Eye contact is just a subliminal way to try to dominate someone. Itâs cool when you say whatsup, goodbye, or someone says something funny. But if youâre just trying to have a stare down with someone over a simple conversation, then really youâre just insecure
My crush always stares at me while slightly smiling. And I'll look over and stare back and smile and when he breaks it he laughs and it's so wholesome and cute đ„șđ
Careful with the eye contact though, I was always taught when I was a kid that you make eye contact with people when you're talking to them as a sign of respect but I've learned people don't really like that so I've had to try to tone it down a bit because it makes people so uncomfortable
Yeah eye contact is you subliminally trying to dominate someone. I just give eye contact for a little bit when the conversation gets good or I say whatsup or goodbye to someone. Iâm not trying to fucking stare at you the whole time we talk. Shits just weird and honestly the weak people are the ones who try to play the âwho can hold eye contact longer game.â
@@bigbuck919 I make eye contact with everyone. Itâs always been this way. Iâm very out going. There is actually really no one I canât have a conversation with. Iâm making eye contact with you through my photo right now, thatâs how much eye contact I make :)
I think it depends on personality. Iâm very warm and friendly, my friends say I have âresting nice faceâ lol. So I maintain constant eye contact usually unless Iâm nervous and twiddling my thumbs or something.
Eye contact makes me feel so powerful....especially when you call someone out to their face and theres people around them...and you stare at them and they just twiddle their thumbs and nervously look up and down....THE POWER I HOLDđđđđ
Girl I know you donât know me but you are literally the reason I started talking to my crush and he asked me out a few days ago. I am so thankful for you and I hope you have an amazing dayâ€ïžâ€ïž Edit: He used me for my body LOL we aint dating anymore now. Boys suck but eyy, her tips still be workin
same it does make me nervous but not the good kind it makes me feel like iâm in trouble or something and it makes me want to cry bc i get so scared. or that could be my anxiety idk i just donât like eye contact edit: i also have a blinking tick that people point out a lot but i have noticed recently that it gets worse when i look at people so now i just stare off at objects in a distance
âBut let all those who seek you be joyful and glad because of what you have done. Let those who want you to save them always say, âThe Lord is great!ââ ââPsalm⏠â70:4⏠âNIRVâŹâŹ
Wow! Thanks For That! As Someone Whoâs Voice Pitch Gets Naturally Higher Especially When Defending Myself Itâs Crazy How Using A Lower Pitch Is Like âB!tch Donât Play With Me I Know My Worth,â Versus The Higher Pitch Is Like âIâm Gullible & Shy You Could See Right Through Meâ. Most Def Going To Be Trying The Lower Pitch Since I Already Have A Light Voice.
Bruh me and my crush has made an eye contact like million timess!! And I always get butterflies like Idk about him but i feel so happy!đđđčđâ€
Oh my gosh i just started dating this guy and yesterday we went to disney for a band trip and in the workshop i turned around and just made a ton of eye contact with me and we would both laugh or smile
The lower voice one is so true because when i try to hard my voice is high and I try to make people happy but when u don't even care anymore my voice is lower and I sound kinda scary. So my advice is just don't care
I use eye contact all the time and it makes ppl nervous unless theyre confident too so if youâre with a shy person- tip tone down the eye contact! But definitely do the voice thing and the flirting :)
Pause 2s before aswering, just looking the person in the eye. Increased tension. Increased time for a better response. Increased reception. Choose only 2/10 aswers to do that, and break the rule sometimes. the result is the enrichment of any storytelling and bookwriters usually use hagovers that way
Eye contact is a dominating move imo, I show respect by engaging in conversations but try to avoid eye contact as I tend not to be confrontational, and it just natural of me. I found chewing gum greatly helps reduce butterflies.
Sustained eye contact as a woman is a masculine trait. Speaking in a lower tone is masculine. Confidence doesnât make people nervous lol. A compliment doesnât make me nervous it makes me think your a good personâŠ..
A great tip for if you don't have a chance to talk to someone you suddenly see in public. If you are a girl that is afraid to take initiative and are even afraid to smile: just hold eye contact. If they do it too, the rest will come.
I just be myself around the person I like and it works a lot(probably bc Iâm very energetic and care for them as a friend bc my love language is basically I treat like a friend and I become a major flirt and make you blush and whisper in your ear-)
I am the best at eye contact, like whenever Iâm talking to someone (mostly my crush) I make eye contact and then I just look away after a few minutes
I love eye contact. I could hold it all day. Sometimes I gotta chill on it tho bc I realize I'm making the person I'm talking too a little too uncomfortable. But I love the power it comes with; for example I make teachers uncomfortable when they're talking to međ
When ever someone talks to me I always look into there eyes bc that's just what I do and I've even done it to teachers while they were teaching and it was kinda awkward
I held eye contact with a boy once and i think it made him so nervous đ€Ł and he was just like looking away then when he looks back im sure in his mind he was like"Wow, she's still looking ok time to look away again" đ€Łđ€Ł. P.S you look drop dead gorgeous đ
Does anyone else have a hard time knowing which eye to look at?? If youâre far away it doesnât matter but I find as soon as I think of how Iâm making eye contact I immediately am choosing one eye
Should've known before I lost him. Whatever. Mistakes happen in life, and this taught me that falling in love with someone at 16 is a true waste of time. Don't waste your time too. Life's too short for these things. Focus on your studies, on what you truly love, follow your dreams and get a nice job and a nice life.
My sister-in-law randomly called me pretty once randonly. i stuttered fir a second then said thank you- and my insecure self almost started crying of happiness- No one had ever called me pretty- thatd a day i forget!
i can confirm that the last one works :) i was once at a pride event and when i was talking to someone (iâll call them natalie for this) i just said that they looked stunning and later that night their friend (iâll call them mia for this) cake up to me and i hung out with the two of them for the whole night and mia later told me that the only reason mia went up to me in the first place was because natalie thought i was really pretty but was too nervous to talk to me so yes you can cause gay panic with the last one
These ppl in the comments dont know how to flirt wit eye contact You dont have to do it all the time, do it when u want to build tension with someone you already flirt with. not with everyone Extra tip: get closer to them then do the eye contact you might get a kiss like that
i can confirm the random compliment one. this guy was telling me that he was good at chess and i just went âyou can play chess? thatâs hot.â the reaction was great
Wanna make someone nervous? This is how I did it! *take out the blade from a pencil sharpener and show someone how sharp it is by slashing a piece of paper* works like a charm!
i never really thought abt eye contact til now bc i always thought it was for certain people (wtf? eye contact is not selective) but i always thought every single time someone maintained eye contact, i would actually get butterflies or get really nervous (depends on the person)
I can literally hold a eye contact for so long itâs the other person that breaks it and then it makes me uncomfortable
you scare me
@@Mimi_s_c101 lmao
Same-
@@Mimi_s_c101 đ€Łđđ
Me too lol and then I feel awkward for making them awkward
oh my god girl, you literally have the most gorgeous hair! why is nobody pointing it out?
Wait, actually tho!
Because her content is better than just her looks but yeah her hair are GOALS
@@syntheticsilkwood2206 her hair is definitely better then her content lmao
Ikr!
@@playthroughs424 tbh i don't even remember who this was about lol
yeahâŠ. iâm allergic to eye contact
Same, omg twins đ€
I become hyper aware of it and I turn super red, Iâm really pale too so thereâs no hiding it đŹ
Eye contact is just a subliminal way to try to dominate someone. Itâs cool when you say whatsup, goodbye, or someone says something funny. But if youâre just trying to have a stare down with someone over a simple conversation, then really youâre just insecure
@@warrior4958 yes, in fact. i am really just insecure lollll
@@mallory.persephone Oh no Iâm saying someone who tries to give you a bunch of eye contact is the one who is insecure. Not you lol
My crush always stares at me while slightly smiling. And I'll look over and stare back and smile and when he breaks it he laughs and it's so wholesome and cute đ„șđ
Same thing lily and sometimes i plays with him and he also
He likes you, go for it dude
Aww
@@Hinata_Shoyo589 gurl, are you a jem carstairs fan đ
Thatâs so cute
Eye contact is painful đŁ
it makes me tear up
@@Auri... right I have to look away cuz I hate when people stare to hard
@@erikasolorioo7313 mhm!
@@Auri... same
Me too because Iâm not really used to it but sometimes Iâm okay if itâs with my friends
Careful with the eye contact though, I was always taught when I was a kid that you make eye contact with people when you're talking to them as a sign of respect but I've learned people don't really like that so I've had to try to tone it down a bit because it makes people so uncomfortable
Yeah eye contact is you subliminally trying to dominate someone. I just give eye contact for a little bit when the conversation gets good or I say whatsup or goodbye to someone. Iâm not trying to fucking stare at you the whole time we talk. Shits just weird and honestly the weak people are the ones who try to play the âwho can hold eye contact longer game.â
It all depends on who your talking to. You wont look at your boss in the eyes the same way you look at your crush, unless you roll that wayâŠ
@@bigbuck919 I make eye contact with everyone. Itâs always been this way. Iâm very out going. There is actually really no one I canât have a conversation with. Iâm making eye contact with you through my photo right now, thatâs how much eye contact I make :)
Same I was always told growing up that eye contact is the most important thing when speaking to someone. It means your listening and that you care.
I think it depends on personality. Iâm very warm and friendly, my friends say I have âresting nice faceâ lol. So I maintain constant eye contact usually unless Iâm nervous and twiddling my thumbs or something.
YOURE LITERALLY SO PRETTY đ€©
Eye contact makes me feel so powerful....especially when you call someone out to their face and theres people around them...and you stare at them and they just twiddle their thumbs and nervously look up and down....THE POWER I HOLDđđđđ
Why do you call people out nigga
Don't wanna sound rude but many people, including me finds it creepy when someone does that.
yea most ppl get nervous cuz itâs creepy and unsettling lol not because they are intimidated by your confidence
@@mrcleanishot2416 people with autism stare
@@breathe.8072 he probably read 48 laws of powers
Girl I know you donât know me but you are literally the reason I started talking to my crush and he asked me out a few days ago. I am so thankful for you and I hope you have an amazing dayâ€ïžâ€ïž
Edit: He used me for my body LOL we aint dating anymore now. Boys suck but eyy, her tips still be workin
Omg!! Congrats!!!! I'm going to try this with my crush
YAY CONGRATULATIONSđđ
@@maranne_ You can do this I believe in you. If it works keep me updated plsđ„°
omg congrats girl !!
@@currently_a_frog5652 Congrats girlyyyyy.
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Eye contact I can't do that dude its just way to awkard to look into somebody's eyes
same it does make me nervous but not the good kind it makes me feel like iâm in trouble or something and it makes me want to cry bc i get so scared. or that could be my anxiety idk i just donât like eye contact
edit: i also have a blinking tick that people point out a lot but i have noticed recently that it gets worse when i look at people so now i just stare off at objects in a distance
âBut let all those who seek you be joyful and glad because of what you have done. Let those who want you to save them always say, âThe Lord is great!ââ
ââPsalm⏠â70:4⏠âNIRVâŹâŹ
Eye contact is literally my best weapon ever lol-
Fr same
Making people nervous or uncomfortable doesnât equal to giving them butterflies, donât forget that yall.
eye contact is so god damn powerful every time I see my crush (who I think likes me) look at me and I look at him back my heart is pounding
âMake ur voice lowerâ
Me when I make my voice slightly lower: *I heard u weâre looking for a sore throat?*
Just in case you donât want to watch the whole vid:
Eye contact
Talk in a lower tone
Compliments/flirt
Bro the video is like 10 seconds long đ
@@Beignetboy yea but she explains it and also it 35 seconds đ
My crush made eye contact with me the other day while talking. I started to stutter and looked the other way and I think I may have been blushing đ
saaame đ I try to keep eye contact as much a I can but the second he smiles I look away and turn red
ur absolutely stunning
Can you do a makeup tut please?? Ur GORGEOUS
Looks affect confidenceđ
Literally so true đ€Ł
All you need to do is BE YOURSELF. You are amazing just the way you are.âșïžđđ€Ș
Wow! Thanks For That! As Someone Whoâs Voice Pitch Gets Naturally Higher Especially When Defending Myself Itâs Crazy How Using A Lower Pitch Is Like âB!tch Donât Play With Me I Know My Worth,â Versus The Higher Pitch Is Like âIâm Gullible & Shy You Could See Right Through Meâ. Most Def Going To Be Trying The Lower Pitch Since I Already Have A Light Voice.
Bruh me and my crush has made an eye contact like million timess!! And I always get butterflies like Idk about him but i feel so happy!đđđčđâ€
Your eyes r so pretty
Oh my gosh i just started dating this guy and yesterday we went to disney for a band trip and in the workshop i turned around and just made a ton of eye contact with me and we would both laugh or smile
This is an accurate observation đ đŻđ§ĄđŻ
The lower voice one is so true because when i try to hard my voice is high and I try to make people happy but when u don't even care anymore my voice is lower and I sound kinda scary. So my advice is just don't care
I use eye contact all the time and it makes ppl nervous unless theyre confident too so if youâre with a shy person- tip tone down the eye contact!
But definitely do the voice thing and the flirting :)
Pause 2s before aswering, just looking the person in the eye.
Increased tension.
Increased time for a better response.
Increased reception.
Choose only 2/10 aswers to do that, and break the rule sometimes. the result is the enrichment of any storytelling and bookwriters usually use hagovers that way
The voice tone is freaking true!!!!!!
Eye contact is a dominating move imo, I show respect by engaging in conversations but try to avoid eye contact as I tend not to be confrontational, and it just natural of me.
I found chewing gum greatly helps reduce butterflies.
I am not regretting that I subscribed to u
I am actually glad that I did that cuz u r the best
u are so pretty
Her: Maintain eye contact
Me the next day staring into my crush's soulđïžđđïž
When I already do all these things unconsciously. Especially eye contact and my voice going deeper throughout conversation.
Staring/prolonged eye contact is always very powerful. The key is not to blink.
Her hair ahhhh đ„”â€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïžthe most beautiful thing every ahhh â€ïžđžđ»â€ïžđđčđșđ·
Your so pretty
Wow you are so smart, i wish my kids if i ever get kids get so smart to.
OMG DID U CUT UR HAIR IT LOOKS SO GORGEOUS BABES YESSSS
"Stare at people."
"Talk in a lower tone."
Already do that, everyone thinks I'm a dude in video games, I'm a girl.
I can relate so hard bruh. and then people just assume im gay or a boy lol. And im not either of those...
Umm wow Ur like so damn pretty girl!! Sending love from Australia đ
YOUR HAIR OH MY GOSH
Thanks so much !! â€ïž
Sorry but how tf are your eyelashesh so Beautiful, what mascara do you use, can you make a tutorial â€ïžâ€ïž
Question: how do you fucking flirt
Help. Me.
Just make them comfortable compliment them eye contact side smiles and be cheesy but not too
Personally, I had a lot of success with making inside jokes with my crush. Now we are dating âșïž
@@boober6738that's so cool, I'm happy for you !
Yesss not many people make eye contact with me
meanwhile whole time Iâm smiling making eye contact with their foreheads đđ
Once I did the last one like naturally and he got all blushy and smiley đ«đ
Def needed dis
Guys you need to trust her on the first one cuz i decided to hold eye contact with this guy i rlly like and he omg the tension between us
You should do more of these videos
Sustained eye contact as a woman is a masculine trait. Speaking in a lower tone is masculine. Confidence doesnât make people nervous lol. A compliment doesnât make me nervous it makes me think your a good personâŠ..
I always maintain eye contact with any person i talk to cause iâve been taught that its good manners and everytime, people avert my gazeđ
I will definitely try this
Thanks so much you are really pretty byw
A great tip for if you don't have a chance to talk to someone you suddenly see in public. If you are a girl that is afraid to take initiative and are even afraid to smile: just hold eye contact. If they do it too, the rest will come.
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE EYE CONTACT CUZ PEOPLES EYES ARE SO BEAUTIFUL
Love ya hair cut đ€©đ€©
I donât know why Iâm listening to this as if Iâm not planning on being single my entire high school.
I just be myself around the person I like and it works a lot(probably bc Iâm very energetic and care for them as a friend bc my love language is basically I treat like a friend and I become a major flirt and make you blush and whisper in your ear-)
The 2th one sounds like bully's(brats) in highschool drama literally no hate but it really gives me that vibe
I am the best at eye contact, like whenever Iâm talking to someone (mostly my crush) I make eye contact and then I just look away after a few minutes
pleaseeeee tell us how u do ur makeup
I just watched this other video of yours where you said the opposite for the voice thing and how it relates to confidence. Lol đ€Ł
The eye contact is sooo trueeeee
Iâm now bc and gf and all he talked abt was the eye contact we made
Love it!!!đ
butterflies in my stomach make me want to leave. I can't handle too much emotion.
Me: I STARE INTO YOUR SOUL FEAR ME
The other person: o.o
I have this friend and one I day when we were texting I was like âyou have really good writing skillsâ and I swear it threw him off so bad
As someone who doesn't like talking eye contact is extremely powerful
I love eye contact. I could hold it all day. Sometimes I gotta chill on it tho bc I realize I'm making the person I'm talking too a little too uncomfortable. But I love the power it comes with; for example I make teachers uncomfortable when they're talking to međ
Bro ⊠ima give myself butterflies if I look HIM in the eyes and maintain eye contact đ đ â€
I grew up being told to make eye contact talking. I'm so good, I've seen people break eye contact with me because of how comfortable I am with it.
When ever someone talks to me I always look into there eyes bc that's just what I do and I've even done it to teachers while they were teaching and it was kinda awkward
I held eye contact with a boy once and i think it made him so nervous đ€Ł and he was just like looking away then when he looks back im sure in his mind he was like"Wow, she's still looking ok time to look away again" đ€Łđ€Ł. P.S you look drop dead gorgeous đ
I love butterflies
Talking high sounds you are exiting. But most people just do not know how to not mix it up with insecure
I wouldn't like to make anyone nervous rather I would like if they were comfortable with me
When your crush already has a crush:
iâm gonna use this for retail selling
Does anyone else have a hard time knowing which eye to look at?? If youâre far away it doesnât matter but I find as soon as I think of how Iâm making eye contact I immediately am choosing one eye
I have learned to talk with my eyes so much. Trust me it works
Should've known before I lost him. Whatever.
Mistakes happen in life, and this taught me that falling in love with someone at 16 is a true waste of time. Don't waste your time too. Life's too short for these things. Focus on your studies, on what you truly love, follow your dreams and get a nice job and a nice life.
I naturally make eye contact with people bc like u got pretty eyes bro where else am I gonna look
omgg the eye contact thing is literally op but i cant stop laughing like idk its awkwardddd
But when a woman speaks like a drunken sailor, the butterflies quickly fly away...
As a major extrovert- *I'M ABSOLUTELY NOT SCARED OF EYE CONTACT, TRY ME BRO, I WILL STARE DOWN INTO YOUR SOUL, YOU AIN'T WINNING WITH THIS TACTIC.*
My sister-in-law randomly called me pretty once randonly. i stuttered fir a second then said thank you- and my insecure self almost started crying of happiness- No one had ever called me pretty- thatd a day i forget!
girl what do you use for your hair??
Eye contact is soo power broo
i can confirm that the last one works :) i was once at a pride event and when i was talking to someone (iâll call them natalie for this) i just said that they looked stunning and later that night their friend (iâll call them mia for this) cake up to me and i hung out with the two of them for the whole night and mia later told me that the only reason mia went up to me in the first place was because natalie thought i was really pretty but was too nervous to talk to me so yes you can cause gay panic with the last one
Am I the only one who can hold eye contact with no problem whatsoever? I feel like Iâve never met anyone who can look someone in the eyes
These ppl in the comments dont know how to flirt wit eye contact
You dont have to do it all the time, do it when u want to build tension with someone you already flirt with.
not with everyone
Extra tip: get closer to them then do the eye contact you might get a kiss like that
I think I excel in eye contact but downside ppl are at times intimidated or get uncomfortable.
i can confirm the random compliment one. this guy was telling me that he was good at chess and i just went âyou can play chess? thatâs hot.â
the reaction was great
Wanna make someone nervous? This is how I did it! *take out the blade from a pencil sharpener and show someone how sharp it is by slashing a piece of paper* works like a charm!
âOkay we need to start running 7 mile- OMG I love your eyelashes!â
I myself will get nervous by trying to make someone nervous with eye contact đȘđ€·đżââïž
How to make someone nervous :
Teacher : Let's check your homeworks
i never really thought abt eye contact til now bc i always thought it was for certain people (wtf? eye contact is not selective) but i always thought every single time someone maintained eye contact, i would actually get butterflies or get really nervous (depends on the person)