Surprise pregnancy announcement goes wrong
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- čas přidán 7. 05. 2024
- A young couple finds out they're expecting, but one partner isn’t ready to be a parent. If you overheard this young couple in crisis, what would you do
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Do people really have such personal discussions in public loudly? If I heard it, I would immediately think I was on WWYD!! 😂
I am a yapper with no regard for societies eavesdropping. So. It's possible.
I would have said: SHUT YOUR FACE AND TAKE IT SOMEWHERE ELSE.
Sometimes... 😅
That’s because you watch the show, you can overhear conversations at restaurants and bars all the time isn’t that unique
@@lasserisvik6616sure you would 🙄
I felt like I was on WWYD the other day in the grocery store...I heard this woman say to two young girls (who both looked under 10) she was with. "No! You can not have that because you're both too fat as it is!" I said "What? Unreal!" And shook my head. As soon as I said it she took off down the next aisle and disappeared.
Sadly, no John Quinones in sight.😕
Sounds like you did the right thing though
@@callumcjham4478but doesnt count cuz she didnt appear on TV. Try next time
There is no way a mother said that!
@@katiem4539 there is a way. All parents, mother or father are not always nice.
There is a better way to discuss that. Because you do want your children to be healthy. But not by demeaning them.
I’d be looking around for John on this one. That’s an insane conversation to have in public.
Ya this way way too obvious
Maybe. Sometimes people discuss sensitive things in public in an effort to keep it from becoming an emotional screaming match
It supposed to be what would you do. Why engage people? I like when they let it happen to actually see what people would do. Engaging people is forcing a response.
Yeah I hate this new thing. I was thinking the same, it ruins the whole purpose and not to mention it screams "WWYD". On the previous video, a father asks a random dude "hey man would you sell drugs if you were in my shoes?". Just cringe worthy.
I feel like maybe they wait a bit, and if people don’t engage, then they start it? I dunno, I get wanting to make a TV show, but it ruins the authenticity a bit.
@@applefructose Yeah some topics are a little personal or weird. In that case wll they should revisit all ideas, community problems and things like where there is a chance people will intervene. I wouldn't intervene in this case either tbh.
I agree seems staged this way
@@kibme5189they always engaged with the public since the beginning of the show but it’s their constant flaw, never thought they will still do it
lol I would have moved tables too - way too sensitive
Me too. A lot of these new scenarios are ones that I wouldn't speak up. If someone is bullying/pressuring someone I would speak up, but this is just a personal conversation.
I would stay to eavesdrop, lol :-)
Especially now that you can get cancelled for either opinion in this
@@toridaub3475 Ikr they are running of out ideas, understandably so, and they still gotta entertain so...
I would barely even feel comfortable weighing in on this with friends, never mind strangers. It's not my place. It's such an individual thing.
I love how at 2:04 he literally says the show's title
😂
He said it! He said the thing!!!
john in the back like "never bring him back. cut the camera dead ass"
Other actors have said that too.
@@kevinpham15 "Let him sleep with the fishes!"
I love how this show relies on others being nosy 😂
Me and my wife were praying for her pregnancy but after we tried so many things for many years it didn't happen. Then we decided to adopt and now we're a Happy Family. We love our Daughter with all our life with all our hearts
i’m truly sorry you guys had issues conceiving. but i’m so happy for you that you have your daughter to bring you joy, and also thank you, for adopting.
@@kokipoki7 thank you 🥹🥹
Also had trouble for years now . I’m with a new partner and he’s willing to adopt with me so I look forward to that one day. Thank you for loving this girl you are lucky to have her ❤️
This comment jus made my mood: happy, happy, happy 🎶
I lost 2 babies..both late miscarriages..l had terrible issues with my periods... heavy and for 2 weeks at a time..pmt was a nightmare and gave me migraines..age 30 l at last saw a gynaecologist who diagnosed endometriosis.. l took medication for 6 months to stop my periods to see if they'd kick start 'normal ' .. they didn't... just the 😮 o. At work one day, l lost so much blood l passed out..l was admitted to hospital and after all the tests etc was told I'd need a full hysterectomy as the lining of my womb was dislodging..which could cause a haemorrhage so l was on bed rest for 2 months..then age 32 had a full hysterectomy..my partner wasn't prepared to consider adoption or fostering..he wanted..his own children..obviously we split up..l still love him to this day..but l couldn't give him what he wanted so l just had to let him go.. l concentrated on my career and looking after my mom.. I'd moved home after we lost my dad.. I'm a believer in fate, and if I'd had a partner and children, l wouldn't have been able to look after my wonderful mom when she was diagnosed with Alzheimers..l looked after her for 7 yrs..the last yr was the hardest as my sister had been diagnosed with ovarian cancer and she had a hysterectomy and chemo..so l looked after them both at the same time..my mom died in 2002 and my sister in 2004.. l am the oldest left in my family now..I'm 64..l am close with my sisters children..they still turn to me for advice even though they are grown..life throws you curveball...you just have to keep on going and believe the Lord knows best..🇬🇧💕✝️🙏👍👏👍
This was the most awkward episode of WWYD ever 💀 It felt so unnatural
who else has been in public with such a crazy discussion around you that you just start looking around for wwyd cameras 🤣
SAME 😭😭 (i live in the uk)
the lady casually sipping her coffee @ 7:04 😂😂😂
"But that's none of my business"
LMAOOO
The sign john is around, over hearing a dramatic convo and one leaves for the bathroom 😂😂😂
Yess I wanted them to switch roles!!!
"Hey, so you might be pregnant. I punched a hole in the condom. The thing is, I think you should keep it" would probably give a different reaction from "I lied about being on the pill, and I want you to support the child." Sad, but I'm certain that double standard exists.
Unlikely public scenario for people to involve themselves in without the actors prompting them.
THEN, when people DO start giving advice, John appears and cuts them off lol!
I hate when they force people to intervene.
Shoutout to that last lady saying she chose one way but wouldn’t shame anyone for going in the opposite direction the world needs more of this
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No it doesn’t
@@infiniteg7852 what would you prefer?
Ya props to her
@@blackshyguy2160saying “I will help you find resources to help you.” There is never a good reason to murder a child
My dad died before I was born and my mom was just a 23 years old young lady. Her friends suggested her to have an abortion and start her life over again, but she refuses to do that so here I am. THAK YOU MOMMY❤
When I was pregnant with my son the nurse recommended me to have an abortion. Glad I didn't. My son is wonderful. I had a stroke at 43 and he has supported me both financially and morally.
😭😭😭😭tell your mom I said thank you
Your mom did the right thing
Its funny cause the same people who told her she should keep the baby ARE THE SAME people who would say "most criminals come from single-mother households". They should make their minds up 😂❤
@@hermanbrachey7653 I don't think in modern society that we should shame single moms but that doesn't mean we shouldn't advocate traditional family.
That conversation, no matter how loud they’re discussing it, would be none of my business and I would NEVER dream of influencing someone to keep or terminate a pregnancy, that’s the couple’s decision to make together (if it’s a healthy relationship where they’re able to weigh their pros and cons together etc) and I would stay the hell out of it. In this circumstance that’s a big situation to drop on someone and I don’t think either of their reactions are inappropriate given the circumstance and shock of it all. None of my business, I’d move tables or just ignore them. If either party began to get aggressive I think maybe I’d notify a manager but I’d still not insert myself into such a serious situation.
Also, I know it’s a fake scenario lol but dropping a bomb like an unexpected pregnancy on your partner in a public (and enclosed) space is real fucked up lol have that conversation together in private please. We’re just trying to eat our spaghetti right now m’am, it’s not the time or place LOL
And who would bother strangers by asking them to weigh in on such a life-changing decision (life-changing if the baby isn’t aborted)?
Tbh this wouldve triggered me. I wouldve been annoyed at hearing this convo
How does something happening in another person's life trigger you??? Wth 🤣
nasally shrieks during an all too personal convo in public may do that to people@@muraismybby4617
@@muraismybby4617 because the topic of abortion is a sensitive subject & it can be triggering depending on someone's scenario. They could've been forced to have an abortion, forced to have the baby, or even shamed for getting pregnant
@LashayMW "forced to abort"? Only happens to pregnant minors and to those with unviable pregnancies! Sorry, take your false narratives elsewhere ❤
@@LashayMWpeople aren’t responsible for your triggers and are allowed to have public conversations. Especially when it doesn’t involve you and you’re eavesdropping. Just a suggestion but if it triggers you go somewhere else.
These actors are horrible. Stop hiring people just because they are attractive.
They're not attractive.
You define attractive in a very forgiving, and perhaps kind manner.
There's also more attractive actors/actresses on this show that are way better actors than this.
"It's her body. Her choice." That's a laugh. Seeing how women can't even get their tubes tied without a mans permission. My sister literally had cysts in her uterus and was bleeding every day for a year and they still asked "did you get your husbands permission?" What a fuckin' joke this world is.
What state are you in ? When my wife got her tubes tied, they didn't ask me anything has her husband. Im in Georgia and I have never heard of that unless it's different by state.
@@Hugo-Hernandez Indiana. I would figure Georgia being more lenient. It does happen, though.
Are we living in a hand maids tale....since when is a husbands authorization required??!! as a couple its something to talk about together, but getting permission....NO
Mm... I mean, in what county does your sister live? 😅
@@samvaldes2682 oh, it's a thing.
These newer episodes are not cutting it.
This is the only “what would you do” scenario where I would do nothing
Idk how you could stay silent 🤫 maybe it's because I know the consequences and sacrifice that my parents made when I was an unplanned child and that it can be a huge Waite on the child as much as the parents 🤔 😕 💔
@@kevin4gwen it’s no one’s decision other than the two people involved
When it comes to marriage and family, people REALLY need to think it through. I made the deeply personal decision to never marry or have kids shortly after graduating high school. I'll turn 40 in 2025 and I'm still proud of my decision. My little kitty is all I need 😇
I got pregnant unexpectedly. I was 23, he was 40. He wasn’t happy so he tried to pressure me into terminating. He’d call multiple times a day to ask if I had scheduled an appointment yet. He said if I don’t do it he’d hate me and the child until he dies and that he’d move away and there be no contact ever again. I felt torn and heartbroken knowing I’d lose either way. In the end I chose my baby and it was the only right choice to be made. That was 8 years ago now and I’ve stayed single ever since. Just me and my baby ❤
40?!
why are they screaming, wwyd is getting so fake its annoying lmao
I was thinking that too.
Those two women who said “it shouldn’t be all up to her but as a father you don’t have a choice” sad but so real
I thought they had it right at the beginning but when they kept going, it was like "no, you were so close." Obviously, it's absolutely heartbreaking if you want the kid and your partner doesn't. I don't really like the idea of abortion and it's never a decision I would choose for myself - but I will fiercely defend every individual's right to choose and I'll fully support the decision either way. It is really sad and the guy in that position has so much of my sympathy - until he starts thinking he has a right to women's bodies.
@@unapologeticallylizzyYet you think you have a right to a man's money to subsidize YOUR choice. Where is his freedom not to be a father? Sure, the abortion is her decision, but I see no reason why the man should be financially responsible for said decision.
@@unapologeticallylizzy What do you mean have a right to a woman's body? It is a two way relaitonship, it needs to be an agreement from both sides. Key word "relationship". If she was "r**ped" or something similar then your comment make sense. If you want "only women's choice" then father shouldn't pay child support at all if they don't want the child. It is like "damned if you do, damned if you don't" situation. I personally don't agree with abortion but since it is legal so I think a father should have the oppertunity to express before a chance for abortion whether he wants it or not and in which case determines if he pays child support or not. This would be more fair.
@@kibme5189 No, not at all. Pregnancy has no effect on a man's body. A woman will have dramatic changes to her body, her diet, her life, lots of potential health complications, plus the pain of childbirth - men have none of that. It's not their body. It's not their decision.
@@kibme5189 100% agree.
what would you do he asks him haha
My boyfriend shouldn't be able to force me to donate a kidney to someone I've never met, same should go for donating my body to a fetus and force me to give birth when I don't want to. It doesn't matter if the person who needs the kidney is his kid, or he needs it himself. He can have an opinion sure, he can have emotions about it, absolutely. But ultimately he should have exactly zero say whether I have a medical procedure of any kind.
Well, you do have your right to decide in many countries, so, enjoy. But if the person was in condition where they needs kidney because of you (like with child), situation would be much more controversial
@@user-js2oj2qi8h well it's not a child, it's a fetus, so it's not a person. But even if it was, no you still can't force someone to donate blood or a kidney or to undergo any medical procedure, even if it's your fault that person needs the kidney. Even if they stabbed the person in the kidney themselves, it's still their body and you can't force them.
@@user-js2oj2qi8h In cases where people drunk drive and badly hurt a stranger, we do not legally require them to donate organs if the victim needs one. So it should not be controversial, we already have legal precedent.
@@ThereAre4Lights it's only about word's definition. A newborn baby can hardly be considered a person as well, but we usually don't like an idea of killing them.
But anyway, I don't argue that it's still must be "potential donor"'s choice only. Legally. But moral pressure from society (and from the father, if you're talking about a kid) is understandable.
@@user-js2oj2qi8h none of it matters as to why the body/body part is needed, regardless of whether we're talking about a human life or not. Bodily autonomy is the most important respect we have for one another. Do you donate blood, plasma, tissue every month? Where is the line? You don't need both your kidneys, both your eyes, what if by accident you caused an injury in someone and they needed an organ? You may say that you'd decide to donate, but everyone has a limit of suffering they are willing to undergo for someone else. What if they needed a heart transplant and it was your fault they were in that situation, would you die for someone else? Or if an accident like this has already happened and you were forced to donate a kidney, now do you need to donate the other one? Our bodies are our own. You can have the opinion that someone *should* donate their organs or risk their life for another, and you may personally be willing, but it is wrong to force someone else to do so. You cannot play God and decide who trades their health for another. Whether it ranges from risking death for someone or simply donating blood which is mostly very low risk. It's their personal choice and they don't need to have a reason that you consider valid. Going through a medical procedure or condition of any kind is entirely up to the individual. If you care so much about babies, you should want them to grow up their entre lives having their decisions about their own bodies be respected and their right to choose what happens to it protected. If I was injured by someone, and I need an organ, and I go take that organ, that's stealing. Forced birth is stealing the use of women's bodies through force.
Honestly I feel like this new season of WWYD is way too unrealistic. No one just walks up to others and has personal conversations like this. The whole point of the show is seeing if people will intuitively speak up and now they are initiating it. I also feel like the acting is worse. Sorry, but I'll be watching the old episodes.
As a Man I think in this situation it is not a 50-50 choice because the girl will have to go through all the physical changes in her body that result from child birth and that can take a toll on her mental health as well. So it has to be 100% her call whether she wants the baby or not.
Ye but think of all the emotional pain a man has to go through watching his child die before it’s even born. As they say physical pain is temporary emotional pain can be permanent. If I had a gf and we were having a kid and I really wanted and I couldn’t have em cos my gf just didn’t want one I would genuinely seriously think about doing the same thing to myself as what would happen to my kid (hopefully you understand what I mean cos I don’t think CZcams would let me acc say it) yes the woman goes through a lot cos of it I’m not denying it but it’s impossible for a man to do it, he has no say in it when it is literally his kid and he has to go through all the mental pain just cos his gf/wife doesn’t want it
Remember that this Baby is the Man’s aswell. If the man wants to keep it THEN ABSOLUTELY THEY MUST KEEP IT.
In my opinion, I think if the girl don't want the baby but the man does then let the man take the responsibility of the child when the baby arrives in this world
@@blacksavage6255 agreed.
@@jackgodfrey.not how that works if a mother doesn’t want to have a baby she does not have to its her body not yours you dont go through the changes the pain so no she doesnot have to have the baby
Where this is concerned, it SHOULD be 100% the mother's decision. BUT, if the dad isn't down with having a baby, he should not be obligated to provide anything.
That is at least reasonable, although I am pro-life.
I’m a woman and I agree with you. No one should be forced to be a parent.
@Ceerads why would a couple who has consented sex be "forced" to become a parent when condoms exist and are cheap? Unless a rape occurred, it's possible to prevent pregnancy. Or not?
@YannTube Tbh my position as a pro-lifer is that both parents have a responsibility to the kid, so the woman should have the kid, and the guy should pay child support. But most pro-choicers agree with the latter but not the former. It's utterly deranged and hypocritical.
@@YannTube Contraceptives sometimes fail.
I love this show. I love hearing everyone’s different options and it’s beautiful in a way.
It's a decision between the two, however, at the end of the day, the mother is carrying and birthing the child. There are a lot of health risks and financial costs associated with giving birth, not to mention the 20+ years of dependency, which often the mothers do more childcare then the father, unfortunately. So, it is more like a 40/60 decision, but the mother has the final say on what happens to her body.
Was thinking the same 25-75 choice
But its not just her body. The child is a whole new body inside her body. I know that's not the main subject you were talking about, but I hate the whole "my body" phrasing, when there's a minimum of 3 bodies in this equation.
I’d take physical pain over the emotional pain every day. Losing a child when it could be avoided would push me over the limit. If the woman doesn’t wanna be in me and my kids life cos of financial reasons I’d look after it all on my own she doesn’t have to pay anything she can dump me but physical pain I understand it is hard for a woman but all my scars, all the kicks I’ve taken to the head in football, punches I’d take that any day over my current mental health problems plus this scenario. I’m struggling enough as it is but if I had a child I was starting to be happy with my life then my gf/wife says no I’m aborting there’s a high chance I’m having the same fate as my unborn child. I’m struggling enough as it is but that would push me over the limit
@@whateverwhatever4026 The foetus is not a body yet. It's a clump of cells. And no, there isn't three bodies. He is in no way connected to her body or the foetus. He's a separate being.
@@unapologeticallylizzy She needed him there for BOTH of them to create the "foetus". And no, it is it's own body, and that wasn't an argument. You are a clump of cells, Elizabeth.
As a child of young parents who had 2 unplanned pregnancy, I hate to see people taking this decision so lightly 😢😢😢
You should be asking yourself am I mentally and financially papared to give this child everything they will need if not please don't keep the child 😢😢😢
I hate how easily men can just say 'Having an abortion is a mistake', meanwhile ALL of the burden of carrying and childbirth falls on the woman. Men do not get to make that decision.
I believe she should consider his input, but the decision is 100% hers. He gets a 50% say when he can carry 50% of the pregnancy.
The thing is tho it’s impossible for a man to carry a baby. I just think it’s unfair on him. My mental health is bad as it is and then if I had a gf/wife who was pregnant and I was starting to feel happy again cos I’d be a dad then she turns around and says I don’t want it and I have to watch my unborn child die that would push me over the limit genuinely. I really would be debating whether I should have the same fate. Ppl seem to forget physical pain can be temporary (most the time) emotional pain can be permanent (most the time) and trust me I’ve had a lot of both and I would rather take all my scars again and my serious injuries again over any of my mental health problems. Kicked in the face playing football had a black eye and really bad nose bleeds dizzy tired everything or literally crying at work cos I feel I’m not good enough walking around wishing bad things just to get home drinking playing games thinking I’m worthless or a disappointment plus this scenario I’d take that kick everyday the pain from the kick lasted a day my black eye 2 or 3 weeks and dizziness 1 week. This emotional pain has been going on for 2 yrs now
@@Nathan-W It. Doesn't. Matter. Obviously it's going to hurt if you don't agree with her decision but it is still *her* decision. It's not your body. Pregnancy is a big deal. It's not just the pain of childbirth, there is so much more to it than that. It's not an easy decision for her to make either way but it is absolutely her decision to make. You're entitled to feel sad about it, of course, but you do NOT get any say in or control over someone else's body.
Also, if it's still in the stage where she can get an abortion, it's not a child yet. It's a clump of cells that has the *potential* to become a child.
@@unapologeticallylizzy oh ye I’ll just get pregnant myself oh wait I can’t. Look the only thing I care about in the world rn is football it makes me happy even when I’m annoyed at it. Without it I might not even be here. I’m a goalkeeper you might not know what that is but anyway I had to dive down low I got kicked in the head worst feeling I’ve felt it’s happened a lot but that was the worse I had to go to the doctors they told me I had a chance of not being allowed to play it again which that was bad as it is. You know what the last thing I was thinking about? How much it acc hurt physically. The first thing I thought was emotionally. Now if I can’t play the one thing that comforts me then I find out I’m having a kid that’s getting aborted so you know how I would feel? Probably a lot worse than the woman. I’m not tryna be sexist I’d congratulate any woman who had a baby cos it duckling incredible but if I had a kid that was getting aborted when I really wanted it am I just meant to be happy. Again you probs won’t understand but it’s like the PGMOL (football organisation) saying “I’m sorry we made this horrible decision that cost you the league but just remember we’re sorry” it’s like that but replace it with a baby. It’s not just something an emotional guy can get over. I’m sorry if I’m offending you or any woman but that’s just how I feel and I can’t help that and it just upsets me even thinking about this and I can’t simply get over it. I can bottle it up and put on a front pretending I’m alright but deep down like a lot of things those feelings are still there and they’ll just get worse
@@Nathan-W "You might not know what that is"
Dude, yes, you are being sexist. Not only are you mansplaining football to me and being condescending, you're thinking you have a say in controlling what a woman does with her body. Obviously you can't get pregnant as a cis man - but that does mean you don't get a say. If you want to have a kid yourself, that's great - find somebody who wants to have one too. Don't force somebody into having kids who doesn't want them. It doesn't matter that you don't get a baby, it's still not your decision. Also, if you're having sex with somebody, you have to be aware of all the possible consequences. If you don't want to get somebody pregnant who might get an abortion, don't have sex with someone unless you know they want children. If you decide to have sex not knowing if someone wants a kid, that's one of the potential consequences. You have control. THAT is the decision you're making.
@unapologeticallylizzy well men should have to right to opt out of child support. You want the baby okay I don't want to pay, I shouldn't be forced to pay.
The father has every right to voice their opinions, nevertheless in the end, the mother is the one who is going to use their body for 9 months to carry the baby so she gets the final say.
And HE should get the final say on whether HIS money will subsidize her choice or not.
God set forth rules and our body is not our own
@@adityaronanki4682exactly!!!!!
That’s fine. But woman in this case where the man doesn’t want it should be made to sign a legal document that they can never seek child support from the father and will legally never be able to claim any if the father didn’t want it.
Many woman trap men on purpose and lie about pills and contraception. Men need more protection.
Children Are A Blessing ❤😂
But why speaking about that in public place anyway????
Yeah, that is a very private conversation.
FINALLY A 10 MINUTE VIDEO, THANK YOU WWYD!!
Generally speaking, I would say it is the woman's choice, however, when this issue affected my own life, I reacted quite differently.
I was very pleased when my then wife announced that she was pregnant. But that she wanted an abortion, her reason was because she didn't want to go through giving birth. I can understand that, as giving birth is not easy. But I still selfishly wanted the child.
I knew that she would be very likely to have the abortion, as she had previously had three with other partners. Her doctor had even said to her, "abortion is not a form of contraception."
Her response had been to laugh at the doctor, as she totally saw it as a form of contraception.
So I talked to her and tried my hardest to try to persuade her to keep the baby. She eventually compromised, and said that she would have the baby, but only if she could have it by C-section.
There was no medical reason for this, so I proceeded to lie to medical professionals about her needing a C-section. Eventually I said to a doctor at the hospital, that it had been agreed upon previously, that she could have a C-section. He said that the paperwork said otherwise, but I convinced him enough that he changed the record to say that she needed a C-section.
Eventually, my daughter was born by C-section. She is 35 years old now.
So I guess what I did makes me a hypocrite. Yet for me personally, that is a price worth paying, to have my daughter in my life.
finally an old-fashioned wwyd
It’s still a VERY hot topic today lol but yes we need more “old fashion” videos
"It" is a baby. Nobody has a right to murder a baby
Watching right away!
It's not as simple as popping the baby out and handing it to him. She'd be signing up for potential long term health ramifications, like losing her hair, losing teeth, pelvic organ prolapse, diabetes, intense scaring, and possible postpartum depression. That's not a decision to take lightly or be pressured into.
True 💯
Also there could be lasting heath affects that makes it not easy to just simply give up the child if your not ready, like your body not functioning properly or really any heath concerns even if it’s not too serious it still can cause issues down the line… just a thought
That's not true. It's actually rare to lose your teeth when you're pregnant. Yes, you may lose your hair and also, organ prolapse is rare as well and diabetes too. So, why are you scaring people with that misinformation? Just because some people have experienced that doesn't mean it would happen to ALL people who are pregnant or trying to get pregnant. That's like telling me that when I do get pregnant, because I have a VP shunt due to hydrocephalus that my baby will develop hydrocephalus in utero, which isn't how it works. If I knew all the risks and scary situations that COULD happen but are rare, I wouldn't want to get pregnant either but the majority of cases are not like that. Stop scaring people with misinformation.
Well, there is some risk of having this rare conditions. And person in such situation deserves compassion. But, I mean, what the alternatives she has 😅
@@Supersoccerchic 45% of women experience a traumatic childbirth, with about 5% actively having PTSD. 1 in 3 women get lasting physical issues of some kind after childbirth.
Even if you get lucky and experience none of this, the 10 months of pregnancy and giving birth are tantamount to body-horror for someone that does not want the baby.
@@Supersoccerchic 1 out of 3 women experience long term health problems after pregnancy. That's not misinformation, just the facts. Of course the most common issues are not life threatening, but things that just negatively effect quality of life like incontinence, back pain, and pain during sex.
John Quiñones have such awkwards commands 😂😂
If they're adults: I mind my own business.
if you have sex, there will always be a probability to get pregnant. If you don't want a baby, don't have sex. Why are people so difficult to grasp something this basic?
What about the people who are forced to have sex? What are you going to say to those people? It’s not as simple as just saying don’t have sex because that’s not how the real world works
@@Brendi_Wilson2 I'm not talking about the one who got forced, the video above clearly shows a couple who had sex with consent. If someone is raped and got pregnant, of course they have the right for abortion. What I was talking about is how messed up our society is. People only care about their own pleasure, running away from responsibilities, and that's selfish.
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❤ I was actually unintended. But so happy w m mom & my grandmother. We celebrated my grandmother’s birthday recently. After my bath me still unclothed I actually wrapped myself in a pink-and-white quilt that my grandmother made for me when I was a baby. I went to sit down on the kitchen floor since only my mom, grandmother, my aunt, and my mom’s friends were in the kitchen. Sorry I’m weird it’s my very humble way of showing appreciation for her always having taken care of me. Sorry for the book ❤️🥶
Also, I was a good sport when I was sitting down on the kitchen floor I told myself to stop being a baby and I removed my quilt and handed it to my grandmother who was sitting in a chair so she could talk about the different fabrics she used to make the quilt and her memories ❤️❤️❤️
Looks like the actress's voice still remains based on her acting in WWYD segment about the fake grab driver 🤣🤣🤣
FINALLY! I have been waiting for this topic!!! 🔥🔥🔥
If I am pregnant I will not abort the baby for any reasons
Good for you
Way too loud, way too obvious, way too uncomfy
It's her body and it's a baby. Nobody should murder a baby.
In my opinion, if you can't deal with the consequences of your actions, don't act! Part of growing up
Adoption is better then abortion. I feel so bad for the woman that are molested raped they get pregnant. 😢I disagree with abortion but I have empathy for the person, but I feel for the baby to.
We should respect life at all stages of development❤
As a woman who has had an abortion because my boyfriend didn't want children. In 1986 I had an abortion and it broke me emotionally. Please don't have an abortion if you get pregnant. I'm 64 years of age now and I still cry for my child every day. I was 26 at the time.
🥺🥺❤️ I'm so sorry. I understand. Sending love
I see why you cry because that was something serious you did
What would you do!! Seriously? 2 mins late?? Lol
I think before making any decisions you should have at given it alot if thought and not make any rash choices you may well live to regret
I want to watch full episodes.... where can I watch them ? ...as I m not from America I can't watch them on abc platform
Hulu
@@jdm9251 Hulu don't exist outside of the USA and Japan.
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i mean there should be more context about if she took birth control or she just decided to stop without telling bc thar changes alot but i think they both should be able to leave the situiation
If you do the deed, you pay the price. It's called being responsible.
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If a man doesn’t want a baby then why would he plant his seed in her garden🤔
I disagree with abortion but when it comes to this I agree, why the hell would he get her pregnant only to throw a fit? Bro forgot to use his brain.
Y'all are too forceful nowadays.
ikr..Directly asking people...
They are breaking the scenarios too soon now!
LOVE IT❤
Lmao the people moving their glasses around the place to take in the information 😂
Abortion is not a decision I would ever make for myself, but I am VERY strongly behind each individual's right to choose. It's a big thing. There are so many kids in this world with shitty parents. With friends, I am admittedly biased towards keeping the baby but you've got to consider money, all sorts - so if a friend were on the fence, I would encourage them to consider both sides very carefully and whatever they chose, they would have my full support.
Yet you don't support men's choice to become a father or not. Funny how that works, eh?
July 5th, 2024, I have a date with a Vasectomy 🤩
Don't do it you'll regret it later trust me!!
@@sumasurm9638how do you know he will regret it? You have a lot of audacity to think that you know someone’s situation better than they do.
@@sumasurm9638 you can literally reverse it lmao. HIS BODY HIS CHOICE.
@@firebenderkitty313 wth is wrong with you I just gave my opinion and it was for him not for you so if he replies it'll be better
@@j0ellyfish nope it ain't reversible 100% the chances of reversal are 0.001 %
0:35 it's definitely not 50/50. Both the woman and the man should discuss options but at the end of the day it's always the person birthing the baby who should be the decider, since they have to put their bodies through the super risky process of pregnancy that can damage someone seriously physically and mentally.
Yep!
Then why have s3x willingly unprotected?
looks like that 16 year old run away actress named Pauline or something, she looks 30 something now
oh shet. you're right.
More info please?
@@Davez621 They once did a segment years ago in which a creep (played by the great Jeremy) tried to pick up a runaway
No it’s not
@@MeditationWithAyla it or she?
I think I’d just leave it alone, but if it was my friend I’d go off of if they’re saying “I don’t know” or “I can’t because…”. If it’s “I don’t know” I may lean on keeping the baby, but if it’s “I can’t because…” I’d suggest an abortion. I personally don’t like abortions, but I also really don’t like controlling other people’s autonomy especially when I safeguard my own. So it’s really REALLY circumstantial.
If it is a baby how could you kill it without being a murder are you actually willing to stoop to murder?
@phillipmeyer4059 In early pregnancy, the fetus 1) has no consciousness, 2) cannot be separated from the mother without killing it, and 3) relies completely on the mother for survival. It's more similar to a limb than a baby, so not murder.
@@leguminous7564 They call it a baby in the video over and over again, almost anyone with any scientific sense deep down knows it is a human it has it's own DNA
It makes it so obvious when they move over to the table
I really missed this show, but I wish y’all would do realistic scenarios like you use to. A lot of these super loud conversations are unrealistic. Especially when they go out their way to directly involve other people.
The people who say it is 50/50 decision and that the father should have a 50% decision, the father doesn't have 50% of the work in bringing the child into the world. The father doesn't risk their life to bring the child into the world. The father won't have side effects like losing teeth, changes to hair texture and strength, bladder problems, diabetes, etc. The father won't have significant blood volume changes leaving them at increased risk for stroke and heart attack. Hypertension in pregnancy makes you more likely to develop hypertension after pregnancy. I could keep going, pregnancy has so many risks and long-term side effects that most women just brush under the rug and ignore.
People act like pregnancy is just this natural thing that is no big deal. It is natural, but it is a huge deal. It has immediate effects on a woman's physical and mental health. The father does not have to deal with any of that. They don't have 50% of the risk, they have 0% risk for "bringing" the child into the world.
Asking someone to take on pregnancy which can be insanely risky and forever change that person's physical and mental well-being is a HUGE, HUGE ask and not something you should ever expect anyone to do.
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The NERVE of people to be like "Yeah, you're changing your body dramatically, putting yourself through unimaginable pain, growing a human inside you and introducing a lot of health risks as well as having to completely change your diet for nine months but that's one of the hundreds of million sperm I produce every day soooo 50/50, right?"
So entitled.
@@unapologeticallylizzy speak your truth👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
No one should have a choice to abort
yeah well the baby wont have any of that either i guess.
The acting is too over the top. And it seems unrealistic cause who would be having this convo in public so loudly..
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These actors are far better than in the other WWYD sketches, until the actor actually asked people "What would you do?" Before John Quinones came out 🤦♂️😂😂
I love it everytime that i see that its John with the camera crew.
8:28 She is wrong
Children are only blessings if you actually, genuinely want them. Other than that, they are burdens 🤷🏽♀️ iswis
Im proud of that first lady with the pink shirt she did the right thing
feel so bad for him after all this years she still doesn't know his true beliefs 😔
Who said she - I’m assuming you meant the last couple - didn’t know his beliefs? She disagreed with his beliefs, that’s all. You’re assuming a lot without evidence.
'It's her body, the dads don't get a choice', that one got to me!
It’s disgusting how people say that about the dads
And they're the first to complain when men don't step up as fathers.
Women bang on about equal rights, but where are men's equal rights over their children? It goes both ways. You want better pay for working the same job as a man, he needs to have better rights in what happens with his children, whether it's born yet or not
Exactly, so sick of that my body my choice crap if it wasn't for men babies wouldn't exist and any women who have that mindset just know that babies don't just automatically pop up inside you. If you don't want the baby but the man does then give him the full responsibility to take care of it
@@blacksavage6255 Well said!!
@@maddieleigh6550 So wrong!
Out of ideas lol. And this is the peak
You don't have to be a mother. But adoption is a thing, and ideally this is something you've considered before getting to that point....
I think if fathers didn’t have the legal responsibility to pay for the child after then it would 100% be her body her choice but there’s 18 years of commitment for the father too
I think the father should unless the condom broke, which is something this SHOW will never say . Sickening , they talk about my body my choice but never about condoms which is the first thing that protects a woman form getting pregnant. So yeah John Quinones , no condom no entry .
makes sense...its expensive so he should also get a stake
I disagree.
A man should be responsible for his own reproduction.
If he doesn’t take the necessary steps to protect himself then he is at the mercy of the woman’s choice.
Her body, her decision.
It’s not as though men don’t understand how breeding works.
@@user-np2dp8ck4j And in non-rape cases a woman knows how breeding works too. She too can take birth control, have an IUD, etc. The safe sex responsibility goes both ways. Condoms break.
If the father doesn't have responsibility to pay for the child, then who should? The tax payers?
Everyone has a story!!! ❤❤❤
Very true
Even the boy could be having a story of how he dreams to keep his babies. It should be 50/50
@@Kenyan_LadyIt should be 50/50 with the man’s input but the woman has the last say so and decision it’s her body,and pregnancy leaves long term effects,so if she says she doesn’t want it then she doesn’t.
@@onnaorwhateva3948 what do you mean last say? Thats not 50/50. If you are worried about long term effects then don't get pregnant!
@@Kenyan_Lady He gets input but she has the final decision on whether she wants to keep the child and while your saying don’t get pregnant if people are worried about long term effects guess what…people still get pregnant due to condoms breaking anything could’ve happened for them to accidentally get her pregnant even if she was on birth control,you can’t just say don’t get pregnant when accidents happen.Once again her body her choice she has the final say.
This show always gives me genuine vibes and smiles I love this show and seeing compassionate decent people give regular life advice to help others it's such a heartwarming feeling ❤❤❤️🤙
I think at the end of the day it is up to the mother because we carry the child for nine months it can have lasting damage if you don’t want to have a child
😬 I feel bad for the last lady.. sounds like that man doesn’t truly know her her beliefs even after spending all these years with her .. he got so upset 😭 !
Humans can disagree, I feel so bad for him after all this years she still doesn't know his true beliefs 😔
@@angelodit9598 Honestly , it really does go both ways . I guess since he met her once her daughter was 15, they might have never talked about having kids or their stance on this specific topic. Sucks that their interaction had to be televised for everyone to see, but it’s and eye opener on what type of conversations are to be had with a partner .
@@candykizz3z68 that's true and i agree with ,that how you wrote it made it seem you think that the man Is wrong for his beliefs, because it contradicts his wife
@@angelodit9598 I definitely worded it wrongly . Both parties were in shock of each other’s answers for sure . I think the lady just stood out to me more , because of how upset he got at her 🥹 I was like “damn, that’s a rough ride home” .
It didn't seem like she didn't know. When he was telling his story of his regret, she even said 'yeah'. So she already knows.
*WHAT WOULD YOU DO IDEA*
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Even if the mom decides to give the baby for adoption or something like that, the fact is the woman is giving birth, carrying a fetus for 9 months. Her life will never be the same. It is, her choice only. He can give his 2 cents but her body is the only body that will be affected.
First two guys were handsome tho.
I think it is unfair on the father ngl. It is the woman’s body but it’s the man’s child and we go on about men’s mental health right? How do you think he’d feel if he was forced to get rid of his child if the woman simply just says she doesn’t want it? It should be if one parent wants it the child can’t be aborted
Men's mental health is important, but it doesn't give them a say over women's bodies.
@@unapologeticallylizzy imo every1 talks about equality until it fits their agenda I’m sorry but that’s just my opinion this goes for every gender and even when it comes to race or anything like that
@@unapologeticallylizzy Yet you feel entitled to men's earnings to subsidize YOUR choices, ironic.
@@adityaronanki4682 No I don't 😂I have a job. What year do you think we're living in?
@@unapologeticallylizzyThat's not her body, she didn't create it though
It’s refreshing to see the woman at the end talking about the importance of respecting others’ decisions. I’m so used to seeing people tearing each other to shreds in the comments over the pro-choice/pro-life debate. It’s nice to see civil discourse happen in real life.
I can't handle this. I would have been triggered so bad. It would have gotten extremely emotional. I can't even watch the video
Same, maybe not for the same reason as you, but this was painful 😢 💔
As a child of young parents who had 2 unplanned pregnancy, I hate to see people taking this decision so lightly 😢😢😢
You should be asking yourself am I mentally and financially papared to give this child everything they will need if not please don't keep the child 😢😢😢
Why
6:28 I agree with that woman