Selena Gomez- Lose you to love me (s l o w e d + r e v e r b)

Sdílet
Vložit
  • čas přidán 22. 10. 2019
  • i actually enjoyed this song and it's nice to see that selena has poured her whole feelings onto this song and i hope that everything runs smoothly in her life
    Listen to the original audio of' Lose you to love me'
    • Selena Gomez - Lose Yo...
    Subscribe to Selena's Channel
    / @selenagomez
    I DO NOT OWN THE SONG NOR THE PHOTO ONLY THE EDITING ALL RIGHTS TO THE RESPECTIVE OWNERS
    More Selena:
    Get 'Lose You To Love Me,' out now: smarturl.it/LoseYouToLoveMe
    Follow Selena:
    Instagram: / selenagomez
    Twitter: / selenagomez
    Facebook: / selena
    CZcams: smarturl.it/SelenaYT
    Listen on Apple Music: smarturl.it/SGEssentials
    Listen on Spotify: smarturl.it/SelenaGomezTheHitsSp
    Get exclusive Selena Gomez merch, available at: smarturl.it/SelenaStore
    Sign-up to be the first to hear news from Selena: smarturl.it/SelenaGomez.News
    Best of Selena Gomez goo.gl/mgJg2s
    Selena Gomez Audio goo.gl/dmJYbd
    xoxo
  • Hudba

Komentáře • 624

  • @sweatpants7987
    @sweatpants7987 Před 4 lety +5764

    "I saw the signs and i ignored it"
    -every blinded person in love 😢

  • @oswaldoaguirre9946
    @oswaldoaguirre9946 Před 4 lety +4316

    When u make a sad song sadder :(

    • @zhanna3762
      @zhanna3762 Před 4 lety +5

      😍

    • @emmaxekalaki5753
      @emmaxekalaki5753 Před 3 lety +7

      🥺🥺🥺

    • @goxull07
      @goxull07 Před 3 lety +4

      Fr 😩

    • @adelinenoahjean
      @adelinenoahjean Před 3 lety +4

      honestly this ain't sad at all, it's all healing n awakening for me, i say it's emotional

    • @notyours9776
      @notyours9776 Před rokem

      @@adelinenoahjean u guys listening to this song cuz yall depressed but i listen to wake me up i was fat bitch i lost a lot of waight now im building muscles u see guys this song just my life more than anyone this song is powerful so my massage is don't be dick be king I HOPE THIS MASSAGE CHANGE SOMEONE's LIFE CUZ ILL BE GLAD.

  • @haydenrose3237
    @haydenrose3237 Před 4 lety +2208

    “You promised the world and I fell for it” Felt that

  • @vernon790
    @vernon790 Před 3 lety +1346

    "I saw galaxy in his eyes, but it's shining for someone else"

  • @nhamoua
    @nhamoua Před 4 lety +1949

    I swear songs that are slowed down are even more sad:) why do these always get me in my feels.

  • @zoe9896
    @zoe9896 Před 4 lety +5234

    don't hate on me but this sounds better .

  • @thelasttimeitookashowerwas2652

    its crazy how we are listening to the same song but think about a different people

  • @user-pu8ve4jf7c
    @user-pu8ve4jf7c Před 4 lety +741

    the fact that almost all the world feels this song

  • @amiudcortez-delgado8950
    @amiudcortez-delgado8950 Před 4 lety +827

    *This **-dance-** song is killing me softly*

    • @xoelleee
      @xoelleee Před 4 lety +7

      Omfg i was at that part and i exactly heard that😂

    • @pandapoo03
      @pandapoo03 Před 3 lety +2

      Same

  • @dullqirl
    @dullqirl Před 3 lety +448

    𝙡𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙩𝙤 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙢𝙚..
    “ lyrics -
    You promised the world and I fell for it
    I put you first and you adored it
    Set fires to my forest
    And you let it burn
    Sang off key in my chorus
    'Cause it wasn't yours
    I saw the signs and I ignored it
    Rose colored glasses all distorted
    Set fire to my purpose
    And I let it burn
    You got off on the hurtin'
    When it wasn't yours, yeah
    We'd always go into it blindly
    I needed to lose you to find me
    This dance, it was killing me softly
    I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    I gave my all and they all know it
    Then you tore me down and now it's showing
    In two months, you replaced us
    Like it was easy
    Made me think I deserved it
    In the thick of healing, yeah
    We'd always go into it blindly
    I needed to lose you to find me
    This dance, it was killing me softly
    I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    You promised the world and I fell for it
    I put you first and you adored it
    Set fires to my forest
    And you let it burn
    Sang off key in my chorus
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    And now the chapter is closed and done
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    And now it's goodbye, it's goodbye for us
    *[thank you]*

  • @rumeysa0990
    @rumeysa0990 Před 3 lety +139

    Not everyone can write a song like this. Pain is felt even when singing the song. This woman is strong..

  • @moonxlight__
    @moonxlight__ Před 4 lety +328

    This is the best/saddest slowed version of this song I have ever heard

  • @aasiyahp572
    @aasiyahp572 Před 4 lety +295

    this song is so addictive god damn

  • @sanyahcooper7892
    @sanyahcooper7892 Před 4 lety +376

    You promised the world and I fell for it
    I put you first and you adored it
    Set fires to my forest
    And you let it burn
    Sang off-key in my chorus
    'Cause it wasn't yours
    I saw the signs and I ignored it
    Rose-colored glasses all distorted
    Set fire to my purpose
    And I let it burn
    You got off on the hurtin'
    When it wasn't yours, yeah
    We'd always go into it blindly
    I needed to lose you to find me
    This dancing was killing me softly
    I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    I gave my all and they all know it
    You tore me down and now it's showing
    In two months you replaced us
    Like it was easy
    Made me think I deserved it
    In the thick of healing, yeah
    We'd always go into it blindly
    I needed to lose you to find me
    This dancing was killing me softly
    I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    You promised the world and I fell for it
    I put you first and you adored it
    Set fires to my forest
    And you let it burn
    Sang off key in my chorus
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    And now the chapter is closed and done
    To love love, yeah
    To love love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    And now it's goodbye, it's goodbye for us

  • @zoe9896
    @zoe9896 Před 4 lety +1868

    nobody
    me : OH MY GOD IS THAT LANA

    • @benmoon575
      @benmoon575 Před 4 lety +61

      thats the first thing i thought

    • @billiesfatass9581
      @billiesfatass9581 Před 4 lety +24

      Is that all u came for- oml

    • @zoe9896
      @zoe9896 Před 4 lety +31

      @@billiesfatass9581 yes andddd

    • @billiesfatass9581
      @billiesfatass9581 Před 4 lety +14

      Daisy most people come here for the song only. It can annoy people sometimes

    • @jaybeee8744
      @jaybeee8744 Před 4 lety +9

      YOOO I SAID THE SAME THING

  • @indiee
    @indiee Před 3 lety +73

    "The chapter is close and done."
    Why does this hit me with a wave of emotions so hard wtf

  • @aiyanaw420
    @aiyanaw420 Před 4 lety +103

    I’m happy that Selena Gomez is making new music now

  • @huniyaahmad8274
    @huniyaahmad8274 Před 4 lety +511

    I'm not heartbroken or anything, I'm just sad

    • @Chizuha_
      @Chizuha_ Před 3 lety +1

      same..

    • @riedoll
      @riedoll Před 3 lety +1

      same.

    • @hamdi5515
      @hamdi5515 Před 3 lety +4

      i am not sad but this is really soothing like i am not even thinking about all the over due assignments and 2 tests i have to do today :/

    • @mariazaman7312
      @mariazaman7312 Před 3 lety +1

      Me too💜

    • @nihel2117
      @nihel2117 Před 3 lety

      Then u are lucky, and u just need to know how to live in between. cuz u can't find happiness until u taste the bitterness of the sadness

  • @dianaalvarez2224
    @dianaalvarez2224 Před 4 lety +188

    “it’s gonna be okay”

    • @dianaalvarez2224
      @dianaalvarez2224 Před 4 lety +10

      damn it’s been 2 months, but i’m doing better!! Still not over him, but he’s happy!! I’m starting to realize my worth. It’s going to get better guys. Don’t lose hope :)❤️ Wish every single one of y’all the best

    • @katiehodgson6425
      @katiehodgson6425 Před 3 lety +5

      @@dianaalvarez2224 wish you the best too ❤

    • @ashleymorton6570
      @ashleymorton6570 Před 3 lety +2

      @@dianaalvarez2224 aw this is so cute. Hope you’re doing well

    • @natashaaaa7726
      @natashaaaa7726 Před 3 lety +1

      he sent me “happy valentines lol single valentines” 🥺 i think i really lost him now

  • @mackobrien1606
    @mackobrien1606 Před 4 lety +249

    me and my ex dated for almost three months, not that long, i know, but he pressured me into saying i love you WAY too early. i really did see the signs, and i really did ignore them. there were so many red flags from the start. i never got butterflies when we kissed or did anything together, and he got very distant a month into the relationship. of course, i liked him, but it just felt so off. i decided to break things off after multiple people were telling me he was going to publicly break up with me. i did it one morning before our classes started. i did it privately and i wasn't rude about it in any way. i then later found out he was going around telling people he "got what he wanted so it didn't matter if we ended or not anyways", and that he only "used me for head". he was going around spreading nasty things about me, about my BODY. he told people i smelled bad down there, and said things i don't even want to repeat. he called me controlling and told the guys in our grade to not date me. he completely tore down my confidence. i'm not longer comfortable in my own body, and i often feel disgusted with myself. i'm scared that nobody will ever like me again, and that i have no chance with anyone anymore. my entire self worth has been shattered by him. this song means so much to me, and i can relate with every single lyric in it. i really did need to lose him to start loving myself again.

    • @munibahq19
      @munibahq19 Před 4 lety +28

      I'm so sorry this happened to you. Sending my love and positive vibes 💗

    • @mackobrien1606
      @mackobrien1606 Před 4 lety +5

      @@munibahq19 thank you

    • @tinketywinkety5714
      @tinketywinkety5714 Před 4 lety +15

      That guy should like a garbage human and you are worth so much

    • @Leah-iz4hs
      @Leah-iz4hs Před 4 lety +15

      that guys is called a dickhead :) love yourself dont let him bring you down your worth so much more

    • @Rainjojo
      @Rainjojo Před 3 lety +11

      You’re a beautiful person with an amazing personality, that garbage doesn’t deserve someone like you ❤️

  • @samahatimebye
    @samahatimebye Před 3 lety +43

    these lines make me think about me and my friendship with my toxic friend
    "I put you first and you adored it".
    ''I saw the signs but I ignored it''.
    ''I gave my all and they all know it''.
    ''Two months you replaced us, like it was easy made me think I deserved it.

  • @abigailsmith8841
    @abigailsmith8841 Před 3 lety +14

    Thankful God’s Love healed me from this type of pain - from every pain. His Love is better than everything❤️

  • @delulubich
    @delulubich Před 4 lety +232

    Could you image:
    Dating someone and then breaking up with to figure out 2 months later your ex is getting married.
    Donating your Kidney.
    *And still getting hate* 😔😭.

    • @lolamichelle2953
      @lolamichelle2953 Před 4 lety +8

      Shook Asf she never donated a kidney, I-

    • @kodiek7875
      @kodiek7875 Před 4 lety +5

      Lola Michelle she did donate a kidney but to her friend not an ex

    • @honeymoonave1232
      @honeymoonave1232 Před 4 lety +29

      Kodie K her friend donated her kidney to Selena

    • @tiffanytwo2652
      @tiffanytwo2652 Před 3 lety +4

      bro why do people think this is for justin, lets not make him everything please, this is about our queen sel 😔🖐️

  • @username6089
    @username6089 Před 3 lety +32

    when you haven't experienced love but still feel a connection to this song.....idk why or how but it is what it is

  • @biggay1690
    @biggay1690 Před 4 lety +697

    Selena: you set fire to my forest and you let it burn
    Amazon forest: am i a joke to you?

  • @narsismanafi3745
    @narsismanafi3745 Před 4 lety +26

    listening to this at 3 am rlly hits different

  • @elenavlogs6445
    @elenavlogs6445 Před 4 lety +86

    this hit me in so many ways.

  • @sh0y412
    @sh0y412 Před 4 lety +59

    "I needed to lose you to love me" *ouch* 🥺

  • @Reeree0219
    @Reeree0219 Před 4 lety +69

    “And now the chapter is closed and done....& now it’s goodbye it’s goodbye for us” 🥺🥺🥺

  • @milk5055
    @milk5055 Před 3 lety +33

    The worst thing that can ever possibly happen to a human being is when someone crushes your soul to a point that you cannot breathe. The pain is overwhelming and chest crushingly horrible. We, as human, feel so much but this pain is something much different.

  • @keiradarlow3102
    @keiradarlow3102 Před 4 lety +153

    And I’m crying again 🥴

  • @anaisvargas1235
    @anaisvargas1235 Před 4 lety +152

    I’m dedicating this song to all my Oreo cookies that I somehow managed to stop buying to get a healthy lifestyle 😂
    I needed to lose you to love me 💔

    • @danieljack6453
      @danieljack6453 Před 2 lety +1

      Tell me you are single without telling me your single

  • @thatoneperson9103
    @thatoneperson9103 Před 4 lety +124

    Here and you are killing it ❤️

  • @sorrowache
    @sorrowache Před 3 lety +11

    “you promised the world i fell for it.”
    that hit ngl 🥺

  • @jemimah0863
    @jemimah0863 Před 4 lety +47

    Im yawning and crying at the same time when listening this version

  • @mariamdialloip9089
    @mariamdialloip9089 Před 3 lety +12

    that crazy how people lie every time wen they in a situation ..
    but that phrase hit different*I needed to lose you to find me*

  • @c.hrissa
    @c.hrissa Před 4 lety +23

    19.07.14 - 18.07.19
    This dancing was killing me softly

  • @makenzie3610
    @makenzie3610 Před 3 lety +7

    you know, i really liked this guy a few months ago even though we don't talk that much or anything and when i listened to this song for the first time I realized there were all these songs he didn't like me and I was going down with it and i realized that I did need to move on and lose that to remember who I am and that I deserve someone who feels the same way about me that I do them, so i wish i could thank her for helping me when not even knowing it

  • @bryson5504
    @bryson5504 Před 4 lety +330

    My question is why is it Lana

  • @emiliogomez806
    @emiliogomez806 Před 3 lety +8

    Their needs to be a whole new era of slowed & reverb songs. It hits the soul different❤

  • @anta7394
    @anta7394 Před 4 lety +66

    Who's listening to this in Quarantine.

  • @bellah-oi7dm
    @bellah-oi7dm Před 4 lety +23

    “I saw the signs, and I ignored it.”
    “you promised the world and fell for it..”
    Loving people is to hard for me :T

  • @ilovegreenthea8909
    @ilovegreenthea8909 Před 4 lety +17

    this song is so sad and it let me think about everything..

  • @laila-marie1997
    @laila-marie1997 Před 3 lety +9

    Never has a song opened up my heart as much as this one

  • @Gettrolledlol1
    @Gettrolledlol1 Před 4 lety +14

    losing someone is very very hurtful
    but losing yourself is worser
    keep your head up ily ❤️

    • @corriearcade60
      @corriearcade60 Před rokem

      Losing someone u love is worse than losing urself who u may not love

    • @Gettrolledlol1
      @Gettrolledlol1 Před rokem

      @@corriearcade60 excuse me what?

    • @corriearcade60
      @corriearcade60 Před rokem

      @@Gettrolledlol1 I meant, losing someone u love is worse then losing yourself, Cus that person could complete ur life, also if you don’t love yourself then it won’t make difference losing yourself

    • @Gettrolledlol1
      @Gettrolledlol1 Před rokem

      @@corriearcade60 broskie. Respectfully stfu. Losing yourself while losing a person will lead you to kill yourself if you aren’t careful. Bye- losing yourself is worser then losing someone.

    • @corriearcade60
      @corriearcade60 Před rokem

      @@Gettrolledlol1 but what if u care sm bout someone

  • @Crolls12093
    @Crolls12093 Před 3 lety +3

    My favourite part is when she says “to love love to love” I’m OBSESSED 😭

  • @fatma4576
    @fatma4576 Před 4 lety +9

    the amount of times i’ve listened to this is insane

  • @jihyunchwe
    @jihyunchwe Před 4 lety +45

    this is exactly what i need 😭❤

  • @jaimoore514
    @jaimoore514 Před 4 lety +15

    i really love this song especially this version 🤧

  • @user-gw6vp3gz1p
    @user-gw6vp3gz1p Před 4 lety +33

    In love 😭❤️

  • @yourfav904
    @yourfav904 Před 2 lety +4

    this song helps me cope with sexual abuse trauma thx

  • @rachetanarwal2399
    @rachetanarwal2399 Před 4 lety +17

    The songs sounds so much better when you're thinking about someone

  • @sema2796
    @sema2796 Před 3 lety +5

    I'm always here :')

  • @catn_p
    @catn_p Před 4 lety +22

    Idk why but every time I hear this song, I start to cry. :(. It reminds me of when my crush said he didn’t like anyone.... because of what happened.... 💔💔

  • @mariaclararocha1303
    @mariaclararocha1303 Před 3 lety +3

    Oh.. it hits differently 💔

  • @skye8546
    @skye8546 Před 4 lety +6

    u promised the world and i fell for it

  • @elenavlogs6445
    @elenavlogs6445 Před 4 lety +44

    0:58 so fk true.

  • @jaebandzz7827
    @jaebandzz7827 Před 3 lety +31

    me and my bf broke up a few days ago . the relationship was very toxic, we would always get into arguments, we broke up multiple times and got back together, he liked other girls while we were together, etc. he promised he wouldn’t leave and we were gonna be “forever” but clearly that wasn’t true.. i noticed that he would always tell me how pretty i was and how he the prettiest gf and yeah i get that’s cute but i feel like that’s the only think he liked about me, he never told me how he loved my personality or anything. it was always about my face and my body. he told me how he was so loyal and he was never gonna leave but would always talk about his ex and other girls while we were texting or talking. it did hurt me but i never said anything because i didn’t wanna lose him, i loved him so much. But now it’s a few days later and i already found my self worth, likeee girlll im fucking gorgeous...idc what anyone has to say. AND BITCHHH GUESS WHATTTTT....i did it without him.
    remember that you need to love yourself before anyone else.
    edit: i got back with him 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @Lara-wp2lw
      @Lara-wp2lw Před 3 lety +8

      Howwww girlllllll i cry and when i read the end i-

    • @vic174
      @vic174 Před 3 lety +2

      THE EDIT NO -

    • @bunch3008
      @bunch3008 Před 2 lety +2

      Your edit ruin my whole mood💀

    • @aya-_-3045
      @aya-_-3045 Před 2 lety

      why in the world would you get back with him after all of that? this guy doesn’t care about you, love you or respect you. there’s so many good guys out there that would actually respect you but instead ur wasting ur time with this asshole. at this point, you’re just hurting yourself girl. so good luck with that

  • @lxphh9375
    @lxphh9375 Před 2 lety +3

    “I gave my all and they all know it
    You turned me down and now it's showing
    In two months, you replaced us”felt that..

  • @kasheeizzhere5202
    @kasheeizzhere5202 Před 3 lety +3

    I feel that sting on my chest again when i get a sudden depression wave....i like it and ive kinda missed it.

  • @charlottedoesstuff9274
    @charlottedoesstuff9274 Před 3 lety +3

    *"We'd always go into it blindly"*
    That hit HOME

  • @user-fb3jl8ey4c
    @user-fb3jl8ey4c Před 4 lety +5

    when i listened to this song i remembered my bff... this song is very emotional...

  • @yoonbred
    @yoonbred Před 4 lety +6

    First thing that came to my head was Reddie, I am now CRYING they deserve everything 🥺

  • @rianamaria7045
    @rianamaria7045 Před 4 lety +22

    I need to think about my crush while hearing this, and it hurts cause he lives almost 2 1/2 hours from here away😫

  • @aireen9283
    @aireen9283 Před 3 lety +4

    I feel the pain in her voice

  • @nikkizaa4812
    @nikkizaa4812 Před 3 lety +7

    “I needed to lose you to find me”
    When you still love that person but you need to let go just to find yourself.

  • @rileysworld9344
    @rileysworld9344 Před 2 lety +2

    " you tore me down and now it's showing " i felt that

  • @jena2097
    @jena2097 Před 4 lety +7

    i need this on soundcloud / spotify 😫

  • @gracemerrett1404
    @gracemerrett1404 Před 3 lety +4

    "you promised the world and I fell for it"

  • @irimirsua2211
    @irimirsua2211 Před 2 lety +2

    This will make a true selenator cry

  • @Itsme-mak
    @Itsme-mak Před 3 lety +3

    “I need too lose you too find me “
    I can relate 💔

  • @antoniapusu9885
    @antoniapusu9885 Před 4 lety +22

    this hits different when you have to cut a toxic friend off so you can evolve

  • @lobosleones9232
    @lobosleones9232 Před 3 lety +2

    i had thought that i had found the one last year in october and everyday i’d look forward to living life with the person and eventually we reached a point of facetiming everynight and reminding each other of how much we “loved” each other in the moment i was in love with him and adored his town and friends but he cheated and emotionally led me on and abused me though and it was not until may that i found someone that is actually there for me and truly helped me grasp the concept of what a loving person is i don’t know where i’d be without this person because they have truly always been there for me and everyday i wake up truly happy again, he’s the best thing that has ever happened to me and everyday i’m still getting better and healing from that past because of him :,)

  • @andreiofficial5231
    @andreiofficial5231 Před 2 lety +3

    Slowed Reverbs Really Hits Different Makes You Feel Real.

  • @jalkrutimehta5945
    @jalkrutimehta5945 Před 3 lety +2

    This feels different in the middle of the night, Rain and thunderstorms. Facts.

  • @syama-gauri7117
    @syama-gauri7117 Před 3 lety +3

    The goosebumps are so intense...

  • @gemmaaloll2961
    @gemmaaloll2961 Před 3 lety +3

    " I needed to lose you to love me 🥺 "

  • @khaithird6771
    @khaithird6771 Před 3 lety +4

    u promised the world and i fell for it....------------
    ------i guess I don't want to have love--------

  • @sanchh
    @sanchh Před 3 lety +1

    Oh god..this song is already a sad song and you made it more sadder👀🥺

  • @dulapeep3371
    @dulapeep3371 Před 4 lety +18

    This is amazing

  • @nicolethomas8533
    @nicolethomas8533 Před 4 lety +4

    “You promised the world and i fell for it” life is great right?!

  • @zoyeah28
    @zoyeah28 Před 3 lety +6

    this song makes me sad about the breakup I've never had

  • @M3la102
    @M3la102 Před 4 lety +4

    This is so beautiful 😭😭

  • @ceecee3519
    @ceecee3519 Před 3 lety +2

    This dancing was killing me softly..

  • @alexisway6088
    @alexisway6088 Před 4 lety +6

    i got chills

  • @reneepeters5051
    @reneepeters5051 Před 4 lety +13

    Beautiful 😍😭

  • @doingok2347
    @doingok2347 Před 3 lety +2

    The slowed version always make you feel a different way.Like they make you feel like you’ve been there before

  • @breegonzales13
    @breegonzales13 Před 3 lety +7

    This song is basically me.😅
    😭😭😭🥺

  • @mainlyymanu8161
    @mainlyymanu8161 Před 2 lety +2

    "Made me think i deserved it" this hits me in a way that like---- it hurts

  • @thatgirlliante7317
    @thatgirlliante7317 Před 3 lety +1

    You promised the world and I fell for it 😢😢😭

  • @scarlettromo7717
    @scarlettromo7717 Před 4 lety +7

    When the song is slow it hits more different 😭

  • @lanniechua2670
    @lanniechua2670 Před 3 lety +1

    "you promised the world and i fell for it". "i saw the signs, and i ignored it". sigh, i should've listened to my gut feeling. :(

  • @kaitlyn7956
    @kaitlyn7956 Před 3 lety +3

    i had a toxic best friend (lets call her ella) we did everything together, i mean we became best friends when we were 7 & 8. i thought we had the *perfect* friendship, but it was the opposite of that. i thought it was normal for a friend to call you fat and ugly, she brainwashed me into thinking we had an amazing friendship.
    a few years ago one of my older best friends asked me how ella and i's friendship was doing, and i told her about all the things we did together, and even told her that she called me names, i thought it was funny, but when she didn't laugh, and instead frowned and hugged me, i knew something was wrong.
    she said that ella was a bad friend, and that i needed to get her out of my life. i was just in 6th grade, and confused. so i didn't drop her, and let her control me. it hurt me so fucking bad, i started to get anxiety and stopped eating because i thought i needed to lose weight, because of how much she called me fat.
    finally in 7th grade i dropped her, and i became happy but something just felt wrong. so i went back to her, a few months later i dropped her again, and then 3 weeks later we were friends again.
    we went back and forth for 2 years, then when COVID happened, i realized that i *needed* to drop her, otherwise i would just hurt more, and she would control me more. so i dropped her, and finally found myself.
    i realized that i was beautiful, and i was bisexual (she told me that i was straight, and only that). then COVID got even worse, and my mental health got worse, and i started to self-harm and stopped eating again.
    but what i did next i regret...
    i went back to her, she told me she had changed, and she was a better person. dumb 13 year old me believed her, and we were friend again.
    at first she was a different person, in a good way, and i thought she really changed.
    we then went into high school together, and she was sweet and i thought that a break was all we needed.
    then, she did something that i will never forget....
    she hit me when we got into a fight.
    that's when it hit me, she didn't change.
    she manipulated me.
    in that moment i didn't have time to cry, i just ran off and shouted
    "NEVER TALK TO ME AGAIN"
    now, i am going to be 15 in 3 days, and am happy as ever. at first it hurt me because i was left with all the memories she left me with, but i didn't let that stop me.
    to everyone who has a toxic friend
    leave them, don't trust them, they may say they have changed, but they didn't and it may hurt for a few weeks after leaving them, but it is best for you
    love you !!
    - kaitlyn

  • @wayofthesalaaf
    @wayofthesalaaf Před 3 lety

    I needed this.

  • @lulepascarella3401
    @lulepascarella3401 Před 4 lety +7

    yaas i love this 😍😍

  • @daisyjones7357
    @daisyjones7357 Před 2 lety +1

    I felt literally every lyric in this song

  • @beatricerew1528
    @beatricerew1528 Před 4 lety +146

    I feel like her and Justin are soulmates and it makes me upset knowing he's married to someone else.

    • @n1dgaf
      @n1dgaf Před 4 lety +27

      yes agree but still deep In me is saying that they are going to be endgame

    • @sarahkoen5852
      @sarahkoen5852 Před 4 lety +5

      Omwww yesss you have joe idea how much relate

    • @taesoreomcflurry2845
      @taesoreomcflurry2845 Před 3 lety +20

      Yeah Justin ruined their relationship though. He cheated on her even though he claimed he was madly in love with her, and when she forgave him he took advantage of that and did it over and over again. His manager, Scooter, just covered it up so everyone would hate Selena instead when it wasn’t her fault at all. She loved him, even though he hurt her. And trust me, I understand. I was a Jelena shipper myself.

    • @nilanjonaaaa
      @nilanjonaaaa Před 3 lety +2

      jelena fans please let them live their life :')

    • @attitudecool
      @attitudecool Před 3 lety +1

      wait same. They we perfect. Perfect ngl :(

  • @princessstaana5259
    @princessstaana5259 Před 3 lety +7

    the line that hit different to me:
    "and now the chapter is closed and done"
    "and now it's goodbye it's goodbye for us"
    im crying...

  • @nadiakhan5159
    @nadiakhan5159 Před 2 lety +1

    This Song Killing Me Softly..🖤✨

  • @luciferthegoosifer6262
    @luciferthegoosifer6262 Před 2 lety +1

    i showed this song to my crush and talked about how i used to sing it even though i’d never been heartbroken.
    he laughed and i genuinely knew he loved me.
    _loved…_