My Life Sucked! How my challenges shaped me. (Noel Deyzel)
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- čas přidán 24. 03. 2023
- I'm Noel Deyzel, and in this video, I'm going to get real with you. Growing up, I faced a lot of challenges that most people my age and in my circle didn't have to deal with. I was dealt a tough hand, and sometimes it felt like the world was against me.
There were times when things got so difficult that I even considered taking my own life. It was a dark place to be in, and I never want anyone to feel that way.
But through it all, I learned some valuable lessons about life and the difficult choices we all have to make. I want to share those lessons with you in the hopes that they'll help you if you're going through something similar.
In this video I'll share some of the tough choices I had to make growing up and how they've shaped who I am today.
I know that talking about mental health and difficult emotions isn't always easy, but I hope that by sharing my story, I can help someone out there who might be struggling. Remember, you're not alone, and there's always hope for a brighter future.
I hope this helps you! much love!❤️🙏
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This guy is a true example for masculinity. Badass strong big, but also not afraid to talk about his flaws and weaknesses and instead of putting himself above others he spreads positivity and encouragement.
If only more people could realise this, he doesn’t beat his message over his viewers head and shout down his microphone. He just delivers everything honestly and sincerely.
@@Matt-pn7th yeah, he lays out his advice clearly and presents what he thinks is right, but he doesnt make you feel bad
cuz hes not hegemonic
from a female perspective, i can say I agree with this. masculinity doesn't equal violence or loud ego, sometimes its just quiet, self-assured power and belief in yourself.
Could y'all stop with the whole "this is real masculinity" thing?
Noel it takes a lot of balls to share this and I respect it a lot. I am glad you stopped yourself and decided to pursue this career. You inspire and entertain millions of people a day, don't ever forget this. For anyone having the same thoughts as Noel did many years ago, don't give up. Keep fighting and moving forward. Just like Noel said these challenges will make you a stronger and better person.
i will.
Yes master 🐢
🗿
Anyone else from a third world country who wanna make it big ?
Thank you master
"You're not what happened to you. You are what you choose to become." Yours is a life that follows this quote to the letter. You're a true role model, Daddy Noel
He is a role model, but it's not true. he IS what happened to him, he HAD to, not choose, to become tough, and he's probably still sad his father left them.
"daddy" Noel? Seriously wtf is wrong with someone that uses daddy to name his role model
Its like growing up without a dad only made you gayer
So true…what happens to us is beyond around control. We are in control of our reactions.
@@end.olives dude its a joke in the community, everyone uses it and hes taken it on lol. Literally uses it himself in some shorts
Absolute boss. Thank you.
Vergaseca u re truly a man of culture
thank god you’re still here Noel, I’m sure a lot of people followed down that path but were helped by you and are also still here to live their lives and hopefully help others
Agreed. 🙏❤
Alot of you people have no idea what its like to live in a third world country and you morons cry over the most trivial rubbish.
Thank God
I was contemplating on continuing or not and CZcams just recommended me this.
Thank you Noel, you're truly Godsent.
W brother
Yes, now move forward with your meth business Mr. White
Please stay, friend
Never give up my friend
continue cookin' brev.
His mom must be so unbelievably proud of him. I hope my mom can be this proud of me too some day.
She will my friend. I'm sure of it 😉
Amen bros, may we all reach that level where our parents are proud of us.😊
Your mom is already proud of you man 😊
You don't have to make your mom proud. Because most likely they probably are very...
Noel I was born in South Africa and I'm still here Im also poor my dad is abusive. thank you for sharing your story it helps me stay strong I will continue to praise God over my problems
Vecht terug broeder (terugveg broer), ek is lief vir jou en suid Afrika. Don’t give up🇳🇱❤️🇿🇦
Remember you’re there because of your nation’s piss-poor leadership, not first world people like this video creator seems to insinuate. It’s pretty tiresome to constantly hear about whining from people who assume that living in a different area will solve all their problems while literally ignoring the ones who actually cause them.
@@danny9905 Are you half Dutch half South African? (Bcs of the flags)
@@hannahjans5742 Unfortunately not part South African haha, I wish though. Love South Africa, I want to live there one day. Great people and beautiful nature and cities.
im glad you watched this and gained determination. stay strong bro
I’m just a kid not even a teenager yet and obviously I don’t think about ending myself because I’m 12 but u have inspired me to start working hard and being mentally stable. Ur a legend Noel.
Much love bro, you got this
You’re on the right path to success kid, stay strong and don’t let haters bring you down
@@NoelDeyzel are you gay?
@@Just_shush_now wtf
@@Just_shush_now He is. He did a podcast on that with MorePlatesMoreDates, you should check it out.
Noel’s transparency is unmatched.❤❤
@Ronlo As shut
Yes
@Ronlo Asit's not even your video, so I grant you the rank of bot
@Ronlo As Go away
@Ronlo As its not it has 440 subs, real ssniperwolf has around 10mil
I remember when I was 297 pounds and severely obese. Watching Noel’s videos is really what sparked my change. As I’m writing this I’m currently 206 pounds and 6’5. I can’t imagine a world where Noel didn’t exist and who knows where I would be. No amount of thank you’s, no amount of “I owe you”, nothing will ever show the amount of gratitude I have for this legend coming across my feed. You deserve all your success brother💪🏻 keep being an inspiration to us
Way to go 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Literal gigachad fr
Huge
That is so awesome! Congrats!
Noel you are a gentle giant..
Big and strong outside but as caring as a mother inside..
We luv u man.
The "why it's so easy for everyone else" tormented me for a long time. When you are depressed it's something that claws your soul constantly.
Cause you were born ugly, and with a Jonny.
Us ugly people gotta put in work.
One day, someone will look at you and ask theirselves “why is it so easy for him”. That is the moment when you can start changing others’ lives.
@@v380riMz the grass is always greener on the other side but you have no idea what other people are going through
@@v380riMz No. You are delusional.
Same - and now I am saying how glad I am for the hardships. It really does make you who you are and you know true happiness and how to be creative and strong.
Noel, you're changing lifes.
When I was 17 I swore to myself that I'd end myself when I'm 27 and my life wouldn't get any better. Now I'm 28 and the last year was the best year of my life and it's the first time that I'm glad that I'm alive. You were a part of my last year, inspiring to push myself and first and foremost be a better human being.
Thank you.❤
I always said the same and turned 28 today, we got this brother 👊🏼
If you’re comfortable, can you share how your life can’t get any better? What’s making you so happy?
For me I gave 7 years from 2023
@@shalfe9095 basiert
bro wanted to join the 27 club 💀
“You’re exactly where you need to be right now” I needed to hear that
Computer Science student here. I still feel like an imposter in coding. I lack basic programming skills and I am one of the worst performing students in my class. Yet, majority of those who I study with have background knowledge in IT and programming and for them, it is more of a refresher, and for me, its more of a hardship. However, with this story in mind from Big Daddy Noel, I acknowledge that I am where I need to be, and in a month, I will be having a different conversation about programming. I hope this story brings a smile on your face y'all.
I was there too and I even failed an introductory programming class. It takes time for it to click, but it will click if you push through.
Today I work as a programmer but still sometimes feel like an impostor,, and that's okay.
Don't lose faith in yourself brother.
Bro, I failed a lot in learning programming, I failed A LOT of tech interviews, once I even failed to write a loop with pen and paper. On the first job I had a team lead who literally in minutes could pick up some new library, framework or skill, he was younger than me.
And so what? I'm still developer with experience, remote work, traveling, all that stuff.
You may need some more time to learn, more movitation, heck, some nootropics, but in the end it's worth it! And anyone can do it
Yet, you are here commenting! Bro if you need to get better do it. It must be your life purpose to learn everything you need at this point. Go a make that change.
@@ronaldinhogaucho5460 Dude, I am sending tension from your comment. You good?
@@mondli I'm a pro at what you are trying to achieve. I'm your daddy! Go and get that knowledge man... stop reading comments and get better
Awesome Brother! Was told I was too fat and old in 40s started training in garage lifting rocks doing PUSH UPS on paint cans pull UPS on beams got ripped af at 52 years old!!!
Proving it on your channel garageman BRUTAL dont ever let people write you off grandpa 🔥
Inspiration
@@NoelDeyzel you too Brother
@@GymGarageMan crazy training you do on your vids garageman
absolute chad
"You're exactly where you're meant to be right now." That was reassuring, thanks man.
Noel spitting fax, god only allows what's in his plans. There's always something better on the horizon
I'm meant to be a cold hearted apathetic cunt obsessed with money and self improvement to fill the void the people i loved most created?
Damn no wonder people end themselves and on top no wonder the world is filled with assholes..and I'mma be one too cause why not being good never got me anything lol.
It felt great to hear that.
@@mad576wastakenmissing one part: but you still have to walk the walk to reach it
We need to lift up more men like Noel as genuine pillars of strong and positive masculinity.
Strong in mind and body, soft spoken and in control of himself. Empathetic and compassionate. Driven, focused and dedicated. Fun and charismatic.
You really do care for your fellow man, Noel. You’re a lighthouse of inspiration in this foggy trip we call life.
Brother, please never stop making content. It’s sorely needed.
I wish all masculinity youtubers were like noel, with no toxic ass red pill, pickup artist, polygamous, women hating losers
Stop demonizing masculinity. If you're one who believes in toxic masculinity then you better believe in toxic femininity as well. Bunch of clowns
I’m going through a really hard time right now, I’m aware I’m not where I want to be and feeling immense pressures right now. But sticking in there because I know things are gunna get better.
Not looking for sympathy, just nice to talk. Ty for reading
You can do it bro
I believe in you
Soft heat creates custard, hard pressure creates diamonds.
As someone said to me once “ it may be a shit day, shit month or even a shit year. But it’s not a shit life” . Everyone on this planet has low points and some take the decision to end it, however they don’t realise the devastation they leave behind. Also most people who have survived suicide and been interviewed have said the first thing they thought was “regret” so they regretted trying to kill themselves. Imagine you tried to kill yourself and as your about to die regretting it but there’s nothing you can do. You’re now dead and everyone who ever loved you is devastated, you’ve left behind destruction and why ? Because your having a hard time, be strong and try get through this tough time you won’t regret it.
Noel is a real man, he never gives up in life even when he has hardships in his twenties and childhood, let’s be more like this man 👑
honestly made me tear up a little with that sweet picture of your mother and you and the end there, such a nice message and just what I needed lately
Thank you so much ❤
@@NoelDeyzel no, thank you❤️
I had anorexia at 13 and working out saved my life because I started downing those calories to a point where I was able to almost eat normally. I just wanted to say you were one of the first fitness influencers I've stumbled across and your videos helped me a lot through my journey. Without you I would've never gotten this far. God bless you for helping so many people in achieving their goals🙏❤️
23 years old right now and as broke as you could imagine, and I am incredibly grateful for people like you who share their stories. It is so easy to resort to self-pity when things are tough.
You really can't fake the genuineness that you have and share, and knowing that it comes in part from what you went through allows me to appreciate how hard things have been in my own life. Lots of respect and love to you, Noel.❤😥🙏💕
Grow up
@@reice9111 Thank you, Reice.
"Hard times create strong man". Thanks Noel for being the motivation for all these people.
“Tough Times Don’t Last But Tough People Do” ❤ 🙏🏽
blearghbleubleableagh!
it's better to have nothing and have someone than to have many things but have no one.
How can anyone not like this guy man
This notification literally just popped up as I was writing a song about my grandma passing a few months ago on my birthday. Writing to apologize to her anytime I made her feel unloved or any negative towards her. She never deserved it. Thank you for this video and this story❤️.
We love you and we’re so happy that you didn’t took this decision. You’re a true inspiration for everybody. Stay strong Daddy Noel ❤️
From one fellow South African to another, I feel you Noel.. I feel you.
Thank you for sharing.
Beautiful.
Thank you for sharing. I'll remember this for a while, and when I get where I'm going, I'll tell your story as part of what inspired me. You're doing a great thing, and we appreciate you.
If you enjoy topics about masculinity and mastery, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel.
Challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would respect and look up to.
We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own points of view so that others can benefit from them as well.
All the best to you!
I have the same situation as you Noel. Having no father, being raised by a single mom, and living in a 3rd world country with no financial stability.
It gave me a purpose to live because of you and I'm very thankful to keep moving on.
Just remember your at no disadvantage, use this as your fuel to be the greatest
No one ever became great overnight, Thanks for telling your story Noel❤
A true father is always someone who didn’t have one
Empowering AF and made me cry. Beautiful. Thank you for this and all your vids, you are so wierd and wise!
As a South African kid, you were one of my biggest inspirations to start working out. 15 and been going for 6 months, and I'm moving weights heavier than some adults I know, all thanks to you
This man even finds sth good for us on his bad times huge respect
This shit means a lot to me man, rn I'm going through some stuff and videos like this rly help me see the bright side man. Thank you so much for all that you do.
Glad you’re still here with us. I’m using one of your previous videos about this topic as a bit of motivation for myself to get my life straightened out and to be a better man.
Bro u have brought me from the lowest point in life to something that I could not have done on my own. I respect the Man U have become today and your way encouraging others. Mad respect man.
A lot of people can relate to your story. Thank you being so open Noel 🙏
Your heart’s capacity for kindness is next level and I wish I could be your friend irl! I really needed this today. Thank you.
You got me in tears brother. Thank you for all the support and for your kindness!
Needed this right at this point in my life, thank god you’re still here Noel 🤝🏼❤️ can’t wait to one day meet you in person 🙏🏻
thank you for staying with us and being a huge inspiration 💪🏼
That explains a lot of respect you have for your mother.. and also yourself.
Keep up the great work man. We all look up to you.
I just want you to know you literally deserve the best man. I’ve seen a lot of your short videos and you are the perfect example for how those who are big and lift a ton are some of the nicest understanding people NOT mean. You’re so inspirational and I’m proud of you for getting through everything. I’ve been having rough times too with my job not appreciating me, being taken advantage of or left in the dust by certain people, and just me just not feeling good enough etc so this stuff is perfect for those who are having a hard time. Good stuff man 💯🤝
Things just start going straight in my life for the first time in my adulthood than noel drops this banger, low key was waiting for things to go south but mans giving me some much needed hope. Thank you noel much love my dude.
You never know the battles of which are going on in one’s mind, thank you Noel for sharing your story, you are always an inspiration and just know we all appreciate you brother.
Was here too bro and really i can feel that now I'm the strongest version of myself and will never let anyone or anything get me down anymore. Stay strong and if you are struggling with something serious it really takes courage to seek professional help and if you feel that it could help you just do it. You have one life and you deserve peace of mind.
I really needed to hear this today. Thank you.
You have no idea how much I needed this right now. I was literally crying minutes before I clicked the CZcams app. You are a great man
You then is me now. Another brother from South Africa grinding the grind. We're all gonna make it, thank you again for this.
I love this content. I have been going through seemingly endless challenges. As much as I work on adhering to a solid schedule and just getting it done, it seems that things never stay the same long enough to accomplish anything meaningful. Watching your videos and looking for reasons as to why you are enjoying this level of success and I am not. But... I had no idea that our stories were so incredibly similar. And hearing your message of hope, but moreover your vulnerability and compassion for others in need of help, is truly inspirational. Thank you so much for your sacrifices in becoming a good man Noel. You've earned a subscriber for life.
I appreciate you for sharing this and want to say that your videos have helped me and have put tears in my eyes and have kept me moving forward. Thank you.
And I hope one day to have such a great body like yours.
You know as a fellow South African, it's nice to have an actual voice out there on the internet representing and explaining what life and growing up in South Africa is for a lot of us. I relate to your story Noel and you were the 1 influencer to actually get me back in the gym. WE all gonna make it bruhs. Keep grinding and i love you all.
Bro, this is absolutely inspirational
I love you bro. Thank you for sharing this. I needed it
Wow, this is exactly what I needed to hear, thank you 🙏🏻
This made me cry 😭 thank you for being this humble and honest
It takes a strong mom to raise such a strong son. You are an inspiration, man. Much love to you and your mum
It takes a selfish mom to force a son into this earth, particularly with those circumstances
@@antinataliz9633 Hey man, is everything alright? are you okay?
@@dushkriti32 I'm an antinatalist. Do u know what that means?
@@dushkriti32 and yes, I'm fine. Thanks for asking.
@@antinataliz9633 Everyone is entitled to their own beliefs. I'm happy for you :)
Much love to you man, you're an inspiration!
What a man, glad you’re here with us still Noel. Much love big man❤️
The definition of a Chad and fantastic role model to so many. You're a Saint Noel buddy, and everything you have done and shared has helped so many lads the world over not just better themselves but literally saved their lives. Never take for granted the impact you've had on us buddy, and thank yoy for being such a genuinely good man. 🤜🤛
How we deal with life's challenges makes us who we are. I'm glad after everything you've been through you haven't forgotten how you got here ♥️
Thanks for sharing Noel, been following you a long time and I really needed this, you gave me more motivation and hope. Thank you.
you made me cry. thanks for sharing the story man
Friend Noel... that was unexpected and rough. thank you for staying with your mom, for being here today and telling us your growing up story, huge respect fom Argentina and I swear for all I believe in I won't give up before I meet my goals
Man you are such an inspiration to us while remaining humble and kind. Love from South Africa 🇿🇦
Thank you very much Noel, I really needed that rn.
Daddy noel be helping where our parents failed
As someone who came out of depression recently, and has been working for the last few months on myself, my diet, and my physical well being, this one really hit
We all love you Noel. You’ve made such a positive impact on millions and are a role model to us all. Thank you for everything you’ve done and for everything that’s to come❤️
The picture of you and your mom together totally warmed my heart and made my day.
Thank You Noel. Really needed to hear these words.
From one South African to another I have been in that dark place too. I have been a Type 1 Diabetic since I was 12 (I'm 20 now) and I have seriously been in some dark patches in the last few years, not only from my condition but other circumstances I have been given in my life on top of my Diabetes. I have chosen to accept that this is what I was given in my life and have decided to use it as a tool to grow and be better than I could ever have been otherwise. I truly resonate with your story and you have really been such an inspiration to me and many others. Thank you for being vulnerable and making it okay for men to be vulnerable. Continue to post the amazing content you make because you are making such a difference in so many young men's lives including mine. Lots of love brother!
Thank God you are still here noel if it wasn't for you, I wouldn't have started to work out and go for my fitness goals
Lovely, hope for the best for you Noel and we all support you! Much love for you brother!
Thank you so much, this is exactly what i needed right now ❤️
Thank you I’m 16 right now and I want to be like you Mr Deyzel I won’t give up no matter what and be a man who is striving to improve and provide not just for my family but for the people around me just like you.
Great mindset I’m 18 and I will make sure I won’t give up just like Noel did, because life is like a game where you start from the bottom and level up like a video game and nobody has no setbacks
Thank you Noel you bring so much happiness when I watch your videos. But also you bring me inspiration I’m glad your still hear with us.
These were the exact words I needed to hear...Thank you so much bro, I won't give up either
Thanks man, I really needed this... I'm in a similar position as you were, no father, broke, and only my mother, I wish things turn out to be great in the future
As someone from South Africa thin really is Inspiring. Seeing how far Noel has come. Things are very bad here in South Africa and both my Parents are unemployed. Things are tough but I must stay strong and have Faith and Keep working towards my Goals. Thanks for Always inspiring us Noel love you brother 🙏❤️
Hope you see this Noel. Just wanna say thank you for making these videos and sharing your stories and motivations. I can with certainty say that you are one of the factors to why I am alive today. So thank you Noel for making me not give up.
Thanks for the reminder, Noel. I really needed this.
This is the type of influencer that people genuinely need. You learn a lot from Noel, and there’s no way to twist him in a negative manner. Only positive vibes here, many thanks.
Thanks for this Noel, not sure if you’ll read this but if you do, I know that I can succeed because of you. You hit the nail on the head with how challenging it is to get anywhere in South Africa, it’s really a nightmare sometimes and there are so few opportunities. I always want to give the 1st world boytjies a klap when they’re showing off their success because it’s SO much easier to succeed in a 1st world country.
The fact that you overcame all the challenges and became such an amazing influencer is the most inspiring thing in the world bro.
You’re a massive inspiration for all of SA and I hope to meet you someday bro 💪🏼 keep doing amazing things
Thank you for the advice king! Good luck with continued success
Thank you Noel. Today was a tough day. I really needed the heads up
These words you said: cannot change what cards we are given at the beginning - place of birth, poverty, hardships etc
There are days i really want to give up. Listening to you Daddy Noel know that you inspire so many to continue fighting, for there is the only option left
So thank you, from the very bottom of my heart. Keep up this amazing work
Daddy I love you thank you for inspiring me to workout and get better mentally and physically
You have no idea how much this helps me right now. Thank you.
We love you noel you're a beast, thanks for all the great content you put out for our enjoyment. Stay strong big man
Noel you are the reason that i am getting my life turned around. You are an amazing person who keeps me going and can help me through things. Thank you bro and keep going.❤🙏
I'm so glad! Don’t stop working on yourself
Noel, I just wanna thank you for helping me get my life together, 3 months ago I was lying in bed comparing myself to others was depressed and quit working out after not seeing results for a week but then one day you popped up on my foryou page with a video where you made high protein Quesadillas and i thought 'hm maybe i should try these' i did and they were delicious after that for the rest of the day I scrolled all the way through your TikTok page and my whole perspective on the gym eating healthy and mental health were flipped after that day I started training and eating healthy and became happy and started smiling again. PS im only 12 years old but thought id share because you are my idol and i hope to meet you one day now i just need to get my acne under control lol but thank you so much man you are truly a daddy 😳❤
Thank you for this, Noel. I’ve been there before too and it’s people like you who give me inspiration and motivation to keep pushing and improving myself. Love
I love you sm noel and you sharing this means so much to me
I'm not in the best place rn lonely asf, finding purpose in life and so much pressure by my family its been hard
I also failed in an exam last month for which I did give a re exam and passed but.. it shattered my confidence
I felt like I cant do anything especially since my sibling is a topper in class and here i am failing
I feel comfortable posting this and just needed to let things out
tysm noel
you're helping A LOT of people like me
I have went through so much. right now I really miss training and I can't even walk properly I'm being kicked out by my mom for her boyfriend to move in. (Im Still a teen)
Videos like this really motivate me to keep going and not give in
I'm really sorry for that bro don't worry you're going to make it no matter how hard things may seem now there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. Stay safe brother ❤❤
Stay strong brodie❤
You're still a teenager and your mom's kicking you out for her boyfriend? Depending on where you live, you can get the police involved, and you should.
@@spiceforspice3461 @Spice For Spice yes, but what would I even say? It's not like it's my house I don't really have a say I just have to be nice as possible so I can heal my legs before I get kicked out
@@ReallyWinning that's your house.