Women RUIN Relationships
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Social media ruined our lives in every way possible especially in the dateing game
Social media has also ruined our children’s mental health their outlook and their ability to think for themselves!
What about these podcast that you comment on.
Maxim of Law: He who suffers a damage by his own fault, has no right to complain.
The U.S. is a non-stop consuming Society. If anything blame yourselves for letting it happen. 😂
@@bobsagthat's victim blaming
Yes and culture and pop/rap music plays a big part too
I love how pearl never lets them cut her off she just plows through🤣
Yes she spouts it out so fast because was trying to minimize the taste of the bullshite she's spewing out of her mouth
She’s getting way better at that.
Mike control
and no man has wifed up pearl lol
She got that dawg in her
Fax, I paid all the bills, bought most the groceries, took her out on dates, adjusted in every single way to become a better partner, even helped her get a job when her bachelors & masters wasn’t cutting it.
Pulled my weight on house chores etc.
The second I asked her to have empathy and understanding because I didn’t respect how she spoke to me, it just always became an argument.
If I fuck up im the problem.
When she does wrong, I’m the problem.
BUILT a fucking pond in her grandpas yard from a hole in the ground that none of her uncles, cousins or brothers did anything with for 10 years & I knocked it out in a summer and even built a waterfall.
I could go on but honestly I’m scouting some therapists rn.
Peace & love y’all ☮️
She was only using you and taking advantage of you. Appears to be an opportunist. You went above and beyond. I hope you have no children, so you can walk out and not look back.
Moral of story: Always observe if the other person reciprocates! That applies to friends too!
Glad you’re seeking peace.
Married 20 years & my ex sounds like yours. She finally left & I finally have some peace.
Yep your not alone Met my gal when she had 4 kids by 3 different guys. I have no biological kids of my own . You do everything for them and how soon they forget suddenly your just a piece of crap after you helped them all build up there lives and become something NOW THEY DONT NEED YOU . DUDE YOUR NOT ALONE 😢
From what u said, you did everything right for this relationship, she was toxic and you deserve someone that appreciates all the amazing things you provided to the relationship!!
RIP short broke guys. I feel you. It’s not easy for us tall guys either.
4”11 and 26yrs old… i just kinda gave up with dating but i at least be hittin the gym😂💪🏼
@@LuisRodriguez-dw1rois a minefield out here. Focus on yourself bro
Word of advice to all my homies... Be single.
@@LuisRodriguez-dw1ro Blessing in disguise bro, women see as like company that gives paychecks every month. Ask every married men lol.
@@javier.alvarez764actually it is worse, because when they fire you, you still needs to pay for the work they didn't do
Last generation: "I love you"
This generation "How much are you worth?"
*this generation of women
@@codywarhawk7099 Mem are just as guilty
@@cinknamloh1145oh yeah. Men treat women pass 20 like seniors
@@codywarhawk7099 this generation of Misogynists
It has to be six figures
Loyalty is for people who treat you with respect
the average man treats his woman with respects lol, its usually the other way around.
@@OnoffUSA Having to be continually reminded to do or not do things is the opposite of respect
There are plenty of men that have to be reminded to take out the trash when they can clearly see it, among other messes
@ddee5573 also alot of women who have to be reminded that their single friends are single for a reason and not to listen to them
@@therealzodster686 I don't think their single friends are talking to them about garbage disposal.
@@lizicadumitru9683 judging by your comments you love being a pain in the ass contrarian for team phagina. You just inspired me to buy stocks in cat food and dildos.
Perhaps the question we need to ask is why do women leave. Women leave when they are not valued, when they are abused, or the man has affairs.
No the question we need to ask is what is with the inflated number of WOMEN CHILD being easily accessible and letting ppl use no protection. They simply don't value themselves and letting fellow men children who don't care about the future, hit on them ruining them both for a little bit of pleasure. It's stupid asg
Sure, but women also leave when they are bored, when the man loses his job, when the man has a serious medical condition, when she thinks another man has more money...
Ew.
@@asmith8673what are the stats on the latter happening?
Those 3 reasons u gave are watl, more common for women to do in romantic relationships than it is for men to do. To clarify, I'm not saying tht men Never do those things. But the percentage of these things occurring in relationships is far less attributable to men & extremely common for women to do those things to their romantic partners.
A better question is, since the data proves these 3 things are more likely to happen to men than to women. Why are women walking away from relationships at 70-95%
The real reason women leave relationships is bc of poor mental health, undiagnosed/untreated mental/personality disorders/dellusions, hypergamy, mysandry, monkey branching. They think the grass is greener elsewhere. & they view men as disposable. They confuse the attention they get from other men (who just wanna smash) with a genuine interest in pursuing a relationship w/ her
College educated women leave 90% of the time! Wow!
No.
When there's a breakup, the college age women is typically the one breaking up .
College age women/men still only divorce 20% of the time which is pretty low
@@temporaryphaseyou both misunderstood that statistic dog
That's why I don't do them... They are so illogical
@@temporaryphase These are made up stats
Usually she makes up the facts that she bring
My ex wife destroyed our marriage, creating a toxic home for the kids and I. I started the divorce, 3 years ago. The kids and I are mentally and emotionally happier and healthier
Good for you !!
I feel like a lot of people have this exact same story, but really it was toxic on both ends and both people had problems.
Good for you bro.
Goat
Never speak on how KIDS feel about not having their parents everyday
A lot of men just live in quiet misery and I'm not really sure that's any better than leaving.
Agreed. And plus, if you have a child who grows up seeing you being miserable with their other parent, god save the child. The guilt kills their heart.
@@ilovmayo0238 that’s me
Fear of losing his children. Men choose quiet misery over the thought of a spiteful x wife sabotaging his relationship with his children. After having to go through a expensive and skewed court system where he will likely only get to even see his kids every second weekend. The stats on divorce and custody show a hilarious catering to females.
I completely agree! Men need to totally rethink the concept of marriage. Honestly, they have absolutely nothing to gain from it in this day and age.
My parents have been married almost 67 years
Dating a woman with kids was the worst mistake I ever made.
Sad to hear it. Dating a man with kids was the best thing I ever did. Now we are about to have one of our own. I wouldn't say all single parents are bad. But some are single parents bc they are the nightmare. Other times they are bc they were done wrong. I'd hate to generalize.
❤@@AshenWolfe-xh3ry❤
Ditto.....NEVER again!
Sad to hear, it’s not always that way
@@dianaBerrybanks1143Agreed. Some get lucky. I dated a single mom with two sons. And I had 3 of my own. Will be married 15 years as of next week.
Single and happy.
Absolutely, never underestimate your peace of mind 🙏🌞
Cope
You’re not happy as single - it’s against nature
Sure you are. Dying childless would be a failure
@@jd3jefferson556dying with children who hate you would be much worse
Women really don't understand how important loyalty is to most men.
Ikr. How can they not understand this when it's equally important to them. The double standards 🙄
@@ilovmayo0238 lol you hear these women say they're fine with their men fuckong other girls along as he provides for her... you won't hear a man say she can fuck other dudes...
@@ilovmayo0238 and loyalty is not as biologically and mentally necessary for women as it is for men.
loyalty is top of my list ..both ways ...
Loyalty now aways to a man from a women's perspective. Run yourself to the ground till youbhave nothing left and me the super hero man is the one causing you to do so also do it with a smile or you have problems bc my love is the best.
So loyalty is endure my abuse with a smile or else your a shit women...
The moment a man or woman cheats, they've left the relationship.
Men don’t cheat, only women do….Men add to the team…..Strong teams win championships.
@@curtisjohnson6754 no🥰
@@curtisjohnson6754 Statistically majority of men cheat more than women do.
Nope men cheat for fun, for our biological evolutionary
@@curtisjohnson6754 absolutely , a man doesn't need or care to no most of these women's names when we smash, especially if I'm in a relationship, like just give me that pssy and be gone, or u can be apart of the rotation but I only love my girl type ish.
Women get way too interested in a man she's cheating with which leads to her leaving the relationship, a man cheats to stay, bc he just needed that release and something new to make smashing his girl feel like new again. Ahhhhhhhh 😂😂
Crazy how they won't date a man that lives with their mother, but there's no problem dating a man that lives with his wife.
If women ruin things....then stop hooking up, marrying, talking, stalking, dating women. Leave women alone.
Men are, 70% of all men under their 30a are single/sexless/virgins and aren't getting married and are choosing to stay single.
We are. Look at some stats regarding young male loneliness and virginity. They’re horrified
@@adyingtribunal6034we’re waving men goodbye! We won’t miss the abuse
@@HospitalForSouls.X your little gender war game has gone from protecting yourself from scumbags seeking to harm you to fear mongering that has caused an entire generation of young men and boys to accept that the only way they will ever find love is if love approaches them first which is a fantasy. Boys and men we both know for the most part are very much against the creepy and straight up shitty things women have to deal with/be cautious of. Men scared to approach first is why pretty much the only men who are attracting the high majority of women are the small minority of the most attractive guys out there, which leads these dudes to be scummy and unfaithful from all the attention they get, which leads these women to having their hearts broken and once again proclaiming all men are something horrible that only applies to a small group of men that most men also hate ourselves
@@HospitalForSouls.X your little gender war went from bringing awareness towards the shitty and unfair things women deal with to fear mongering an entire gender to the point where young men and boys are too scared to look at or speak to them out of fear of being seen as creepy or insulted by some chick who’s been gaslighted into seeing it as a power move. So many dudes have accepted their only chance to find love is if love approaches them first which is a complete fantasy that will never happen for most. It’s gotten so bad that the only men attracting the vast majority of women are the small minority of the most attractive guys out there who are either confident enough in their looks to approach first, or are approached by women first. When you have a small group of men being sought after by most women, these men are going to be scummy and unfaithful, unfortunately leading these girls to be cheated on, which leads these girls to walk out of the relationship preaching “men are liars and cheaters” based on experience that’s limited to the scumbags you girls always get yourselves involved with, making it even harder for the 85% of men like myself who are disgusted by the habits of these men and horrified by what women are forced to be cautious of on the daily. I know you won’t do this, but I highly suggest looking up the young male loneliness pandemic and reading an article about it
The one who actually makes the move to leave is not necessarily the one who ‘ruined the relationship’
Thank you
You both miss the point ; 70%
At that rate it probably is on the woman
It shows they won't put up with failure, mediocrity etc .
No patience for them to improve, any mistake is met with divorce...
No loyalty in women most of the time
@@DAce-vu5ct “any mistake is met with divorce” is a ridiculous thing to say and you haven’t got anything to back it up. You don’t know what life was like inside those marriages, nor for how long.
The reason men don’t leave, is because we have no incentive to leave and everything to lose, if we do. Both in custodial time with our children and financially.
Yall are happy to try and hide a side chicknor two but don't want to deal with the consequences
@@Opal5674 MOST men are not attractive or players. Me on the other hand... Tall, attractive, ambitious, career driven... Not a chance I'd just have one if I make enough to support 3
@@vanderumd11 You mean there is no way you'd cin only one woman into thinking you'll support her if you can con an unlimited amount. Like How Tate brothers go to all these Eastern European countries to play off women's poverty only to leave the woman single moms.
@@vanderumd11 You mean there is no way you'd con only one woman into thinking you'll support her if you can con an unlimited amount. Like How Tate brothers go to all these Eastern European countries to play off women's poverty only to leave the woman single moms.
@@Opal5674 yes, that is a much better option than the typical outcome. If women have the nature to look for status and financial support then what the tates a
Seem to do is absolutely correct. The rules are negotiable between the adults.
Don’t compare me being short to a single mom. They had a series of bad choices leading up to that, I did not.
What a stupid statement. They just mistakenly ended up with an idiot and worthless person. That wasn't their fault. Some men appear as if they are fine only to turn out to be a l@ser.
Exactly
Strong point, except that it still doesn’t matter when it comes down to preferences. Black people are also asked out less. Unfair but a reality.
Remember, this is coming from a woman who’s never been in a relationship since she came on the internet
This lmao l😂
@@MyCatsChannel841 Do you have to be in a relationship to quote statistics and make observations?
Everyone giving advice online is single not just her. People take this shit too serious like she’s omniscient 😂
@@RJ-mh3oxbro it’s called statistics and reality you don’t have to have a job phd in airplane construction to realize what Boeing is doing is BAD and not safe same thing with this you don’t have to be in 100 relationships to realize most women prefer tall guys and to state statistics and studies done using divorce rate….. your clearly doing the same thing she’s doing but you don’t have ANY evidence to back your view that she’s wrong
So you’re saying she’s in the 30% who hasn’t left the relationship…
Why would you enter a contract with a party who is rewarded for breaking it ?
Reasons…I got bored…I’m not happy….I was lost, I was trying to find myself…and etc….takes all your hard work and sacrifice’s provided by the government aka the state.
often it starts with fellatio
Women can leave and stay at the same time by literally putting nothing into the relationship.
Argue over anything everything.
Emotional strike.
Sex strike.
😮
@@sherylrojas1 the whore I wasted 15 years on had a list of “you need to…” shit.
One day I asked her, “what are you doing to make this work?”
“I’m here.”
Her glorious presence was all that is required.
Yeah. I’ll be single til I die after that. Because it’s typical for American women.
omg exactly they didn't gave anything, and men are ok about it. Then they've decided to take everything, men started to felt pissed about over tolerance they were
men can too, your point is?
What kills me about these conversations is that for every single mom in the world there's a single dad. But single dads are glorified and single moms are looked at as used goods.
because if he gets a chick without a child why would he chase single mom,who comes with a child that's not his
Didn't you pay attention? The difference is that women CHOOSE to be a single mom 70-90% of the time, which means the typical single father is only single because the WOMAN chose to give up or not even try to establish a stable relationship.
Listen how women talk about men. There are no good men. Women don't need men. They teach classes on how to use and abuse men and take advantage of them. Women go as far as picking out a man and putting his name on the birth certificate and making him pay child support even though they know it's not his child and they have no problem with it
A woman will go out with a man she knows she's not interested in because that's a free night out on the town for her and gets mad if he won't pay. How fair do you think that is to the man when you're not being honest with him? I'm not saying there aren't a lot of women that go out because they are interested and doesn't work out but there are more that go out with men just to use them for what they can get and that's the truth too
I took a woman that had two kids and I took him as my own and every chance she got ten. She made sure I knew that they weren't my kids but I was still supposed to put a roof over their head food in their belly and clothes on their back and be disrespected like that. What's a man supposed to do in this case? The children are the only ones that pay
I’ve been in three relationships and all of them the female left me. 1 of which I got cheated on not knowing if it, the most recent one she left out of the blue and shows some signs of cheating (she’s now also turned to getting stupid high and drunk every single night which worries me but she blocked me after I told her that that’s not her and it’s worrying me), and the first ever relationship she left me twice which is confusing. I just want a woman who loves me for me and won’t leave me. I want to settle down, have kids, and stay together. All I ask is that they’re loyal, and don’t do drugs or smoke. That’s not too much to ask for. Or atleast I thought. In this generation it’s nearly impossible.
In west Los Angeles , married women age 40-45 leave solid guys making 200k, great husbands and dads…..because they are not happy. They never consider that happiness comes from within
Making $200k in LA is nothing to brag about.
@@tallflguy well it puts you in the top 5% of earners worldwide and provides a nice lifestyle for a family. It is a lot nicer life than those earning 50k to 100k, which is the vast majority of Los angeleans. What % of people do you think make over 200k every year? My point was….these guys made enough money so their family could live in an upper class home, private schools, maid, etc. And wifey could do yoga etc from 8-3 every day without a care in the world. From what I have seem, the people that make substantially more that 250k….they aren’t much happier than everybody else…
And sometimes the money increases the problems…..UNLESS you are a single guy…..then, life is a cocktail party.
@@mrkoolio4475
explain to me why a woman or any person should remain in relationship when they aren't happy. make that make sense
a bad environment can kill that happiness from within
I'm going to say college educated women leave more than those who didn't attend college because in my opinion I'm going to say those educated women are more likely to leave because they are less likely to be financially dependent on their spouse
These red pill people talk like they’re aren’t men out here manipulating, gaslighting, cheating and beating. Women do not just wake up one day and say, “Hmm. I feel like breaking up my family.” Some men actually believe that a qualifier of “wife material” is “how much of my sh*t can this woman take without complaining or withholding?”
Women who aren’t educated may not have the financial independence to leave. So they have to stay in situations where they’re being cheated on and abused. Educated women are more financially stable without the men so they know they don’t have to tolerate abuse.
Many times it is not so much dependency as it is they feel they can do better than their current partner/spouse.
@@stevejamieson8468 If ‘better’ means no more abuse than isn’t that a good thing? But if she’s just leaving because he breathed the wrong way then that’s a bad thing 🤣
@@msdeetteelaine5893 I am not talking about physical, mental, or emotional abuse here. But that would be a legit reason for anyone to leave.
@@stevejamieson8468 we'll according to the study that pearl is quoting. The women left because they were unsatisfied and the marriage wasn't working. They felt like the husband stopped trying and what not. I think i can find the link to the study.
Social Media and these ridiculous podcasts and influencers ruin relationships.
I can almost agree. I say almost because I heard a powerful quote I’ll never forget which is “How can you expect to have a good woman if you aren’t willing to be a good man” Now I’m not saying that it’s always the man’s fault or that there’s no good men in the world but i know of many instances where the man isn’t providing, protecting, saving, etc. and the woman is left to deal with all of the crap in their lives. Many women don’t want to be in a relationship where they are the only ones putting any effort into it, and it’s easier for them to leave them and continue doing what they’re doing without worrying about pleasing anyone else. Now, I’m no feminist and I believe in traditional values when it comes to relationships, but both people need to be putting in equal effort in their relationship and unfortunately that’s not always the case whether it’s the man or the woman, it goes both ways 🤷🏼♀️
Yeah, nah.
They could get the man they want and still walk, Ask Ricardo Kaka, Brazilian footballer, best in the world at one point, handsome, tall, rich, and a Catholic, his ex wife left him because "he was too good a man".
Make it make sense.
Most men are willing to do their part, don't take a small amount of us to represent us all.
@@christiancastano743 Many women also put massive effort into the relationship. That expectation SHOULD go both ways.
Theres always one person putting more into the relationship, but as long as both parties do their actual best, no excuses, there shouldn't be any relationship destroying issues.
100%, well said. I worked ft and did everything else, providing for him while he sat in his butt. I kicked him out vecause i didnt choose to parent an adult. Ive never looked back.
@@rachaelbrugmans4309 the reality is that even though there are some women willing to do their part the vast majority aren't. While men are the opposite just a few aren't willing to do their part but the great majority want to.
Men should not leave relationships they should never get in them
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"A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands." Proverbs 14:1
yea
Very true but this doesn't speak of the other side of what makes a the home.
@@lizicadumitru9683 the wise man builds his home on a rock. The foolish man on sand.
Matthew 7:24-27
Sometimes, we choose the wrong woman, we choose the foolish woman who turns out to be sand instead of a rock.
Yes, we bear some responsibility, we chose to build a life with her.
@@buffuniballer Can we teach young adults to vet their prospective SO better as to avoid the foolish/wrong person?
And if they choose the wrong person is it wrong to leave after sufficient effort has been put into trying to reconcile?
@@lizicadumitru9683 - perhaps they can. The problem is people can fake it for a while. Or you don't see how they operate when under pressure. Life before and after kids are born can be quite different.
Regarding choosing the wrong person. Again, perhaps. I'm not against someone leaving if (and it's a big IF) an unbiased third party says they are not good together.
But on the word of your girls wine circle or your guys beer drinking gang, nope.
I'd say one thing that would help would be to reform no fault divorce.
No one should ever be forced to remain in a marriage where they are miserable. So they are always free to leave. However, it doesn't mean they take the house, the kids, half the money, etc.
Unless they can PROVE marital misconduct, or in your case, a professional stating both parties were putting in the effort, they are just too far apart to get along, the one who wants to break the vows packs a suitcase and goes. He or she gets a bill for any child support and a visitation schedule.
Giving up on your marriage and spouse without putting in the work should make being the primary custodian of the children and keeping most marital assets a difficult road for the walk-away spouse.
Always free to leave. However, not free to just take everything because you are unhappy. Gotta do the work.
Otherwise, you have to prove adultery, abandonment or abuse to keep it while unilaterally ending the marriage.
So basically the smarter women get the dumber they get.
Cmon! The Asian and Indian women in CA - most of them r smart n have good jobs, but there’s less divorce n less crime rate in their ethnicity. How many Asian and Indian female doctors or Tech employee women are divorced?
Bs
Honestly most of you are wagee scrubs so I don't blame the girls.
Sincerely - the guy who chicks were cheating on the bfs with.
No, not smarter. College/university is TRAINING, not Education. Semantics really, but intelligence and training are not the same. Going to college/university doesnt make one intelligent, just conditioned to a certain Field
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My wife was done mentally for a while. She has actively sabotaged our relationship. She has a psychology degree. Our baby is 4 months old and I'm trying to keep it together
@@formam1022 🙏🏼
Leaving a relationship is not the same as ruining a relationship... People leave relationships because they have already been ruined.
Also only takes into account that the ppl who can leave relationships are women who can support themselves… most women don’t leave because they depend on the man being the breadwinner even if he’s a shitty person. Pearl has some nice points but sometimes I feel she just says things to target her audience. I REFUSE to believe ppl are this dense. Can’t even look at half the picture when talking about things.
Pearl just hates herself and the fact that she’s not a man herself.
@@angelake7006 hahahahaha she hates the fact that she’s a woman hahahaha
@@angelake7006hits a little too close to home for you?
Nobody, ever, faults a woman for leaving when they're abused, truly neglected, just in a bad relationship.
People blame women for leaving when things can be worked out, when they get a small sniff of a man they vainly consider 'better' when they have a good relationship and just get bored.
Also be careful when judging bad relationships, yeah some men are just horrible people but contrary to what television and people's one sided recalls will have you believe. Women, who are in control of the dating market, pick the men they're with. When they pick bad men, while it doesn't excuse the men for being bad, they choose the bed they lay on more often than not. There's always signs if you didn't see them you jumped on too fast and that's on you as well.
My first wife destroyed our family and a good part of our kid's stability and future prospects because she felt like she had "missed out on partying in her 20's" and wanted to make up for it. So she divorced me, split the home, and broke the family for her own selfishness.
Yet you married again? Do you love misery, buddy?
@@joskeyo4877 I'm a slow learner 😢
That’s so sad but I’ve heard stories like that before. I wonder if she will ever realize how selfish she was
Although selfish, If you're going to be depressed and not happy, You should leave
@@yvettegg1806 she should have tried being an adult. She was willing to ruin her own children's future.
So glad my mom left my abusive cheating father, she left after graduating Beaty school and starting her own business. Me and my younger siblings were miserable watching him beat her, cheat on her and treat her like dirt. Peace out !! I got my masters degree, my brother and sister opened their own business. We are all killin it and in good relationships. Please talk about WHY women leave.
exactly! this woman just talks out her ass. she thinks she is saying something that makes women look bad. Like if men staying in marriage has everything to do about commitment
Good going!
Sorry that happened to you and your mother but the MAJORITY of men AREN’T ABUSIVE. You’re talking about a much smaller percentage of relationships where the women leaves because the man’s abusive , like okay that’s fine and all but she’s talking about relationships where there is no abuse/ all relationships in general that 70-90% of the time the woman is the one to leave. And the “educated” women leave more because they are so much more disagreeable, it’s impossible to have a civil conversation when you hold a different viewpoint from them. I swear man it’s like you guys have no common sense or critical thinking skills. Lotta y’all just hear things and react it’s like there’s no thought process i just don’t get it
Your mum was just as much a whore no matter how much you try to deny.
Men are not monogamous, high time everyone accept that.
@@valsankumar1657 such a insecure, loveless and shameful comment. Go work on yourself, must be sad living your life hating and being so angry with anyone
I as a man, have also ruined potential relationships
At least you can admit it...shows you have room to improve & you have good character
I think you have missed the point
@@bummpyhead1647 nope you missed the point
😂 You gotta be a bot or a homosexual
@@MikeSmith-do5gu yeahhh:)
She is so wrong. Women stuck to an unhappy marriage for the kids. Women don't just choose to leave the marriage if it wasn't too abusive to her. Most men are abusive by nature and sleep with other women outside marriage.
You’re assuming that 50% of women are abused and unhappy. That is roughly the divorce rate. What percentage is “unhappy” and abused? Accountability is a woman’s kryptonite.
1/3 gay couples divorce, 1/2 of straight couples divorce, and 70-80% of lesbians divorce. this is because women are categorically difficult to manage a commitment with and more things disturb them for no good reason than it is worth dealing with eg. a woman will see you get hit by a car and turned off if your body flies this way instead of that
the major challenge in modern relationships is that women blame-shift and refuse to acknowledge that they are part of an equation where both sides affect one another. instead they expect good treatment without regard for the happiness of their partners
I don't necessarily agree with Pearl, she says a lot of things that aren't backed up by research but you are doing the same. You are using a lot of generalisations about both men and women which statistically are not true.
@@franksanc no of course not all of them , there are different reasons for divorce! What she said is true and happens and what you said also is true
You are completely wrong, it is well known that domestic violence is much more prevalent in lesbian relationships than in gay relationships. Women are the ones who are controlled by their emotions not men. It is also a known fact that a child is more often abused by their biological mother than their biological father, men are protectors by nature not abusers.
Not all women ruin things. Some women also know their value and know who to marry, and who to reject. It’s called knowing your God given value.
Hence the 70% of women
lol did you fail math 70 percent is not a 100 percent but those numbers no man should ever enter with those odds. Absolutely delusional you don’t give yourself value men dictate your value.
Why is this statistic about women leaving marriages brought up, but never the statistics about “ why” they are leaving. That would seem to be a better way to give a complete picture and to form a more informed opinion on the matter. Seems like the research just stopped at 70% of women initiate divorce. 🤷🏾♀️
Because the why is subjective and it can't be measured. Statistics based on actions and not sentiments point to a blunt and cold reality. Actions speak louder than words and it points to the problem at hand. Rising divorce rates and failing families is due to the changing reality of how women view marriage and maternity in America. Marriages were sacred at one point, safeguarded by family pressure, religion, institutions, and gender roles/expectations. In many countries, women are held accountable to their children and family. In America, women are selfish and don't prioritize their family over themselves (unless they come from multinational backgrounds). A society proliferating with woman with multiple children from multiple men or where women divorce men to financially ruin them is a broken society. The statistics back this claim.
@@joshtep6784 You mean women were taught to be submissive little house slaves and put up with whatever crap their husband threw at them no matter what. That has changed. We're not putting up with your shit anymore.
That's because she's a pick me, so details don't really matter here. There will never be a proper discussion with her.
Because they're terrible wives. They're amazing husband's. They lack qualities of a woman. Feminism has destroyed so much of your families and women will pay the price for it later down the line.
There is already plenty of research on that, bozo. Most women aren't leaving for no good reason. You just want an excuse.
They don't like that women leave the most stat, because then it comes to oh he was cheating, he beat on her or molested a child I'm like WTF and y'all have always been the angles in relationships
They say generic BS like toxic or mentally abusive
@@davidhorst9203 because what do you want them to say? The exact words they said or the exact tactics they used? It’s the internet. Anyone would just summarize it with the umbrella term. Look up types of abuse if you want to know what was going on.
I always bring up that women cheat at roughly the same rate.
24% vs 27%
So the “men are all cheaters” reason is B.S.
@@DB-sy6xc what were you trying to bring to the table here? What did you add? I’ll tell you; nothing of substance. Maybe next time wait to comment until you have something worthwhile.
@@TheUnplannedLove I’m talking to the David guy not op. It feels generic because it’s a umbrella of many actions.
Look...it's because women get to a point where they are emotionally neglected and MOST men do not want to put in any work to meet her needs but still want his needs met. It's why on most marriage help videos you see a lot of very depressed women in the comments wishing their husbands would put in even a fraction of their time to learning what their wife's emotional needs are instead of expecting women to be like men. Life is too short to stay in a marriage where you feel unloved, undesired, invisible, and unimportant to your partner....especially when they won't even do the work that is required for a healthy marriage for BOTH partners. I don't even like divorce and don't believe it should be done without exhausting ALL options first...but even I can understand that women in older generations had to be silent about their husband's ignorance of their needs and HAD to stay in a marriage where she wasn't seen as the woman she is but as a glorified roommate. Nowadays women have a voice...and its speaking loudly that men are still very behind on understanding what their wife needs. It isnt money, it isnt height, it isnt material items....it's affection, vulnerability, and emotional intimacy. Without these things a wife doesn't feel emotionally safety which is extremely important in a healthy marriage.
Lol, yeah ok! Woman are grimmy...period!
Why is it that the man needs to learn how she communicates and not the other way around? This is a legitimate question not some hot ya or whatever
@Hakar17 men are straightforward when they communicate...women are not. The way we communicate is very different and even the way we feel emotions is a good bit different from men. It's just not that difficult to figure out what a man is trying to say...but women by nature tend to over think and over explain to where it is difficult to understand what the root problem is.
@@mysticmama_3692 Sure I understand that but I don't understand why it must be the man who adjusts the way he communicates. It seems to me that both parties should make an effort to understand the other's communication style. Yet for whatever reason it's seems to always be the assumption that the man must adjust.
@Hakar17 I didn't say that women shouldn't communicate more effectively to their husbands or understand them as well. I was commenting on a problem common with a lot of husbands...which is why I didn't really get what you were saying the first time. Of course women need to put In the same amount of effort to understand their husbands and meet their needs too. A marriage is a partnership...which requires both to learn how each other communicates and how each other feels most loved. My comment was specifically about how women feel emotionally neglected more often than not in a marriage...I could write an entire article if I had addressed both sides of it.
70% doesn't explain reasons for leaving. People who cheat, don't leave relationships. Abusers, don't leave relationships. Lazy people don't leave relationships.
If I'm cheated on, and I break up with the woman who cheated on me, am I the one responsible for the break up, or the one who had the guts to end the relationship?
i love how she automatically equates a woman leaving to ruining a relationship. never taking into account what made her leave in the first place 🙄
Agree. Pearl getting lots of attention repeating the same superficial information that’s she doesn’t even attempt to analyze.
@@peterruane9220 she’s ridiculous. she preaches about how women don’t take accountability but never once holds a man accountable.
It's called, "pick me" energy.
Truth is, it's never all one person's fault. She's doing this for attention, plain and simple.
Pretty sure getting paid for life for leaving isn't a noble or justified reason to leave
@@TheAchilles26 what
That "ok" came so quick...it clearly shows that she didn't give a fuck what pearl is saying..she's just waiting to respond...and not to understand what's being said.
When they argue with research and statistics all while only using opinionated exaggerations and wishful thinking. DayEmmm! Accept the facts and let it sinknin already.
Listening to interrupt/or respond is the most disingenuous thing these guests do. It shows them to be incurious and utterly committed to their narratives that are refuted either by empirical facts or statistics.
Pearl be tripping hard.
She clearly hasn’t experienced an abusive relationship so she can sit and run her mouth all she wants
What the fuck. She is speakin in general.
Women generally pick the abusers and not the nice guys
So who's at fault ?
@@rayhan69420 but that’s the thing right? Women don’t actively pick abusers as partners unless they are mentally ill or have low self esteem. Abusers reveal their their character every time a major milestone is crossed or commitment is created such as engagement, marriage and bearing children. By this phase, it’s hard for emotionally and financially invested people (male or female) to leave because the cost is high and fall into the sunk cost fallacy. It’s not a matter of picking ‘nice’ guys because at the true core, it’s compatibility and shared values that matter, not about how “nice” a person is. Anyone can be nice with ulterior motives, and be the wrong person to marry.
Maybe that's why men had a strictly regulated society throughout history.
There are 2 people in families and marriages no one is perfect...so we cannot blame one person for an outcome...grow up everyone
then why do women leave 70 to 90 percent of the time. Stats don't lie. Women are quitters.
@@jaimhaas5170 well that depends...are you supporting your wife are you expecting her to work and still do all the household chores? are you emotionally there for her are you in a true partnership?and vice versa for men?...I'm not negating the stats you have but they are what they are for a reason and I don't think it's one genders fault
@@kliciousone4706 of course it's one genders fault. Only if you can't understand math would that FACT escape you.
@@jaimhaas5170 No it's not... grow up
@@kliciousone4706 typical female debate tactic. Can't win on facts so try to use emotion. Fail.
Educated woman have a 36 percent divorce rate not 90.
If you live for what YOU want and DONT care what he WANTS.
It's OVER.
You KEPT what you WANTED MOST
CONTROL
I stayed 17 years married to a narcissist. All because I was taught you stay married no matter what.
Why I left ? My children needed one sane parent and their father wasn't sane. I escaped for my children. We were much happier without him. I was working full time, struggling with four children to feed and clothe but we weren't being tortured everyday.
Guess what there were other men who wanted us.
dont explain, men need to say whatever it takes to boost their ego and compensate for their lack of competence
Me too. It took medication to get me to the point I could leave. He cashed out our retirement to pay off his spending without so a word. It's a community property state, so I got to pay half of the debt he racked up while we were separated and waiting for the trial, as well as give him half of my modest pension. It sucked especially as I make 1/5th of what he does, but at least the days of enduring physically threatening behavior when I try to talk him out of adding more debt are over.
My only question is why did you pick him in the first place? Didn't your dad, uncle, brothers warn you about what he is? Men know how to see throw men's lies, women can't see through their fronts.
@@paulmcfeeters5554 she probably didn't i am young but I have seen so many women making bad choices blinded by love but when they get whats happening to them they leave
Exactly!
Pearl: women are the problem. Women: it’s the men’s fault that we’re the problem
Haha yep, that's all they got.
Jajajaja
In some sort of way yes, it's our fault that we have empowered wamen.
the fact that MEN committee 98% of violence against women kinda points to men as the problem. so you can sit down.
@@MuthaTucker-ss1ee the fact that WOMEN initiate divorces and destroy their families 80% of the times kinda points women as the problem. So you can sit down.
I’m 5,6”
Broke AF
I feel attacked! 😭
These people are incredibly superficial and your height is really not as limiting of a factor as you think.
They spin insecurities into conflict and rope you into their products. You're short, women wont immediately rule you out. Just like how many men wont immediately rule out a single mother.
Pearl is correct you can’t argue with data over years women leave all relationships that they choose to be in it’s insane how modern western women are
You need to understand the data, something most people, including Pearl, do not.
It is also limited to people doing something not the reason why. Which is far more complex and completely beyond somebody like Pearl's mental capacity.
Who the hell wants a single mom🤣
Why not?
I married a single mother 18years ago and I feel like the luckiest man on the planet everyday day of my life. She had a one year old boy when we met and then we had two more kids of our own, I love my family, life is awesome
Some women were in abusive relationships or abandoned and deserve the love of any man that’s looking for family and love from a woman who’s willing to give it.
@@hannahkinnear7701 Because they have responsibilities of being a parent that I'm not interested in.
They are gold mines.
Through them you get their children to be sold off or pimped out and as long as the women are housed and well kept they will let you take the reins of their lives and the lives of their children.
Source: Child of a single mom who handed the reins over.
I've become aware that it's the women's friends that are the ones to watch to get a feel of her personal preferences.
Yep your bang on there dude, when my ex wife and I separated she hung with the slimy dishonest chick's not our mutual friends
That's very true, however, that's supposed to be done before you even date them.
If she can't take their words and weigh them on "good scales" but takes them without any scrutiny...pass
Just dont date, win win
Just a reminder that’s she’s only ever had 1 actual boyfriend because men don’t like her
I fell in love with a beautiful smart women who was 27 when I was 24. She had 4 children which I accepted and I'm still with her today and I'm now 46. She gave me stability in my life and saved me from who I was. I love her and still see in her what I fell in love with and she's 50 this year. Her ex was the one that ruined their relationship by cheating and got caught. I love the fact that she's strong minded and tells me when to shut up if I'm wrong.
thats good but thats basicly a unicorn. a 1 in 5000
Could be you are the last choice, most likely she saw the wall and didn't want to handle her issues by herself the rest of her life. (Choices)
@@darrellrussell789it was probably bc he’s likely a good man and not a weird Cheeto fingered incel who spends too much time online watching rage bait like this lol
Beta...
@@brychristian3395S.I.G.N....no serious childless single man takes up with a woman with 4 kids....😂 for crying out loud.
Women leave because after years of begging him to understand he doesn't care and she let's go.
Well Shell, the majority of western woman goes for 20-25% of men, the men who already have a full line of women, but western women love to be side chicks, while the good men gets treated poorly. It’s 82% of divorces that are doing the divorces, not men. Everything a man worked hard for goes to a woman, the kids, house, apartment, car etc goes to a woman. The man has to start over again, let’s not forget child support.
@@justinmohansingh635 first off I think many of you all are delusional. NO WOMAN I know wants to be a damn side chick. Most women want a happy and productive marriage. There may be some that are happy being single and promiscuous but majority want a good man. Men tend to take that for granted and this usually starts the divorce process.
@@shellstewart6712 First off I’m not the 20-25% of men you went after that broke your heart because you didn’t want a good man. I have a great American woman in my life, I work hard, cook, clean, volunteer for New York City cares, take care my family, my woman, and my friends, I’m Christian, so I practice what you preach because I am traditional. Like I said there’s good and bad woman and men out there, you have to be careful of who you look for, 78% of men are good men but women friend zone them for the 20-25% of men who’s well established or have a lot of women already, so he makes the women his side chick. Majority of western women today has a high body count, very masculine, aggressive, and argumentative. Again It’s 82% of divorces by women that are doing the divorces, not men. Everything a man worked hard for goes to a woman, the kids, house, apartment, car etc goes to a woman. The man has to start over again, let’s not forget child support. I have a four questions for you, are you single, do you have kids, are you over the age of 30, and are you a traditional woman
@@justinmohansingh635 so basically you wrote a novel to tell me I am the problem bc 82% of women initiate divorces. When I specifically told you divorces happen because women aren't being heard, appreciated, loved..... now you men will tell a woman she is aggressive, masculine combative because she is telling you where you fail and that's a problem. At the end of the day, if 78% of you are good men you wouldn't have a problem finding women to get with AND stay with. We know that's a lie. You're really upset that the type of women you go after isn't interested then you call them promiscuous....but they never slept with you. Make it make sense. Anyway I married and yes I will divorce it husband refuses to get it right.
@@shellstewart6712 I already told you but you are not listening, I’m not angry at all, I’m in a happy relationship, you’re the one that’s pouring out your emotions. Everything I told you is a fact, I’m talking out of a place of logics, truth, and the whole picture. You’re talking out of your emotions, which is what you been through because you go for the 20-25% of men who already is well established, famous, or players with a lot of women. Western woman never goes for the good men, they would always choose the 20-25% of toxic men over a good man. It’s easier to find a man for a woman and it’s harder to find a man to find a woman. Plus you just proved my point, you’re getting a divorce, not him, so how is that a lie, you sound delusional as hell. Look it up and see for yourself, or Better yet, I’ll send it to you.www.divorcemag.com/blog/why-do-women-initiate-divorce-more-than-men
aninjusticemag.com/5-reasons-why-women-go-dont-go-for-nice-guys-78985037c169
Hell no that ain't my kid
She's never had a relationship
I prefer the term agreeable, rather than submissive. I think men are looking for a woman that does not fight them over every little thing. That is more agreeable. We are not necessarily looking for a doormat, the word submissive really leaves a bad taste in the mouth for both genders. Agreeable makes much more sense and it really means the same thing. Willing to work with you and support you rather than fight you get to prove she’s right.
That is b/c you have the wrong definition, of submissive, in your head. Submissiveness in a woman - man relationship is more complex & nuanced than agreeableness. Agreeable is A piece of it.
It is in the bible over 25 times that women are to be submissive.
Semantics mean nothing
@@MJ-hg1mk May I ask, in your opinion, what the other pieces of submissiveness in a married relationship is?
@@markwillhite9200 a Bible written by men and people who colonised countries. It's not surprising to find it like that
A lot of woman are step up type chics . They see something better and they leave without a care even if kids are involved
Yea they hypergamous. Alot nowadays are narcissistic they'll happily ruin a dudes life to make their own better.
Yep! I’ve seen women do this ! Destroying their children so THEY can have their selfishness fulfilled!!
My wife's friend did exactly that. After the romance sizzled with the new guy, she wanted her old life back. By then, her ex had already moved on. He is happily remarried.
A woman's marriage vows are only good until the man says, "I do".
100% women always looking the BBD Bigger Better Deal... funny thing is, it almost always backfires on them!
And of those men leaving relationships, almost all of them are the small percentage of men who can already get into relationships on a whim. A lot of men don't even get to have one in the first place.
I dont want anything to do with men if i get 1 goddamn heartbreak again im so done
Precisely my own personal experience .. she left coz i fell on hard times.
So sorry bro...yeah chicks marry nowadays for the comfort it brings,not for the responsibilities.
Thanks buddy ..
I hope blessings and prosperity rain upon your life.
@@apollo4556 do you know where she lives now adays?
Just Un-alive her
It’s not your wife it’s just your turn .
A lot of men don’t understand that women with careers and degrees are just bad for business. Harvey Weinstein and Kiki Palmer’s husband taught us that much.
When facts hit, they deny it...
Nah bro both are just the same 😂😂😂
They ruined the garden of Eden too...
Both genders can ruin a relationship
Talk in numbers.
@@Kamal_AL-HinaiDoesn't matter both are bad it's like saying all men are criminals just because men have the most crime rate.
@@Blobfishkat or “grapist” or almost all the worse shit humans do 😂.
@@Kamal_AL-Hinaitalk to humans. Almost every woman I’ve interacted with within the last 7 years has been beaten, SA’d, manipulated etc. men are definitely the bigger problem.
@@RJ-mh3ox ask who they chose to be with. Convicts and inmates.
When your Guaranteed 50% of everything whether he earned with or without you ,why stay
I got 100 percent. He cheated for years.
@@gloriamccoygl
Interesting. Never heard of a man getting 100% if his wife cheated. Another double standard of the court system?
Yep no sense of being serious with somebody who's going to get praised for doing something wrong
@@gloriamccoygl you mean you let him cheat for years. You still show no accountability
Why bother in the first place.
Why would a guy want someone'else's responsibility
This gender war has to end
"Short broke guy" that hits me hard 😆🤣
Yea bcz she's like a 6 foot amazon
Short ER.
I've pulled plenty of pretty girls. Just don't be shortER. I wouldn't date a taller woman anyway so it doesn't matter.
No. Some men would rather stay in the marriage and be able to keep his side fling.
Some men would prefer to be taken care of by their wife, as if she's his mother.
Some men like having the ability to have sex whenever they want, without really having to try or go out and look all the time.
There are SO many reasons people decide to leave a relationship.
Can't blame it all on one side or the other.
Yes you can and the problem is society has conditioned women to not take accountability. And when they are held accountable it's a pittance compared to what a man would get. Men have mostly stayed the same women are the ones who have changed far more.
Yes you can when it's women leaving 70-90%. That's just caled being logical. It's a foreign concept I know.
Women have been oppressed for a long time, bro.
I think they're just less willing to tolerate bullshit these days.
Well no not all, just a major majority as exactly what is being said here! Wake up. It is the reality of the world we live in.
Is why I stay single and only allow myself to be around those that are exceptions to exactly what's being said here. Hmmm I wonder why I only have maybe 2-3 women in my circle compared to double that in males. Is because exactly what is being said here. The majority of modern females these days are good only for perhaps a one night stand if that and there is birth control being used!!!! Can't wait till us men have a pill we can take. But I think they know it would stop babies being born almost altogether .
@@claing17 Then why aren’t y’all blaming the men? Do you think all these women are divorcing for no reason?
As a woman she shouldnt talk so much. Just sit down and be pretty and let the man talk❤️
I’ve seen my mother quit a good man after 20 yrs & my wife too, after 30 -
Wanting to return later ???
“Did I ever raise my voice to you ? “ No “
“ I ever lay a hand on you ?” “ No “…
This conversation sounds like women leave relationships just because. I left my first husband for a good reason. I had to. The things he was doing and saying to me made it impossible to stay.
I know a few women who hanged on for years trying to work out problems that had no ending (men cheating constantly and verbally abusing them and their kids).
From my experience some men are too cowardly to file for divorce and many of them don’t want to initiate the possibility of paying child support. I’ve known a few men who didn’t bother filing simply because they felt the child support obligation was too much.
Just because the woman files most of the time doesn’t mean they’re the home wreckers. Many times it’s a choice they make because they are living in a nightmare that needs to end.
it's not just because though. women have incentive to leave and are paid to break the contract of marriage. the minute the marriage doesn't fit what they thought why not leave? and for men there's little advantage to getting married in the first place with the current social status quo.
it does mean they are the homewreckers though when you take a vow and don't uphold it. this is also where people should be thinking about whether they should marry in the first place. divorce should only be a legal option where one side isn't upholding. it shouldn't even be offered.
this is why men have such a problem with the lack of accountability women take. women do t see marriage as a lifelong commitment for better or worse. cowardly???? cowardly is leaving the marriage you've sworn your life and expecting that somehow the person who your breaking that vow to still has to uphold their end and pay for your things as well as your child's that you can't support while in your own care. at what point should a woman take responsibility for her own choices?
I actually remember your comments on here and said you were an 8 or something but your attitude ruins it for yourself.
@@brandondrew4914 Agree with this (about 90%) It’s a cycle (on both) sides. It’s like the chicken and egg.
Pearl gets excited when she knows she's about to destroy someone's pink world 😂😂 I like when she states reality as it is
pearl is a pickmeisha that hasn't been picked she's a joke.
@SuperTruthful you think? Nah she does have lots of options cause she got values unlike women these days 😌
@@SuperTruthful Pearl has a large following. What exactly do you disagree with her about?
@@label1877 all the pandering to men.
@@SuperTruthful Yes, her target audience is men. However, I feel she is fair. I have seen her put men in their place when they say outlandish things.
Absolutely spot on, I married a widow with kids because she is a home maker, great personality, pretty, younger, a great cook and most importantly absolutely loyal who stood by her late husband till his last moment despite his illness.
Just stay single, save money and enough life.
I met my ex and she was still in college making 15 dollars an hour. I have a bachelors, make low 100k a year and my ex has graduated her master and she started making a little over me. she broke up with me because she wanted somebody more at her level….
Trust me you didn't loose anything. Stay strong champ, you really got lucky there
What a joke lmao! Forget her then you're better off
That random guy in the background doing doing adlibs though.😂💀
How would Pearl know anything? She doesn’t have a man.
Most men don't leave because... drum roll... they understand the word women value most: commitment.
"Women leave relationships 70% of the time and it's 90% of their college education"
*This absolute dumb brainlet*: "...they understand the word women value most: commitment"
What a dummy. How do you hear that statistic and then say that nonsense.
One's mere presence in a relationship is not commitment. Which leads me to believe that men don't understand women What women value at all.
Um, no. Men don't leave because why would they ? If she'll put up with the cheating and still cook his dinner and do his laundry that's a win - win!
@leannhoward7306o Bold of you to assume I have a girlfriend/wife to cheat on I'm single and have been for 4 years and I'm not wanting a relationship and bold of you to assume IM the cheater in a relationship when I'm the one getting cheated on and mind games played on me my first serious relationship was in college all I wanted to do was see myself grow old with her she seemed to enjoy playing mind games and cheat on me I was 17 and the way it made me feel back then still sticks with me I'm nearly 40 now
most men dont leave because its cheaper to keep her no? isnt that the saying?
Stay single my kings. It will save you a world of pain.
That's not right everyone deserves to love and be loved
@@charlesnuel6780 that doesn't mean getting a partner is the best way to fulfill that, and many times, it's not.
Or date men, simple as 😎
@@mal_3157 Enjoy tossing that salad 🥗
Definitely don’t do that. Just find a good one. And communicate
Pearl’s not lying.
She's not wrong 😢
As a single father, I would tend to lean towards a single mother as she is more likely to understand that my kids come first.
That doesn't happen and you are setting yourself up for failure. Even Abraham's wife wasn't down with the step-son situation.
Playin with fire bro....big time
Screw that, most of the time they're is a reason why she's a single mother 🤷♂️. Unless her baby dad died or was an abusive ass you can bet she's trouble.
She's actually LESS likely to understand that your kids come first, because she'll believe that you should be putting HER kids first
They always think their kids matter more than you and yours. Stay single and rock on
She actually thinks that the relationship was ruined when the woman finally leaves. Leaving is the final solution Pearl
You obviously have missed the point
The relationship was ruined before she left
Leaving should not be classified as a solution
@@bryancoverson1333 it’s definitely a solution in a certain aspect. Leaving is sometimes the only solution. Can we agree on that?
You obviously didnt watch the whole debate. The number 1 reason women leave men is because they want to find someone who makes more money than them.
If there was a "financial penalty" for leaving a relationship many people would think twice before entering a relationship.
My gf is ruining the relationship as we speak. this is accurate l.
Bro my gf chopped up the longe because I fell asleep & didn't take a shower
Tell this to all women raising their kids because a adult man wasn’t ready to be responsible
Or may be she just wanted the alimony and child support.. This happens more than what you are saying
Then why did she have a kid with him??
He didn't want you accept it
@@rahulkumar-he3vu"I'm going to ignore what you said and say my own thing."
Great job Einstein.
@@user-we6ls1fp2d... you're a bit slow on the uptake aren't you?
Women are Ariel from The Little Mermaid. No matter how much they have and how good they have it, they always want more.
Pearl spits reality. It's a shame that she gets so much push back from women.
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@@etopsch369 Explain...
@@sidneycooper her stats are incorrect and she makes the wrong conclusions. Divorces are initiated by men and women about 50/50. Only in the USA it’s 80/20. The reason is the stupid laws in America. It is also irrelevant who initiates the divorce. If I beat my wife up, I will not be the one to file for a divorce.
Men don’t prefer virgins (some do, like Muslims and other religious freaks) I can go on and on
Oh this is 100% correct.
Every problem I've had in my relationship with every woman I've been with was caused by the woman.
I want to highlight few things that i have realised through my own personal experience, as I was divorced after 10 years of struggling in my marrige Preventive steps should be considered as follows:
- Marraige is not the destination its a journey to live together and compromising attitude should be from both partners
- Communication is the key to hold everything together
- Councelling goes a long way, there are lots of topics or concerns one cant share with anyone so go for councelling
- Last but not the least spend quality time with your partner with or without kids
- Stay away from social media, please dont share your fights with your social circle as people are only interested in entermainment
the failure to spend time with the spouseand children I find is a big thing. finance, reliability, communication also. they're not leaving because they're happy.
How does a person "struggle" in their marriage.
@@mrjones4249 as there was no respect, mind games, he used to ill treat me in front of his friends family. He was in love with another person but he was forcefully married for the sake of society, his family etc
Nailed it. I ain't marrying no baby mom.
Well i’m glad I got a stepdad after my dad cheated on my mom over a 100 times
You'll probably end up marrying somebody with 3 kids. Love don't discriminate. Everyone has the answers till they personally are in the hotseat.
@@sarahk.466 Nah. A very big majority of men won't date single mothers, because if they break up, it's not just a break up from the mom but her kids too, and that hurts like a mfer.
@@sarahk.466 HELL NO. Don't no man wanna marry a single baby mom. TF are you talking about?
That's like me telling you that you might marry a deadbeat bum of a man that cannot provide you financial security or protect you, cuz "love does not discriminate". You see how stupid that sounds?
@Sarah K. Not really. We know about kids early on if they have any. The majority of us will choose someone else if we're looking for a family. If that means overseas, all the better.
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Women don't ruin everything. They just choose what they want to be happy.