Hair Update; 3 months after severe relaxer damage// I’m shedding a lot of hair and that’s fine..

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  • čas přidán 2. 06. 2024
  • For Context, this is the first video of me transitioning from natural to relaxed hair that failed;👇🏾
    Relaxer Fail/Damage… I Relaxed my 4C Natural Hair and it was a complete fail…EVERYTHING WENT WRONG.
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Komentáře • 47

  • @shanerobinson4892
    @shanerobinson4892 Před rokem +14

    Thank you for sharing your journey. Don't let this setback get you down. From what I noticed in the video, there are a few things that could help in the future: 1) NEVER detangle your hair when its dry. When you took out your braids and started to detangle your hair while it was dry, I could literally hear the hair breaking off. 2) Try and keep your hair moisturized when its in protective styles. 3) Try detangling and combing one section at a time and be gentle with your hair. 5) If you havent incorporated vitamins and herbs for hair growth and healthy hair you should definitely look into it.
    Best wishes on your hair journey.

    • @plangdes
      @plangdes  Před rokem +3

      Thank you so much for your kind words of encouragement and suggestions🙏🏾🥺
      I’m really grateful and sure taking your advice. Thank youuuu❤️

  • @simphiwekhumalo360
    @simphiwekhumalo360 Před rokem +13

    Can we take a moment to appreciate your beauty. You are gorgeous.
    Do not fret, your hair will grow out to be healthy again.

    • @plangdes
      @plangdes  Před rokem +2

      🥺🥹
      Omg you’re so kind🥺❤️ Thank you so much🙏🏾❤️❤️

  • @nachelle608
    @nachelle608 Před rokem +6

    Your shedding is normal for taking out braids. Our heads shed up to 100 stands a day.

    • @plangdes
      @plangdes  Před rokem +1

      Really? Thank you for this information!! At least I’ll not feel bad if there’s a little shedding here and there. Thank you❤️❤️

  • @Dandydiddy
    @Dandydiddy Před měsícem

    Great work

  • @sandraphongo5976
    @sandraphongo5976 Před rokem +7

    You have to moisturise your hair while on a protective stile

  • @gladystettehtv7390
    @gladystettehtv7390 Před 2 měsíci

    Hello dear, I've watched some of you videos and I applaud tou for sharing. I also in the comments how you have a learning spirit.A few tricks to consider, personally ill suggest you stop relaxing your hair because you have thin strands which are more fragile and it breaks too. I have thin strands but very thick and i stopped relaxing my hair. Even though i have long hair. Secondly most hair stylist do not handle our hair right when we go on for protective styles so insist of them not braiding you hair tight and no trims. Oil you hair a lot of the time even in braids. And keep going it will get better.

    • @plangdes
      @plangdes  Před měsícem

      I really appreciate your input🙏🏾 I needed this.
      Thank you for encouraging and advising me. I’m not relaxing my hair no more and I’ve resolved to no more tight braids especially with my edges. I’ll definitely take oiling my hair more seriously henceforth. Thank youuuu🙏🏾

  • @IreneIbrahim
    @IreneIbrahim Před rokem

    Go girl ❤

  • @shiek735
    @shiek735 Před rokem +2

    Try combing from the ends to the root & get a good trim. Take relaxer break too

    • @plangdes
      @plangdes  Před rokem

      Yh I’m trying that and it’s working just fine. Thank you❤️. About the relaxer break, after 5months the new growth is really thick and making handling my hair really difficult😭

  • @evangelinejohnson3439
    @evangelinejohnson3439 Před rokem +2

    Hi 👋 😊you have resilient hair that definitely can recover and thrive. These are a couple of tips that may help.
    1. Getting the protein/moisture balance correct when washing your hair. Seeing as you are losing hair when you comb, you may require a protein treatment when washing your hair. But it’s important to assess your hair at every wash day as you may need a moisturising treatment the next wash day or both protein and moisture treatments. But currently you need to strengthen your hair strands so I believe protein treatment is what you need. Be careful too much protein your hair becomes stiff and brittle, too much moisture then your hair can become mushy and limp.
    2. Be careful with products, if you use a product that’s too strong, or use it too often or not enough then you could end up damaging your hair further. With our hair it’s trial and error so you have to watch how your hair responds to products.
    3. When taking hair out of a protective hairstyle. Make sure you have PLENTY of slip so you don’t break your hair when detangling. So using a thick oil like olive oil or leave in conditioner BEFORE you take out your hair will mean your hair will be lubricated when your taking your hair out of a protective hairstyle and won’t break when you comb it.
    4. Be gentle with your hair, if you’re not in a good mood don’t do your hair because you may take it out on your hair.
    5. Deep conditioning every wash day with something moisturising even if you’re doing a protein treatment will help keep your hair moisturised. Also a hot oil treatment every wash day also, with a couple of oils, including coconut and olive oil focusing on the scalp and ends of hair and deep conditioner on the hair will help. It may lengthen the wash day process but your hair will thank you for it.
    6. Keep your hair wrapped in a silk scarf or silk pillow case or bonnet at night will make sure you don’t lose moisture. Also be careful about keeping your hair down frequently as you don’t want it to rub against fabric constantly
    7. No tight buns or hairstyles. Try to minimise the stress your hair goes through. Less manipulation better retention.
    8. Keep your hair moisturised always. When it’s in a protective hairstyle you can spray it with a conditioning oil Sheen spray to make sure it stays relatively ‘moisturised’. Don’t spray water on your relaxed hair.
    9. Healthy diet is great for hair. But if you can’t get nutrients in diet there are multivitamins that can help. Drink lots of water!! If you can get a blood test to see if you’re deficient in nutrients that can help greatly!
    10. Don’t stress. Stress can thin and break the hair
    God bless 😊 @Plangdes
    P.s if you want to transition your relaxed Hair or keep it soft at the roots. You need to deep condition it every 2 weeks with moisturising treatments and, use protein when you feel you need it. Not as often as every two weeks though

    • @plangdes
      @plangdes  Před rokem +1

      First of all I acknowledge and respect your time and your input🤲🏾🙏🏾
      For taking your time to point all of these, I’m very grateful🙏🏾 I’m definitely taking notes 📝 and I’ll try my very possible best to adhere to your advice. It’s for my own good and you really took out time to put me through. Thank you so much🙏🏾❤️❤️

    • @evangelinejohnson3439
      @evangelinejohnson3439 Před 11 měsíci

      @@plangdes ❤️❤️❤️

  • @sharronnyiko2055
    @sharronnyiko2055 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Your voice is sweet ey!❤😊

    • @plangdes
      @plangdes  Před 9 měsíci +1

      🤭
      Thank you🥰❤️

  • @marciagrant9976
    @marciagrant9976 Před rokem +2

    Maybe you should try protein treatment. It needs strength

  • @Jojodancer20100
    @Jojodancer20100 Před rokem

    My ends are struggling to survive also 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Just give it as much TLC as you can and it will grow out healthy again.
    Cheers. Will follow your journey

    • @plangdes
      @plangdes  Před rokem +1

      😂😭😂😭
      Thank you🤲🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️

    • @iamthereginatetteh1
      @iamthereginatetteh1 Před 5 měsíci

      You know....she's so funny in a cute way😅😅😅😅😅

  • @SadiyahMuhammad.
    @SadiyahMuhammad. Před rokem

    Please can you put out the product that was suggested. I am passing through this too😭.

    • @plangdes
      @plangdes  Před rokem

      alright maybe if you drop your Instagram handle or email then I can just send you screenshots of the suggestions I got

    • @SadiyahMuhammad.
      @SadiyahMuhammad. Před rokem

      @@plangdes thank youuu @_halymah

  • @milan8639
    @milan8639 Před 11 měsíci

    If you read my comment right now, please don’t ever try to relax your hair! 2 days ago I relaxed my hair based on the instruction, I bought the product from a good store in Germany, I even washed it before the specified minutes. But i lost almost my half hair badly, the hair around my front head is even fall down totally. Am really afraid to go outside my home. I had a good length and tick hair I was just wanted to make it easy for everyday style 😢 it leaves me with a depression and am scared even to meet people.

    • @diamondsparkle9967
      @diamondsparkle9967 Před 11 měsíci +1

      It's not about not ever relaxing your hair. It's about doing it properly. Let a professional do your hair.
      You probably left the relaxer on too long or got a super one,thus the hair shedding. It'll grow back.

    • @plangdes
      @plangdes  Před 9 měsíci

      So sorry about your experience Milan❤️
      It’ll grow back just fine and even better!. Sending you ❤️ and 💡 dear🫂❤️

  • @stephaniejean7628
    @stephaniejean7628 Před rokem

    Make your own organic oil at home your hair will grow
    With parsley aloe vera Rosemary and clove you could use coconut oil or extra virgin oil you could do oil treatment with it or all living oil
    This is what i use on my hair

    • @plangdes
      @plangdes  Před rokem +1

      Yh I made a hair oil that I recently started using but doesn’t contain everything you mentioned here. I’ll consider these ingredients that you brought to my attention. Thank you so much🙏🏾❤️

    • @stephaniejean7628
      @stephaniejean7628 Před rokem

      U welcome my pleasure

    • @diamondsparkle9967
      @diamondsparkle9967 Před 11 měsíci

      Jamaican castor oil and almond oil as well.

  • @kmj2000
    @kmj2000 Před rokem

    I would strongly suggest you don't relax again. I saw your initial video and just from the first few seconds I could tell that you have very fine hair strands. A relaxer will just eat through it. This is me speaking from experience. People with fine hair need to be gentle on their hair. On the positive side if you really feel like straightening, heat training your hair would probably work, just don't use high heat like 450f.

    • @plangdes
      @plangdes  Před rokem +1

      Not me reading this after I just relaxed it again🫢 but the good-news is that it didn’t turn out as horrible as the first time🤗 in my defence the new growth was too thick to manipulate🥺 but you should check out the latest video and probably give me my flowers for not have a horror story again🤗
      Also thank you so much for the tips on how to handle my hair with heat🙏🏾❤️

  • @valeriesignaturesalon

    Hi Queen,Vo5 is not a good quality product. You would be better off using Amla honey aloe vera n a small amount of cloves. Vo5 is .99 cent not a quality product or ingredients. Are you returning back to being natural Soon?

    • @plangdes
      @plangdes  Před rokem +1

      Thank you for your input🙏🏾 I didn’t get the Vo5 anymore but I’ll sure try using the recipe you recommended.
      About going back to natural, let’s see if this hair thrives or not. If the struggle is much and the hair doesn’t get better then I’m having a big chop but for now fingers crossed 🤞🏾

    • @valeriesignaturesalon
      @valeriesignaturesalon Před rokem

      @@plangdes you are welcome. Please remember relaxer a toxic. Relaxer
      disrupts your endocrine system. One must pay attention to the cycle of nature. Your holy ancestors are counting on you to honor them in truth n example

  • @CH-bi8tl
    @CH-bi8tl Před rokem

    Why are you relaxing again if you didn't like the relaxed look?

    • @plangdes
      @plangdes  Před rokem

      I’m not ready to cut my hair and the undergrowth is getting too thick to not relax.
      I’m relaxing again with the hope that it’ll look like or close enough to what I envisioned when I decided to go from natural to relaxed.

  • @marciagrant9976
    @marciagrant9976 Před rokem

    Cut off damage

    • @plangdes
      @plangdes  Před rokem +1

      Yeah gradually I’ll do that

    • @marciagrant9976
      @marciagrant9976 Před rokem

      @Plangdes please don't be scared, it will grow like weeds. Once you do it

  • @msladytmsladyt
    @msladytmsladyt Před 11 měsíci

    You will have dead hair after braids because you haven’t combed your hair in several weeks so maybe it’s not breaking but dead hair 😊

    • @plangdes
      @plangdes  Před 9 měsíci

      Wow. Didn’t know this…