Rachel Lindsay’s Advice for Single Women with High Standards
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- čas přidán 25. 01. 2022
- One of Bachelor Nation’s most well-known figures and the first Black Bachelorette, Rachel Lindsay, is here! She sits down to talk about her memoir, “Miss Me with That: Hot Takes, Helpful Tidbits, and a Few Hard Truths.” Her husband, winner of season 13 of “The Bachelorette” Bryan Abasolo, also joins the sit-down to reflect on their romance, the viral interview with former “Bachelor” host Chris Harrison, and more.
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I’m so glad Tamron bought up how black women fixate on wanting a black man and can miss out on genuine connections. Rachel Lindsey is a Queen!
I am black and was raised by my black father. I remember asking him if he would have a problem if I fell in love with a man who wasn't black. He told me that I could fall in love with a pig as long as he loved me. Get someone good for your soul. Period.
Black women need to wake up, black men have given up on us. We need to date outside our race.
Beautiful Couple
@@mees2751 yup
@@mees2751 Now you’re being an extremist. The percentage of black men who prefer black women actually is greater than that of white men. This tunnel vision approach will be to your detriment because it assumes all white men are husband material. You might end up with exactly what you tried to avoid because pigs exist in every group. Choose character, and that can be a black man or non black man.
Talented, outspoken Black women are breaking so many barriers and changing the media landscape. Rachel didn't let that guy off the hook, and her hubby supported her as a man should support his wife.
That’s riiight! 💖
I’ve met them both in person and very fun and great couple.
preach yes folks in those feelings now when BW start speaking up and are educated. It's like this a threat now with men in general.
Rachel wanted to wear a boss babe pant suit to her wedding and her husband said “no - wear a dress” and I’m a bit salty she didn’t follow / wear what she wanted :/
What a Woman. Elegant. Intelligent and Witty. Unfortunately instead being admired she's judged for just doing her job. She's so right on about LOVE. Don't make any BARRIERS. White. Black. American. Hungarian. Just find love.
Thank you!
Yes! Rachel an Tamron both!
I saw these 2 in the mall in Dallas one day. They are gorgeous in person. TV does them no justice.
Awe that’s so cool and sweet to hear
Hmmm I decided to marry out my race yearsssssssssss ago. I can't wait. I get tired of people in my culture limiting black women to only black men. My best experiences came from men of other cultures. My caucasian best friend taught me how I was suppose to be treated based on how he treated me. Especially not having any good male figures growing up in my life. I am so happy for them both. I love this amazingly beautiful couple. God bless them.
Aged like milk
Tamron is flawless. What a gorgeous woman!
Flaw-leeeessssssss! Glad you said that
This is the lesson I learned after deciding I want only a black husband... I ended up limiting my options and destroying my romantic life....
I hope you make that known to younger black Women. Don’t keep this information to yourself
@@RC-iq2hh sure dear, let work in this together...the soulmate could come with any other color... Let us not limit our sucees in love....
She's so proud of him, you can see it when she looks at him.
He seems really masculine.
@@sparklesp9304 really hot, too
@@sparklesp9304 he is gay. Looks is deciving!
@@sparklesp9304 He seems passive, at least competing with his wife.
I love Rachel and it's actually dissapointing to see an interview where ONCE AGAIN, she's having to explain to somebody (however many years later at that) why she's with a white/latino man and not a black one. Let it go. She loves him and they are beautiful together..
Yes, but she discussed this in her book so it is a fair topic
He absolutely adores her and it was apparent on the show that he was all about her. It doesn’t hurt that he’s handsome!
Mae because Rachel kept on carryon about this race issue and does not surround herself with her own black people in her circle only when she is looking to be paid. What happen to Jasmine, etc.. Why is she bleaching her face. Her behavior is showing who she really are.
May I point out how beautiful, intelligent and elegant these two women are!
I take my hat off to Rachel every time for speaking her truth
Catherine Roberts speaking her truth and your behavior say one thing tells people that you are a fake and do not care about your own race. Why is she bleaching her skin. Is she to black and realize she can not fit in with the people she surround herself with? I wonder!
Catherine Roberts seems like a nice person is a show. Watch how she treated the white girls on the show. I am glad they turn on her. She will only have a black girl in her circle to say that she like to be around her own. She need to stop letting her white agent write her script. She was taught hanging around to many black are not a good look because her father is a judge.
@@millihuggins1688
Seek therapy 💀
@@millihuggins1688 How do you know she is bleaching her skin?! IF she was planning on bleaching herself to make herself look more "white" and she was leaning towards white men why not bleach herself BEFORE her season as Bachelorette in order to make herself more desirable to ALL the white men?! Why wait until she HAS the man she wants, fine behind white Latino Bryan to decide to bleach herself when he obviously fell for her the way she was? You must not have watched her entire season, because if you had you would have found out ALL she had dated were black men and she was unhappy. Her sister is married to a white man, maybe that opened her eyes more to the possibilities. Some of her best female friends were white women BEFORE she ever joined the bachelor/ bachelorette franchise. Why? She is an upper middle class black woman who probably went to predominantly white schools, lived in predominantly white neighborhoods, and going to law school where she was once again surrounded mostly by whites I commend her for trying to remain true and STILL date black. However, I agree with @ Miss Klassy about why she was leaning towards whites AND I can understand with all the games black men play she decided enough is enough ESPECIALLY after seeing how they treat white women, no matter how skinny, how fat, how damaged her hair and/or skin, how poor, they will marry her and lift up her and her entire family while acting as if a beautiful black woman is never enough. Kudos Rachel! Why give those men more consideration than they give us just because they happen to be black?! Also you DO realize that whatever filters they use on the camera and/or the film you can look high yellow one minute, black as night the next, and then just brown in others. Unless you have seen her face to face IN PERSON, before the show and recently you can't say with a certainty that she has bleached herself. Smh
@@missklassy4447
Yes tell the truth & shame the devil. I definitely noticed a difference dating Hispanic guys vs black guys.
She recieved death threats because some people dont like the truth, it usually people that are doing wrong. God bless her!
I’ve never cared what a man’s color is, if he is about me and I like him, we are about each other. Period
You are about each other...I like that.😂
I smiled throughout the part where it was both Rachel and Bryan being interviewed. Great segment!
We LOVE Rachel and Bryan. So happy they are still together and hopefully going strong!
me too
Very cute couple.
I wonder how many black teenage or young men want to marry or be with a black woman (preferably dark skinned )??? It’s sad to see how many beautiful Black women embrace and desire fully Afro featured men but the reverse is almost non existent. Instead, the desire is for less Afro-presenting or Afro-descended women. I’m glad to see more Black women opening up to being loved and pursued by men of every race 😃😃
Exactly.
Sorry but I’m dark skinned and I don’t desire any dark skinned man it is what it is
I would say your comment mostly applies to Black Americans because honestly in Africa dark skinned girls don't have a hard time(yes there may still be light skin privilege).What black people experience in western countries is not what they experience in Africa.I know this is an American"emission" however black is a race !.
Being Black in the west is not the same as being Black in Africa.for exemple a black boy/girl in Africa can dream of becoming a CEO of KPMG, Deloitte etc but a black person in the west can only dream of occupying those positions because they are mostly given to white people.
@@tayasha123 Who cares, you're majority black in Africa so of course black men will pick you. Try living in a country where only 13% of the population is black and see how many black men will pursue you. Look at all the African footballers in Europe who are not marrying black women and that should answer your question.
@@mcarthurspark8636
Actually I live in a country in Europe so I know what I am talking about.and here in Europe black women are not marrying black man either.
They are two very attractive people. And, they seem to love each other .
I love this couple Sooooo much, I pray nothing but the best for their marriage and career endeavors 💞💞❤❤🎉🎉🥂🥂🥂
MauAng Mil are you missing something in your life? How much do you love Jesus?
@@carrieanderson3286 Jesus is the center of my life, without him I'm nothing 🙏. And as humans we all desire to love more, do more, have more and experience more, so in essence we are all missing something. If we do not seek to love, grow and do more we become STAGNANT and thats not a good state for a Christian. 🙏❤
I really respect them as a couple. ❤
Tamron is such a sweetheart and Rachel handled a very difficult situation with respect. Beautiful couple
Love you Rachel you are a very strong woman. Keep up the good work.
She didn't tell Chris to be a jerk and I always had a feeling Chris was a racist and man I was right people are sick of mean racist jerks
Didn't know he was racist until I heard this news last year.
He wasn't such a racist When Rachel Lindsay cried herself out of the bachelor when Nick rejected her and they bought her back to be the black bachelorette ? Rachel Lindsay thinks that she is the boss and she stepped out of her place knowing that she was still under contract with bachelor Nation and she thought she was going to be the new host this ain't April fool but she got played herself and yet from being a concubine that 30 women chasing after one guy when you combine love connection to the lifestyle of the Rich and famous and yet the ABC arranged this whole thing and was nothing more than a make believe relationship and yet Rachel Lindsay has cash in on her bachelorette Nation by using racism because she felt she was a victim and now she's smelling like green cash dollar bills has plenty that in her book that she wanted a black man when she was 18 I guess they never show up to come see her and to Brayn oh I'm going to support my wife if you've never dated a black woman before what was your true motive on being on the show being one of the Rachel's concubine and dude you talk big but if you were really bold you go over to see Chris Harrison since you want to defend your white honor and also remember you are under contract too and then your bachelor Nation contract was terminated ! Yeah real life romance that you don't drink that champagne and caviar dream !
@@walterbrown9079 what do you mean exactly? is Nick not racist?
Don dada Chris is not racist. Rachel tried to take over the show, and Chris was just tired of her.
He wasn’t being a jerk. He asked a question about what a college age girl would find acceptable prior to a new awakening in society years later. And for the record, history is history and there’s NOTHING wrong with going to a party with an antebellum theme. I have eaten at plenty of antebellum theme’s restaurants in Georgia and New Orleans. It should have never been an issue and Chris should have never lost his job! He’s been nothing but a gracious host and a good man by all accounts. This ultra sensitivity has got to stop!
Why do people send death threat for a conversation that they don't like or agree with? Such cowards. That is super extreme. Both of them had an opinion, you don't like, it make a comment to express that but a death threat? Evil, M F'ers.
Cause they are weak
And the word “Freedom” which has been abused. If there were serious consequences for death threats, do know think we would have them?
Home girl just accept that if everyone loves you then, there's something wrong with you.So it's ok for the haters to be around. God will be with you all the way.
I just love Tamron, she so professional and beautiful,
A real life example of what grace and class looks like,
She really is ...and she never ages!
I really enjoy listening to her speak. She is very classy, graceful, feminine, and intelligent. She's a great example of a woman. I pray that her and her husband have a happy and joyful marriage. ❤️
Love isn't about color. It's about the soul🙏
The ICONIC proposal of all time! It is and was the BEST in Bachelor/Bachelorette history, in my opinion. Rachel and Brian, if you're reading this -' Send Me A Reply! It was a fiery, impromptu Flame of a ptoposal! And Rachel Please, oh Rachrl you were beautiful and giddy. Please stay together!❤
Bryan was her second choice. In Rachel head she is still in love with Peter cross. Isn't he the one she slept with before Bryan, as she stated when Hannah Brown reveal that she had sex with someone on her season? Bryan still trying to run competition with this man just to please her. All that mess that she showing with Bryan is only a show.
Yes, Bryan was seemingly the second choice.
Bryan and Rachel the best thing to each other just beautiful
Black women stop apologizing for falling in love. There aren't enough black men on this planet Earth for every black woman to marry. I don't want to say it but I got to say it some of these black men might be your first second and third cousins and you don't know. So it's best that you go ahead and get you somebody outside of the community if you will.
Really? "Some of these black men might be your first second and third cousins and you don't know..." So - why is that? I'm curious to your response...
Beautiful couple. Thank God we live in a time more BW are vetting all races of men, and being the best version of themselves.
I just love these two… I wish them the Abasolute best ( absolute) 😀
I see what ya did there :)
I also saw what you did there! 😄
BEAUTIFUL INTERVIEW. THANKS TAMRON
Love this interview. Beautiful couple Rachel and Bryan. Congrats Rachel on your book. Can't wait to read.💞👏🏽🙌🏽😍
I love black men and will always love black men. Unfortunately, some appear to be eliminating black women as an option. Other races are races are becoming more open to dating black women and we(black women) are becoming more open to dating outside of our race. IJS 🤷🏾♀️
Many are eliminating black women. It’s really strange black women are always professing their love for black men and I do not see the same.
Girl stop, please just stop with the open professions of love for a group that has unequivocally shown you they don't feel the same way about you.
They are so cute together! She picked the right guy
Idk why people don't like Rachel Lindsey Abasolo.
She IS the total package!
Not only is she a triple threat, she is a multi-threat. She is multifaceted and all around level-headed WOMAN.
I don't get what there is not to love.
She is just an absolute QUALITY woman and I'm taking notes 📝
A lot of men like and appreciate that "strong, successful, independent" woman, but then they get her then expect her to conform, make herself small so they can shine and puff out their chest. They can't just love, appreciate and support her.
Black women please open your dating options, your marriage rates will change when you do that. Get therapy, eat healthy and love yourself we shall change our image!
@@FreeQA4RemoteWorkers it will change our image for the better but I actually really think middle eastern men latino men are very attractive
@@FreeQA4RemoteWorkers it doesn't. There's happy black couples and happy any race couples nothing will erase anyone. Stop the racism! People are not supposed to date, marry, based on colors. It should based on chemistry and love. Next. Have dated a black man for 3 years, left to raise my only child with him by myself. Happily married since 10 years with a perfect white man and been treated like the goddess that I am. But I have also several families members including my mom that are married to awesome perfect black husbands as well but I am not the only one in my family married to white or Spanish either to each their own that all that I can say.
I had similar list with all the boxes but God said I'm gonna give u someone who's gonna love n support u every step of the way. 16 years later, I'll choose him over n over again ❤❤❤
LOVED this interview!!!
Rachel and Brian are a match made in heaven! ❤️❤️🌷
Beautiful couple! Great interview!🥰🥰
Good for you, Rachel
Beautiful interview
I feel this was an excellent interview. Thx very much!
I love you Rach! You rocked the interview.
Average black girl : wants talk dark athletic man
Me alt black girl : crushing on billy from x -men as a kid , ends up marrying handsome Latino man 🤷🏾♀️😂
Congrats! 🌟
So happy for you both ❤❤
We love you Rachel and I always teamed Bryan from the start. I knew you were going to pick him and you made a smart choice. I will be buying the book.
Good interview
Rachel is so Robyn Givens, l still hope they do a movie or an skit together one day.
ColaBling please no! Please encourage her to go away from the media. It is time for her to go and never come back.
Awesome interview, I love them.
I LOVE this couple! They are so cute together. I wish you many years of happiness. GOD bless you both.
My favorite Bachelor/Bachelorette couple! Beautiful couple ❤️❤️❤️
Rachel, you're a Queen you handled yourself class❤️❤️❤️
Rachel is such a strong individual, love them all🥰
Beautiful beautiful couple!
Wow I love Rachel and Bryan 👏 nice interview 💕
Open yourself to love. Colors never hurt anyone but racism hurts everyone. I am a product of the best of 2 cultures.
Covert racism from those you love DEFINITELY hurts, honey. Black women don't date out because we see the racism that men in our families have experienced from even their partners at times. It's not ok to go from dealing with antagonism and hostility at school, work, the store, etc, depending on where you live, to dealing with it at home.
My options have been open. I've found the love of my live that treats me very well. I will not be one of the blk women murked every 5 hours, every day by a blk man.
Funny how Chris talk of 2018 like it’s long ago go 😬
That man Is FINE!!! Great job sis👍🏾
I love Rachel! God continue to bless their marriage.RnB❤️
I love Rachel. Respect her courage and all the work she's done to try to improve the franchise. I'm glad she weathered the storm and came out even stronger. Couldn't wait to order her book. I also couldn't understand why she was blamed for Chris Harrison's blunder. He said what he said. She did her job.
Thanks for this interview, Tamron. I was wondering what happened to Rachel. (I don’t look at too much tv lately.) Thanks again.👌🏾🌺❤️
Love these two♥️♥️♥️
So happy for her! Ladies let go of your juvenile blueprint! Especially BW, date outside your race. Don’t limit yourself
Exactly! Expand your options! If BW want masculine provider _husbands_ (not baby daddies), you MUST look outside of the blk community.
Love you two so much.May the Lord bless your marriage 💑
I love themmmmmm and her books is amazing
It wasn't her fault that he was fired his own actions did that she didn't put the words in his mouth so all the people sending her the hate it shows you their hillbilly mentality.
Blessings Rachel and Brian
So happy you both are still together ❤ have you visited Colombia yet? 🇨🇴 🙏🇺🇲✌
Beautiful couple.
I love Rachel! My favorite Bachelorette. Also love her and Bryan together.
When he says my wife 😍😌🤪.....wow
Beautiful couple! I might need to watch their season, I've never watched that show before.
No don't watch it because it will taint what you think of their love story. A huge event happens at the end, right before she chooses him, and honestly it had most of Bachelor Nation questioning of Brian was truly her choice.
@@misstab2869 I'm not part of 'Bachelor Nation' though. I've never EVER been into that show lol! Also as far as I know they're one of the very few couples that actually got married and are currently together, right?
I knew Bryan was the one from the first night 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🔥🔥🔥🔥 still one of my favorite couples
Lisa Cossa then she should have never slept with Peter. This is what make Peter change his mind about her. he felt that she should not be doing things with him and then go and do the same thing with Bryan if she really liked him. After Hannah Brown came out and said she slept with Peter Rachel looking attention said she slept with Peter Krause on her show. So now tell me who was right to protect their heart and embarrassment the guys in the house was speaking about her and Bryan. peter did the right thing by not messing up his name by offering to get engage to her.
@@millihuggins1688 I personally can't speak for things I didn't not understand behind the scenes, at the end of the day she chose Bryan for a reason, and someone's heart always gets hurt at the show, one person gets picked at the end of the day.🤷🏽♀️
@@millihuggins1688 how u know she slept with Peter
8:39 I almost ran around this church (my living room). Praise be! 🙌🏾
The plantation part is crazy!! I was given an "opportunity" to visit one my 1st visit to Louisiana. If it was with my family or all Black people educational trip, yes, I would go. But as it was going to be a mixed group of people, I could not allow myself. I foresaw myself being tense and uncomfortable.
Was it the Whitney plantation
@@AJ-pg6rg No clue which one it was. I was in Baton Rouge at the time.
Yeah I don't know how I'd feel about that either...
So, AWESOME!
Rachel and Bryan so cool❣
The best Bachelor Nation couple .👍🏾🙌🏾
You will always find a share of ignorant people in life…please ignore them. Congratulations on finding love ❤️. Love have no boundaries
Beautiful couple ❤️
You guys make a beautiful couple!!
She said an Omega and I sooo get it! Them elephants speaking loud and proud! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
SHes so beautiful and hot and her man is so charming and kind they definitely deserve each other.
Gorgeous Couple🥰💯
I respect the effort and endurance it took to handle this matter and the support available from her husband. I would say however, the notion that when we become more developed that we automatically become more diverse in our choice for a husband/wife falls short of the special needs of black love. Respectfully the black woman (and man) is still relearning (after 100's of years of destruction & rupture) how to receive and give love to each other and reset the truth and reality of black love. Black people are subtly made to feel it is unacceptable or short sighted in today's diverse world, to choose, heal and redesign the black man and woman relationship. So YES! I and many black women are growing AND still writing that beautiful list our sister wrote at the age of 18. I still look forward to my Black OMEGA (I see them/us everyday) and RELEARNING how to do that unique love, while ALSO expanding of my mind and ability to interact with anyone, regardless of creed or color etc. I can have/do both. It takes a specific sound sense of knowledge, patience and spiritual understanding to grow a black love relationship. It is not for everyone. It is indeed my/our Right, after all that has and is still happening to Conciously repair and Celebrate Black on Black Love and the Families it develops WITHOUT apology or being made to feel the black relationship 'is not the thing anymore'. Peace to her choice and their marriage. Peace and Growth to BlackBlackLove.
Rachel is beautiful, eloquent, and in great shape; the antithesis of the average Bachelor fan. Those hateful messages come from lonely, plus size, white women.
4991 Brave I do not see any beauty in her one bit when she always causing problems for others. She also bleaching her skin and just talk without showing the work.
@@millihuggins1688 Oh could you elaborate more on what problems Rachel is causing exactly? I don’t quite understand where you’re coming from. 😊
@@millihuggins1688 : Bleaching her skin, are you serious?
@@lindaroane3344 Are you blind? Go back and look at all of her pictures from when she entered in the BN world to today. What is it look like. People like you only follow the crowd and do not pay close attention to the behavior and looks of a person, that always want to perceive herself as everyone is racist.
@@millihuggins1688 : She's beautiful, and looks the same. Where did racist come from? Honey you're pumped. 😁😁😁😁😁
Everyone always trolls black women and I’m sick of it. That’s why we have to be so strong. Would a white women receive death threats, absolutely not. Everyone wants to see black women emotionally on the ground. I’m so empowered to see black women stand up for themselves in an emotionally composed way. I love when black women find love because we are significantly undermined and underestimated.
Rachel is intelligent and used her mind first and her heart followed a intelligent mind. This is the way to go.
Great I nterview. Tamron, the facial expressions come off like your in disagreement until your start speaking .
Beautiful couple. I enjoyed this interview
I absolutely hate the fact that Americans made everything about Race, Ryan is Colombian, im a black Colombian and back home you see a lot of interracial couples, like it blows my mind that in 2022 this is still odd in America, it is sooo weird, also the black Americans always try to put everyone in the same basket, like back home we dont eat fried chicken it it not a thing, so one day when I asked about this a black lady rudely told me that I was ignorant about black history to which I said: madam, i was born and raised Colombian, of course i know my ancestors are black but fried chicken is not a thing for us, you should respect that period. There black latinos, black Caribbean but the Afro Americans want to make everything about themselves. As soon I became a physician I left that land because the negativity that comes from the black community there towards other black ethnicities is horrible. Another day, in Boston someone said to me that I was faking my accent and that i was ashamed of being black and thats why i was faking it, i laughed soooo hard, i said well, my first language is Spanish lady, so im sorry my english is not perfect but I get by with an accent and all, so no im not ashamed at all to be black, ppl just need to understand that a black Panamenian, Cuban, Colombian, venezuelan, brazilian is not the same as a black American, we come from different cultures, have different food, different accents, we have in common our ancestors and skin tone past that point we are all different, so pls pls black Americans stop putting everyone in the same basket
love them!
Beautiful couple just stunning and elegant 💛
Love the hairstyle Rachel.
I ❤️ Rachel and Bryan! Always a delight and an inspiration to watch.
what's crazy to me is that someone as successful, attractive, and graceful as Rachel would have such a hard time finding a good man that she would have to go on a tv show. this goes to show that the community is hopeless.
Yep. It was the same with Lauren from 'Love is Blind'. She is a beautiful, smart, charismatic & ambitious black woman that could not find HEALTHY love until she opened her options & found Cameron. I'm so happy for these women. It is a representation of whats going in the communitae. With the number imbalance ( well over 2 million more blk women than men & 3x blk men dating out) blk women HAVE to open their options.
@@jg3865 I just looovveeee Lauren! I hope that one day, more blk women are open to non blk men.
She’s so impressive !!
Sometimes I wonder why any strong Black woman comes off as threatening in societies like the U S 🤔; we certainly have some growing up to do
Black women are mitochondrial Eve that’s why.