Muslim student reveals PAINFUL SECRET to Shaykh 😔
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- čas přidán 11. 04. 2022
- A troubled student reveals to the School Shaykh painful details about the abuse he faces at home.
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If everyone had a sheikh like this to talk to when times got tough, SubhanAllah we would all be in a better place mentally. Allah grant us all afia
You don't need a shaykh. Talk to Allah directly. Allah is the all hearing and all knowing.
Unfortunately many parents don't understand the impact they have on their children - whenever there's constant fighting and no stability at home. This can cause adolescents to seek others for care and attention or even begin a cycle of drug addictions etc. May Allah have mercy on all of us and give us patience for this life
I hope for you success and happinness,you are a beauthiful man,keep moving forward,take care of yourself my brother,i hope a good life for you,have a good day/night
Some parents are not even worth to be ''parents'' for a child's sake.
May Allah grant peace to all Muslim families. Ameen to your Duaa 🤲🏼
You are so right, you raised an important point. Let's talk about girls looking for care and attention outside, like you said, and who fall on men who have very very bad intentions and who start and manage to lead them astray.
There are so many girls that end up with "boyfriends" who only want to harm them and waste them, just for their own evil pleasures.
I had talked about that to a man who's giving lectures on religion to men. Fathers should and must talk good to their daughters (same for the brothers with the sisters) so that their daughters don't need little by little to seek for acceptance and validation by some disgusting boys or men outside. There's a weakness in every human being and we should pour love and good words in each other, most especially the younger ones (boys and girls) so that they don't need to mix with anyone to feel seen and loved.
Many people like to point at people with some wrong behaviours as if they were just bad people when they just have self-destructing behaviours because they were taught they were worthless. Instead of (mis)judging, maybe a person can start with good words, good intentions and be the first one to show that the other person matters and they deserve to act good and do good to themselves first and foremost.
@@euhdaccord4462 je vous souhaite beaucoup de reussites et de succes,prenez soin de vous
I'm watching this while hearing the yells in the background. Allah swt has some unique way to guide us. 🕋⚘
may Allah comfort you
May Allah bring harmony in your house and bring the hearts of the residents together on the path of guidance, goodness, kindness and love 🤲 May He ease you from your pain and discomfort 🤲🤍
May Allah grant you peace in your hardship with family
calm them, let the person first correct himself and then others.
Toxic parenting exists and needs to be addressed more, specially in Asian households there's an expectation to uphold duties to the parents especially mothers due to the high status on them in the hadith yet they continue to perpetrate their abuse on their own children, whether its physical, emotional or manipulative guilt tripping. Some parents go as far as deliberately creating rifts and discord between their own children so they will continue to maintain grudges long after they're gone. 😔
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Bruh, I feel you. Sometimes the saddest part is that the toxic parent doesn't know they're being toxic.
And wonders why the kid grew up with mental issues.
Edit : I pray that Allah may give strength as well as guidence to those with these kind of experiences. Hold the hearts of those in pain. May Allah lead us all to a path of peace and happiness, in this life and the next.
Abusive parents is not Allah fault it is controlled by shaytan on his (people) brain, mood, etc so be careful of what we react on many place
There’s also abuse towards disabled children I really need people to talk more about this. Muslim community is lacking. Wallahi people need real advice and help. Especially those who can’t even make a simple phone call for help, videos will help immensely for education
Are you talking about visible handicaps only or both visible and invisible handicaps? Asking you because people who have invisible handicaps are being bullied frequently all their life, by so many people, family, other students, teachers, colleagues...
If people abuse their own children who have visible handicaps, that's very wrong. They should get counselling and be educated on what a human being is, how anyone deserves being well treated and that people with disabilities need even more care because they are very sensitive to external behaviour and are already struggling to live life almost as other people who don't have those disabilities.
Before i finished the video, I already liked it. Because I don't have to give more than that. May Allah bless all your efforts for making videos like this.
Me too.
The actor for the student was really good. I was afraid that it would've turned out cringy but the act was really good. 👏 Well done👏
The actor for the teacher as well, mashallah.
Finally!!!!!! An Islamic based video that was down to earth! The video was very understandable and relatable! ALHAMDULILLAH. Insha Allah please make more videos with relative topics. 💯👍🏿🙏🏾🕋
Marks are who you are. This has been ingrained in my mind since ever. 😭😭😭 I suffered so much. Especially in Asia. Asian parents. Parents from the sub-continent ingrain it in the minds. Marks define you. Your career defines your success. Your status. And this is what SOCIETY has been feeding to the youth. 😭 And family fights have always affected me. Parents are like it's between us why should it affect you? But it does. we need a healthy environment.
We're always compared to our cousins. Sometimes emotionally Manipulated to do things. All in the name of what will people say? But we're never taught What will allah say?
Wallahi we need more people to reach out to our parents too. Because honestly the youth is suffering. And one of the main reasons is lack of tarbiyat.
Parents are telling their kids to miss fasts. Prayers. Because schools. Because tests. It's so pathetic 😭😭
This video triggered so many things 😭
Jazakallah khair for your hardwork. When I start earning. In sha Allah i want to donate. For all that I have learnt. May Allah reward you all!!
Ameen.
I literally don't mnkw what to do anymore, I am nothing of value to my parents except grades I get
This is the true Reality of today"s Parents
I am a 9th Grader and can feel it
This is the truth. The replies are also true.
aameen
My father told me to kill myself all the time and he humiliated me in public every chance he got and my mother was violent and unpredictable. It just destroyed my life, I was an alcoholic, my education was a disaster, relationships, health, sport, ambition, all gone. I became Muslim 6 years ago at 45 and have just started to live for the first time. I really want my plans to be fulfilled, I just couldn't cope if ALLAH causes me to fail, please pray I have some success.
My advice to this young man, is stay healthy, go to after school activities, fulfil all your responsibilities at home so there is no arguments and get some counselling. And work toward something, do not just wander aimlessly through the day. Children like this are mentally tormented, their minds are CONSTANTLY distracted with aggression and negativity. Deal with it now and don't live with it for over 40 years. You have rights.
Yes we have rigths and I don't want to go to school. So I just survive. I wanna go on my own way journey♡
@@Deco.Servant.of.God. You can go your way Brother, but you must do it responsibly. The trap is going wild. When that happens you LOSE, too much.
@@truthlifefishing1730 don't worry i have this to say : Justice is not just to rule the world of what you want only. But for the whole world human rigths that there want accept no rigths for those who have no peace with us including terrorist killing people stealing accept if there repent we give them one chance for their justice and their rigths that our gerverment have to help that is to make them live in a better way situation for them in this glory worldly life. Today is fine our world have justice from the usa and who join. We can go anyway we want. Even to Al-aqsa mosque in israel. Al-aqaa mosque for the truth today have been rule by Israel with peace and freedom of justice. Yes we know before the Israel wanted to rule the land of Muslims and Muslims try to fight. It was a bad situation because the 2 side want to rule to have the government of them and the Muslims government are supposed to have their rigths but it was a war from the enemy of Muslims. We know there came and we give them peace and suddenly there rule. We try to defend ourselves and we lose because Allah make them win in the battle because Allah make them win. There rule because there want to live there and there love the place and taking care of the people in there including Muslims and Christian and all you name it. And the mostly is because there want to have their temple there. There even give Muslims rigths also to even come to the mosque al-qasa and to the whole land. Allah wills them as a victory of what there want and their effort. But for today If you want to rule that land again base on your justice it is still justice but it is not anymore for now base on the big justice. And i follow the big justice and we all have actually in our nature. That is we don't anymore care or hate them base on their history even to all country history because people change. What we care is just the glory of justice of the world. We will not war Kill humans anymore and because we don't want people to even die in israel because there are good people there including our Muslims people and humans peace rigths. We have to accept what we call the time of future. We live in justice for now but the problem is many people don't want justice there just want to rule base on what there wants like China wants to rule Taiwan and basically many good people are gonna die in Taiwan if China do that. China give reasons of their justice base on the small justice claiming before its China place. And there will be people like that. Not just the dragon. But the small dragon. We don't anymore look in the small justice. We are now looking at the big justice. And basically the big justice is the real justice for the whole world. We have to look for justice not in just one eye for ourselves but to all. It is when freedom is gone we need the war for justice. And if Israel in one day didn't give us to go to the al-qasa mosque. If then I you all Muslims unite to defend and rule for justice and if it fail should we war? The answer is yes but will there war? No because the nature of Muslims if there are weak there won't war and don't wanna die. So what? We still live and just hope for the mahdi to do his job? That is all if there stop justice. For now we are fine. Will you stand for justice ? Because are many of them will🇺🇸and the one more thing you have to know is tolerance and no hatred is also justice. Because peace is one of justice. Justice is hard to tell you. Our world is one🌍and plz fix our Muslims country that have many corruption because there don't wanna tell about the heart of who is Allah the beautiful. And for Allah is the justice of biggest. And pray for me for Allah to accept my nazar that is I to have my girlfriend that I love her and my debt is pay to Allah with good things in this wolrd that I can and especially to my non muslim girlfriend that is from israel🥰🇮🇱and she will come to Malaysia and take me and go to Philippines cuz her blood is from Philippines and her parents. And I promise I will tell her something that is good about Allah🥰and about islam. Anyway May God solve all your challenges of life put smile on your face joy in your heart and may God protect you from enemies that may appear to you as friends and may God kindness and mercy be with you and your entire family now and always amin. And make you wise. And don't go astray in the hadits. And I won't tell about Hadits that I believe and I disagree because of not what Allah means of his glory and I don't want to spoil islam and everything that happens is good by the will of Allah and pray for me for my freedom too. I need it from Allah and your support🙏❤who reading this i would like to say thanks for hearing me. May Allah bless you. Well this also mean that people who do lgbt also have freedom. When we are not save in a situation and we have been control by someone makes us have no freedom in this life. And freedom makes us more peace Why? Because you can do anything even to do good to the public freely like lecture and so on.Peace to you💬
@Wish Princess Charming Was Real I will be the same
@Wish Princess Charming Was Real pray for me
This video hits hard. Coming from a really broken household. Alhamdullillah I'm doing better and my mother is too.
We need to have more sheikhs like him and less sheikhs that are involved in politics
lmao
I faced a lot from my dad than this boy I had no shaykh in my life or any elder who can listen to my feelings. My dad behaviours is very disgusting and what to say how much I bear pain in my heart.I am writing this and the tear is in my eyes while writing this. I want to talk to onepath network about this issues if they are seeing this comment
My brother,i hope for you success and happinness,you are a brave man,take care of yourself,you are beauthiful,have a good day/night,i hope for you a good life full of peace
Try to income as soon as possible and stay bg most of the time,seek Allah r rahmat,if you are edult you can stay in another city,mind it journey is not easy but if you are intelligent and hard working you will live better.
REMEMBER WHEN ANYONE TREATS U LIKE TRASH ... ITS BECOZ THEY WANNA DERIVE PLEASURE BY MAKING U ANGRY... N THE WRONG THING THAT I DID WAS TO GET ANGRY AT THEM... THEY ENJOYED MY ANGER, THEY ENJOYED ARGUING ... JUST IGNORE SUCH HUMANS ... TAKE THEM LIGHTLY...BY REMAINING SILENT ... AND TELL TO YOURSELF - "NOT TO BOTHER AS YOUR ARE GREAT AND HUMANS ARE NOT EVEN CAPABLE OF BEING ENEMIES" ...
JUST LOVE ALLAH ... AS ONLY HE ALONE IS CAPABLE OF LOVE ... OPEN UP TO HIM... ASK HIM TO FORGIVE U... ASK HIM TO LIGHTEN THE BURDEN...
HE NEVER BURDENS A SOUL MORE THAN IT COULD BEAR...
ALSO THE LAST PHASE OF NIGHT IS THE DARKEST HOUR AND THEN THERE COMES BRIGHT MORNINGS...
DO SOMETHING THAT U LOVE THAT MIGHT DISTRACT U FROM NEGATIVE THOUGHTS ...
الحمدلله for all the blessings we have..
Even those which we might be taking for granted, as simple as having a peaceful household ❣️
the prophet peace and blessings be upon him advised us that the best of yalls are the ones who are best to them folks and I am the best to my folks . . . . . THIS IS WHAT THIS STUDENTS FATHER NEEDS TO HEAR!!!!!! inshallah i hope it turns out well for the student in the next episode
I recently failed medical school from financial and social reasons, my parents are always fighting as well. This video was a bliss❤️, I do wish some evidences were discussed too
I hope you get help brother
Don't blame yourself but always believe.
Allah swt brought you to it. You are worth more than your academics. May Allah swt ease your hardships
It's upsetting because parent's don't even realise that what they're doing is wrong and abusive. My mom said she should have hit me more to make me stronger. Astaghfirallah 😭 she doesn't even realise the pain she caused me, I'm so so so sensitive now and traumatised. She's crazy she's scary when she gets angry. I love her a lot but it's not good for my mental health living with her, sometimes I think of running away when I'm 18 but then I know I have no where else to go.
I know a situation like this, the girl made mistakes and blamed the parents and then she left. I understand life is not perfect but I know an elderly man who said, you can only find peace when you make peace with you parents. In not blaming you, but it's there anything you may be doing wrong?? I know this girl made big mistakes, it's become clearer and clearer that it's not the parents. She was always great until this 'thing' happened.
Even if you've done nothing, sometimes these things take time, ask allah for resilience and maybe stay out of her way.
Are you good with your dad??
@@marlenehussein4530 No, I've done nothing wrong I'm not those type of ppl who mess about or are a huge test for their parent's. I mind my own business, the only problem is I'm lazy and I procrastinate a lot other than that there's nothing. How can I stay out of her way, I love my mother A LOT and I'm upset when I get these feelings, she doesn't hit me as much now but her words do hurt. I'm mostly likely not gonna run away. Yes I am alhamdulillah but he lives somewhere else I don't think he'll understand
@@almaskhan3049 it really sounds like she has her own issues.... ask her how she would like to make things better, ask her how she would like her life to change... really sounds like she has her own baggage...I know that's not your job... but it's important to keep it in mind. Make dua to allah before talking to her. When you run way, one day you will have to face it again any way.
Everything can be sorted out for family.
Study hard, you have your future ahead of you.
@@marlenehussein4530 Yes thank you, she has suffered a lot.
@@marlenehussein4530 I'm not gonna ask her though, once life gets better she'll get better other than that not gonna talk about it.
Plz could u talk more about abuse 💔💔💔emotional abuse, guilt tripping, manipulation 😭narcissm. Plz it kills a person. Even financial abuse. Needs to be spoken about. Girls get treated differently to men. Exploitation of money as well. Wallahi it happens.
May Allah ease your hardships and keep you steadfast in His path.
I don’t know about u guys but I’m seriously loving this series can’t wait till the next episode ❤️❤️
Wow, we need more of this in the world. Beautiful dialogue. Alhamdulillah.
:( please pray for me brothers and sisters
I hope for you success and happinness,take care my sister and have a good day/night
Subhan Allah this is exactly what I needed!
It’s sad that so many people go through this everyday
The videos that you guys make are amazing !
I really enjoy them you tech people about Islam in a really beautiful way
Masha Allah..we just need our every home like this counsellor…keep it up with more good videos may Allah bless u all
These are the type of Sheikh we need in Africa, in my country (The Gambia) where 95% are Muslims but is hard to find such good, patient, caring above all knowledgeable peoples in a society or schools. Ya Allah guide and protect the Muslim Ummah to the straight path.......
MashAllah Tabarakallah, what greatt Islamic friendly educational videos, love how these videos are in relation to nowadays (2022) and many students may relate to these videos, May Allah swt bless you guys for this hard work and dedication, what a great way to spread dawah!
Fantastic video keep it up your doing amazing job
I am facing the same problem as his. Not gonna lie.
It's so unpleasant living with parents who always puts you down or yelling at you over small things until they're satisfied looking at you with a miserable looks on your face. And because of that I have low self-esteem.
Sometimes l'm also losing my patience.
I know it's haram to cry in the bathroom , but it is the only place where I can loosen up until I calm down, I can't avoid it and I have no one else to talk to.
I always wanted to be alone and living in silence where I won't face any problems. 😔
May Allah forgive me and grants me peace in my life.
Who said it is haram to cry in the bathroom? There is no single evidence from the Sunnah.
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@Wish Princess Charming Was Real What do you mean exactly?
Cry it out, but ask allah for truth and strength. Ask allah to show your parents the truth. In most cases, both sides have something negative to contribute. It's not right to say it's your fault or to say it's theirs, find out what could be your contributing factors. Ask allah for truth.
Crying isn’t haram
MashaAllah thank you so much. May Allah bless you 💚💚💚
Assalamu aleykum. Thank you for these vids brothers. May Allah reward you all.
This randomly camr up on my reccommended and I'm soo grateful. Very fun interactive way of spreading Islamic ruling and modern problems
Masha’Allah another nice episode Shukran for this 🇵🇭☝️❤️
Powerful video
Alhamdulillah for a peaceful household
I have been watching all your school diary videos please make them longer and a great job!
Thank you for this series me being a student find it so helpful pls do make more
Relatable. The Muslim diaries is inspiring and meaningful can't wait for the next video.may Allah bless you guys. Ameen
I adddddddore this chanel, I really appreciate your great effort. You R just changing our lives, reviving our Islam and nourshing our Ummah with such incredibly amaaazzzing benefical content. May Allah reward you for it. I subscribed form 3 accounts. Love to such scholars and skeikhs and keep going.
Really useful Thanks
Wow this is an amazing episode
I relate to it
Thank you speak about this topic.
thanks zajakAllah khair, that's my situation now
Marvelous video Masha ALLAH ♥️
Everyone should have guide like shaykh
A Great Lesson ❤️
Man I hate it when you and your father have nothing in common, and the only time him speaking to you is when he's yelling at you..
Allahu Akbar! So good! Jazak Allohu khairan
These series are amazing and relatable! mA
Masha Allah..i love this ..
بارك الله فيكم
Wonderful work! May Allah bless you all😊
We need a sheikh like this at our school.
Subhan'Allah ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
Masha'allah
We will be waiting for new episodes Inn shaa Allah
Barak Allahu feekum
Very nice! I like this style of video making.
they are there to make us better, to grow💥💥
Every Muslim wherever they live is a part of me.
And I ask Allah to reward you and strengthen your faith, your Iman.
Subhanallah this cam help apot of people brother and sisters
It is sooo good idea to act a normal life of muslims to spread the truth and knowledge 🙈🤲🏻💙 so beautiful , Ma Sha Allah , May Allah taala rewards you , and bless you brothers and sisters 🤲🏻🌜
May Allah SWT reward you with Firdaus for having the honesty and guts to talk about a reality that many shaykhs refuse to acknowledge, namely that abusive parents exist and they can scar their children for life. Most Muslims live in some idealistic utopia. They harp on about the duty of obedience to parents without acknowledging that some parents are monsters.
I really hope I have someone to talk to like this syakh. This is exactly what I feel now. I didn't talk with my mom for one month coz she always abusing me and said I'm useless and so on. I have twins and my mom always take care of her more than me. I do really feel unloved and unappreciated. I try to take a break sitting in my room reading the books but end up my mom said I'm lazy, she even said I'm munafiq 😔 I really don't know what should I do to make our relationship better.
MASYA ALLAH...ALLAHU AKBAR🙏🙏🙏
Damnn mashaAllah
Alhamdulillah, very nice. We would love to see you have a episode on how the Muslims treat people like the Aboriginal Australia with ibrahim as the lead actor. 😀
School diaries series for Muslims is a great idea! I wished to be said at the end "I can't solve all your problems, but Allah can, pray to Him for help" , that's an advice to be insisted upon in sha Allah
ما شاء اللّٰه شغل جامد جدًا 😍😍✋
Masallah nice video😇😊
❤️🥰sheikh.the way he explained
I love your videos♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
MashAllah :)
part 2 good
👍
There is no one in this world who hasn't been exposed to some sort of abuse or trauma either earlier or later in life. Sometimes it's from parents, a death in the family or financial struggles. A Muslim never loses hope that things will get better, that they will change, people will change. No one's abuse, no matter who it is, is worth throwing your life away for. Remember.... you will always have a future ahead of you.... make it bright, with our without these problems.
The two things that abuse has taught me is how not to treat people and to never deny it. Abusers are quick to deny and blame the victim.
Mashallah
Masya Allah, bagus
I'm 59 yrs old now , female, at age 7 l was wipped by my father my whole body was in slashes, only because l wanted little more drink of cola in my glass. My brother s were older they got full glass. So terrifying at the time l was protecting my body with my hands as l was being whipped. And in following yrs l was abused verbally and physically by my father never saw affection or guilt in him for what he did. My mum abused me from 13 yrs onwards together my parents destroyed my mind and l developed personality problems. Also in school l was bullied by few greek boys because l was Turkish. I wanted to complete education but because of all this l finished after yr 10. Anyway l saw alot of abuse etc in my life. Only now lm 59 and lm so glad those days are over. Elhamdülillah I'm well now. my children have put happiness into my life elhamdülillah and learning true Islam has made me understand everything better. So good for children to talk to Islam teachings now days, l didn't have anyone. Hope for all Muslims struggling to find peace, happiness eventually just be patient. After every struggle comes peace. Even if it takes yrs wish you all good health and happiness selam
I went through this when I was a young teen it brings back bitter memories. In all honesty now my self I have children and I hate to say this I am no better than what my father was to me. May Allah make me better father to my children.
Ameen
You still have time to change and be better.
@@almaskhan3049 yes I know and I am now.
@@yusuf.alajnabi That's good alhamdulillah, I wish my mother had changed but she's still the same😔and if she did change and realise what she did was wrong I would have been grateful and wouldn't think of running away.
@@yusuf.alajnabi My parents arguing gives me the biggest headache and makes me so angry. Not good for my mental health
I can relate to this video
I used to think I am worthless now I realize how strong I have been dealing with all this
JazakAllahu khair...
This video is a 10 out of 10
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
Walaikum assalam Warahmatullah Wabarakatuhu
plz keep on loading more vedios you have all the solutions plz my brothers
...I wish my local imams and shiekhs cared like this.
Wow 😢 i felt like that guy was talking to me
Make Dua For Me Please.
This is a good way to attract the tik tok generation children. Ma shaa Allah good job.
:( this one is a sad episode
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Good acting.
❤️ 🌹 👌
Mark Wahlberg looks like this Sheikh.May Allah bless Sheikh and his loved ones
What?
أتمنى ترجمة القناة للغة العربية 💔💔
Well I'm 11 years old and I grew up fast (girls may understand) I CRY EVERY SINGLE DAY!
So, my mom is forcing me to wear abaya to school with niqab and it really gets on my nerves I mean I cant swim, can't do anything! Can't sit with my legs wide open I have 4 elder brothers mashallah they are free to do anything like they smoke, drink have girlfriends with manyyyy ex's go to swimming, sit with wide legs open and go to school without abaya, touch girls and talk to them, I mean I'm in a girls school yet! And got a phone at the age of 8 and have laptop/ipad come home late, say me badwords, treat me like garbage, hurt me , wear shorts and be free.
WHILE ME ON THE OTHER HAND IS IN A JAIL, A LEASH THAT I CAN NEVER BREAK THROUGH! I HATE MY LIFE ITS SO DAMN EMBARRASSING, EVERYONE IS STARING AT ME AND WHISPERING BUT WHAT CAN I DO?????? I GUESS THERE ARE ONLY 2 OPTIONS....
....
SUICIDE!
Or
RUNAWAY! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
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My situation is same and i wont forgive anyone for what they have done to me. I am just an orphan.
Asalamu Alaykum
Wa alaykum asalam
islam can fix every issue in life