How the Dream Died - Mugambi Nthiga

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  • čas přidán 30. 09. 2020
  • We plan our lives and challenge ourselves to do great things. To excel at what we love. However, what happens when our best-laid plans go up in smoke? What do you do when the unexpected happens and your entire world is flipped upside down? At Engage 31, acclaimed thespian and advertising executive, Mugambi Nthiga shares how life can truly throw curveballs at you smack in the middle of New York City and kill that dream.
    Engage provides a platform for ordinary and extraordinary people to Inform. Inspire. Influence.

Komentáře • 117

  • @linfordmuliro5504
    @linfordmuliro5504 Před 3 lety +46

    So relatable. My best line was how you recognized how institutionalized we become after making a career. And the entitlement that comes with Education . Great speak 💥💥💥💥

  • @HapaSawa
    @HapaSawa Před 3 lety +45

    This: once you let go of the expectation of how things ought to be you become delightfully inundated by something else. Not the thing that you thought you wanted but the thing you actually need.

  • @joysandramongare9129
    @joysandramongare9129 Před 3 lety +19

    I wish there was a bigger like button

  • @wanjikugaitho5262
    @wanjikugaitho5262 Před 3 lety +9

    I am just in my first steps of coming out of my comfort zone. I am one creative person who has wasted over 7years wallowing in self pity, frustrations and regrets. Thank you Nthiga for this

  • @hellenayugi5054
    @hellenayugi5054 Před 3 lety +10

    Dealing with the toxic environment in these agency streets is the worst, I'm so tired, too tired to sleep. but your story is amazing and inspiring.

  • @josephatkinywa6464
    @josephatkinywa6464 Před 3 lety +14

    This I can relate too 💯, with the same breath I can also tell you God changes things, when you are down & out surrender to Him & praise Him, He'll surely come, I am waiting & He's been good

  • @durutticolumn6002
    @durutticolumn6002 Před 3 lety +7

    New York really is the ground zero of broken dreams.

  • @kanorioeve3619
    @kanorioeve3619 Před 3 lety +17

    The winds were strong but the roots are stronger.
    I needed this. 💪🏾

  • @LorettaAkoth1985
    @LorettaAkoth1985 Před 3 lety +3

    It was my pleasure working with you @Kijiji Records.....I admired your work ethics...Good to hear your voice again 🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @mohammedkamau4193
    @mohammedkamau4193 Před 3 lety +28

    Well sometimes its like youtube just knows what you need and not what you want. This video has been popping on my page for a while now and all i can say it has been worth it

  • @Rhenadhis
    @Rhenadhis Před 3 lety +6

    I ignored this soooo many times only to watch and see that it is exactly what i need.I ignored it becasuw i prejudged, i remember you from Nairobi Half Life and thought what could a seasoned Kenyan actor living the life possibly know about broken dreams. The floor, not just the rug, has been knocked off from under me and been trying to rebuild slowly. Thank you so much for sharing your story, it is an inspiration

  • @teresanyangi8687
    @teresanyangi8687 Před 3 lety +8

    The human journey isn't about a road and feet....it surely is about flying on the wings we can neither see nor feel until you are midair.

  • @memsmem4846
    @memsmem4846 Před 3 lety +3

    I could listen to this guy speak 24\7

  • @shirleyodongo6439
    @shirleyodongo6439 Před 3 lety +7

    I really enjoyed listening to this. Being institutionalized, as you put it, is the biggest pandemic we have to overcome. And yes, not knowing what to do when the rug is pulled from under our feet is not always a bad thing, it provides room for introspection which most of us never really have time for. Great speech!

  • @deekay231
    @deekay231 Před 3 lety +6

    Mugambi I'm in my pjs and your story just unfolded another moment of faith in me.

  • @Brucemckenzie.ke63
    @Brucemckenzie.ke63 Před rokem +1

    I enjoyed the eloquence and articulation as much as the story...This Nthiga guy would be our hero in composition writing

  • @keziahgitonga670
    @keziahgitonga670 Před 3 lety +15

    Thanks for being so vulnerable in your sharing. I can totally relate how things just change suddenly world changes but in all this God shows you a way out

  • @wamz9191
    @wamz9191 Před 3 lety +3

    When you're going through hell, just. keep. moving.
    Thank you for sharing!

  • @Gideon_CK
    @Gideon_CK Před 3 lety +4

    Absolutely eloquent and very well articulated. Cheers man. We shall conquer.

  • @salomeomamo5593
    @salomeomamo5593 Před 3 lety +3

    Wooow!, reality. In God we trust and run to, He has never failed. This is one beautiful and inspiring story.

  • @rodneykihenjo1510
    @rodneykihenjo1510 Před 3 lety +2

    Optimistic, humble and creative way of saying........ I can't figure it out. It's from this point......... God shows up

  • @annekavutha719
    @annekavutha719 Před 3 lety

    Really love this! So inspiring!

  • @wambuithairu4678
    @wambuithairu4678 Před 3 lety +1

    Perfect Timing with this one Engage. Thank you.

  • @hadijak.mwadzaya4754
    @hadijak.mwadzaya4754 Před 3 lety

    Truth to self 💯 That stuck out for me. I definitely needed to hear this!

  • @Docsstories
    @Docsstories Před 3 lety

    Proud of you Mugambi. Thank you for sharing.

  • @lucykinyanjui6829
    @lucykinyanjui6829 Před 3 lety

    Absolutely inspiring Mugambi!!
    You're quite the story teller!

  • @diananthiga
    @diananthiga Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for always being real, Mugash ❤❤

  • @shikushishi6820
    @shikushishi6820 Před 3 lety

    Beautiful, sincere, vulnerable

  • @dianasweetness
    @dianasweetness Před 3 lety

    Absolutely Inspiring!!

  • @Mayonde
    @Mayonde Před 3 lety

    Awesome!!! Thank you for the inspiration Mugambi! This is so beautiful.

  • @RoniMugaki
    @RoniMugaki Před 3 lety

    Well done Mugash! You are already a winner, big things ahead....👊🏿

  • @catherinemuriithi9656
    @catherinemuriithi9656 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for being an inspiration

  • @janekamau7083
    @janekamau7083 Před 3 lety +1

    Encouraging and honest talk....the tenacity!

  • @maryoyuke2881
    @maryoyuke2881 Před 3 lety +1

    Profound! Excellent storyteller.

  • @sallyobonyo3114
    @sallyobonyo3114 Před 3 lety +2

    Wow,I wish you all the best Mugambi

  • @angelawanjiru5343
    @angelawanjiru5343 Před 3 lety

    Yes, here we are what NEXT!! I love your story... very true indeed

  • @wairimumukuria959
    @wairimumukuria959 Před 3 lety +6

    Encore Mugambi. Wonderful story telling. Those pyjamas are the secret 😄

  • @GathoniMutuaM
    @GathoniMutuaM Před 3 lety +4

    Ugh. You’re beautiful and your story is so incredible it really is the stuff of movies, and I love to hear it every time and any chance I get to see it unfold or be a part of that. You’re timing makes for inspirational stories despite the pain, so thank you for persevering. You are amazing. Can’t wait for more! Thanks Engage for hosting him!! This was needed.

  • @wamaithagakere7222
    @wamaithagakere7222 Před 3 lety +3

    Brilliant!!! Well done Mugambi, well done!

  • @nancymumo3126
    @nancymumo3126 Před 9 měsíci

    articulate story teller the flow is amazing and the english is perfect.

  • @SheenaMpungu
    @SheenaMpungu Před 3 lety +1

    I can't picture you as an advertising man. I'm so glad you gave acting a try. And thank you so much for sharing this story.

  • @njerikiagiri6542
    @njerikiagiri6542 Před 3 lety +2

    Absolutely beautiful!!! Well spoken and very inspiring! Upwards and onwards Mugash! Even with the struggles..

  • @carol5368
    @carol5368 Před 3 lety

    One can listen to you all day...

  • @yvonneanyango4731
    @yvonneanyango4731 Před 3 lety +3

    Wow. When its YOUR TIME.very Encouraging

  • @johnganda
    @johnganda Před 3 lety +1

    This is amazing storytelling and amazing perspective.

  • @NkathaP
    @NkathaP Před 3 lety

    You are very strong in sharing this.. We are in this together!!

  • @sonimson260
    @sonimson260 Před 3 lety +1

    Just what I needed. I confirmation to the right direction. Beautiful story of true resilience!

  • @elleyonaspg9580
    @elleyonaspg9580 Před 3 lety +1

    Kudos to you my brother. You will raise again ooh.

  • @Irenewk
    @Irenewk Před 3 lety

    I love this👍🏾your honesty and candour is refreshing 👌🏾

  • @maureengacheru2947
    @maureengacheru2947 Před 3 lety +2

    I needed this! This talk was so relatable and inspiring

  • @kivilastella7563
    @kivilastella7563 Před 3 lety +4

    Amazing Story Telling Mugambi. Courage, Resilience and Audacity all in one.

  • @margaretmatilu4381
    @margaretmatilu4381 Před 3 lety

    Woah! What a beautiful story. So sad but at the same time so encouraging. You're an inspiration Mugambi. So timely.....

  • @ericndavi3170
    @ericndavi3170 Před 3 lety

    Mugash, Good one! Very inspiring and timely, Maad respect Bro.

  • @margaretondeng1215
    @margaretondeng1215 Před 3 lety

    An amazing orator you are.

  • @joshuaosiemo9897
    @joshuaosiemo9897 Před 3 lety

    So good!!! Wow

  • @budgetdiywithbetty
    @budgetdiywithbetty Před 3 lety

    really enjoyed this. well articulated & spoke to my soul. thank you

  • @daisyosawa6377
    @daisyosawa6377 Před 3 lety

    Elizabeth Muguchu! - great comeback! I looove the message. You speak for many mothers, wives, daughters et al. Thank you for sharing.

  • @katenjoroge
    @katenjoroge Před 3 lety +1

    This should have been titled "how the dream soldiered on". Cuz it did not die, it got reinvented!

  • @cynthiakariuki4829
    @cynthiakariuki4829 Před 3 lety +1

    I love this one ooooh being tru to self

  • @makenamwenda7756
    @makenamwenda7756 Před 3 lety +1

    So relatable. Once you let go of the expectation of how things ought to be you become delightfully inundated by something else. Not the thing that you thought you wanted but the thing you actually need.

  • @cikanyoro
    @cikanyoro Před 3 lety

    Thank you Mugambi for this. I get that Sunday night part kabisa. Very inspiring.

  • @saint_nickolm299
    @saint_nickolm299 Před 3 lety +2

    Such an inspirational🙏🏿

  • @wacheram3494
    @wacheram3494 Před 3 lety +6

    It's humbling to hear a murume admitting that he has cried 😁😁😁

  • @sabinastadler
    @sabinastadler Před 3 lety

    THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR STORY

  • @MugethiGitau
    @MugethiGitau Před 3 lety

    Amazing storytelling 💕

  • @sozenge
    @sozenge Před 3 lety

    Beautiful talk!!!

  • @chuonkyi
    @chuonkyi Před 3 lety +2

    Well told Mugambi.

  • @ivywainaina759
    @ivywainaina759 Před 3 lety +2

    Very relatable story..

  • @anne-mariekosh5010
    @anne-mariekosh5010 Před 3 lety

    Beautifully told.

  • @nicegithinji1443
    @nicegithinji1443 Před 3 lety +1

    I love you Mugambi....

  • @wisdomlife
    @wisdomlife Před 3 lety +1

    Great speaker...

  • @feliscuragi4779
    @feliscuragi4779 Před 3 lety

    Wow amazing

  • @josephobel1839
    @josephobel1839 Před 2 lety

    wow, probably what I needed to hear rn

  • @mlavin1716
    @mlavin1716 Před 2 lety

    Urgh, dude, thankyou for sharing this. "When you let go of something to grab something else, sometimes in the middle of that you look at your hands and be terrified by how empty they are."

  • @edithkemunto9122
    @edithkemunto9122 Před 3 lety +1

    Super !

  • @NyarSulwe
    @NyarSulwe Před 3 lety +1

    God keep you sweetie

  • @alicewairimu5000
    @alicewairimu5000 Před 3 lety

    Aah, I have never watched a local film and felt as thrilled and confused as katikati. That script is weird but totally engaging. I keep asking what was the thought process? Supamodo is super awesome.
    Good job man

  • @pamelamubuta
    @pamelamubuta Před 2 lety

    Proud of you cuz.

  • @masukamagambo4236
    @masukamagambo4236 Před 3 lety +1

    Deep!

  • @davidmwangi396
    @davidmwangi396 Před 3 lety

    Wonderful

  • @sallymwasi
    @sallymwasi Před 3 lety +2

    Am inspired... Facing all the emotions as am going back to the drawing board.

  • @ann1092
    @ann1092 Před 3 lety

    Inspiring

  • @lucywambui1013
    @lucywambui1013 Před 3 lety +3

    I really needed to hear this today.... THANK YOU 🙏

    • @morrismunene111
      @morrismunene111 Před 3 lety +1

      I would like to get through to him, contacts? Got a story that can produce a good movie.

  • @mwanahawa
    @mwanahawa Před 3 lety

    Am touched 4 real. Look for my cousin @ekwamsangi she released her film @farewellamor which won the diaspora film in Lux Cairo recently. Proud of the hustle 💪 💯

  • @rachelwairimu7843
    @rachelwairimu7843 Před 3 lety

    WOW!!

  • @elizabethgilbert3011
    @elizabethgilbert3011 Před 3 lety

    My soul had left the building. I've been there.

  • @naomiwangari4794
    @naomiwangari4794 Před 2 lety

    Phew! The eloquence...weh! U want to invest thea

  • @tigisthailu9801
    @tigisthailu9801 Před rokem

    “Once you let go of the expectation of how things ought to be, you become delightfully inundated by stg else, not the things that you thought you wanted but the things that you actually need.’” 🤔…

  • @orwaamos9023
    @orwaamos9023 Před 3 lety

    It doesn't matter where you going, so long as you are walking

  • @kah_gai
    @kah_gai Před 3 lety +3

    Probably one of the most CONGENIAL talks ever!

    • @that_truth_teller001
      @that_truth_teller001 Před 3 lety +1

      CONGENIAL sijui inamanisha nini, but one of the best!!

    • @EngageTalk
      @EngageTalk  Před 3 lety +2

      @@that_truth_teller001
      Inamaanisha friendly or pleasant. Ni kama wewe tu.. :-)

  • @faithfulwachira
    @faithfulwachira Před 3 lety

    ENCORE!

  • @kandechu4154
    @kandechu4154 Před 3 lety +2

    Loving these curve ball stories 👍👍👍

  • @nimmo-millish1615
    @nimmo-millish1615 Před 3 lety

    I feel you👌

  • @bettynthembwa760
    @bettynthembwa760 Před 3 lety +10

    I'm I the only one who has noticed that he's 'very handsome'...

  • @njorogekamau3820
    @njorogekamau3820 Před 3 lety

    Positive

  • @paulinethathi3277
    @paulinethathi3277 Před 3 lety

    I feel like this is my story your telling,untill now I dnt think I have m
    ade enough money to fit even a quarter on my school fees

  • @marytheresa9530
    @marytheresa9530 Před 5 měsíci

    👏👏👏👏

  • @roshangebray6589
    @roshangebray6589 Před 3 lety

    I was wracking my brain wea I saw u haha

  • @tushyranx5860
    @tushyranx5860 Před 3 lety

    It is zindagi

  • @Chings001
    @Chings001 Před 3 lety

    Very nice talk.