Keep Your Girlfriend Interested In A Long Term Relationship

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  • čas přidán 11. 09. 2024
  • If your girlfriend is losing interest in the relationship with you, this is the best way to handle things and keep the attraction alive.
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Komentáře • 133

  • @lorenzosteele2531
    @lorenzosteele2531 Před 2 lety +39

    Summary
    Let her touch you
    Ask her questions talk less than her
    Pull away be busy Focus on the grind

  • @livedeliciously
    @livedeliciously Před 2 lety +16

    You can get away with most things around a woman, but the one thing you cannot do is let her get bored.

  • @_noname2032
    @_noname2032 Před 2 lety +15

    Do your thing, it's not important whonis in your life. If they fit, its great, if not, leave.

  • @siobhanrachel6613
    @siobhanrachel6613 Před 5 lety +65

    02:46 remain a mystery, surprise her

  • @lorenzosteele2531
    @lorenzosteele2531 Před 2 lety +7

    Remain a mystery by being calm and let her talk more ask her questions say less than neccasary. Be busy focus on your projects do not always be available.

  • @jakejimenez7973
    @jakejimenez7973 Před rokem +19

    I got my ex girlfriend back we’ve known each other for 2 1/2 years we were spilt up for 8 months but kept seeing each other low key then completely quit talking for months I dated other women but I just wanted my ex tbh now months later i better myself and got a real career we are talking again and being serious she says I’m her sole mate lol so I’m trying to not mess this up this time

  • @ActionIsGo1
    @ActionIsGo1 Před 8 lety +55

    Great advise. Routine is very easy to fall into when in a long term relationship. In fact, sometimes women guide you into that (at least in my case).
    Thanks for helping me be mindful of this and the points you made - spot on.

    • @ericbravo8339
      @ericbravo8339 Před 4 lety

      "Sometimes women guide you into that" indeed!

  • @soemarmimaridjo2692
    @soemarmimaridjo2692 Před 5 lety +53

    Everything sounds complicated. If you love someone stay together. Or just stay single 😕

    • @pinoy122793
      @pinoy122793 Před 4 lety +10

      This stuff works actually because of experience. Trust me man.

    • @user-gz7wh1ky3u
      @user-gz7wh1ky3u Před 4 lety +4

      American Lefty I knew it years ago, just from my own experience. I will show this man’s stuff to my little son as soon as he ll grow up. People do not even realize how right is this guy

    • @josejunior1521
      @josejunior1521 Před 4 lety

      You’re weak

    • @francesmayfulay99
      @francesmayfulay99 Před 3 lety

      Great advice i saw from this content😍

  • @stevennandi223
    @stevennandi223 Před 4 lety +13

    So the point is keep on doing new things

  • @bencrosbie
    @bencrosbie Před 6 lety +64

    that's actually good and worth thinking about. shes my world and I want to keep the fire going.

    • @jmak98jsuboom
      @jmak98jsuboom Před 5 lety +51

      Ben Crosbie u have the wrong mentality

    • @trustfund82
      @trustfund82 Před 5 lety +67

      The guy above me is right, Ben. With that mentality, you're a break up waiting to happen. She's a part of YOUR world. Don't make her your world. She's just a guest in yours. She should be proving to you why she should be a permanent resident there. Your mindset gives off the vibe you need her more than she needs you.

    • @gu3sswh075
      @gu3sswh075 Před 4 lety +21

      Ben Crosbie you have to realize YOU are the prize, not her. You have to be independently happy from her; don't rely on her for your only source of happiness.

    • @oobibab9572
      @oobibab9572 Před 3 lety +5

      What a beta lmao

  • @sandrewmukhim108
    @sandrewmukhim108 Před 2 lety +2

    This is the right video for those helpless guys who want to know about relationships

  • @fabiruzi2648
    @fabiruzi2648 Před 6 lety +25

    Mehn felt like you talking on my case😂😂😂😂wtf my feelings were taking for granted

  • @muhammadmusawirmehdi
    @muhammadmusawirmehdi Před 7 lety +203

    chris can u make a video on how to keep a long distance relationship going

  • @WhiteGhost21
    @WhiteGhost21 Před 5 lety +53

    oh i kept it interesting alright.. so interesting she went through my phone and saw me chatting with multiple women, receiving nudes and such. broke up with me, eventually, after trying again.
    EDIT: she came back a few weeks later

    • @TheHustler47
      @TheHustler47 Před 4 lety +13

      Don't stop to talk to other chicks.. it'll help you in smv

    • @NiceOne1706
      @NiceOne1706 Před 4 lety +7

      Haha same thing happened to me. We are back together now after 8 months apart. Things are good now. Chatting to other women behind your girls back is ok as long as you don’t get caught. Be savvy with that shit but keep her happy at the same time 👌

    • @oobibab9572
      @oobibab9572 Před 3 lety +2

      @@NiceOne1706 lmaooi

    • @XoXo475
      @XoXo475 Před 2 lety

      it’s not ok ! Funny at first yeah sure , but how would you feel if your girl was sending nudes to different guys

    • @jblasutavario9549
      @jblasutavario9549 Před rokem

      Same here.
      Only in my case, the nudes were from an ex.

  • @hufficag
    @hufficag Před 9 měsíci +2

    Isn't always being there for each other the cornerstone of marriage?

  • @XEinstein
    @XEinstein Před 4 lety +18

    My question though is, how do I keep my attraction towards my girl in a long-term relationship?

  • @bruce7244
    @bruce7244 Před 2 lety +7

    Shouldn't it be her job to keep her bf interested?

  • @Legion-qv9pw
    @Legion-qv9pw Před 2 lety +4

    This man is a legend

  • @fabiruzi2648
    @fabiruzi2648 Před 6 lety +19

    Man need ya ma girl just gets mad over nothing causing issues for nothing like am just beign caring but it's like problem

  • @leoastner888
    @leoastner888 Před 4 lety +6

    Girls are mysterious

  • @12Messenger
    @12Messenger Před 2 lety +6

    If she leaves because of "attraction" she can't come back because in reality you 2 become familiar with each other but I understand a lazy man who gets complacent and starts taking his wife for granted but besides that she can CHOOSE to stay knowing you're gonna be predictable but at least try

  • @amervito9872
    @amervito9872 Před 4 lety +12

    corona nowdays stop me unluckily to enjoy life haha

  • @mariosenkerik2267
    @mariosenkerik2267 Před 6 lety +23

    Love you men...you are star...did almost all mistakes you mentioned...😉

  • @williamsmith9248
    @williamsmith9248 Před 3 lety +10

    All these things can be accomplished by cheating on her 3 or 4 times a year.

  • @a.k.o2179
    @a.k.o2179 Před 6 lety +12

    You are the best u just gave me sauce

  • @livefullyfast3580
    @livefullyfast3580 Před 7 lety +18

    well put

  • @jermainedon6564
    @jermainedon6564 Před 6 lety +21

    Hey Chris can you do more videos on long term relationship please. Am in one and it's hard, I want it to work.

  • @albertodeulofeu5277
    @albertodeulofeu5277 Před rokem +2

    All this is avoidable by NOT being monogamous

  • @chitranb
    @chitranb Před 4 lety +5

    does it mean that if I have been mostly unavailable and become available for a short while, it will also act as a surprise for her??

  • @rad385
    @rad385 Před 3 lety +2

    Me here getting advice without a girlfriend

  • @thelifeofaking376
    @thelifeofaking376 Před 6 lety +13

    So if I already told her I love her but now we pulling away can I still change it up and tell her I appreciate it despit the fact I have told her I love her back before

    • @rad385
      @rad385 Před 3 lety +1

      Bro fuck this guy, do what your heat please, you know your girl better than anyone.

  • @mcmproductons
    @mcmproductons Před 6 lety +22

    should i always text good morning in a long distance relationship when i already know she's been awake

    • @DevelopAttraction
      @DevelopAttraction  Před 6 lety +69

      Silver87 no, don’t do that.

    • @curtispittam7805
      @curtispittam7805 Před 6 lety

      J

    • @nadirovaaj5427
      @nadirovaaj5427 Před 6 lety +1

      Develop Attraction what we should do?

    • @kidred07
      @kidred07 Před 6 lety +5

      You wait for her to reach out first play tennis with text she serves you respond and just try to keep it short and set up time for visits . Either her city or yours .

    • @keekeedavis3521
      @keekeedavis3521 Před 5 lety +4

      Uhm. There’s a lot of people giving bad advice all over here. YES! If you two are actually still together friggen TALK TO HER! Say good morning for gods sake! Wow. That’s the problem here. So many women feel disconnected from their man so they eventually say Screw it and wander off themselves! Good luck y’all 🤦‍♀️

  • @SHRESTHAA69
    @SHRESTHAA69 Před rokem +1

    Yea sir we should change cause I'm aslo facing this same problem 😭

  • @GSE1480
    @GSE1480 Před 6 lety +12

    This shit life is all about women ..She has to choose ..She has to decide ...She has to give us the the result of sexual level success if we are good or bad .As men we just living to suffer from ladies and their requests ...This is the reality of our life as men in general ..

  • @felixvega3129
    @felixvega3129 Před 2 lety +2

    We always do what she wants to do on the weekends. So l surprised her. I took a Saturday for myself. Didn't let her know . when l got home late that Saturday she was mad at me for this. So l really don't know what to do here. Any advice ob this ?

  • @_noname2032
    @_noname2032 Před 3 lety +4

    But how does this statement fit to the statement from other video, where you said, that if a girl pulls aways and want to date other guys, you need to let her and date other women too. 🤔

  • @isacasencio5680
    @isacasencio5680 Před 3 lety +3

    I live with her I leave home for work at 5am and return at 6 sometimes 7 after a shower and food it’s like 8 pm and I also take her out to fancy dinners at least 2-3 times a month every weekend how can I make things better and make her secure ????

  • @paulmorgan109
    @paulmorgan109 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you man

  • @moolahussein5307
    @moolahussein5307 Před 6 lety +20

    What I do if she text me every day alll day

    • @SimoGAMERHD
      @SimoGAMERHD Před 5 lety +4

      Use that to your advantage

    • @JesusFlores-vx3vh
      @JesusFlores-vx3vh Před 5 lety

      @@SimoGAMERHD how ?

    • @SimoGAMERHD
      @SimoGAMERHD Před 5 lety +15

      @@JesusFlores-vx3vh when she talks to you all day every day it's no secret she is interested in you. Don't do the same with her, show her you are an interesting person, you got your own shit going on, you have a lot in your life and she is just a part of it, but not any part, she is the biggest part of it, and show it, you better backup what you say cause that will make her feel truly special while you stay mysterious, this will drag her to never getting enough of you

  • @bunnyjai3770
    @bunnyjai3770 Před 4 lety +5

    Chris my girlfriend keep our relationship secret from they friends what to do

    • @lagroad
      @lagroad Před 4 lety +3

      Bunny jai
      Honestly. I think the only thing to do is find another gf who will value you

    • @andrewcruz7595
      @andrewcruz7595 Před 4 lety +5

      *not a good sign* dump her .

    • @broncobill861
      @broncobill861 Před 3 lety +1

      Do the same

  • @FofXequalsYnot
    @FofXequalsYnot Před 4 lety +3

    What is attraction ? Doing things she doesn’t expect in a long term relationship?🙄😂

  • @devangsomani6651
    @devangsomani6651 Před 3 lety +1

    Love from India ❤️

  • @christophermonarch3267

    That was very weird like he was talking to me personally

  • @call2tawheed870
    @call2tawheed870 Před 6 lety +3

    You know your shit bro!

  • @kennethmajoro2808
    @kennethmajoro2808 Před 5 lety +1

    Can I have your website?

  • @RememberTrueStyle
    @RememberTrueStyle Před rokem

    Thanks

  • @mehadyislam
    @mehadyislam Před 4 lety +7

    Why girls are like this ! Why , i can't get around it .

  • @beauty4u132
    @beauty4u132 Před 2 lety

    Um, bring gifts!!!! 🥰

  • @henrikv5408
    @henrikv5408 Před 2 lety

    wish I saw this before it was too late

  • @santoshsubedi6878
    @santoshsubedi6878 Před 3 lety

    How do we remain mystery?

  • @shayanxec
    @shayanxec Před 4 lety

    Starting mein aisa laga ki LIC ka insurance krne bol raha

  • @binayakkulung5696
    @binayakkulung5696 Před rokem

    Is your girlfriend interested in you...mr.chris..??

  • @lsoo.
    @lsoo. Před 2 lety

    I got a question

  • @demxnbxyxo_9994
    @demxnbxyxo_9994 Před 3 lety

    What is she wants me to tell her everything but when I don’t she gets annoyed. How can I keep a mystery to her

    • @RikyyThePootisSlayer
      @RikyyThePootisSlayer Před 3 lety

      You don't 😂😂😂
      The mystery is what kills her and keeps her coming to you. Play it off. Be cheeky. Show her you don't care she wants to know but you're not afraid she can find out.

  • @wendydaniels7920
    @wendydaniels7920 Před 3 lety

    Ok

  • @davidspicer9949
    @davidspicer9949 Před 3 lety +3

    Best bet is to avoid women....love is gone from relationships and who need a business transaction to keep a woman?

  • @AlexandroBekos
    @AlexandroBekos Před rokem +1

    Give more time to your personal progress ,that is your body and your job snd trust me, you will be always a mystery as you progress. A lot of women want men with goals, because they feel safe that when they marry ,they wont get stuck with a non achiever. Women are thinkers we our doers. Do not fall in the trap to listen to her a lot

  • @leesusphinx7857
    @leesusphinx7857 Před rokem

    What if she's bipolar haha

  • @showtimechrist1036
    @showtimechrist1036 Před 7 lety +5

    Boo

  • @oobibab9572
    @oobibab9572 Před 3 lety +1

    Stay a mystery lol

  • @sincerelyme7423
    @sincerelyme7423 Před rokem

    💪

  • @stevec3892
    @stevec3892 Před 2 lety

    Just have a fat wallet and she will be happy

  • @tatiana_films
    @tatiana_films Před 3 lety

    When your a lesbian woman😋