Ben Howard - I Forget Where We Were

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  • TAKEN FROM THE 2012 MERCURY PRIZE-NOMINATED ALBUM BY BEN HOWARD ‘Every Kingdom’
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    Lyrics:
    Oh hey, I wasn't listening
    I was watching Syria
    Blinded by the sunshine strip
    You, you were in the kitchen
    Oh, your mariner's mouth
    The wounded with the wounder's whip
    And that's how summer passed away
    The great dividing range, the green, green grass
    And oh, maybe it was peace at last
    Who knew?
    Hello love, my invincible friend
    Oh, hello love, the thistle and the burr
    Oh, hello love, for you I have so many words
    But I, I forget where we were, no
    Oh hey, I wasn't listening
    I was stung by all of us
    The blind leading out the bored
    And as per usual
    You were skipping and laughing
    Eyes at the bedroom door
    "Don't take it so seriously, no
    Only time is ours, the rest we'll just wait and see!"
    Maybe you're right, babe
    Maybe
    Oh, Lord
    And that's how summer passed
    Oh, the great dividing range, the green, green grass
    And oh, maybe I'll hold on fast
    To you
    Then hello love, my invincible friend
    Oh, hello love, the thistle and the burr
    Oh, hello love, for you I have so many words
    But I, I forget where we were, no
    I forget where we were, no
    I forget where we were, no
    I forget where we were
    Oh, Lord
    And that's how summer passed
    Oh, the great dividing range, the green, green grass
    And oh, maybe it was peace at last
    Who knew?
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  • @blakewilliams4007
    @blakewilliams4007 Před rokem +411

    I have this memory of sitting on the couch in my parent's house the night after my mom died, headphones in my ears, this song guiding me through the blind pain. I'm grateful to have had Ben in my head while experiencing such a difficult time. Thank you, Ben.

    • @craigmasters3426
      @craigmasters3426 Před rokem +8

      I'm sorry to hear about your experience with your mother, I just want you to know that we can have hope in this life and the next if we put in it Christ all who call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved x

    • @brittanyb1809
      @brittanyb1809 Před rokem +2

    • @thisisty8872
      @thisisty8872 Před rokem +5

      I lost my fiancé and Ben definitely helped me through it! Much love brother 🙏🏻

    • @angelface889
      @angelface889 Před rokem +2

      Sorry about your mum ❤ hope your ok x

    • @zakandfal
      @zakandfal Před rokem +2

      ❤🙏

  • @davidhubbard9974
    @davidhubbard9974 Před 9 lety +3257

    So my interpretation of the video is that the beach symbolises their life together. They are stuck in a place of purgatory with only each other for company. The two of them are very alike, hence the symmetry of the parasol and their chairs, but their relationship has stagnated. The building represents their past and the two of them are too transfixed with what has happened before to move on. The gun that he holds represents his sins (possibly domestic violence, although he never points it at her so it could be general aggression) and the sand castle which she builds is symbolic of her own insignificant dreams which she builds up quietly on her own but never amount to anything. It is only when the two of them hold hands and touch that they rediscover their love and why they are together in the first place. It here that they realise that it is time to move on and they cannot remain trapped in this state of looking at the past forever, they must move on. I dont know whether they stay together after this point or go their own separate ways but whichever it is they are leaving the past behind them, thus destroying it, hence the building falling down.
    Thats just me though. Whatever the real meaning is, it is a beautifully directed and designed video. The cinematographer for this is a genius.

    • @RandeepBhullar
      @RandeepBhullar Před 9 lety +147

      Probably the best comment I've ever read :')

    • @ThaoHoang-co8cf
      @ThaoHoang-co8cf Před 9 lety +19

      Very nice comment...

    • @ayashin19
      @ayashin19 Před 9 lety +40

      Wow nice and here I was thinking this song was about freshly baked poppy seed muffins

    • @ayashin19
      @ayashin19 Před 9 lety +25

      I can't be the only one who sees the subliminal poppy seed muffin message am I ???????

    • @srilankanflyer92
      @srilankanflyer92 Před 9 lety +57

      "If buildings fell, at least we'd be in matrimony" - Small Things by Ben Howard

  • @rashidulhasan5873
    @rashidulhasan5873 Před 8 lety +153

    Oh, hey
    I wasn't listening
    I was watching Syria blinded by the sunshine strip
    And you, you were in the kitchen
    Oh, your mariner's mouth
    The wounded with the wounder's whip
    And that's how summer passed oh
    The great dividing range of green, green grass
    Oh, maybe it was peace at last, who knew
    Hello love, my invincible friend
    Hello love, the thistle and the burr
    Hello love, for you I have so many words
    But I, I forget where we were
    Oh, hey
    I wasn't listening
    I was stung by all of us
    The blind leading out the bored
    And as per usual
    You were skipping and laughing eyes at the bedroom door
    "Don't take it so seriously, no
    Only time is ours, the rest we'll just wait and see!"
    Maybe you're right, babe, maybe
    Oh, no, and that's how summer passed
    Oh the great dividing range, the green green grass
    And, oh, maybe I hold on fast to you
    Hello love, my invincible friend
    Hello love, the thistle and the burr
    Hello love, for you I have so many words
    But I, I forget where we were
    I, I forget where we were
    I forget where we were
    I forget where we were
    Oh, no, and that's how summer passed
    Oh, your, great dividing range, the green green grass
    Oh, maybe it was peace at last, who knew

    • @sabrinamaaz1886
      @sabrinamaaz1886 Před 7 lety +8

      I was thinking the same thing! Syria always on my mind; praying for the people... We need to do more to help the refugees, to push for medical aid for the people inside Syria. Always in my heart.

    • @TheMikeyoshea
      @TheMikeyoshea Před 7 lety +2

      Rashidul Hasan Thank you :)

  • @courtney5001
    @courtney5001 Před 3 lety +340

    I play this song on repeat and cry tears of joy, sadness, remorse, regret, and hope

    • @innovationimagination
      @innovationimagination Před 2 lety +5

      I feel same way my friend! I wish the hope would last ..

    • @hathaway.1166
      @hathaway.1166 Před 2 lety +3

      How to overcome 5 stages of grief
      Step 1:

    • @i.m.u.r4244
      @i.m.u.r4244 Před 2 lety +2

      If you know you know

    • @callum.........22
      @callum.........22 Před 2 lety +3

      No you don't you have never cried when this song has been on.............very misleading just to get likes tut tut s.m.h

    • @seagulls566
      @seagulls566 Před 2 lety +1

      I'm guessing you're still crying now 😉 I like this song a lot but no crying for me.

  • @user-ii9xd9ny3x
    @user-ii9xd9ny3x Před 16 dny +7

    Ive fallen in love with a much wiser soul than I, this will be playing through out our adventurous summer together, I'm 29 shes 45 hoping I win her over. 🤞

    • @mehtaboo7
      @mehtaboo7 Před 13 dny +1

      good luck!

    • @gea8347
      @gea8347 Před 9 dny +1

      You will 🤍

    • @atomicalien4
      @atomicalien4 Před 9 dny +1

      Need updates

    • @user-ii9xd9ny3x
      @user-ii9xd9ny3x Před 7 dny +1

      @@atomicalien4 she's introduced me to her entire family and we spend all the time together we can, every chance we get! Haven't been this happy my entire life

  • @vanessabarroso9929
    @vanessabarroso9929 Před 2 lety +47

    Passing by just to check if anyone still listens to this wonderful masterpiece... I will never be able to entirely describe how this particular song makes me feel... theres just something so peculiar and so special about it. This is that one song I just never forgot and when I listen to it....... I just can't explain it...

    • @CatSpirito
      @CatSpirito Před rokem +1

      Same here. I was searching for new comments. I fell in love with his music since his first album. I always come back to Howard's music to calm my mind and soul. It gives me so many good emotions.

    • @CatSpirito
      @CatSpirito Před rokem +1

      I hope, some day, i will able to buy all his albums. Because this one of the artist that I come back to listen to.

    • @w.j.terrell9831
      @w.j.terrell9831 Před 2 měsíci +1

      I just heard this for the first time last night. Hope the past couple years have been good to you all.

  • @indecisiveloser
    @indecisiveloser Před 9 lety +585

    I've listened to everything Ben has ever put out and I've been moved by all of it, but this...this surpasses everything.

    • @InternetheroxD
      @InternetheroxD Před 8 lety +17

      +Mariah Craig 'You laugh like you've never been lonely' might be the most beautiful lyric anyone has ever written.

    • @ChrizzyWhite
      @ChrizzyWhite Před 8 lety +8

      +Mariah Craig i never listened to Ben before this song right here, and it just hit me so hard.

    • @InternetheroxD
      @InternetheroxD Před 8 lety +2

      Chris White Give Conrad, One pine and Promise a shot, they are awesome.

    • @kelbyjprice1
      @kelbyjprice1 Před 8 lety

      +SteveKHAN conrad

    • @InternetheroxD
      @InternetheroxD Před 8 lety

      K Price Conrad is amazing

  • @johnokool9295
    @johnokool9295 Před 8 lety +351

    Seriously one of the most beautiful songs I've ever heard. Makes me believe theres still honesty and talent in other artists out there. Respect to Ben.

  • @anillamichhane2180
    @anillamichhane2180 Před 8 lety +75

    "I Forget Where We Were"
    Oh, hey
    I wasn't listening
    I was watching Syria blinded by the sunshine strip
    And you, you were in the kitchen
    Oh, your mariner's mouth
    The wounded with the wounder's whip
    And that's how summer passed oh
    The great dividing range of green, green grass
    Oh, maybe it was peace at last, who knew
    Hello love, my invincible friend
    Hello love, the thistle and the burr
    Hello love, for you I have so many words
    But I, I forget where we were
    Oh, hey
    I wasn't listening
    I was stung by all of us
    The blind leading out the bored
    And as per usual
    You were skipping and laughing eyes at the bedroom door
    "Don't take it so seriously, no
    Only time is ours, the rest we'll just wait and see!"
    Maybe you're right, babe, maybe
    Oh, no, and that's how summer passed
    Oh the great dividing range, the green green grass
    And, oh, maybe I hold on fast to you
    Hello love, my invincible friend
    Hello love, the thistle and the burr
    Hello love, for you I have so many words
    But I, I forget where we were
    I, I forget where we were
    I forget where we were
    I forget where we were
    Oh, no, and that's how summer passed
    Oh, your, great dividing range, the green green grass
    Oh, maybe it was peace at last, who knew

  • @ARcaptures
    @ARcaptures Před 7 lety +741

    I think we need more Ben's in the world.

    • @BjornBlijd
      @BjornBlijd Před 7 lety +7

      Ben is that type of guy you see sitting on a bench with glasses on and you dropped something and it come accidently to him and gives it back to you and says "how are you?" and you talk with him the whole time and then you realise you need to go home and he says bye and goes home to and you stare at him the whole time and for some reason when you walk away you have that free feeling.

    • @BjornBlijd
      @BjornBlijd Před 7 lety +2

      +IISuperGamingII And people just stare at you in a weird way.

    • @benbeecher5025
      @benbeecher5025 Před 7 lety +5

      I agree

    • @BitcoinMoney8
      @BitcoinMoney8 Před 7 lety +12

      Alex Rosier Dam fuckin straight. He washes away all the shit Music that's been piped in to everyone's house these days. God I hope my kids have some music sense.

    • @philipgreen8251
      @philipgreen8251 Před 7 lety +1

      I just randomly watched some videos on your channel. You're a sweet filmmaker man

  • @tomh-ph3dp
    @tomh-ph3dp Před 11 dny +1

    How the hell have I never heard of this man, and how the hell have I never heard this song? Well, better late than never. Oh my word this is wondrous. Peace, my friends.

  • @Amyrhianna101
    @Amyrhianna101 Před 5 lety +4

    The center of the parasol devides the building. The building represents their relationship and life, swing the relationship from two different sides.... the distance between them and the building is about commitment to the relationship on both parts.
    Once they are both not watching the building it falls down.
    Moral of the story; don’t take one another for granted not even for a second. Don’t ever take your eye off the ball otherwise it all comes crashing down.

  • @gavincurley4818
    @gavincurley4818 Před rokem +10

    Can we just acknowledge the drummer in this. Never paid enough attention to him before but, today.. Wow.

  • @melissagandarinho1288
    @melissagandarinho1288 Před 9 lety +232

    Only 30 seconds into the video, and I already love it. Damn it Ben Howard, why can't you just marry me already?
    This video is extremely, extremely deep and emotional. For those of you that seem to think the video does no justice to the song, you aren't really understanding the full meaning of the song and the message it is sending out. This represented it beyond what I could have imagined. I actually got teary eyed. I felt the distance, I felt the struggle, I felt the tension. But I also felt the connection and the want and need to not forget, to not give up. "Maybe it was peace at last, who knew."
    "Hello love, for you I have so many words
    But I, I forget where we were" - this video captivates this so well.
    This was beautiful. I wouldn't have expected anything else.

    • @luismiranda6590
      @luismiranda6590 Před 9 lety +4

      this song and "the end of the affair " are fantastic", from the last album i love "promise"

    • @snot6890
      @snot6890 Před 9 lety +7

      Luis Miranda
      let's not forget bones, mate.

    • @ambientdweller
      @ambientdweller Před 9 lety +1

      I'll marry you..in a heart beat. :)

    • @cocoman11111
      @cocoman11111 Před 9 lety +1

      I think this song's meaning is kinda linked to "small things"
      "Has the world gone mad
      Or is it me?
      All these small things they gather round me
      Gather round me
      Is it all so very bad?
      I can't see"

    • @melrhymenoceros
      @melrhymenoceros Před 9 lety +4

      We all want him to marry us haha

  • @islandgirl075
    @islandgirl075 Před 2 lety +15

    in just a couple of hours it will be your birthday, I miss you eterally 10-29 I miss you so much! this song still takes me back to our last summer with you. I hope wherever you are its amazing! we love you so much. Love Mom

  • @PatTheRiot
    @PatTheRiot Před 2 lety +15

    The video clip is part of this song... the man and his pride (the gun)... the building up on the horizon... the boredom of life... the wind going thru the pages of their lives... the crumbling of it all when they go on their way... Absolutely beautiful. Matches the song perfectly.

  • @gowgowgaga
    @gowgowgaga Před 7 lety +29

    'Only time is ours the rest we'll just wait and see,' is a beautiful lyric.

  • @stanvino6344
    @stanvino6344 Před rokem +26

    I've been listening to this album for 8 years now. This is, and will probably always be, my favorite album.
    Thank you Ben.

  • @rodp7803
    @rodp7803 Před 9 lety +76

    The building isn't their relationship, it's the end of their relationship. They can see the end, the impermanence of the relationship is known to both and they are together awaiting its arrival. When the building falls, neither is in that location on the beach anymore. The spot under the umbrella was the relationship.

  • @theatheistjuggalo393
    @theatheistjuggalo393 Před 8 lety +5

    I think this video symbolizes two people walking away from love in the summer. Like that infatuation you get for a special somebody in the summer. It shows two people who probably loved each other at one point, but the man keeps taking shots at their love to see how strong it is. The reason the pages are turning so fast is because they don't have a lot of time left, hence the summer being short. They're both miserable, but love draws them together, but by the end of the video he takes the right shot and the building slowly collapses, showing that the love was dying, but despite that little wonderful magnum opus of great summer love ending, they both felt a sense of relief.

  • @jackkinsella783
    @jackkinsella783 Před 7 lety +78

    Whilst drunk, in November 2016 I realise this is probably one of the best songs of our generation. He speaks on a different level

  • @crazyworldoffakereality5477

    the symbolism in this video is so spectacular… simple yet complex… like the changing of the leaves in the fall… just seems normal, we’re used to it, yet what’s happening to the tree inside is chaos… take a deep breath folks and pay attention… your world offers beautiful chaos … embrace your shadow for it leads you to the light

  • @PowracajacyRefren
    @PowracajacyRefren Před rokem +7

    One of the best song of last decade. Sorry - one of the best song ever!

  • @connorwoolley7065
    @connorwoolley7065 Před 8 lety +90

    Over a year on from this album's release and I still play this album almost every day in my car! Still has the same effect on me as it did when I first heard it. It's ironic because when I brought the album I remember exactly where I was, on holiday with friends in Scotland, we listened to it on the way back home three times over....

    • @Kyra_2424
      @Kyra_2424 Před 8 lety +3

      +Connor Woolley This song is still my alarm just so I make sure I hear some of his work every day

    • @emero1
      @emero1 Před 8 lety +3

      Me too. I got the car the same time as this album and it sorta feels wrong listening to anything else ❤

  • @adamfreeman1227
    @adamfreeman1227 Před 8 lety +251

    Ben Howard just gives this vibe, a vibe of which you wish you could experience life like he has. Every emotion and every detail brought to life through his songs.

    • @melissalolol3088
      @melissalolol3088 Před 8 lety +33

      your own life is unique itself

    • @ARcaptures
      @ARcaptures Před 8 lety +3

      this is beautiful comment...

    • @reenysharamesh2679
      @reenysharamesh2679 Před 7 lety +5

      "And that's how summer passed oh
      The great dividing range of green, green grass
      Oh, maybe it was peace at last, who knew
      Hello love, my invincible friend
      Hello love, the thistle and the burr
      Hello love, for you I have so many words
      But I, I forget where we were"
      ❤💙❤

    • @user-hw5ys6ng1l
      @user-hw5ys6ng1l Před 6 lety

      This is the truest truth!

    • @bobbymeserve3518
      @bobbymeserve3518 Před 5 lety

      Adam Freeman my life’s better than his

  • @reesek30
    @reesek30 Před 8 lety +68

    How this guy hasn't got over a million subscribers is beyond me and how he's not recognised worldwide! This is proper music! Powerful powerful music!

  • @Xanaxdu-si3ch
    @Xanaxdu-si3ch Před 4 lety +16

    I'm living this song at this moment. What we've had is now dying so slowly, and I can't find the words to try and save it. Maybe I see things that weren't ever there; maybe he couldn't live up to what he said. Maybe each of us is running away from our truest feelings. Neither of us may ever know.
    But my heart is cooling and it feels strained from months of effort to save what can't be saved. Over the last week I have found a tenuous peace in knowing that I loved as hard as I could -- as did he -- but that alone hasn't been enough as the summer fades. Neither of us can look at each other in the eye as we used to. This is like a near-silent death from a thousand small cuts, but it's a death nonetheless.

  • @steffen9470
    @steffen9470 Před 4 lety +7

    This song has some of the most vivid imagery of song that has had an impact on me. During one summer I was in a long distance relationship and this song spoke comprehensive detail of the ambiguity of that state. I forget where we were. The summer passed and we lived our own lives and had our own experiences. We were only able to have a couple visits and facetime calls when our schedules and time zones alllowed. But in between those periods of time I had to try to remember the thistle and the burr, my invincible friend, the person for whom I have so many words. But when you live different lives and in different spaces it is hard to remember where you were, and what that space even felt like. We drove across the country together by the end of the summer and the love rushed back into my body and filled me to the brim. But before we were together I had to do my best to remember what it was like until I could feel the togetherness again.

  • @madmartigan9720
    @madmartigan9720 Před 3 lety +9

    I respect artist freedom of expression and new music that Ben produces now.
    But for me, this will always be the golden age of Ben Howard as I know it.

    • @Fabizilla
      @Fabizilla Před 2 lety

      yeah, the new things don‘t hit that hard!

  • @anthonykomasara5316
    @anthonykomasara5316 Před 4 lety +10

    “Your mariners mouth, the wounded with the wounder’s whip.”
    There’s a lot to unpack in that one line

  • @HallmarkAccountants
    @HallmarkAccountants Před rokem +71

    My wife died in my arms from an unexpected heart attack after 19 years of blissful marriage. she just stopped talking and was gone despite me doing CPR. This song resonates.

  • @hfhfhhf1
    @hfhfhhf1 Před 8 lety +336

    I don't know why he's so underrated, I feel like in this fast paced world we could do with more of his type of music.

    • @n.j.t262
      @n.j.t262 Před 8 lety +28

      +hfhfhhf1 That's why he's here. To stop the world from pacing faster towards distaster. That's what great art is about. To make us see instead of starring into the void that's only blinding. Too many people are blinded by the superficial. Real art sets you free, at least in your heart.

    • @MrOitoyboy
      @MrOitoyboy Před 4 lety +5

      I wouldn’t say Ben is underrated. Far from it.

    • @ryanwilliams4223
      @ryanwilliams4223 Před 3 lety +2

      His first album was a huge success I think but the 2nd one didn't do as well,artists need at least 2/3 solid albums to get going

    • @hfhfhhf1
      @hfhfhhf1 Před 3 lety +4

      @@ryanwilliams4223 I find it refreshing when i see a notification for a comment i wrote 4 yrs ago, better still bc i still adore this song and yes i agree with you but, we still need his music particularly in this crappy year and I kinda like that his songs go under the radar bc only certain people know him and they all tend to be wonderful people

    • @callum.........22
      @callum.........22 Před 2 lety +4

      He's not under rated he doesn't want to be as famous as to where he can't walk down the street without being swarmed he hasen't really gone down the mainstream route because if he blows up he knows that's a sick world and to keep your fame goin you need to do certain things in this industry witch are far past anything you could even imagine that's why all the Hollywood artists end up losing there minds......Katy Perry is a prime example/Eminem went away for years and other celebrities like Shia labouf and there's many others itsalot to do with satanism/devil worshipping/sacrificing animals family members freinds sexual desire almost anything you can imagine oh and btw they want us all to be gay especially kids that's why you are seeing transvestites goin in to schools and talking and all over the commercials do some research on satanism in the music industry.......,.......... Ben Howard does not want that life

  • @allydill8078
    @allydill8078 Před 6 lety +40

    i still remember the day this song came out 4 years ago... i played it on repeat for hours and it never got boring. to this day my stomach still drops a tiny bit when that beautiful guitar riff at the beginning starts playing. will be one of my favourites till the day i die.

  • @nashesse
    @nashesse Před 8 lety +55

    to me, this is the most powerful, emotionally loaded and significant song ever made. I can't even start to describe what it makes me feel, there is just a thing about this particular song that I can't pinpoint but keeps me holding on. And in particular the line 'maybe it was peace at last, who knew?' is probably the most important line of the whole song, and a line in general that, in context with the whole vibe of 'I forget where we were' (the song), captures its outstanding aesthetic/attitude/mood the best. it’s a masterpiece and I will be forever grateful that this song, this amazing and so significant song, exists. thank you, Ben.

    • @vanessabarroso9929
      @vanessabarroso9929 Před 2 lety +3

      Couldn't have put it better myself... This song is definitely something else... It's been years and years, and it just moves me in a way no other song ever could... It moves me to my core. Such powerful deep feelings rushing through every fiber... there's not enough words to describe it...

    • @nashesse
      @nashesse Před 2 lety +7

      @@LutzTeichmann it’s been six years and this song still resonates with me more than many, if not most, other songs. for me, it’s always been a journey of utter-deep sorrow, melancholia and fickle hope that i have connected to the song. it’s a journey of healing. maybe not the most conventional one considering the subject and tone of the song, but sometimes things just hurt so good, so tender, like pressing a bruise. it’s not about someone specific - it’s more about who you were in the past, and who was with you in the past. and even among the worst, well. maybe it was peace at last, who knew.

    • @Pdarksy
      @Pdarksy Před rokem

      I have the same connection with this song.....beautiful ........thats how summer passed away so lovely

    • @ButlerRudd
      @ButlerRudd Před 8 měsíci

      I love coming back to this song again and again and seeing thoughts that mirror my own

  • @thomasfleury9274
    @thomasfleury9274 Před 2 lety +8

    taking relationships for granted and giving a visual aid, beautifully done

  • @GooseMischief
    @GooseMischief Před rokem +4

    This was my divorce song in 2019. Every line, every word, every breath he takes in this song is pure, undistilled grief. I would write down my favorite lines, but honestly I would just repeat the entire song. As a poet, I bow before this man

  • @michelleclarke2590
    @michelleclarke2590 Před 2 lety +8

    Sometimes I just need to come back here with him ☝🏼.. stunning 🥁🎸❣️☘️

    • @benhoward7671
      @benhoward7671 Před 2 lety +1

      Thanks for your love and comments I do appreciate 🙏🥰🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍😍😘😘😘😘

  • @shtooph
    @shtooph Před 9 lety +59

    This entire album is really just one coherent song split into different chapters. For example, in Small Things, Ben says, "If buildings fell, at least we'd be in matrimony." That is literally this music video.
    Also, in Small Things, he says "I saw the police screaming something trivial," which corresponds with in this song, "I was watching Syria," which mostly likely refers to watching the news, and Syria and police have been in the new very frequently.
    Then in Time is Dancing, the chorus goes "I do believe we're only passing through," while in I Forget Where We Were, the woman says "Only time is ours."
    This just means that Ben is a genius.

    • @welltodo3258
      @welltodo3258 Před 9 lety +4

      This is great commentary!

    • @JenWah
      @JenWah Před 9 lety +2

      sdannisong whoaaaa :) genius.

    • @jgalla5549
      @jgalla5549 Před 7 lety

      2 y/o comment, but I just found it funny. The official lyrics are "I was watching serial" not Syria.

    • @LFCJFT96YNWA1892
      @LFCJFT96YNWA1892 Před 6 lety

      jgallag90 no mate it's Syria

  • @nazarethvargasberni
    @nazarethvargasberni Před 7 lety +2

    I really agree with @KirstenKramer commentary. As I see it, they are both watching a building (which is full of windows, maybe it represents the entire humanity, maybe like watching tv) and she doesn´t want to look at those problems that are coming to them/ are coming to others- (bc she says that "only time is ours, THE REST-their house, their country- will just wait and see") , they are living in a summer state of Not worrying and he can´t live with that because he knows that war may be at the corner and life is too short, so he is always prepared. At the end of the video, summer is over, so they have to go back to reality(together)
    And after all, he forget were they were bc the place means nothing, what really matters is who he is with, and to have eyes wide open

  • @user-bz9rd7vi7w
    @user-bz9rd7vi7w Před 4 lety +16

    That’s the kind of music that makes you cry ,wonder,feel and his voice is just perfect expression of all emotions.

    • @benhoward7671
      @benhoward7671 Před 2 lety +3

      Thanks for your love and comments I do appreciate ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘😘😍😍😍😘😘❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘

  • @dzidzo96
    @dzidzo96 Před 8 lety +39

    Words disappear when I listen to this exact version. I am just overcome by emotion, even then I don't even know how to define what exactly it is I feel. I don't think language can explain the things that this song does to my essence

  • @isaiahlopez5616
    @isaiahlopez5616 Před 3 lety +41

    It never fails 3:32 just makes me feel like my entire soul left my body. Such a deep and emotional song 🙏🏼

    • @kkatr07
      @kkatr07 Před 3 lety +1

      same same same... I’m listening this since 2014/2015 so powerful...

    • @ln9256
      @ln9256 Před rokem +1

      @@kkatr07 same here. A random guy on my college campus first week of first semester freshman year was blasting it at a table outside the library and I asked him what the song was. We've been friends ever since purely thanks to Ben Howard

    • @thebrightsideofthemoon5829
      @thebrightsideofthemoon5829 Před rokem

      Maybe it was peace at last, who knew?

  • @Physicks499
    @Physicks499 Před 9 lety +56

    its the "green green grass" bit that gets me. alliteration at its finest.

  • @TheKlYAMETT
    @TheKlYAMETT Před 3 lety +31

    "maybe it was peace at last who knew..."

  • @harrisonedwardz
    @harrisonedwardz Před 23 dny +4

    time is fleetin innit, 10 years christ

  • @srilankanflyer92
    @srilankanflyer92 Před 9 lety +44

    Forgetting where you are - drowning in day to day life, loved ones not embracing each other's presence because we are so pre-occuppied doing regular boring things in order to make a living, instead of what really makes us happy.
    Ultimately, the essence of truly living is to be with the people we love, doing what we love and to be able to forget where we are, for at least one moment.

  • @Marsh187
    @Marsh187 Před 3 lety +3

    One of the greatest artists, this planet has ever seen.
    Thank you for your art.
    Your music means so much to me.

    • @benhoward7671
      @benhoward7671 Před 2 lety +2

      Thanks for your love and comments I do appreciate 🙏🥰🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍😍😘😘😘😘

    • @jenniferlynch8446
      @jenniferlynch8446 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@benhoward7671 thank you for being genuine and vulnerable in your music, it's fucking beautiful and something the world needs so much more of.
      You make a much bigger difference in people's lives than you realize.

  • @Fireneedsair
    @Fireneedsair Před rokem +9

    This song..this album…a masterpiece from start to finish. A truly talented artist.

  • @ablissinabyss
    @ablissinabyss Před 3 lety +15

    Four years of listening to this, made sense to me and blew me away the first time I listened but still had room in my heart and mind for the love of this song to grow. Now, as of this very moment, I was blown away for a fact that it made a hundred percent sense to me and shared it with the person, for whom the song was meant, the one I hope, will come to his senses and realize everything there was, is and will be.
    Ben's music is truly a religion.

  • @IndieUpbeats
    @IndieUpbeats Před 3 lety +3

    "Only time is ours. The rest, we'll just wait and see." Profound, beautiful ❤️

  • @disconsolateconsuelo9360

    My heart can’t let you go

  • @lucyren504
    @lucyren504 Před 7 lety +42

    Every time I listen to this and "Noah Clouds With handfuls of dust" my heart bleeds more and more.

  • @NarinaNirvana
    @NarinaNirvana Před 8 lety

    Water almost always symbolises emotions, feelings, some kind of depth in people, the hidden, the untold, the heavy.

  • @radicalhonesty3628
    @radicalhonesty3628 Před 2 lety +1

    watching this video and thinking/questioning/contemplating out loud:
    Do I feel worthy of receiving a partner?
    Do I feel worthy of being seen, loved, respected, desired?
    Do I love, see, respect and desire myself?
    What is my belief system about men? About women?
    How are men in my world? How do I perceive them? How about women?
    What is my belief system about myself?
    How do I carry myself in this world?
    How do I perceive myself?
    What have my parents taught me about relationships?
    What stories have I adopted as my own, about relationships?

  • @decliveestudio
    @decliveestudio Před 6 lety +5

    i finally get it! My interpretation is that he know that the relationship is gone, that is why they never look each other. That building over the sea is the relationship and he try to destroy that, but he can't cause he dont have the courage of the determination for it. So he let them die, sit and watch everything crumbles because he knew that this is gona be at some point. she dont love him, and he struggle to change that but never works. Thats why when ben sing "oh baby maybe i hold on so fast to you" it means that he push the relationship for better or worst and he understood that maybe he forced the love and that is why never work.
    In the end when both see that the relationship is over, try to fix it and see each other faces but its to late for that.... so in the end, they both found peace and ben sing "at least" .

  • @street282
    @street282 Před 3 lety +6

    There is something about this song, it reminds me of something I have forgotten, and I don't know what, the infinat maybe. Dose anyone else feel that? It's a special song really really good artist, it's a wonder he is not more recognised.

  • @lunchbreakskate
    @lunchbreakskate Před 2 lety +2

    I could dissect this video for hours... Covering all of the subtle semiotic signs throughout, but every time I sit down to do It, I'm distracted by how beautiful this song really is. I lose myself in comparisons of this and my own life. Ben Howard is a poet that plays music. That's It. That's my analysis. lol

  • @paulholmes8398
    @paulholmes8398 Před 10 dny

    Im seeing Ben Howard for the first time live tonight. Not sure what to expect. I'll report back.

  • @threetreetown
    @threetreetown Před 9 lety +37

    From what I can gather, in the interviews Ben's done, especially the most recent ones (and fwiw I've heard a lot) he isn't overly keen on explaining his lyrics or telling all about where they come from. His view seems to be to allow the listener to interpret the contents themselves. On that basis, I think he'd say the same about his visuals.
    This is an outstanding, complex, super-creative music video by any standards, even if it was directed by an old hand, but this - THIS is Ben Howard's directorial début - making it even more breath taking, truly amazing and wondrous to behold.
    My take on the video:
    The guy 'pulls the trigger', not once but on 2 occasions - though the opening shot may be a flash-forward to the second, but on saying that, in the second trigger pull (2:07) he doesn't actually pull it at all - it's almost like a 'dry run' maybe?. To start with the building is solid and strong, despite being surrounded by the ocean, having it's foundations buffeted and under constant threat of being undermined. Yet it still stood strong despite the powerful outside influences, crashing waves, the storms and high winds etc. The guy himself wilfully and deliberately destroyed it. Firing shots (or just ONE shot?) at the building and ultimately destroying it. Once the trigger was pulled there was no chance of salvaging it, or preventing the demise of the solid structure. All she (and at times THEY) could do was sit back and watch as it crumbled away to nothing. The movement of the table (with the book pages being flipped by the wind) from being bang in the middle of them both - to being closer to HIM with the book closed - also symbolises (for me) it was his actions that brought the relationship to an end - the table being closer to him is like he's taking responsibility. The building is metaphorical of their relationship, that once was strong and unshakable, but he destroyed it. Now it's gone forever, leaving no trace that it ever existed at all.

    • @pinktasha25
      @pinktasha25 Před 2 lety

      I think this is exactly what it means.best comment I've read

  • @yamabushi_nate7825
    @yamabushi_nate7825 Před 8 lety +31

    The two people loved/love each other. They forgot that. Now they admit to have forgotten.

  • @cryptofundamentals5432
    @cryptofundamentals5432 Před 3 lety +1

    Her building the sand castle alone tears my heart out. My interpretation is it is her dreams that she didn’t accomplish. Emptiness, especially when he leaves first before the building falls.

  • @bobsagat1371
    @bobsagat1371 Před 6 lety

    Everything is temporary. Only Hope Faith and Love are beyond everything. So at some point on your path you will find yourself with nothing but hope. Dont be surprised.

  • @qbson1998
    @qbson1998 Před 8 lety +61

    Music video director is a master.

    • @hiflyingpigs
      @hiflyingpigs Před 8 lety +12

      It's Ben Howard himself!

    • @brendanmckelvy14
      @brendanmckelvy14 Před 8 lety

      What the hell did the video attempt to portray though

    • @jeremynunns7496
      @jeremynunns7496 Před 7 lety +15

      pretty sure it was about something a couple couldn't get over - which is what that ugly building in the middle of a beautiful ocean represented. They spent all day staring at it, not talking. He points and shoots his shotgun uselessly at it a few times. Instead finally, he takes her hand, wants to make amends, and they walk away into the future, and the painful past crumbles as they forget it, and perhaps find each other at the end...

  • @chrisrobicheaw6595
    @chrisrobicheaw6595 Před 8 lety +3

    This is by far my favorite music video, I cannot stop watching. The simple yet gorgeous cinematography of this piece is perfection.

  • @marleyabbott7203
    @marleyabbott7203 Před 4 lety +2

    i go to an alternative school in Melbourne Australia for kids who have had trouble with mainstream school and every Friday and Monday morning my friend and I do a song swap from songs we've found during the week. This was one she showed me from yesterday. We have a few songs that make us cry together every time and I think this might be a new one we've found. Thank you for making a song that says what we can't say out loud

  • @PhoeFireaga
    @PhoeFireaga Před 9 lety +6

    It's like a Wes Anderson film. The symmetry in some frames are awe-inspiring. Very artsy and full of meaning. Good on you, Benjamin.

  • @sigridkramer2003
    @sigridkramer2003 Před 9 lety +22

    I think this video is about not living your life. The man in this video is always busy with work (his office which he sees further in the ocean), he tries to fight against it (with his gun) to make time for the things he really appreciates. The book stands for the time that runs too fast when you waste it on things you don't like. The man realises that it's time to live his life again just as he did before, enjoying with his wife (flashbacks with him and his wife). This is what "I forget where we were" stands for. At the end of the video he stopped fighting against the life he doesn't want and finally made the desicion to choose for the life where he always dreamed of or the life he had forgotten about. The book is closed at the end because you don't waste time on the things you really love (like spending time with your wife as in this movie).

    • @MsSimone2468
      @MsSimone2468 Před 9 lety +1

      truely true! Best interpretation ever! I loooovee this song !!! jajajajajajajaj

    • @JenWah
      @JenWah Před 9 lety

      Sigrid Kramer what's interesting is the man has a wedding ring, but the woman does not....did you see?

  • @xyz123ohme
    @xyz123ohme Před 3 lety +6

    You only can understand this song truly if you’ve lived it. I hope you never do.

  • @shaunhopkins3941
    @shaunhopkins3941 Před rokem +2

    Proberly one the most understated musician poets

  • @sarahfriday3835
    @sarahfriday3835 Před 7 lety +4

    I think this song must be, and will remain to be, one of the most beautiful songs out. The videography gives me goosebumps each time I watch it (and I've viewed it A LOT).

  • @crystalpistol4546
    @crystalpistol4546 Před 5 lety +4

    For you, Daniel......this will always be a song that comes on and I immediately start dancing with your ghost. I will love you till the end of time...

    • @benhoward7671
      @benhoward7671 Před 2 lety

      Thanks for your love and comments I do appreciate ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘😘😍😍😍😘😘❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘

  • @kersje03
    @kersje03 Před 9 lety +297

    There is this guy. He wants to fight for it. 'I was watching Syria blinded by the sunshine strip'. He thinks about it. And then there is his girl; she doesn't want to watch to the horrible things that are happening in this world. There is this great sentence in his lyrics: 'the great dividing range, the green, green grass'. I think our life is great, but there are so many other places where it is worse.
    The guy keeps shooting, but it won't help. The girl is still ignoring it. She tries to convince the guy it isn't so bad. 'Don't take it so seriously, only time is ours, the rest we'll just wait and see'. In the end, they are standing there watching the building by the sunshine strip. He leaves, she leaves. He gives up, he forgets it. The building is falling. If you don't do anything about it, it will be destroyed. Its a meaning in a lot of different ways.
    The moments that they are dancing: they are dancing in a room full of smoke with their eyes closed. They want to be together, don't look to the world, don't look to what's happening. But in the end: the guy has still closed his eyes, but the girl is watching. The whole time she is pretending that she doesn't see what's happening, but she is actually the cause of the problem. She is trying to convince him and the others that it's not there.
    'The blind leading out the bored'; we hear so much about it.
    If this is about war: is she representing the country that is making it worse and hopes the rest of the world become blind for the problem, but it's still there? Or is it about a relationship or about life?
    What about the book? We are just living our lives, thinking about ourselves and not about somebody else? Life is going by and we are losing ourselves?
    This man is a genius. Let your mind think about it.

    • @terepod
      @terepod Před 9 lety +3

      Great read on the song...

    • @MetallicAddict15
      @MetallicAddict15 Před 9 lety +3

      Love your interpretation, really helped me gain some insight into the song and video. Thanks!

    • @brookethomas432
      @brookethomas432 Před 9 lety +1

      Your interpretations are some of the best I've read since the video was uploaded

    • @ethanmcauley79
      @ethanmcauley79 Před 9 lety +1

      Very good, Kirsten, like the way you thinking.

    • @ReasonsToSmilee
      @ReasonsToSmilee Před 9 lety +1

      What a gorgeous interpretation, helped me understand and better appreciate this even more gorgeous video - thank you! Ben Howard is beautiful ♡

  • @SaraFS432
    @SaraFS432 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you to the one who recommended Ben Howard to me.. I am sorry I couldn't thank you before ~☆~ I was lost. Now I'm found~ 🖤🎹🖤

  • @blackbutterfly5850
    @blackbutterfly5850 Před rokem +2

    Just yes. The feeling I get hearing this is unreal. ❣️

  • @mountainaustin
    @mountainaustin Před 3 lety +4

    The only music video which does justice to the lyrics so perfectly...I must say!

  • @disco_1769
    @disco_1769 Před 5 lety +10

    Still as beautiful after four years

    • @ania-xe5yb
      @ania-xe5yb Před 3 lety

      still as beautiful meaningful and so deeply touching after 7 years

  • @rachelee73
    @rachelee73 Před 9 lety

    An excellent translation of when the word of love was divided

  • @lauraintheskywithdiamonds9185

    My favourite Ben Howard song

    • @benhoward7671
      @benhoward7671 Před 2 lety

      Thanks for your love and comments I do appreciate 🙏🥰🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍😍😘😘😘😘

  • @raspberry481
    @raspberry481 Před 8 lety +43

    *** W A R N I N G ***
    it's so addictive!!!

  • @CheezyC
    @CheezyC Před 6 lety +4

    There's just something about this song that just...just breaks my damned heart. When the building crashes, I feel goosebumps rise on my skin and my throat tightens...good god, Ben, only you can get me in my feelings like this. Such an underrated, insanely talented artist. Thank you, Ben, for making me feel things.

  • @KUROSAKIICHIGO9
    @KUROSAKIICHIGO9 Před 3 lety +2

    Every once in a while, where i can comeback and refresh my mind. So much in the music and lyrics.

  • @jennie1537
    @jennie1537 Před 4 lety +1

    I have listened to this song so many times, now I understand it. You are telling my story. Let the light in.

  • @preciousabang8233
    @preciousabang8233 Před 8 lety +21

    I'm honestly gonna dance with my most favourite guy to this song.

  • @shafiau4146
    @shafiau4146 Před 6 lety

    This is the most beautiful thing you'll ever taste in your life.

  • @amoslewis29
    @amoslewis29 Před 4 lety +1

    me and my girlfriend went to see you in birmingham back when you were promoting this album...its such a beautiful album we had an amazing night and thank you and your band for that ...so its been 5 and a half years weve been together but now were over ...just want you to know that the beauty of your music has had so many different meanings at different times in our relationship ...i will always love her and your music will always kindle that feeling but i will never stop listening.... thank you brother

  • @MoisesLuisML90
    @MoisesLuisML90 Před 8 lety +4

    I remember the first time i heard a Ben Howard song
    It was on House MD season 8 ep 12 in the end of the episode i heard "Promise"
    From that day i listen all the things Ben have made and love him... That left hand guy is AMAZING!

    • @denisseizur
      @denisseizur Před 8 lety +2

      +Moises Luis ME TOO!! after that he's become my favorite artist.

    • @MoisesLuisML90
      @MoisesLuisML90 Před 7 lety

      After 2 years and im still listen to this song every single day!

  • @manguy2000
    @manguy2000 Před 8 lety +1138

    Ben must be the biggest day dreamer of all time. Wonder how he did in school.

    • @RoZaUTube
      @RoZaUTube Před 8 lety +57

      Probably good, because he seems like the stubborn sort who doesnt give up, but not great because i imagine him as a day dreamer :D

    • @pedrofaria7451
      @pedrofaria7451 Před 8 lety +7

      +manguy2000 british talent sounds like dry the river

    • @towoawawaboofficial
      @towoawawaboofficial Před 8 lety +62

      great minds start later in life. i wondered the samething

    • @s_u_l_f_u_r
      @s_u_l_f_u_r Před 8 lety +8

      I guess you haven't listened to The Burgh Island EP...

    • @towoawawaboofficial
      @towoawawaboofficial Před 8 lety +5

      Yes...everything he writes and recorded, i heard them all

  • @todddouglas7231
    @todddouglas7231 Před 8 lety +1

    The most beautiful Cinematography i've ever seen in a music video

    • @cassidynoble77
      @cassidynoble77 Před 8 lety

      +Todd Douglas Thanks my friend it wasn't easy.

  • @glmcreationsfilm
    @glmcreationsfilm Před 2 lety +2

    His vice and music creation is so perfect... raw and melodic

  • @Sniperdog2
    @Sniperdog2 Před 3 lety +4

    2021 people! Some things change, but good music will always be good music. Enjoy, relax and chill.

  • @Booobearxx
    @Booobearxx Před 9 lety +3

    Jest idealny, na wszystkie smutki, czy tęsknotę. Znalazłam go jakieś dwa lata temu i do tej pory Ben jest moim wiernym kompanem, gdziekolwiek idę. Dzięki!

  • @jocebrooke2
    @jocebrooke2 Před 9 lety +2

    It's really not fair how talented Ben is. He can do everything. The cinematography of this video is gorgeous, as well as the music. Dude needs to share with the rest of the world. I went to see him in concert last night and was completely blown away. I had high expectations and knew they would be met, and that they were, ten times over. He has been my favorite for a long time now and will continue to be.

  • @AllanayooYoo
    @AllanayooYoo Před 10 měsíci +1

    Before he left home for work ❤️❤️❤️❤️🥺watching the sunset listing to his group songs ❤️❤️❤️❤️🫶🏻😔

  • @gonzalez.2974
    @gonzalez.2974 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Great songs never get old, and this is one of them.

  • @anarmslengthaway169
    @anarmslengthaway169 Před 9 lety +4

    I reckon it's about when two people grow so accustomed to each other that they forget how to truly appreciate one another, because they are so consumed by other things (as symbolised by the building). Once the building collapses and it cuts to the dancing sequence, the woman closes her eyes and turns her head towards the man (whose eyes are already closed), as if she is submitting herself to the relationship again.

  • @emilybakker4922
    @emilybakker4922 Před 8 lety +4

    I find Ben and his music truly amazing! His voice is the only one I can listen to every moment of the day. Whenever I listen to it, it calmes me down and makes me feel satisfied whit the things I have. I really hope that someday I can thank Ben Howard for the music he makes and what he makes his fans feel by it. Truly amazing..

  • @jludewig1
    @jludewig1 Před 3 lety +1

    So sad… and beautiful

  • @notenoughcoffee
    @notenoughcoffee Před 9 lety

    When the building crumbles.... the goose bumps are real

  • @AS-tv6mn
    @AS-tv6mn Před 5 lety +4

    I'm just pissed off that only heard this song recently, and it's been out for years. I nearly fell off the chair when I heard it. What a beautiful piece of art this is. Thanks Ben

  • @leeboh87
    @leeboh87 Před 9 lety +6

    Absolute perfection, it doesn't matter how much I listen to this tune - it hits the spot every time! Perfect video to support the feel of the song too! Can't wait to see him in April, bring it on!