Selena Gomez - Lose You To Love Me (Official Music Video)

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  • čas přidán 21. 10. 2019
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    LYRICS
    You promised the world and I fell for it
    I put you first and you adored it
    You set fires to my forest
    And you let it burn
    Sang off key in my chorus
    Cause it wasn’t yours
    I saw the signs and I ignored it
    Rose colored glasses all distorted
    You set fire to my purpose
    And I let it burn
    You got off on the hurtin’
    When it wasn’t yours
    We’d always go into it blindly
    I needed to lose you to find me
    This dancing was killing me softly
    I needed to hate you to love me
    To love love yeah
    To love love yeah
    To love yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    To love love yeah
    To love love yeah
    To love yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    I gave my all and they all know it
    You tore me down and now it’s showing
    In two months you replaced us
    Like it was easy
    Made me think I deserved it
    In the thick of healing
    We’d always go into it blindly
    I needed to lose you to find me
    This dancing was killing me softly
    I needed to hate you to love me
    To love love yeah
    To love love yeah
    To love yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    To love love yeah
    To love love yeah
    To love yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    You promised the world and I fell for it
    I put you first and you adored it
    You set fires to my forest
    And you let it burn
    Sang off key in my chorus-
    To love love yeah
    To love love yeah
    To love yeah
    I needed to hate you to love me
    To love love yeah
    To love love yeah
    To love yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    To love love yeah
    To love love yeah
    To love yeah
    And now the chapter is closed and done
    And now it’s goodbye
    It’s goodbye for us
    Music video by Selena Gomez performing Lose You To Love Me. © 2019 Interscope Records
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Komentáře • 354K

  • @selenagomez
    @selenagomez Před 4 lety +1349661

    This song was inspired by many things that have happened in my life since releasing my last album. I want people to feel hope and to know you will come out the other side stronger and a better version of yourself.

  • @modellbahnh0162
    @modellbahnh0162 Před 4 lety +52008

    Everyone is trying to find the right person, but nobody is trying to be the right person.

  • @farjanaakther922
    @farjanaakther922 Před 4 lety +41626

    2014 : The heart wants what it wants
    2019 : Lose you to love me
    A glow up we all needed

  • @Officiallyarohi
    @Officiallyarohi Před 2 měsíci +1050

    "In two months you replaced us" i felt this

  • @BoxOfficeEarners
    @BoxOfficeEarners Před měsícem +1695

    Who’s watching this in 2024?

  • @nisa9093
    @nisa9093 Před 4 lety +38254

    You don't miss the person.
    You only miss the memories .

  • @eya4971
    @eya4971 Před 4 lety +47854

    _I love her because _*_she's not afraid_*_ of showing her emotions._

  • @heidisanders3290
    @heidisanders3290 Před 3 měsíci +568

    One of the MOST BEAUTIFUL SONGS I've EVER heard.....

    • @Katfall2012
      @Katfall2012 Před 2 měsíci +6

      Must not hear much music

    • @kathleenmcdonald1132
      @kathleenmcdonald1132 Před 12 dny

      Oh yeah definitely!!❤ makes me cry Everytime but at first it was sad tears now it’s of joy.

    • @SimonHRoy
      @SimonHRoy Před 5 dny

      @@Katfall2012 Who hurt you?

  • @chicken
    @chicken Před měsícem +784

    Its March 2024, let's see how many legends are listening to this incredible song ❤

  • @Sharonnnnnnnnnn
    @Sharonnnnnnnnnn Před 4 lety +32712

    *“I think it’s important to realize you can miss something, but not want it back.”*

    • @Tracydoune
      @Tracydoune Před 4 lety +344

      I love this

    • @beyasaskia4037
      @beyasaskia4037 Před 4 lety +439

      I really like your comment, it helped me clear my thoughts thank you!

    • @catherine8755
      @catherine8755 Před 4 lety +727

      Or sometimes miss the memories but not the people

    • @didiwoye7634
      @didiwoye7634 Před 4 lety +155

      @@catherine8755 that's true. I have so many memories of things I don't want back

    • @Hailey-tn9pb
      @Hailey-tn9pb Před 4 lety +16

      MaShEd PoTaEtoEs 1.1k like

  • @user-pk2px2dj2d
    @user-pk2px2dj2d Před 3 lety +10322

    This girl really deserves the whole world. God please give her real happiness

  • @LeonelHaydle
    @LeonelHaydle Před měsícem +118

    It's not a song but a masterpiece and a hit. Selena Gomez is a exceptional artist by the way she's my favorite. Who's listening to this masterpiece in 2024? It's just immortal...

  • @daylexreyes
    @daylexreyes Před 3 měsíci +228

    This song is so powerful and touching. _Selena has overcome so many things and has come out stronger than ever. This song is a proof of her talent and her courage. I love how she changes the tone of the song from sad to hopeful. This song is a life lesson for everyone who has suffered for love and has found their purpose. We admire you, Selena. You are a queen. 👑_

  • @CoverArmy1
    @CoverArmy1 Před 4 lety +69441

    When Selena said: “I needed to lose you to find me”, I FELT THAT.

  • @feliciasatriyanto6233
    @feliciasatriyanto6233 Před 4 lety +3917

    she sounds honest and strong on every lyrics, she’s coming back stronger than ever. i love this song, i love queen!

    • @414MzD
      @414MzD Před 4 lety +9

      She has part of her friend flowing thru her now🧚🏾‍♀️

    • @Joyful477
      @Joyful477 Před 4 lety +1

      For real❤️❤️

    • @rickiayela
      @rickiayela Před 4 lety +1

      Felicia Oct yes! This song is honestly so good 😭 she’s so talented! And I love this comment , I’m a musician too and would absolutely love to hear your thoughts on some of the music on my page :)

    • @pompunpopularpodcast
      @pompunpopularpodcast Před 4 lety +2

      Felicia Oct I’m not a fan of her music but this comment is straight facts! Beautifully relatable lyrics

    • @MagicBarbiemagicbarbie
      @MagicBarbiemagicbarbie Před 4 lety

      Felicia Oct hi can u subscribe to my channel its my birthday❤️

  • @Foreverwinter8
    @Foreverwinter8 Před měsícem +76

    Still, feeling the raw feelings and emotions she felt when she wrote this masterpiece back in 2019. Can't believe it's been four and a half years since this song was released.

  • @mellysarit524
    @mellysarit524 Před měsícem +28

    To miss and love someone but to not want them is wild, the craziest things happen to your brain and heart. But at the end of the day you’re a little proud 🩷

  • @painterrella9723
    @painterrella9723 Před 4 lety +3265

    "Cry as much as you want to,
    But just make sure when your finished, you never cry for the same reason ~Selena Gomez

  • @BM-ef4sx
    @BM-ef4sx Před 4 lety +2150

    She said, “I’m back and better than ever”, and we love that

    • @MursydQurthubi
      @MursydQurthubi Před 4 lety +2

      please see my youtube channel, I just made the song lyrics of your lost video to love me, fill Selena with the story of his ex-girlfriend. i hope you want to

    • @lilxtasy4936
      @lilxtasy4936 Před 3 lety

      *plays wild sorry interlude boom*

    • @CoCo-yp4it
      @CoCo-yp4it Před 3 lety +1

      Ladies and gentleman: welcome Selena Gomez the lupus trendsetter + bieber booster pack
      🎶🍾🍾"rumbaaaaaaaaa"

    • @lilxtasy4936
      @lilxtasy4936 Před 3 lety

      @@CoCo-yp4it SELUPUS THE TRENDSETTER*

    • @CoCo-yp4it
      @CoCo-yp4it Před 3 lety

      @@lilxtasy4936 oh oh oh! Rrrrrrrumbaaaa 🎉

  • @josenubes3118
    @josenubes3118 Před 3 měsíci +93

    I love you Selena, don't retire, your music saved me

  • @EvelynDaniel413
    @EvelynDaniel413 Před 23 dny +64

    Selena Gomez dun went off 2 da next level like fr fr 💖 *a u t h e n t I c v i e w s* 💖 is what got them HUGE!

  • @liperpul9238
    @liperpul9238 Před 4 lety +5989

    "If you lose someone but found yourself, you won." -Joker

    • @sevcan6140
      @sevcan6140 Před 4 lety +25

      True

    • @ignaciolynette
      @ignaciolynette Před 4 lety +7

      0o0

    • @jnthnofficial
      @jnthnofficial Před 4 lety +25

      liperpul fc that movie is one of the best ones I’ve seen in the past 5 years. I make music too btw, give me a chance if u want I won’t disappoint

    • @bluesanta6006
      @bluesanta6006 Před 4 lety +6

      Jnthn I found u a minute ago your music is amazing bro

    • @shawnnn8411
      @shawnnn8411 Před 4 lety +6

      Jnthn dude you sound like a mix between Shawn and billie. I love it sm

  • @mariami7249
    @mariami7249 Před 4 lety +10458

    “In two months you replaced us, Like it was easy”
    This hits so hard

  • @daylexreyes
    @daylexreyes Před 3 měsíci +33

    _This song makes me feel so seen. Selena is an inspiration for everyone who has gone through a painful breakup and learned to love themselves. Her voice is so beautiful and emotional. Thank you for sharing your story with us, Selena. You deserve the best. 💖_

  • @letyhermosillo3467
    @letyhermosillo3467 Před 2 měsíci +24

    Such a strong song. Especially for a public figure to go throughout what she did , and that other person to walk arround like that relationship was nothing. And marry. That’s tough. If it’s hard for us that aren’t a public figure I just can’t imagine what she felt in those months. ❤. Good thing she found someone better and better that brings a smile to her❤.

  • @pajn5516
    @pajn5516 Před 3 lety +3854

    She doesn’t know that this song actually heals our pain....

    • @samanthathompson7736
      @samanthathompson7736 Před 3 lety +29

      This what helping me now

    • @axriiaxie541
      @axriiaxie541 Před 3 lety +5

      I list someone now I'm feel it on my heart love this song it heals all that are broken 🥺💓

    • @crostan4769
      @crostan4769 Před 3 lety +5

      when imposter is sus!!!11!! 😳😳😳

    • @Thnked
      @Thnked Před 3 lety +1

      Heyy!! Sorry for being a copy & paste warrior, but i just released my first single on spotify and it's sitting at around 300 streams. My ultimate goal is to hit 1000 streams. I'm hoping you could give it a chance by searching "Thnked - Beautiful Life" or just through my channel page here on youtube. Thanks in advance! 💗

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      @paolaviet9195 Před 3 lety +1

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  • @hannahheath8258
    @hannahheath8258 Před 3 lety +4945

    This song is definitely the definition of “When you’re sad, you understand the lyrics” 🥺

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      @awesome6084 Před 3 lety

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    • @kc-lv4gh
      @kc-lv4gh Před 3 lety +24

      I know you guys hate self promoters but please hear me out. I'm different than other rappers, I rap about stuff that makes a difference. I recently got bullied in school and I wrote a song about that. They bullied me cause I'm indian, my accent and a lot of other stuff as well. The song is called "k grip hope" on youtube. I think you guys should listen to it so you know what it was like for me. Thanks for listening to me, please be kind to others whether you listen or not. 🙂

    • @RJ-xd6ub
      @RJ-xd6ub Před 3 lety +42

      This song is heard and felt when you finally let go of THAT person.

    • @hannahheath8258
      @hannahheath8258 Před 3 lety +8

      @@kc-lv4gh I’m sorry to hear that! I will definitely check it out! :)

    • @hannahheath8258
      @hannahheath8258 Před 3 lety +5

      @@RJ-xd6ub Exactly!

  • @divyabhashini
    @divyabhashini Před 3 měsíci +50

    Still remember those days this masterpiece released..It's still in my heart..after 4 years I really understand these lyrics very well than 4 years ago..Luv you Selena I'll always be there for you..I'll never forget this masterpiece I'll come here again maybe in months or years cuz it's breaking my heart when listen to this sometimes.

  • @ishaansharma9509
    @ishaansharma9509 Před 27 dny +72

    anyone listening in 2024?

    • @michellethompson9674
      @michellethompson9674 Před 23 dny +1

      Still am . And even though I love Justin voice, he’s a manipulative narcissist.

    • @Dbarr311
      @Dbarr311 Před 21 dnem

      No absolutely no1 is listening to this song! Your an idiot kid.

    • @mrskamski7693
      @mrskamski7693 Před 21 dnem +1

      Always 🥲

    • @wildflower7951
      @wildflower7951 Před 20 dny

      It's my night song 🍦🥺 I can't get enough of it ❤😊

    • @Dbarr311
      @Dbarr311 Před 20 dny

      No absolutely nobody is listening to this song. I mean really!? Cmon, now! You fishing for comments and likes?

  • @huyenchi0601
    @huyenchi0601 Před 2 lety +4401

    I am still crying listening to this. She deserves the whole world.

    • @huyenchi0601
      @huyenchi0601 Před 2 lety +16

      @@vipraja7 that's such an expression to describe how much you love a person and wish all the best to her. 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️. I feel bad for you

    • @bloom2666
      @bloom2666 Před 2 lety +24

      but still, she don't get the grammy for this song.. well, grammy doesn't deserves her.

    • @huyenchi0601
      @huyenchi0601 Před 2 lety +2

      @@bloom2666 ???? Relate?

    • @huyenchi0601
      @huyenchi0601 Před 2 lety

      @@vipraja7 you tell me what to say, what not to say? Excuse me?

    • @huyenchi0601
      @huyenchi0601 Před 2 lety

      @@vipraja7 it's good for you to realize yourself

  • @jaden1987
    @jaden1987 Před 3 lety +22542

    losing a relationship is okay.
    but losing yourself in a relationship is not okay.

  • @andreatapia3841
    @andreatapia3841 Před 20 dny +87

    Whos listen in April 2024??

  • @lessonsinlifestyle4709
    @lessonsinlifestyle4709 Před 27 dny +14

    Selena, when this came out I was homeless, on drugs, and then jail. I now have a house, job, and husband. This song and “Clover Cage - In the Moment” are the two songs that helped get rid of my depression. I just want to send love to everyone and I want everyone to know things will get better. We are in this together..I love you 💕

    • @missdrey954
      @missdrey954 Před 12 dny +2

      God is good! Glad that your life came together so beautifully!

  • @littlekiwi8964
    @littlekiwi8964 Před 3 lety +34778

    She's not just singing... she's talking to us
    Let's make her feel heard

  • @heykobe8437
    @heykobe8437 Před 4 lety +557

    “I put you first and you adored it.”
    damn that hit me deep

  • @kikyaaakun
    @kikyaaakun Před 16 dny +4

    All the drama aside, I’m so impressed by how brave she is to show such a vulnerable & raw side of her

  • @andreawelch7559
    @andreawelch7559 Před 3 měsíci +39

    Four years later, I am listening to this song and it still resonates right to my heart ❤️ this song is about letting go and it is so important, letting go, if to lose those or that person that is hurting you ..This song rescued me. It’s been a four year battle and I’m learning to love myself and not blame myself. There will always be evil in the world, but Selena you teach us how to keep shining how to keep doing good. May God bless you always you are an angel.

    • @smritysarma50
      @smritysarma50 Před měsícem

      4yrs ago even I had a break up and she healed me. Again today after long 4yrs I had another break up and I 🤞 I will heal my 💔

  • @angieh524
    @angieh524 Před 3 lety +3932

    “in two months you replaced us, like it was easy” damn

    • @jbxbts8756
      @jbxbts8756 Před 3 lety +389

      Honestly , it must have been so hard for her.
      Justin should have waited until she recovers from her depression , anxiety knowing that she just had a kidney transplant.
      They both were equally responsible for the toxic relationship , but the marriage thing was just fucked up.
      T_T

    • @harleywatson7621
      @harleywatson7621 Před 3 lety +34

      As if Selena never replaced🙄

    • @lisawatson4230
      @lisawatson4230 Před 3 lety +4

      Selena and Hailey spotted together at one place?!😱😱😱😱🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💝💝💝💝💝😱😱😱😱czcams.com/video/HF56IM9HrPs/video.html

    • @zensingy8466
      @zensingy8466 Před 3 lety +33

      Jb sucks

    • @mommywhyismylifeamessog
      @mommywhyismylifeamessog Před 3 lety +31

      @@zensingy8466 sorry i don't know any jb i only know dustbin barber if he is this one then let me know pls

  • @marina-wq3fy
    @marina-wq3fy Před 4 lety +1677

    2011: love you like a love song
    2015: same old love
    2019: lose you to love me

    • @katrinafaso16
      @katrinafaso16 Před 4 lety +4

      *baby....

    • @tiredboyshit
      @tiredboyshit Před 4 lety +6

      Katrina Faso the song is called love you like a love song. The baby is part of the chorus ☺️

    • @laliga353
      @laliga353 Před 4 lety

      Search it man!

    • @sunnysumanth1280
      @sunnysumanth1280 Před 4 lety

      Make a meme babe 😂😂 it's nice

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      @YoungAlienBoy Před 4 lety

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  • @sharanit.953
    @sharanit.953 Před 3 měsíci +17

    Literally this song represent my life right now...Every word makes so much sense with untold thousands of emotions. 😣

  • @mistiemo1665
    @mistiemo1665 Před měsícem +10

    I love seeing Selena growing & in love & just being herself. I just know this year is the best one for her. Everything else is just a memory. A closed chapter. ❤

  • @kandace6798
    @kandace6798 Před 2 lety +1484

    Hope she knows how much this song has helped so many ..it’s so relatable..so real.

  • @sarcardinal
    @sarcardinal Před 4 lety +3118

    she lost him, but found herself, and somehow that was everything

  • @brendacapestany2518
    @brendacapestany2518 Před 4 dny +3

    This is such a masterpiece. It’s true proud of Selena for realizing Justin wasn’t good for her. He didn’t treat her good.

  • @musiclova2112
    @musiclova2112 Před měsícem +12

    When this came out I was homeless, on drugs, and then jail. I now have a house, job, and husband. This song and “Clover Cage - The Chess Piece” are the two songs that helped get rid of my depression. I just want to send love to everyone and I want everyone to know things will get better. We are in this together..I love you 💕

  • @KrisBN
    @KrisBN Před 4 lety +2165

    “And now the chapter is closed and done” hit me really hard in the feelings 🥺

    • @peachsweetgirl5452
      @peachsweetgirl5452 Před 4 lety +42

      It's has to end sometimes it hurts but we have to end something in order to start something new 💓

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    • @amkerschen
      @amkerschen Před 4 lety

      ChrisBN same

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    • @kimberlycardamone6109
      @kimberlycardamone6109 Před 4 lety

      She will never be over him he will have her at any given time that he wants

  • @oliviacastro4978
    @oliviacastro4978 Před 4 lety +4147

    Get this:
    "There's a difference between a *want* and a *need* "
    "The heart *wants* what it wants" but "I *needed* to lose you to love me"

  • @lalasow38
    @lalasow38 Před 2 měsíci +162

    who's here in 2024

  • @JL-zn7me
    @JL-zn7me Před měsícem +14

    I lived every word of this song..except, I still can’t heal. “ 2 months, you replaced us”… after almost a decade together. Does the pain ever stop???? Does the question of “why?” fade?

    • @jik7724
      @jik7724 Před měsícem +1

      Jesús is helping me with my pain he will do the SAMEE for u draw near to him

    • @krystalramirez9759
      @krystalramirez9759 Před měsícem

      Yes & no. Yes you'll be okay. No you may never find out why. And as days go by you're going to learn and see some questions don't have answers. In time you'll find you. I hope you allow yourself to feel all that you need to. Big hugs

  • @doraa.2067
    @doraa.2067 Před 3 lety +3123

    “ in two months you replaced us , like it was easy “ :(

  • @pratikkumardas362
    @pratikkumardas362 Před 2 lety +3963

    True feelings can't be replaced within 2 months . This song hits me hard.

  • @lisaponsell9384
    @lisaponsell9384 Před měsícem +15

    You made the right choice. You are an amazing woman!!

  • @daylexreyes
    @daylexreyes Před 3 měsíci +14

    _Selena has grown so much as an artist and as a person. This song is a masterpiece that shows her vulnerability and her strength. I love how she uses the metaphors of fire and color to express her feelings. This song is an anthem for everyone who has had to lose someone to love themselves. We support you, Selena. You are amazing. 🔥_

  • @twentyonehanias
    @twentyonehanias Před 4 lety +1966

    *_"i needed to Lose you to love me"_*
    *-Selena Gomez 2019*

  • @mrpiggy4031
    @mrpiggy4031 Před 4 lety +877

    2014: the heart wants what it wants
    2019: i needed to lose you to love me

  • @gloriahnakato9275
    @gloriahnakato9275 Před 4 měsíci +15

    U inspire me a lot Selena. With everything going on in my life, it’s similar to yours but because of you, I’m still strong

  • @damterpanret5744
    @damterpanret5744 Před měsícem +8

    Losing someone to death is painful
    Losing someone who is still alive is another level of pain

  • @shaninedebulosan
    @shaninedebulosan Před 4 lety +747

    “You promised the world, and i fell for it”
    I felt that.

  • @vee08
    @vee08 Před 4 lety +1393

    2011: Love You Like A Love Song
    2014: The Heart Wants What It Wants
    2019: Lose You To Love Me

    • @coffeedense
      @coffeedense Před 4 lety +20

      The glow up that she needed finally💃

    • @denizt4986
      @denizt4986 Před 4 lety +25

      Don't forget 2018: Back To You

    • @haa8888
      @haa8888 Před 4 lety +2

      Don't forget Feel Me.

    • @tinyroberts9290
      @tinyroberts9290 Před 4 lety +1

      Selena Gomez talks Beyonce. czcams.com/video/8CtVxPzcUmY/video.html

    • @VickRail
      @VickRail Před 4 lety

      @@coffeedense go watch my CZcams channel please I'm singer

  • @fikekhayakhethiwemasekofik9955
    @fikekhayakhethiwemasekofik9955 Před 3 měsíci +17

    My heart broke 4 years ago and Selena released this song and l listen to it everyday and it makes me feel better
    2024 am still here to listen again ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @constancewest9448
    @constancewest9448 Před 2 měsíci +11

    I’m in Rehab for Alcohol 30 days today! This is my song saying Goodbye to what made my life unmanageable and insane! Thank you God for drawing near to me ❤

    • @constancewest9448
      @constancewest9448 Před 29 dny

      72 days sober Today!! I can now say for the first time I Love Me 💖

  • @Necessaryexit-4
    @Necessaryexit-4 Před 2 lety +4578

    This is not a song..this is once in a lifetime masterpiece that’s filled with emotions that everyone can relate with.

    • @nihaaa3476
      @nihaaa3476 Před 2 lety +1

      69 :)

    • @Stewie_and_brian631
      @Stewie_and_brian631 Před 2 lety +7

      And i still don’t know why we cry when we see this 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😍😭😍😭😭😍😭😍😭😭😭😍😭😍😭😍😭😍😭😭😭😭😭😍😭😍😍😭😍we’ll never know

    • @Stewie_and_brian631
      @Stewie_and_brian631 Před 2 lety +4

      But we do know here today that the Selena Gomez followers will emerge victorious once again

    • @princesserichesse1216
      @princesserichesse1216 Před 2 lety +6

      except narcissists 💀

    • @shafickbhyat2683
      @shafickbhyat2683 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Stewie_and_brian631
      Lol

  • @nytjen1649
    @nytjen1649 Před 4 lety +933

    It's so intense ! It seems like she is showing every emotions that she got. Anger, happiness, sadness, disappointment, misunderstanding

    • @wilythougths7838
      @wilythougths7838 Před 4 lety +3

      Yes, she show us, what she feeling

    • @emilysquarepants7402
      @emilysquarepants7402 Před 4 lety +1

      Yeah a year ago lol

    • @nytjen1649
      @nytjen1649 Před 4 lety +1

      Lorena Esquivel: Yea, what she passed through

    • @bumblebeebella4331
      @bumblebeebella4331 Před 4 lety +1

      Omg yes I'm so glad someone else saw that too, I've never seen an artist express such a range of emotions that doesnt feel fake or like acting, it's just raw.

    • @nytjen1649
      @nytjen1649 Před 4 lety +2

      BumbleBee Bella : Yeeaa.. she's so strong. The best one ❤️

  • @MrsTayIor
    @MrsTayIor Před měsícem +22

    I didn't really know a whole lot about Selena and what she was going through but after hearing about what might have inspired this song, I feel so bad for her. It's nice to see she has Benny now and I hope she was given more than she lost.

    • @nasrakabongo3287
      @nasrakabongo3287 Před měsícem +1

      After in inspiration behind this song i just fell in love with it twice ❤️😍

  • @risclyde
    @risclyde Před 3 měsíci +73

    no matter how the world would hate her i will be here and stand with her❤

    • @nilesc9184
      @nilesc9184 Před měsícem +1

      The world actually loves her. Hater just shouts louder but they are the minority

  • @rezkienggiaputra
    @rezkienggiaputra Před 2 lety +3037

    She sings by heart and it touches our hearts. This is what we call a masterpiece. Proud of her.

    • @mahoornj3682
      @mahoornj3682 Před 2 lety +15

      That was full of pain for me...

    • @rezkienggiaputra
      @rezkienggiaputra Před 2 lety +8

      @@mahoornj3682 I agree with u. It pains us as well

    • @vanessalala8687
      @vanessalala8687 Před 2 lety +3

      keep watching until you reach 400M, I have faith that we will make it

    • @hasntlkizaman9524
      @hasntlkizaman9524 Před rokem +1

    • @kill4chels6
      @kill4chels6 Před rokem +2

      @@joedoe2672 Everyone's entitled to their own opinion, but if you feel that way, why are you here on her video? I like Selena, granted shes not a vocalist type of singer, but honestly most artists aren't these days. A person could use minimal vocals and still create decent music. It's done daily now lol. All comes down to taste and preference.

  • @zaynmalik9136
    @zaynmalik9136 Před 4 lety +698

    2011: *Love you like a love song baby*
    2019: *Lose you to love me*

  • @anishudhdh
    @anishudhdh Před měsícem +17

    3:03
    "I needed to lose you to love me
    And now the chapter is closed and done
    And now it's goodbye, it's goodbye for us"
    How can anyone say this with a smile
    She is so strong for this

  • @clem903
    @clem903 Před 3 měsíci +10

    This song makes me cry every time

  • @MrMusicman1971
    @MrMusicman1971 Před 4 lety +872

    "I needed to lose you to find me." - Selena. That's the best line.

    • @ramadhan_govinda
      @ramadhan_govinda Před 4 lety +1

      Please check to my channel and listen this song. Or click here czcams.com/video/P4FPw9SekRQ/video.html hopes you enjoy this audio for this song.🙏🏼

    • @amandayumi9627
      @amandayumi9627 Před 4 lety

      Siiii , como siempre Selena está bellísima 😍❤

    • @MagicBarbiemagicbarbie
      @MagicBarbiemagicbarbie Před 4 lety

      hi can u subscribe to my channel its my birthday💗

  • @cimonica1846
    @cimonica1846 Před 4 lety +1834

    "in two months you replaced us
    like it was easy"
    💔

    • @HS-qw7od
      @HS-qw7od Před 4 lety +30

      Wendi Cimonica I felt her pain in that!

    • @dilahspardi
      @dilahspardi Před 4 lety +13

      Was it abt justin?

    • @diana-gw7xf
      @diana-gw7xf Před 4 lety +20

      my jelena ass got hurt ngl dhjsjs

    • @juhikundi190
      @juhikundi190 Před 4 lety +1

      dilah spardi Yh

    • @diana-gw7xf
      @diana-gw7xf Před 4 lety +13

      @@HS-qw7od also "not it's goodbye for both of us" like i know they're over but damn it hits different when she sings abt it

  • @user-zl6wj5gu1e
    @user-zl6wj5gu1e Před 2 měsíci +81

    Who's here in 2024❤️?

  • @Tawffii
    @Tawffii Před 3 dny +2

    This song has been on repeat since it came out. Such a beautiful, powerful, and emotion-releasing song. It is one of my favorites, honestly. Thank you for sharing this beauty with the world. x

  • @rheynahdethbonhoc4535
    @rheynahdethbonhoc4535 Před 4 lety +3038

    "AND NOW THE CHAPTER IS CLOSED AND DONE."
    ohh it kinda hurts.

    • @DavidAlcanttara
      @DavidAlcanttara Před 4 lety +4

      Selena Gomez's new song gets an engagement clip between two men, it's really bad, come watch: LINK czcams.com/video/ASiZWp9GBFI/video.html

    • @iiAngelic
      @iiAngelic Před 4 lety +1

      Yeah especially since Justin and Selena were like Britney and Justin T.

    • @marbelysalmeron
      @marbelysalmeron Před 4 lety +1

      This comment's replies tho

    • @blinkeuu3107
      @blinkeuu3107 Před 4 lety +2

      no it doesn’t SHES FINALLY FREE

    • @nahed562
      @nahed562 Před 4 lety

      💜💜

  • @agussanchez470
    @agussanchez470 Před 4 lety +682

    " she lost him, but she found herselft and some how that was everything ".

  • @user-ip9ur9jj4n
    @user-ip9ur9jj4n Před 26 dny +4

    I'm literally sitting crying OMG. A true story written in a 3 minutes song

  • @alli1025
    @alli1025 Před 2 měsíci +8

    We Love You, Selena!!! You have a beautiful heart and soul. You light up the world with your glow! That is for sure!

  • @etnihernandez8833
    @etnihernandez8833 Před 4 lety +747

    “In two months you replaced us, like it was easy” I felt that 😭💔

    • @kiml1226
      @kiml1226 Před 4 lety +6

      Same😔

    • @padmeskywalker1537
      @padmeskywalker1537 Před 4 lety +2

      That stung.

    • @TWCNation
      @TWCNation Před 4 lety +4

      My dad said he would buy me a lizard if I hit 1.6k subs help :(

    • @brittanyv1126
      @brittanyv1126 Před 4 lety +1

      It was easy for her to replace Abel in a matter of a couple days when she went running back to Justin.... she got her karma.

  • @EurovisionMacedonia
    @EurovisionMacedonia Před 4 lety +1831

    Not a fan of Selena Gomez. But *DAMN* this song hits on another level.

  • @DoriHarrold-vl9yi
    @DoriHarrold-vl9yi Před 3 měsíci +6

    You really only miss the memories not the person. You have really inspired me to not give up and to love myself in general

  • @the420pikachu
    @the420pikachu Před 2 měsíci +6

    4 years later and it still gives me chills!

  • @malenaion4887
    @malenaion4887 Před 4 lety +2127

    This song is literally the definition of how a heartbreak can make you realise, that you have to love yourself first♥️

  • @tachilyn3195
    @tachilyn3195 Před 3 lety +839

    “And now the chapter is closed and done”
    It’s hit me so hard

    • @NO-sq7no
      @NO-sq7no Před 3 lety +2

      That’s my favorite part

    • @riyaraj4421
      @riyaraj4421 Před 3 lety +4

      Ikrr it literally breaks me

    • @huseinmuthohar1778
      @huseinmuthohar1778 Před 14 dny

      Closed and done for Selena. But for him? Who knows

    • @utubeuloser6166
      @utubeuloser6166 Před dnem

      Justin Bieber is gay. Jayden Smith and Justin Bieber were caught kissing each other after

  • @superhenryprince502
    @superhenryprince502 Před měsícem +4

    I love Selena, she’s the most fabulous singer, I can’t stop thinking about her everyday. ❤

  • @erikacv4449
    @erikacv4449 Před 3 měsíci +12

    This makes me cry

  • @user-hd5ig4ey6c
    @user-hd5ig4ey6c Před 4 lety +1101

    "She knows she’ll find love, only if she wants it.”
    - Selena Gomez, 2019

  • @I_AM_KD_WIFE
    @I_AM_KD_WIFE Před 2 lety +2201

    2022 and I'm here to listen to her voice. I've never seen a stronger woman in all my life. I wish her all the best for this new yr.

    • @marstrove
      @marstrove Před 2 lety +2

      When you block your parents on social media
      czcams.com/video/mceYMD28h9A/video.html

    • @hazielshorts3941
      @hazielshorts3941 Před 2 lety +2

      czcams.com/video/ffjucDipYLA/video.html

    • @nyari17
      @nyari17 Před 2 lety +1

      Hmm right I lost my granny and I wrote a song called 'goodbye' hope yall will check out bless you

    • @dishapathak2714
      @dishapathak2714 Před 2 lety +1

      czcams.com/video/Pzwanz9DxRU/video.html

    • @MarinaandM
      @MarinaandM Před 2 lety +1

      m.czcams.com/video/sdaEQHXLQjk/video.html

  • @laurietantalo4012
    @laurietantalo4012 Před 2 měsíci +4

    I always knew who she was but because I'm much older, I didn't get it until this song. This made me fall in love with her music, her story, and the person she appears to be. Nice to see her happy with Benny. We find true love when we love ourselves. We find happiness when we let go of the past and learn from it, without regrets.

  • @merrick6048
    @merrick6048 Před 3 měsíci +7

    “You promised the world and I fell for it
    I put you first and you adored it
    Set fires to my forest
    And you let it burn
    Sang off-key in my chorus
    'Cause it wasn't yours
    I saw the signs and I ignored it
    Rose-colored glasses all distorted
    Set fire to my purpose
    And I let it burn
    You got off on the hurtin'
    When it wasn't yours, yeah
    We'd always go into it blindly
    I needed to lose you to find me
    This dancing was killing me softly
    I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    I gave my all and they all know it
    Then you tore me down and now it's showing
    In two months, you replaced us
    Like it was easy
    Made me think I deserved it
    In the thick of healing, yeah
    We'd always go into it blindly
    I needed to lose you to find me
    This dancing was killing me softly
    I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    You promised the world and I fell for it
    I put you first and you adored it
    Set fires to my forest
    And you let it burn
    Sang off-key in my chorus
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    And now the chapter is closed and done
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    And now it's goodbye, it's goodbye for us.”

  • @carolinasalazar257
    @carolinasalazar257 Před 2 lety +1529

    When selena said: “In two months you replaced us”. I FEEL THAT :(

  • @Maratonei
    @Maratonei Před 3 lety +23216

    I can't believe it has been a year since the release of this song. So much have happened since the things I was experiencing when this song was released.

  • @scottwilson6467
    @scottwilson6467 Před dnem +1

    How people say Selena Gomez cant sing , has no talent , no looks etc after watching this video is truly beyond me! Young women around the world would absolutely kill to have her looks and singing voice to say the least fs!

  • @LHydro
    @LHydro Před 3 měsíci +4

    This song saves my soul in so many ways. I listen to it whenever I need to. Thank you, Selena. God bless you ❤

  • @karag4289
    @karag4289 Před 4 lety +591

    the part where she‘s able to confidently say “I needed to lose you to love me” and she points to herself and gives that little smile, gives me chills/makes my heart happy for her EVERY TIME I watch it

  • @daylexreyes
    @daylexreyes Před 4 měsíci +3816

    _Anyone listening to it in 2024?_

  • @rainsailsaway2514
    @rainsailsaway2514 Před 27 dny +3

    She really poured her heart out and released her pain. One of her best songs for sure ❤

  • @AairellahEvers
    @AairellahEvers Před 4 dny +1

    With headphones this sounds amazing❤

  • @Bokunopico_69
    @Bokunopico_69 Před rokem +3055

    Still hits me the same like it did 2 years back!

  • @chiaramaffe5526
    @chiaramaffe5526 Před 2 lety +1464

    I am old enough to be Selena' mother but I burst into tears listening to this song for the first time. You can break your heart even at 40.

    • @nate2759
      @nate2759 Před 2 lety +30

      If you are 40, than you aren’t old enough to be Selena’s mother, since she’s 29.

    • @arshx_x
      @arshx_x Před 2 lety +12

      Ur not old enough but anyone can get a heart break I got a heart break from my best friend of 9 years 4 years ago because she betrayed me actually I’ve had 3 more one of 2 years 5 years ago because someone stole her from me another one because she moved for 2 years 3 years ago and one for 3 years because we separated classes 2 years ago

    • @gaildibernardo1636
      @gaildibernardo1636 Před 2 lety +1

      Ditto

    • @sarakurdi4279
      @sarakurdi4279 Před 2 lety +3

      So if you would be Selena’s mom you would give birth in 11 years old!!!!

    • @adelemcg69
      @adelemcg69 Před 2 lety +6

      I'm 52 and just discovered this song. I'm old enough to be her Mom. Our own daughter is 29. What a gorgeous voice this young woman has. I love this song 🎵

  • @laurajandreau600
    @laurajandreau600 Před 3 měsíci +14

    Even 5 years later. ...I hear this song and am transported back to a time when I turned on the radio in my car traveling back for a 40 min commute between 2 jobs. This song made me incredibly aware of the relationship I was in and how dangerous it was after 7 years. I may not be a super fan of yours, but I hear you as a normal patron. This song helped me through legitimately evacuating a situation I was in. I had bags on my shoulders so I could ensure I had the arm space to scoop my cats up when the time came to flee. I was in a very dark and scary place then. I come from a space that "it's hard to grow when you feel so little". Thank you Selena for your voice. I am in a completely 180º situation. I am so happy and found love. I returned to my family and have a spouse now. I have a new life that I care for so much now. I am enriched. I am on the right path of growth for myself now. I. AM. THRIVING.