The long goodbye

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  • čas přidán 6. 09. 2024
  • This Donu's World episode might make you cry, but it'll also warm your heart. Explore my mom's remarkable life and our journey through dementia.
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    Dementia journey
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    Types of dementia
    Dementia care tips
    Alzheimer's disease
    Memory loss
    Brain health
    Long-term care
    Senior care
    End-of-life care
    Caregiver support
    Mental health
    #DementiaAwareness (Trending)
    What is the difference between dementia and Alzheimer's?
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    How do I care for someone with dementia?
    What are the different types of dementia?
    Is there a cure for dementia?
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    Dementia caregiving
    Dementia journey
    Living with dementia
    Dementia symptoms
    Dementia support groups
    Early signs of dementia
    Types of dementia
    Dementia care tips
    Alzheimer's disease
    Memory loss
    Brain health
    Long-term care
    Senior care
    End-of-life care
    Caregiver support
    Mental health
    #DementiaAwareness (Trending)
    What is the difference between dementia and Alzheimer's?
    What are the early signs of dementia?
    How do I care for someone with dementia?
    What are the different types of dementia?
    Is there a cure for dementia?
    How can I prevent dementia?
    What resources are available for dementia caregivers?
    What are the stages of dementia?
    How does dementia affect communication?
    How can I cope with the emotional impact of dementia?
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    Dementia caregiving
    Dementia journey
    Living with dementia
    Dementia symptoms
    Dementia support groups
    Early signs of dementia
    Types of dementia
    Dementia care tips
    Alzheimer's disease
    Memory loss
    Brain health
    Long-term care
    Senior care
    End-of-life care
    Caregiver support
    Mental health
    #DementiaAwareness (Trending)
    What is the difference between dementia and Alzheimer's?
    What are the early signs of dementia?
    How do I care for someone with dementia?
    What are the different types of dementia?
    Is there a cure for dementia?
    How can I prevent dementia?
    What resources are available for dementia caregivers?
    What are the stages of dementia?
    How does dementia affect communication?
    How can I cope with the emotional impact of dementia?
    #alzheimers (Trending)
    #dementiacaregiver
    #memoryloss
    #caregiverlife
    #seniorcare
    #familysupport
    #endalzheimers
    #mentalhealthmatters
    #tellyourstory (Trending)
    Dementia caregiving
    Dementia journey
    Living with dementia
    Dementia symptoms
    Dementia support groups
    Early signs of dementia
    Types of dementia
    Dementia care tips
    Alzheimer's disease
    Memory loss
    Brain health
    Long-term care
    Senior care
    End-of-life care
    Caregiver support
    Mental health
    #DementiaAwareness (Trending)
    What is the difference between dementia and Alzheimer's?
    What are the early signs of dementia?
    How do I care for someone with dementia?
    What are the different types of dementia?
    Is there a cure for dementia?
    How can I prevent dementia?
    What resources are available for dementia caregivers?
    What are the stages of dementia?
    How does dementia affect communication?
    How can I cope with the emotional impact of dementia?
    #alzheimers
    #dementiacaregiver
    #memoryloss
    #caregiverlife
    #seniorcare
    #familysupport
    #endalzheimers
    #mentalhealthmatters
    #tellyourstory

Komentáře • 23

  • @rheajohson4420
    @rheajohson4420 Před měsícem +3

    Good morning donu. Greetings from Victorville cal. ..dementia took my father too. When I was 35. .10 years of smiles and yesses. That was 40 yrs ago... He was Always so agreeable and smiling. Love your show. Wish I knew you personally

  • @remmygladanaele3415
    @remmygladanaele3415 Před měsícem +3

    This is great. Donu thanks immensely for sharing this wonderful true life story of my Late Aunty Anne Kogbara. May Almighty God grant her gentle soul eternal rest Amen 🙏

  • @kellya3616
    @kellya3616 Před měsícem +2

    My 86 year old step-father passed away two months ago. He had Alzheimer’s. The long goodbye is exactly what I called it.

  • @moyagreaves8092
    @moyagreaves8092 Před měsícem +1

    Good morning from the UK,,,glorious day here for a change,,,sorry to hear about your mum,,god bless her and you and your family,,❤❤

  • @judysadowsky2186
    @judysadowsky2186 Před měsícem +1

    Good morning Donu from NY. Sorry about you mum who suffered from dementia. My aunt recently passed away after suffering from Dementia for over twenty years. I don't wish that disease on anyone. She was very sweet and kind but became very angry at the beginning of her illness. I knew a few people in my neighborhood right now who is suffering from Dementia. Your mum story was bittersweet, and it hurt my heart. Love your dress and your earrings, most of all love you. Have a great weekend

  • @jm162
    @jm162 Před měsícem +1

    Watching someone you love disappear through dementia is very devastating - we're on that journey now. You, and your son💔💔💔❤❤❤

  • @JonasOdocha
    @JonasOdocha Před měsícem

    My Auntie of blessed memory. May you continue to enjoy eternal rest.

  • @anneokigbo4871
    @anneokigbo4871 Před měsícem

    Dementia is a devastating illness that traumatizes everyone. More needs to be done in this part of the world to deal with this: to recognize this ailment, and assist caregivers.

  • @PatOsmund
    @PatOsmund Před měsícem +1

    Thank you for sharing this,I have to retire and take care of my sister who is 77 and is in the beginning stage of dementia...I know it's going to be a long hard road from now on. Thank you again for sharing.

  • @ololadeadeoye4946
    @ololadeadeoye4946 Před měsícem

    Thanks for sharing.

  • @lindafisher9744
    @lindafisher9744 Před měsícem +1

    Hello Donu, I am a retired nurse in the U.S. and my experience with my mother and her decline with dementia and other medical challenges was very similar to yours. In fact I almost could have written your text they were so similar. I had cared for countless patients with some form of dementia in my career but nothing prepares you when it happens to a close family member. I know you and your family did your best for your mother as I did for mine, yet the guilt creeps in. 💕

  • @kaydavis382
    @kaydavis382 Před měsícem

    Donu, thank you for sharing such thought provoking topics every Friday. I'm sorry about your mom, but I am glad you shared the long goodbye. ❤️

  • @Sunshineday-s6k
    @Sunshineday-s6k Před měsícem

    Thank you for sharing your story. ❤

  • @katrint4502
    @katrint4502 Před měsícem

    🌟🌟🌟❤️

  • @zazamafra2145
    @zazamafra2145 Před měsícem

  • @Rose-jz6ix
    @Rose-jz6ix Před měsícem +3

    Your mother was beautiful ❤️ My mother-in-law had dementia,but passed over five years ago. Sadly her daughter has the start of it. Such a cruel and sad illness. Thank you for bringing up this topic, so many people are afraid to talk, however, they are the same person.🇦🇺😌❤️

  • @patriciawaske7760
    @patriciawaske7760 Před měsícem

    I’m so sorry for the way in which you lost your mother, Donu. You honor her memory well. Death is the worst pain of life, it’s so hard to watch your loved ones die slow deaths. May your mother, Ann Kogbara, Rest In Peace.
    I’m 67 years old & I must tell you recently I’ve noticed I can’t remember names of people I know & have known for long periods of time. I fear I am experiencing the beginning of… something. Hope your vacation is going well & you’re relaxing & enjoying yourself. 😘😘😘

  • @celinefoff1863
    @celinefoff1863 Před měsícem

    My mum had Dementia for 10 years. Towards the end she needed nappy. Very sad.

  • @marathorne6821
    @marathorne6821 Před měsícem +1

    I was very moved by your account of the devastating decline in your mother's mental faculties. It's particularly cruel when, as it seems in her case, it precedes significant physical decline. My mother is 92 and has been in poor shape physically for many years. Only in the last 18 months or so has her mental condition started to decline noticeably. We are bracing ourselves for what may lie ahead. It's heart breaking.
    Like you, the thought that that could be me one day is horrifying. However, from the research I've done into this, the genetic component is not necessarily the biggest risk factor. For some types of dementia, yes, two copies of a particular gene are bad news (you can get tested for this) but lifestyle can do a lot to mitigate the risk. Enough sleep, enough hydration, a varied diet with plenty of plants, sufficient exercise, maintaining a healthy weight, scrupulous oral hygiene, maintaining good cardio-vascular health, wearing hearing aids where these are indicated, and avoiding loneliness - all these can help to stave off mental decline. I think it's comforting to know that we are not simply passive victims of our genetic destiny, we do have a measure of control over our future wellbeing. Stay well, my friend x

  • @juliequinlan6564
    @juliequinlan6564 Před měsícem +1

    My mum had Lewy Body Dementia which, is Parkinson’s and dementia. It is so sad to watch a loved one go through this ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 I love hearing your stories 💕

  • @juliequinlan6564
    @juliequinlan6564 Před měsícem

    My mum had Lewy Body Dementia which, is Parkinson’s and dementia. It is so sad to watch a loved one go through this ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

    • @juliequinlan6564
      @juliequinlan6564 Před měsícem +1

      Your mother was a natural beauty! The photo of you as a young woman reminds me of Beverley Knight and you are still a very attractive woman! 💕💕