High School Girls REVEAL SECRETS to Muslim Parents
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- čas přidán 30. 06. 2024
- OnePath Network sat down with Muslim Parents who read out anonymous confessions from Muslim High School Girls in Sydney, Australia.
This is what took place.
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This is why I gave up my career (2 Honors Bachelor's in Biology & Chemistry & a Masters in Biomedical Engineering) to homeschool my 5 daughters, May Allah (swt) make it easy on these parents 🤲
Amiin
Ameen. And may Allah also make it easy for you and reward you
Ameen, may Allah Azzawajal make it easy for you too, in shaa Allah
A friend of mine has done this for her three children... May Allah SWT make it easy for you.
Surely, your sacrifice will not get waste. May Allah help you and make it easy for you. Ameen
I'm about to be a freshmen in high school and a revert going to a public school. I'm making dua every day that I will be guide threw the fitnah of high school and that I will not be tempted to do any thing Haram. Also, I hope I have a muslim friend in high school In Sha Allah 🤲🙂
Keep this in mind, no amount of pleasure in this world is worth loosing Allah’s mercy , through his mercy only do we all enter paradise . May he keep our hearts firm upon his guidance.
Ameen
Whaa! How d'you find Islam at such a young age!
May Allah Sobhano keep you steadfast and safe from all haram things. Always be mindful that Allah is watching and angels are recording each deed.❤❤
In shaa Allah you’ll get whatever you hope and wish for
The world became dirty and ugly, so parents must have a great connection with their children. Teach them and talk to them and show them what's happening in our country and teach them what Islam is the real Islam ☪️
Or just go into a Islamic country with Sharia law. Why you all prefer to live in western countries if you don't like them? Nobody force you!
Yes! The real Islam, not the culture Islam
The real solution is don't send them to the fitnah otherwise cry
@@DontOpenThisChannel agreed!
@@Avana20By "Culture Islam" you mean "How Western policies perceive Islam"?
May Allah protect all of us from the evil of this world Ameen 🤲🏻🤲🏼🤲🏽🤲🏾🤲🏿
Aren't we the heedless ones? Haven't we forgotten the fact that we all will die one day and we all will be raised again on the day of Qayamat? If we are not the heedless ones, then; Aren't we jealous of our own siblings and friends
Aren't we worshiping idols (watching idol worshipers movies)Don't we marry our children against their will?Don't we cheat in our exams at school and college level?Don't we stare at women?Don't we involve ourselves in Pornography and masturbation and above that, proudly advertise it?Don't we count having many boyfriends and girlfriends as status symbols?Don't we destroy our lives in the name of love?Don't we dance in mixed gatherings in weddings?Don't we pray Salaat but ignore the rights of Zakat and Khums?Don't we gossip uselessly about everything and everyone behind their backs?Don't we usurp the rights of others?Aren't we involved in usury?Don't we respect people due to the amount of wealth, power and fame they possess, and not piety?Don't we use force against the weak and the poor?Aren't we rude with our elders and make fun of someone who is different from us?Don't we sell things at a higher price to take advantage of the situation and earn more money?Don't we hate each other, kill each other in the name of religion?Don't we visit darbaars and mazaars of Qalanders etc to pay homage to someone who has no role in deen, and as a bonus, witness prostitution and selling of drugs which take place at such places usually?Don't we give normal people and Sahabas, men who are answerable for their own actions, the rank of the Ahlulbayt, the people on who we send our durood?Don't we follow mullahs blindly, shia or Sunni, and believe everything which suits us, without any verification?
Aameen Allahumma Aameen
Ameen 🤲🏽
Ameen thumma ameen.
Ameen
The problem in Islamic schools in the western countries comes from families that don't give their children any Deen tarbiyah 😢. They are not practicing Muslims but they expect the Islamic school to culture their children. Children whom are exposed to fitna in their upbringing, unfortunately pass it onto other students in school. Problematic students whom have been exposed to unmoral behavior in public schools cause a humongous disturbance when they enroll in an Islamic school. One rotten apple will affect all the good apples. I volunteered for 10 years, witnessed it with my own eyes. Parents please do your job, connect with your child from day one! No one is going to raise your child for you. Never ever allow sleepovers and always attend functions with them. Remind them that they go to school to get an education and to keep socialization professional. Become your child's friend and keep them occupied, but please don't let down your guard. If possible always drop and pick your children from schools yourselves. May Allah swt make it easy for all of us.
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Assalam Aleykum. Peace be upon you. You are absolutely right! My children do not attend an Islamic public school, but they go to Sunday school at our local mosque. I once volunteered at another Islamic Sunday school and noticed the same thing. It feels like some parents treat it as a recreational party, dropping off their kids so they can run errands. Some parents, especially women, don't show respect for the mosque as they are poorly and inappropriately dressed when dropping off their kids. We always have to remind them to dress their little girls more appropriately. It's disheartening to see parents disengage from their role. May Allah help us understand that we send our kids to these Islamic schools to nurture the good values we instill in them at home, as nurturing should start from the home. May Allah assist us parents in doing our best for our kids. Ameen Ya Rab
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Ameen
Agree completely. The difference is very apparent which children receive Deeni tarbiyah at home and which ones do not. It cannot be stressed enough how crucial it is for all parents of children at every age and stage to immerse themselves in learning and practicing Deen themselves first.
I took my daughter out of public school in high school and moved to a Muslim country and now she finishing her high school online, these schools are scary and are not a place for our kids if we care about them
My parents did the same thing and I'm very thankfull. Even as a parent you can't know everything that happens at school... May Allah reward you and please give your daughter the needed support and love as she is homeschooled now... Something I wish to tell my parents one day in shaa Allah ❤
Which country? Can anyone explain and help me as well please 🙏🏻
@@Aven2025
Tukey, bosnia, Qatar, kuwait etc are good options
Pray for me and my husband before we have Children we're scared of how Children are these days😢
good decision!
I'm glad we can talk more about these issues in an Islamic way, because it needs to be addressed. May Allah guide us all and heal the girls mentioned, amen
Girls are equally to be blamed, wake up and speak the haq
It's scary...may Allah pour His mercy upon all the Muslims!
Ameen Ameen 😢
Ameen
Ameen Thum'mah Allahumma Ameen Yaa Rab'bal Aalameen
Shayteen is real
“Whoever asks Allah (SWT) Paradise three times (Allahuma inni as’aluka Al Jannah) Paradise says: ‘O Allah, admit him into Paradise’, and whoever seeks refuge from the Fire three times (Allahumma ajirni minan naar), the Fire says: ‘O Allah, save him from the Fire.'” - [Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 2572]
Also say: ‘A’udhu bika minan naar’
meaning “I seek refuge in You (Allah) from the Fire (Hell).”
{وَإِذَا قِيلَ لَهُمْ لا تُفْسِدُوا فِي الأَرْضِ قَالُوا إِنَّمَا نَحْنُ مُصْلِحُونَ * أَلا إِنَّهُمْ هُمُ الْمُفْسِدُونَ وَلَكِنْ لا يَشْعُرُونَ} [البقرة:١١ - ١٢].
Aren't we the heedless ones? Haven't we forgotten the fact that we all will die one day and we all will be raised again on the day of Qayamat? If we are not the heedless ones, then; Aren't we jealous of our own siblings and friends
Aren't we worshiping idols (watching idol worshipers movies)Don't we marry our children against their will?Don't we cheat in our exams at school and college level?Don't we stare at women?Don't we involve ourselves in Pornography and masturbation and above that, proudly advertise it?Don't we count having many boyfriends and girlfriends as status symbols?Don't we destroy our lives in the name of love?Don't we dance in mixed gatherings in weddings?Don't we pray Salaat but ignore the rights of Zakat and Khums?Don't we gossip uselessly about everything and everyone behind their backs?Don't we usurp the rights of others?Aren't we involved in usury?Don't we respect people due to the amount of wealth, power and fame they possess, and not piety?Don't we use force against the weak and the poor?Aren't we rude with our elders and make fun of someone who is different from us?Don't we sell things at a higher price to take advantage of the situation and earn more money?Don't we hate each other, kill each other in the name of religion?Don't we visit darbaars and mazaars of Qalanders etc to pay homage to someone who has no role in deen, and as a bonus, witness prostitution and selling of drugs which take place at such places usually?Don't we give normal people and Sahabas, men who are answerable for their own actions, the rank of the Ahlulbayt, the people on who we send our durood?Don't we follow mullahs blindly, shia or Sunni, and believe everything which suits us, without any verification?
I am shocked 😳 I am not from Australia, I didn't expect the first confession from a private Islamic high school!
They are not talking about Islamic high schools but about public schools
@@abdellatifhadfi9097 1:02 it's written "private Islamic high school"
tip to help with this filthy world: never be surprised, always prepare for the worst but also always hope for the best.
this helped me and still does where growing up life is far away from the best but that is ok most people don't have a good life.
@@abdellatifhadfi9097 1st two are private Islamic school, rest are public
Sadly many parents can't be bothered with connecting with their children. We commonly hear 'kids these days!', I can honestly say 'parents these days!!!'. Parents don't engage with their kids, they cant be bothered raising them properly and give them full access to social media from a very young age.
Parents didn't engage with their kids in prior eras either. The difference is that nowadays the parents and kids are exposed to the most extreme filth imaginable.
That's not to say such stuff didnt happen in previous eras but it was not recorded and put out for the world to see.
The minds of children and parents are polluted nowadays. It's very hard to overcome this. The only way is a complete ban on the internet. Even in Muslim countries, both the parents and children are exposed to the filth
Exactly
Every child is a reflection of their parents/guardians behavior and their actions. Kids need a framework to copy and grow up in their early years. So if their caretakers are corrupt, so will they be.
My parents are too busy arguing with each other or yelling at us kids for not being like their friends kids etc. I actually forgot that there are kids out there that can confide to their parents...lol could never be me. If I told them I once tried a vape and had an online boyfriend they'd just belt me. Probably wouldn't have done any of that if I had parents I could connect with emotionally. But I'm over it and I don't care that I don't have that. I have lots of other things so I'm not going to cry about what I don't have
@@Kepler10b
That's really sad .
How old r u?
I don't know how parents can be like that .
I have had similar experiences
Islam is the only religion which will protect you and your family.
I seek refuge in Allah from the evil of that which He has created.
Surat Al-Falaq
Indeed he has made the evil as a test for us and our deen
Allahumma Aameen
Shayteen is everywhere
@@Allahjannah sure they are, hence why we should always seek Allah’s protection from them.
MashaAllah, I love these type of content. Some of these conversations are really uncomfortable, but need to be had in our community, considering the state of this world. We need to be better family members, neighbours, and community members - especially to the vulnerable youth.
may Allah protect our sisters
And brothers too ameen
@@Freetoughts why do you always have to do gender war?
@@nusratjahansamia7099 this is no gender war. I’m a muslima and I wish my brothers protection too. What is wrong with that? Do you know how many bad things happen to little boys and men too?
No school is safe things happen in schools that are out of our control and a lot of the times kids don’t want to talk to their parents about these things because they are afraid of judgement and punishment right away. Parents living in the west if you can homeschool your kids we cant shield them from the world but private school or not I have heard and seen horrible disgusting things. Also ensure your kids can always talk to you about anything that happens or people that make them feel uncomfortable its seriously so important. May Allah guide us and grant us righteous offspring ameen💔💔
OMG, theres a lot of fitnah. Especially for Muslim boys that are in public school especially Middle school or high school its very hard for them to lower there Gaze WALLAHI it is! When I'm in my school and my school is a very very good school and I like my school but the everywhere I look in my school there half naked people walking. Look up they are there, look down and you will see there half naked legs, look to the right side you see them, look left and you see them and if you look at high up you will see there hair and all there makeup on there face so it's basically impossible to lower your gaze and as Muslims boys, Boys have a bigger tempt of temptation then girls that's why girls are asked to cover but boys are asked to lower there gaze. Girls don't like to look at stuff as much instead they like it when they look beautiful and boys LIKE what they look at and they love it so much but they don't care as much if people are looking at them and how they look and that's why Girls have to cover themselves completely and boys have to completely lower there gaze. Muslim boys in High School want to get married but they can't because it's not the appropriate time to get married and there still studying. But because of the Fitnah and the tempt for your desires and your haram temptations is the reason why they want to do haram. Wallahi it's the hardest thing to fight over your haram temptations.
If you can like I will appreciate it because it took me a while to write this but not that long where it took too long.
This is the biggest struggle for muslims in the west honestly 😢 i gave up my career to stay home with our 3 boys and 4th boy on the way in August inshallah. We removed our little boys from public school in 2019 and moved to Western rural Victoria to put them one of the best islamic schools Victoria has to offer..we teach our boys at home what being muslim requires, our character, behaviour, speech and manners etc yet they are children who come from very unislamic homes subhanallah, parents expect school to discipline their kids sadly😩 thank God the school is very strict and they expel certain bad behaviours, so far no vaping etc.. i have heard many islamic schools having issues with vaping unfortunately. May Allah protect our kids , we fighting shaitan himself.. we must educate our kids at home and instil the islamic values at home. One of the reason we never bought house or invested in Australia was to flee with our kids back home to our country if things get worse here. We dont wana be tied down here..more parents should take their kids back home to instil islamic identity and culture. Also I wish more mothers stayed home but sadly thats not possible for many households in the west😢..im grateful my boys can talk to me about anything n i listen n advice them when needed. They are 10, 7 n 5 and they ask us about the rainbow community n we teach them about the people of prophet Lut (pbuh) and their punishment from Allah n as muslims we should never repeat their practises..subhanallah children's innocence is being taken away by this evil society we live in..when they see 2 women holding hands in shops they say astaqfurallah n look away😂 we dont judge or stare others we make duaa that Allah guides them..plz spend time with your kids. 😢
May Allah bless you in your children, make your hearts firm in His religion, facilitate your birth, and grant you a righteous child ,sister 💗🫶🏻
Ur a responsible mom. But the responsibility does end here, u have to make hijra for u, for ur children.
You think the east is any better
@@zabirhussain way better than lgbtq
@@alwahabmedia5824 gay people exist in the east just as much as the west. Get over yourself
I know a friend in Saudi Arabia and she is also from that community😢 may Allah make it easy for her and guide her back cuz she does want to change and is trying
Most of em are ugly lol
Aren't we the heedless ones? Haven't we forgotten the fact that we all will die one day and we all will be raised again on the day of Qayamat? If we are not the heedless ones, then; Aren't we jealous of our own siblings and friends
Aren't we worshiping idols (watching idol worshipers movies)Don't we marry our children against their will?Don't we cheat in our exams at school and college level?Don't we stare at women?Don't we involve ourselves in Pornography and masturbation and above that, proudly advertise it?Don't we count having many boyfriends and girlfriends as status symbols?Don't we destroy our lives in the name of love?Don't we dance in mixed gatherings in weddings?Don't we pray Salaat but ignore the rights of Zakat and Khums?Don't we gossip uselessly about everything and everyone behind their backs?Don't we usurp the rights of others?Aren't we involved in usury?Don't we respect people due to the amount of wealth, power and fame they possess, and not piety?Don't we use force against the weak and the poor?Aren't we rude with our elders and make fun of someone who is different from us?Don't we sell things at a higher price to take advantage of the situation and earn more money?Don't we hate each other, kill each other in the name of religion?Don't we visit darbaars and mazaars of Qalanders etc to pay homage to someone who has no role in deen, and as a bonus, witness prostitution and selling of drugs which take place at such places usually?Don't we give normal people and Sahabas, men who are answerable for their own actions, the rank of the Ahlulbayt, the people on who we send our durood?Don't we follow mullahs blindly, shia or Sunni, and believe everything which suits us, without any verification?
If she wants to change then she's not from that community. The first step is to not consider her from that it "community " even if she did the did before.
@@Fx_Explains fortunately, she isn't that far gone, she's still virgin
To the father that said it's not your fault you went through this and you are not alone. I was a daughter who had been groomed and sexually assaulted by so called male relatives. I was between ages 9-12 or 13. Well I was a target all the way up to 19. When I was a child I knew I didn't like what was happening and I told Anties. They accused me of trying to get their sons killed and denied they would ever do such a thing. my point is you can't even imagine how that hit my heart that a Muslim father would understand who is the victim and who is the abuser in that situation. Especially for a father figure to comfort their daughter will make all the difference in the world as to how well the female heals. from the victim's perspective my brothers and father's in Islam, DO NOT tell your daughters they were being of lose character or whatever if they got raped or sexualyl abused. First of all it's wrong. Even if they chose to be with the person but didn't expect to ahve sexual relations and told them to stop then it was rape. You need to educate yourselves on how to handle such a situation. Because if you aren't there for them they will never trust people again. And some girls end up promiscuous because of that experience. You have no idea what it's like to not be believed. Especially being an abandoned child. I went through self abuse like cutting myself and beating head on wall and biting myself and bed wetting. My anxiety and PTSD was so bad I still don't trust anyone and now take medication for it. It affected my health very much so. Problem is, I didn't know I was suffering from CPTSD and extreme anxiety. You are expected to be this good little girl do as you are told while no one ever comforts you for your suffering. Then they wonder why you end up an angry cynical person. I have healed a lot but most of it was connection with Allah which no one else helped me with it was Allah's mercy on me. I sued to talk to Allah in my head and even yell at him when I was a child. Then I studied psychology and learned about human behavior and that really helped.
My point is, especially Muslim girls will probably not even tell you what they been through out of shame. And because they will be accused which happens in most cases. Also they are aware if a potential marriage partner found out they aren't virgins who's gonna marry them? A lot kill themselves to prevent having to tell anyone. SO talk to your daughters and make sure you are aware of all the family interactions. I don't care if it's a trusted praying uncle and no matter how sweet they seem. Some know how to groom a child into sexual pleasures. The kid doesn't know what's going on and what's right and wrong. So watch your daughter's behavior especially. I don't mean control them I saying if their behavior changes drastically find out why. Like say they suddenly hate every man that is around or if they have more bruises then normal. Or if they stay away from people more then usual. Sometimes them becoming sexually active might not be because of their friends or society. They could have been abused. Sometimes girls use their sexuality as a way of getting the control back they lost over their bodies and they don't realize what they are doing. So yes, communicating with your kids at a young age as to what is appropriate and what isn't and keeping eye on behavior changes is very important.
Sorry for what you went through. It hit me hard when you said....you have no idea how it feels not to be believed...Only people who went through abuse will understand you. I pray you get peace for the rest of your life❤
Sending you virtual hugs. I’m sorry you had to go through so much hardship. Not being believed is the most crushing thing. May Allah grant you sakinah and full shifa from your emotional wounds❤ And may Allah protect our girls from predators.
@@artisthusnatalal3099 You know there is a saying that ALlah only puts you through what he knows you can handle. I always thought I am not sure if I can believe this why should a human have to go through such stuff. But I think I understand now at age 48. Everything I have been through it made me more compassionate towards everyone. Less trusting but yet I have empathy for others that suffer. So alhamdolillah for Allah's blessings. At least we are not in Gaza right now.
@@AquariusDragon1 ... Trials will face us in every angle but Allah will always be there for us. You're right we are not in Gaza. I don't know what I would do if I was there maybe commit suic..... Take care of yourself. Please eat healthy and read Surah Baqarah it will help with all stress and trauma that we humans get. ❤️
@@artisthusnatalal3099 I do read the last 2 verses of Surah Bakrah and Ayat Ul Kursi and 4 quls every night
This isn't a recent thing, in my high-school in Pakistan it was a co-ed school and I saw girls coming in with burkas going to the washroom and taking them off then going on dates with the popular guys, I saw the same when it came to events and they would be dancing with boys getting touched inappropriately while they sprinkled water everywhere. It got so bad that even as a guy I stopped going to events in the school and I would limit my interactions and leave as soon as school was over. Often times when kids try to tell their parents they get ignored and often times they haven't even been taught what Islam is. Co-ed schools should not exist in Islamic countries.
I used to go to an Islamic high school in bangladesh and it was the same thing! girls used to wear full hijab and abaya then take it off once their parents were out of sight. May Allah guide us all!
If you let your child loose on the dunya, you also let the dunya loose on your child.
Hadith 22: Adhering only to obligations الاقتصار على الفرائض
Jabir ibn Abdullah reported: A man asked the Messenger of Allah, saying, “O Messenger of Allah, do you think if I pray the five prescribed prayers, I fast the month of Ramadan, and I uphold what is lawful and unlawful without adding anything to it, will I enter Paradise?” The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said:
نَعَمْ
Yes.
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 15, Grade: Sahih
Jazakhallahu Khairan
10:16 aww that made me emotional. People hating makes my faith stronger too.
Get every child to read Quran in the english translation from early on as well, a few verses daily.
I see this happening every day coming from work, high school students from public schools will board simultaneously. most of them are of Muslim background. They use slurs, and foul language, curse each other, and also use the word Wallahi. How is that possible, they talk openly about having relationships with two/three persons simultaneously. They will talk about how they were during Ramadan and will back to regular life after Ramadan. I wonder what are their relationships with their parents. May Allah guide them, protect them, and show them the right path.
As Salam alaykum I feel just like the last guy subhan Allah that frustration energy can be put in a much better way. Putting all that energy and learning our diin it's Amazingly calming and beautiful.
Problem is that, that parents dont speak and don't teach their kids, u can hear haram this haram that without explanation, teach them about these days teen-agers problems, politics, how solve problem,how recognise enemies and even how defence themselves. And u not just a parent provider ur protector as well in all kinda different way
Its funny to think its the parents fault. Every school child who has such experiences has a parent who thinks it can never be their child
I didn't say it's parents fault first, I said it's a problem because we as parents don't give full attention to our kids, myself raising 2 teenagers so when I say Ik what I say, I want to protect my kids. If U do care about Ur child U LL do the same, obviously kids make mistakes but from that they can learn more and parents too.
I agree
@@aamirkhan6692to be fair khabib was right
How much Time do you spend with your parents?
You go 10 hours everyday and indoctrinated by the school
And then only a few hours which you spend with parents or you don't because you do hw and stay with friends
Pray for me and my husband as we want Children but we're scared with all what we see and hear😢
May Allah protect our children from these dirts.
OMG, theres a lot of fitnah. Especially for Muslim boys that are in public school especially Middle school or high school its very hard for them to lower there Gaze WALLAHI it is! When I'm in my school and my school is a very very good school and I like my school but the everywhere I look in my school there half naked people walking. Look up they are there, look down and you will see there half naked legs, look to the right side you see them, look left and you see them and if you look at high up you will see there hair and all there makeup on there face so it's basically impossible to lower your gaze and as Muslims boys, Boys have a bigger tempt of temptation then girls that's why girls are asked to cover but boys are asked to lower there gaze. Girls don't like to look at stuff as much instead they like it when they look beautiful and boys LIKE what they look at and they love it so much but they don't care as much if people are looking at them and how they look and that's why Girls have to cover themselves completely and boys have to completely lower there gaze. Muslim boys in High School want to get married but they can't because it's not the appropriate time to get married and there still studying. But because of the Fitnah and the tempt for your desires and your haram temptations is the reason why they want to do haram. Wallahi it's the hardest thing to fight over your haram temptations.
If you can like I will appreciate it because it took me a while to write this but not that long where it took too long.
Ameen
I wonder why muslim in west don't run private girls schools and universities where muslim values and science will be tought.
Muslim community in west isn't too small.
Subhan Allah....what a powerful video!!!
The problem is parents ARE aware. So many parents support this mainstream narrative and agenda on children know what's best for them and as parents we should only support them.
I always say, if I have my way, I will ask every parent to volunteer in school at least 2 weeks to understand Schools can be like a war zone for our children. So if you are sending your child, then prepare them, understand them and support them!
And I thought only my german school was like that... Astaghfuru Allah I could cry about this ummah for hours. May Allah help us all.
What's the situation in germany?
@@nusratjahansamia7099 trust me, the situation in Germany is better that the situation in much of the so called "islamic world". I live in a Muslim country and the youngs and also the adults here are unhinged. adultery is rampant, I know a lot of men who cheat on their wives and vice versa. In schools, they call boys and girls who do not associate with the opposite gender sick and mentally ill. trust me Germany is better than a thousand Muslim country.
@@tanmi628 did you live in germany?
@@nusratjahansamia7099 Part of their normal education is showing us films and videos or pictures about astagfuru Allah I won't say it. It's just super normal for them and I'm abnormal because I would never watch that stuff. They even start teaching things they shouldn't teach kids in grade 3. And the school next to mine had many many arabs who were also 'muslims'. They were smoking, buying and selling and doing dr.ugs and ofc every boy had his ten blondies and every girl had her ten boys. Lgbtq is spread like horrible and we're not allowed to say anything about it. We moved out of Germany shortly before 7th of October. Now Germany is arresting people for speaking up for palestine. And racism, discrimination and islamophobia are normal daily things. Not to forget what conversations I had to hear on a daily basis on a normal school day from the girls and classmates in general. Like I really don't want to know. Alhamdulillah I was raised right and I know how to follow my religion and stay on my deen and akhlaq. Many 'muslims' seem to have forgotten their religion in their home country. 💔
@@nusratjahansamia7099 Part of their normal education is showing us films and videos or pictures about astagfuru Allah I won't say it. It's just super normal for them and I'm abnormal because I would never watch that stuff. They even start teaching things they shouldn't teach kids in grade 3. And the school next to mine had many many arabs who were also 'muslims'. They were smoking, buying and selling and doing dr.ugs and ofc every boy had his ten blondies and every girl had her ten boys. Lgbtq is spread like horrible and we're not allowed to say anything about it. We moved out of Germany shortly before 7th of October. Now Germany is arresting people for speaking up for palestine. And racism, discrimination and islamophobia are normal daily things. Not to forget what conversations I had to hear on a daily basis on a normal school day from the girls and classmates in general. Like I really don't want to know. Alhamdulillah I was raised right and I know how to follow my religion and stay on my deen and akhlaq. Many 'muslims' seem to have forgotten their religion in their home country. 💔
Sad to hear but either you homeschool or made hijrah to muslim country. I couldnt imagine other options. This is sad to happen but we cant control the environment but choose other diff one. Even muslim country is not safe from this kind of things but not so prevalent. May Allah protects our future generation
Only sensible person here, people think there children can be saved after letting them be in this environment
I agree but you still have to connect with your children…. People say to just move to a Muslim country and everything will be fixed, in fact there is still lots of haram in Muslim countries, it’s all about connecting and being around the right people. I’m in Canada but I chose the good Muslim friends who prevent each other from going astray. I can easily see myself going in the wrong direction being around the bad friends which I had a couple years back, so I got to experience both ends of the spectrum but alhamdullilah I truly see the impact of having the right friend and May Allah swt help us all
Not to mention I used to live in Qatar aswell so I’ve literally seen it all
Do you honestly think all this doesn't happen in muslim countries? We need to stop thinking that the Muslim world is safe from this..
this is why my children are doing home schooling
In my opinion, as someone who has experienced some awful things in the name of Islam in the name of honor and protecting the image of the family. Parents forget that they give birth to a human that they are responsible for, not other people's view of their family. Kids don’t want to grow up in a family that doesn’t pay attention to them and care more about what others think. Your family is strong when you create an open home environment and trust yourself and your children. But you lose that child's trust when you care more about your image. We need to stop saying “haram” to everything instead of explaining and teaching. We care more about who's kid is doing what and pushing your kids right into the hands of those who are willing to allow open conversations. Instead of using Islam as a weapon, why can’t we use Islam for its teaching of understanding, communication, and openness? When you live in a country that’s not your own, you’re not only struggling with the Western culture and having to fit in but also dealing with your home culture and community culture, which is so unwelcoming. Please go to therapy. Please learn Islam and how beautiful, understanding, and welcoming it is.. that’s what I’m teaching our youth. Unfortunately, when I brought this conversation up to the community leaders, they all told me I was trying to change the generation. They told me my idea was stupid, but I’m glad to see this video. I know this is hard, but this is the start. May Allah guide us 📿🤲
Well said
@@noreenbi9079 Thank you.
@@Avana20
Ur welcome 🙂
I am so sorry you had to go through those things!
May Allah reward you for helping the youth ❤
Don't talk on behalf of Islam even you don't cover yourself
Main Allah save us from modern fitnas
All this coming from an Islamic school is crazy. May Allah guide the kids , the parents and those who have been entrusted to look after / teach these kids
I once talked to a Hindu girl in a Bihar college in India. she was the only girl in her class and the boys had connections with MLAs. she was regularly sexually harassed in bathrooms and and in class in front of teachers and she had mentally accepted it. her acceptance of the whole situation traumatised me. there are many stories girls who study away from home getting sexually assaulted and parents who sent them away are responsible.
The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever among you sees evil, let him change it with his hand. If he cannot do so, then with his tongue. If he cannot do so, then with his heart, which is the weakest level of faith.”
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 49
@@WardaAafia I couldn't help her in any way, sadly. I made dua
@@maazahmadkhan7383 what are MLA's?
Member of parliament
Great video keep it up you're doing amazing things 😁👍
I really thank Allah that he protected me during my early life and sadly this is mostly in majority of homes that they really are not aware of their children!
I swear to Allah I have been as all humanity during early years of life and I noticed that even good parents still do not know many things about their children
All what we need that parents need to be more aware and have real tools to be aware of their children and have a wise intervention before it is too late !
May Allah protect you all
This is a world problem not only in Muslims community but sadly this is entering our communities same the level of other communities and this should not be the case because Muslims parents they need to be more educated and wise than any other parents
The parents are the most important foundation of the house and society if they fail, all the society will have big chances to fail too and it will for sure damage a lot when many families fail and it will affect others who are trying so we count on you
I love this video and I hope to focus more in this kind of video and we want it as a culture to have these kinds of videos because we want parents to wake up!
Please my Muslim ummah specially the parents we want you to really feel the responsibility and the great impacts that you can do, it is a great opportunity and do not fall in the trap that you are knowing what to do when you did not really worked for reaching to the point
As a teacher I can honestly say most parent if they are strategic can offer their kids much more than the average school can.I would say all their learning can be focused on a handful of subject and the rest they can learn through travel and new experiences,sport,hobbies,documentaries etc.I am pro homeschooling although I’ve worked in public education for a long time and pray God facilitates it for me and every one else.I know my areas of weakness in terms of subjects that are worth getting tuition for and that can be virtual and subjects you can tackle.Make dua for facilitation.Remember you kids don’t only mix with other children they mix with the adults those kids mix with indirectly and also everything all those kids are exposed to outside school and a lot of parents allow their kids to do anything and everything.
Do you have any recommendations for a good curriculum homeschool option?
@@Naved1231 It really depends on what you want for them long term do you want them to have formal qualification like GCSE's and A levels if so then following the national curriculum is best but since they are homeschooled i think many people opt for IGCSE's as these are 100% exam based and don't require feildwork,coursework or practical componenents like GCSE's(meaning some GCSE's cant be taken privately for homebased students).Even when choosing the national curriculum and standards tests route you dont need to deliver this like schools do e.g you can start them on GCSE content early and hone in on the specific subjects they will do for their GCSE's much earlier instead as options and content for these start in year 9 or 10.Also rememeber alot of A levels and Universities ask for 5 GCSE's at a high grade but most schools make students take 9 or 10.But again you dont have to do it that way and you can essentially follow any curriculum or your own or none.It's important to think about what you want for them and what they are good at and how best to get whatever goal you have.For example if you want them to be
Thanks for this video.
JazakAllah khair
Something that I think is also super important and often forgotten is the fact that there's not much Islamic entertainment for Teenagers. Because of this gap in the media during such a tender age of development and identity where kids are often insecure or peer-pressured into situations by those around them. They need content of their own to look up to rather than the western ideals that are super harmful to them. Protecting kids is hard, especially in the digital age where there are so many traps on and offline. May Allah make it easy for the parents and the children to keep on the straight path, ameen.
I do want to re-state that Islamic content for teens is super important and a huge gap. If anyone has any resources please link them in the comments inshaAllah. I'm working on making games and shows for teens inshaAllah and also compiling a list of already available content and would much appreciate any sort of reference and guidance. Jzk
Ma Sha Allah another amazing video
I feel very bad for her.
I'm a Muslim girl, and I've seen a lot of disgusting degeneracy happen here in my school in Pakistan
I appreciate that you highlight
your videos are really majestic, i guess i will rewatch it🧡🧡
May Allah Azzawajal protect the Ummah of Muhammad S.A.W
amazing job.
Im a latin convert, from Argentina, and I would never expect to hear those things from a islamic high school, these are things I saw here when I was at school... Im shocked
When Muslims dont hold their values and have haram intermingling between young boys and girls, even in muslim schools all sorts of fitnas will arise.
We have all the solutions to these in our deen we just need to apply and follow.
May Allah reward you and keep all of us steadfast on the deen
Don't be shocked. look at it like same actions same outcomes. If you are atheist all fall off a ladder you going get injured. Same with Jew, Christian, or Muslim experiencing the accident. The Qur'an warns us about how situations of fitna can also negatively impacting the non-Muslim can also effect us!
وَٱتَّقُوا۟ فِتْنَةًۭ لَّا تُصِيبَنَّ ٱلَّذِينَ ظَلَمُوا۟ مِنكُمْ خَآصَّةًۭ ۖ وَٱعْلَمُوٓا۟ أَنَّ ٱللَّهَ شَدِيدُ ٱلْعِقَابِ ٢٥
Sarah 8:25 Beware of a trial that will not only affect the wrongdoers among you. And know that Allah is severe in punishment.
Here is an excerpt of Ibn Kathir tafsir:
Warning against an encompassing Fitnah
Allah warns His believing servants of a Fitnah, trial and test, that encompasses the wicked and those around them. Therefore, such Fitnah will not be restricted to the sinners and evildoers. Rather, it will reach the others if the sins are not stopped and prevented. Imam Ahmad recorded that Mutarrif said, "We asked Az-Zubayr, `O Abu `Abdullah! What brought you here (for the battle of Al-Jamal) You abandoned the Khalifah who was assassinated (`Uthman, may Allah be pleased with him) and then came asking for revenge for his blood' He said, `We recited at the time of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, and Abu Bakr, `Umar and `Uthman,
وَاتَّقُواْ فِتْنَةً لاَّ تُصِيبَنَّ الَّذِينَ ظَلَمُواْ مِنكُمْ خَآصَّةً
(And fear the Fitnah (affliction and trial) which affects not in particular (only) those of you who do wrong,) We did not think that this Ayah was about us too, until it reached us as it did."' `Ali bin Abi Talhah reported that Ibn `Abbas said that the Ayah,
وَاتَّقُواْ فِتْنَةً لاَّ تُصِيبَنَّ الَّذِينَ ظَلَمُواْ مِنكُمْ خَآصَّةً
(And fear the Fitnah (affliction and trial) which affects not in particular (only) those of you who do wrong,) refers to the Companions of the Prophet in particular. In another narration from Ibn `Abbas, he said, "Allah commanded the believers to stop evil from flourishing among them, so that Allah does not encompass them all in the torment (Fitnah). " This, indeed, is a very good explanation, prompting Mujahid to comment about Allah's statement,
وَاتَّقُواْ فِتْنَةً لاَّ تُصِيبَنَّ الَّذِينَ ظَلَمُواْ مِنكُمْ خَآصَّةً
(And fear the Fitnah (affliction and trial) which affects not in particular (only) those of you who do wrong,)
"Is for you too!" Several said similarly, such as Ad-Dahhak and Yazid bin Abi Habib and several others
They are talking about Australian public school not Islamic school
@@abdellatifhadfi9097 the image on the video literally says: i saw lgbt girls in a muslim school
@@abdellatifhadfi9097They said private Islamic high school. So the sister is correct in her reaction, unfortunately.
I don't even know them but still somehow my heart is bleeding with anger and lots of emotions ...if anything like this happens to my younger brother or sister, I can't imagine the pain. May Allah SWT protect everyone and guide them.
"hasbunallah wani'mal wakeel"
Allahu Akbar
Very useful video
Parents and children should be able to communicate easily. Trust me, you would never know what your child is up to unless they want to be open to you, or worse something bad already happen and you heard it by accident
thought Islamic schools were largely immune to this kind of stuff, homeschooling seems very appealing all of a sudden
Everyone may help them, because even they have no any parents ti connect with them , they must know that they have most merciful Allah ❤ and Alĺah loves them more than all people . They need to learn about Iman
May Allah protect my Muslim brothers and sisters
Can't kept kids at home all their life. We need to fight this
What do you mean fight this? If fitna is spreading then it it your job to accommodate your child’s environment. You can’t force them to endure all of this when you have an option to do Virtual school 🏫 it’s your job to protect your children and their Iman not to throw them in a place filled with fitna and allow them to go through hell 😒😟
exactly. many of these issues regard sexual harrassment by young muslim boys and locking away the girls will not change their behaviour and the problem will still occur and is ignored
We have moved to Madina from New York and still homeschooling our daughter.
Even in Madina, I have seen little girls walking around without hijab, women with tattoos. Its so sad that they look up to the western culture thanks to the too early exposure to internet and phones without any parental control
Do you have any recommendations for a good curriculum homeschool option?
@@Naved1231 I usually make my own or buy books that I think are good. It also depends how old is your child and what area you want to focus on. My daughter is two. So all the books I have are inspired by islam. Arabic flashcards, story books, activity books etc . Sensory toys and usual school syllabus.
For great islamic books, check out learning roots
i loved this video Allahumbarik you guys are amazing.
My god bless the makers of this video and this channel, ahsantum!
A boy touched me in places I did not want to be touched and I froze.
Here is EXACTLY where the Catholic Church failed. They wrote it out
told an adult and no one called the police. Great work guys.
Subuhanallah that's sad
This is the problem if you're in non-Muslim countries, especially the West. Immorality and indecency have amassed great fame. Thus, as muslims, we should always be cautious of our surroundings and pray for the best.
I had 3-4 years of rough near traumatic childhood in secondary school. I had no safe space to talk to and that experience contributed to who I am today, currently aged 38.
Please make more videos like these ❤️
The fitnah in the public highschools are the same in Islamic schools. Because the parents don't properly teach Islamic manners and deen to their kids and expect the schools to do it. Then what is the difference between public and Islamic schools? The difference is a few times a week you have Islamic studies or quran class. It goes in one ear out the other for these kids, and the teachers cant do anything to help because how can they motivate kids whose parents tell them "Islam is in the heart, its okay if we don't pray 5 times a day. Its okay if we only go to the masjid in ramadan, its okay if we go to big weddings and wear heavy makeup. Its okay if we don't wear hijaab and wear tight clothes"
I went to Islamic school for a few years myself and saw it firsthand how a kid from public school would transfer and then the whole class and their friendgroup would change and become the same as the non Muslims they left in the public schools. The Muslim kids in Islamic school were worse than the public school kids, and even in public school the Muslim kids were the most shocking ones. The hafiz would be some of the worst, the ringleaders and so much fitnah you were shocked. The parents had no idea and thought their kid with thobe and hat on his head was an angel!
Parents - please connect with your child and learn from them how kids think and behave because by telling them everything is haraam and only telling them about sins but not the beauty and obligations of Islam and without you acting as the role model Muslim you want them to be, they become fascinated with haraam and act out worse than the non Muslims. Then when they turn 18 and start having haraam relationships, not praying, avoiding their parents don't be upset that they have lost their way.
Good video and good people
Alhamdulliah a growing body of young muslims in the UK are bucking the trend and becoming more practising than their parents! Its a frankly remarkable phenomena. Do you have places like Saville Town UK in the US or Australia.
Thank God, our outlets are discussing these sensitive issues now. Better late than never. Seizing the most beautiful natural color combination was the first sign of the pending danger.
💔 Watching this with someone who isn’t able to have their young children in their life, has been extremely difficult and heartbreakingly, soul crushingly painful. It’s a pain I’m unable to describe.
I hate the fact that so many families are so broken because of how far away people are from their so-called faith and beliefs. When two adults, who apparently ‘love’ their children, can’t even let each other be apart of the child’s life is absolutely sickening and is an oppression that WILL need to be answered too by The Best of Judges and who is the All Hearing and All Seeing! They say they fear and believe in Allah but their actions don’t show it at all whatsoever!! It all starts at home! They actually parents are the first source of education for the kids!!! We all most be close and understanding towards them, BOTH parents!
I’m unable to even carry on with this actually, I can’t even bring it out of me.
Children deserve better and they are will a witness to everything!
Allah, you are the sole protector and guardian of us and our children, please please protect them from all the evils in both worlds and pardon us all… 🥺💔📿🤲🏼
May allah guide these schools
If you can please escape from the westerns with your teens I moved to Malaysia with my children from America and one year later all I can say is Alhamdulilah Alhamdulilah. It’s not easy to relocate we sold our home I sold my car I left my job my friends people I knew 20 plus years n I left my husband behind to provide for us n moved to Malaysia with my children the only regret we have is why we we didn’t do this earlier. Material come n go but nothing will replace your children. If you have the opportunity leave the western countries TODAY. Trust ALAH in the process it will be easy pray 🙏 😢😢
Why aren’t we forming our own grade schools and high schools? We could keep this away from our children? I’m upset and I don’t even HAVE any children
It is not going to solve the problem. It is the lack of parents engagement with their kids and discussion with them. Parents are no more role model for their kids. Therefore they get feed from people outside their home and family. If parents remains engage with kids and have proactive approach and pre emptively discuss issues related to teenagers then these problems can be managed to a certain extant and in the end we ask Allah (swt) to keep our kids on Islam and Guidance.
If despite all of sincere efforts, something bad happens to one of many kids then it is the Qadr of Allah (swt).
Why so shocked? Did you think these things don't happen in our muslim community. It's always been there. With muslims in the west and the east its always been there. Sad but true and nothing shocking. People are naive if they are shocked by this. May Allah protect us all
My niece is 14yo. She told me that her classmate identifies herself as her dog. She even brings a dog bowl to school so she can eat from that. And the school supports her for that. The schools here are so scared of being hated by certain people that they are willing to change. Some even forced other kids to follow this ridiculous thing to "show support". Its absurd
These are private Muslim schools. Thats worrying and no one seems to asking those questions.? In my country South Africa there are many non Muslim parents home schooling. Alhamdullilah been homeschooling my child since inception.
It’s incredible that the men in the video are upset because they can empathize that it could happen to their daughters or sisters. Sadly men don’t realize this until they have their own daughters and sisters, and sometimes not even then. Allah says what you do to others comes back to you. This is for all those “Muslim” men who take advantage of women. It’ll come back to you.
Kids see through the bs. They know that Islam is just the culture not the priority. The priority is money. And all the things money can buy you. This is the reality they see.
I would also like to hear from the boys, not just the girl confessions. Some girls in private islamic schools are just as bad in other ways towards the good boys.
Thank you all
Aameen Aameen summa Aameen Allahhumma Aameen Ya Rabalalameen
Isn't high time you home school your kids? The Muslim community can put this together. May Allah rectify our affairs.
Dear parents, I would kindly ask you to make du’a every single day for your children. The du’a of parents will be that invisible shield that will protect them. Ask Allah to keep them rightly guided, to live their lives with piety. Ask Allah to protect them from committing faahisha and every other haram in this dunya, especially during their most vulnerable years of growing up. Ask Allah to make our children the coolness of our eyes. Remember this, when they become adults, they will attain maturity and become sensible, just as we did. And Allah will not turn down the sincere du’a of a parent. Have the strongest faith in Allah never ever lose hope even if our children appear to be misguided right now. And never turn away from your children just because they are not listening to you. They need our support and presence in their lives. May Allah guide our children through us, and make ease the challenges of parenting, ameen
May Allah protect our children
I expect this in public schools, but to hear that this happens in Islamic schools has not only shocked but genuinely upset me.
things like these happen in Mecca itself. sick people are everywhere.
Allah Understands Our problems even when we don't have words to say them. 😪
I am quitting my job. Will home school my kids
i think this video is beautiful, your video is a masterpiece💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿
I don’t even have children but I am already worrying about them and the environment they might get in. Ya Allah make it easy for all the muslim parents and their children 💔
But the fact that when parents themselves don't understand the situation and laugh the way out makes it more hard
Amazing video!
this is shocking. May Allah protect everyone. Ameen.
5:05 oh damn i can relate
I don't understand if people in the comment section are dumb, saying teach your child like it's enough in reailty we know many things which we should not do but we still do because of desiers, bad gatherings, fear etc
So if you are sending them there don't get surprise if they start doing those things because you should not have sended them their in the first place.
Exactly! These people are so dumb instead of protecting their children from these schools they are forcing them to go to these filthy schools so they can go through hell and then in the end when they will be at fault they will blame their children in the end even though they failed to protect them as Parents. The word P in parent stands for protecter and if they can’t even do that then they don’t deserve to be parents 😠😒💀
remember the story of prophet yusuf (as)? girls and boys need guidance the same
Take ur kids to Iran, Afghanistan, Somalia, Pakistan or Bangladesh, India the country has to have a high muslim population but the country can't be too rich like uae or saudi or confused like turkey no matter where you are from between the age of 5-14 yrs old than ur kids associate with those society children and use it as a sample to where ever they end up because psychology teaches us that children learn 90% from their peers!
6:55 that was a really nice thing to say. Saying that You're not responsible for this. Bcz people do victim blaming a lot it's like automatic response of our society. And this is the reason these girls can't share this with their parents or any other elder.