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HARD Conversations Every Couple MUST Have.
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- čas přidán 2. 08. 2024
- In this insightful episode, we tackle a critical question for couples: "What is the number one thing you should discuss before tying the knot?" This conversation is not about typical topics like finances or family planning but something far more fundamental to the longevity of your relationship.
We dive deep into the importance of discussing how to navigate problems together. This episode highlights the necessity of understanding how you and your partner handle stress, make decisions during crises and support each other when life takes unexpected turns. It's about building a strong foundation for managing the inevitable challenges of life as a team.
Our guest shares personal experiences and professional insights, emphasizing that while it’s important to discuss initial plans like finances and family goals, it's crucial to revisit these conversations regularly and adapt to life's changes together. We also explore the idea of viewing marriage similarly to a business partnership, where planning for potential issues and having strategies in place for when things go wrong is key to sustaining a healthy and resilient relationship.
Key points include:
The importance of discussing stress management and problem-solving approaches.
How life changes and unexpected events can impact initial plans and the need for ongoing communication.
The value of understanding each other’s communication styles, whether as emotion coaches or solution coaches, to prevent conflicts and strengthen emotional bonds.
By recognizing these aspects and preparing for the harder conversations, couples can ensure they remain aligned and supportive, no matter what life throws at them.
Key Topics:
Navigating problems together in a marriage
Managing stress and crises as a couple
Importance of ongoing communication and adaptation
Comparing marriage to a business partnership
Understanding different communication styles (emotion coaches vs. solution coaches)
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Chapters:
00:00:00 - The Most Important Conversation for Couples Before Marriage
00:00:52 - Managing stress and difficult conversations
00:01:46 - Building Strong Relationships in Difficult Times
00:02:41 - Planning for Business Disputes
00:03:27 - Planning for the Unexpected in Marriage
00:04:17 - Planning for Challenges in Relationships
00:05:04 - Communication Differences in Relationships
00:05:59 - Different Communication Styles
00:06:51 - Navigating Communication Styles in Relationships
00:07:46 - Stick with your emotions
I like this knowledgeable educated sensible woman’s advice! Bring her back again !
The fact that he loves his wife and children is why I trust him too
Hello Adam: Congratulations on child number five. Five children means that I can listen to you, you know how to solve problems. Have a really lovely day.
I really liked these insights. We tend to romanticize things so much but knowing how our partners deal with conflict and disagreements makes it so important for the survival of the relationship. Also being respectful to men in conflict is so crucial.
Thank you for this 🙏🏻🙋🏻♀️
100% Nothing is more essential
Than honesty in conflict / arguements
If we cannot discuss ALL topics that
Means youre marrying a blocked heart
The dating process is very eye opening when seeing how the partners handle conflict. There are patterns to observe and if you have a partner who argues non-stop or cuts and runs when there is a problem, marriage will only exacerbate it 😢
Take a tip from the classic film Broadcast News and sit on the back bottom of your blazer to prevent the “hunchback” look, allowing for strong, manly shoulders🙂
Love all your videos!
We need a JP collab
Enlightening! At times, I can be both the emotion coach and or the solution coach. Also, having the tough conversations beforehand is crucial.
I watch all these because i have a obsession with relationships although my desire to be in one jas slowly diminished over time. In a positive way however. The only person i have to deal with is myself and continue to develop my financial situation and education
It's great to hear that you've found a positive way to focus on yourself and your personal growth. If you ever feel the desire to explore relationships again, you'll be doing so from a place of strength and self-awareness.
Have you found any particular strategies or resources that have been especially helpful in your journey?
A+++
What do you believe and who go u believe in financial conflict
Hahahaha, the catholic joke was not funny