Guy Falls Into "Toxic Love" With His Stalker Foster Cat | The Dodo

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  • Cat develops a deep obsession with his foster dad... and attacks him the moment he brings a date home!
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  • @BillSchaumberg
    @BillSchaumberg Před 6 měsíci +5787

    I did in fact end up adopting Teddy after all! I'm very happy we were able to work out the logistics so he could stay with me. His behavior is improving a lot as well :)

    • @pirimpallopirimpalli4932
      @pirimpallopirimpalli4932 Před 6 měsíci +456

      That's great. If Teddy hadn't always behaved like that before he came to you, my guess is he was just in a lot of confusion and stress at losing his territory and his flatmate all of a sudden. He must have been super scared at first, and then, when he felt he was not in danger, he started fearing he'd lose the place and person again. But if he's getting better maybe he's less scared now.

    • @noahbartlett1296
      @noahbartlett1296 Před 6 měsíci +187

      Thanks so much for the update! See if maybe your comment can get pinned so everyone knows what happened!

    • @ms.sherlock
      @ms.sherlock Před 6 měsíci +131

      THANK GOD!! You were made for each other❣️Are you getting him a friend?

    • @Indrakusuma_a
      @Indrakusuma_a Před 6 měsíci +51

      Now that's a great news! Hope you guys can work it out! :D

    • @cochiefemeralds3616
      @cochiefemeralds3616 Před 6 měsíci +76

      You should create a CZcams video for Teddy

  • @greenman6141
    @greenman6141 Před 6 měsíci +3276

    The cat is treating him like his best cat friend. Anyone with two cats that get along very well, knows that cats have lots of energy, especially indoor cats. And they chase each other around, and turn into one big ball of biting scratching fur. Fur literally flies all over. It LOOKS wild, but they're having a great time.
    I had two brothers.They were utterly devoted to each other. I got them as tiny kittens...rescue, of course. And when they weren't attacking each other and leaving clumps of fur all over the house, they were licking each other, and curled up asleep together.
    This lovely young man has been deemed an honorary cat sibling by this fur ball. Which is quite the testament to how nice he is.

    • @thewujustar9630
      @thewujustar9630 Před 6 měsíci +87

      And I honestly think this cat will be miserable without him around

    • @aanimavilis1492
      @aanimavilis1492 Před 6 měsíci +40

      That's true! I have siblings, brother and sister, sometimes they bully each other but that's they way to show emotions 😅 they're often sleeping with me together and I'm so greatful for them!

    • @ambrag2cute358
      @ambrag2cute358 Před 6 měsíci +26

      I adopted two brothers as well and you’re spot on with how you described them...❤

    • @jerrysizzler44
      @jerrysizzler44 Před 6 měsíci +20

      Ya this is definitely bro behavior 😅 My bro cats do the same routine.

    • @SwiftieBlink03
      @SwiftieBlink03 Před 6 měsíci +12

      Totally agree. We have two cats. A Siamese and idk the other. She's a white cat. Siamese wants to play, but Snow won't budge. Now, my Siamese plays with all the dogs in the house. She found a sister on one of the puppies. It's chaotic and fun.

  • @RecoveringAhole
    @RecoveringAhole Před 6 měsíci +807

    This man low key loves it. You can tell. That’s why he’s always smiling even when he’s trying to look “scared” 😂

  • @lateepiphany
    @lateepiphany Před 6 měsíci +1470

    What a great guy. Thanks for clearly explaining all the responsibilities of pet ownership and why love isn’t enough. Tough decision but the right one.

    • @qmnnvrdyz8965
      @qmnnvrdyz8965 Před 6 měsíci +55

      A lot of people are telling him to keep him, but I agree with you. Teddy needs a different home, for sure.

    • @BillSchaumberg
      @BillSchaumberg Před 6 měsíci +65

      Thanks for understanding. Trust me I've thought long and hard about this and it pains me to let him go, but when I'm being honest with myself I know this isn't the ideal long term home for him. I was originally only going to take care of him for a month, but it ended becoming a year. Fortunately I work for the dodo and am able to make a video that reaches millions of people in order to find him the perfect situation. It's been a very tough decision and I appreciate you seeing that. He'll be with me until the most perfect situation comes along

    • @serenawilliams3475
      @serenawilliams3475 Před 6 měsíci +9

      @@BillSchaumbergcompletely understand, I’m in a similar position with the family/my mothers cat who I am now having to care for due to my mothers illness. I love him to bits, but I find his constant need of attention inconvenient/irritating at times. It pains me to admit, but I do think I need to find him a new home, with someone who has the capacity to provide him with a constant supply of cuddles & kisses. It’s nice to see I am not alone in this, as the guilt is sometimes too much to bear.

    • @chelseabunker2391
      @chelseabunker2391 Před 6 měsíci

      @@BillSchaumberg what state are you guys located in?

    • @marciajohnson6035
      @marciajohnson6035 Před 6 měsíci

      if he is gone alot i agree and an adopted family could have more bros and sis and people love.
      @@qmnnvrdyz8965

  • @dealwithdilbynira111
    @dealwithdilbynira111 Před 6 měsíci +852

    I went on his Instagram and found out he is producer/editor at The Dodo itself. So yes! It's obvious he needs to travel a lot for his work and I feel really happy that he is thinking about the cat first. He will definitely do what's best for him. Loads of love and respect ❤

    • @TheJaker5
      @TheJaker5 Před 6 měsíci +9

      Unless he’s out of town for 5+ days at a time often throughout the year, then I see no reason why he can’t keep this cat he claims to love. It’s not like he’s a dog. Cats are WAY less maintenance than a dog.

    • @junebunny0712
      @junebunny0712 Před 5 měsíci +26

      @@TheJaker5. He explained in the video that this particular cat needs way more attention than he can give. This cat is hyper social.

    • @amandahugenkiss
      @amandahugenkiss Před 5 měsíci +23

      @@TheJaker5The entire video is about how the cat wants or needs more socialization that he can offer currently.

    • @Mijah-ff8ib
      @Mijah-ff8ib Před měsícem +5

      He ended up adopting Teddy and they are doing fine.

    • @Sara-ze5do
      @Sara-ze5do Před 19 dny

      Oh wow wondered who dodo was

  • @jennifero5496
    @jennifero5496 Před 6 měsíci +640

    He needs another kitty friend!! Glad you realized that and are still giving him the best home until he finds a purrfect fit :) :)

    • @leflopjames5628
      @leflopjames5628 Před 6 měsíci

      No. It's disgusting when bleeders like you are the main cause of overflowing animal shelters because you need to hoard cats that you refuse to take care of.
      He only has the cat because his FEMALE friend bought a kitten and abandoned it when she realized it required work.
      Shame on you.
      You need to do better.

    • @BillSchaumberg
      @BillSchaumberg Před 6 měsíci

      @@leflopjames5628my friend got debilitating cancer and couldn't take care of him

    • @Sugar-hr9il
      @Sugar-hr9il Před 6 měsíci

      but girls dont like kitty tho

    • @Wilda295
      @Wilda295 Před 4 měsíci

      I think he needs to be able to go outside. Do cat stuff. Must be so boring to live ur whole life indoors

  • @christinewerner6207
    @christinewerner6207 Před 6 měsíci +3281

    Get Teddy a cat buddy and keep him. You were meant for each other and are enriching each other’s lives. And a second cat will allow you to go in your business trips guilt free. The cats will take care of each other while you are away. After watching this I think you would deeply regret giving Teddy away.

    • @jeannevoisin-pierre1917
      @jeannevoisin-pierre1917 Před 6 měsíci +91

      i completely agree with u!

    • @Ekster77
      @Ekster77 Před 6 měsíci +220

      I disagree. When you're away a lot you shouldn't take on another cat! That means two cats feeling miserable. And cats don't always get along by the way.

    • @el7jake
      @el7jake Před 6 měsíci +35

      Try a second cat buddy. If it works out, then keep them both. If not, find homes for them both.

    • @jennifer1329
      @jennifer1329 Před 6 měsíci +92

      @@Ekster77 He needs to let the cat choose the buddy - take Teddy to the shelter and let him meet the candidates.

    • @sanschoen7778
      @sanschoen7778 Před 6 měsíci +27

      Couldn’t agree with you more! 2nd cat, also male, similar age! And everyone will be happy ❤

  • @cl-ev2sg
    @cl-ev2sg Před 6 měsíci +261

    Thank you for helping out your friend.
    It is not easy having a fur-baby when work requires business travel.
    I hope someone falls in love with kitty and reaches out to adopt.
    Automated toy, ingenious!

  • @yusakug
    @yusakug Před 6 měsíci +74

    Just reading the title of this video makes me want to see a video where Tim Curry voices this cat, and sings of how the man will love his toxic love.

  • @darthuncle
    @darthuncle Před 6 měsíci +184

    I'm not even mad he wants to get rid of Teddy. He just wants him to live his best life. Maybe you can find a home that will allow you to visit periodically and you won't lose his friendship forever.

  • @qmnnvrdyz8965
    @qmnnvrdyz8965 Před 6 měsíci +874

    A lot of people think he should keep Teddy, but he's clearly laid out why it's not in the cat's best interest, and I agree with him. I think Teddy will find a great home...he's such a sweetie-puss! I already have 3 cats and a large dog, so, financially speaking, adopting him is out of the question, for me, but hopefully, someone else will. Also, the comments about him "giving up" on Teddy aren't helpful. ❤

    • @user-vp4nl2gg6x
      @user-vp4nl2gg6x Před 6 měsíci +57

      I agree. I think he is doing the right thing by putting Teddy up for adoption. He is not giving up on Teddy he is trying to do what's best for Teddy. I'm sure Bill will find the perfect pet parent(s) for Teddy.

    • @stephaniespain9849
      @stephaniespain9849 Před 6 měsíci +27

      I agree with you and him. The selfish thing would be to keep him.

    • @richardmendoza4389
      @richardmendoza4389 Před 6 měsíci +11

      Agree. You read my mind.

    • @CottageDreams23
      @CottageDreams23 Před 6 měsíci +14

      Yea, I think they're not great for each other.. teddy needs to find a perfect home and perfect parent for him

    • @Oriana_leung
      @Oriana_leung Před 6 měsíci +3

      My neogjbour has 2 cats(abandoned one kitten) and 3 dogs and 6 chiclens. Yet she doesn't want to put the dogs on an obedience training course, and rather purchase a solicitor to argue that her dogs never barked.

  • @shydog7276
    @shydog7276 Před 6 měsíci +134

    I think the biggest animal lovers are the ones who can accept they're not a good fit for an animal. That takes so much self awareness and selfless love to want the best for a pet, even if it means saying goodbye. I hope Teddy finds a home with another kitty he can be friends with! Rehoming isn't evil, I really hope that the inexplicable stigma against it can eventually fade.

    • @-nymphomaniac
      @-nymphomaniac Před 6 měsíci +4

      You're absolutely right! That's my ultimate belief as well, & couldn't have expressed that better myself!😻

    • @amandahugenkiss
      @amandahugenkiss Před 5 měsíci

      He ended up keeping him.

  • @idalarsson4729
    @idalarsson4729 Před 6 měsíci +210

    First of all, what a great foster dad and a friend this guy is! It looks like Teddy needs a lot of attention and interaction. The suggestion to get another cat as company might work, but it doesn’t change the fact that “dad” travels a lot. There’s no guarantee that the new cat and Teddy will get along or even like each other. I think that finding Teddy a new home would be the best solution,and a very selfless and loving act for “dad” to do. I hope Teddy finds his forever home! 💕

  • @mibeatleman6767
    @mibeatleman6767 Před 6 měsíci +386

    The cat sounds like he has abandonment issues, that his original owner no longer had him and this man is gone for long stretches at a time. He needs someone who's home pretty much all the time.

    • @nevaehhamilton3493
      @nevaehhamilton3493 Před 6 měsíci +14

      Giving Teddy to Bill was obviously better than being abandoned on the side of the road.
      I got my daschund Leah after her previous owners gave them to my family because they didn't want her anymore. This was so much better than being abandoned on the side of the road.

    • @ryanmiller1170
      @ryanmiller1170 Před 6 měsíci +29

      Giving Teddy to Bill was also obviously better than surrendering him to an animal shelter... or worse yet, euthanizing him. But I don't think the purpose of the comment was to suggest that Bill never should've taken Teddy. Rather, it was to commend Bill for recognizing that ultimately Teddy does need a guardian who can be around more & for taking appropriate steps to find him one.

  • @VibrantStudios-ht4qc
    @VibrantStudios-ht4qc Před 6 měsíci +367

    I'm gonna talk to my grandma about this. She loves cats and I'm living there for a while to take care of my grandpa anyway, so I could totally socialize with this cat.

    • @bc-wm4qr
      @bc-wm4qr Před 6 měsíci +33

      Can you keep us updated pls? THANKS

    • @jjj555
      @jjj555 Před 6 měsíci +1

      What if your grandma dies?

    • @VibrantStudios-ht4qc
      @VibrantStudios-ht4qc Před 6 měsíci +28

      Update 1: Told my mom. Since we could have a house soon, we have decided it will be our cat. However, I still can't attempt the form until mom talks to grandma.

    • @eponymousIme
      @eponymousIme Před 6 měsíci +4

      That kitty needs a stable living situation. Sounds as though things are not entirely solid on your end.

    • @VibrantStudios-ht4qc
      @VibrantStudios-ht4qc Před 6 měsíci +15

      @@eponymousIme things are surprisingly stable over here, even with everything.

  • @kristiry7964
    @kristiry7964 Před 6 měsíci +36

    Im 52 and I grow weary of hearing about "these kids today" and negative things about our young people. These fine young people right here I find in my personal experience to be very representative of our younger generations...Im in the restaurant biz and work with tons of them. They have a lot to offer and I have faith in them to create a good future. ❤

  • @Vaudevillain121
    @Vaudevillain121 Před 6 měsíci +81

    Love it when a cat decides you're worthy of their affection😆 Especially if they've been scared,like when he hid under the bed😓 🐺

  • @THOMKALLOR
    @THOMKALLOR Před 6 měsíci +22

    He's very happy - shows his tummy a lot - and maybe he's just a little insecure because his mommy left him with a new daddy. He plays too rough, but he will get over it!

  • @karenplath_
    @karenplath_ Před 6 měsíci +65

    The guy is just being honest. I think he's done exceedingly well by this ball of floof. When he mentioned that another companion cat or dog would be great, I knew he had the bases covered. It's not a great fit. But he tried his best.

  • @redmarion3tt377
    @redmarion3tt377 Před 6 měsíci +15

    Has me crying because he reminds me so much of my rag doll boy I had. Then again Mattie used to herd moles and mice INTO the apartment we had. Trust me when I say if you go on a trip and have a neighbor or friend you can trust check on him and his food and water and stuff while you’re gone it will help. As a cat person I have to warn you that you will be punished for leaving but loved even more. He’s chosen YOU.

  • @jansmith3158
    @jansmith3158 Před 6 měsíci +237

    The cat needs another cat buddy in the home! He needs company.

    • @susank2019
      @susank2019 Před 6 měsíci

      That's a thought

    • @muffs55mercury61
      @muffs55mercury61 Před 6 měsíci +1

      I'm finding that out too with my Blackjack in that being the only cat child may not be right for him so time to get him another sibling.

    • @zukini8763
      @zukini8763 Před 6 měsíci

      Yes and he needs a buddy that's as playful and interactive as he is. Not a chill, laid back type of cat.

    • @no14sure
      @no14sure Před 6 měsíci +3

      @@leflopjames5628 What is wrong with you, the video makes it pretty clear that his friend was in a situation where she could no longer care for the cat. The video pretty heavily implies that it is likely a medical condition that is worsening, meaning she is unable to take the cat back to care for it. What part of this said to you that she just got bored and decided to give the cat away, other than your clearly inherent misogyny and willingness to assume the worst of people, even in the face of evidence/implication to the contrary?

    • @zukini8763
      @zukini8763 Před 6 měsíci

      @leflopjames5628 I kinda forgot about the friend because it seems like his cat now lol. Maybe she is going to be incapacitated for a long period of time, or she is someplace that doesn't allow pets. I agree, she should take some responsibility for her cat, it shouldn't just be this guy's sole responsibility.

  • @RosiePosey5150
    @RosiePosey5150 Před 6 měsíci +13

    Holy hell I am the perfect person for this cat. I check every box. Living in rural desert without a car 75% of the time with dog and cats

  • @DJ-tb4ni
    @DJ-tb4ni Před 6 měsíci +34

    Oh my, Teddy feel’s he’s home and fell for U right away… If U must re-home him yet again I pray He finds a prefect family that can help him forget his bond with U. 🙏🏽👱🏻‍♀️🐾🐾🌹

  • @erukaseven
    @erukaseven Před 6 měsíci +28

    I like that he's taking Teddy's needs more into consideration than he is his love for the cat. Love means a lot, but it can also lead to a bad life for the cat/pet. It's a hard choice to make.

  • @meredithrollins6429
    @meredithrollins6429 Před 6 měsíci +25

    Omg! My brothers cat is just like this when I come over. It’s just how she loves 😭😂

    • @meredithrollins6429
      @meredithrollins6429 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Oh no, I just got to the date part. You need help!! Maybe another kitty lol

    • @christophersmith8316
      @christophersmith8316 Před 2 měsíci

      @@meredithrollins6429 The energy does wane in a cat as they get a little older which can help if they are over physical

  • @Rolex-xr6rw
    @Rolex-xr6rw Před 6 měsíci +33

    Teddy is 100% like my cat Genji! He LOVES to play and anytime my attention would solely be focused on something else, he would attack me! He would get so precise that he knew when I was in a match in a game so I wouldn't see it coming. He is a good boy, but he would do it often. We ended getting a kitten earlier this year and there have been zero incidents since. Maybe a few stares but I feel that getting him a cat buddy helped so much! Love to Teddy! And you're a hero, you gave him peace and love!

  • @calebtesfaye3925
    @calebtesfaye3925 Před 6 měsíci +19

    The thumbnail makes it look like the guy's terrified of the cat. It's hilarious.

  • @soonmoo614
    @soonmoo614 Před 6 měsíci +60

    This guy is a really good person.🧡💛 I know he will ulitmately do what is best for this little guy. What a friend doing what he did. Just an all around stand up human.

    • @SeattleRaindrop206
      @SeattleRaindrop206 Před 6 měsíci +3

      Seriously! 🩵🤍
      When I go out of town (rarely and for short periods) my friends/family don’t really want to watch my cat… and this guy stepped in, in a huge way, for his friend. That’s just in-credible! 🫂

    • @romystumpy1197
      @romystumpy1197 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Yes he has something extra special in a person,I get good vibes from him

  • @kati-ana
    @kati-ana Před 6 měsíci +19

    I'm really sorry to hear his friend is ill and had to give up her/his cat. Our pets bring us such love, comfort and joy, all the things his friend needs at such a difficult time. I hope his friend recovers and gets to have playdates with Teddy.

  • @infideltobrocolizosia9481
    @infideltobrocolizosia9481 Před 6 měsíci +39

    Keep him! 🐾🐾🐾

  • @Fabulousprofound168
    @Fabulousprofound168 Před 6 měsíci +28

    I hope your friend is doing okay.

  • @notme2day
    @notme2day Před 6 měsíci +27

    I'm glad he figured out the cat was bored. Hope he's also finding time to really interact, play and challenge him before bedtime also as that will nip some bad behaviors in the bud before the bloom.

  • @leesquirrel3550
    @leesquirrel3550 Před 6 měsíci +14

    He clearly loves you! He's happy and SO handsome. That sweet little face is precious!❤❤❤❤

  • @craigtomlin5986
    @craigtomlin5986 Před 2 měsíci +7

    That's ur cat. That's just how life is. He's family nothing will ever change that

  • @JesusismyGOD
    @JesusismyGOD Před 6 měsíci +4

    Poor thing must be so confused as to where his previous owner went to and why he has a new owner? He probably feels insecure and is poking about with this new guy to test him and see what he is all about. These animals have complex emotions and little mind/brains that can not comprehend what is happening to their safety/security/familiarity. So just love him and try to be patient with him. Hopefully something wonderful will happen one way or another with this little baby.

  • @nicolewalker6894
    @nicolewalker6894 Před 6 měsíci +18

    What a good human to take on a cat and then keep him when plans change until he finds a new forever home. ❤

  • @IsThisThePrizeIveWaitedFor
    @IsThisThePrizeIveWaitedFor Před 6 měsíci +8

    This kitty reminds me of my first cat. He was a menace. And I miss him terribly

    • @pommiebears
      @pommiebears Před 6 měsíci +2

      My kitty is a menace too. But, I love her to bits, and she does love me. She’s just…..the boss. 😂

  • @TheMixCurator
    @TheMixCurator Před 6 měsíci +11

    This cat would love to watch "Cat TV" which shows birds feeding (loads of CZcams channels out there).
    Made my cat learn to chill a lot more.

  • @JA-tr9ze
    @JA-tr9ze Před 6 měsíci +25

    That cat sure is in love with you! Cats are very choosy on who they trust and bond with. All his behavior is a sure sign he trusts you and really likes you.

  • @snowqueen_8958
    @snowqueen_8958 Před 6 měsíci +6

    Cats are adorable and when they choose you they are like sticky tape

  • @kgs2280
    @kgs2280 Před 6 měsíci +7

    “It’s complicated” is one of the best definitions of a great cat-human relationship! Keep him. He’s really bonded with you.

  • @carlmullerlane
    @carlmullerlane Před 6 měsíci +13

    Gotta love the irony of a grown dude flinching at his little kitty whilst wearing a “Superman” t-shirt, lol. 😂 Part of me thinks keep him b/c of how attached the kitty has become, but obviously this guy is just trying to do what’s best. 🤷‍♂️ Either way mate, good luck whichever way you go & thanks for sharing. 👍

  • @christagriggs
    @christagriggs Před 6 měsíci +37

    Teddy! His mom is sick, his foster dad may surrender him… and so I hope that he gets the best forever home ever ❤ Love you Teddy! Thanks Foster Dad for all that you’ve done!

  • @felinegroovey8627
    @felinegroovey8627 Před 6 měsíci +13

    Good luck to Teddy's mom and to him; hope he gets the perfect forever- and -ever home soon.

  • @carriebradley7634
    @carriebradley7634 Před 6 měsíci +14

    This had me laughing till i cried. I also love how phylisofical and analytical he is.🤣

    • @wetwrkinc.5122
      @wetwrkinc.5122 Před 6 měsíci +1

      *Philosophical*

    • @watchingfirs
      @watchingfirs Před 5 měsíci

      The cat, or the dude? 😀😉
      The dude's smart to realize the commitment of pet ownership, the former owner was smart to find an exceptional and kind person to care for her cat when she couldn't anymore.
      Since the OP adopted Archie, I hope it all works out well. His concerns were valid and considerate. Archie was probably acting out from losing his home, person, stability.

  • @borgullet3376
    @borgullet3376 Před 6 měsíci +14

    Omg.. I know EXACTLY how he feels😆

  • @Neptune466
    @Neptune466 Před 6 měsíci +6

    This is the beauty of fostering. The foster REALLY gets to know what the animal needs so a successful match can be found. For instance, this cat would be a terrible match for my 80 year old mom (who adores cats and has always had them) but straight from the shelter this cat would have had to go and that would be painful but necessary for all parties. Being a foster is one of the most selfless ways to help animals (and people!)

  • @julyssis
    @julyssis Před 6 měsíci +26

    Wow I just saw, you seemingly have this sweet fluffy boy already for 2years... ...-
    Thank you for having taken him in at first, innitially 🙏
    For your close friend, I hope for her health..♥️

  • @anapiresdecarvalho5241
    @anapiresdecarvalho5241 Před 6 měsíci +29

    ❤Please, do not give up on Teddy, he adores you! You are his "Teddy Bear"! Thank you for being patient, kind and sweet with this Fur-Angel! ❤

    • @letolethe3344
      @letolethe3344 Před 6 měsíci +2

      He's not "giving up on" Teddy. He's thinking compassionately and responsibly about what would make Teddy happy.

  • @nathanjarrs6532
    @nathanjarrs6532 Před 6 měsíci +50

    I used to be only a dog lover, but because of "The Dodo," I have come (grown) to be a cat lover also. And if my living situation allowed for it, I'd definitely give this adorable fluffy "stalker" a permanent home. This "stalker's" foster dad deserves respect, because very few persons think of the long-term effects of how an an animal (once someone's pet) will react because of a change in its environment or surroundings. Best wishes for this foster dad & his fluffy adorable, extremely lovable (to me) "stalker." 😁😎👍

  • @WIGDIGITY1
    @WIGDIGITY1 Před 6 měsíci +4

    You can tell that the cat absolutely adores him by the way he shows his belly and how the cat constantly vies for his attention.

  • @laurabryannan
    @laurabryannan Před 6 měsíci +16

    When my cat goes into attack mode, he gets a time out in our enclosed front porch. He can come back in when he wants, but even a minute or two out there seems to re-set his brain, and he's back to normal again. Cat toys like "kickers" are also really helpful as well. Good luck!

  • @CristianCisnerosDelgado
    @CristianCisnerosDelgado Před 6 měsíci +8

    I hope someone adopts Teddy and gives him a loving home! 😍🥰🤠

  • @larsbkurin1740
    @larsbkurin1740 Před 6 měsíci +21

    This was one of the nicest things I've seen on YT, too bad we live in Sweden otherwise Teddy would have had a home here with some equally quirky and nice furry monsters. There is a lot of hunting in Teddy, you have made the right decision even if it is sad.

  • @usmustdie4peace405
    @usmustdie4peace405 Před 6 měsíci +8

    Prayers to the old owner! Hope she gets better again!

    • @nevaehhamilton3493
      @nevaehhamilton3493 Před 6 měsíci

      She doesn't want the cat anymore.

    • @lakeireland
      @lakeireland Před 6 měsíci +4

      So? It’s still polite to send a wish of good health to a sick person, regardless of if she can take the cat back or not.

  • @LeahTillock
    @LeahTillock Před 6 měsíci +3

    I was helping a stray cat out once till I found him a home. He was use to being outdoors running around. When I had brought him in, he started attacking certain people and leaving blood on their legs, so I let him out and he was fine after that, he came home everyday for dinner and breakfast and after a nap, was off, but very sweet to people after that. So I made sure the new owner knew that.

  • @juliannabanana86
    @juliannabanana86 Před 6 měsíci +7

    Ohh let's find this FLOOF a home! What a stellar dude for doing what's right for Teddy :)

  • @deanalan6824
    @deanalan6824 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Bill and Ted's big adventure...
    Keep the cat.
    HE LOVES YOU!!!

  • @dottiemathews6853
    @dottiemathews6853 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Bless your heart sweetie. i think Teddy has his hooks in you. he is such an adorable cat and so pretty too!

  • @paulwestenberger3710
    @paulwestenberger3710 Před 6 měsíci +15

    What a great video! Good luck finding a home for him.

  • @moodycat1
    @moodycat1 Před 6 měsíci +12

    0:57-1:03🤣😂 I loved this story! Hopefully you find Teddy his forever home.

  • @alisonbufarale3406
    @alisonbufarale3406 Před 6 měsíci +8

    He has “Single kitten syndrome”! He definitely needs a buddy. ❤

  • @tammya5403
    @tammya5403 Před 6 měsíci +2

    He’s the type of friend you want in your life forever❤

  • @jameschristian9237
    @jameschristian9237 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I had the same problem and when I went to work the cat was alone all day. My cat even looks like yours. The answer is to give him a kitten to play with. My cat is happy now, and he doesn't cut me anymore.

  • @yuti83
    @yuti83 Před 6 měsíci +27

    That's a sad ending when you said loving Teddy means you are willing to let him go. You seem to be perfect with each other.

  • @lolotheobserver2696
    @lolotheobserver2696 Před 6 měsíci +3

    please make sure Teddy goes to a good forever home he seems like such a sweet boy

  • @JMBBrasil
    @JMBBrasil Před 6 měsíci +6

    Ooow I think Teddy just needs a play mate. Another cat that he can focus on, take care of and play with.

  • @themysteriousunknownrevealed
    @themysteriousunknownrevealed Před 6 měsíci +1

    Keep Him, he's already been through enough. He's beautiful, and Hamsum!

  • @zaprude
    @zaprude Před 6 měsíci +95

    Don't overthink this! Look how happy, secure, thriving, entertained and loved he is living with you! He clearly bonded with you and chose YOU as his person. I also travelled a lot and was away a lot for work, but my cat was worth all the extra efforts of finding cat sitters and finding temporary solutions when needed.

  • @drunkenarmadillo3827
    @drunkenarmadillo3827 Před 5 měsíci +3

    You sound like a good friend, thank you for taking in Teddy. A lot of people don't go above and beyond for others and I'm sure your friend appreciated how much help and love you offered when she and Teddy needed it ❤

  • @Markus_Blewish
    @Markus_Blewish Před 6 měsíci +1

    Cats are very social, and they need someone to be with all the time. And prolly part of the reason he's clingy is he still misses his mom. It will break your heart to part ways but that's real love. Putting his needs ahead of your own.

  • @kylarichardson7823
    @kylarichardson7823 Před 6 měsíci +2

    you‘re making the right choice finding him a home with more people and or animals. Leaving a cat for that long period of time is not best for him. It demonstrates you do love him. I hope you find him a wonderful forever home that checks all the Teddy boxes.

  • @rebeccavl97
    @rebeccavl97 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Teddy is so adorable!! What a lucky guy to have such a stellar cat! 😊😊

  • @suzannecarter445
    @suzannecarter445 Před 6 měsíci +4

    This guy was just as hilarious as his cat - love 'em both! I would be amazed if he doesn't find a family or retired couple to adopt this little guy - he just needs full-time attention - no biggie

  • @normadom
    @normadom Před 6 měsíci +2

    What a sweet, quirky 'love story.' He's an adorable floof. Once a cat takes a shine to you there's no letting up. Wishing for him to be with you for keeps. You have a good heart.

  • @YourCrazyCatNeighbor_randz
    @YourCrazyCatNeighbor_randz Před 6 měsíci +1

    I have a kinda similar cat. Little guy always wanted to have my attention, was becoming actually aggressive by boredom (not playing), I adopted two kittens and they fell madly in love. It took time, and still we have our habits of training him for tricks to busy his mind, I also used to walk out with him every day to sooth him, and little by little he stopped attacing me violently every day. Now it's a rare occurrence, only when we really disagree on something. But he still loves the attention and demands it a lot. So I will never know if he is happy I guess, but he does love his little sisters that he cuddle every day, and sometimes play with.

  • @conky221
    @conky221 Před 6 měsíci +14

    Thank you for sharing this video. I didn’t even know that I needed the good feeling I received seeing your beautiful. It’s adorable. Your adorable. Teddy is adorable. Thank you again 😹….and then I got to the end. I hope you both find the best situation for everyone. Good luck.

  • @bonnies9861
    @bonnies9861 Před 6 měsíci +3

    This grabbed my heart~ you are such a sweet guy ~ so loving and in tune with what is going on with Teddy!! The right situation will present itself ~ I know you will do what is right for both of you. Sending you light and love.

  • @indiatastic
    @indiatastic Před 6 měsíci +2

    He misses his mama❤

  • @tatianaqueenan7437
    @tatianaqueenan7437 Před 6 měsíci +1

    He is so sweet.

  • @laurarandolph5600
    @laurarandolph5600 Před 6 měsíci +3

    My son had a cat like that; when the cat was bad he would throw it out of the room (gently). The cat caught on pretty quickly and they had an understanding.

  • @locabynature
    @locabynature Před 6 měsíci +8

    can we please get an update if/and when he finds his forever home? I know this was only posted 6 days ago and these things take time. just hope to hear where he lands and how he's doing.

  • @nrgbunni.
    @nrgbunni. Před 6 měsíci +1

    I love how they filmed this in the style of a horror comedy like "what we do in the shadows".

  • @mystuff9999
    @mystuff9999 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Goddammit, man, it‘s not that complicated! You love him, he loves you. Get him a buddy & all will be fine!

  • @richardmendoza4389
    @richardmendoza4389 Před 6 měsíci +35

    OP, plse don't allow others to guilt-trip you into kping a cat you neither asked for nor wanted, especially if it doesn't fit into your routine. It doesn't make you less of an animal lover.

    • @reelenz
      @reelenz Před 6 měsíci +1

      OP don’t put yourself in this situation to begin with since you are clearly extremely selfish and now allowed him to get attached to someone else just to look to get rid of him. Worst video I’ve seen in a while.

    • @cowboykissr
      @cowboykissr Před 6 měsíci +6

      @@reelenzyou need to def chill out, and stop replying to a bunch of comments with your own opinion on how to take care of animals. It takes more than love for an animal to thrive. Stop being insecure and petty.

    • @reelenz
      @reelenz Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@cowboykissr A bunch = 2? Why is your opinion here more important than mine? You need to make a better argument in the future, especially since it’s clear this dude was just making this video for attention.

    • @EricaDLucas
      @EricaDLucas Před 5 měsíci +2

      ​​@@reelenzSelfish for... Accepting to take care of a cat, which is hard work, for a sick friend? Sure, that makes a lot of sense 🙄 As he said, it was supposed to be temporary, and he was available for temporary, not for a life-long commitment. Being responsible and understanding that the situation isn't good for you and/or the animal isn't a bad thing. I'm glad he found a way to keep the cat anyway because, selfishly, it hurts like hell to have to rehome a pet, even if it's the best for them

    • @TimothyGod
      @TimothyGod Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@reelenzimagine being this detached from reality. Bro, touch grass please, I'm begging you

  • @lizzy-wx4rx
    @lizzy-wx4rx Před 6 měsíci +159

    There are already millions of homeless cats. Teddy is lucky to have you, even if you don't think it's the "ideal" home for him. He loves you and is comfortable there. Adopt a kitten from a shelter to be his little buddy, live your life, and do your best for him. It'll all work out. Good luck! ❤

    • @Jonas-nf2bc
      @Jonas-nf2bc Před 6 měsíci +39

      What part of this don't you get. I hate when people force their narratives on others. He clearly said he's gone weeks at a time. Even though the cat is attached to him, the cat needs a companion. It needs consistent attention. Getting another car doesn't help this dude one bit. Think about the human needs sometimes. His life shouldn't be dictated by a cat. He helped his friend out, ownership of something you never intended to keep forever shouldn't be a life sentence. I love animals too but I'm tired of the people who say the "he loves you" crap. As if he's obligated to change his life around for the protection of something he never wanted. If he didn't want one, why would he get two? There's someone who will love and appreciate this cat unconditionally. It's just not him. Prioritize your life, not an animal!

    • @LourdesGzz
      @LourdesGzz Před 6 měsíci +12

      ​@@Jonas-nf2bcwow, is everything ok at home?

    • @Jonas-nf2bc
      @Jonas-nf2bc Před 6 měsíci +17

      @@LourdesGzz I'm just tired of all of you sicko's who think someone should pause their life for a freaking animal... Get a LIFE!!!

    • @Vaudevillain121
      @Vaudevillain121 Před 6 měsíci +3

      @@Jonas-nf2bc Yeah, but he said he loves the cat, so surely it's at least worth seriously considering keeping him.Also, people are only trying to give advice.I personally haven't ever commented "keep him"...but when l see people say they "love" an animal in front of it then you should try to not uproot the little guy again.The guy is obviously wanting to hear peoples advice as well or the video wouldn't be on youtube, it'd be on a cat adoptiOn site, so STHU.

    • @Jonas-nf2bc
      @Jonas-nf2bc Před 6 měsíci +20

      @@Vaudevillain121 I've been in that situation of having to re-home a pet so this hits home. I loved my animals forever but it came to a point where it was affecting my finances because everything revolved around them. All you hear is that "they love you" but no one cares whether I could pay the bills or was homeless because I had to turn down jobs that were not local. So there comes a time where you make the BEST decision for the animal and YOURSELF. That was the best decision I made. I sacrificed 11 years and struggled. So when people look only at the animals best interest and avoid giving a damn about the person's best interest, that is a problem with me.

  • @sana-xe4fr
    @sana-xe4fr Před 6 měsíci +1

    Wish i had a cat like him

  • @Alucard45000
    @Alucard45000 Před 11 dny

    I would honestly adopt him in a second, no questions asked!

  • @bitty_bytes001
    @bitty_bytes001 Před 6 měsíci +4

    That looks exactly like my old cat, Lily... exactly. wow....

  • @AngelaLRsurfinginstilettos
    @AngelaLRsurfinginstilettos Před 6 měsíci +62

    Oh dear, my friend I have some news--Teddy has imprinted on you.
    As in, in Teddy's mind, you are the human of his little heart. The bees knees if you will. You're the best thing since cap nip and tuna combined.
    He's a very intelligent cat, more, lots more mental stimulation will do wonders for the slight ill-behaviour at times. You are indeed correct, Teddy is what is called love biting and the scaling you or swats are to bring your attention back to him.
    --Teddy is fully in love with whom he sees you as, his hoooman; you. 💞
    He loves everything about you in fact aside from when your attention is on something or someone else.
    This is where getting Teddy more mental stimulation comes in.
    The auto toys and games are an excellent start, you will want to pick up some more. Add a few more scratching posts, a window seat and try some kitty tv with birds or smaller prey that dashes around on screen. See if that sparks his attention.
    Perhaps just take a beat--and try a few more things before seeking to replace him.
    Because it does really seem like he has imprinted on you. 💓😻
    Teddy by the by is a magnificent cat.
    He's is Gorgeous! And very, very smart.
    May I please just suggest, making a few modifications and trying a few more of the above mentioned prior to the other decision?
    That would be such a lovely thing to do for Teddy's sake.
    I think you are fond enough for Teddy, that I know he hopes you will as well. He really is rather majestic and he adores you so.
    Hope you keep us updated.
    Cheers! 🙂

  • @ezecskornfan
    @ezecskornfan Před 5 měsíci

    having the same "issue" with a cat I was fostering, and decided to adopt her. Always express the discomfort when they claw too much, they understand.

  • @francescacastiglione7094
    @francescacastiglione7094 Před 6 měsíci +2

    He’s a beautiful cat!

  • @1996pola
    @1996pola Před 6 měsíci +12

    So cuuute 😊😅😁😂🐱

  • @Wild_Wonders_animals
    @Wild_Wonders_animals Před 6 měsíci +37

    This heartwarming video beautifully captures the transformative power of love and compassion. It's a touching reminder of how even the most challenging and misunderstood creatures can find their way into our hearts. The bond between this man and his foster cat is truly a testament to the incredible capacity of both humans and animals to heal and nurture each other. Have you ever had a similar experience with a rescue pet? Share your heartwarming stories below and let's spread the message that love can heal even the most 'toxic' situations. 🐾❤

  • @patrickmuhwheeney6518
    @patrickmuhwheeney6518 Před 3 měsíci +1

    It's so nice to see someone who cares about what's best for the pet... Even people who mean well seem to seldom consider the animal's needs. Thanks for the upload!

  • @clowicous
    @clowicous Před 6 měsíci +1

    I love that despite it not fully being his responsibility he has taken the toll quite seriously and became a friend to the cat and it’s awesome!

  • @rogeh5687
    @rogeh5687 Před 6 měsíci +17

    Please don’t let him go. Losing two guardians would be so hard 😭😭😭😭. He just needs a buddy xxx

    • @reelenz
      @reelenz Před 6 měsíci

      You can tell he is selfish. I don’t like him at all.

  • @monicawarren3678
    @monicawarren3678 Před 6 měsíci +21

    Animals passed from person to person really affects them negatively. Dont turn him in to a shelter because there is no such thing as a no kill shelter.

  • @udayudayp
    @udayudayp Před 6 měsíci

    poor dude, god bless u

  • @suzyzoo5545
    @suzyzoo5545 Před 6 měsíci +1

    You are such a kind person taking care of this cat when it was not yours. Its ok to say no and you are not a bad person. Teddy will find the right home.