Rachel Lindsay Gets Candid About Her Fertility Journey (Exclusive)
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- čas přidán 22. 05. 2024
- Rachel Lindsay is keeping it real and telling all in her new book ‘Miss Me with That’! In a new interview with ‘Extra’s’ Katie Krause, the former Bachelorette opens up about her marriage to Bryan Abasolo and gets candid about her fertility journey and hopes to start a family. Rachel also talks about ex Peter Kraus and whether he could still be the Bachelor. ‘Miss Me with That’ is available now.
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I love Rachel ❤️ I pray she and Brian are able to grow their family soon🙏🏾
What God cannot do does not exist. Before the end of the year carry your babies In Jesus Name Amen 🙏
Me too! Amen 💖
I'm from the future. It didn't work out
As a fertility coach and infertility survivor my heart ❤️goes out to them. I encourage natural therapy first. I conceived naturally at 42 after a failed ivf. My prayers are with you.🙏🏽
I was worried about not having a baby at 40 but I got pregnant at 41 had my daughter at 42 naturally.
@@patriciacrevecoeur2206 God is good!!!
@@faithfullfertility2090 I am 44 and wants to give birth to a baby girl.
I highly DO NOT recommend this. Go see a a real physician, somebody who’s done 4 years of medical school, 4 years of residency, and additional years in fellowship in reproductive endocrinology who practices evidence based medicine. Don’t waste time and money on “fertility coaches”. Go see an expert.
Congratulations!🎂🎇
I got pregnant quickly with my 1st child. Not happening the 2nd time so I went to a fertility specialist. He put me on levothyroxine for an underactive thyroid which coincided with 1st IUI cycle. Got pregnant right away at age 40 then had a 3rd baby at age 42. Check your thyroid levels ladies!!!
I Love how Rachel has handled her celebrity platform. God Bless Rachel and Bryan, they are a BEAUTIFUL COUPLE! I hope that they conceive this year.
I admire Rachel, she is so smart, strong and beautiful. I'm so proud of her. I wish her the best for her and Bryan on their family.
Ceci L people like you are putting mess in her head, this is why she can not stop and go away.
@@millihuggins1688 you know is more easy to ignore and move on if you don't like someone. There is so much people you can watch videos about instead of watching a video and commenting about someone you don't like.
Ceci L Here we go again about this word" like". It is referencing the BS that comes out of her mouth and all the people that she hurt in the process. Because raven said she has black skin is anything to drag her and put her in her book? Matt busines with Rachel K was non of her business. She is to controlling and feel as if everyone should do what she say. Only Bryan she can control. She could not control Peter so she get real mad and back taught him in not being the bachelor. It is so funny I like her once upon a time when she first came out as the bachelorette. As thing play out and I listen to her and look closely at her behavior it did not line up.I realize that she was using the race card just to have black defend her when she get in trouble, but shy away from them being in her circle or to do business with her. She surround white and acted like exactly who her parents want her to be with.
@@millihuggins1688 : You're just eaten up with jealousy. Gosh you've been hating her for 4 years🤔🤔 Do you know her personally? You seem to think you know so much about her. Did you want Bryan, and she got him?😉😉
@@c_louie670 Thank you!!! 😊 👏👏
This woman, Rachel is to be admired. So many people hate her because she is a strong, outspoken black woman. Sad world.
She did it again! I still believe she is the best thing that’s happened within that crazy franchise! Thank you 🙏 for being so vulnerable and articulate, R. I look forward to reading your book. It’s the only Bachelor book I’m interested in. 💐🎉💥
Jen wait until the other book comes out from people that truly knows her from BN. She trying to throw Raven under the bus about black skin. It clearly show that she is conscious about it because she is bleaching her skin. Every day you look at her she becoming light skin.
Your her target audience. She panders to the lowest common denominator...her "fertility journey", hahaha!
@@millihuggins1688 there you are again. Jealous of Rachel. 😅
@@isabellind1292 Rachel sins is what catching up with her. god does not like ugly. She have done to many harm to others. She need to focus on her own problems and leave others alone. This is from another black woman to another. Right now she is looking like a mule. She always count he chicken before they hatch.
Rachel is so candid and honest! I want to get that book🥰
It’s really good! I’m almost finished and I just got it 2 days ago!
I just started reading and loving it. Exhibits vulnerability, weakness, insecurities that are Relatable and Real!!!! 👍🏾
Me too! I may get it this weekend.
@@luvarobinson3588 i can’t wait, I hope it’s available at Indigo-Alberta CA
Please do - it’s sooo goood! I finished it within a day while working, and it cracked me up, while also hitting me deep in the soul!
Rachel is so beautiful and her skin is glowing. I really wish Rachel and Bryan nothing but the best in their journey to have children.
Wishing Rachel so much love and all the best!! ❤️❤️
I wish all the best for Rachel and Bryan. In time the Lord will grant her her wish(es).
Exactly
Thank you for your openness about your fertility journey. You didn’t have to talk about this, but you did. This was so encouraging and informative. I pray you and Bryan are able to start your family.
I understand what Rachel is saying about not wanting to know about her fertility issues. I really wish her and Bryan all the best with starting a family!
Love Rachel's raw honesty and vulnerability. The book is fabulous!! Go buy the book! Oh Audible is great!! She reads it!!
It's going to happen my beautiful sister.Praying for you and Bryan.Love🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲
She is so candid, I respected her before but man she just went up a level yet again.
Hi am praying 🙏 for you and your husband God will take care of you and your family ❤️
Rachel don't be scared you guy's got the best doctor's overseas and I pray for you and Bryan
Thanks to Rachel for being so vulnerable about her fertility journey. I wish her and Bryan the best!
Rachel, thank you for your continued openness, I’m sure this was difficult to talk about but it’s so important to have people willing to do it. You continue to amaze. Loving the book, btw.
Justin Anderson it was not hard. She is ashamed because Raven got her baby and is happy and bliss, while she is trying to through her under the bus.
@@millihuggins1688 your nothing, but a miserables person. Take your hateful comments some where else. Jealousy will eat you up.
@@ulalaupepa8558 It would eat her up AND kill her because she's holding in too much hatred/malice. I could image how old she looks because that what holding in malice and stress does to a person.
Rachael,
I too, went through a rough period in my infertility journey. We did pergonal shots and we still didn’t get pregnant. We stressed out going through infertility treatments, so we stopped. After we stopped and stop stressing about it we got pregnant on our own and our so is now 22. I got pregnant at 40…yikes! Lol wasn’t my plan, but we were so excited, so hang in there and keep prayerful. I’ll be praying for you and Brian. 🙏🏽❤️
I like Rachel she's a Strong Black women. Whenever I see her on TV she's just so beautiful, poised, smart, and sophisticated. True elegance. I'm a fan of hers forever.
She’s gorgeous, vibrant and intelligent. I wish her the best and so much happiness ☀️❤️💕
I pray that you and your husband have children. You're young, and you didn't wait too long. This can happen at any age. ❤️
I love Rachel and can't wait to get this book. The internet is so toxic so I'm so happy to see all of these supportive comments. Love you big Rach. Good luck in your fertility journey, don't be scared! God's got you. ❤
Love her vulnerability❤️. Sending lots of love and positive vibes to the Abasolos.
I actually had a dream where she was about to announce that she was pregnant! What a coincidence. I hate that people are so mean and heartless towards her. It's none of people's business! She and Bryan will have their own kids. I really wish that for them.
So beautifully stated. Amen and hoping your statement manifests in their lives!
God Bless Rachel and all the mother's to be that are trying to get pregnant. I am crying listening to her. It is such a blessing to give birth or have children. So many people take it for granted. I pray that they will conceive very soon.
Her wedding dress is soooo beautiful 🖤 She is so beautiful and brilliant
Why is that (wanting children) people's business?!! And as far as the success to their relationship, maybe they went in to HAVE a relationship rather than some went in for fame. Blessings to them both
The news may not be bad at all. I have friends who just needed a lil hormone adjustment to finally get pregnant. Fingers crossed for Rachel and Brian!
BRYAN IS A NATRUAL DOCTOR AND IF SHE GETS FERTILITY THEN THEY NEED TO TAKE HIS LICENSE AWAY!!!
@@millihuggins1688 A license to practice Chiropractic services doesn't require him or his wife to avoid fertility treatments.
@@millihuggins1688 😜😜😜
@@acaraj ye sit does, because I have family and friend that are in the field and is saying they want to see how this is going to play out. The believe in natural medicine. This is why insurance companies was reluctant to pay them in the past. Now they are giving them a little leverage. A doctor will prefer to refer his patients to a physical therapist than to a chiropract. Physical therapist is now allowed to get their doctorate in their field. I will be surprise for this mule to get pregnant. Bryan is lame also. for all the women he been with someone had to gotten pregnant for him at least once. Fourth three years old and no kids.
Why stress without medical confirmation. There's still time. Rachel is only 36. She may well be still able. Our best wishes Rachel and Brian.
my cousin had twins at 41
@@milwaukeemotor5995 That's really great. 🌹
Thank you!!
I wish she could allow herself to take 2 years off to create a calm environment away from all of this. I bet she'd get pregnant naturally.
People who have had babies past 35 ( 35 ON is considered geriatric births) are extremely blessed. I had my son when I was 35 and my doctor informed me that I had reached what was considered a geriatric birth age. Usually, at this age and beyond, women have harder deliveries. They are more prone to bedrest in order to maintain the pregnancy, the children are sometimes born with autism and other physiological and/or mental defects. The safest pregnancy ages for women is 16 through 34, unless there are unforeseen complications. So Rachel and Bryan DO have valid reasons to be concerned. I pray all will go well for them. Once again, kudos to all those women who have had successful late pregnancies.
I was team Rachel before and i am still team Rachel. You are amazing and i can't wait to read your book!
I loved Rachael on The Bachelorette and I love Rachael now! She’s vulnerable, smart beautiful and shows to have a organic soul ❤️. I wish them nothing but the best 🙏🏾
She's a racist!
@@isabellind1292 Do you understand the definition of racism? It would really be wonderful if people become properly educate about things so that they can speak wisely and sensibly.
@@cheriedeparis5000 It's racist when you go around setting everyone else straight about what's racist and then you turn out to be exactly that when you apply a double standard (as she did w/Chris Harrison & Emmanuel Acho) and socialize w/people who've been in their own hot water w/racist behavior (Claudia Oshey) and you don't even bat an eye. And please spare me your sanctimonious bs!
@@isabellind1292 Madam, your problem appears not only to be ignorance of what racism is but also a deep rooted resentment or even hatred for the young lady. Such hatred, when found in the hearts of men, blinds them to truth and reason. One day, I pray that my sanctimonious bs will actually motivate you to seek wisdom, knowledge and healing. It will certainly get rough carrying that burden. I will not descend with you into the mire for the fool rejoices in his ignorance but I encourage you to find liberty. I will await your further attempts at insults that will certainly prove my point. Dieu te bénisse!
@@cheriedeparis5000 Blah, blah go talk to RL about using her platform to whine about racism when she can't even conduct two interviews like an adult w/o favoring one person over another. How tf did she get such a gig, lol?! What a lightweight! I wish CH had asked her about her association w/Oshry so people could be reminded who she likes to schmooze with, pure as the driven snow RL, lol!
Rachel I hope that you don't be afraid to go, and talk to a doctor to explore your options, you will be so happy that you did it, don't fear trust, and believe! Bless❤
Geraldine Winfrey all of Bryan bad ways coming to haunt him. He did so many woman badly in Miami. Maybe this is a curse.
@@millihuggins1688 girl can u hush? You don't know if u wanna come for Bryan or Rachel. Now u on here with curses🤬. Sounds like he screwed u or dumped u and u big mad.
@@millihuggins1688 only curses is people like you here. The world don't need a hater like you. Lord bless you Rachel and Brian.
@@anythingcanhappen290 Exactly! The truth finally came out
Rachael, I admire your strength and character. It is much easier to brush off comments that are kind rather than hateful one's I know, however live your life as you choose. It fills me with joy that you and Bryan found each other, that you have walked your own 'non Bachelor' path and have a life outside of that. Your life looks and feels real from an outsiders point of view. I had my first child at 42, naturally conceived. It was the first time in my life where I had no anxiety about my future or if I was in the right relationship, I just wanted to take one day at a time. I decided to have fun and be myself unapologetically, and a couple of months later I was expecting! My son is now 10 years old and is the love of my life. You have so much already, I'm certain you and your handsome husband will grow your family with children. It is easy for me to say after the fact but I felt confused and wondered why it never happened for me before that point, I just got out of my own way and lightened myself up to the joys of life...blessings and best wishes for your future, you have millions of people rooting for you❤
I also had my son at 41 and turn 42 a month later. My husband and I got married and 2006 and I had my son in 2014! I also conceive naturally. It was all GOD timing.
Rachel, if you are reading this it's not too late. You're 36, just freeze your eggs ASAP. My friend froze her eggs right before she turned 37.
I did as well! Best investment and insurance policy I ever made!
I read sometimes the egg is not good after it freeze. It is expensive and the risk the egg not being being fertized after being frozen .
36 is young though she can have baby in her 40s and know plenty. Just stay healthy. I notice in USA is harder for women to get pregnant and many men spend count is low
@@saragirma6577 she has already been trying to get pregnant for the past few years. She needs to do IVF.
They do say that once you reach your late thirties and have tried but haven't been able to get pregnant then it IS better to freeze your eggs. The viability of your eggs while still within your body and the survivability rate of the embryos severely drops the older you get. One of the reasons doctors are trying to get more women 35 and older to go the IVF rate.
Rachel, continue to trust God and live your best life with your husband💕🙏🏾
Please follow-up with the specialist for yourself and Bryan. Find out exactly what your situation is. You two have been on the go non-stop and lots of stress. Stay in prayer, keep the faith, God will bless you with the desires of you heart. Nothing but love for you and Bryan❤️❤️
I LOVE Rachel 😍 she’s one of my role models now that stemmed from the bachelor franchise. Great woman.
That's why it's so rude to ask people about 'starting a family' or why they don't have kids yet. You don't know what they're going through.
You can definitely see she's emotional...prayers up for you Rachel and her husband.
Also, ppl don't realize that some ppl experience pregnancy loss too. Glad Rachel brought up her own struggles.
Keep the faith 🙏 Rachel is gonna happen 🙏
amen
Rachel it will happen, you and Bryan will become parents. And you two will make wonderful parents.
She is so stunning. What?! ❤️
I wish you and Brian the blessing of children. Keep trying. It will happen!
Literally the classiest woman EVER on the bachelor 💖
Some don't realise that the show is edited and they only see a snippet of all the conversations the women and men have and vise versa.
Praying for you Big Rach, God will see you through it all. ❤🙏🥰
I pray that God will bless them 🙏🏾
Rachael i am wishing you and your husband all the very best with your journey to increase your family ALMIGHTY GOD continuous Blessings and faithfulness to you all 🤗😘
In the middle of it! I support you Rachel!
She and Brian are such a strong couple . I didn’t get it initially but WOW during Covid I think everyone realized just how much producers mess with viewers and how they see things . Truth be told Rachel and Bryan are both amazing and level headed people that are too good for this show .
I understand Rachel's frustration with trying to get pregnant. I did not freeze my eggs either and I her age. My husband and I have been trying for 12 months for our 1st child and we starting to explore IVF as well now. It is not happening as my husband and I wanted as well.
Sending her so so much love
Your smart women, can't wait to read your book. God Bless.
Prayers 🙏🏾 for you and Brian, Soror 🐘 💕
Rachel l pray you and Bryan conceive soon. Don't get scared at all. If it didn't work for me it doesn't mean it wouldn't work for you. Keep trying till you win. Love you and Bryan so much. I watched the program from the beginning and am so happy you chose him. Keep loving each other. 🥰
I love her book ❤️❤️❤️
Hoping Rachel and Brian be blessed with children ✝️ 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 God’s got you both
Amen 🙏
🙏 baby for Rachel and Bryan😊
Nice. Very straight forward👍👍👍👍👍👍
Praying for you guys that you will be blessed with babies. Trust that God will open the door for you and hubby sooner than later. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾👏🏽👏🏽❤❤
It's still possible to get pregnant naturally at this age and older.
Certain things like that should stay between a husband and a wife but yet Rachel has been telling everybody her business and she's the one who exploit just to read her book yeah a mine is a terrible thing to waste but yet she isn't thinking that anything she said or do is on her because she made the decision to do that ?
@@walterbrown9079 um...okay. people talk about their struggles with fertility. She isn't any different than anyone else.
@@walterbrown9079 In my opinion when a women goes to infertility issues the best think to do is to share. Sharing with others help in the sense that you find out you are not alone. Personally I when to a 6 years journey and during those 6 years the people that help me were mostly strangers and people having the same problems. Family members can be judgmental sometimes no because they want to be , but because they don't know the financial , physical , emotional burden that infertility can have on a couple. Some family members always compare you to such and such who got married before or at the same time you did or who is younger bla bla bla............ I stop sharing my journey with some of my family member including some of my sisters. My coworkers became my support system. I am now 38 years old and I am expecting twins for the summer. I am so happy . Also they are many celebrities that share their journey and it helps a lot. She should share because it can help other people and someone cam give her advises on what to do. I talk about my journey and if it can help one person I am happy for that.
@@wananannick3484 Thank you very much for sharing that. People don't understand the usefulness of sharing and having persons to lean on in the difficult seasons of life. Sharing is particularly more important in this time of overwhelming stress and darkness that have pervaded the world. I am so thankful that God has blessed you with a pregnancy and with twins. I pray that you will have a safe and healthy delivery and I pray that you will have nothing but the best as you undertake your journey through motherhood and parenting. Dieu te benisse.
@@cheriedeparis5000 Merci ça me va droit au cœur. I wish every women who desire a baby will be bless.
Bless u Rachel...u guys will have kids. I see that for u. Dont b afraid honey♥️♥️♥️
Love Rachel and Bryan 💞
My friend had a baby at 35 and she wanted another one straight away, someone people got in her head and say now that you had one it’s gonna be easy to have another later now she’s 41 trying for two years already and it’s not happening.
Girl you don’t have to explain yourself!!! ❤❤❤❤
Age and time are realities that we women need to understand and contend with when it comes to our future. A blessing and a curse.
I’m getting this book
Rachael this is a little suggestion for your fertility journey.Maybe you need to take a little vacation to unwind .Here in Barbados there is a fabulous fertility clinic that has helped a lot of people .🙏🏽🇧🇧
I too had problems having a child. I leaned on and prayed fervently to GOD for his favor and mercy. GOD responded by blessing me with two single births 1 girl, 1 boy. They have grown-up now. I am eternally grateful , I feel gratitude and thank GOD often. Jesus is Love
Oooo I pray God help as you go through this Rachel &Brian 🙏
Let me be very clear as I say this: I’m not judging. I’m a 41 year old who wishes she had a child right now. I don’t think it will happen for me and I’m coming to terms with it. Anyway, i wanted to state that a lot of women have trouble getting pregnant or delivering full term after 35. It’s just true. We have to start getting honest with ourselves that biology is what it is - and it will never adapt to the fact we want to delay children more and more each year until we “are ready”.
That’s why you hear more and more women having difficulty. It’s sad. On one hand we think we are doing the right thing by waiting until we are mentally, physically, and financially ready for a child. But more and more the “ready age” is getting later and later. We can’t fight biology. I didn’t want to hear this either. It’s hard out there. Good luck to all women who are still trying. I wish you all the best!
Inaccurate shite and this shit causes women at this stage to kill themselves so stop spouting this garbage. If you are healthy, you won't have issues.
I see that Rachel’s still a bit bitter about Peter’s “mediocre life” cmment to call him mediocre all these yrs later 💀💀💀
And no, we didn’t want you w him bc WE wanted to be w him / loved him, but bc we watched your chemistry evolve over the course of the season and saw how emotionally attached you were to him and him to you particularly during that 3 hour breakup conversation 🤷🏾♀️
Maybe he was in fact not there for the right reasons judging by the fantasy suite moment but there was an undeniable spark that y’all shared.
Rachel, I LOVE Brian and you 💯 made the right choice. But I admit that at that time I also wanted you to pick Peter. Not because he was 'mediocre', but it felt that the intensity of your connection was piercing and palpable. We all felt it through the tv. And for that we liked Peter because he was REAL. He's not a bad guy just because he didn't want to get engaged that fast; that's understandable. I admire that he stayed true to himself. And I admire that you also stayed true to yourself and didn't want the risk...you picked the man that also loved you and had your back.
She will be a great mom. Saint Mary, give this women children to have. 🙏🏾
Amen 🙏
Yes, praying for you ........💯🇿🇦🙏🙏
I wish her all the best, in her fertility journey. I'm praying for a miracle that it will happen naturally. Life plans most times for not go according to plan. I have learned to leave things out of my control to God because it can be very frustrating to wait for a blessing you yearn for. Her honesty is bold and appreciated.
Praying for you Rachel. He is a God if Miracles.
I will love you forever Rachel
For any other BIPOC people reading this, check out the podcast called Black Girls Guide To Fertility along with the book It Starts With The Egg. And freeze your eggs while in your 20s if you can!
why only BIPOC?!?! WOMEN OF ALL COLOR HAVE FERTILITY ISSUES!
The host is terrible ! Lacks empathy and emotion. Rachel is being vulnerable and the host doesn't even acknowledge it, she just moves on to the next question
Any child no matter how you have the child, how your relationship is, or when you have a child, they are a blessing. Children babies or teens are a fabulous blessing. I wish I would have had more. I have 2 & wanted 4 or 6. Your mate has to be on board also. My ex seriously wasn’t.
The Peter tea is piping hot . Lololol
Rachel,The Lord bless you my dear...Hold on
Rachel you and Brian are my favorite couple.
They need to be loving on each other,a baby will come later patient young couple they will come in God time.Trust the process.
# IRRECONCILABLE DIFFERENCES I GUESS THAT RACHEL AND BRAYN THOUGHT THAT ONCE THE SHOW IS OVER THAT IS HAPPY EVER AFTER IS MORE ABOUT WORK THINGS TOGETHER AND SEEMS LIKE RACHEL WANTS TO BE THE BOSS AND RYAN LOST HIS MAN CARD RELATIONSHIPS DURING LONG DISTANCING EVENTUALLY IS GOING TO FALL APART AKA CYNTHIA BAILEY AND MIKE HILL IF SYLVIA DIDN'T WANT TO LIVE IN LA AND MICHAEL DOESN'T WANT TO LIVE IN ATLANTA AND NEITHER ONE WANTS TO WORK THINGS OUT IN THAT TEARS THEM APART WHAT MAKES RACHEL'S SITUATION ANY DIFFERENCE IT NEITHER ONE WANTS TO SOME SORT OF COMPROMISE ?
I didn’t agree with Chris Harrison losing his job. But Rachel was entitled to argue her case and the nastiness directed at her was appalling. I wish her well on her fertility journey.
How do we get the book from the UK
did you try Amazon?
People wished she was infertile?! That's all time new low. I hope she gets good news. There's also stories of people that go through IVF and it doesn't work, so they do the gestational carrier route and then end up pregnant too - twins with a twist!
Rachel you will have children. Just have that at the back of your mind While walking towards it.
I pray that you have all the kids you want, praying that God will bless you to bear you children.
@ Barbara Creavalle she speaking on it because she is jealous of Raven Gates. She felt by putting that mess in her book about Raven would hurt her, but it back fire in her face. Raven has a family and doing well with her husband and son. SHE IS JEALOUSE OF HER FRIENDS AND OTHERS< BECAUSE SHE IS NOT GETTING THE FOUR KIDS AND THEY GETTING THEIRS! Lol! SHE NEED TO ASK GOD FOR FORIVENESS OF STOPPING PETER FROM GETTING THE ROLE AS THE BACHELOR< AND MAKING CHRIS HARRISON LEAVING THE FRANCHISE!
Father God bless Bryan and Rachell with natural conception in Jesus name. Bryan and Rachelle, relax. You'll be blessed with biological children.
Amen 🙏
Bless her LORD with the four children she desires. Cover her & Brian under your blood JESUS. I pray their healthy & bless children, grow to be all their parents pray for.
The only bachelorette I recognise ❤
Love her
Babe you’re covered! ❤❤❤
I was team Peter, but she chose the person best for her personality and lifestyle. I don't get why the interviewer asked about him or why she took the opportunity to bad mouth him. Everyone has moved on with their lives.
I remember thinking I could have more children, then 💥out of no where when I was no longer trying. Sometimes, it's just timing
Rachel, with God all things are possible.
It’s also intelligent adults self assured ♥️♥️