What Really Is Friendship Ft Taymesan

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  • čas přidán 2. 11. 2022
  • On this episode Toke is joined by the stunning Taymesan , they discuss what it takes to truly be a friend and maintain friendship.
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  • @Waa_nne
    @Waa_nne Před rokem +70

    I can never watch any episode of TM and not learn anything, the demeanor, her love for God, she has the big sis vibe I wished for, please bring TAY back. Happy birthday TM I love you 💕❤️

    • @teenahwilliams1527
      @teenahwilliams1527 Před rokem

      I’ll even have to rewatch some to remember the lessons .😩

    • @Waa_nne
      @Waa_nne Před rokem

      @@teenahwilliams1527 I know right TM podcast is a manual

  • @sylvestersommy9617
    @sylvestersommy9617 Před rokem +108

    Please tell Taymesan to bring back TeawithTay 😩😩

  • @estheraddo5437
    @estheraddo5437 Před rokem +36

    This is what podcasts are supposed to be, not every day advising and all that ! LITERALLY THE BEST PODCAST IVE SEEN SO FAR THIS YEAR !

    • @chisomo8088
      @chisomo8088 Před rokem

      But they were giving advice tho lol

  • @tinnuola
    @tinnuola Před rokem +22

    Toke is talking about herself and it's as if she's narrating my story about friendship. In my case though, I'm an introvert so I'm okay being alone.

  • @praiseadio3833
    @praiseadio3833 Před rokem +9

    Something about Taymesan, he will mention Jesus 😂

  • @annieotistv
    @annieotistv Před rokem +4

    The constant factor in the conversation is God and it is so amazing.. It just shows that God is our first friend and God will always be constant with us

  • @joyjames6753
    @joyjames6753 Před rokem +19

    Dear Toke makinwa,
    I recently read your book, and honestly I must say I was greatly inspired by the struggles of self worth, family, your past relationships and your relationship with God.
    As I read, I could feel and visualize the connection between a writer and a reader, through your eyes I could see what you went through and how far you've grown in your career, family and spiritual Life. Thank you so much for sharing you've created an impact in my Life path and it would always be part of my Life and through My journey. God bless you and keep winning and don't hesitate to be who you're are "on Becoming".
    Love JOY.

  • @leana6870
    @leana6870 Před rokem +3

    Dynamic Duo, please give us more. This was everything, I didn't want this to end.

  • @Msolay30
    @Msolay30 Před rokem +2

    Omg! I enjoyed this so much Toke! Happy birthday Diva 🎉

  • @estherudoh5963
    @estherudoh5963 Před rokem +12

    definitely loved this episode, please bring taymesan back and make the episode longer

  • @millyibekwe4917
    @millyibekwe4917 Před rokem +4

    I think this was the friendship talk I needed. Ayyy to bringing him back. Loved this.

  • @ajalafavour
    @ajalafavour Před rokem +4

    I wish this episode was longer.
    Please bring Taymesan back for us.
    Too much to learn from Toke moments ❤

  • @oseyiese2705
    @oseyiese2705 Před rokem +1

    I absolutely love and needed this . I was actually out here thinking I was a weird person and had an issue with friendship and how I pick my friends .

  • @favoured1606
    @favoured1606 Před rokem +5

    The two of you need a show together. Your conversations are always awesome.

  • @theMaameamaPriscilla
    @theMaameamaPriscilla Před rokem +1

    My favorite!!! I always learn something!

  • @oyindamolaige5433
    @oyindamolaige5433 Před rokem +3

    Every episode i watch of this Podcast simply confirms why I have always loved TM , The way you speak your truth is so inspiring and a constant reminder that we are all humans regardless...❤❤❤

  • @omoboladeosinowo6889
    @omoboladeosinowo6889 Před rokem +1

    Absolutely enjoyed this episode! The conversation was soo natural, vulnerable, transparent and relatable

  • @chidychyk5741
    @chidychyk5741 Před rokem +1

    I honestly didn't want this to stop ❤❤❤
    (A) for bringing him back.

  • @sylvestersommy9617
    @sylvestersommy9617 Před rokem +8

    I’m enjoying this podcast so far 😂❤❤❤

  • @Ayobamidele_olufowose
    @Ayobamidele_olufowose Před rokem +6

    I’m beginning to get obsessed with these moments. Wow i love the spiritual side of Toke🤗🤗🤗❤️❤️

  • @switxtpearlohaeri2414
    @switxtpearlohaeri2414 Před rokem +11

    😂😂the combo is mad,I’m learning new things and I agree with the sisterhood stuff 😢I’m just like that🙊
    Happy birthday TM 🎉

  • @kaasunsmakeup434
    @kaasunsmakeup434 Před rokem +2

    I’ve always loved Toke from day one and I feel this is the most unique podcast show like …. Everyone is doing interviews this is more relaxing and entertaining big ups Toks. ♥️♥️♥️

  • @elizabethpurpose1312
    @elizabethpurpose1312 Před rokem +1

    It’s the authenticity for me...!👏🏾👏🏾🗣🗣🔥

  • @_adenike
    @_adenike Před rokem +6

    The best words I find that describe what both of them said is "forgiving people what hurt you but set boundaries" because the scar might still be there and getting too close can reopen the wounds afresh

  • @KingViviiii
    @KingViviiii Před rokem +1

    This was a good oneeeeee. Great conversation around true friendships. ❤

  • @hangoutwithfidel6624
    @hangoutwithfidel6624 Před rokem +11

    The bond between Toke and Tay is too glaring. It’s giving me gist buddy, amebo partner, a friend I can tell everything that happens in my life and my spiritual buddy. I love it and it’s something I share with some of my close knit friends.

  • @ronaldthe7th
    @ronaldthe7th Před rokem +2

    Toke!!!!! Just love you, And love your friendship with Tay ❤️

  • @levelupwithada
    @levelupwithada Před rokem +14

    I can relate to Taymesan saying his gran didn't like friendships. I always wondered why my mum and older aunties were always warning me about friendships but now I'm older, I see why. Taymesan made a lot of good points in this episode 👏 .I also understand Toke being more hurt by female friends than male friends/relationships. And yeah, friendship breakups are harder than relationship breakups. I really enjoyed this episode. ❤

  • @theyellownerd_
    @theyellownerd_ Před rokem +3

    Yes my favs 😂😂😂
    Taymesan is forever a vibe ❤

  • @d.s_alan
    @d.s_alan Před rokem +1

    This was a wholesome video to watch. Thank you TM and Tay for this 😍😍😍

  • @euniceomoolowodun344
    @euniceomoolowodun344 Před rokem +2

    Bring him back ooo. Sweet, candid. Love and learned.

  • @Duloiam
    @Duloiam Před rokem +1

    Happy birthday Tokstar thank u for inspiring n being u always love u, I are an inspiration ❤

  • @abigailaduwe
    @abigailaduwe Před rokem +1

    Happy Birthday iconic T!!! 38 yet you ate those pictures on Instagram and left no crumbs❤❤❤

  • @pearle44
    @pearle44 Před rokem

    I really enjoyed this episode. It wasn't what I expected, I left feeling that I need to be closer to God. Love it.

  • @GeeTeeUkah
    @GeeTeeUkah Před rokem +15

    This combo is always 🔥

  • @obisesanlateefah6153
    @obisesanlateefah6153 Před rokem +1

    Happy birthday TM 🎉🎉 may God continue to bless you 💕💕 love you sis

  • @jemimajameson578
    @jemimajameson578 Před rokem

    This thing was not here before. Oshe 🙌 I love that perspective and it’s very true.

  • @cynthiaokonji3196
    @cynthiaokonji3196 Před rokem +1

    Love this episode and the bond between TM and Taymesan love itt♥️

  • @abasilimamarachigrace1258

    I always love TM,The energy is fire. I guess your next guest is Tiwa Savage ❤

  • @christieunakalamba7232
    @christieunakalamba7232 Před rokem +3

    TM is an evolving being. Her type doesn't get stuck in none thriving spaces. There's nothing selfish about that! I don't know why she would want otherwise. Everyone is unique. I think that's her uniqueness.

  • @nwosisimagdalene884
    @nwosisimagdalene884 Před rokem +1

    I feel same way
    It’s heartbreaking when I break up with my friends but when it comes with my partner, I can get over it..

  • @sandramicheal4287
    @sandramicheal4287 Před rokem +7

    I love watching and hearing Taymesan speak. So wise, comforting, and loving in his approach. Thanks for this episode Toke.

  • @LearnYorubawithIfeoluwa

    I love this….Weldone sis

  • @sharonisah451
    @sharonisah451 Před rokem +2

    HHahahha see the way una just Dey code 😅😂😅chaiii this friendship between you guys is 🔥irrespective of the age difference, this is so cool, thank you aunty T for being the absolute best at this 💕

  • @tojuirone1997
    @tojuirone1997 Před rokem +1

    Happy birthday toke.. more wins 🥂

  • @franca_pabor
    @franca_pabor Před rokem

    Toke, this show is a blessing to me, God sent you for me, you are a blessing to me. God will scatter you with BLESSINGS, Amen.
    Be Happy🎉

  • @queengreat5922
    @queengreat5922 Před rokem

    That statement ‘we shared so much together, how could you do that to me’ lols😂 I found myself saying this over and over, friendship heartbreak will humble you, my dad gave me hint but I didn’t read the lines quickly, I love this episode☺️

  • @joanokan-paul8539
    @joanokan-paul8539 Před rokem +1

    I learn everytime,love you TM

  • @oyindamolalawal6451
    @oyindamolalawal6451 Před rokem

    I just love every session of ur podcast, you’re sooooo Real and so intelligent, And dere is always something to learn Aunty mi toks😁Dts wat I call you to my family and friends, Happy Birthday sweet big sister, I love you 😘❤️💕

  • @kanyinsolaajayi7313
    @kanyinsolaajayi7313 Před rokem

    Love love 💕💕💕 love it

  • @SOEs.journey
    @SOEs.journey Před rokem

    Lmao 🤣 I really enjoyed this episode

  • @sarahisaac8299
    @sarahisaac8299 Před rokem +1

    I really love this❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @dawno.7390
    @dawno.7390 Před rokem +1

    Happy birthday T.M 🥳
    Nice moment 👍🏽

  • @1Mercyyon
    @1Mercyyon Před rokem +1

    I loved this so much 🥺😂😂

  • @isiomaononye
    @isiomaononye Před rokem

    What Toke said about energy levels is huge. It’s a big deal and sometimes, it doesn’t feel worth it when it’s not the right energy and you can always tell.

  • @ibisobobmanuel2201
    @ibisobobmanuel2201 Před rokem

    Almighty TM dishing us pidgin
    So fun to listen to you mama

  • @WhatMummyLoves
    @WhatMummyLoves Před rokem +1

    My dear if you have 3 good friends in your life you are blessed. People can be fickle o! It’s better not to have friend than to have a bad friend or a pretender. They will make your life miserable. Also follow your intuition. If someone has positive thoughts towards you, you will know from their vibe and if it is negative you will know. If negative run o!!!! Don’t look back cuz if you follow them you will regret it.

  • @peacewilliams1444
    @peacewilliams1444 Před rokem +1

    The hardest part is when a friend betray and hurt you and then start playing the F victim...they are so pathetic..great conversation T.

  • @beatbybiye
    @beatbybiye Před rokem

    Ayyyyy love you both ❤️❤️

  • @Msolay30
    @Msolay30 Před rokem +1

    Aye! Pls bring him back. And yes I was doing two plus two on the Unilag friend 🤣

  • @dominicaozioma7385
    @dominicaozioma7385 Před rokem

    It's just Toke's demeanor for me tho 😍 ooh..i love love love it...

  • @ifysapphire
    @ifysapphire Před rokem

    This session was really loaded . Didn't know Toke had this spiritual side of her. ...
    Tay has always been a vibe. I don't even know where to start from. I gained a lot
    But my most important take home, is the fact that, Toke doesn't interview these other celebrities for what they do, but who they really are as normal people

  • @TheRoomWithTiwa
    @TheRoomWithTiwa Před rokem +6

    I love your journey, your authenticity, your life, your story, you speaking your truth, I could totally relate 🥺 in this friendship matter. Even @25 I had always felt so unlucky with female friends cus of pass trauma at this point I think I decided to accept the life like that.. love you Toks thanks for always inspiring us , wishing you a happy 38 birthday mama love you fr

  • @april7style
    @april7style Před rokem

    This episode is a vibe...love it

  • @kemiayo5059
    @kemiayo5059 Před rokem

    I think I need to here this thanks guys 😘🤗😍

  • @april7style
    @april7style Před rokem +3

    I knew this episode with be so bomb, love the God factor. I also have a good relationship with God but cus of my Fashion side people think differently but I do not care as long as ABBA knows me I am good

  • @courtneyokk
    @courtneyokk Před rokem +3

    This is an amazing episode. I've been struggling in my walk with God, now I know that it's my lack of effort. Can you do an episode going more in depth with Christianity..?

  • @queeninnocent5997
    @queeninnocent5997 Před rokem

    I love this❤, bring Taymesan back again ma’am. It’s the energy from both sides for me

  • @UF.Diamond17
    @UF.Diamond17 Před rokem

    This was dynamic and dimensional ❤🙌🙌📌💛

  • @sincerelyIJ
    @sincerelyIJ Před rokem

    Happy birthday queen!!!

  • @aliceyalenga7267
    @aliceyalenga7267 Před rokem

    I loved this podcast 💕💕😊

  • @lovelynjoseph8452
    @lovelynjoseph8452 Před rokem

    Happy birthday to you Toke i pray God favor u with good health and endless joy

  • @withvalerie
    @withvalerie Před rokem

    OMG my two favorite people together 💕

  • @jadenefosa6055
    @jadenefosa6055 Před rokem +1

    Happy birthday Favourite ❤️Best wishes

  • @Princess_O
    @Princess_O Před rokem +1

    Life is about perception. I also felt like God abandoned me at a certain point in my life which made me make some terrible mistakes, but God is faithful and even in that season He taught me a lot. It was like a journey and I felt like I prolonged that teaching journey with my perceptions. So at the point I felt like God abandoned me, He actually was trying to redirect me, but because of stubbornness and how I felt things should have gone, I was so hesitant.

  • @seraphinemoses3486
    @seraphinemoses3486 Před rokem

    I enjoyed the moment 😊

  • @talkwithdharmie9070
    @talkwithdharmie9070 Před rokem +1

    Missed this episode but here to catch up ❤️

  • @Khemmy__x
    @Khemmy__x Před rokem

    Happy birthday TM🎉❤….shout to Taymesan😍

  • @jessicaakwi7750
    @jessicaakwi7750 Před rokem

    😂😂😂😂watching from the Tv but had to come to my phone for comments

  • @tovkeljames9430
    @tovkeljames9430 Před rokem +2

    Both of you are a vibe

  • @ayodeletope3984
    @ayodeletope3984 Před rokem +2

    I never belive TM and taymesan see this close, wow TM is funny and humble..

  • @Princess_O
    @Princess_O Před rokem +9

    I love this episode ❤ una dey make me think wella. On the matter of friendships and seasons, I feel like it’s great to have forever friendships and I have always wanted that but I can’t say I have experienced it. Now the truth of the matter is that everyone is different and God knows us in our unique ways. Some of us are too dynamic that we just need seasonal friendships really. Then there are others that need to learn how to function in a forever friendship because it teaches us a whole lot (how to tolerate, patience, approach etc). As a believer, God also teaches us to rely solely on Him, maybe that’s why He doesn’t allow some of us to experience that level of commitment.

  • @shesaprincess8851
    @shesaprincess8851 Před rokem +1

    My favourite podcasters ❤

  • @nachy883
    @nachy883 Před rokem

    Toke the way you laugh eeh just makes me happy

  • @titilayo1598
    @titilayo1598 Před rokem +1

    I love the Podcast style. Thank you for the consistency and growth Toks. Happy birthday to you too, next Thursday is mine. Scorpio women rocks

  • @lucy_talks9301
    @lucy_talks9301 Před rokem +1

    I was wishing this Podcast won't come to an end....Yes yes yes please bring him back😊🙌🙌.. Happy birthday babygal for life, may this new year bring you multiple bliss

  • @elizabethjohnson8394
    @elizabethjohnson8394 Před rokem

    You can’t go wrong with Toke moment 😂😂😂

  • @thegloriaoboh
    @thegloriaoboh Před rokem +3

    I can relate to TM forgiving men faster than girls that are your friends 😂😂because I think the hurts cuts deeper with the girls because you don’t expect it.

  • @chukwunenyechidiebere6506

    So IT'S OFFICAL I love you Toke!!!!

  • @soniaogene5925
    @soniaogene5925 Před rokem

    I can relate with the the holy spirit intuition thing. Everyone needs to connect with God and the spirit of God. It's so sweet. My relationship with the Holy spirit exposed a friend that was betraying me at my work place. I was having issues at work not knowing my friend that I took as y sister was behind it. And the Holy spirit led me to a document that proved it cos I kept ignoring what my intuition was saying concerning her. God is good oh

  • @janetluxury2382
    @janetluxury2382 Před rokem

    Happy birthday Toke baby I love this episode please bring Tay back 😌😌😌😌😌😌

  • @Leey750
    @Leey750 Před rokem +1

    Taymesan is always a vibe🔥🔥🔥

  • @brendaebosele406
    @brendaebosele406 Před rokem

    He is an amazing pastor

  • @toyinkezia5181
    @toyinkezia5181 Před rokem +1

    I and my friend have been friends since WAEC siting period.. it’s been 13 years and we are now in separate continents but we still friends. In fact the picture you seeing was taken in her house 13 years ago ☺️

  • @heartsandpearls239
    @heartsandpearls239 Před rokem +2

    The first major heartache I had was from my first bestfriend in SHS. It took my first boyfriend to break my heart before I could realise that I felt this intense pain before and that was with my first bestfriend. . Friendships are deeper than m must relationships.

  • @latonyaclemence3021
    @latonyaclemence3021 Před rokem

    I have 2 closes friends that we have blossom to sisterhood, God gave me the gift of friendship. never had any bad friend but i grow out of some friendship

  • @janetluxury2382
    @janetluxury2382 Před rokem +1

    Na you never done it 😂😂😂😂Tay no go kill me 😂

  • @chimeremebereclement7370

    You invited taymesan
    U earned a subscriber

  • @toyinkezia5181
    @toyinkezia5181 Před rokem +1

    My Dad was like Taymesan grandma… he was so skeptical about friendship and I really didn’t see him with friends. Same for my mum. My mom was my dad major friend. When he died, I was scared of how she would be like because 😢… and thanks to my dad, I just have very very few friends and when I left Nigeria I was able to select my friends and know that when I smile with you doesn’t mean ya my friend, you can be an acquaintance

  • @goodygoody744
    @goodygoody744 Před rokem +1

    I really luv this episode
    It’s the gist talk for me❤❤❤