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Komentáře • 336

  • @billywylie8199
    @billywylie8199 Před 4 lety +540

    It’s not jealousy it’s about respect for myself.

  • @obama8452
    @obama8452 Před 4 lety +101

    Know you're the best man she will ever meet

  • @fourthtunz
    @fourthtunz Před 4 lety +164

    The lesson I learned was if your girlfriend is kissing other guys or letting guys hug them so their breasts rub against them then she's the wrong girl and doesn't respect you or herself. Her talking to another guys should not be a problem unless you take her out and spends all of her time with other guys..just move on, plenty of fish in the sea.

    • @nickriddle1586
      @nickriddle1586 Před 3 lety +18

      okay that’s just cheating my guy😂😂

    • @yusufosman7095
      @yusufosman7095 Před 3 lety +1

      that's what i do today i totally agree with you

    • @TheIceCreamWizard
      @TheIceCreamWizard Před 2 lety +7

      if she talks to any other guy who isn’t part of her family, or just business related, that's cheating, end of story

    • @florentn7442
      @florentn7442 Před rokem

      @@TheIceCreamWizardlmaooooo

    • @user-mi4yc7pr3x
      @user-mi4yc7pr3x Před rokem +2

      ​@@TheIceCreamWizardyes and no. I feel the same. Yet girls don't really think like that

  • @cali__4465
    @cali__4465 Před 4 lety +209

    He’s not wrong about this topic but most females nowadays aren’t faithful so young men or men in general are gonna be jealous cause a girl can just leave you out of nowhere 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @RoofDRyxe306
      @RoofDRyxe306 Před 4 lety +12

      girls can easily leave but the fact is a guy is a dog fuck anything. women lose out on quality

    • @tulesg2008
      @tulesg2008 Před 3 lety +8

      Well stop chasing over women who act like MAN. ("broken women")Yeah duo, she is hotter, yeah duoo, she knows how to flirt... Well... You were looking for it. She is just like a MAN now. Real women non broken women, just like he stated do not cheat that easy. Sadly real women who gets broken emotionally too many times, becomes like this.. and almost NEVER can be repaired.... You see, Emotional Connection is very important to sexual connection in Women. If a women loves you, the other guy could literally be BRAD PITT. and despite her physical attraction, if she loves you, she would not make that move. She just like this guy stated.. "WOULD BE THINKING about you... But "broken" women after being cheated and dumped and hurt too many times, learn that Sex can still be enjoyable and as long as Emotions are NOT involved so, she would NEVER be hurt again. and the story goes like this..finally when she is with "the one" she CHEATS and sabotages her own relationship, a sick circle that never ends... Good luck.

    • @Mediazzzzzz
      @Mediazzzzzz Před 2 lety

      Well attractive woman always have options even the ugly ones so they play the field they are the real players but instead of that we call them hoes

    • @bestprimal9790
      @bestprimal9790 Před 2 lety +2

      A woman will only be faithful is if her values and your values reciprocate and she has immense respect, love and attraction for you. Trust me.

  • @barneyrubble8839
    @barneyrubble8839 Před 2 lety +27

    It's about respect, I just walk away if my girlfriend starts talking and flirting with other guys, leave her in a bar if thats what she wants to do

  • @TheGamerKingg
    @TheGamerKingg Před 3 lety +41

    always follow 1 rule
    IF she causes discomfort to you, run away

  • @CosminPerisan
    @CosminPerisan Před 3 lety +42

    As soon as you feel it, you need to cut off the relationship. If you choose to stay or to 'work it out' she will do it again. That is a sign that there is no respect for you.

    • @g.d2450
      @g.d2450 Před rokem

      if a woman is like that then she's got no respect for you... your relationship and ultimately.... herself

  • @noahhughes2580
    @noahhughes2580 Před 2 lety +15

    Never be jealous. She’s not yours bro, it’s just your turn. Think about this and you won’t be attached.

  • @efaz9028
    @efaz9028 Před 4 lety +142

    Thank u so much cris.. I was really afraid and insecure.. But now i've got the confidence and understood the process.. And those who are reading my comnt now, pls pray for us.. That we can make it last.. Best wishes for u guys :)
    edit : My one humble request to you guys, don't hit on a women who has already a boyfriend. Karma is a real bi*ch. :)

    • @rajatchauhan5103
      @rajatchauhan5103 Před 4 lety

      Bro did it last?

    • @efaz9028
      @efaz9028 Před 4 lety +9

      Alhamdulillah brother! We're still together 💜

    • @umaga
      @umaga Před 3 lety

      i wonder if you are hitting your gr, when she was with her ex?

    • @ryanrodrigues32001
      @ryanrodrigues32001 Před rokem +2

      @@efaz9028 how about now

  • @g.d2450
    @g.d2450 Před 3 lety +62

    my ex would get inappropriate messages and calls from a few of her male friends, i felt it crossed a line and asked her to set boundaries with them as when i told them to stop it she would defend them and fall out with me saying i was insecure, didn't trust her and that i didn't want her having male friends, it didn't bother me her having male friends if they where respectful it only became a problem if they would be flirty with her, guess she liked the flirting from them as we finished 6 months ago and is now with one of them. to be honest I'm happy to be free of the situation but guess it still hurts to think that someone who you're with for so long was looking elsewhere

    • @anonymoustr6957
      @anonymoustr6957 Před 2 lety +19

      Its sad but you're lucky you're not with wrong person anymore.
      Hope you find a good partner in future!

    • @oreosaregood3210
      @oreosaregood3210 Před rokem +3

      I’m sorry bro. Deeply

    • @azlanahmed2811
      @azlanahmed2811 Před rokem +2

      Keep on grinding 👑. Better is yet to come

    • @user-mi4yc7pr3x
      @user-mi4yc7pr3x Před rokem

      How much time she spent with them VS with you?

    • @g.d2450
      @g.d2450 Před rokem +2

      @@user-mi4yc7pr3x noticed over lockdown that she swung from always wanting to be with me to becoming more distant as my ex and all her friends would meet most nights drinking in one of the gardens, I'm an essential worker so had to be at work a lot while they where all off on furlough so obviously started getting closer to one of her male friends in particular... but it's all water under the bridge now as i have moved on with someone that I've known a long time and find that I've a lot more in common, a better connection to and the same standard of morals.
      if you're with someone that doesn't show you, your relationship and ultimately themselves respect then as hard as it is you need to move on or you will torture yourself

  • @YeshuaIsTheTruth
    @YeshuaIsTheTruth Před 3 lety +42

    This advice seems toxic. Your woman should respect you. Women crave love, men crave respect.
    Competition is for the period before you even start dating. You shouldn't have to compete for a woman who already says she's yours.

    • @davidwhite206
      @davidwhite206 Před měsícem +1

      Exactly! A lot of advice from him is great, but you got me fucked up if you think I'm tolerating disrespect of any kind.

  • @baklava6138
    @baklava6138 Před rokem +10

    It isn’t always about “stealing your girl” but rather him planting seeds and diverting her attention from you to him. Usually sex never happens but it can mess with the girl’s emotions and the overall vibe of the relationship. Also, men watch carefully, if a women gives her attention to another man in front of you and vibes with him and you feel it in your gut that they are connecting then this means she is not your girl. A girl that is yours handles the situation accordingly and makes you feel confident.

    • @ExoecistBlue
      @ExoecistBlue Před 8 měsíci

      They do on purpose to test man

    • @loveangieify
      @loveangieify Před 8 měsíci

      @baklava6138 Look for a timid girl and do the same. There is a difference between attraction and connection. When you find a partnership, ensure you communicate your feelings and insecurities and create a safe environment for both of you if she can't accept how you feel find a partner that will or accept this of your partner.
      It's difficult for me to speak with men in general due to them catching feelings from just being who I am. I do my best to create distance, and my husband trusts me, though it is more painful for me because I hate hurting people. So now I simply avoid most men. This was my choice.

  • @drbrendankishketon
    @drbrendankishketon Před 6 lety +69

    I really needed to hear this today, Chris. Thank you!

  • @stevecokaiko9590
    @stevecokaiko9590 Před 4 lety +36

    I was with that girl for three years. She had a lot of male friends from work, from sport and even her best friend was a dude. I’ve NEVER acted jealous during those three years and when we broke up she told me that I never cared about her cause Of that 😂🤷‍♂️

    • @AndrewFedenev
      @AndrewFedenev Před 4 lety +3

      And she is god damn right

    • @stevecokaiko9590
      @stevecokaiko9590 Před 4 lety

      Gonzo Studio how so?

    • @dborwankar
      @dborwankar Před 3 lety +3

      @@stevecokaiko9590 because you sometimes gotta show your vulnerable side, just to make her feel that you care. You not caring who she's talking to, not getting a little possessive about her will make her feel like you only care about the pussy and not her. Just don't overdo it.

    • @nickdipaolofan5948
      @nickdipaolofan5948 Před 2 lety +14

      @@dborwankar It is more primal than that. Women need to feel that they are with a protector. If her man isn't man enough to protect his woman from other men, then in her primal thinking, he won't protect her (or future kids) from other things. If her man just lets other men flirt with her (and more importantly, he watches her flirt back) and does nothing, she knows he's a push over and if she can walk all over him, than he will let any man walk all over him too.
      Women constantly shit test their men to make themselves sure that you are still up to the task of protecting his (and thus her) investments (kids, property, etc). This is all subconscious and evolutionary from our cave man roots.
      No, simply "being jealous" is not the response she is looking for. She is looking to be put in her place by you and have you let her know that you don't tolerate disloyalty.

    • @whitepilledman
      @whitepilledman Před 2 lety

      @@nickdipaolofan5948 Or just kick her out. Cause no man deserves a disrespecting and disloyal girl

  • @nonenone6884
    @nonenone6884 Před 7 měsíci +2

    but is her flirting in front of you disrespectful is the disrespect that i do"t like

  • @liljrluvyaii6625
    @liljrluvyaii6625 Před 7 lety +44

    This guy is a f*** Genius

  • @shanibochumcc
    @shanibochumcc Před 3 lety +9

    If the man isn't supposed to show jealousy then the same shall apply for a woman. I am myself an attractive man and get in constant touch with women, however, I take my distance right from the word go showing to other girls of me being in a relationship already!

  • @headlesspiper936
    @headlesspiper936 Před 4 lety +53

    I get so frustrated and jealous but I know they are her friends too but I feel just upset

  • @JaganMusic00
    @JaganMusic00 Před 5 lety +22

    Thanks so much for making my mind clear 🙏🏻

  • @matthewstewart2228
    @matthewstewart2228 Před 4 lety +12

    They quite often leave for another guy...
    Jus pump and dump
    Girls Crave and will defend that orbiter praise

  • @sachinjain4375
    @sachinjain4375 Před 8 lety +71

    u r a great men.... u give me confidence :p

  • @YannyKo13
    @YannyKo13 Před 3 lety +4

    Thanks so much Chris... The way you explained things calmed me and my insecurities...

  • @chaucerparks5941
    @chaucerparks5941 Před 3 lety +4

    The jealousy derives from her entertaining or the appearance of flirting in front of you with other men. ✊✌💨🏃

  • @Smoogle
    @Smoogle Před 8 lety +9

    I wrote this some where else and maybe you can explain this to me...I wrote on your other video but this is a more detailed description of whats going on for me "I was with my girl for 7 years, loved the flipping hell out of her, did all the wrong things at first, the conversations all reverted to texting, she wouldn't talk to me on the phone anymore so i had no sense of emotion or if she was affected by anything.
    So I gave it some thought, deep thought. It was rough, the moments at night where NOTHING is going on were horrendous because it just gave waaaaaaaaaaaaay to much time to think.
    So I wrote her one last message and agreed with absolutely everything she said, just went out as mature as possible.
    I had zero closure. I can only assume the reasons why she left and accept it all.
    She was another one who said, "I'm always busy at work I don't have time" that is true in a way but there is moments they go out with their girls and guys come along with them or they just won't tell you they are in the process of talking with someone already, like in your case you said she is moving towards this guy, she's probably known him already for a bit.
    So it's been 7 months since we've been broken up, she calls my phone once and instantly hangs up so i see her number on my phone.
    Of course i'm like YES THIS **** ACTUALLY works in my head, lol.
    even though I wasn't using NC for her to reach out and mainly myself. lemme tell you this I regret calling and leaving a message, SHE TEXT back, which instantly made me think..."fuckkkkkkkk my life" and she said she was just going through her contacts and wanted to see if my number was still active (me rolling my eyes)
    anyways it got the process of us texting and her telling me her boss at work asked her out and she rejected him. This had me curious if she was seeing anyone...she told me and boy did she tell me so much details in the days forward
    She met some half italian guy like me, he's so sweet, his car is cute, they cuddle, they do stuff...ALL the brutal **** half of the people here would craddle in the corner and cry in depression for weeks hearing.
    In my head I was like why the hell is she telling me all of this, I knew it wasn't a lie or something to make me jealous because she went into waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay to much detail about it.
    I should of cut her off right there and then but I wanted more, this was actually giving me the power of emotionally cutting her off for good because f uck this right? She said "even if i wasn't with this guy i would never go back to you we've tried to much"
    that settled it for me. I knew then and there that i was going to go deuces and not come the hell back, so i talk to her casually a bit about old times then dead pan stop talking to her.
    She message me about seeing my mom a few days ago, didn't return a message, the next day she said "k i guess you've finally moved on and i'm happy for you, hope you have a great new year and get everything you ever wanted"
    I didn't reply. I guess she didn't realize the whole barrage of **** she told me to make me put up a wall of no return."

    • @Smoogle
      @Smoogle Před 8 lety +1

      +Smoogle even though shes with this guy she still text me every once and awhile, I got curious and look at her instagram which is private but her friends isn't and i see them having a blast and stuff together (Yeah I know I shouldn't look but i cracked) she seems to be having the time of her life...I have not seen any updates of the two of them together so i dont know.....I think i should just cut her off but i still love the crap out of her. I Do not initiate any contact with her what so ever, I don't allow her to know what she says to me phases me..(how would she know she only text so there is zero clue on her emotions...when we were together she'd always call me..now she says she hates talking on the phone)....anyways why bother me if your not interested in me and have this new hunk in your life. ....sorry for the rant.

    • @smoogles.5534
      @smoogles.5534 Před 8 lety +4

      +cheeseisgooooodable lol thank you for the advice I actually just ended up blocking her on my phone instead I couldn't really handle it, I just basically said "Fuck it" mentally it's not worth my energy with these text that will basically lead to no where. So even though it was the hardest thing in life for me to do, I did it, I started talking to a few new girls (which I wasn't doing before...I mean it's officially 9 months now it's time for me to talk to new people at least) so I feel a bit better about myself, I'm not wondering if she is texting me or anything, I mean if she truly wanted to reach out she'd find out how to contact me she hasn't so I'm not to worried. I don't really want to give her the mindset that im being strung along with her as a backup guy, I'm not going to position myself like that instead Im going to give her what she wants and thats a life without me in it.

    • @DevelopAttraction
      @DevelopAttraction  Před 8 lety +12

      +Smoogle s. Congratulations! It sounds like you just crossed the threshold into alpha male territory. You'll probably be surprised that not only will you start to date and get more girls, but this girl will most likely start to show more interest in you later on. Your call if you take her back or not. This is great to hear, there's nothing more empowering than a "I don't give a f**k" attitude in life.

    • @noelestrada9039
      @noelestrada9039 Před 7 lety

      Chris Canwell dued there is this girl at my school I told her I like her and I think she felt uncomfortable and I ask her if she needs some space she said yes and she felt bad and she said we could be Friend's and when we got back from our 3 day break she didn't talk to me when we came back on Monday what do I do I'm upset for what I did and said to her and I want her to be my girlfriend what do I do bro help me please.

    • @smoogles.5534
      @smoogles.5534 Před 7 lety

      I have a quick question for you, a have a female friend that I've been friends with for years, she was going after me hard as fuck but i always ignored her because I had a girl i was with for 7 years, anyways when i ended up hooking up with her twice she diverted me into a friendzone but she talks to me EVERY single day via text, she doesn't like talking on the phone never has for as long as i've known her...So anyways when I flirt with her she goes "ew" why are doing that but then when i said "lets go have sex" she said "Yes" ... so this shit confuses me because I guess she wants to be a fuck buddy but she's so random and sporadic I never know what personality im exactly dealing with, I just said "lets have sex" to see what her reaction would be. ANYWAYS I am tempted to cut her off because the way she talks with me is like im inferior and every time i delete her ass she MESSAGES me or finds a way. Soooooooooooooooooooo what should I do i don't know exactly how to deal with a girl who said she just wants to be friends after she was heavily chasing me, it seems the more I ignore her the more she wants me until we start talking..then she goes back being the same..She doesn't even talk she talks through EMOJIs and GIFS through facebook messanger. I asked her why do you even talk with me we both don't even talk there is zero substance to our conversations and she just says "I dunno"
      but yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah done with that im going to solidly ignore her and not respond this time.

  • @Elmo914
    @Elmo914 Před 5 lety +13

    Jealousy is normal, men are territorial by nature, it's in our genetics. So yeah, if you want to get married and settled down and shit. A girl with x amount of guy friends whom she places too much importance into isn't worth the time. Girl got issues, there are plenty of girls out there who know how to manage themselves and honor a relationship. Don't settle for this shit, find a girl that is worth it.
    That is what a true alpha male does, he doesn't date trash, he dates quality. We have to learn to stop blaming ourselves, if you're jealous, you're 90% of the time not doing it out of insecurity. You're not insecure. You're just being a dude trying to survive. Your gut feeling knows shit, listen to it.

  • @billcollins7009
    @billcollins7009 Před 3 lety +22

    This covers one aspect, being jealous of strangers talking to your girlfriend. And like what's said here, that's going to happen and it's usually no big deal.
    However, the problem arises when her response is atypical. For example, when there's one particular guy that she talks to and her behavior deviates in a pronounced way from how she interacts with other male friends or acquaintances.

  • @JDOGFTW
    @JDOGFTW Před 4 lety +5

    This actually happens to other guys? I was walking with a woman and this guy just walked up to us and started shit talking on me to her. I always respect any man if he has a woman with him.

  • @pirtlesquad1641
    @pirtlesquad1641 Před 3 lety +3

    My girlfriend loves to bring up stories about her past experiences. No matter how many times I tell her to stop, she still does it, but she says her reasoning is to see if I still care.

    • @CosminPerisan
      @CosminPerisan Před 3 lety +3

      You need to tell her in a serious maner that you find it disrespectful towards you, and if she does it again both of you may go on separate ways.

    • @seastorm1979
      @seastorm1979 Před 11 měsíci

      my woman does that too, she´s always talking about past experinces with other men. I just turn off and let her talk:D

  • @abhinusrivastava7103
    @abhinusrivastava7103 Před 2 měsíci

    This has really helped me. Appreciate this, thankyou. You’ve made a great impact in my life and my view on jealousy, sometimes I feel like it gets too much and I don’t even like that side of me, but I’m working on it

  • @bruceangel8685
    @bruceangel8685 Před 4 lety +9

    The subject was concisely and adequately covered and I appreciate that.

  • @YouDontKnowMebro69
    @YouDontKnowMebro69 Před 4 lety +13

    My girl gets an absurd amount of attention and this really helps my mindset. Thank you.

    • @anonymoustr6957
      @anonymoustr6957 Před 2 lety +1

      Same here, my gf gets quite some amount of attention because she's attractive looking girl in our standards.
      She did choose me over guys who are more established in life, yet, she says some of her colleagues gives her flirty compliments and she says she never flirted back and just ignored or only smiled back... Means she never told them to back off as according to her, they didn't cross the line.
      Its very confusing to me now.

    • @mahisher6332
      @mahisher6332 Před 2 lety

      Dump her

    • @devanshgupta4107
      @devanshgupta4107 Před 2 lety +1

      @@anonymoustr6957 😐😐

    • @whitepilledman
      @whitepilledman Před 2 lety

      You guys are 🤡

    • @whitepilledman
      @whitepilledman Před 2 lety

      @@anonymoustr6957 Kick her out

  • @LeeEverett1
    @LeeEverett1 Před 3 lety +26

    Jealousy is so hard to overcome, mostly if the guy talking to your girl is way more attractive than you are and she seems almost flirty with him.
    I actually broke up with a girl due to jealousy. This tall muscular dude walked up and started talking to a girl I was dating at the time, and I could tell by the way she was smiling and giggling that she was into him. When she said "I have a boyfriend", it was almost as if she was disappointed by the way she said it.
    That night her and I were about to have sex, but I straight up went limp because I kept thinking about the way that dude made her laugh and smile that night. There have been other guys that have flirted with her before, but for whatever reason I just couldn't recover from my immense jealousy and insecurity from that one guy that I had to break it off with her.

    • @CosminPerisan
      @CosminPerisan Před 3 lety +16

      Improve yourself daily BUT don't compare yourself to others. You will be fine.

    • @abanfrancis6400
      @abanfrancis6400 Před 3 lety +11

      She didn't respect you bro. That's disrespect don't let people name shame you into things especially when you don't feel comfortable with something.

    • @carlospita6442
      @carlospita6442 Před rokem

      Dump her

    • @carlosdixan112
      @carlosdixan112 Před rokem +4

      Just dump her, don't tolerate disrespect

    • @Josh-fp2qn
      @Josh-fp2qn Před rokem

      That's a sad story, bro. Imagine how she would have reacted if you were being flirted with by an attractive woman and seemed into it

  • @ejoromnz
    @ejoromnz Před 4 lety +7

    Great Video. May God Bless You Brother For Sharing This Valuable Message.

  • @Kira5063
    @Kira5063 Před 2 lety +2

    Any woman that wants to be with me will have to give up talking to other men for enjoyment

  • @DrJ-hx7wv
    @DrJ-hx7wv Před 3 lety +3

    If she really loves you.....that's begging the question.

  • @fl4xyt79
    @fl4xyt79 Před 3 lety +6

    Y’all young people out there listen if she can’t change for you and she starts saying oh u should trust me and stuff just let her go she finna understand what she missed

  • @yengyeng5272
    @yengyeng5272 Před 5 lety +4

    you brighten up my day chris..thank you

  • @moneymike752
    @moneymike752 Před 4 lety +10

    Your advice just changed my whole mindset man thank you so muchhhhh

  • @raymondpratt3055
    @raymondpratt3055 Před 4 lety +3

    The girl should give the guy reassurance.

  • @CristianoRonaldo-ep4dq
    @CristianoRonaldo-ep4dq Před 4 lety +17

    Why my girlfriend talk with her boy best friend than with me😭😭😭
    Plz say something😔😔

    • @rayanehamaidi5050
      @rayanehamaidi5050 Před 4 lety +5

      Bruhh is she even your girl at this point?

    • @Alex05TM
      @Alex05TM Před 4 lety +21

      Probably because of those emojis

    • @nnnnnnnnn8888
      @nnnnnnnnn8888 Před 4 lety +4

      Alextasy 😂😂😂😂

    • @oobibab9572
      @oobibab9572 Před 3 lety +7

      u care too much bruh, be an alpha. Women will become aunties as time goes by. Men are like wine, gets finer as time passes by.

    • @abanfrancis6400
      @abanfrancis6400 Před 3 lety +1

      Dump her bro

  • @hakeemzhang7725
    @hakeemzhang7725 Před 5 lety +5

    Thanks man, I really need this today

  • @therealroyhobbs
    @therealroyhobbs Před 5 lety +7

    But don’t act like it never happened, that a girl just jumps ship because the other guy is hot..

    • @Don-pk2uy
      @Don-pk2uy Před 4 lety +6

      Happens all the time, women are the ones that cheat the most

  • @davethenewkid3529
    @davethenewkid3529 Před 2 lety +4

    Every time my girl gets hit on at the bar I pick pocket the guy while he’s distracted it’s so so easy made $1300 in one night

  • @asdfjhgkl6864
    @asdfjhgkl6864 Před 4 lety +3

    technically not a man jealous of other men but when other people are nice to my girlfriend i feel so sick and terrified. im sure that one of our friends used to want to go out with her and now it makes me so nervous when they talk

  • @alihaidersultan671
    @alihaidersultan671 Před 4 lety +3

    Whenever im feeling down i watch your video

  • @vishaljoshivicky5300
    @vishaljoshivicky5300 Před rokem

    Wow! Chris, you are the best man in the world,especially considering relationship matters.

  • @andreativo5112
    @andreativo5112 Před 4 lety +3

    Great teacher and coach for dating advice😊👍 Godbless

  • @pravilmumbai2958
    @pravilmumbai2958 Před 2 lety

    Thanks man.. I always keep seeing your videos and read your book.. It helped me a lot. Thanks you chris

  • @wingsofjusticesc
    @wingsofjusticesc Před 4 lety +2

    Your videos help a lot.Thank you!!

  • @JaredDeinlein
    @JaredDeinlein Před 3 lety +11

    I never get jealous. Why? I know I'm awesone and best catch around. I actually laugh inside thinknits funny watching a guy try to win a girl im with over. She always leaves with me

  • @heliogps
    @heliogps Před 5 lety +7

    Well, can you tell me if this makes sense?
    My girlfriend went on a vacation with her family, to a resort like place. Very rich people were there, also good looking successful, etc.
    And apparently she met someone, a guy which she started following on instagram and liked his photo, and he liked her photos too...
    when i asked her if she made any friends there, or met someone, she denied all the way, but I know that she met this guy in some way, cause he was there on that resort and they started a social media thingy.
    What should I do? Should I show her his profile and ask her who he is or something? This doubt is killing me, but I didn't say anything about this guy to her...

    • @_Furqan4
      @_Furqan4 Před 4 lety +3

      mRblade brownJr deffoes speak to her about it. And if you already have, how did it go?

    • @carlospita6442
      @carlospita6442 Před rokem

      Dumo her

  • @carloscano3349
    @carloscano3349 Před 3 lety +1

    I used to be really jealous then I grew some BALLS and now if she wants to do that she can I have many options and confidence

  • @arushkumartera_future_husb488

    You are my big brother 💙 love you bro nd thnks for all your videos .....god will give you prosperity

  • @buncey2536
    @buncey2536 Před 4 dny

    Jealousy is a factor for sure but also principal.
    Talking to other guys generally, guts talking to her, no problems, let her be free and show you her integrity. Spending time, intimately and platonic out and about is completely different, so called friends with a guy will be trouble.
    She will be gtg input about life, beliefs etc... from him, which may affect your leadership.
    He will no doubt have feelings for her otherwise why would he be spending time with her.
    If she has known him for years, then that's different.
    Works colleges, associates yes, but on a professional levels and for a specific reason sure.
    Long time friends would be introduced to each other and then he would most likely move on.

  • @johnsmith-rd3zx
    @johnsmith-rd3zx Před rokem +1

    i cant force a woman to marry me but i can leave her if shes cheating on me with another guy at the same time to be fair

  • @Josh-fp2qn
    @Josh-fp2qn Před rokem

    Wonderful video. You are very reassuring.

  • @arrow4773
    @arrow4773 Před rokem +1

    “Talking” to a guy is how it starts.

  • @karthikmurugesan660
    @karthikmurugesan660 Před 5 lety +6

    Oh love guru , your great bro ..

  • @encompassvideo5429
    @encompassvideo5429 Před rokem +2

    I have had all kinds of attractive female partners. I never cared about other guys and whether they would hit on her ( they always do). I have way too much respect for myself to even acknowledge it. The problems come when your partner starts getting into it. Therein lies the issue.

    • @Sigma75283
      @Sigma75283 Před rokem

      You won't even notice it when it happens she just starts slowly pulling away until it's too late and she caught feelings.

  • @bishae7878
    @bishae7878 Před 5 lety +5

    Alright man thx man I would try not get into a fight with the guys she talk to lol

  • @mangopenelson7543
    @mangopenelson7543 Před 3 měsíci

    It's either you raise it up or you leave, if she continues after first time you simply leave, keeping quiet will destroy you, Showing concern is maintaining a respect for yourself

  • @Sigma75283
    @Sigma75283 Před rokem

    You stated it in the video. She wants to figure him out first, eventually it will turn into emotion. I use to have no insecurity but my past shows that I was naive and she still cheated with a coworker

  • @sandrewmukhim108
    @sandrewmukhim108 Před 2 lety +1

    Once i take a walk with my girlfriend on the road i stare at some girls she's getting annoying with me .she said im scared of what you doing i told her i just look so no need to worry about that.but i know she is discomfort to walk with me

  • @stevec3892
    @stevec3892 Před 3 lety +6

    I let my girl dance with other guys and talk . But it’s a fine line between jealousy and disrespect

    • @SapiensIndica
      @SapiensIndica Před 3 lety +1

      Is your relationship still alive?

    • @Zadarack
      @Zadarack Před 2 lety +3

      Talk is one thing, but dancing idk about all that

  • @antoniomora4607
    @antoniomora4607 Před 5 lety +23

    My girlfriend is very social.
    Has lots of friends. Who are men
    I trust her.
    She gives me my place always but sometimes I just feel jealous. That she gives also time and. interest to her friends who are also men

    • @Elmo914
      @Elmo914 Před 5 lety +25

      Then don't date her lol, don't waste your time on women like that. If a girl is committed to you she isn't going to give two fucks about other men.

    • @aconfusedshoe6240
      @aconfusedshoe6240 Před 5 lety +19

      Antonio Mora if she has lots of friends who are men don’t be surprised if ur being used and cheated on. Women can be just as heartless and manipulative as any man. Don’t ever forget that.

    • @samsungsamurai
      @samsungsamurai Před 5 lety +1

      dude, you need filter.

    • @Don-pk2uy
      @Don-pk2uy Před 4 lety +18

      @@aconfusedshoe6240 from what I have seen women are the cruel and heartless ones

    • @aconfusedshoe6240
      @aconfusedshoe6240 Před 4 lety +2

      Don Smith women and men can both be complete pieces of shit, they just do it differently

  • @osio7528
    @osio7528 Před 2 lety +1

    Soul of a woman was created below.

  • @tarunraheja6432
    @tarunraheja6432 Před 3 lety +2

    My girl tried to make me jealous, I didn't react at all, later she called me and got rude with me that I never loved her that's why I didn't get jealous, next day I confessed her that I really got jealous but didn't show u, now she is not stopping and keeping on continue to make me feel jealous, she knows my weakness now and it really feels sometimes that someone would steal her from me 😢

    • @whitepilledman
      @whitepilledman Před 2 lety

      kick her out

    • @KierMailan
      @KierMailan Před 2 lety

      This is a toxic dynamic. Leave. This is not "your girl" if she's intentionally making you jealous and she knows it. Beyond testing you maybe in the beginning but this is usually only in the initial first dates or introduction to social circles. This behavior was not okay. Don't pick a fight, don't be reactive. Communicate a boundary at most in a calm manner. Otherwise leave, especially if she calls u mad that ur not jealous, but then chooses to knowingly make it more jealous. Actually could be a sign of borderline personality disorder. This is not about dating as it is about avoiding a mental illness. Just my two cents. All the best brother.

  • @peterschiller2451
    @peterschiller2451 Před 3 lety +2

    Doesn’t matter. She sleeps with other guys and I sleep with other ladies.

  • @believinpop
    @believinpop Před 5 lety +6

    Thank you so much ❤

  • @HorseyPorsey
    @HorseyPorsey Před 4 lety

    This video helped me a lot. Thank you

  • @Cr381v3
    @Cr381v3 Před 2 lety +2

    What about if she knows that the guy's she sees is attracted of her? Shouldn't she care more about what i feel more than letting a shark like him circle around her, giving her attention, compliments etc?

    • @KierMailan
      @KierMailan Před 2 lety +1

      If she's knows the guys attracted to her and she still entertains him while being with you. Let her go. It's one thing, if it's a stranger once in awhile and maybe she's being friendly but not interested. It's another if it's a prolonged thing and she knows the guys into her. It means she wants the attention, she would choose attention over respect for you if she doesn't set a boundary at least at some point or choose to not talk to him at all. (Only exception if this is a coworker or something, but boundaries should still be set) This is assuming she's your gf, if it's just a girl you were dating. Not gf material anyways. Don't react, don't pick a fight, at most ask her to set a boundary in a calm manner. Otherwise the only option is to let her expose herself and choose to leave or stay. Abundance mindset.

  • @fishstickbio594
    @fishstickbio594 Před 2 lety +2

    U should be jealous of other men …..they are your competition ……

  • @NoName-zb1gm
    @NoName-zb1gm Před rokem

    Tell her enjoy herself. But if she's low value she might go after a guy who talks to her. You need to know what kind of woman she is. Don't be jealous just decide if you think she will stray and if so just let her go.

  • @AbhinavKumar-th7qs
    @AbhinavKumar-th7qs Před 3 lety +3

    Thanks brother after this video I am feeling better ☺😊

  • @jihan8089
    @jihan8089 Před 5 lety +2

    Changed my life mate thnq so much

  • @KurtisStryker2015
    @KurtisStryker2015 Před 6 lety +3

    Good job sir

  • @shardulrastogi4369
    @shardulrastogi4369 Před 5 lety +7

    U boost me up👌

  • @biker5719
    @biker5719 Před 4 lety +6

    See jealousy is a psychological alarm trigger evolved in a male mind to warn him about a woman who can be a possible trouble

    • @whitepilledman
      @whitepilledman Před 2 lety

      @@vantianhergheligiu12 Shut up woman, go make your man a sandwich

    • @carlospita6442
      @carlospita6442 Před 2 lety

      @@vantianhergheligiu12 good if you behave like a slut …. Face consequences

    • @carlospita6442
      @carlospita6442 Před 5 měsíci

      @@vantianhergheligiu12as he should

  • @joeygaey8569
    @joeygaey8569 Před 5 lety +3

    Hey men you're great,thanks I love ur speech.... Really appreciate it...

  • @mikesetzer9379
    @mikesetzer9379 Před 6 lety +22

    I'm dating a model who's also a stripper, she isnt sexual do to strip club hurting her mind for intimacy, no kissing. Sex is miserable crying all the time. It's been a year now. Idk anymore

    • @presmokan
      @presmokan Před 3 lety

      @Maximillian why would she be crying

    • @CosminPerisan
      @CosminPerisan Před 3 lety +1

      @@presmokan because she is ashemed of herself. Her psyche is damaged due to her past activities.

    • @abanfrancis6400
      @abanfrancis6400 Před 3 lety +3

      Leave her man she's got too much Babbage and she can't be saved.

    • @00mylovey00
      @00mylovey00 Před 3 lety +2

      She needs God to heal her emotionally, at least get her counseling. She's a hurt girl, 💔so sad. There's hope, hope is never lost. There is redemption

    • @abanfrancis6400
      @abanfrancis6400 Před 3 lety +1

      @@00mylovey00 there's no hope. She's finished. Women like that end up alone.

  • @michaelshollaj6428
    @michaelshollaj6428 Před rokem +4

    Honestly, if my girl talks with other guys, I will be jealous and I will say to her stop it, feelings grow when a girl spend too much talking with other guy, and she will spend more time with him than with me, I don't want that, I take it offensive that she spends more time with other dudes than me, can't accept it, relationship should have some boundaries, she is not single anymore, she have a partner now, if still wants to talk to other dudes, sure bye, farewell

  • @kirdomz6107
    @kirdomz6107 Před 3 lety

    thanks for the video,for how to deal with being jealous

  • @420kalicharan
    @420kalicharan Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks for your video... Really informative. What if women keeps on talking and talking to another men and very small to the person in relationship but also do not want to leave the relationship guy.

  • @abrarrr2103
    @abrarrr2103 Před 4 lety +4

    Thanks bro it really opened my eyes 😊 Its been two days since i talked to my gf. what should i do now?? Should i call her or just stay away for some more time??

    • @vanessagatwiri9425
      @vanessagatwiri9425 Před 4 lety

      Send her a text..nothing emotional, just thoughtful.

    • @sammysainz5
      @sammysainz5 Před 2 lety

      Send her somethin funny. It’s a little late but it should work

  • @hitmizan
    @hitmizan Před 5 lety +3

    What if this is your wife though and it's the same guy and they're kind of building a relationship every time they talk

    • @theheffalump5963
      @theheffalump5963 Před 5 lety +18

      I’d pull away and improve myself. Get a new hobby, start working out. She’ll notice you fading away and she’ll cling, otherwise you lost her a long time ago. It’s okay to love, just never let a woman know how much you do. Be willing to walk away no matter how strong the INITIAL connection was. She won’t remember it at all. It’d be better to leave with your head up high knowing you left an unfaithful woman than come home to her having an affair. Women will be themselves, maybe you’ve got a good one who’s lost her way, maybe she’s just shown her true colors. Either way, good luck. Just remember that as a man, you serve no one

    • @guadalupechavez6665
      @guadalupechavez6665 Před 4 lety +2

      Tell her it's not right. If she pushes you away. Then she's not for you

  • @calib3r403
    @calib3r403 Před 3 lety +5

    Me - Does give a shit about other guys
    She - Starts Talking to other guys
    Me - Ok she is being social
    Next week
    She - Babe, Im going out with my friend ( female)
    Me - Ok
    Later, She had sex with the other guy
    Me - Saw her pics with that guy sleeping together
    NOW IM AT THAT STAGE WHERE I CAN NOT TRUST ANY GIRL WITH HER MALE BESTFRIEND OR JUST FRIEND
    MY INSECURITIES ARE HIGH NOW
    ITS REALLY HARD FOR ME TO GET INTO NEW RELATIONSHIP

    • @DrJ-hx7wv
      @DrJ-hx7wv Před 3 lety +1

      So many of us have been there. You can't communicate that to a new girl without sounding weak.
      What are your options? Seclusion?

  • @ayantiwari983
    @ayantiwari983 Před 5 lety +6

    Thank you sir you are my motivation when I can't find a way

  • @carlos-rh9lq
    @carlos-rh9lq Před rokem

    I got a question, should I be worry about my girlfriend staring at some other guys ?

  • @mohammedchoomara2386
    @mohammedchoomara2386 Před 6 lety +9

    Yo guyss. My girl is always talking to several other guys and being flirty. What do I do

    • @rzqio9637
      @rzqio9637 Před 5 lety +5

      @@tommysinaloa6787 wtf burhhhh

    • @therealroyhobbs
      @therealroyhobbs Před 5 lety +4

      Tommy Sinaloa wuahahahaa, but seriously, talk to her about it. Let her know that she might be giving off the wrong signals to a guy. Just say it as a learning point for her, not out of jealousy or fear of losing on your part. Just let her know it great she feels comfortable in your relationship that she able to talk to other guys. She isn’t afraid of anything because she knows what she wants. Now, should she take advantage of your trust and start sleeping with other guys behind your back, yeah, do what Tommy says...

    • @Hav0ck23
      @Hav0ck23 Před 5 lety +1

      She is damaged....

    • @oobibab9572
      @oobibab9572 Před 5 lety +2

      Cheat then lol

    • @Dethred1
      @Dethred1 Před 5 lety +2

      Cheat on her.

  • @rishikoriginal
    @rishikoriginal Před 6 lety +3

    thanks bro!

  • @ngapogadi9726
    @ngapogadi9726 Před 6 lety +4

    I don't know what happen with me and my girlfriend..
    Sometimes , I'm just super freaky.I don't wanna doubt her but wanna secure our relationship but I don't even know if this securing step is really dropping our trust or building?
    Just recently, we were about to break up, which really2 passed me off

  • @markpack1111
    @markpack1111 Před rokem +1

    She's simply talking to your replacement....
    It's either an emotional affair or a back up plan. most "" will soon lead to sex:
    She can't help her self and will exchange numbers: .... as of now I've had dozens of women with husbands and boyfriend's wanting more than just conversation: they asked for my number or offer thairs...
    So when you get a bad feeling, follow up on it and disengage from your girlfriend /wife unit:
    Follow your gut feeling..it's always right...
    Next!!!!

  • @barflin
    @barflin Před 3 lety

    If she's constantly doing this and rubbing it in your face.....then Nope! Next!

  • @Stoic52_
    @Stoic52_ Před 4 lety +2

    Thanks ❤️

  • @Midnight_vocals
    @Midnight_vocals Před 3 lety

    Thanks it helps a bit

  • @tusharmishra4336
    @tusharmishra4336 Před 5 lety +5

    Yeah she choose me always but what about cheating with best friend or one night stand

  • @Darkshadow-ll8ge
    @Darkshadow-ll8ge Před 4 lety +2

    I've a small problem.. My women trying to make me jealous everyday and it's uncomfortable to me.. What should i do? I mean she is have a lot of guy friends.. Im not that jealous but everyday? That's hurt my feeling actually.. (Sorry, im not a good english speaker)

    • @lucarr404
      @lucarr404 Před 4 lety +2

      She's testing your confidence. You need to act like you dont care ... If she's flirting with other guys tell her you won't tolerate that shit.. Stand for yourself and walk Away!!! & mean it. Dont make a women the center of your life is she doesn't deserve it.

    • @abanfrancis6400
      @abanfrancis6400 Před 3 lety

      Leave her bro

    • @whitepilledman
      @whitepilledman Před 2 lety

      Leave her, not worth it

    • @darrellborland119
      @darrellborland119 Před 7 měsíci

      @@lucarr404 excellent reply; don't cast one's pearls at swine...a bit rough, but overt manipulative behavior is intolerable.

    • @carlospita6442
      @carlospita6442 Před 5 měsíci

      @@lucarr404 nah he needs to dump her

  • @Letstalk-zx7jx
    @Letstalk-zx7jx Před 3 lety

    There's just a problem I get jealous, but she isn't even my girlfriend......

  • @kwabena10as86
    @kwabena10as86 Před 2 lety

    I think I really need help, each time I call my girlfriend she’s always on another call or it’s busy, what should I do.

  • @YouTubeExplore777
    @YouTubeExplore777 Před 4 lety

    Yes because he keeps posting he's in a relationship with her with old pictures of him and her. They're friends only she said but he keeps thinking he's dating her.