Why trans and non-binary joy is not radical | Ben Pechey | TEDxLondonWomen

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  • čas přidán 6. 03. 2023
  • "Being trans is awful" according to the media, governments, certain authors and ‘charity’ groups, but it’s not trans people sharing this kind of hateful commentary. As Ben Pechey, a LGBTQIA+ advocate and writer says, all this commentary is cis-people’s problem. What if, instead, being trans can be joyful - where trans joy isn’t revolutionary, but an everyday occurance? In this powerful and personal talk, Ben describes how and why trans joy can be mundane, individual and everyday - accessible to trans and non binary people right now rather than sometime in the future. Ben is a writer, presenter, content creator, LGBTQIA advocate, diversity and inclusion consultant and author. They have worked with major brands such as Manolo Blahnik, Condé Nast, Dr. Martens, the NSPCC, Virgin Atlantic and many more. They uplift and educate through media. They have had words in print and online for Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health, Diva and many more. Their debut book - The Book of Non-Binary Joy - was published in May 2022. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 31

  • @TEDxTeesside
    @TEDxTeesside Před 14 dny

    Brilliantly inspiring, joyful and a glorious human. We are so lucky to have Ben as our TEDx host two years in a row.

  • @bertybertface1914
    @bertybertface1914 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Rock bottom, let me introduce TED x to you. Ted will be staying here a while.

  • @georgethom9682
    @georgethom9682 Před 10 měsíci +6

    Thank you Ben, your book really helped me feel better about being non-binary, I hope that we all find joy, even those with hate x

    • @BoBosworth56
      @BoBosworth56 Před 7 měsíci

      You are not non-binary. Stop lying

    • @benjaminfranklin8412
      @benjaminfranklin8412 Před 2 měsíci

      But why not accept what you are. Is living in a fantasy really preferable?

  • @theohopkins1903
    @theohopkins1903 Před 8 měsíci +4

    If there is 'trans joy" is there also 'cis joy'?

  • @ConsignToOblivion
    @ConsignToOblivion Před rokem +7

    Ben's dedication to spreading joy has been a pleasure to follow these last few years. I hope their talk brings many listeners a validating voice of support and acceptance.

  • @dukeakasmudge
    @dukeakasmudge Před 10 měsíci +5

    Benny Hill is ALIVE!!!

  • @sarahverity
    @sarahverity Před rokem +4

    This is just so very inspiring . Well done for having such an amazing voice - I hope this gives people support, acceptance and understanding. More please!

  • @sarahsinclair7157
    @sarahsinclair7157 Před rokem +5

    Such a refreshing and perfectly delivered talk. I hope everyone gets a chance to watch this, as it really opens hearts and minds. Thanks for this insight, Ben.

  • @MultiKilla619
    @MultiKilla619 Před rokem +16

    Imagine having 38.4 Million subscribers, but only 5-6 comments with almost no viewers. Because of how much people dont give a fk about these topics.

    • @toastiesburned9929
      @toastiesburned9929 Před rokem +3

      A shame really. The only people who NEED to see this are the ones who don't care.

    • @mkaz3997
      @mkaz3997 Před 10 měsíci +3

      I think most people would rather NOT stigmatise those with mental health issues, but equally, most do NOT want to see mental health issues normalised or even mandated!

    • @MultiKilla619
      @MultiKilla619 Před 10 měsíci

      @@toastiesburned9929 Nah man Im straight, if you catch my drift

    • @MultiKilla619
      @MultiKilla619 Před 10 měsíci

      @@mkaz3997 its a mental issue indeed

    • @mikeyunderstars
      @mikeyunderstars Před 3 měsíci

      okay- let's talk about the dozens of other trans related TED talks with collectively millions of views, then

  • @lokiiago_x0x
    @lokiiago_x0x Před 10 měsíci

    Absolutely wonderful x0x thank you!

  • @taruniyer6788
    @taruniyer6788 Před rokem +2

    A beautiful talk. And those shoes omggg

    • @ms.pugsley
      @ms.pugsley Před 5 měsíci

      😂. A man in heels. Needs to stop

  • @crinklechips6950
    @crinklechips6950 Před 9 měsíci +3

    YIKES

  • @ms.pugsley
    @ms.pugsley Před 5 měsíci +2

    You things are never going to be accepted.

  • @BurgundyKRO
    @BurgundyKRO Před rokem +24

    Opening the talk with a passive-aggressive remark about JK Rowling, makes it hard to take you seriously.

    • @jonidoe4732
      @jonidoe4732 Před 10 měsíci +12

      Focusing on a passing remark rather than the overarching content of the talk makes it hard to take you seriously.

    • @BurgundyKRO
      @BurgundyKRO Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@jonidoe4732 says the bigot

    • @BoBosworth56
      @BoBosworth56 Před 7 měsíci

      Ok fascist@@jonidoe4732

    • @wieidiicivjsjq
      @wieidiicivjsjq Před měsícem

      @@jonidoe4732This whole speech is a bunch of bs not wonder they didn’t focus on the rest