What God Will Do After a Narcissistic Relationship. GET READY!
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- Perhaps you've finally broken free from the narcissist or at the very least, you're no longer a slave to their toxicity. But now what? In this video, we're breaking down what you can expect God to do in the months following a narcissistic relationship. It doesn't matter if it was a parent, partner, pastor, coworker or friend - join me for this life changing process.
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I believe God sent this video to me this evening for a reason. I have been in a narssistic relationship for 36 years just broke away from such abuse 🙏
@@BridgetBalandinos glad you left 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼. What kept you so long with that abuser? I always wonder how to know the right time to leave a narcissist partner or even a narcissist parent?
I can't get anything to download when I click on the download button on getting the survival guide. 😢🥹
Love you ❤so much
God CAN take it all away. First weeks after my husband left, I begged God “please, take this pain away! Make it as if I never knew him.” And you know what? He did. I literally felt as if I was a single girl who just happened upon my baby boy without a man, and it had always been just the two of us. The aching and constant replaying of memories vanished.
Don’t limit God to your understanding. Ask, and it will be given to you.
God can teach you a new mindset without you having to suffer.
What sweet advice from a miraculous testimony!
How long did that take, from the time you started your prayer until you were fully healed?
This is so beautiful ❤️
AMEN!!
A Fresh Joy Came That Was unExpected
Amen to this amazing testimony. What a prayer! Thanks for sharing. It's not easy though if you've spent decades with this person but I believe God can tailor each person's testimony as needed. Nothing impossible for God
44 years. Still in it. God transform and teach me. Renew my mind. Yes, break off root of bitterness and grief from years lost.
Oh. Sister! Mine was for 40 years. I had to lay my own Pride aside in making my husband look good in all our doubters eyes. I had to surrender him to God, and allow myself to accept that I Was NEVER enough to make that unhappy man content with our home, our children and the life we had built!! God allowed me to love this person and keep going day by day. But, it was God alone that also wrapped me in His loving embrace and trust that he would get me through! Our God never, ever fails! My 40 year Rollercoaster ride is no longer a cloud in my home!! The air is soooomuch Sweeter!! I'm praying for us all❤❤❤😊
Im 42 years in, and You both sound like hearing myself God Bless us all
@@brandiharrison642 mine did all he could to stop me serving GOD, crushed our children’s mind causing depression etc… I left, choosing GOD that a false-Christian good outside and a Wolf- porno-addicted at home for 3 decades of abuse. God’s timing is the best : better leave than killed bfr time! Some narcs are just silent killers.
Going on 13.
That’s encouraging @brandi
They NEVER change !! - Period !
Dont go back Period
The first sign u are in that toxic relationship for me I was mentally exhausted, sleep deprived, and looked awful. It was a back n forth thing I loved and hated him all in one
God showed me the toxic traits I had in my abusive-narcissistic marriage. Co-dependency emotionally, abandonment issues, always making excuses for my husband, setting boundaries and not sticking to them and also dealing with CPTSD. Always trying to prove, I am worthy to be loved. These are the things he revealed to me. I am currently in the healing phase of my walk and also getting away. Remember God can transform and heal. He wants us free in him.
Sis, this is me too!! I have a Christian codependency workbook I’ve been going through that’s extremely helpful! I pray for supernatural healing and strength in this season your in! God will redeem all your broken pieces into something more beautiful than before. Sending lots of love ❤
Same here I’m struggling this video is just on time where you get Christian co dependency handbook please 🙏 🔥💎
It’s the Christian Codependency Recovery Workbook by Stephanie Tucker. It is scriptural led and I’ve already learned so much from it!! Highly recommend 🙏💗
Wow I am in the same situation
I'm in the same situation minus the husband. Major worth issues, fear of abandonment, approval seeking, difficulty to make healthy relationships. I'm single, 46 yrs old; alone no family. I have that book by Stephanie Tucker; both it like a yr ago, but up until know I was emotionally too overwhelmed to make a start.
Im not sure how this is possible but a few hours ago, i literally walked out of my home, angrily. Yes I packed furiously and told her she's been manipulating since day 1 and here i am seeing this video as if God is saying, "I know uou you broke free" thank you Reece.
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@@shawnpullen9517 I'm going to be honest. I communicated with her to ask am I just going to be another statistic. Yet another ex who will be bad mouthed to the new one. Expressed that I don't have no feelings at all, that it meant something to me. The reply? Zero response. Discarded and moved on as If there was no 4 year relationship at all. I even invested my life into her kids and took care of them like they were my own, in the absence of their biological dad. None of that matters! Once you stand up for yourself, they're done with you. You are, as you always were to them. Nothing! And it hurts like crazy.
Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤ I did very similar in June of 2023. I gave almost all my passions away and put myself through culinary Arts school then was hired to be a head chef of a small restaurant in Alaska with the GM and owners help they paid for my entire move and on that day I left I called the sheriff for protection and loaded my 3 dogs and my 19 year old cat a few belongings into a uhaul and told him I was leaving without explanation and I was giving his brother a ride to home near Seattle if he wanted!!!! With that he sat on the couch fumming!!!! He just sat there squirming getting madder and madder. I am so grateful for God's protection, courage,strength he gave me and for the sheriff. We left and drove from Nevada to Seattle were his brother and I parted ways and I and my animals flew on to our destination!!! I am now experiencing renewal, more about me and working on boundaries and growing closer to God every moment. He used people to provide the way out and what I need to change!!!! After being laid off from the job that brought me out of that situation and then being laid off from another job and being moved to a cabin 20 min out of town with no vehicle God has me right were he wants me to work on me. I am surrendering to him! And wow! He is taking care of all my needs and showing me things about me that need changing! Even in putting me in a new job in a much better place and providing transportation when I need it! I am finally out of others influence and control and learning about myself and what I like and don't like and Glory to God! I celebrate your leaving and you journey and you!
2years ago I asked God how can I heal when I'm still in the same situation dealing with the same pains. Then he answered. It had nothing to do with my abuser. God dealt with my heart my mind my reasoning. He has grated me forgiveness and a peaceful heart. I'm not depressed when I seek God! Have no anxiety when I seek God.. I can truly find Joy in Christ. The one thing he didn't move was me out of the situation. Yet I'm grateful for how far he has brought me.
He would not take you out from any situation. YOU have to do your part. He helps you from the inside, mind, soul, heart.., but you have to do what should be done in your Life to make it better. Thats your free will and your responsability. He will empower to do so, be brave and good luck❤️
Thank you! My life has been full of these people and I am 76 yrs now! I own my parts and have repented for them and created better ways! I still have a son and I am creating boundaries now! Love your wonderful videos- ❤
thank you, I'm so glad :)
Good for you ! Very difficult thing to do.
I thought getting out would be the hardest part.. it's everything that comes after.. but everything I went through led me to God in my darkest hours, and I found just how deep His love is for me 🩷. It's been 4 months so far, and God is still faithful. I'm learning who I am, and He has given me joy and peace eventhough im still in the midst of the storm. I pray for you all my sisters and brothers in Christ ❤
Good for you , stay strong
Remember we don’t fight against flesh and blood ! But against the dark powers . People are not the true enemies. And Jesus is the best concealer . Reading and applying the Word by faith ! Praying , fasting and repenting by creating a new paths of thinking transforming your mind. God will show you how to see the situation and it will heal you - That’s the true therapy ❤
This was a great message. The revealing and dealing what i'm going through now. I know I tolerated too much than I should have. Thirteen years of a toxic marriage ended in divorce nine months ago. I am free from the trauma cycle, And now rediscovering who I really am in Christ. Knowing what I know now, God will not let me fail by making the same mistakes twice. My friendship circle is a lot smaller now, My prayer is for God to allow me to grow in new healthy relationships. Thank you so much for sharing your heart on this matter.
Thank YOU for sharing and watching!
I believe God is separating me from my partner.... I really have no more energy to give to the relationship.. but I have peace with the path I believe God is leading me to.
Needed this. Father hear my prayers. I’m losing hope. My husband is with you I still miss him even after all these years. These pass three years have been difficult. At times I feel so alone especially as a single mom. Since suffering a heart attack two years ago and my on going battle with lupus I’m overwhelmed. Both of my sons are autistic. I’m now homeschooling them so my hours to work are limited. BUT I TRUST YOU LORD! I keep faith even as I constantly struggle to provide for my kids and I constantly struggle to buy groceries. I receive hate for sharing my testimony. My testimony is one of faith. No matter what we are facing God will give us strength to over come. Thankfully I have you Lord! I know I’m not alone. Faith over fear!
Dear Child of God,
My prayers are with you!
I can't imagine what you're going through. My heart breaks for your situation and I cry with you. However, I also rejoice with you because you have kept the faith in the Lord Jesus! And you have inspired me with your story and encouraged me in my trials and troubles that I have faced and am facing, to stand strong with our Lord! So please continue the faith and the Lord and hang in there because your story has more power than defeat! And people who are sending hate mail or hate things shame on them! People, friends, family & members of the church should come around you and strengthen you to encourage you and help you especially as a single mom and it sounds like as a widow as well ❤️🩹! My prayers, hope and blessings to you sweet lady. I was a single mom once but I didn't have half the troubles and trials that you are facing today. I pray that God strengthens you and keeps you and your family blessed and safe as it sounds like He already is providing and what a beautiful relationship you have with God! The best gift you could ever give your children is teaching them of the Lord and most of the time it comes through our examples & how we respond to all kinds of situations in our lives. May God continue to keep you and your family well safe and provided for and prayers to those around you to come alongside you and be those helping hands, full of love and compassion, sharing Godly wisdom and being a helpful guiding light as well as pouring life into you and your family!❤ So thank you so much for sharing your story and having the bravery to do so!❤🙏🌹
Dear one, my heart and prayers go out to you for God to show you He is your mighty jehovah Jireh, the God who sees and provides. Also, I wanted to tell you about another mother with two autistic boys, Deborah McDermott, and how she learned the truth of Jesus stripes for our healing and her battle of faith to see them healed. Her boys are now totally normal, no autism with medical records to prove it, and you can search her name on CZcams and hear all about it.
1. God will reveal in mos following behind the veil what part you played.
2. God will deal with what He's revealed.
3. He will heal.
it sure can be when it's rules and not relationship. Sorry for the pain it's caused you@@robertdemeter5793
Yesterday was my birthday. And God exposed the man I've been in a live-in relationship with for the past 5 years (which never sat well with me as I know living in fornication is sin) has been having a relationship with another woman for 4 years by running into them in a cafe, while having a solo breakfast. I thank God for showing this to me even on my birthday. I have been given a new start. I haven't even shed a tear because the Holy Spirit has been putting it on ny heart for many years. Now I have proof, I feel validated. Thanking Jesus for setting me free today. Amen 🙏
Luke 2:12 For there is nothing covered that will not be revealed, nor hidden that will not be known.
Pray that i heal from my nightmare of my narcissistic ex-boyfriend and his own narcissistic family and his false friends who were just flying monkeys as well!
A year and a half after break up, my heart still feels heavy, sad and very lonely.
Wow Mary Ellen..a year and half? I pray that Jesus holds you tight..I have been praying that for my self because yes I understand a heart ripped and torn into shreds
Are you in the same location and in the same people groups as you were during the toxic relationship?
I’m so sorry. I feel your pain of complicated grief. It’s hard to overcome especially in a family member. I’m leaning into safe friends to recover. ❤ May God bless you.
I got rid of the narc after God gave me the strength and awareness to do so. I do not ever want her back or to see her again but I am angry at her and myself for allowing it to happen and letting her treat me the way she did for that season. this has been 7 months already and it's a daily thought.
at least year and a half more until you feel better
It was only because of persistent prayer and Gods grace I was able to discern and protect myself from Narcissistic abuse.,I agree that the covert was the most difficult to identify. Because they hide behind this false mask of kindness in order to tear others down, its a devious individual. The Lord taught me not to react to their smear tactics or abusive jabs. After learning self control in that area and keeping them at a safe distance they loose control and fortunately have no supply to drain. Thank God!
I grew up with a narcisistic father but I didn't know until last year. I had never heard about narcisism being a disorder. So I grew up pretty much broken, attracting the wrong men. But God has been setting me free and showing me who I am in the light of His word. So, I am healing. It's been three months since I broke up with my fiancé and it has been a difficult journey but I am understanding what I cannot take anymore.
I just asked GOD to show me and your video popped up. I have a narc dad and a narc X husband. Please pray for me and my young adult children.
2Timothy 3:1-5
" *This know also that in the last days perilous times shall come For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy* ,
*Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good* ,
*Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God*
>> *Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away* "
Yeah I had a fair share of suffering from the toxicity. But I'm owned it. And allowing for transformation. Right now I'm making stronger boundaries, I'm recovering from people pleasing and I'm confronting people when things are wrong. Thank you Yahweh for doing it for me a step at a time. I'm still on the journey.
Finally at 72 I finally said enough…. 23 yrs with husband, finally got away, but then the man that said he was a Christian 11 yrs n I was done again…. Then my sister came into my life n after years of off n on attacks. I finally let her go. I feel rather relieved n will keep the Lord in my heart n life. God bless you….
Toxic relationships will bring us closer to God if we allow Him to help us through the chaos they create. God will truly become your best friend and move mountains for you!
God started doing this (healing me in the ways you described and more) for me shortly after I cut off my Christian, but Very Toxic, if not outright narcissistic, parents. Over time and very recently I've come to realize my spouse is the same as they are. I keep praying for God to deliver me, to free me, from this relationship. I'm so scared I'll never get out
Thank you Jesus I’m free from two narcs my father who passed years ago and a husband I was married to I left and filed for divorce just have to finalize I take accountability for marrying a unbeliever never put anyone above God lesson learned.
I did the same thing. I married an unbeliever. Now, 35 years later I'm still stuck with him. I haven't given up. God can and will save him.
How sad that as God's children, we have to pay money to get support and counseling rather than knowing a member of the body of Christ who is willing and able to love and assist a brother or sister in crisis.
The Word says, "Carry one another's burdens and thus fulfil the law of Christ". Surely anyone with the Holy Spirit is good enough. I'm yet to find one 😞
Kris first of all you look radiant! Just gorgeous!! That pink on you and your hair color is really beautiful! 🙌💕 I couldn't agree more with your words here, I believe it's only when WE truly self reflect and accept OUR part in the toxic cycle that healing beings. God absolutely wants to bring wholeness, peace and true joy into our very broken & confusing past. Jesus Christ really can heal me everywhere I hurt!! As far as the narc goes, I pray he's YOURS God, I give YOU all the glory!! And then I pray that He continues to show ME if & where I am deceived. Thank you Kris for your excellent content. God bless you and your amazing team!! 🙌🕊️✝️
Thank you sis!
Spot on !
Im still in the middle of it but i ❤ Kris and your messages, thank you so much for my heart still hurts but am leaning into God
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Hi Kris. It’s 03h00 in South Africa. I have listened to your video. I found it very informative and very well presented. I am going to heed your advice and allow God to take control. Thank you 🙏
I love you❤ God's been using your videos to help me heal and identify what I have just came out of. 10 years of marriage is a long time to be lost. Thank you for sharing your story and creating this platform for us to learn and grow from!❤
I'm so glad you're here
@@Kris_Reece me too...
Without faith healing is impossible. God has helped me through anxiety and panic attacks during this healing process. Show up every day and do the work, you will start to see a change in yourself. God wants us to thrive and glorify him, he is your healing partner 🙏🏻
I trust the Lord with all my heart. That being said, we sometimes cannot see things, damaged places within ourselves, even when studying His word, and spending much time in prayer. It would be great to work with a God fearing, Biblical counselor specializing in the area of narcissism, it’s demonic source, and it’s subsequent abuse. Alas…not in the buffet for many former victims. But we can pray for healing, for wisdom and more for those in similar situations 🙏🏼🕊
Blessigns Ms. Reece 🙏🏼📖🕊💐
I've already experienced much healing over the last three years but and not only did I get healing from God from a toxic marriage but He also showed me areas where I need to be different moving forward. That's been the biggest help for me as time goes on. Choosing the right spouse is now something I can discern with more confidence and understanding the role as a man that I have is good. With all that now I don't want to find someone but I prefer to be single at least for now.
Amen. Thank you🙏🏼. Definitely owning my part and repenting for it. Also learning to identify these people and learning to instill and stick to my boundaries. Definitely a hard road to healing..but takes time...
It’s not only the husband/ father , but 3 adult children so affected . Sons both married so now their wives .
I am so exhausted. And a daughter 42 with delayed development still at home.
No one gets it ! I am now alone with God and that is the only safe place .
Oh my gosh. I once told someone I felt like the man I was seeing was trying to take me back to Egypt. Thank you Kris.
Im healing from many narcissistic abusers and other taumas. I decided on being alone. Ive noticed for several years I feel like Im having a life review and healing from the many many traumatic experiences. I was wondering why this was happening, like am I about to die or something. This video has made me realize that it is God helping me to heal from a lifetime of trauma and narcissistic abuse. Im 61. I wish I knew about this a long time ago. I am about 75%healed and very close to God. It can be done.
Keep hope
Lord ...are me whole again and restore my soul 🙏
It took me ten years to recover from a 24 years worth of Narcissist Abuse from my ex. Whew! What a ride. 😂
Now that I'm caring for a Narcissist niece who is also Schizophrenic/Bipolar, and dealing with her Narcissist father it is a daily struggle. Thank God He is with me!
I broke free. I've been silent throughout their outrageous fits. It's scary because you risk losing them, coupled with the fear of them actually changing for someone new. But God is more Sovereign.
Thank you! Amazing how God works. This is Confirmation from God of the steps and progress it takes to truly heal from such demonic trauma and bondage. May God continue to bless your ministry to reach those who need healing.
God is so good with revealing what is the root of the problem. It seems, whenever I think I know and processed this, he goes deeperwith his caring love. But for me, it becames clear, that God wants to say to me, stop living defeated and live in the vicorty of Jesus! Amen
Hello, Narcissist is to be find out also as Jezebel spirit,
You're a very beautiful woman Kris! Even more so today. I love your hair and that blouse is gorgeous! I love who you are on the inside even more, as well as your biblical teachings on how to navigate narcissistic abuse. I've learned so much from you and others like you. I've taken steps to break free and have done some healing, but not quite there yet. I hope soon I can take the final few steps to my freedom and heal to the point where I can help others like me. People pleasing and codependency is hard to break but I think I'm finally there. I finally see that it's what's been keeping me stuck and keeping me from fully living for the Lord. I haven't participated in the chats in your videos but I want you to know how grateful I am for your videos. May God bless you for blessing me! ♥️
Thank you so much for sharing. That really means a lot to me. I'm so glad you've been blessed by the content.
Your lighter blonde hair is so beautiful on you! Thank you for your ministry; it has helped me so much! I just had to kick my toxic brother and SIL out of my life (again).....I was always in trouble, they made no effort to come back together in love, just always attacking me. So weird and toxic and painful! My brother married a narcissist but doesn't realize it. It is like God says that bad company ruins good morals.....he has changed to be hyper critical just like his wife.
thats where ive been egypt living with a narcissist 16 years in bondage and 10 years praying and beleiving god to heal her no contact no communication and now im finally finding me again
I am struggling with bitterness, confusion, intrusive thoughts, sadness, and not knowing where to go from here. I have some bad thoughts and then I feel convicted and repent for them. Tried of all the downs and trying to stay in prayer, the word, but the intrusive thoughts are a true battle for me. I have distanced myself but have stuff that needs to be resolved before I can go totally no contact. I just keep praying for the Lord to clean my heart and mind and keep me on the narrow path for Jesus. God bless everyone and i pray for everyone's protection and peace.
Fantastic video! i'm not out of the narc relationship yet but this video gave me hope of what the other side looks like. keep my in prayer if you read this please
My daughter is everything you described of Guidelines of the Narcissistic behaviors. It’s hard to disconnect but it become necessary for me to recover from the abuse.
I was raised by a narcissistic father and toxic mother when I got married to the narc it’s cause what was familiar to me dysfunction and physical ,verbal abuse no parental relationship connection from any of my parents I was the scapegoat in their eyes.
Yes, yes, and more yes! The Lord is my Shepard. I shall not want.❤
I appreciate all your videos. You've helped me see reality for what it is. If you add it all up I've been in therapy probably 1/10th of my life, yet it never provided the real explanation or diagnosis of the situation. I'm sure it helped me regulate so I could keep going on though. I learned the phrase "this ends with me."
God has shown me that I've held my family of origin, and the concept of family, as a false idol seeking it and serving it before God, like seeking nurturing and validation from a venomous snake.
55 years old and I still feel like a child in so many ways. Some how God has blessed me with a wonderful husband and kids who are grown and very aware on their journey. We did a lot wrong but it doesn't look like we repeated my narc patterns thank God. We made new mistakes.
Unfortunately, or fortunately, I dont know, my kids helped me see and admit just how sick and toxic my family of origin is, and admitting this helped the process of being set free.
I was adopted into an extended family of narcs. I didn't find out I was adopted until I was in my 30s from my therapist. My mom, mild, my dad had other mental issues. I can see how he battled self doubt now. They were kind yet not emotionally available.
The rest of the family though, they seem to have hated me since birth.
The worst mistake my mom and dad made was turning a blind eye and allowing me to be the family sacrifice. Or maybe it wasn't a blind eye, I don't know.
All these years I couldn't figure out what I'd done wrong, what I could do to be loved and accepted.
And they modeled that family is everything.
I can see I'm a 55 year old child who gave away myself at every opportunity for a crumb. I didn't grow a proper sense of self and allowed and did all that that absense entails, no boundaries, no self respect, people pleasing like it was an Olympic sport, internalizing shame and guilt to the point I have been literally sick. I pray God heals my worn body as hes healing my mind,, heart and soul. Now I get to learn who I am. I am so grateful and amazed by God's grace, mercy and love. As I turn and look down the timeline of my past I can SEE where God has been with me every moment, protecting, calling, offering teaching, blessing, correcting and clearing the path ahead for me.
I'm so grateful that He allowed events and awareness to unfold and open in the order that He has because as I've been coming along on this journey Hes started at the beginning of who I am and has shown me over and over that what matters most, what is true beyond everything else, what I cannot have taken away is that I'm His, im a child of the One True King, the only king and that I now have that as the foundation of myself makes me cry with joy as I type this. And I'm not a crier.
For anyone who's in their darkest point the words "start there" just vibrated through my heart and body.
I hadn't seen as it was happening but thats where God allowed me to start the breaking away, and now no matter who I "lose" or block, no matter if I end up truly alone (husband is 15 years older and I'm no rocket scientist but none of us live in this form forever so I might end up alone), I will never be alone because I have that foundation for everything to come to be built on.
I'm fortunate that I get to really see things for what they are in the months and years ahead as I, the last surviving child, take care of my 89 year old mom and the last remaining snakes try to get her stuff before she's even gone. Fortunately she's still sharp mentally. Its been interesting as things have played out with a few family members my mom is beginning to see things for what they are.
My Dad passed a year ago. My mom has bern completely lost to grief this past year, understandably. I've seen her suffer so much, she asks why God won't just take her. The only thing I can reply with is she's not done yet. One time as she was crying that question out I blurted maybe he wants to heal more of you before you start the next life. I believe that's happening. Because of what's happened with one family member my moms therapist told us to go no contact, that the person is a malignant narcissist. So now my mom is beginning to watch these videos with me and learn about the narcissist experience. Its been really moving watching her have her own awareness experiences, listening to her talk about deep things she'd never shared before. For someone whod been numb to survive for so long I'm getting to feel and cherish all my feels like never before.
I pray for everyone out there on this journey, with much love to all.
Amen this is confirmation for what the Lord has been showing me hallelujah 🙌🏻
Thank you Kriss, been healing, both my husband and myself from continuing narcissistic abuse from our daughter. It's odd that it seems everything you speak about the Mom and Dad who are the Villans. We have two daughters, adopted. It took us years to understand WHY they weren't like us. The eldest was a challenge since birth, we had some calm years but the pain inflicted goes beyond what most people can even comprehend. Any teachings on the child having this "disorder'....whatever happens, they are always the victim. Been going on for over 5 years, we've given it to the Lord because he is the only one able to change a heart, but we feel after all these years he has removed us from the relationship.
We too have experienced the same scenario. It’s heartbreaking, confusing and feels counter-intuitive as a parent. The enemy constantly falsely accuses. It’s a lie. Making those difficult but healthy boundaries is the best for you and your child. It just doesn’t feel like it when we’re grieving the child we choose to love and the lost relationship that we hoped for. We are keeping our focus on God, He is healing us and all who surrender to Him. There comes a time of accountability when our children must choose for themselves. And only a miracle from the Holy Spirit can move their dial. My heart goes out to you. May we all keep looking up.
Because he took my baby boy who is suffering how can I move on? He used the courts, I’m sure God has a plan but the injustice is intolerable.
Pray pray pray
The Blood of Jesus will wipe out narcissism PERIOD. Lord I pray that You heal everyone who is suffering and needs You. Have Mercy on those who are in rebellion against You and save them. O God YOU are more powerful than any sin or evil behavior. Praise You forever.
Crazy because I’ve been praying the blood of Jesus over my ex whenever I think of him…
Why blood?
@@aunabreslingaming3279 Jesus washed our sins away with His blood he shed in the Cross. He poured out His Life for us. There is only forgiveness of sins through shedding of blood. Because life is in the blood. His Holy blood washes us clean in the Spirit.
@@simionenaclably9280 There is a Jesus and He loves you. Beyond anything you can fathom.
14 point years married to vulnerable covert narcissist, who was also a pastor, and I worked him to Bible school… he got really nasty and extremely toxic towards me even in front of our daughter. It was also creepy because he said he would identify with a demon and felt demonically oppressed and would watch videos on exorcisms.
Because the narcissist doesn’t ever give you closure and acts “friendly” and altruistic, even after everything, and that triggers a lot of resentment for me. (when Satan’s followers masquerade as righteous). I’m struggling with anger and resentment and trying to figure out how to forgive…. it’s hard because you know they’re holding onto a false reality and with how they view you and smear campaigned, and also when you feel there isn’t justice.
I was thinking yesterday, perhaps forgiveness is not taking ownership, or taking personally the abuse towards me because it says more about that person and has no judgment on me, so I can be detached and “free” of it. Just as Paul says to Corinthians, he doesn’t receive judgement from men.
(Whereas narcissist, take everything personally, and don’t forgive.)
and I don’t think forgiveness means being friends with someone or letting them back in. Second, Timothy 3:5 “ having a form of godliness, but denying it’s power. Have nothing to do with such people.”
It’s my opinion: agreed
~ I’ve always said the Holy Spirit…the Hope inside is a friend indeed for it always convict and reveal your Truth~
This was meant for me to hear. Glory to God!
3 marriages all narcissists Wow how I attracted them. Finally found out what they are ! I am now a child of God Amen
This video was so helpful and God sent Pastor Reece. Thanks for allowing God to use you 🙏🏾
Kris, after 40 years of abuse from a brother and a deceiver. Help make him a millionaire and allow him to be played by the rich and he played them too. Retail job not a career, just evil thinking he would change but never did. Sold out like I thought he would and left me out, no surprise! The people are very very sick. I could name 10 people everyone would know but what difference would it make none. Evil has no boundaries. Thank you Kris, you've had pain because you understand.
I have been separated for a year and I am fantastic. God has changed me. Her tactics feel like a child throwing toys at me. Annoying but not damaging.
Ok, you are now my fav channel! Finally am free of these roommates, bur know it takes time to heal. I have been through this before sadly.
Step 1 is not the same for those born into it vs those who chose... it really wasn't a child's weaknesses that got them into it-although they may have areas that need to be healed as a result.
That’s what I am doing this year for 6 or more months! I want my life and ministry and business and money back! I feel like my been on hold for 5 years around this engagement and ministry hopeful and long distance relationship!
They say we inherit more traits from our grandparents than our parents.
Seems this is true in my case - I'm sandwiched between an OCD narc mother and a narc daughter. Life is unbearable at times but I know God is faithful and "What is impossible with man is possible with God."
Thankyou KR you have actual enabled me to start erasing my self from a Narcist. 3 years now i lost my job. My spouse true collors are up. I need to take care of my 2 daughters she cares nothing about them
52 years ,still here, God is working. So glad for the hope!
Through your videos and other platforms and resources, God revealed to me that my marriage was toxic. After much prayer and consideration as of this week we are separated. I am continuing to pray for healing and hopefully one day, restoration, but it's so freeing to be able to put language to what I was experiencing and to have God lead me through the beginning of this healing process and of learning about boundaries. It's a hard road, but I'm so very grateful for Him and your ministry as well as others. Thank you. ❤
This message is so beautiful. Thank you so much
So true, my head spun for weeks. After a year I realised my mistake was doing what the person said and not what they actually wanted so I would never get anything right! I couldn't work out what I was to forgive them for : my failings? Yet God continues to heal me
Let Holy Spirit be your counselor ❤️
“ Healthy Biblical boundaries “. ❤ I love that . Thank You Jesus 🙏🏼🙌🏼
Thank you for all your wisdom and advice, your videos are helping so many people! Keep up the great work and God Bless! You have that Jesus glow!🙂🙏
Thank you SherriLynn 😃 You're always so encouraging.
Really great video, Kris thank you! He is restoring my soul and revealing the truth of who I am, thank you Yeshua hallelujah 🙏❤️🔥☦️🩸🐑🦁🦅🕊️⛲🍯🌹🤲🦢
Amem!
Wow. Crazy timing. Thank you. ❤
Thank you! This is very true. I’ve learned after these being revealed to me. A lot of time and introspection. I am finally ME again.
I'm thankful God reveals truth❤
🕊 and Hallelujah. I thank Almighty God for your service. Salute to you, Kris Reece. 🕊📖🙏🏿⚖️
My heart goes out to ALL of you. May God strengthen us and heal us from it all. 🙏💔
After 29 years, my husband had affairs and left me destitute, I cannot even think about anything other than how am I going to survive.
I’m so glad your channel popped up on my feed. I just started going through all this. I’m binge watching your videos.
My husband s estranged daughter visited at Christmas. She was verbally abusive and my medicine was short, I’m having tremors since someone used my nose spray.
I am confused why God let me be afflicted with tremors but I’m thankful He showed me this daughter is not stable. Claiming her bipolar disorder was cured years ago with intense therapy. I see differently. There’s a 4 year old adopted daughter in the mix. Hopefully we can be a loving protective relationship with this child.
you are a blessing. May God continue to bless you and keep you a blessing
Thank you Kris. I really needed to hear this today.
Amen Amen The Lord has shown me what to change within me
This is SO WELL-BALANCED!!!
Amen thank You Lord Jesus Christ hallelujah 🙌🏻 worthy is the lamb hallelujah 🙌🏻
Thanks as always Kris ❤
Yessss Sis🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 Very important!!!
Thank you very much. I appreciate your kind words and delivery. Well done.
This was so uplifting 🥰 Thank you!
I really appreciate the effort you put into these videos ❤ thank you 😊
Amen💜💜💜
This is exactly what is happening now. 💜
Just a month without my narcissistic mother and I am healing. She used all sort of black magic and proud to destroy my relationships.
Thank you kris great content love your ministry. Jesus blessed you 🙏 ❤
1:30 amen to that. Praise Jesus. I’m documenting my first 30 day journey of going no contact with my toxic abusive ex (npd bpd) and repenting and restoring your relationship with Christ and I literally just got got done uploading a video on this very topic and I was watching your video now to review to see if it fits to add to my end screen for my viewers (I link your videos a lot) and boom this video was exactly what I’m preaching on my channel and posting tomorrow. Wow God is good. Also thank you for posting great content filled with the word of God and led by the Holy Spirit. Christ is King. 🙏
Oh and I had to add to this now that I watched the whole video. I literally spoke on multiple scriptures you spoke on here in this video. God is so awesome.