Choose the Right Spouse

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  • čas přidán 14. 11. 2022
  • Salam Aleikum
    We have great projects coming up. One of them is the Marriage Vetting Masterclass. We have a special discount for early birds. I am announcing to my Patrons and my Telegram group first to give you all a chance to get it at the discounted price before announcing it publicly. I hope you all benefit. This was only possible first by the help of Allah, then by your support.
    How to Register:
    1. Click on the link linktr.ee/galromaani
    2. Choose the Marriage Vetting Masterclass option.
    3. Select the $45 Early Bird Price.
    4. The open slot will be listed under the 27th inshAllah.
    Take advantage before this option is sold out.
    May Allah reward you all.
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Komentáře • 78

  • @alromaani
    @alromaani  Před rokem +11

    Salam Aleikum
    We have great projects coming up. One of them is the Marriage Vetting Masterclass. We have a special discount for early birds. I am announcing to my Patrons and my Telegram group first to give you all a chance to get it at the discounted price before announcing it publicly. I hope you all benefit. This was only possible first by the help of Allah, then by your support.
    How to Register:
    1. Click on the link linktr.ee/galromaani
    2. Choose the Marriage Vetting Masterclass option.
    3. Select the $45 Early Bird Price.
    4. The open slot will be listed under the 27th inshAllah.
    Take advantage before this option is sold out.
    May Allah reward you all.

  • @ray-wx1nz
    @ray-wx1nz Před rokem +5

    Wow do people not follow this process when vetting.
    Most of the time all these questions are bogus( the ones the brother mentioned about people saying i did this or asked this but I'm here, why did this happen to me etc) because alot of time we rely on our nafs to make decision on marriage partner which shows your going down a slippery slope..
    To busy looking for that perfect partner rather then what I have to offer to be a good spouse and what marriage is really about.
    I feel for the younger generation but please take some onus on your approach
    this brother here is spitting facts ... very well explained .. Happy to see such help for those that need it mashallah :)

  • @hasanabdi7317
    @hasanabdi7317 Před rokem +2

    May Allah reward you for this reminder and advice. May Allah also cure you of your cold

  • @katben1625
    @katben1625 Před rokem +14

    I appreciate your advice because it’s sincere and ideal but to find an unmarried man who goes to fajr prayer and isha prayer in the west is nearly impossible - it’s sad but true.

    • @hhansari
      @hhansari Před rokem +6

      We brothers are trying to improve but yes, it seems you're right.
      🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @Mo-gt8fh
      @Mo-gt8fh Před rokem +2

      I would not say impossible sister, we're definitely there! One of the best ways is to ask your father to see who attends the masjid regularly.

  • @ihuss8176
    @ihuss8176 Před rokem

    Your brave to talk about these matter I hope it works

  • @umjetnikslavon2umjetniksla887

    Be patient bro and sis...

  • @muslima5472
    @muslima5472 Před rokem +2

    جزاك الله خيرا وبارك الله فيك

  • @Zeczam
    @Zeczam Před rokem +3

    Sheikh, we are afraid we won't find anyone perfect so we don't even bother checking so deeply. Flaws and flags are everywhere.

    • @mehmet20003
      @mehmet20003 Před rokem +6

      If you try to find a perfect spouse your gonna die alone

  • @8KilgoreTrout4
    @8KilgoreTrout4 Před 2 měsíci

    I married, basically, a stranger TWICE! Yeah, don't do that!

  • @1Loveneverends
    @1Loveneverends Před rokem +2

    Time will tell…

  • @lavafireground9758
    @lavafireground9758 Před rokem

    U have been located..don't leave your home...

  • @sarahgarrett1850
    @sarahgarrett1850 Před rokem +1

    As-Salaam Alaikum.

  • @ahmedalmahdi9254
    @ahmedalmahdi9254 Před rokem +7

    What about for people who don't live in Muslim communities? Not everyone has a Muslim circle that can vouch for them, so are those people ineligible for marriage because of their life circumstances?

    • @alghurraba
      @alghurraba Před rokem +2

      Trust Allah ... Do istighara

    • @ahmedalmahdi9254
      @ahmedalmahdi9254 Před rokem +3

      @@alghurraba Insha'Allah. I'll most likely end up finding a wife back home with the help of my family and parents, as much as I would prefer a woman who I can share cultural similarities to it's probably not going to happen since I have vowed not to use apps or the like.

    • @mrmaly9861
      @mrmaly9861 Před rokem +2

      @@ahmedalmahdi9254 Im in the same situation as you. The problem with taling someone from back home is that most of them are interested in having the green card. It happened to me.

  • @justsayalhamdulillaah9720

    Gabriel, set a dating app only for men that have watch your videos and imply it in their life.

  • @lavafireground9758
    @lavafireground9758 Před rokem

    Wats your last words...for u hav been located..?

  • @Anita1984isuponus
    @Anita1984isuponus Před rokem

    6.42 What is a 'moonakaba'

    • @nurhanmurad2028
      @nurhanmurad2028 Před rokem +1

      Muntaqeba "she's wearing a niqab" aka face covering

  • @arifabd
    @arifabd Před rokem +2

    How about marrying a divorced woman with kids ? Does Allah reward more for undertaking such a marriage and undertaking to look after the kids for the sake of Allah , expecting his mercy and blessings?

    • @wheelfan100
      @wheelfan100 Před 10 měsíci

      Don't you will have to take care of her kids

    • @SaltLake180
      @SaltLake180 Před 6 měsíci +1

      It's a great act of mercy brother. The kids without a father are the most vulnerable.

  • @mohammadmustafa2k19
    @mohammadmustafa2k19 Před rokem

    In India, mom chooses girl not the boy. It's difficult to get a girl of choice. I am about to get married Alhamdulillah. But my mom is stubborn, she chose girl for me. 😅😅😞😞😅😅😞😞😒😒

    • @hhansari
      @hhansari Před rokem +5

      Be a man brother 8-) Choosing is your right. (of course always be respectful to your parents, just don't have to obey where it's wrong)

    • @SaltLake180
      @SaltLake180 Před 6 měsíci

      It gives desi moms a sense of control. That's why they don't like love marriages.

  • @desertnight1627
    @desertnight1627 Před rokem +11

    Caution or not Men change after marriage is a FACT 😔

    • @VanDerDeckken
      @VanDerDeckken Před rokem +3

      Not all men. And even if the men change after marriage, they only change towards you. So you have to check how they treat their family members, especially sisters and mother.

    • @ayyubshah655
      @ayyubshah655 Před rokem +9

      They do change… for better

    • @desertnight1627
      @desertnight1627 Před rokem +2

      @@ayyubshah655 not always

    • @desertnight1627
      @desertnight1627 Před rokem

      @@VanDerDeckken Biased towards their family sadly

    • @desertnight1627
      @desertnight1627 Před rokem +1

      @@SamsungJ-rs4gi Hard luck buddy 😰 wish you fast recovery ☹

  • @newzealand1240
    @newzealand1240 Před rokem +1

    I want to be your man spouse

  • @mugzA21
    @mugzA21 Před rokem +1

    It's why you should date before marriage. You make it sound like it's a job interview. But it's not.

    • @mugzA21
      @mugzA21 Před rokem

      @@alghurraba cheating happens cause you ain't giving your woman orgasms

    • @mugzA21
      @mugzA21 Před rokem

      @@alghurraba plus a man can have as many women as he wants it Islam as long as they are all exclusive to him and not doing other men...women gotta be exclusive to the guy as long as they are with him

    • @ghafranhaque7161
      @ghafranhaque7161 Před rokem

      Dating is for the Non Muslims...see how much they date...they hardly get married thesd days and...they still get more divorces than the Muslims...and more STDs

    • @mugzA21
      @mugzA21 Před rokem

      @@ghafranhaque7161 not always....common law relationships are the same as dating in all practical terms (ma malekat aymanakum)...you have her as a partner but without the marriage contract and you can have loads of kids and even a family...signing the marriage contract means your woman has rights to take your money now...and she is still not guaranteed to give you kids...no man wants to sign a marriage contract when he can just get a partner and most women aren't hungry for dowry or inheritance

    • @mehmet20003
      @mehmet20003 Před rokem +2

      You shoudnt date. Your not in a serious relationship and most of the time just go through heart brake. Misz improtantly its haram anyways your not gonna know the person until marriage