Give Your Boyfriend an Ultimatum WHEN... II Steve Harvey
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- čas přidán 27. 08. 2024
- She's been dating a guy for 6-years, but he won't commit! She doesn't want to throw the relationship away, but she knows she deserves more for herself. #steveharvey
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The sad part is that he will be on and off with you forever then meet the one and be married in a week. Play yourself if you want.
You nailed it !!!! I hope she reads your message !!! Because I Did !!!! Great advice ... I am on a 5 on and off relationship also .... Lmao !!! am dun
@@RackySal u'll be back
Is it a requirement that the show always makes sure the man is never there ti say his side in all of these clips of grown women trashing their other halves on national television ?! 🤔🤔😏😬😂
@@hawaiianrussian1047 tbh Steve reps the men and tells the women in the nicest way that they are stupid because they are not accepting the men's first answer only the delusions in their own heads. It be like....
Steve: so he said he don't wanna be married
Dodo: yeah but he comes over everyday
Steve: but he said he don't want you
Dodo: yeah but I've invested so much time
Steve: to the man who said he ain't want you...okay. 😭🤣
Uncle Steve is right, get that man out of your life and get yourself physically, emotionally, and mentally ready for the right man. Let him keep the title of friend and move on!
That man is still a child? He will never commit. She is beautiful and intelligent. Walk away from that coward!
Women will forever believe anything another woman says it’s hilarious 😂
@@hawaiianrussian1047Harvey believed her so what are you on about? 37 year old man can't even call the girl who's supported him through his mother's death that he's dating a "girlfriend"?
@@berry6467ugh duh “ Harvey believed her “ his show is usually aimed towards pandering towards women?! lol and I swear whenever it’s a man trashing his other half or woman he’s dating and she’s not their to say her side don’t women always say “ well let’s her her what she has to say! 😡🤬” ?! 🤔🤔😏😬😂 that’s what im “ on about “
Steve that's why we love you because you be straight up with us and telling the truth.❤😂❤😂
lol “ straight up “ sure 😂😂
Wasting time it doesn’t take men long to know if they wanna marry you. 6-8 months we know even if we don’t ask we know… I asked my wife to marry me after 8 months.
My husband of 22 years ❤️❤️ after 3 weeks dating me. We were married until he passed in 2020. Men always know and act on it NOT after 6 years 🥲🥲
@@nadinedaoud2538 What a blessings that is !!!! I know he'll be waiting for you on the other side of the rainbow... God Blessings ...
@@nadinedaoud2538 the next gal he marries right away
Move on! A 37-year-old man should already know his life plan. He’s not ready for a commitment and just stringing you along. what you’ve got to your advantage is that you are an absolutely beautiful woman and obviously very intelligent. Don’t let him waste your precious time any longer😊
Don't let him waste your precious time? She's not a victim. She clearly says it off/ on. They both have their parts in this. She simply needs to figure out what she wants and if not happy Move forward with her life. It's called personal accountability and responsibility not I'll give him a ultimatum and see if that puts him in his place..I'll show him. Ya that will show him right out the door .
She already wasted her time. And to believe a man should know his life plan at 37 is something women say. He simple doesn’t want to be with in a commitment with her. We don’t know why, but she has not earned it.
@@kristinakellogg1732 I 100% agree 👏🏽👏🏽..
I love how he broke that down to her just learn something just that quick Steven Harvey hit right on nail.🔥🤞🏿
Sweetie, life is too short to hold on to a 'nothing' thinking it is something. You are beautiful and I hope you are blessed with someone that deserves you!!! Good luck.
@@deeogletree3394 The same can be said for HIM. Her identity isn't wrapped up in HIM or vice versa. They both have free will to choose to stay. She has for 6 years yet somehow it's HIS fault and he needs to be the bullseye to catch all the blame. She is a grown woman with her own life choices and she clearly saw no issues with staying. They both can handle this as grown ups and talk about what they each want and need from a relationship if it's not for eachother move on not give a man a ultimatum of If you don't say I'm your wife or fiance I'm leaving you. His best choice to say I'm gone. Men don't respect that but rather a woman who can speak her mind
@@kristinakellogg1732 Show me WHEN AND WHERE I said it was HIS fault!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It’s not for nothing! She has want she wanted, and now she changing the rules. But, she allowed 6 years to pass let her body get used up, and now she asking question. A man is going to know within months is he wants to marry you.
@@Roger-hs1dl this is certainly true and what else is true is that she had no one in her life to teach this to her. Sad.
@@kristinakellogg1732yeah but he's equally to blame, can't be using people regardless of whether you're grown or not, there are consequences to both of their choices. unfortunately he's not ready to value himself and commit to a relationship so that's why we are focusing on the woman because it's the woman who equally has not valued herself but is the only one in the relationship who's beginningto take off her blindfolds. As she said it was ON and OFF and might have given her false hope . If it was a woman who didn't want to commit, we would say the same thing to the man.
He knows exactly when to speak to a person directly and when to speak indirectly… respecting and honoring their emotional state. He does it so well.
😂 don't give us ultimatums unless you want your feelings hurt.
Leaving quietly is better
Nah fr, it’s hilarious how women love the idea of giving a man an ultimatum but the second you even bring up the idea in reverse of a man giving a woman an ultimatum boy do they have a totally different reaction 😬😂
@@hawaiianrussian1047It’s the same thing when it comes to marriage. Men aren’t supposed to wait to ask but a woman can take as long as she wants to give an answer. Not to mention, If she’s having second thoughts after saying Yes or says NO but wants to change her mind after he’s moved on.
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Don't waste your time keeping a man that is not ready for you lady.
Yea…6 years…THEY wasn’t ready 😬😂
Let him go. He's wasting your time.
Leave him honey because he's not going to marry you.
@@rosabessant4378 Why was she leaving it up to him? She had free will to do what she wants. She was ok obviously with them both being on and off so no one to blame but their individual choices
@@kristinakellogg1732are you ret@rded?
@@m.a.1874Um you obviously don't understand common sense so I'll let you be 😂
She is such a beauty............ Best wishes for you Angel
Stop investing so much time in situations that aren’t going anywhere. Men know from the beginning what they want. What they desire. Who they see as a wife…. Don’t waste time trying to prove who you are to someone who already knew from the start you weren’t it! 6 years is way too long!
Please quit this relationship as quickly as you can.
"On and off relationship are usually "off" relationship people are trying to keep it "on" and on"
U definitely said that💯
good 1
Steve is on point as usual.
He had her lower her standards. He doesn’t like title so he is single.
PREACH Steve! Sometimes the "driveway" are old memories and what U wish he woulda been. Just stuff getting in the way of the true blessing...
It was a lot of good comments makin good points here.
Dude 37, oh he’s not looking at marriage anymore.
Theres a lot of men/boys out there that want to settle down but just dont seem to figure out how to live life. Sometimes an ultimatum can be what he needs to switch that button on. Sometimes he just wasnt ready. Doesnt mean he was bad, just not the right timing.
But somehow …if you even bring up the whisper of giving a woman an ultimatum its crazy how all of a sudden it’s completely different and every woman would get pissed at even the idea of a man giving a woman an ultimatum and just tell her to leave him just for that 😬😂
But if he’s not ready, why string her along for 6 years? He should’ve let her go and came back to her when he was ready.
@@emmabaidoo4299 …how does one string a grown ass woman along for 6 years?! And how is it the man is never on the show to say his side of the story in all of these clips ?! 🤔🤔😏😬😂
@@emmabaidoo4299She has free will to stay or leave. Her choices are not his fault. If he is not ready to commit sit down speak your mind and Move on. No ultimatum given.
there's def a need get life in order before movin to the next step
All my respect to you, Sir Harvey! 🎉💯🙏🏻 No one could have said it any better than that!
men are NEVER "OFF!" if they're not "ON" w/you,then,they're "ON" w/sb else,&& don't y'all EVER FOR GET IT! men don't need to go up in the gd mountains to "find" themselves!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💯
Facts was a wake up call for me
Steve does not adress the real problem on her side. she could be married, but aims for a man who knows how to be selfish
Yea sure…that’s the problem 😂
RUN...
She is actually really beautiful. She knows what to do. She is just afraid of losing what she envisioned him and her to be. Six years is far too long for you to be confused about where someone stands with you. In my opinion not having a title is a huge red flag. I don't get how a situation like that becomes. Life is short. Ultimatums are necessary at some point.
Hopefully she didn’t give him an ultimatum. Hopefully she TOLD him she was ending the relationship that day and if he wanted to be in a relationship with titles he needed to contact her to see if she was still interested and available. If so , she might THINK about it!!!!! ❤❤❤
You're always free to go lady, don't wait for the day he is out of your life forever.
No sex before marriage is wise. Six years without marriage . Please women : An engagement or relationship must not take so long for a commitment.
she laughing but did she Hear him?? i sure hope so
Doubt so lol
Great story with great truth ❤
He’s uncomfortable with “Titles”, BS…. He just ain’t into you, girlfriend. Dump him!
@@user-sp2oe8pt3t She was fine with not having a title as well. She just a part of this as he is . She don't need to dump him they both need to go their separate ways
@kristinakellogg1732 not entirely since she said it was ON and OFF. Neither was his family fine with it and already gave them a label
@@berry6467That's just it. She was ok with it being on and off. Why she wanted to be in a non committed relationship is on her for so many years. She stayed . Not just the fact she stayed but she herself gave this man no title since she admits they BOTH were on and off. Whatever issues they have it's clear they both need to move on. We only hear her side not his to get the full transparency of the situation
She really is beautiful🩵🩵
STEVE is awesome..
She’s a beautiful young woman. Run girl, you can do so much better!
I hope women would stop with giving men ultimatum on these situations cause all she needs to do is ask him seriously one time, and accept that answer. A sure man will not give you confusion, nor will they need convincing cause in relationship, a partner who's clearly invested beats the one who is ready.
Reverse rolls on that first couple, imagine a man coming on and telling the world he was in an off again on again relationship that has been better the last 2 years but her employment was questionable and she has commitment issues. Same response? So men are only as good as their work and income and who was on again off again and why?
I really want to meet this man he knows what to answer and advise accordingly
BRILLIANT ❤
“Alright thank you “ yeah she ain’t go no where 😂
Gotta love this man!
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Wow that is some good stuff rt there.
Poor thing doesn't have any self-worth. These women dont realize that they're actually losing more than they're investing
A 37-year old man should be well settled in his career and should be well aimed and settled into his long-term and short-term goals. What else does he need to be settled in life?
He’s not serious about her, just enjoying what she is giving
@@alluringbliss4165 She must be ok in receiving what he's been giving for 6 years on/ off. Doesn't sound like she was serious about him either
I hope she listened to Steve.
I wish I can send this to someone, but I know that she will be offended. So nahhhhh!!!!
I Wonder How Is She Now Since That Episode,,, I Would Luv To Hear The Back Story Of This 🤔🥰
Yes me to wondering what happened
@@jasminsantiago1390 I Think Steve Harvey Should Do That As A Realty Show Call "Where Are You Now, Y'all" 🥰😅
Best show😊
I wasn't ready to commit (and was too stupid to tell anyone why)... until I was because I met the right one, and it wasn't even a decision to make. Just... yeah, of course.
Respect for Mr. H., finding that metaphor.
Forget the ultimatum boyfriend and look for the one that doesn’t need one!!! A grown man 💕
…so ughh….how is it all these grown women are always on this show bashing their bf’s/husbands on national television but somehow magically the men are never their to say their side 🤔🤔😏 I mean .. I can only imagine if the roles were reversed and it was a show of men bashing their other half’s in national television while she wasn’t their ti say her side I gotta admit I think this comment section woukd be quite different and all those grown women in those audience definitely wouldn’t be clapping and cheering him on 😬😏😂
@@hawaiianrussian1047I hear you. I'm a woman and a lot of these episodes I'm like Where is the personal accountability and responsibility for ones own choices. Why the need or want to play victim and Oh he so terrible and Oh he the reason Why I'm where I'm at in life or I don't love myself then all these women high fiveing her like Ya tell it Girl. Please a woman with character and integrity about herself will never feel the need or want to play victim or bash men. Trust me a man will see and know her confidence and class. Simply communicate. No man bashing or ultimatums
@@kristinakellogg1732 we need more women like you 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽 it’s just the fact that for years it’s literally almost every single clip of the same rinse wash and repeat “ my bf/husband is so horrible 😢 “ woe is me story and I’m shocked that eventually more people havnt point out the obvious factor that somehow the so called horrible bf/husband is never somehow here to share his side while getting bashed on national television by his own other half ?! And deep down I feel a lot of Steve’s audience def knows this but will refuse to point it out lol
@hawaiianrussian1047 there's always three sides to EVERY story.....yours,theirs,&& the truth!💯
@@andreajones886 ….but apparently on Steve’s show somehow we’re only allowed to here her side? 🤔
↪️He's messed up so much with her head that she's calling him "her friend of 6 years"
↪️I know he been thru some things but he's 37 tho.. And he sure is comfortable with the sex and emotional support she's bringing him
↪️I can understand that She doesn't want to be alone and want to push it through..
↪️ Love what Steve said: Make room and get ready to receive God's blessings
↪️I give men a few dates to make it official and 2 years tops to marry
…SHE is a grown ass woman not a child ain’t no other grown ass adult can “ mess with her head for 6 years “ 😂😂😂😂😂 and how is it on all of these clips the man is never their to say his side 🤔🤔 I mean I can only imagine if the roles were reversed and a man came on a national television to bash his gf/wife and she wasn’t there to defend herself wouldn’t the first thing women would say is “ well let’s here what she’s got to say!! 😡🤬” 🤔🤔😏😬😂
It’s always two sides to a story, most people tells their version to be their truth. It’s a possibility that if we were to hear his side we would be able to understand what’s going on in their relationship. 💯✌🏾
@@hawaiianrussian1047there is no one freaking reason he could give that could justify stringing her along for 6 years. 6 years, like what??? My God!. Any guy that's worth his salt wouldn't do this to a woman. If it was me, I wouldn't sleep with a guy before marriage, period. That will filter the time wasters fast. But that's just me.
@@SolAbe-bd5id …maybe…just maybe…she’s doing this thing called…lying 😱😬😂 or something called bending the truth 😬 hmmmmm…. I swear if a guy was to go on a television show and just start bashing his other half infront of the whole world and air out all of their business without her there to defend herself and he said they were together for 6 years I can’t help but feel the first thing women would say is “ well where is she ?! Let’s hear her side of the story ! 😡🤬 “ and I feel you know that but you’re gonna choose to not acknowledge that😏 literally every one of Steve’s clips with women bashing there other half’s on national television how is it that the man is never there to say his side ?! 🤔😏 go ahead you can try to ignore those points and circle around the argument 😂
@@ForMySoulSistas it's clear that you have a bias against guys in general.
A man will call you a friend and use you for a comfy couch for as long as you let him. Certain parts of you should only be accessed by your man and not a fake me out "friend".
FACTS!
That was great!
HILARIOUS! ❤😂❤
I hope she moved on. She wasted 6 years of her life with him.
02:00 - doing pretty fine without being burdened by a relationship...which lets me focus on my career and financial stability and not obeying social rules that aren't the law. I only follow the law.
Amen Steve
Great video thanks
I understand her, am in the same situation. She also have a commitment problem and gives me excuses about wanting to be independent before Been serious
Leave her, life is too short. Sometimes the break up is the blessing. I’ve been there too and it’s been two yrs no contact and I’ve never been happier. You deserve better
That person don't really want you it's time to get out and stop missing out on better
What does wanting to be independent mean?
I bet she gon come bk knocking @@Wammoz
@@tinker2217 she need to find herself, I'll spare u what it really means
Steve I need that bucks from Rwanda
Hey Steve, say to that lady that I am here in Rwanda ready to take off
I hope this beautiful lady will read this…..
Drop him and move on. He has NO intentions of growing up and be committed. He knows that you are willing to wait. Stop letting him treat you like a horse chasing the carrot in front of him.
Once a person said somthin about "stones in a glass house" or i may b incorrect?
Judy is fun person but not intelligent. I could tell. She wasn't capable of playing the memory game well
Girl you better wake up from that dream and work on yourself a right man will come it's never too late
Girl you are sooo beautiful ,, I hope you marry a Gorgeous Successful Man !!! You deserve a beautiful Wedding and a beautiful Family !!!! send that likkle boy packing .. God Blessings
“9 11”
Maybe it is true the guy lost his job. Marriage, is a financial partnership. Always choose a rich trustworthy partner. Get out of this.
Why was it during Harvey's Hundred when Steve Harvey was giving hints when the numbers weren't matched?
I wish I would listen to somebody that been married three times and currently in the middle of another divorce. People will listen to anybody with a name. He’s a comedian. What the hell qualifies him to give relationship advice and he can’t stay married
❤100%
6 years is too long 😫 walk away
Oh yeah I see y’all comments readers 😅❤❤
IKTR Steve🎉🎉...
That girl is dating over the 6 years into dating and break ups
That was GOOD Steve. I hope everyone in the audience sucks up your analogy.
If we gave them sex after paying the bride price , i mean marriage then we would know the real ones after 2 weeks. Give no man your body until he marries you otherwise we will be the side chicks for the rest of our lives. Women lets value ourselves and entertain no mess.
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Society shouldn't force men into believing that they have to be together with a woman.
That's like HAVING to play computer games - it will feel like work and not at all interesting. You will try to play games...but then you will experience that it feels like the worst work.
Of course - the less intelligent men won't get that but function like programs which do everything just like the ancestors did.
Men have to find theur independence instead of just following outdated rules.
Women don't need men. They are independent and strong. A relationship just obstructs them from progressing their career and financial security.
And if they want children: semen donor bank.
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Ladies, this is not to instill fear but to be that small voice to open your eyes to those of you that may be in denial.... A man that I work with who has been with a lovely woman for 5+ years.... I'm 38, he's 45, she's 35. He began flirting heavily with me, non-stop. I thought it was simply for attention but then it came to the surface that he intends on dating me. He's still with her and she doesn't have any idea 😢
@@Megan6772 ….so your first thought was to go in the CZcams comment section and tell this sad story?! 😂
set up the date but send her invite to go instead
@@hawaiianrussian1047 weird bc I outlined my objective clearly in the 1st sentence and the entire meaning was lost on you 🤔
Hi Steve I need your help to find a good and responsible man. My family wants me to marry a man i don't love please I need your help, I'm willing to relocate please help me
I swear every single clip is the same rinse wash and repeat of the same old “ my bf/husband is so terrible Steve 😢😢” story and how is it the bf/husband is somehow magically never ever at the show as well to say his side 🤔 oh and I can only IMAGINE if the roles were reversed and we made it a guy going on the show and bashing his other half while she’s not their to defend herself and see if that crowd of middle aged feminists would be clapping and cheering him on 😏😂😂😂😂
I get what he's saying, but be careful: being too quick to switch up might make her look like she's doing nothing but trying to always "better deal" a situation.
Definitely not gonna agree with that not to be selfish but she need to do what’s best for her sometimes moving on she might find what she didn’t in 6 years factual
Better deal? It has been 6 years...
Too quick?!?! Its been 6 years and he can’t call her a girlfriend. She should actually be moving quicker!
@@emmabaidoo4299I wonder what his side of the story is and how is it in all of Steve’s clips they make sure the man is never there to give his side 🤔🤔😏😬😂
@@emmabaidoo4299 She has stayed and says she knows it has been on and off. She has her part in this as well. He isn't on the show explaining his side of Why he feels the way he does. Why it isn't working the way she wants. It's not ALL about her and her needs.