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Here we are again... and I'm not ready for this!! I've always wanted 5 babies but this past year has been the toughest on me. I was just getting out of the worst few months of my Postpartum Depression and Anxiety and straight into another pregnancy! this is a huge shock!!
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When I got pregnant with my daughter I was not ready at all. I was in therapy before and after I found out, was diagnosed with severe anxiety and depression and I didn't believe I could do it. I contemplated an abortion but I knew I couldn't do that either. So I prayed and prayed and prayed. When I finally had her I realized she was what I was missing in my life. I know its COMPLETELY different from my first to your 5th, but maybe this child will be what makes your world complete. I pray the Lord gives you strength and calm during this pregnancy. You can do it đ
Yes I just had my 4th on Sunday, and after meeting her I felt the same! I was not ready at all and struggled the whole pregnancy from weakness from being pregnant with 3 kids back to back (my oldest is 7 and the other 2 are 3 and 2) but after meeting her I'm just so so gratefulđ it made it all worth it đ
Iâm in the same boat, Iâm 36 weeks pregnant with my #4 and feeling the same.. I have three teenage kids from my separated husband⊠now Iâm pregnant with my new partner and had a surprise pregnancy, Ill be 40yrs when I give birth ands that frightens me that Iâll be 60 when he turns 18 đź My teenagers are excited (for now lol) and one positive is that I have big helpers to help me
Only thing Iâm not doing and should be doing is therapy
This is exactly how I felt after getting pregnant 4 month after having my 2nd child. A 3rd baby! I was in disbelief! Because I was actually preventing another pregnancy and still got pregnant. I was in shock for days then I was approved for a home! We moved in reality set in and I went into deep depression within the matter of 2 weeks I had severe anxiety I went into a dark hole QUICK! my Dr gave me medicine he said baby was at risk and even though I wanted to have an abortion I hanged up quick and realized this baby was going to stay. I managed my depression. Having 2 babys was the hardest thing Iâve ever done. Sheâs now 10 months old and a 2 year old itâs getting better now. But definitely not how I planned my life to be.
Youre so strong Im proud of you for keep your self strong during a rough path â€ïž
Thank you for your positive words they mean a lot for all of us we are the strong loving mothers and nothing is more beautiful â€â€â€â€â€
Thereâs too much pressure on women to be over the moon happy with pregnancy. Itâs a big change thatâs scary and overwhelming. Thank you for sharing â€
Just had this convo with my partner; I told him would you be disappointed if I told you Iâm not happy? Iâm not excited? He said thatâs normal and heâll be so excited for the two of us nobody will even bother me đ ugh! I feel guilty but Iâm glad to hear this isnât an abnormal experience.
My MIL has 5 kids and Iâm married to her 5th who was also a surprise. God knows exactly what Heâs doing. This baby will be such a blessing â€ïž congratulations, Mama!
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This is how I currently feel with my 3rd pregnancy. We are in NO POSITION to be having another baby . Not mentally, physically, or financially. Our baby girl is healthy and thatâs all I could ask for. Here we go!
Same here 7 weeks đź
Girl I am right here with you. Iâm 4 1/2 months pregnant with my first and I am so scared and canât stand the thought of adoption or whatever other option there is of not raising my child. I am not married, but my boyfriend is with me. Pray for strength for meâŠthat there would be grace and peace for me as I walk this out. Bless you for being the mother that you areâŠthank you for loving and caring for your children so passionately. Itâs beautiful â€
How r u?
Good thing we get 9 months to prepare for the birth of a child, so we can absorb all the feelings. Congratulations.
Girl, you have been such an inspiration to me. I found your channel when I was pregnant with my first baby - I completely understand your struggle and trepidation. I am praying for you that this little baby will be healthy, strong and such an incredible JOY from God! In your weakness, I believe God will be strong for you! â€ïž Youâre an amazing mom and person! đđ»đđ»đđ»
I did the same! I was pregnant with my first when I found your channelâŠI LOVE watching your videos. Just remember thisâŠ.God will never give you anything you canât handle and this baby has a purpose in this lifeâŠâ€ you have so much to look forward to, you will get through the hard days
You are a strong woman and you will be alright baby such a blessing and joyful later. Pray for a healthy and safe delivery for both of you. You got this beautiful lady. God bless â€
I felt this exact way finding out I was pregnant in October. Iâm currently 24 weeks, and now I feel like this was meant to be, Iâm happy and canât wait to meet my baby girl đ«¶đ»
Iâm so glad I found your channel. This 3rd baby is a big surprise for me and Iâve been overwhelmed and stressed. Your channel is a breath of fresh air.
im glad your here! there are so many emotions we can go through and should not be ashamed of letting it all out. its healthy to allow ourselves to feel all the feels without judgement.
My daughter wasn't planned for at the time I got pregnant. My friend's mom tried to convince me to abort her, but I didn't. She's 14 now and is the best thing that ever happened to me. She has an 11 year old brother and I thought I was done. Now found out last week that I'm pregnant with my third kiddo at 34 after finally being diagnosed (and starting to treat) with depression, anxiety and ADHD. I thought I'd be so angry about it because I was so adamant with my husband about no more kids and so much is hard to deal with right now. It wasn't my plan, but it was God's and He has blessed us with an immense amount of joy that I didn't think I'd ever feel again. He has a plan for every life and every child is a good and perfect gift from the Lord. God bless â€ïž
You are such an inspiration. Your channel helped me so much. Hang in there. Your feelings are valid. Donât hesitate to lean on the community you built if you need it.
†Hearing the heart beat truly makes everything real đ God bless you and your family!
Out of all the mama vlogs I watch you handle everything the best! You're honestly such an inspiration! Don't feel down or upset! You have so much support and so many followers who believe in you and just remind yourself you're doing an amazing job and all anyone can do is try their hardest, no one is perfect! You got this mama!đ
Youâll make the best choices for yourself and your family! Just take it day by day, youâve got this mama! So, hereâs a compassionate and sympathetic congratulations! Your feelings are so so valid. â€
Thank you for sharing your vulnerability with us! You were meant to be this little one's mama. I'm excited to follow along â€ïž
Youâre an amazing Mom!! Thank you for caring so much already for the life within you. I pray for strength for you today. â€
Wow I literally just found your channel last night and hereâs another baby!! Congratulations!! As someone who was raised in a big family, the more the merrier! đ
I also love how you are speaking of your emotions and thought process. Not everyone has happy crying exciting moment they find out. I swear I have pregnancy anxiety for the entire first trimester where I freak out rather it was planned or not.
I found your page just over 2 years ago when I was pregnant with my 3rd. And although I had done it before, your videos helped to prepare me in a way I didn't know I needed. I love your transparency. You are so relatable. God bless you and your family on this newest little blessing. â€ïžđ
You are inspirational, you are true, you are beautiful. You are AMAZING! All 5 babies will see these quality and love you unconditionally!!! .....you will be fine and we are here for you †đ
I can't imagine what you are going through at the moment, but the fact that you can show yourself so vulnerable already proofs what a strong person you are. If anyone can do this it's you and you don't have to do it alone.
I'm currently 17 weeks pregnant with my first baby and pregnancy symptoms made my days hard since week 7. Still hoping it will get better, but I'm definitely looking forward to meet the little one.
Congratulations đ praying for you and your family I know this is stressful but youâve got this your strong and we will all be here supporting you
Aww I love that your children were happy to have another sibling. I know this is hard for you and itâll take some time for you to adjust, which is totally normal and okay to grieve. Youâre an amazing mama and wife. Everything will work out exactly how its supposed to.
Praying for you mama, I love seeing your honesty and rawness only our channel. God gives us some struggles because He knows our own strengths better than we do! Keep pushing on and know you have 5 humans that would never see you as anything but amazing!
I'm crying so hard with you. This hits home and shakes me to my core. Every pregnancy has been this way for me. And I have always felt so alone wondering why I couldn't feel bliss like every other lucky momma. I just feel nothing but fear wondering if everything is going to be okay. Looking back, it did turn out okay. But in the moment I couldn't see it. I have had 3 girls and would love to be blessed with more. But this is the stage I dread. And I don't know if I'm strong enough to do it again. Thank you for sharing your heart. Sending all my love momma.
My soul mama. Thank you for being so real and raw, itâs refreshing. God is in control and you guys WILL be make it through and come out stronger together. Iâm so excited to tag along this crazy journey with you. Congratulations mama â„ïž
You've got this. God's got you. Praying for your family's health and happiness.
Congrats! I was crying with you! I'm a mom of 6 and the last 2 were surprise gifts. You can do it!
Iâve just been revisiting your hospital bag videos as Iâm pregnant with my third. I have the feeling of being totally completely done after three, and I can only imagine how it must feel to think youâre done and to have a surprise baby after that. A massive mental adjustment. Itâs ok to take time to be ok and ready.
My heart goes out to you mama! Praying that God blankets you with strength, love and good health for both you and baby during the pregnancy and postpartum period. You are an exceptional mother, you have helped me so much when I was pregnant with my daughter and during this season of watching her grow. Please donât doubt yourself, give yourself grace and know that you have an entire community here supporting and rooting for you. Much love mama you got this! â„ïž
Thank you for being honest and real with us. I just want to give you a big hug.
Congrats and thank you for sharing this part of your journey with us, it is truly appreciated. Sending prayers of strength your way and for nothing but love and blessings to you and your family.
Iâm sending so much love . Your emotions were so real and I love how honest you are .
What a hard yet special part of your journey you shared with us. Thank you. You will be an amazing mom to 5 đ
You'll be in my prayers everyday đ You can do this!
Thank you for being so open and honest. I feel like itâs so hard to find other mamas who have felt/feel the same way as me. I see so many that are SOOO happy & excited and wanted to be pregnant and none that I can relate to. We were one and done, our son is 6 now and I am pregnant with baby #2 that was a complete shock to us and I have felt so many emotions, lots of sadness though but I know one day Iâll look back and be so thankful for this second little boy!
Yay! Youâre an amazing mama so this is just the best surprise blessing to hear! đđyouâve got this. Itâs okay to go through this emotional roller coaster, but youâre stronger than you think. Having had a surprise myself I can testify that itâs a lot but it works out and baby will be a wonderful blessing and joy just like the rest! Praying for you!
You got this Mama! I have been watching your videos all throughout my last pregnancy up until now and he is a year old. You are an amazing Mama and I just know you will do great. Take in all the emotions, have your moment, but know you got this. HUGS!đ
Aww congratulations!! Praying the Lord will strengthen you đđœ You got this mama đȘđœđ
I was lucky enough to find your channel about 3 weeks ago and have basically binge watched all your content since. You are the one person who has made me feel less scared and more excited / ready for our first baby due December âșïž if anyone can do this, it is you! You are strong, influential and motivating! I thank you for your content âșïžđ best wishes on your Pregnancy. PS I live in houston too and looked at that same hospital đ€Ł + 4 kids is my boyfriends goal for us âșïž
Crazy I watched you while I was pregnant!! My girl is 11 months tomorrow...I was completely surprised since I was on BC.. You got this strong mama!!!!
Oh I feel you mama I love his raw and honest you are. Weâre here for you and love you girl!!!
Praying for you and your family! This was so real and honest. Thank you for sharing â€â€
Thank you so much for putting this part of your life out to us as viewers. This is a very vulnerable part of your life, and I hope you find peace within yourself soon. When I had my first baby, I definitely could have used this video to help me get through all the emotions that I was feeling (similar to how you have felt amd mentioned in this video). Most videos of women finding out that they are pregnant are ones filled with joy but thereâs hardly any of those with those who are terrified and are confused of what they should do, so thank you againâŠ!
Just know all of your feelings are so very valid and allow yourself to go through any emotions as they come. You are so strong!
Oh my goodness your children is beautiful! What a blessing. I felt this way with my 3rd. Today shes almost 18.......cant imagine life without her.
This baby is so blessed to have such an awesome family and mama. †thank
you for sharing your raw feelings. Itâs takes so much strength to share your story. Praying for more strength â€
Praying to God that this baby is your saving grace and that you get the chance experience (pregnancy, birth AND postpartum) that youâve always wanted â€
So happy for you!! I found your channel when you had just had Knox, I had been scouring CZcams for labor vlogs after I had just found out I was pregnant for the first time. Your videos helped me through becoming a mama so much and your vulnerability about PPD & also just regular mom struggles have been so refreshing to see so I (and I know many others) feel less alone. Amazing how youâve always wanted 5 kids and now youâve been surprised with number 5. Canât wait to continue watching your journey & supporting you as well. Itâs been so great having you back on CZcams!! Congrats mama!
You are so, so strong and incredible. I admire you beyond words. This is hard, but you can do this. So much love to you.
I wanted to hug you through the phone so exciting but scary at the same time. So happy for you guys!! Congratulations â€â€â€
When I first saw you crying, I was incensed; then I remembered after I had my first child via emergency c-section and I found out I was pregnant 3-months post-partum I bawled. I was still recovering from surgery and getting to know my baby. I do understand, and with God, you will get through this. Praying for you!
There are many reasons a woman may feel anxious or scared over a pregnancy. We don't know the complete struggles of others
I found out I was pregnant two months after my first, an emergency c section too. Bawled my eyes out but my Breah makes life what it is. I'm so, so grateful she's here!
How did you cope, I just found out I'm pregnant 3 months postpartum. I'm still dealing with complications from my first. I just can't stop bawling...
@@20Becca just literally leaning on the Lord. I was so weak and drained, I would be changing my baby while throwing up in a trashcan beside me. You will get through this and I will be praying for your strength!
You ladies are giving me strength reading this. Just found out Iâm pregnant and I have 11 month old and 4 year old. So nerve wrecking
I definitely feel you. This is how I felt just a few weeks ago when I found out we were pregnant with baby #4 for me and #6 for us. I understand and felt this video on sooooo many levels. Many blessings to you and your family.â€đ
I can't imagine how you feel. Trust me it could get exhausting I'm in the journey currently. Watching you cry breaks my heart, you got this may you receive strength.
Congratulations! â€ïž
Congratulations! Praying for strength! You got this! â€
Congratulations đ You can do it đ€©đ€©đ€© Wonderful news but don't be scared to ask for a help when you need it. You have a big family and you're definitely not alone in it. Congrats đ„ł
Girl, I get it.
Wishing you all the light. And to many going through the sameâŠ.. đ€
This really making so emotional because Iâm currently in the same position but we got this â€ïžâ€ïž love peace and patience âŒïžđđŸ
Your emotion is so relatable. I have six babies. And between my 5th and 6th I had an unplanned pregnancy that truly knocked me on my butt emotionally.
Your feelings are so real and valid
Crying while listening to you.
Please know we all are praying for you. Trust the Higher Power, he knows what we don't know.
Prayers for you and your little one on the way, God bless you and your family.
Wow, man this was such an amazing video showing a very real reaction to pregnancy for a lot of people (including me). Doesn't mean that you don't love them, but pregnancy and having a baby IS HARD. thank you so much for sharing. I felt so guilty when I had all these feelings while I was pregnant. Feel free to just vlog and process through all the emotions especially on the hard days
God bless you and your family đ
Everything happens for a reason and you guys got this !
Thereâs one more sweet baby that needs your love and guidance mama, your love is just that special and wanted â€ïž you are a warrior!! Congratulations and I hope this pregnancy is a dream
Thank you so much for sharing this the raw way that you did. I needed this. I never wanted kids..ever. At 26 in the middle of my spring semester here I am finding out 3 weeks out from my wedding. Iâm so scared; I needed to feel that with someone else for a moment thank you.
Thank you for your vulnerability and honesty in this video. I am pregnant with my first at 26 and was so scared because all I did was bar hop before baby and suffered from severe anxiety / depression. When I found out I was pregnant, I was terrified and had the same feelings you expressed at the beginning of your 8 week ultrasound- too scared to feel excited, knowing it was going to be HARD, but also knowing how much I loved the baby without even hearing his heartbeat yet. I am now eight months pregnant with him and I can say both me and my husband have changed into two completely different people- but in the best way possible, focusing on our home, and our future with our baby. I can say we are so much closer now and can only imagine that growing after baby boy is here.
It is comforting to know I am not alone in those early thoughts and feelings- and seeing someone as strong as you, with 4 kids, still feeling this way- makes me know I can 100 percent do this, just like you can! Good luck with everything and please know you are helping so many moms out there with your honest and helpful content.
I'm praying for you. I'm not sure what you are going through. I send you lots of love and admire your decision to keep your little one. God promise us that he doesn't abandon us on hard times, I encourage you to take refuge in him. He really takes care of our hearts and lift us up when we are at our lowest and weakest.
You're amazing and you're not alone. We are all praying for your strength and cheering you along. You're going through a lot please ask others in your life for help so you can get rest and time for yourself. Sending love and hugs your way.
You got this girl! You are so strong
I was pregnant the same time you were with your last one and this is making me broody đ congratulations you've got this you're the best mum đđ
Iâm praying for you on this journey. your an awsome mom and your children are so blessed
I've been following since before my baby boy was born. You are an extraordinary mama. You gave me strength when I had doughts. I'm praying for you and your familyâĄâĄâĄâĄâĄâĄâĄ
This may sound odd, but it gives me comfort knowing that unplanned pregnancies can happen and be so scary to someone having their first (like what happened to me, I am currently 21w) or to someone who is having their 5th. I had all of these emotions, going back and forth about whether or not to have an abortion, and ultimately decided that God put this little peanut here for a reason. I can feel how much they want to be here! We are keeping the gender a mystery because everything else was a surprise anyways, so why not add more to the fun. đ it is definitely helping me look forward to meeting them! It is less devastating now, but it has been very stressful up to this point. Half way there, trusting God will take care of us along the journey. I am hoping all the best for you and your beautiful family!! You were one of the first channels I started watching when I found out I was pregnant! đ„°
How about using protection and if they had suspected something could have slipped in then there is the morning after pill.
Going through this right now. I feel the exact same way as you. I feel overwhelmed by it. The thought of needing to move and everything like that.
Congratulations! Praying for a healthy pregnancy and baby.
You are so beautiful inside and out. Iâm pregnant with my first and I felt alll these emotions and Iâm so grateful you are sharing this with us. We go through a range of emotions when we find out- and Iâm glad to know Iâm not alone even though itâs my first. Iâll be 30
In March and now that Iâm in my second trimester Iâm much more level headed and grateful for my body to be able to carry my baby. I look up to strong mothers. Motherhood is the one thing Iâve never done in my life and the one thing I want to succeed at the most đąâ€
Found your channel when i was preggo with baby number 4. It was so nice to follow your journey along with mine. I found out i was pregnant with babh number 5 (unplanned). I was super depressed but came to terms with it, when i saw your video i got sooooo excited. It seems like once again, i will have someone to follow along with. Thank you !
Thank you for sharing this. I feel like in society it's not ok for a mother to not be excited about a pregnancy. I wasn't about my last one and it's taken time for me to adjust and I only have 2. We have to share what's really going on. It's ok to not be ok and God will get us through any and all things that life brings us. Just think of all the families you're helping with posting this. Thank you and God bless đ
God made you very ready and capable for this! He is the one who gifted you this baby. You got this sweet mama!
We love you and so ready to support you through it đ€
I canât believe this popped up on my Home Screen. I have 4 children ages 10,5,2 and 13 months and we just found out we are pregnant with our 5th very unplanned pregnancy. So all those emotions I just watched are so real and raw for me. Thinking of all the options. Iâm glad to see you smiling and hope I can make the right decision and smile again soon đą
Praying that everything goes well with you and Sending you lots of love and wishes, you are strong! Hang in there.
Iâve always loved and benefitted from watching you. I want more kids but honestly itâs so scary and hard, sone days all I know is keeping my head above water. Postpartum is so hard, I feel you. I hope this time you emerge stronger than ever.
I just found your channel but thank u for sharing your journey. I turned 40 this year and was caught by surprise with my 2nd pregnancy, which is a boy. I felt every emotion you experienced. It's ok to be emotional but God created us to be strong and I pray that the rest of your pregnancy is healthy and stress-free. đ
God plans every child.. and this child tho unexpected will grow to do amazing things because the love you can give. The way you told your kiddos was so neat.. no idea why this showed up in my recommended, but I recently lost my mother and this just showed me the world will be ok, new life is coming .. stay beautiful and blessedđđ
You are amazing. So strong and such a good mom!! đ«¶đŒ
The emotion is real!!!! Been there and now I am forever grateful for my two children who are now grown!!! Also, please share this intro music. I would love to download it. Thank you and may you have have peace!!!
Praying for you mama â€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïž sending all the love
Congratulations! I know you are freaking out but itâs blessing and you are an amazing mom and will do a great job!
You got this Mama!
God is giving you this blessing because he knows you can handle this. You are a GODDESS
Prayers and many congratulations âšâšâšâšâšâšâšâšâšâšâšâšâšâšâšâšâšâšâšâšâšâšâšâšâš
This whole video makes me so emotional god bless u girl!!
You make the best decision for you babe youâre an amazing woman stay strong â€ïž
Prayers. God did this for a reason. We might not kn ow why. I had the same with my third. He is such an amazing man. I am blessed. You are blessed.
Girl I felt this for you. We are also expecting our 5th due in April. It was also quite a shock to me especially seeing as this baby will come only 22 months after our fourth. And I also struggled with PPA/PPD and acclimating to more kids and working and keeping house etc. amongst other things. Am more so excited now but yeah tbh stressed. So felt this momma. Sending you love and praying for you and the fam. Love you. Peace and provision in the name of Jesus. Amen
Love, I know exactly how youâre feeling. Iâm 23 and baby number 5 will be here in possibly a week or two and Iâm completely stressed. It was an unplanned pregnancy as well, I was on the depo for 2 1/2 months when I found out I was 6 weeks pregnant with her. Iâm a stay at home mom and my life right now is way to overwhelming for me because our house burnt down in March and weâve been staying with my parents.. I donât want this to seem like Iâm making it out to be about myself but I really do want you to know Iâm right there with you and itâs okay to cry. I love your videos, keep your head up, and we will make it through each dayâ€
Oh my goodness that is a hands full. Praying for you bothâ€
Aww I wish you all the best †happiness will follow and youâll look back in 5 years and be so happy you made your decision
Having lost 5 babies and 2 living children. I would be thrilled to go back and have more children! Nothing is easy but it makes us better people for our families!
Oh Mama! Congratulations! I'd be so overwhelmed if I found I was pregnant again... I'm tearing up with you. My prayer for you is that God is present with you in a way that you've never experienced before... đđ
I'd love to hear hubby's reaction.
I love you â€ïž it's been a while but omgsh you're pregnant again! I've always wanted 4 babies & the thought of having that 4th gives me so much anxiety đł đ but I'm so happy with all that I have now & maybe in a few years I'd be ready again. Hope and wish all the best for you, your newest nugget & the rest of your beautiful fam!
I just gave birth to my 5th baby and i felt the same way!! It was hard but so worth it!!! Congratulations!!
Omg, Congratulations! your channel has helped me so much. BTW I love your outfit going to the ultrasound.
My last baby was unplanned and it was a shock at first, took time to get excited about it bc I found out at the first signs of morning sickness bleh. You may not feel ready now but you'll get there!!! Congrats Mama, you got this! You're a wonderful mama đ