How to survive college as an introvert? | An introvert's guide to college | Curious Harish
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Congrats for 13k subscribers in after few time to 10k
Bro I completed my class 11 and entered class 12 this year I am not able to focus on objective till now what should I do now to get nit/iit
Hey I just filled the Google from for the What's App mentorship Group.... That's all..??
EEE VS ECE VS MECH branch comparisons video pls.....lost the count how many times I have commented to same thingđ
@@nixonpaul2156 bro, ask Ambuj, I'm trying to change my niche here
How many introverts are here?
I just like his content. I'm a super extrovert. You can still chill
LoL đ
Fastest way to get comments/likes
I am introvert
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Introverts are often misjudged as selfish or a person with an attitude and that's the worst part of it. Because the truth is quite the opposite.
Bhai kitna shi baat bola .....
Correct man....
On point
Absolutely đ
So true
Loneliness in college is real đ
Can u explain more?
đŻ
yes.. very true
@@mohammadimtiyazuddin2065 i mean as in, hard to make friends... And as well i feel people already have cliques so they don't want anyone new . I've seen it in my college people don't wanna be communicative with each other or just selfish so they just stick around with people they already know so it's hard. But then again it depends on gender as well ? I feel it's especially hard for girls to be friends with girls, boys are more open. It also depends on the place we live .
@@ally02worldsame observation i made in my first day
Making friends isn't hard but
Making friends that last beyond the 3 or 4 years of your college life...
Now that's hard
That's true
Who cares my Target is just not to dine alone is campus đ€Ł
@@nitkian24 What after then ?
I dont have friends in cllg and everyone keeps on irritation me by saying personal things that hurts me a lot đ€
@@sdexstarlord I became a complete introvert since the college time but believe me, if you start expecting someone to talk to you and keep thinking about making friends its not gonna benefit you. Just be confident in asking something or the other if required and don't give a damn to the other one unless he or she requires help. Only then you'll get a true friend..
Introverts want to socialize and make friends just like others but still something inside stops them from doing so.
Even something outside also. People already have made groups and it becomes difficult for a loner and introvert to make friends. Many people don't make friends outside their so called friend circle.
@@dentist1812 trueee
That's not introvert. That's socially anxious extrovert.
Hey! I'm about to start my college in a few months and I've heard a lot about the peer pressure there. They force u to drink, smoke and if u don't , they don't see u as a COOL person. How do u deal with it? Are all the people like that only?
Fake it till you make it
Found this video at the perfect time! I'm an introvert and haven't made new friends since 9th grade. The pandemic has made my social life worst. This video somehow gave me strength.
Same
This vedio was less of a~"how to servive collage as an introvert" and more of~"dont be introvert, push yourself to be a extrovert"
Feeling lonely in crowd is very painful đŁđŁ
Same here bro in clg
The most irritating things about us introverts are we overthink are insecure đđ
Mee evertime
Yess đ€§
Much Much needed because I'm going to college this year.
Thank youâ€ïž
Keep bringing amazing content like this.
Much love to youâșïž
Bro in few weeks you'll grow exponentially, God bless you bro and thanks for providing such valuable content đ»
"At a point you become immune to rejections" đđđ
đ„â€ïžlove your videos bud!
Introverts be like....
You know that is impossible........!!!!
@@sequiinix kon college liye bhai?
Congrats Harish Uthaykumar
I'm watching your videos from when you had 2k subs and I'm very Happy to see you , you've completed 40k .
This video is really helpful! Thanks Harish for such great videos..
I am new subscriber here. And by each video you are gaining a whole lot respect and adding value in my life . Your each word sounds like you are talking and mentoring me personally. Thankyou very much keep making such awesome content. hope we meet someday.đ€đ€
My confidence increases just after watching this videoâ€ïžThank you brother
i used to stammer and i had a speaking assement in my college and the day before this somehow this video got recommended and the only thing i got to know from this is "being bold and upright is the key to everything" so thanks bhaiya for such an amazing guidance
I am always afraid to talk to new people
Nobody:
literally nobody:
harish: gives a TEDX speech and calls himself and introvert.
jk love your videos bruh
lol, but giving public speeches doesn't mean you're an extrovert. I gave my first public speech in 9th grade, started stammering in the middle and the entire class giggled. Life's weird man!
@@curiousharish I never meant to offend you brother. You're a great guy.
I meant that guys like you are so modest that even after giving a TEDX you call yourselves introverts
@@sanjays298 Calling someone an introvert is not an offence. It's a human character
Bro i can give confident speeches too but my social skills r RIP xD...on the other side ik many extreme extroverts who cant say a word on stage.
Being an introvert doesn't mean you can't face a crowd... The fact that introverts don't socialize much is not because they're shy... It's because small talk is not always worth spending energy on..
Heyy... Thank you so much for this...!!!
Very helpful for college social life....!! đ
I am feeling soo much confident after watching this ..thank you đđ
I completely relate with you and even I am an introvert but I will definitely break this in college and I am trying to talk to more people to overcome it.
Did you overcome
Give share your experience ,tips and tricks how to overcome it
I tried but I failed it
I see everyone around in university happy,talking with friends,laughing,having their best time ,most of them having girlfriends kissing ,going to clubs like God has given them all the happiness wheres me even struggling to make friends ,always worrying about how i look to others and not even talking to a single girl,I don't think i even exist,really makes me feel really low,i just left my hometown for higher studies and im in this situation right now
Start small dude. Iâve been there and there are many people in this position. Itâs all about taking small leap of faiths
@@curiousharish yes bro but how come everyone looks so happy around me ,like i notice everyone they all have alteast one girl with them,i hope you understand me,i just took admission in a collage in Delhi and you its vibes and im from Bihar.
@@zayn4182 same prb with me đ„ș I want to go Home but I'm staying here for family .. I do cry daily bcoz I don't have any frnd in college
@@dikshuj6675 but you're a girl,girl usually don't face problems because man are always behind them in search of girlfriends,i can advice you honestly do some makeup and go in collage you'll automatically get many male friends and female friends depending on your choice
@@zayn4182 As a girl not every girl want to make boyfriend I just want female friend to share my everything because I don't have much friend in school
3:15 That was the takeaway point..đ
Your Initial story is so relateable, surely gonna help me in future!! thankya bro.
My friends all are hyper selfish đđđđ
The unfortunate thing is that even if I say Hii they are not interested
02:07 i can totally understand it how it feels
Doing Great Bro!đ
Since last 2 months your content've drastically became what I just needed!
Perfect Videos For Learning New about things/challenges before Going to Collegeđ..
I really liked this video, i eventually subbed your channel while i was in the middle of the video. This video really gave me courage a lot. Thank you for making such content.
Hey ! I am new to your channel still I love your communication skills !!
thank you Harish, I am also a fellow bitsian , waiting for lockdown to end so I can apply these tips
Much neededđâš
Man.. I joined my college last week.. And it's damnnn tough to get a friend.. đ
same. So how's the situation now after 3 months?
@@aayush3782 same question
Bro i was an extrovert till my 12th but in my 13th( i dropped ) and i made my room my only friend and this made me an introvertđ đ đ now i feel nervous to go outđđ
I'm experiencing the same thing know
O my God..same here..and this covid just worsened the situation..đ€ŠââAbhi mujha college join karne main daar lagraha hain..What if I stay alone there..what if I can't make new friends?đ
@@sharmisthabiswas7468 Hey there. How're you doing now? I'm in the same situation as you
@@noahsilverado Waiting for jee results..uske baad dekhte hain clg..Abhi bhi ghar pe hi huu...What about you?
@@sharmisthabiswas7468 yo all the best. My college starts on October. Wish me luck đ
Will try this formula in colleges.. best ever video on introverts..
Btw I m also an introvert
Don't confuse Introverts with social anxiety.
Correct
Loved your content. Keep it up!
Love to hear ur experiences seeing u gives confidence that someday maybe I ll also be confident enoughđđlove ur videos
Damn this guy...his videos are too good.
you're doing amazing work:)))
on my playlist đ
Liked and Subscribed
Meeting 3 new people every single day that's a pro tip bro
I'm gonna try and use it
Gng to join college soon
All the nerds over here....,take notes.
on it
If the title was how to make a girlfriend you would've gotten more viewsđ
Well, he needs experience for that. Do you have it Harish đ€??
I like your personality man.
Helpful video đ,Thank you đđ
thanks for the video really appriciate iit
It's hard to survive when every one has friends to spend time
And we alone everyday
@MK2 Yes I can totally understand when you feel ignored
Bro if you are true introvert, you will have fun without friends at all.
Thanks a lot bro. U helped me âđ»âđ».
Recently discovered your channnel...and i am loving your contentđđđđđ€đ€đ€đ€đ€đ€
Quite relatable!
U are amazing bro!!
Your speaking skill is amazing....
Great advice bro đ
Can you pass make a video on how to find your passion???
BTW love to listen your talk
Hlo bro now I am in 12th by next year u will be helping me a lot I will watch all of u r videos again
Everything would be use full
Today I found your this video and now I'm trying to watch your all videos.
so so relatable!!
@2:09 you were about to say still I noticed that đ btw love your videos
There's no way tht u r an introvert...u have given a TedX presentation bruh đ
TEDx not teded
@@nathanmanju5232 lol thanks
Being a public speaker doesn't mean you're social
@@curiousharish I was trying to convey the fact that u r quiet expressive so yeahh kinda difficult for me to believe that u r an introvert
Then ur probably an Ambivert!!! Google it :)
Quality of friends matter not the quantity
I am an introvert but as much as i have seen that rock music helps while conversations
i actually preety much have same experiences now in my college , but with the help of your tips i think i am going to approch some classmates to talk... thanks bro
Amazing
Your net worth is your net work.
Just amazing.
Bhai ab COLLEGE open Jo Jaya ush sa phele FREELANCING ka plz kuch chalu Kara do
Brother till now u had made many videos regarding plus points of joining bits but I want to know if there are any disadvantages in bits(I am not sure (
bro,this is absolutely made for me i guess.
its my 4th day at my college,,,,,i didnt make any friends,even im shy to try talk to girls.
Thank you!
This video deserves a million likes đ
I have subscribed to your channel sometime ago while I was looking for college reviews for my younger brother. I have watched almost all your previous videos and I really appreciate your work. In one of your videos I saw you really wanted to go abroad for studies. Hope you make it to one of those Tier-1 colleges in the US
I donât really feel much hesitation when I need to really talk to girls for some reason. But talking to random girls every day for no reason, I find it weird (they'll start ignoring you cause you are so interested on them , it feels really bad), do you think I'm introverted?
We all are ambiverts, like the one who came in middle between intro and extrovert... there are many few who are introvert too.
I'm seriously your replica bro. I've gone through similar times
ye man......am a member of curious army dw!! :)
Thanks i found my way.
Where can we join clubs ? If we don't have any in our college
Bitsat exam dates are 6th -10th August. Could you make a video on how to prepare for the exam in like 1-1.5 months. :)
Thanks a lot for making this video. I would like disagree your view of lesser people being extrovert. Because almost all of the people it meet is extrovert and that tears me apart. I want to be like them. Hope I will be able to apply this into reality.
Hey from where did you learn SEO
I mean I never see your video but still in my home page your video is recommending ??
Please let me know I want to grow my channel
Nice one
Soon I'll be back here with tremendous confidence in me
But what to do when there are only 30 people in college đ how to approach new people in this situation ,as I am also introvert and shy and hardly talk to anyone
mein bhi mahesh tutorials ka student hu. Robomae wa really good! 96 percent is so great congrats:)
How was your daily life routine in 9 and 10 class
How ted talk works? How they invite or we need to apply for that?
these CZcams recommendations are getting personal
3:20 those words helped me relax
I ws also in mahesh tutorials most well spend two years of my life 9th and 10th standard đ
Bro not afraid of approaching people at times but till when because it's happening everytime . Koi kabhi hume bhi toe approach kare
Hey brother I like your English speaking skills can you suggest me to improve my English speaking skills đ
Ya please bro tell something to improve English speaking skills
@@dhananjaysinghiit-indore2897 I also have same que to bhaiya... But ya you can practice speaking in front of mirror and starts reading English novels or books or you can watch English moviesđ
Look guys , practice is the key .all you need to do is keep speaking to everyone in english -your family members, friends every possible person . This will improve your conversation skills in English overtime
@@abhinavverma7697 bro I am from boys school so I don't feel normal with girls and other elder persons.so it is my main problem
Yes bro
what will happen to ur channel if you get a job or start your own company
My crush to me : 7:08 đ
me : 7:10
Lol XD
Bhaiya in your video you talked about to create good network. So, can you suggest me that how can I make a good network ??
LinkedIn
@@curiousharish ohh thanks bro â„ïž
Hey do we need skills to get into a particular club or we can join just on basis of interest??????
They select
You gave a TEDx speech right?
I don't think introverts like to appear in public đ.. Well i guess nature of introvertness differs from person to person. Anyway......am a guy who really hates appearing before publicđ
I scored 97 in 10 th but i was too chill đđ
Bro if i compare me with you
You and me are nearly 50-70% similar
Not with your life
I am talking about face and looks