who loves their grandchildren, almost close to abandoned to stay at such a dangerous place, ignored by others because of inconvenience, and taken advantage of by scammed without scruples? It's just so unfair.

  • @cameemz
    @cameemz Před rokem +541

    Ruthie was so strong to be living in constant fear like she did. Most of us wouldn't be able to make it through the day if our minds suddenly turned against us. She deserved so much more, I hope her grandkids and loved ones continue to remember and honor her for the brave and compassionate woman that she was.

    • @angelang222
      @angelang222 Před rokem +5

      Completely agree!

    • @autodogdact3313
      @autodogdact3313 Před rokem +10

      I felt so sad she didn't get to be living in the new home and seeing her grandchildren although in a Mr. Ballen video I was sure that wouldn't happen.

    • @Datrebor
      @Datrebor Před rokem +4

      I felt so bad for her. I don't know how anyone could be so strong to live through all that. That is not the only building where people can walk through out the building behind the walls.

    • @davidpressley3451
      @davidpressley3451 Před rokem +6

      It's sad her last moments were a bunch of cowards stealing her stuff.

    • @rebahensley5323
      @rebahensley5323 Před rokem +4

      @@poopsmith008 what would you have him say?

  • @tmcd6902
    @tmcd6902 Před rokem +654

    The fact that 26 minutes feels like 5 means you def are an amazing storyteller. 👏🏻 thanks mr. Ballen.

    • @raptureangel5409
      @raptureangel5409 Před rokem +3

      NONE BETTER!!!

    • @fooliecoolie5284
      @fooliecoolie5284 Před rokem +17

      ​@Dont Read Profile Picture reported

    • @FEARM0NGER
      @FEARM0NGER Před rokem +1

      @DontReadMyUserPic Stop attention-whoring and talk about the video.

    • @undergroundsoldierz3824
      @undergroundsoldierz3824 Před rokem +6

      Sorry, But his stories are long, Feels like 40 mins.. He can turn a story of going to get the mail into a movie.. It can be annoying sometimes but its impressive at the same time lol

    • @crystalairgood9845
      @crystalairgood9845 Před rokem +2

      It really did fly by and I want MORE!

  • @Redmystique717
    @Redmystique717 Před 8 měsíci +2

    😢the fact we are not as a society protecting our vulnerable neighbors is sad. The police not taking it seriously, incredible bc at any point in time she could have been a danger to herself.
    Great story telling

  • @angeldark404
    @angeldark404 Před 11 měsíci +4

    I love your ad reads. I love how creative it gets. We need a cut of just the ad reads, and how insane your Lil ad read world is.

  • @abercul7698
    @abercul7698 Před rokem +1384

    Ruthie LOVED her apartment neighbors and her barging in and causing a scene was just her way of trying to protect them for unprotecting themselves. Poor Ruthie!

    • @Kyleedsl420
      @Kyleedsl420 Před rokem +10

      In a way …

    • @ShigadyShigadyShwey
      @ShigadyShigadyShwey Před rokem +59

      @@LeahMT. I mean, she had good intentions, even if she was kind of a nob.

    • @anizato
      @anizato Před rokem +2

      Isńt this a Beatles song? @mrballen

    • @staceytroffer8287
      @staceytroffer8287 Před rokem +2

      I agree.

    • @juliemiller4763
      @juliemiller4763 Před rokem +26

      Why would anyone need to be convinced to lock their doors in a neighborhood with one murder per week???

  • @xxo8888
    @xxo8888 Před rokem +220

    She was getting help and on her way out of there... and the fact that she made sure everyone was safe but she couldn't save herself is heartbreaking. Her poor grand babies. Just sad all around

  • @ChrisRoth1972
    @ChrisRoth1972 Před 10 měsíci +6

    Dude I had never enjoyed stories until I bumped into your Channel.
    You not only tell these stories,you are so animated!
    Your Channel is addictive!
    Thank U for what you do,young man!

  • @ScottsCOD
    @ScottsCOD Před 10 měsíci +10

    I binge watch him every week or so. Always some great stories. I find his stories about the wilderness, national parks and trails to be the most amazing.

  • @Suilimani
    @Suilimani Před rokem +272

    I feel so bad for Ruthie she was so close to getting out and being with her grand babies. I never knew candyman was based off a true event it terrified me as a child Tony Todd was terrifying.

    • @saral.3956
      @saral.3956 Před rokem

      It's not, it was based on a Clive Barker story called The Forbidden

    • @jeremysiron9622
      @jeremysiron9622 Před rokem

      @@saral.3956 maybe Carpenter was inspired by that true story

  • @GriseldaBlanco305
    @GriseldaBlanco305 Před rokem +390

    Poor Ruthie .. they took advantage of her and she never got the chance at a better life with her grandkids .. this one really made me sad 😔

    • @hotfeva9843
      @hotfeva9843 Před rokem +10

      Yea pastors of super churches still do this today

  • @cheyenedjema9681
    @cheyenedjema9681 Před rokem +7

    Jesus Christ, it gave me goosebumps all over. Poor Ruthie, may her soul rest in peace

  • @user-le6sp7mj8y
    @user-le6sp7mj8y Před 9 měsíci +4

    OMG that is such s sad/disturbing/and horrifying story. Poor Ruthie ..... how trajic that she was not only so close to being rescued by police but also so close to being able to get a disability allowance to help her move to somewhere safe and close to her family! As im writing this i have so many emotions bubbling up to the surface, but mostly anger for how she was treated by the one service that were there to help her but didn't. I'm totally freaked out by the thought of all those creeps being able to climb into your bathroom at any time ! That's left me feeling physically ill now!😮😢

  • @e-tone312
    @e-tone312 Před rokem +235

    Thank you for giving the extra, humanizing details from Ruthie's perspective. Like mentioning she was likely struggling to decide/figure out what was real or not when they first broke in

    • @Msboochie2
      @Msboochie2 Před rokem +1

      I think anybody would be shocked thinking.. “this cannot be happening.”

    • @waterlily9455
      @waterlily9455 Před rokem +5

      Yes! It really shows you how terrified she must have been seeing and experiencing all of this, I really hope she is at rest and is having a very peaceful afterlife, she deserves peace since she was such a loving soul, she tried to warn others even though she had a strange way of doing it, it was out of the goodness of her heart
      RIP Ruthie ❤️

    • @iamjackspyramidshapedhelmet
      @iamjackspyramidshapedhelmet Před rokem +3

      That’s what sets Mr B apart, his kindness & empathy for others

  • @crystalarchuleta8377
    @crystalarchuleta8377 Před 9 měsíci +3

    This is such a sad story, and the thought that locking your doors was no help! Poor Ruthie and God bless her soul!

  • @prollynoth1m
    @prollynoth1m Před 11 měsíci +6

    been a fan for almost 4 years, you guys have gone a long way since then and i've watched every video produced since, the growth of this channel has only been skyrocketing, i wish the best for you all, may this channel continue to grow better

  • @Gamatatsu69
    @Gamatatsu69 Před rokem +386

    That is absolutely terrifying to think about. The fact that bad people were just crawling through the walls, and could just break into anyone’s house anytime they pleased…imagine not only ruthie’s family’s trauma but the other people’s who lived in that horrible apartment….

    • @cowz1812
      @cowz1812 Před 11 měsíci +19

      That’s why you gotta stay strapped

    • @saeedboynes7129
      @saeedboynes7129 Před 7 měsíci +5

      Good thing they got rid most of those project buildings in Chicago. Though it did cause other problems down the line.

    • @MrGFloyd
      @MrGFloyd Před 6 měsíci +3

      It’s a black apartment. So if they broke in apartments they were just stealing from other criminals.

    • @saeedboynes7129
      @saeedboynes7129 Před 6 měsíci +6

      @@MrGFloyd u really wanted some attention smh. 🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @aikou2886
      @aikou2886 Před 5 měsíci +1

      ​@@MrGFloydIsn't that what black neighbourhoods are all about?

  • @mermaid_at_heart213
    @mermaid_at_heart213 Před rokem +391

    I'm a huge fan of the film Candyman and I've heard of Ruthie Mae's tragic story before. Thank you for covering her story in a way that shows what a kind soul she was and not just her mental illness and what happened to her. You always do such a good job of bringing some humanity to the stories that you tell. RIP Ruthie.

    • @saral.3956
      @saral.3956 Před rokem +4

      Candyman was based on a short story by Clive Barker (which was written before the events of this episode even happened)... the movie was definitely not inspired by this story

    • @roblopez8481
      @roblopez8481 Před rokem +1

      ​@@saral.3956 When the movie was in preproduction they changed it around to take place in Chicago and race swapped candyman

    • @Itsloco314
      @Itsloco314 Před rokem +2

      ​@Sara L. Thanks for that. I read up on Clive's "The Forbidden" and now they added the real life story of Ruthie and created Candyman. That was a stroke of genus now it's a cult classic.

    • @BrokenAngel2480
      @BrokenAngel2480 Před rokem

      Is Candyman just gore or is it a psychological thriller?

    • @mermaid_at_heart213
      @mermaid_at_heart213 Před rokem

      @@roblopez8481 Thanks for pointing that out, Rob. Although the story was written beforehand, Clive did get more inspiration for the film from Ruthie's tragic story.

  • @user-le6sp7mj8y
    @user-le6sp7mj8y Před 9 měsíci +4

    Mr Ballen your stories are so disturbing and addictive at the same time. No one can tell a story as good as you, you are the THE BEST 😊❤

  • @SarutaValentine
    @SarutaValentine Před rokem +9

    This is absolutely something right out of a nightmare. Not a lot of things genuinely scare me, but this one did. Damn.

  • @MyLittleWorldReborns
    @MyLittleWorldReborns Před rokem +305

    This was one of my fave episodes so far. I live in Chicago and the high rise buildings where Ruthie lived were called Cabrini Green.
    It was the hell hole and I feel for any decent person who had to live there.
    I know of many stories told about that place and all of them are horrific. Cannot imagine having killers and psychos crawling in my walls whispering and walking there 24/7. Something terrifying about knowing these individuals were snooping at all their neighbors just standing behind their bathroom mirror. 🫣
    Poor Ruthie, may she rest in peace 😩🙏🏻.
    Thank you for telling her story so sensitively, Mr. Ballen.
    You are the best.

    • @Camdagenius
      @Camdagenius Před rokem +14

      Hey, don't don't talk crap about my old stomping grounds lol jk jk... I grew up in Cabrini Green, and as crazy as it sounds, as dangerous as Cabrini was, I never felt more safe. I've seen people shot, thrown off the top of buildings, etc. My best friend Dantrell Davis was killed walking to school with his mom. He was 6. It made national news. Ballen should do a story about him.

    • @MyLittleWorldReborns
      @MyLittleWorldReborns Před rokem +8

      @@Camdagenius Omg no way! Dantrell was your bestie? Amazing!!! So sorry for your loss and also I didn’t meant to talk badly about any neighborhood but darn it, it was bad. Thank you for sharing your memories here.

    • @ca44444
      @ca44444 Před rokem +5

      @@Camdagenius Holy hell, I’m so sorry for your loss.

    • @bgraunitz6175
      @bgraunitz6175 Před rokem +6

      One of my favorites too! Mr.B takes this story to A whole other level!!!

    • @Camdagenius
      @Camdagenius Před rokem +11

      @@MyLittleWorldReborns yes he was. He lived right next door to me in our building, 502 W. Oak St. He had been in a fire before he was shot and suffered severe burns to the side of his head. That's where he ended up getting shot at. It was sad. I was just Kidding about you talking about Cabrini. It was very dangerous. Thanks for your condolences.

  • @sunnni_
    @sunnni_ Před rokem +480

    As a chicago native I've heard this incident so many times and my mom and her siblings grew up a few blocks away from that apartment and it's just so wild that no one thought she was being serious. I always wondered if her grandkids were okay after what happened.

    • @AdrianM777
      @AdrianM777 Před rokem +10

      Are these buildings still up to this day? Google doesn’t really help much in finding out

    • @sunnni_
      @sunnni_ Před rokem +34

      @@AdrianM777 no, they torn them down a long time ago. They redesign new buildings though for housing so it looks completely different

    • @bloodymary12100
      @bloodymary12100 Před rokem +17

      Was this Cabrini-Green?

    • @kennedy9359
      @kennedy9359 Před rokem +5

      Yes

    • @ryuno2097
      @ryuno2097 Před rokem

      Can't blame the people when she's been a bit unhealthy mentally. She's been doing those stuff a lot and the people in the apartment think it's Ruhtie being Ruthie.

  • @cucumber1991
    @cucumber1991 Před 10 měsíci +3

    I mightve just watched your videos for about 36 hours straight, as a 33 year old male I have done multiple drugs and have been addicted to many things, im now sober for almost 10 years but i have a new addiction now and that is Im highly addicted to your story telling

  • @undulated
    @undulated Před 11 měsíci +4

    The only channel that makes Sponsor announcements super interesting and very fun.

  • @tayyoung8002
    @tayyoung8002 Před rokem +252

    Mr. Ballen is the only person who makes advertising for a company as entertaining as his stories! The man's a legend!!

    • @josephmcelroy6561
      @josephmcelroy6561 Před rokem +2

      Try ssethzeentch and Russian badger, they're better at it.

    • @susanfowler5479
      @susanfowler5479 Před rokem +7

      I absolutely love his laugh!

    • @Shortkingharry
      @Shortkingharry Před rokem +8

      ​@@susanfowler5479 I agree with this, that he laughs at himself is one of the best character traits we can have

    • @aaroncoats7600
      @aaroncoats7600 Před rokem +6

      He's the only CZcamsr that I listen to his ads

    • @freddielee1965
      @freddielee1965 Před rokem +2

      Mr. Baller is the Goat of short stories!

  • @KodyRogers
    @KodyRogers Před rokem +58

    I truly believe this man could “story tell” a trip to the barber shop and I’d be enthralled. Talent. 👏 👏 👏

  • @angiadcock8196
    @angiadcock8196 Před 8 měsíci +3

    I usually don’t get freaked out listening to stories like this anymore, but the way you described the second person crawling out of the wall freaked me the f out. Great job dude.

  • @CH-ii5ih
    @CH-ii5ih Před 9 měsíci +1

    Being invested in the story then hearing the term "suck down some fight milk" comes out of left field, and it's appreciated.

  • @thankyouforincorrectingme
    @thankyouforincorrectingme Před rokem +379

    This is terrifying! This solidifies my feelings when those videos were going around SM/TikTok of that woman who felt air by her bathroom mirror then found out there was a hole to a room/tunnel behind it….so many people went the paranormal route, I was on the side of “the living are much more terrifying!”. Ugh. Poor Ruthie. 😢❤

    • @troyeckert5619
      @troyeckert5619 Před rokem +16

      I believe that hole was patched up the next time she checked it, that's even more terrifying! Someone knew she discovered it!

    • @kimkaykae
      @kimkaykae Před rokem +19

      My late grandmother always used to say that we shouldn't be afraid of the dead; it's the living you should be watching out for.

    • @user-yj4se9ht5e
      @user-yj4se9ht5e Před rokem +7

      @@kimkaykaeI was just coming to comment the same thing! My grandmother used to tell me that when I was young and had nightmares and she was so right

    • @kimkaykae
      @kimkaykae Před rokem +2

      @@user-yj4se9ht5e Our grandmothers were so right!😉

    • @gnarthdarkanen7464
      @gnarthdarkanen7464 Před rokem +2

      As we upgrade from older technologies, it's not unusual for older buildings to be rittled with weird corridors, tubes, tunnels, and passages. The ventilation systems from "back in the day" weren't nearly as effective or efficient (and thereby CHEAP) as HVAC systems today, and if the landlords can save a buck by removing old crap and just patch-working walls closed around it, they'll do it.
      Let an older building fall to disrepair in a bad neighborhood, and there's no telling what can be "discovered" by those intent to avoid detection...
      Yeah, the dead just sit there rotting. The living ARE far more dangerous. ;o)

  • @listerineclean343
    @listerineclean343 Před rokem +744

    You mentioned how Ruthie was scared of everything, and that certainly seems true. But she took it upon herself to look after her neighbors in what she perceived to be an extremely dangerous situation. That takes a heart full of bravery.
    I’ve just listened to this after the Caribbean pipe incident. Crazy how one person can stumble on an air tank in an impossible situation, while another can be singled out and killed for no reason at all.

    • @inleblack1136
      @inleblack1136 Před rokem +13

      Caribbean pipe incident.. I watched that and had to turn it off halfway cos it was making me scared.. I watched it all and it haunts me. Poor Guys, I hope Christopher gets some peace.

    • @Vanessa-qj5hj
      @Vanessa-qj5hj Před rokem +3

      Me too

    • @bibekjung7404
      @bibekjung7404 Před rokem

      Almighty God KABIR

    • @Kimmy_95
      @Kimmy_95 Před rokem

      ​​​​@@inleblack1136 Christopher, for the rest of his life will suffer survivor guilt.😢He contemplated suicide. Our politicians in Trinidad 🇹🇹& those they pay to post on FB & Twitter TARGETED him for weeks. When we found out he was the ONLY survivor, many were AFRAID they'd kill him in the hospital because there's a lot of secrets being kept about that pipeline & it's alleged connection to Maduro (Venezuela). They behaved as if they wanted no survivors & he spoiled those plans.

    • @eltipobigotudo2162
      @eltipobigotudo2162 Před rokem

      I’ve just listened to this after the Caribbean pipe incident. Crazy how one person can stumble on an air tank in an impossible situation, while another can be singled out and killed for no reason at all.
      Hey, me too!

  • @Big_time_949
    @Big_time_949 Před rokem +2

    You're a true hero Mr. Ballen. Much respect for you, sir. And you're an amazing story teller. Hollywood can't even compete with you. And it seems Hollywood forgets that a great story equals a great movie.

  • @justinturner4327
    @justinturner4327 Před 8 měsíci +2

    If I ever wanted someone to read me a bedtime story, my first choice would have to be Sir David Attenborough, but you MrBallen would definitely be second on that list!! Keep up the good work....love it!!! 😍

  • @ahmedsadak
    @ahmedsadak Před rokem +1250

    Mr. Ballen is the master of weaving dark and mysterious tales. His storytelling skills are so captivating, I feel like I'm in a thriller movie every time I watch one of his videos

    • @KadoMason11
      @KadoMason11 Před rokem +14

      For sure he’s amazing at telling stories

    • @thecooldolphin9391
      @thecooldolphin9391 Před rokem +7

      you just expressed my feelings. :)

    • @blessedsinner8686
      @blessedsinner8686 Před rokem +14

      When I die, I'd want Mr ballen to tell my story. 😆

    • @Brooksj824
      @Brooksj824 Před rokem +6

      Ahmed you have said that so perfect!! Lol I don't really get into other story telling channels just because I can't get into them. The way he tells the story with the right amount of energy and description is 100% perfect! 💯💯💯🤜🤛

    • @godwarrior3403
      @godwarrior3403 Před rokem +7

      Cuz this is THRILLERRRRR
      Sorry. Had to.

  • @bd3966
    @bd3966 Před rokem +280

    I have heard Ruthie Mae's story a few times, but I had never heard about her sending money to preachers, you really do your research! My heart breaks for her, she was an innocent soul. Thank you for telling her story.

    • @Chris_Sheridan
      @Chris_Sheridan Před rokem +3

      .. Ballan finds stories and adds stuff and makes things up - that's what story-telling is all about!

    • @BlakeSeely57
      @BlakeSeely57 Před rokem +35

      @@Chris_Sheridan He doesnt make stuff up

    • @tat-2-71
      @tat-2-71 Před rokem +13

      What about this particular story is "made up"?

    • @littledeathmark8991
      @littledeathmark8991 Před rokem +14

      @@Chris_Sheridan he tells us what he can research about. Read all the links/articles that are on the description for proof :>>

    • @mcmong02
      @mcmong02 Před rokem

      @@Chris_Sheridan then why are you watching 🤡

  • @doberbrat17
    @doberbrat17 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I love the fact that gag reels are included in the sponsored content! John’s laugh is a bit contagious! 🤣 I normally forward through the ads but I find myself immersed in the comedy! Mr. Ballen truly is one of a kind!

  • @jessieperkins6600
    @jessieperkins6600 Před rokem +2

    I love MrBallens sponsorship ads; especially because if he starts laughing he keeps it in 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @taraemcintyre
    @taraemcintyre Před rokem +258

    John, thank you for telling Ruthie's story so sympathetically. Our society is so quick to dismiss Ruthie & those like her. In your always compelling way of telling stories, you made her universally relatable and her death much more than just a statistic. You're the best ❤️

    • @vinagerie427
      @vinagerie427 Před rokem +6

      Perfect comment...:)

    • @belizegal29
      @belizegal29 Před rokem +8

      The dismissed her because she lived in the Projects. Back then, it was common to have snipers on the roof of Cabrini. The cops were too afraid to go there and didn’t care about innocent residents safety.

    • @Kiss_My_Aspergers
      @Kiss_My_Aspergers Před rokem +6

      ​@@belizegal29 they never have and never will

    • @daerdevvyl4314
      @daerdevvyl4314 Před rokem +1

      BelizeGyaal Is it possible that they cared about residents but knew that it wouldn't help them for the police to be shot by snipers? It's bizarre that in one short comment you give a good reason for the police not going into the community and then say that the reason they didn't was they didn't care.

  • @ryugar2221
    @ryugar2221 Před rokem +678

    It's terrifying that someone with the so much fear and paranoia had to live in one of the most unsafe places.... Truly a twisted fate, especially when she died due to neglect because her own life was similar to "The boy who cried wolf"...

    • @ShigadyShigadyShwey
      @ShigadyShigadyShwey Před rokem +22

      I suppose it may have been the other way, she became paranoid by living in such an unsafe place.

    • @theephraimite
      @theephraimite Před rokem +16

      Her children should’ve had her move in with them.

    • @Rainynightstories
      @Rainynightstories Před rokem +14

      @@theephraimite yeah...we don't know their circumstances but I thought the same thing...so sad

    • @Rainynightstories
      @Rainynightstories Před rokem +3

      Ikrrr ......I was thinking about the same thing

    • @xdowlandx
      @xdowlandx Před rokem +1

      What was the boy who cried wolf know the fairytale thing but is there like a real life like case called that?

  • @avesaoirsepraesens3537
    @avesaoirsepraesens3537 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I swear sometimes it's almost like I watch these and anticipate the ad spaces more than the stories - you make them that fun!

  • @markoberacher8191
    @markoberacher8191 Před rokem +2

    Love you, man, true scholar, and a gentleman. You're an awesome guy

  • @wendylaw3971
    @wendylaw3971 Před rokem +456

    It shows that the people we write off as mentally unstable, can have a better sense of reality than the rest of us. This story does justice for Ruthie 💛

    • @Aquascape_Dreaming
      @Aquascape_Dreaming Před rokem

      It definitely does not show that at all. It describes ONE incident where unusual things were taking place in a building in a bad area.
      Mentally unstable people almost ALWAYS suffer from delusions and hallucinations. Please stop trying to legitimise the delusions of the mentally ill. They should be treated, not encouraged.

    • @juliemiller4763
      @juliemiller4763 Před rokem +15

      Sometimes they are painfully aware of reality, but it can be very difficult to tell the difference between that and a complete detachment from reality. She did care for the safely of others, even though she was always an outsider…

    • @TruGhost.
      @TruGhost. Před rokem +4

      Well stated! Thank you.

  • @ksexton6784
    @ksexton6784 Před rokem +152

    this is honestly the scariest story ive heard from mr ballen. once he said about people sneaking through the mirrors i kept thinking about the scene where the ladys baby disappears. i feel bad for anyone who lived in that building.

    • @Anna-iz1tt
      @Anna-iz1tt Před rokem +24

      I wouldn't feel bad for everyone who lived in that building since her neighbors denied to the police that they heard any banging or loud noises event though Ruthie's furniture, television etc... had been stolen. Surely some of those neighbors must have heard those heavy items being removed and did not say a thing. Also, how many in the building knew about the thieves behind the walls and did not warn Ruthie. Ruthie was seen as an easy target. She tried to keep her neighbors safe, albeit in an annoying way, but they did NOTHING for her in return EXCEPT the one neighbor who was genuinely concerned, furious at the police for there lack of action and who called the maintenance worker to open the door (something the police should have done).

    • @ildisiri
      @ildisiri Před rokem

      Yo when you look at ur mirror tonight I'll pop behind it and make a silly face to you 🤣😱👻😁

  • @chariots8x230
    @chariots8x230 Před 7 měsíci +3

    MrBallen, can you please share some stories that reveal the connection of ghosts/spirits to mirrors?
    This is a topic that I think would be interesting.

  • @zombiechicken7114
    @zombiechicken7114 Před rokem +1

    Poor ruthie. She deserved so much more compassion and understanding.

  • @mamapoch1915
    @mamapoch1915 Před rokem +219

    Since the one man had her TV, I think that was a clear sign that he was involved in some way. This is such a sad story! Once again, John, your storytelling skills made this story as compelling and mesmerizing as it gets! Thank you for all the hard work you put into these videos. And especially thank you for the work you do helping victims of violence.

    • @kkittycatkat1990
      @kkittycatkat1990 Před rokem +31

      Maybe but maybe he did nothing except for buy items that were being sold or finding items in the garbage. Any reason would do because there is zero evidence that can prove him a murderer. In reality, there is no proof that he did anything more than buy a t.v or accept a tv as a "gift". You need proof and the proof (that _he_ murdered Ruthie) just wasn't there.

    • @sethmyers5666
      @sethmyers5666 Před rokem +19

      "I found it by the dumpster outside." That's all he has to say. Is he lying? Do you have evidence to prove it? If that's ALL the evidence you have, can you really send a man to prison for life?
      What's really unfortunate, is these buildings were built so cheaply (or oddly? Both?) that you can remove your bathroom mirror and then jump into a tunnel that leads to any other bathroom in the building.

    • @deepg7084
      @deepg7084 Před rokem +11

      Bet modern day forensics would've been able to find a fingerprint or hair or skin flake. They can even test for gunpowder residue on a person's hand or clothing. Though with a murder per week in that building I'm sure a lot of people had gunpowder residue. Awful place to live. Scary when you consider Chicago is even WORSE today.

    • @ca44444
      @ca44444 Před rokem +7

      @@deepg7084 it’s honestly a lot better here in Chicago proper. The South Suburbs though are a mess.

    • @MatthewMS.
      @MatthewMS. Před rokem +6

      Oh my God. I’ve been listening to Mr. Ballen stories since he first went viral on Tik Tok years ago, never missed one, and this was instantly my 2nd favorite Mr. Ballen Story (1st is the original viral story of the snowboarding 🏂 snowy wood cabin story). 21:30 I yelled out loud and got full body goosebumps. Wow 👏🏻 the story telling skills of John Ballen is unmatched.

  • @MidnightsAnthem
    @MidnightsAnthem Před rokem +249

    MrBallen thank you so much for bringing awareness to Dave’s story. The amount of people who donated to his GoFundMe along with your personal donation is amazing. You are the perfect example of using a platform for good. ❤️

  • @Claireannette77
    @Claireannette77 Před 18 dny +1

    BAILEY SARIAN JUST DID A VIDEO ON THIS AND ITS SOOOO GOOOD!!!! We leaned so much more about Ruthie and her daughter. The police, security, and dispatcher are absolutely at fault for this!

  • @talithaehrlich5347
    @talithaehrlich5347 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Dude, We absolutely love your style of story telling....we watch you very regularly. The movie Candy Man SCARED me to DEATH as a teenager.
    This is a great story!
    Thank You!

  • @bobbyrebholz2183
    @bobbyrebholz2183 Před rokem +265

    For those of you interested, that apartment complex was called Cabrini Green and it was 100% real. It has long since been flattened and redeveloped but if you drove up highway 90 into Chicago in the early 00's, you could definitely see the remnants of a once awful place before it was torn down. I remember seeing whole balconies barred off because people were thrown from them. Almost every window looked charred because of the fires. Firefighters refused to go into that complex because they would get shot at. It was such an awful place. University of Illinois is almost directly across the highway so I can imagine how scared students were being that close.

    • @ChiraqDirtyBoyz
      @ChiraqDirtyBoyz Před rokem +1

      Wow this just isn’t true

    • @bobbyrebholz2183
      @bobbyrebholz2183 Před rokem +29

      @@ChiraqDirtyBoyzIt's definitely true. Just research what all went on there. They even threatened the film crew of Candyman. Horrible place.

    • @castsmith6783
      @castsmith6783 Před rokem +24

      @@bobbyrebholz2183 the film crew has to pay the gang member and ask them to star in the movie in order to be safe. But some of their equipment got shot by the rival gang member.

    • @chriswheeler6092
      @chriswheeler6092 Před rokem +12

      It reminded me of that woman from New York who had found a hole behind her bathroom cabinet and made a video of herself checking it out. She was all over the news and on the Ellen show.

    • @WarrenHolly
      @WarrenHolly Před rokem +13

      @@ChiraqDirtyBoyz I know you know it's true everybody in the Chi knows it's true

  • @AspireGMD
    @AspireGMD Před rokem +185

    Mr.Ballen will never disappoint, who would have thought a Navy seal would turn into an internet celebrity telling scary stories? That could be a movie in it's own right.

    • @MrBallen
      @MrBallen  Před rokem +53

      🙏🙏

    • @nikkiwagner9921
      @nikkiwagner9921 Před rokem +12

      I would totally watch it and be like I followed him back when he uploaded 5 times a week!! 🤣🤣

    • @cheeling794
      @cheeling794 Před rokem +2

      I think that's one of the reasons he is so loved

    • @gtalover139
      @gtalover139 Před rokem +3

      He is the best in the youtube scary story game I'd say

    • @CBaller2020
      @CBaller2020 Před rokem +3

      Possible Oscar performance for Mr. B playing himself?? Yes!!!

  • @jennifermazuroski9948
    @jennifermazuroski9948 Před rokem +3

    I just found your Channel and i am already addicted! Im 38 years old And i still am afraid to say Bloody Mary or Candyman in front of the mirror! 😂thank you so much for your amazing content! I will definitely be Binge watching! I huge Thank you from an enthusiastic New subscriber ❤

  • @111brandyc111
    @111brandyc111 Před rokem +3

    I absolutely love this channel. I started watching a few days ago and I can’t get enough. Keep them stories coming.

  • @katharris5010
    @katharris5010 Před rokem +294

    Years ago I was a receptionist at Propaganda Films. My fellow receptionist mentioned Candyman because a new Propaganda Films trailer was running in a loop on a TV at the front office. I told her not to say it again, but of course she said it 2 more times. At that moment Tony Todd walked up to the receptionist desk and we grabbed each other and froze. Terrified! He just wanted to know where Accounting was. He came by to pick up his check.

  • @cathiekiker4802
    @cathiekiker4802 Před rokem +31

    Where do I start ? First of all thank you for bringing her story to light. How horrible for her. It makes me very concerned that because of her mental state that the police didn't press it further. Especially because they did know her. There is a line in a movie that I have never forgotten. "Once people think you are crazy, no one will ever believe you." This needs to change. Again thank you for sharing your wonderful gift. I can't wait for the next one. You never disappoint.

  • @JaySmith-bf2bk
    @JaySmith-bf2bk Před 9 měsíci +2

    There's literally times that I would have gone crazy without the gift you've shared with me and the rest of the world... you sir are a gentleman and a scholar 😁

  • @Newmodel100
    @Newmodel100 Před 6 měsíci +1

    This is the ONLY channel where I actually listen/watch the ad placements. Hilarious.

    • @LearningCurveRanch
      @LearningCurveRanch Před 6 měsíci

      MrBallen makes endorsement an art form. Do you think that he knows we trust him?

  • @matthewmchugh2573
    @matthewmchugh2573 Před rokem +69

    My mom has been watching during a knee replacement surgey recovery! Randomly offered her the video of the skydiving incident &she cried and was HOOKED. In a few short days she has watched nearly 75% of your content and still trucking!! Thanks for what you do MrBallen you reach way further than you probably can ever imagine!!!

  • @brandybenlu
    @brandybenlu Před rokem +451

    It's so sad that they never looked into her murder :( they just let her die, didn't even bother to look to see if she was okay. Breaks my heart. Life is so unfair sometimes :(

    • @jamesplymire5342
      @jamesplymire5342 Před rokem +9

      They did, but couldn't prove anything.

    • @dwaresacksqb
      @dwaresacksqb Před rokem +16

      @@jamesplymire5342 they found the guy with the tv. Once they did that with good police work they could’ve gotten answers.

    • @iLBae
      @iLBae Před rokem +11

      Yall fail to consider the ethic background...

    • @dwaresacksqb
      @dwaresacksqb Před rokem +11

      @@iLBae true but a big problem in these communities is an unwillingness to work with police. I still think they could’ve gotten more answers since they found somebody linked to the robbery at least.

    • @iLBae
      @iLBae Před rokem

      @@dwaresacksqb it's the authorities that don't care for poor people and the poor thinking police are automatic enemies. It's a lose lose

  • @tamarawalker8757
    @tamarawalker8757 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Mr. Ballen is by far my favorite story teller!!! So engaging and I love the topics/ true stories he talks about!😊

  • @user-vf5sc4us9g
    @user-vf5sc4us9g Před 8 měsíci +1

    Just found him yesterday can't stop watching.

  • @Do27gg
    @Do27gg Před rokem +363

    Mr ballen should really do a ‘behind the scenes’ video showing how he finds stories and structures them as they’re so well made

    • @tigertalk2106
      @tigertalk2106 Před rokem +13

      He does work pretty hard & is consistent! Plus he has behind the scenes help that's reliable!!
      Always a great thing! Team work ya!! 💪

    • @bandywallop
      @bandywallop Před rokem +2

      He pretty much has

    • @Do27gg
      @Do27gg Před rokem +2

      @@tigertalk2106 oh damn when? Only found him about a year or 2 ago

    • @sluttymctits4496
      @sluttymctits4496 Před rokem +2

      ​@@Do27gg I think he had a video a while back with his mother, stating that she did a good part of the research and writing of scripts. He obviously brings his flair into it, but he does have a team to help put the videos together.

    • @meganshockley4598
      @meganshockley4598 Před rokem +1

      I know, right! I'd love to sit around a campfire and listen to his scary stories!

  • @Saran_wrap
    @Saran_wrap Před rokem +121

    I’ve heard all your stories and this one affected me so much. Ruth sounded like a pure soul. For all her fear she still walked those halls and tried to protect her neighbors. Questioning her reality as this was happening is heart wrenching. The fact that she could have potentially survived, even more so. I hope those police officers learned a valuable lesson that stuck with them.

    • @WouldntULikeToKnow.
      @WouldntULikeToKnow. Před rokem +11

      I hope they were fired but I doubt they were.

    • @susanivy3619
      @susanivy3619 Před rokem +2

      @@WouldntULikeToKnow. Actually, they went to maintenance to get a key after the friend called and for some reason the spare key didn't fit (and hence why the Super used a tool and not a key). That info can make it look even worse for them because going for a key shows they recognized that she could potentially need help, otherwise the one could say they didn't suspect anything due to other interactions they had with her, that hind sight is always 20/20 and who tf could have imagined what went down. Sad either way.

    • @ekramer2478
      @ekramer2478 Před rokem

      THIS. I felt so horrible for her.

  • @markthomas4083
    @markthomas4083 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Such a sad story. I feel bad for Ruthie. The responding officers that let her down will live with this horror the rest of their lives. They probably learned to perform their duties more seriously.

  • @St4rTr3v1Ut10n
    @St4rTr3v1Ut10n Před 9 měsíci +3

    18:38 "Edward did not admit do doing anything..."
    Now where have I heard that before?

  • @antoinetteserrano3082
    @antoinetteserrano3082 Před rokem +160

    It’s both sad & infuriating to learn that she could’ve been saved. She was literally almost out of that horrible place. 😢

  • @roseysenpai4136
    @roseysenpai4136 Před rokem +38

    I gotta say. These sponsors are getting more and more creative. Mr.ballen you deserve an Oscar for that performance 👏👏👏

  • @Nugzz187
    @Nugzz187 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Your definition of story telling is flawless 👏

  • @doogabadooswanson2927
    @doogabadooswanson2927 Před rokem +2

    I love you mr. ballen. Awesome videos. Make my day! :)

  • @paola2004
    @paola2004 Před rokem +162

    i cannot explain how much i love the way that when he gets sponsored he doesn’t make the ad boring like everyone else, but makes it actually enjoyable and fun

    • @curiousCaterpiller
      @curiousCaterpiller Před rokem +20

      His are the only ones I don’t skip through

    • @paola2004
      @paola2004 Před rokem +2

      @@curiousCaterpiller yess

    • @paola2004
      @paola2004 Před rokem +8

      @@curiousCaterpiller i sometimes even replay them

    • @tigertalk2106
      @tigertalk2106 Před rokem +7

      He has a contagious laugh!! 😂😁

    • @mistrdevine
      @mistrdevine Před rokem +5

      The best CZcamsrs, imo, always make the ad breaks just as enjoyable as the rest of the video. Brutalmoose is another good one.

  • @jaytrain5478
    @jaytrain5478 Před rokem +106

    It's nice to see you're using your training even in retirement to protect us from the the green menace. Prayers for Lungy.

    • @Hessed3712
      @Hessed3712 Před rokem +3

      That ad read was unhinged and I loved it!

  • @megtheetiger
    @megtheetiger Před rokem

    You literally make ads (especially with old LUNG!!!) more entertaining than any other entity on the web. Still a loyal subbie. Keep 'em coming, Mr. Ballen.

  • @LibertyOrDeath-ms5rf
    @LibertyOrDeath-ms5rf Před 7 měsíci +1

    Im so sorry this happened to you Ruthie. You were and are such a beautiful person. I know you are in a better place now. Thank you for trying to help people the only way you knew how. My heart broke listening to this and all those people who wronged you, I hope they are getting thiers. Love you Ruthie😢😘😔😊

  • @geraldwarren6438
    @geraldwarren6438 Před rokem +209

    I saw Ms Ruthie's story on "Horrific Gruesome Deaths in Chicago". It was very sad how she pleaded & cried out for help but no one helped her. The cops came but they didn't come in to her & it was too late. May she rest in heaven 🙏🕊️🥺🙏

    • @Gstar5150
      @Gstar5150 Před rokem

      ​@DontReadMyUserPicwell plaid

    • @InkSansDrawz
      @InkSansDrawz Před rokem

      I feel bad ab her death, she deserved help.

    • @haleyboo5617
      @haleyboo5617 Před rokem +1

      Didn't know anybody else watched that gruesome murders in Chicago

    • @EphemeralProductions
      @EphemeralProductions Před rokem +2

      Ms Ruthie really seemed wonderful! Poor thing. ❤

    • @babber2536
      @babber2536 Před rokem

      Them cops should have been held accountable for being such an arrogant

  • @robinenoch7362
    @robinenoch7362 Před rokem +38

    Oh my gosh, poor Miss Ruthie....I can't imagine being in a mental health crisis only to have your nightmare come to life. I can't wrap my head around the terror she had to have gone through. GREAT story Mr. B.....as always ♥️

  • @darkangel_1978
    @darkangel_1978 Před 10 měsíci +15

    I remember going to a sleepover with the church youth group, and Candyman was one of the movies we watched. My brother decided he was going to spook a female friend and he went into the nearby bathroom with the door open and was starting to repeat "Candyman." Our friend started sobbing and told my brother, "I don't want you to die !" I nearly spat out my soda from laughing so hard.

    • @xXTwigManXx
      @xXTwigManXx Před 9 měsíci +3

      A church youth group watching a horror movie? What? 🤨

    • @darkangel_1978
      @darkangel_1978 Před 9 měsíci

      @@xXTwigManXx yup. The leader didn't care, since we were all teenagers

  • @amberlawson229
    @amberlawson229 Před 11 měsíci +2

    You're effin hilarious 😂 i love listening to your stories 😍