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- Iyanla Vanzant travels to St. Louis to help fix a dysfunctional relationship between sisters that is threatening to destroy a successful healthcare business and to rip the entire family apart. (Original Air Date: May 24, 2014) Watch more of Iyanla Fix My Life on the WatchOWN app and visit: www.oprah.com/app/iyanla-fix-...
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About Iylana Fix My Life : Author and inspirational speaker Iyanla Vanzant goes behind closed doors and deep inside people's lives for emotional conversations. She helps reveal secrets, uncover truth
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The daughter calling everyone by their first name…..first sign she wasn’t taught respect or established boundaries
That Part @HopeShante😊
I was justttt thinking that and saw your comment. I’d never call my aunt by first name… or mom.
Right? Cause my mama would have knocked me straight up side my head and I'm 40. The way I was raised, was to be 5 minutes is on time. On time is late. And late... there better be a phone call, text with a reason.
@@ummzaynab7702yep, I’m older than you, and I STILL refer to my uncles and my one aunt by their titles first. 😯
Very disrespectful I ain’t know my parents first name until I was 10 years old 😂
Raquel’s constant smiling and laughing irked my soul. I feel like she just wanted to be on TV.
That’s exactly what she wanted. To be on tv. I would’ve cut the cameras and never aired this episode
same
That's it!!! Clout chasing, shallow.
I had the same feeling. So disrespectful & rude at the same time...
That's exactly what that is.
Please whoever is in charge of this channel, continuing posting more of iyanla fix my life full episodes, we miss her show and we want ALL the episodes ❤
baldheaded scallywags that just wanted to be on TV
Agreed!!
We Miss Her Bad!
I agree
I agree 😂
Money but no class. Even the older women sat there sipping their coffee, without offering their guest anything! Where are their basic values?
All of this!!!!! No class at all!!!!!
Yap! That was something!!!
That's A BIT DISRESPECTFUL!!!
@@c.calliecoleman1531 Just GHETTO to the core...ALL of them.
The daughter is a reflection of her mother.
"they have boots and material things but are rude and backhanded with each other" ---sounds about typical considering....
Big Facts
Spoiled Brat that just saw an opportunity to be on TV and look "cute" for the camera they didn't want Iyanla's Help... I wouldn't have gave this Family the time of day if the run their business into the ground let them
More often than not. Definitely not always
@@AC-ss5oytypical of what, exactly?
Raquel is upset because Iyanla exposed who she really is - selfish, bratty, and disrespectful!
They didn’t want Iyanla’s help when they realized she knew their game and that the mother-daughter victims were really the bullies and the problem.
😅The stinky, gross "rotted meat" being covered up with nice 'fragrance spray' is how so many people act in public everyday - Great Analogy Iyanla👍💯🤣🤣🤣
@@toneys4458🔥
They were too busy trying to be and act “cute”.
She saw right through them.
They all wanted to be on Television..i think the middle sister was the realest 1 to an extent but she also low key celebrated maybe an outlet for alil fame lol... this case & episode gave me a complete head~ache🥴🙄😂😂, lil miss Rachel messed the whole plan up that i believe they all came up with together with her bratty a** attitude!
Did she just tell her mama not to play with her? Cause the way my mama would have snatched my soul. Right then. 😮
20:31 the fact that her mom is calling her “sister” like she’s some kind of equal when it seems to me that she doesn’t even do any work or hasn’t done any work in her mom/aunties’ business is telling to me. The daughter is the main problem.
Girl, soulless.
With the finger in the face?! She would’ve been picking herself up off the ground. Period. 👏🏽
Chile listen. I flinched cause I was sure she was finna get slapped .....
Yeah the fact the daughter kept putting her finger in her mom's face.....😮 Lord. Not today Satan
The young girl lied by omission and was embarrassed when called out for the foolishness. Iyanna got her all the way together. 😂
😂
No she flat out lied. Multiple times. To Iyanla's face.
It was NOT by omission, it was a flat out lie in Iyanla's face
She didn't "lie by omission" she LIED with her ugly self
That was not a lie by omission. That was a flat tf out lie. Period.
“A COFFEE DRINK”
LMFAOOOOO
I swear🤣
😂😂 she was not playing about it
😁😁 I APOLOGIZE..... STOP THE STUPIDITY LIL GIRL
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Watching Rachel, she does not seem emotionally stable. The smiling, the eyes darting back and forth, the erratic head movements.. she is not okay. She wrote Iyanla because she knows if her mom/aunts can’t get along the family business fails and so does her money train.
Amen 🔥
Yes she looks like an offbrand Brandy
Sociopathic behavior.
True🎉😮😅
1000% right on comment and replies.
The way Raquel talked to Iyana is the same way she talk to her mother . Listen to how she disrespected her mother when they were by themselves
THAT ISH WAS CRAZY TOO SEE! I ALMOST WANTED TO COME THROUGH MY COMPUTER FOR IYANLA! LIKE YO RESPECT THE ELDERS YOU DONT GOTTA LIKE THEM
And, then she wants to act all different and pull her daughter to the side with her, hold up sista…hold up sista
.. whatever 🙄
So true and very unfortunate!
They think all the material things make them look good. But when your spirit is ugly, no one cares about the things that surround you, their little security blankets for lack of whatever their insecurities are. I wouldn't waste my time nor energy on foolery.
She needs the hair and a touch of makeup wouldn't hurt, but she has far bigger self issues.
RIGHT the daughter is the problem 😅
What an immature 24 yr old
baldheaded scallywags that just wanted to be on TV
Her behavior has been enabled that’s why .
The mother is no better…🙄🙄
They are all immature. Yelling and screaming. I'm tired just watching it!
I feel like her mother allows her to be like that.
She initially invited her for the reason Iyanla said....to be on TV
Then showed herself to be silly Nellie. Acting like a 12 year old.
100%. She wanted to show off her fake hair and fake eyelashes for the tv. She's rude and fake.
Agree. She is shallow and spoiled. Life is to short
"This is what it look like when we put more emphasis on our external than our internal". This right here. 💯
👍💯
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Oooo yes! Disgusting in the words of Iyanla Ms V.
Miss Anna out here looking like Chaka Khan. The whole fam putting Iyanla through the fire, to the limit, to the wall 😂
😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Damn😂😂😂😂
Lol 😆
😩😂😂
I thought the same thing! Looking just like Chaka! All the sisters are beautiful. 😍
Shout out to Crystal for being the least problematic sister. The daughter is a gaslighter and self-important because her mommy buys all her problems away. Let that girl know struggle.
Exactly!
LMAO ... When Iyanla got her coat and they asked where are you going . " I can stay home and be treated bad, and I think I need a coffee drink"...Lol
Yes Ms Iyanla is a Queen, I don't blame her, her time shouldn't be wasted! 💯👍🤦🤣🤷☕
I agree @ayannacollins💯👍🤣
@ayannacollins you right!
That cracked me up so much. 😂😂😂😂😂How dare she not bring a coffee ‘drink’ for the Queen. The disrespect was palpable. 😢
Right where her ☕️ 😅at ?
The mother is preparing to buy that girl a business is not a good idea. I can imagine how awful her behavior is now.
Yes! 🤦😭🤣
this was probably ten years ago so hopefully she's grown
I can imagine clients sat waiting in the chair for 90 minutes and her strolling in saying she had to get coffee
She'd run it to the ground.
Just Left The Salon? With THAT Leave Out And THOSE Edges?! TUH!!!
Dayum!
😂
It wasn’t giving what it NEEDED to give! Lol
@@mercedeslloyd5109 AT ALL!😂
😅🤣😂😭
Raquel is so disrespectful and you don't disrespect your elders.
Your logic is illogical, toxic a* and why generational trauma is a thing. Elders don't get to be disrespectful just because they're older. And -- holding someone who responds inappropriately, more accountable than the person s/he/they are responding to, is weird, sick and disgusting.
@theejaydoubleyew you’re showing how poorly you were raised. I certainly hope you’re not a parent.
@@theejaydoubleyewyou must be 18 💀
@theejaydoubleyew Girl whet???? You sound like a 12 year old rebellious teen and so did she
@@theejaydoubleyewuse proper words dear, what does weird mean in this context?🙄🙄
It was uncomfortable to watch people disrespect Ms. Iyanla’s time and her ministry like this so casually. Like, do you know it’s a privilege to have her sitting in your home trying to offer guidance to you??
Iyanla is the only person holding anyone accountable for their b s.
The rudeness..to turn up an hour and a half late with coffee and a smile. I'm glad it was Iyanla because no one else was going to school her on that.
"as long as you're comfortable, you're not growing" THAT'S A WORD.
I totally agree with Ms. Iyanla about that!
A whole sermon! 💯
Her mother has enabled Raquel behavior!!!! That brat is terrible!!!
You’re right.
Agree. Good luck in the real world
Let Iyanla come to fix my life, not only will i be on time, i'll be early
baldheaded scallywags that just wanted to be on TV
😂😂😂😂❤
Facts!!!!
💯
Don’t forget her Coffee drink 😅😅😅
8 minutes in and I know this crew is not going to "do the work".
SADLY NBS!!! I COULD TELL FROM THEIR ATTITUDE ASAP!!!
Very true , they just wanted to show their bags and shoes and cars..🙄🙄🙄
I thought the same thing! Guess what? They didn't "do the work!"
Would someone please tell the young lady, this is not Love and Hip Hop. I dont believe she had the right intention when she wrote the show.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
No, she didn't have the right intentions and she showed it here. Somebody please tell Raquel that her behavior is very irksome and not cute at all! I don't understand how these women can run a healthcare agency with this much conflict....to be honest, the first thing I thought about in the first few minutes of their introduction are they running a business or a scam? They should've had on scrubs, instead of high heels and boots.
They came for tv. Point, blank, period.
To show cars, shoes and ‘status’..🙄🙄
I love the way Ms. Iyanla sets strong boundaries and commands respect. It’s really helpful to me
Men do the same thing. Which is why a lot of woman are single, they will not submit and be under any leadership or discipline. They decide a man who commands and demands respect is ‘controlling’. They’d rather be alone and trash a man than have a partnership and get along with a man. Until they’re old and wonder where all the good men are and need retirement support. Then they expect their kids to fund their retirement which is a terrible thing to do to your kids. Your kids dont owe you anything
Whew I love Iyanla. Even before the show I was reading her books, but her walking out talking about "I might need a coffee drink" took me out! 🤣
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They didn't want help. They just wanted to be on television smh.
Exactly all of them wanted fame not just the daughter.
Crystal was the only 1 willing to get help and correct their family issues. I'm excited that Crystal learned to tell the truth to her family. My heart went out to her.
I’m going to start shouting “PUMP THE BRAKES!” From now on. It’s funny every single time.
The way Raquel was pointing in her moms face and pushed her moms HAND DOWN like that on the porch!!?? 20:50
WHAT!?
Me and my mom have got into heated arguments but baby-😂😂😂I would’ve got laid OUT on national television
Facts 💯
Listen! The way my mama would have turned into one of those Mortal Kombat characters and boxed me until "Finish Him" came up on the screen! Oh no.... ohhhh no. Smh
Imagine her running a business. I wouldn't want business from her for free.
Right. She's 2 hours late for an appointment and come in with food and Starbucks. Her whole meal would be on the floor.
She’s not ready.
I know that's right and if anything, that so=called grown little girl will have her mother in massive debt due to not knowing how to talk to people.
Raquel is disrespectful period! They wanted to do television
Omg the way Raquel talked to her mother floored me. I love that Iyanla wouldn't let her get away with lying.
My soul cringes every time they don’t call her Ms Iyanla 😫 I would never!!!!!
Same. Especially the younger ones.
Same here! I’m saying “it’s Miss Iyanla and Aunt Annie”……every time she addresses them the wrong way
Exactly
It just goes to show…
💯👍
I think I’m going to get me a coffee drink after watching this episode. 😂🤣🤣
The phrase 'Coffee Drink' was said so many times in a half hour.
LMAO right!! it's funny but bothering me at the same time.
The te fact she wasn't offered anything. Didn't make Ms. Vanzant feel welcome. It wasn't about the coffee
Designer clothes and no Fruits of the Spirit; is on display here. I don’t think people realize how Beautiful Kindness and Grace looks on them! ❤ I am sorry that The Queen was disrespected.
Designer clothes!?? Lol I’m weak!! Red boots and a red shirt !!! Bammmmmaaaaaa
When Iyanla does that little cackle laugh of hers 🤣
Racquel smiling and her mother's reaction to Iyanla telling her her daughter is a reflection of her tells me everything I need to know
get famous on your own time homie
She has alot of enablers. 😮
Amen
Crystal was the only one that was being cooperative. I am 25 years old and I dont act like that but when no one holds you accountable for your actions you grow up believing that you never do anything wrong. Hopefully, Raquel grew up and became better for herself.
True story
These are some beautiful women but I’m embarrassed at how they allow that child to disrespect them and iyanla
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder- waste🤷♀️
@@elizabethantoine9652I went back at scanned to see who @jsahduhs was referring to
Evidently they are beautiful to the original commenter that's why they said it so ur comment was irrelevant. I also agree that they are beautiful.@@elizabethantoine9652
@@elizabethantoine9652true boa. Coz I ain’t seeing what others are. If they take off the wigs, eyelashes etc, perhaps I can see the real beauty
Beautiful???? Lol...Who??????
One of my favorite Iyanla moments. "I"m not going upstairs" 😂 She was tired of them folks 😂
They took the time away from others who could have really used the help.
THATS US SPEND SPEND SPEND SPEND DRESS DRESS DRESS DRESS AND LIFE IS A MESS
People feeling like they are attractive or rich enough to be disrespectful is why the world sucks now. This sick, vain world is over. And baby girl.. smh
Baby….
I AGREE
Raquel said they were wealthy but them cars dont match that neighborhood. They may need some investment advice.
Exactly!
Raquel is damn disrespectful . Irritating and stupid
Ms. Iyanla called it as soon as she stepped on the scene y'all!!
She saw the external this family is portraying. They don't care to get better; they like it this way. Plus they wanted to on tv
While I am so sorry that they wasted her time, Iyanla is the Auntie that our families need-she calls out the foolishness and will not accept excuses!
Its sad how our black community is conditioned to attack each other, gossip and argue but not addressing the real issues. Lots of our own family is this toxic
yup!
that's not the black community. that's the human community
Exactly!!! When i started my healing journey the hardest part was realizing i had to cut off and not worry about half of my family.
This is not unique to our community
Your comment is extremely ignorant. This disfunction isn't unique to black families .
Getting my morning started watching as I work. Let me go get me “A COFFEE DRINK” for a little boost 😂
Get me one too 😅😅😅😅😅😅
At my desk right now like dis: 👀
As she saying sorry I apologize she’s cheesing and smiling from ear to ear that in and of itself is very disrespectful
Raquel wanted to play to the camera
Yep, then played herself in front of the camera's.
Indeed!!!!!!!
And looked dumb doing it
They didn't wanna heal they just wanted to be on television
There is always a scapegoat in the family, I believe that the younger sister hurts the most here !!!
If i was blessed with Iyanla coming to my home and to my family, best believe i would be there, not on time but EARLY, with bells on.
Agree...she doesn't play and will put you on blast !😅
This girl just wanted to be on TV . She even got her hair done, and the way she be smiling. No mahn
I feel bad for Crystal; she's the strongest, has the most sense and carries the heavy ssa loads dumped on her by her Goof Troop ssa sisters and moronic niece.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
We need more elders like Mrs Iyanla.
we do
I need them to make some, “Where are they now” episodes because I’d love to see what they chose to do later and what tools they picked up if any to heal their family. That was very interesting and hard to watch
I'd love to watch that
The daughter and mother duo are one in the same.
"I'll just lean up on the Porsche."
😂🤣😅🤭🤭🤭🤭💀
She think owning her own salon will be easy. If she only knows. She’s definitely not ready.
I got 3 daughters there is no way lord that I would except that type of behavior in front of me and more importantly in front of a older woman
This is sad. Privileged ignorance. Letting a 24 year old have a tantrum and run the family. She said that she knows who she is. She does not know who she is, not even that she is a spoiled brat which is not attractive at all, on anyone.
The Braxtons take two😂
If this is the Braxtons, Raquel is giving Tamar.
This is sad that they wasted her time
@francesowens5764 do they pay to be on the show?
They are not aware of how much it was a blessing tht they were enen chosen! Millions of people would give anything for this opportunity! They should be ashamed how they wasted these people time, and every time they see this episod, they send out an apology email!💯
She’s roasted right away. Good job Iyanla, put her in her place
Wow this young lady needs to grow up
Ain’t no way my child about to disrespect Ms. Iyanla like that. We see who needs fixing.
Lol the way ppl act when they are held accountable for their actions is wild
Thought she could walk in late and jump in but she was called out. Her lie didnt go down either then she was concerned about how she would look on tv and did that attitude thing to hide her embarassment
Crystal is the only one with empathy that mother and daughter is something else
Chile, they were there for them cameras!!🙄
ALL of them wanted to be on TV!!! I would've left immediately!!
This girl reminds me of Amy on Amy's Bakery Company on Gordon Ramsay's Kitchen Nightmares. She wanted to be on TV and wanted Iyanla to say everything is good.
It’s so funny how they be ready leave the minute she challenges and tell the truth about them
because they had no intention of being honest and taking her advice
Daughter is a disgusting acting monster...probably saw her mother behave that way and now she does...that scene with her and her mom outside..yuck..
I was about to actually go in on your comment, and I would've been dead wrong!🙌🏾 14:45 Did you SEE the Mother's attitude and lil neck twitch when Iyanla asked her that question, ugghhh!! Oh no....Just absolutely not, I wanted to crawl through my phone grab BOTH of 'em, the disrespect vexed my flesh.
@@ItsAllLove4RealSadly ALOT of families are like this SMH...
@@ItsAllLove4Real right!! Needs to be called out and not tolerated!! It was sad to watch
Moving forward … I’m only saying “COFFEE DRINK”
😂😂😂😂
This little girl coming in grinning and taking for granted time taken to help her family. She didn’t care to show up on time, sad. Disrespectful
The way she was waving her finger in her mom’s face? I would never.
The young girl never been checked like that and got in her feelings. The ego will make you a fool every time.
I thought mama was about to put daughter in her place..daughter put her finger in mama face and told her don't play with her and mama backed down SMH
I thought that was her ant lol
Right!! When she threw her finger up in her mother's face, my mouth flew wide open!!! Like WOW!!! Such shameful family behaviors.
Thought I was the only one who saw that. All that proves, is the mama wants to be her friend, not her mother.
You can tell they are all about the money, their lifestyle and appearance. I wonder how they treat they their clients ? 😊
Their workers deal with the clients..and the workers probably aren't treated fairly nor paid fairly.
"I could have stayed home". Imagine getting Iyanlas attention and not doing the work
Wait didnt laurie say don't call her sweetie and then referred to Anna as sweetie when she asked for her to get iyanla... the irony
baldheaded scallywags that just wanted to be on TV
I caught that too. They’re a very strange tribe.
Right!!!
😂😂😂exactly
That family wasted our girls time. That pissed me off.
Laurie was hoping to get on tv and get picked up for a family spin off with all that drama
This episode was not worth airing.
This a prime example of "Pretty is as pretty does." Outward beauty doesn't amount to a hill of beans when you have a ugly soul.
In just don’t see the pretty part ! No harm just not pretty based on attitude - yuck
What, did she really talk to her mother that way and then say call grandma.....stop it
These women wasted her time…..
AND MINE!!!!!!
I can’t stand that daughter’s attitude and her mammie
And this is why she quit.. foolishness like this.