FENTANYL KILLS: Jack McCarthy's Story

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  • čas přidán 16. 04. 2024
  • A father, James McCarthy, shares his story of losing his 19-year-old son to fentanyl and how he is turning his pain into purpose with Fentanyl Fathers. To use this presentation at high schools or other educational applications, contact Texas Pictures through our website at www.texas-pictures.com.
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Komentáře • 577

  • @ReneePerrin25
    @ReneePerrin25 Před 14 dny +93

    This is not your fault, dad. Bringing up your child in a sober home is amazing. This . Was. Not. Your. Fault.

    • @katie0303
      @katie0303 Před 13 dny +12

      He appears to have been a great father. No one is perfect, but you can tell he loved his son dearly.

    • @jordanark9784
      @jordanark9784 Před 11 dny +3

      It was his fault entirely. No accountability whatsoever.

    • @vincentperagine
      @vincentperagine Před 8 dny +2

      @@jordanark9784 Seriously? You have no idea what you are talking about.

    • @lynndinovo3500
      @lynndinovo3500 Před 8 dny +2

      YOU are an awesome father. Please continue to talk to others especially our youth about these murderers who sell fentynal laced drugs. Jack is an awesome spirit and he is guiding you to do this great service for others. God bless you and give you grace to find just a bit of peace. 🤍🕊

    • @jordanark9784
      @jordanark9784 Před 7 dny +2

      @@vincentperagine Should've been paying attention to their children. Whatever the child does is a reflection of the parenting. Or, in this case, lack thereof. The truth hurts.

  • @NoseyFloridaGirl
    @NoseyFloridaGirl Před 14 dny +105

    You’ve turned Jacks memory into a MISSION. Bravo Dad . You will change lives . Save lives.

  • @HP-rp5nn
    @HP-rp5nn Před 13 dny +47

    I believe that he saw his son in the dream.. God knew what he needed to go on. God bless you and your family.

  • @debikarolewicz7875
    @debikarolewicz7875 Před 13 dny +46

    I lost my son Brian Todd 5 months ago to Fentanyl poisoning. Your story inspires me to try and find a purpose, because I haven't been able to do anything but grieve. RIP Jack. Hugs and prayers 🙏

    • @user-sk2px6ox7m
      @user-sk2px6ox7m Před 13 dny +7

      Very very sorry for your loss

    • @lovemy3babes17
      @lovemy3babes17 Před 13 dny +6

      Sending prayers 🙏🏿 your way. So sorry for your loss. ❤

    • @MimiCoco-gt7zo
      @MimiCoco-gt7zo Před 13 dny +5

      My condolences to you

    • @AussieAmy
      @AussieAmy Před 13 dny +7

      Condolences to you 🙏🏽💜
      Maybe you were meant to see this to find your purpose- your reason to get out of bed. Sending love and positive vibes your way. You can do this!

    • @DaisyJane0318
      @DaisyJane0318 Před 13 dny +1

      I'm so very sorry for your loss. Prayers to you and your family. 😢

  • @AKA-Nana
    @AKA-Nana Před 14 dny +194

    The fact that this country cannot get a hold on this drug is beyond me. To me, fentanyl is as dangerous as an automatic weapon that can take out multiple people. How many have to die? I get the addiction, I get it, but none of these stories begin or end with, my loved one knew they were taking fentanyl. The people that are knowingly putting fentanyl in other meds (Xanax, Percocet, Norco) are murderers.

    • @sarahwales6276
      @sarahwales6276 Před 14 dny +59

      The Government doesn't want to fix this, it is not a problem for them it is a solution. When the wealthiest people in the world are telling you their goal is depopulation, believe them.

    • @caroljordt8045
      @caroljordt8045 Před 14 dny +10

      So sorry for your loss 😢

    • @kalpajha3002
      @kalpajha3002 Před 14 dny +15

      You're right but sadly addicts do struggle a lot and they are always searching for another high as the ones they usually take do nothing for them. Whats scary is that, this drug Fentanyl is so so much stronger and in many places this drug is cheap and so easy to get hold off. People are still ignorant about this drug and the effects. I really hope people start waking up and seeking help before they sadly wont be able to wake up. The dealers who sell this stuff and a lot of other stuff are, i cant call them murders but, they are definitely aiding the addict. All they care about is money money and more money. To know that this particular drug is laced in so many other drugs is scary beyond belief.

    • @RLFinTX
      @RLFinTX Před 14 dny +27

      It’s coming through the open borders.

    • @JIMKATSANIDIS
      @JIMKATSANIDIS Před 14 dny +5

      @@sarahwales6276 The US has collaborated with other countries, particularly China and Mexico, to disrupt the production and distribution networks. Efforts have been made to improve information sharing, enhance law enforcement cooperation, and promote regulatory measures to control precursor chemicals, but all these failed.👋

  • @justbrowsing1278
    @justbrowsing1278 Před 13 dny +38

    Jack sounds like the type of kid who would be extremely proud of his dad for sharing his story. You raised a good one! Sorry for your loss. Also, it’s okay to not be okay sometimes ❤️

  • @laurie-lionessnotaewe5902
    @laurie-lionessnotaewe5902 Před 14 dny +16

    I lost my 19 yr old nephew in 2018 to a tragic car accident. That pain never gets easier or goes away. I’ve just learned to live with it. I’m so sorry for anyone who’s lost a child, senselessly or otherwise. I can’t begin to imagine your pain. May God be with you all, whether you believe in Him or not.

  • @louern123
    @louern123 Před 14 dny +75

    my daughter went through depression and psychosis after her father died, and she screamed at me a few times blaming me for not getting her a therapist for her anxiety in grade nine. i didn’t even understand what anxiety was.
    we aren’t psychologists, we are just parents. 💔. sending so much love for you, to get through this. 🙏🏻

    • @RLFinTX
      @RLFinTX Před 14 dny +5

      Were you unable to get her an appt with a psychologist?

    • @chargennaro976
      @chargennaro976 Před 13 dny +3

      I hope you were able to get her a psychologist appointment now it's better late than never for the mental health is so important

    • @DaisyJane0318
      @DaisyJane0318 Před 13 dny +3

      I've been struggling with severe anxiety, depression, PTSD, and ADHD for about 21 years now. It's horrible. I don't feel right at all if I don't take my meds. I wish they can come up with a cure at least for the anxiety cause it's the worst. RIP Jack. I'm so sorry you lost your life. My condolences to you dad and the rest of your family. God speed. 😢❤

    • @RLFinTX
      @RLFinTX Před 13 dny +2

      @@DaisyJane0318 I’m right there with you! When I sit down to take my meds, I feel so humiliated that I need all of these medications in order to stay alive. The worst part is when you start suspecting that your dosage needs to be increased. It makes me so nervous thinking about what I will I do once I reach the highest dosage.
      I’m so sorry that you suffer from these awful mental health issues as well. I’d give anything for a cure. Big hugs to you!! 😊💕

    • @barbedwire_lace2160
      @barbedwire_lace2160 Před 11 dny +2

      It's true there is no manual for parenting. I wasn't loved or wanted. So when I had my daughter, I was really lacking in skills. Sometimes love isn't enough. She is a strong, lovely woman. Fortunately, we never had to deal with substance issues. She has chosen to remain childless at 50.

  • @HaveFaith_11
    @HaveFaith_11 Před 13 dny +13

    The doctor was my drug dealer… I had a lower back fusion in 2014 & he gave me a ton of percs. He upped the milligrams way too soon. I didn’t even know how addictive pills are, the doctor just told me “Take as needed.” I’ve been 4 years clean & I NEVER want to go back to the empty numb shell of a human being. The withdrawals are HORRIBLE! After a while you have to take opioids to be able to feel ‘normal’ & get through the day.

  • @CaroleLeamer735
    @CaroleLeamer735 Před 14 dny +112

    THIS DRUG IS DEVASTATING HUMANITY😢 MY HEART BREAKS FOR THESE FAMILIES. I LOST MY YOUNGEST NEPHEW WHEN HE WAS 26😢HE DIED FROM COCAINE MIXED WITH FENTENYL AND CARFENTENYL. IT BURST THE BLOOD VESSELS IN HIS LUNGS 😢 THAT WAS IN 2017 BEFORE IT WAS WIDLEY KNOW😢GOD BLESS YOU FOR SHARING THESE STORIES ❤

    • @matthewleonard386
      @matthewleonard386 Před 14 dny +10

      Geez. That's horrible. They're finding that fentanyl shit in all kinds of things these days. Even some samples of illegal weed have been positive for it. Scary stuff.

    • @mattneil1449
      @mattneil1449 Před 14 dny +3

      YOUR CAPS BUTTON IS STUCK ON

    • @kalpajha3002
      @kalpajha3002 Před 14 dny +2

      Im really sorry for the loss of your nephew. It's heartbreaking how many teens or young adults are losing their life to this awful awful drug. I hope you and your family will heal in time. Best wishes

    • @tsungigudza8803
      @tsungigudza8803 Před 14 dny +5

      @@mattneil1449 and that’s all you got from her story 🙄🙄🙄wow !

    • @daniellakarenina8634
      @daniellakarenina8634 Před 14 dny +2

      Just DON'T DO DRUGS!
      PROBLEM SOLVED😊

  • @AussieAmy
    @AussieAmy Před 14 dny +33

    You can just see the pain in this guys eyes and his voice. Thank-you for sharing your sweet son’s story. This can happen to anyone no matter their socioeconomic status. Condolences to you and your family. 💜🙏🏽
    P.S- that was your son visiting you not a “dream”.. He wanted to apologise to you. Hopefully he will visit you again. I’m sure he will visit his sister & Mum too. 💜

    • @salindalopez8550
      @salindalopez8550 Před 5 dny +1

      Yes, that was not a "dream". He came to visit his Dad and apologize.

  • @ginalanier4836
    @ginalanier4836 Před 14 dny +34

    Your Son is incredibly proud of you and is waiting patiently for you to be happy again. ☘️
    I thank you immensely for the many lives that you have already saved by sharing your precious Son’s story.

  • @corinadaschievici9002
    @corinadaschievici9002 Před 14 dny +39

    Nothing is more devastating than losing a child. Really sad.😥😥😥Such a good looking kid he was!

  • @garyh5541
    @garyh5541 Před 14 dny +28

    Dear Jack! RIP!
    I got out of bed late today and had to drink warm coffee! Even though it was my fault! I was so mad!
    I turned on my Room Screen and saw your picture and knew what it meant. Another fine young man no longer with us and with his family! Jack you will not be forgotten!
    Prayers for all who love you. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @angelharte764
    @angelharte764 Před 14 dny +14

    I never thought people would intentionally be murdering kids. But that's the reality of this world. So sad

  • @helenmcqueen607
    @helenmcqueen607 Před 14 dny +20

    It is so brave of these families to tell their stories ,a few years ago this wouls all have been hidden and no one would be aware 😢😢

  • @IndigoRoses7
    @IndigoRoses7 Před 13 dny +12

    This is a wonderful father. You can feel the love for his son in everything he says. You can sense the deep, wonderful friendship they had. Jack deserved his life, I'm so very sorry for his and Jack's family's loss.
    May Jack's menory continue to live on, his dad is saving lives by speaking out.

  • @lesliekenion7540
    @lesliekenion7540 Před 13 dny +21

    Mr McCarthy is one of the Best Storyteller's I ever heard on this platform. He's intoxicating. Wishing you Recovery in your Heartbreak 💔

  • @ssssssnowy
    @ssssssnowy Před 14 dny +54

    Thanks for sharing your beautiful memories and stories about Jack, l loved hearing them. l am so sorry for yours and your families loss.

  • @robinlanier6886
    @robinlanier6886 Před 14 dny +21

    Hun, that was not a dream, it was a visit with a message. I'm so sorry for your loss. RIP Jack!! Hugs to the family. 💔🕊

  • @pihalcott7066
    @pihalcott7066 Před 13 dny +28

    This is one of the most devastating Texas Documentary. They are all devastating. Tore me apart.

    • @TexasPictures
      @TexasPictures  Před 13 dny +11

      I suppose that's a kind of good news, bad news thing for us. I mean, the stories should be kinda devastating. If they're not, we failed. We do also have stories of survival that have happier endings. Here's links to playlists for other series we're working on.
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    • @user-sk2px6ox7m
      @user-sk2px6ox7m Před 13 dny +1

      Same here this one was very devastating 😢

    • @patriciasams7105
      @patriciasams7105 Před 9 dny

      Agree 💔🙏💙💙

  • @tamimoncrief2264
    @tamimoncrief2264 Před 14 dny +19

    Im so sorry for the loss of your son Jack.
    Its heartbreaking. Your story makes a diferrence. This fentanyl epidemic needs to stop. God bless your family

  • @inipin510
    @inipin510 Před 14 dny +13

    That dream of your son must have been the most beautiful and the most gruesome thing at the same time…I cannot imagine the moment when you woke up and realized that it was just a dream. I want to reach out and hug you. I wish you and your family all the best. There are never enough words. ❤️

  • @GentlRebel
    @GentlRebel Před 13 dny +7

    Thank you for sharing your son Jack with us. I am a bereaved mother who lost my son, and I felt your pain physically in my chest while you were speaking. I am so very sorry. ❤

  • @kimc4586
    @kimc4586 Před 13 dny +9

    I don’t know if you will see my message. Hear the pain in your voice. Your son was a empath. It was much more than empathy for others. The description of him the helping Carly. He was special. An empath can feel what others around them feel. The anxiety truly describes this. If you see this can look it up I hope it brings you peace. We all think our kids are special, your son was really a special soul. I’m so sorry for your loss. Know he’s with you and your dream was real. Bless you sweet dad. 😢❤

  • @billymclaurin5762
    @billymclaurin5762 Před 14 dny +63

    RIP man this is so sad

    • @matthewleonard386
      @matthewleonard386 Před 14 dny +3

      Right? I tried a small handful of drugs around that age and have to conclude I just got lucky.

  • @bipolarmomandnowwhat
    @bipolarmomandnowwhat Před 13 dny +10

    Thanks for sharing your story we see so many mothers discussing their trauma, fathers need to be represented, too. Thanks again

  • @kimpierce1483
    @kimpierce1483 Před 13 dny +6

    You can see how deep the love he had for his son. You keep going to highschools your story will save lives.

  • @jrockin9221
    @jrockin9221 Před 13 dny +8

    This happened to our long time neighbors son … he just got his teaching degree , hadn’t even started teaching yet. We also learned very in N. Michigan . His grandfather married my husband and I and was pastor at our church .
    His mom came over to our house in hysterics wanting our help because she found him in his upstairs bedroom on the bed with his Carhartt snowsuit still on (he came home from work the evening before wearing it) his arm pulled out of snowsuit sleeve with a syringe still in his arm .
    Parents didn’t know he was doing drugs … it was poisoned with fentanyl .😢
    It can happen to any family!!
    Your son sounds like an amazing kiddo❤! Lifting you all up in prayer 🙌🏼

  • @andreawhite3672
    @andreawhite3672 Před 9 dny +3

    Jack came to visit his dad. Jack is ok.
    I lost my 13 yr old son on 5-10-22 to suicide, bullying was involved. I found him that morning.
    Elijah has came to see me In my dreams only a few times. But I know he’s perfect. I know he’s in Heaven. There’s life after death. But I’m still very shattered.
    Sending my love to Jack and his family.

  • @acelialeedy7923
    @acelialeedy7923 Před 13 dny +3

    Im a recovering heroin addict and have been clean for 6 years....i appreciate what you said about addicts.....i just want you to know that the dream you had definitely meant something....Jack, your son, knew that you needed that dream to be able to move forward in your life. It was his way of giving one last thing before he went to be with Jesus. He wanted you to know that it was a mistake, that he loves you, and that he is okay and in Gods hands. The dealer in your casd will get whats coming to him. I hope one day you can stop hating that man and maybe begin praying for him. He is obviously lacking in many ways and may not have been as lucky as Jack to have a loving, strong and proud father like you growing up. That is not a justification; just a way for you to forgive. You are doing wonderful things in your sons honor and are going to save many lives in your mission.

    • @anotherdayinthislife
      @anotherdayinthislife Před 13 dny

      Congratulations on maintaining sobriety! It’s not easy, I’ve never been addicted to opioids but I hear and see the struggle in the streets and in my best friends home, they’re all on fetty and I can’t even handle going over there anymore even with all this Narcan in my car. Thank you so much for sticking with it and freeing yourself from those shackles, you not only saved yourself but my gosh you’ve likely saved some random citizen from being traumatized by the sounds and sight of an overdose with death rattle and all…I’ll never unhear that sound. Stay blessed 🙏🫶🏼👏🏻

  • @evanmerrell5310
    @evanmerrell5310 Před 13 dny +6

    I’m so blessed for your story about your son my heart breaks for you I lost my 23 year old son on September 10 2021 to fentanyl mixed with herion and a divan and alcohol god bless you for sharing your sons life

  • @nancyforoughi5517
    @nancyforoughi5517 Před 14 dny +10

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Such a handsome young man

  • @suebabe100
    @suebabe100 Před 13 dny +8

    James, my comment got lost somehow but I wanted to thank you for telling us about your beautiful boy. I'm so sorry. I hope you can somehow find the peace you deserve.

  • @pdig2963
    @pdig2963 Před 13 dny +6

    Losing your child in any manner is heartbreaking , We as parents should not be burying our children before us , I lost my daughter on September 29th, 2023, to drugs also, 😢
    My heart goes out to you and your family 🙏💔

  • @appliedknowledgeispower2024

    😢😢😢😭😭😭so so sorry for your loss ❤

  • @shirleymcgrath2821
    @shirleymcgrath2821 Před 5 dny +2

    Dear Jack's Dad, your son came to you in that dream. My Dad came to me, as well,, after a difficult illness....I was supposed to be in and out procedure and woke up 7 days later in the hospital. I must have suffered PTSD when I was finally discharge. My Dad came to me , it was real and vivid. My family are Irish Catholic as well. My thoughts are with you and Kathy and Samantha. Keep that dream and you keep him close. I never had another visit 20 years later

  • @christinescott6344
    @christinescott6344 Před 14 dny +8

    Dad.
    Don’t question your friendship with beautiful Jack.
    Unfortunately/tragically, there are times where we have no ability to guide our cherished loved ones, not knowing what is going on. Pure LOVE is what Jack experiences in your presence.
    With all the people left in the wake of this preventable, real pandemic, you are making a difference with talking about this ever growing epidemic. 😔
    🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @porcupine783
    @porcupine783 Před 13 dny +9

    Best interview so far. Someone honest and easy to listen to.

  • @rebeccab.463
    @rebeccab.463 Před 13 dny +5

    Beautiful to hear a father's story. Thank You James for bringing your precious son Jack into our hearts. I can't imagine the pain & sorrow. Your courage to speak of this devastation will resonate as a wakeup call & healing balm to so many others. Blessings to you & your family.

  • @hadassahvered2851
    @hadassahvered2851 Před 12 dny +2

    I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful son! May his memory always be a blessing to you and your family. My 45 year old daughter and I live together. She gets severe anxiety at times. I did not know what that is but it helps her when I lay down close to her and put my hand on her back or stroke her head. And sleep with her. She has had several traumatic experiences in her life. She takes prescription opioids and handles responsibility. A highly intelligent and creative beautiful woman. I am so grateful for her in my life. And Jesus.

    • @nikola2812
      @nikola2812 Před 4 dny +1

      Awww, you're such a sweet Mother!! I'm so lucky that I also have a Mum that's just as caring as you and understands severe anxiety/depression. Just know that you're appreciated and loved so much for being there for her. 💗

    • @hadassahvered2851
      @hadassahvered2851 Před 4 dny

      @@nikola2812 Thank you for your words. This is not something I have ever spoken of before until this public place. I do so only for the purpose of it may help another understand anxiety/ depression. Most of us ache to be able to help someone close to us with anxiety. Often they turn to drugs. But touch and holding someone without talking is a powerful healing tool. I am glad you have a kind and understanding mom. My daughter is very appreciative.

  • @couponingwithkenstue7285
    @couponingwithkenstue7285 Před 13 dny +5

    He lived a short life but it was a GOOD LIFE. Experiences and memories to last a life time. Job well done Parents.

  • @shellysbrewing
    @shellysbrewing Před 13 dny +7

    I broke down because as a girl from Arizona, and a love for blues and hearing that deep steel guitar, he had it. Don't worry, he's still playing with all the greats, and you are such a loving father. I'm so sorry he was taken from you. I hope you and your family are able to find healing.

  • @glcmranger421
    @glcmranger421 Před 14 dny +12

    He said, “Everybody has tried drugs…” NO! That’s simply not reality! People need to stop with this statement. What is wrong with telling our children that drugs are not for experimenting?! Why do some parents think it’s harmless to do drugs, but “just don’t do the counterfeit drugs.” Kids, get to know your drug dealer on a personal level, so that way you will be safe to use only his drugs. I grew up with peers who did drugs and those who never did drugs. I had no problem telling my peers “No,” when they asked if I wanted some of whatever they were doing. We are out here among the population, but how could that be if “Everybody” experiments with drugs at one time or another? I still hold out hope that these videos are saving lives, because the public is realizing how stupid we are to think it’s okay to experiment with drugs of any kind.

    • @tanyaperales6681
      @tanyaperales6681 Před 13 dny +3

      Oh whatever you know what he meant! Just you haven’t! Wrong page to be on!

    • @glcmranger421
      @glcmranger421 Před 13 dny

      @@tanyaperales6681 You seriously believe I’m the only person who hasn’t? You might be on drugs right now, with that thinking. Thank you, for proving my point. Be careful where and who sells you drugs, please. Better yet, don’t do drugs.

    • @J0SHUAKANE
      @J0SHUAKANE Před 13 dny

      @@glcmranger421 sounds like you need drugs🙄😒

    • @angieb2930
      @angieb2930 Před 8 dny

      We can’t control our children when they are away from us..some kids struggle and make bad decisions and the worst can happen , like it has in this poor family’s case but…I agree, there are people that say no.. that have fear of the consequences both physically and mentally, know that it will not be tolerated by their parents and there will be repercussions ,heaven forbid, like turning off the wifi, no access to the car or spending money etc etc …I too had friends that did drugs but most of them didn’t. Normalizing drugs for whatever reason is wrong and it’s that relaxed attitude that plays a part in making it easier for some to take that step. Just my opinion , and I respect everyone else’s.

    • @terripebsworth9623
      @terripebsworth9623 Před 6 dny +1

      I never touched drugs or alcohol. My first drink was a courtesy glass of champagne, a toast at a wedding when I was in college - didn't want to be rude. I still seldom drink. I had a VERY difficult childhood, opening my first business and bank account at age 11 (a newspaper stand in 1970). I needed the money to survive, to eat and buy my required school books. The one thing I knew for sure was that I would need my UNIMPAIRED witts about me every single day in order to succeed and (as planned) thrive. I dared not touch ANY drugs. And that's a VERY slippery slope. Dependency must be hell and must create depression and anxiety in itself. I never got depressed or sick for that matter. I didn't have time for that or wallowing in useless self pity.

  • @melanieredfield9736
    @melanieredfield9736 Před 13 dny +5

    You are an amazing dad to share Jack with the world and to put yourself and your story out for the purpose of sparing others such pain. I'm sure your encounter with Jack was real and meant to help you in your journey through grief. It doesn't get better...but WE get better at channeling our pain into purpose. Your work will save lives & honor Jack's memory. So sorry for your loss.

  • @CM-wf2uo
    @CM-wf2uo Před 14 dny +5

    Jack seemed like a smart, talented, kind, and handsome young man. The world lost a good soul. I hope his story can help some other young person to stay away from this poison.

  • @kellywarren8228
    @kellywarren8228 Před 17 hodinami +2

    It took my nephew, Luke Thomas Caraccio. He is loved and missed. God help us all. ❤

    • @MrPlatani
      @MrPlatani Před 17 hodinami

      I'm sorry for your nephew.

  • @therosarylady
    @therosarylady Před 13 dny +3

    Oh God, I wept through this entire video. I have watched them all, but Jack's story ripped my guts out. I'm so sorry, you're doing all parents A SERVICE. Sending all my love and respect ❤️

  • @hortenciac878
    @hortenciac878 Před 14 dny +7

    So sorry for your loss. May God comfort you in this most difficult of times.

  • @minwade5436
    @minwade5436 Před 14 dny +6

    Condolences for losing yr much loved son; Jack. The pain is ever present & gnawing when yr awake. You are doing good things with a sense of purpose which honours Jack & educates others. Not everyone is a picture of “an addict”. One pill can kill so glad you used the analogy of “Russian roulette” which most young people can understand. There’s a special place in hell for those perpetrators & pushers of these illegal pills. Nothing can ever replace Jack but he will always be part of you & proud of yr willingness to help others. God bless. Best wishes from Adelaide; South Australia🦘🐨🇦🇺💐

  • @lydiakinnaman3679
    @lydiakinnaman3679 Před 14 dny +7

    Thank for giving awareness to this killer young, adults, professionals, races, male, female.
    Sorry for your loss.

  • @pam164
    @pam164 Před 13 dny +3

    His son visited him in his dream, something he will treasure all his life. Poor family.

  • @Elaine-yw1ir
    @Elaine-yw1ir Před 13 dny +4

    Sir, I completely feel what you're going thru, may your handsome son RIP, he was/is a beautiful human being, one Xanax, exactly what my nephew took, he died immediately 😢 💔, I'm so sorry you had to go thru such, Jack's story will be a Mission, don't ever forget all the great times!!! ❤❤❤

  • @desertgirl3374
    @desertgirl3374 Před 13 dny +2

    No one in the world should ever have to feel the pain that this family feels because some heartless individuals in LE and otherwise treated this precious young man like he didn’t matter. He did matter. Every single one of these family members had such a valuable perspective for us to hear and I’m so glad they felt compelled to share with us. Thank you from the bottom of my heart and I’m sending all my love. 🙏🏼

  • @Mskaytee
    @Mskaytee Před 13 dny +3

    Sending love and prayers to the McCarthy family as well as the Fentanyl Fathers! Thank you for bringing awareness to this poisoning and sharing the stories of your loved ones. ❤ Fly High Jack 🎸🕊️

  • @baleighmorey1626
    @baleighmorey1626 Před 14 dny +2

    It really doesn't get easier. I'm so sorry for your loss.

  • @marytague6268
    @marytague6268 Před 14 dny +2

    What an amazing dad/father/husband! So sorry for your loss as, I, too lost my daughter at 22 from suicide but, our pain is the same. Closure is not a word in my vocabulary. I have learned to “go through” not “over”. Love to you & yours.🙏❤️

  • @SammiTheSweetheart327
    @SammiTheSweetheart327 Před 12 dny +2

    Dear, sweet Jack was definitely an Empath. He was a beautiful human being inside and out who felt deeply for every thing and every one. I hope and 🙏🏾 papa bear knows that and is SO proud of his boy. He was a source of joy and comfort to others and he made the world a better place while he was here. And even so now that he isn't. Thank you so much for sharing a little piece of him with us. 🫶🏾

  • @kidstuff44555
    @kidstuff44555 Před 14 dny +1

    Losing your child is a grief that never leaves you, the pain stays sharp for the rest of your life

  • @heatherbarrett9315
    @heatherbarrett9315 Před 14 dny +3

    Ahhhh😢 what a brilliant testament to a wonderful soul. He was definitely an empath and a true earth Angel. Sorry for the loss of such a beautiful young man. ❤

  • @RLFinTX
    @RLFinTX Před 14 dny +8

    Why are these kids getting the medications that they clearly need from their doctors? I’m not understanding this each time I listen to a similar story. I have several autoimmune diseases with one being neuropathy which is extremely painful and I take the medication from my doctor. If he was in the hospital for it, why not continue it. Gabapentin or Lyrica are given for it. It’s not even a scheduled drug. So many logical questions.

    • @MyOwnPersonalFantasy
      @MyOwnPersonalFantasy Před 13 dny

      The old "what do you call someone who graduates with a c average?...Doctor" joke probably rings a little true. A LOT of bad and negligent medical professionals exist in America, sadly. Its BAD. For every one person that gets a good doctor and the help they need, I don't even want to know how many patients don't get that, probably a very large number.

  • @ItalianAngel21175
    @ItalianAngel21175 Před 13 dny +3

    I am so sorry for your loss McCarthy Family. 💔😢 For every life saved just hearing Jack's story, makes Jack's death not in vain. May you find peace. My brother committed suicide and I took that in the worst way imaginable, but one year later to the day my brother came to me in a dream. To validate he used the last place we were together, The Gallery an underground mall in Philadelphia. He told me he didn't mean to do it he was just very angry at that moment and that he was sorry, and that he was really okay. I didn't want him to go but he had to go. From that point on I was okay knowing he was okay! I believe Jack wanted you to know he was okay so you could be okay! 🙏💖🌹

  • @MelanieVandamme-rh4pr
    @MelanieVandamme-rh4pr Před 13 dny +3

    Wow Jamie!!! Thoughts and prayers to you, Cathy and your daughter. You will change lives every day. xoxo

  • @elishamiyahira4301
    @elishamiyahira4301 Před 14 dny +2

    Every beautiful thing your son was while he was here. I saw it all in you sir. You spoke well. Your grief and healing will come the more you talk and share I think.

  • @jenniferwagner9206
    @jenniferwagner9206 Před 10 dny +2

    I have been watching a lot of the stories in the last weeks . Today I felt so sad for Jacks father . My children are 20 and 24 and since I heard so much about the fentanyl problem , I have started to talk to my family at dinner about the loss of the parents and all the things I have learned . Thank you at Texas pictures for bringing awareness to the world.

  • @SarahSmith-mu1wc
    @SarahSmith-mu1wc Před 12 dny +2

    Omg when he talks about the dream...😭😭😭 I can relate. I lost my best friend to suicide in January of 2020. I've only dreamt of her once, and as soon as my eyes opened, all I wanted to do was fall back asleep so I could tell her all of the things one more time. 💔
    My heart breaks for these families that have lost their children to this epidemic. Their strength and resilience are so admirable. I cannot imagine the agony of losing a child, and I pray that someday the joy of memories made will replace the sadness they feel right now. 💙🙏💙

  • @leonaheraty3760
    @leonaheraty3760 Před 13 dny +2

    I'm so sorry for your loss. I believe Jack was visiting you from Heaven, in your dream, to let you know he's still with you all in Spirit and he loves you and doesn't blame you.
    May Jack's Soul find peace and love with our dear Lord in Heaven.
    Thank you for sharing Jack's story. I believe this will help others who are struggling with using illegal drugs.
    God bless you and your family. Some day, when God calls you home, you will be with Jack again.
    Until then, take it one day at a time and reach out to others and our dear Lord for support.
    ❤️🙏

  • @masterofwit339
    @masterofwit339 Před 14 dny +3

    What a beautiful, talented, soulful young man. This channel is multifaceted in that it not only brings social awareness to the amount of humans who fall victim to f€nt (and all of the other illicit substances mixed in with what’s out on the streets today) as well as painting the very real picture that anyone, whether young/old, first time buyer/lifelong ingester, etc, can fall victim to dying (again, be it their 1st pill or not). So many addicts are forgotten souls, be it they live(d) on the streets or never had a family to begin with (and everything in between). I truly empathize and sympathize with these families. Every single video (and I’ve watched nearly all) reminds me of those whom I have lost over the last many years to the disease of addiction. Some just couldn’t stop, others had more clean time than a lot of people watching this video have been on this earth ~ but they “went out” one last time.
    As much as I understand that this world is made up of all different kinds of humans, who come with a variety of opinions, it never ceases to hurt my soul as I continuously see just how many are uneducated or naive, ignorant or judgemental (idk which adjective can really sum it up best) as far as addiction being looked at as a *choice*.
    People can go half their lifetime (years and years) and never realize the second that first pill or puff is ingested, it’s a wrap.
    Always appreciate your continued vigilance & efforts to bring awareness, as well as let these parents/friends/families etc be seen and heard & reminisce about their lost loved one. ♥️

    • @TexasPictures
      @TexasPictures  Před 13 dny +3

      Thank you for your comments. We do have other series on our channel, some about survival with happier endings.
      From Addiction to Recovery
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      Trafficking in America
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      American Peace Officer
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      Impaired Driving Awareness
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      We're also in the early stages of developing a series about domestic violence, and another about mental health.

    • @masterofwit339
      @masterofwit339 Před 13 dny

      @@TexasPictures I’ve happily watched the survival stories but will be viewing the links you’ve provided! Thanks again for all that you do/cover

  • @michelledillon6812
    @michelledillon6812 Před 9 dny +1

    You are an amazing and loving father! Jack was blessed to have you in his life and the legacy you are creating in his name will live on for many many years! Thank you for sharing your story! I pray you find peace and comfort knowing the difference you are making🙏🏻

  • @sharingmyvoice8899
    @sharingmyvoice8899 Před 13 dny +1

    I DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY BECAUSE THE PAIN IS IN YOUR VOICE....PRAYING FOR YOU AND YOURS...MAY CHRIST CONTINUE TO CARRY ALL THOSE FOREVER GRIEVING

  • @sonquatsch8585
    @sonquatsch8585 Před 13 dny +2

    wow he was reduced to a child recounting the dream of his son trying to hold the tears back.

  • @Marymaryblackman
    @Marymaryblackman Před 8 dny +1

    I’m getting a real sense of this great young man, you have set it out for us wonderfully. I’m so so sorry for what happened to him and to your family.

  • @taniakidd9678
    @taniakidd9678 Před 8 dny +1

    You touched me through your video about your dear son. You are honoring Jack in a beautiful way by describing your experience as a learning opportunity for the rest of us. I wish you peace and love and wonderful memories of Jack. He was so lucky to have you. ❤

  • @MissWV007
    @MissWV007 Před 11 dny +2

    This one had me bawling! I agree with Jack’s dad Fentanyl is killing everyone and we have got to step up and do something NOW!!! Rest peacefully Jack ❤

  • @SaphiraAnderson-he4cg
    @SaphiraAnderson-he4cg Před 13 dny +2

    I watch these all the time and I dont know the pain the families feel fisthand but I had my son ovedose but he was bought back but watching this it had me crying thank you for helping the word get out....

  • @lizdumbrell6799
    @lizdumbrell6799 Před 13 dny +1

    I'm watching from the UK...My teenage grandsons will be watching this at the weekend......Sincere condolensces, we can see you adored each other...I'm so sorry xx

  • @cherokeeheartct8633
    @cherokeeheartct8633 Před 11 dny +3

    They are dying,younger and younger.Lost my Beautiful Mom "my best friend",to COPD.Lodt my middle Brother in 2016,drug overdose, lost my baby Brother Aug 5,2022, to drug overdose. LOST My Dad Aug 17,2023.Im so glad n thankful that my Mom wasnt here when I lost my Brothers,if she had been,she would have given up soon.But I saw my Dad loose his 2 sons,n Ive never seen my Dad cry,but he broke down like a baby.Its crazy to loose my Baby Brother Aug 5 2022,n loose my Dad 1 yr and a couple of weeks later.I am so sorry for your loss.

  • @debbieworthington6151
    @debbieworthington6151 Před 14 dny +1

    ❤🎉 Keep his memories alive! Talk about him, Often.. My son also passed during a 2001 graduation party, I don't have a

  • @RealChantyVideos
    @RealChantyVideos Před 4 dny +2

    So touched by this man. Please stay strong ❤😢

  • @Courtney8240
    @Courtney8240 Před 13 dny +2

    What you have done sir is very honorable. I lost the love of my life. 9yr anniversary is coming up but it feels like yesterday. Grief has its steps but I feel is different for all of us. I’m a pediatric icu nurse, I’ve seen innocent lives be taken. I always wonder why our pure hearted, beautiful souls are taken young. All while the ones that don’t care about others live to be old. Thank you for sharing and starting what you and your friends have. 🙏🏼💗

  • @KellyBroadway-qm8kz
    @KellyBroadway-qm8kz Před 13 dny +1

    This is a beautiful tribute to Jack. I've shared this with others that have children, and I hope they take the time to watch it. Every word was heartfelt, and the pain in your voice was evident. I realize you never get over a loss like this, but you're channeling your pain into purpose that will help others.

  • @jang5918
    @jang5918 Před 13 dny +2

    I am crying. God bless you sir.

  • @rhondaholland719
    @rhondaholland719 Před 14 dny +1

    This was completely heartbreaking. Dad you did the best you could at the time. I’m so very sorry for your incredible loss. 😢

  • @marisabryant6099
    @marisabryant6099 Před 13 dny

    Jack must be so proud of the work you’re doing. Thank you for sharing his story. I will share it with my preteen and young teen children. You are making a tremendous difference! I’m deeply sorry for your loss.

  • @sisharrington
    @sisharrington Před 13 dny +1

    What a beautiful testimony of love between this man and his son, I am so grateful we're in a day in age where not only is addiction recognized as a mental health disorder, but it's openly discussed and widely accepted by many.. prayers going up for all affected by loss and heartache from substance use disorder(s) and alcoholism that's continued to plague our society 🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @tolkienista3783
    @tolkienista3783 Před 11 dny

    I'm writing this from the UK and I'm truly sorry for the loss of your amazing son.
    I honestly don't know anything about fentanyl but I've learnt a lot about it from your honest testament and the devastating consequences it's having on young lives.
    This has been a hard watch, but a must watch.

  • @jules9645
    @jules9645 Před 14 dny

    I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss. Thank you for your bravery sharing your story.

  • @Iambrandilee
    @Iambrandilee Před 12 dny

    You sir are a beautiful human being that has turned tragedy into something that can potentially help millions of people by telling his story. Jack would be so proud of you!

  • @emilyturner2662
    @emilyturner2662 Před 12 dny +1

    Thank you for sharing your story and fighting for all of our children. You are the most amazing family, and I’m so sorry for all the pain you’ve been through. Jack was such a beautiful soul…truly one of a kind. He would be so proud of you all. Love you guys.

  • @Lisa-vj6pz
    @Lisa-vj6pz Před 14 dny +2

    You're learning how to live with your son jack while he's on the other side and the way you stay connected is through the highest frequency which is love so don't get let anything block that connection to him not anger not hatred you have to hold on to love and he will continue to show up in your dreams and you'll hear his voice you'll smell his energy.... If you didn't believe in those sort of things before.... You will believe now.... Remember that love is the frequency that keeps Jack alive and you will learn how to live with him while he's on the other side...
    .
    God bless you my friend I hope that this helps you ease some of the pain.... You're a good Papa a good father.. you did a lot as a parent for him...
    You need to stay in the space of love and joy❤... And you need to be there for the rest of your family ... God will bless you every time.... Your eyes will meet again.... The love is strong... What is your time to go to the beautiful heavenly space... Your son jack will be there to take your hand..... So stay connected in the meanwhile with the highest frequency which is love.... God bless you my friend❤

  • @annreeves77
    @annreeves77 Před 2 dny

    I've watched a lot of these stories and none have touched me quite like this one. You can feel how much this Dad loves his son. As a mother of three boys that are just breaking into adulthood, this is my biggest fear. God bless your family ❤

  • @normal1531
    @normal1531 Před 13 dny +1

    by sharing ur story i think helped your healing process. im a dad w a boy and girl cant imagine your pain. God Bless bud may you find peace and may JACK RIP.

  • @katherinetreiman9480
    @katherinetreiman9480 Před 13 dny

    Heartbreaking story. I’m so sorry for the loss of your beloved son. Thank you for sharing and educating others.

  • @Mia-qi2mi
    @Mia-qi2mi Před 4 dny +1

    The pain that im feeling right now has no words😢

  • @georgia1191
    @georgia1191 Před 13 dny +2

    It seems like it’s picking up again :( this is heartbreaking , this channel is God sent. This must be hard to do sometimes. So sorry for everyone’s loss

    • @TexasPictures
      @TexasPictures  Před 13 dny +3

      Thank you for your comments. I wouldn't describe this as "hard to do." It feels important to me. During each interview I get to see someone let go of just a little of their pain as they share, At the end of the interview I usually see glimmer of hope or satisfaction, some kind of reward in their eyes. Then I hand them a roll of Lifesavers candy and tell them, "this is for you." That brings a hard-earned smile as they catch the metaphor. It is a beautiful process that eases the storyteller's pain, maybe just a little and maybe just for a short time, but it is beautiful.
      Then, when the story is published, the views start climbing, and the comments start coming, it happens again - just a little bit of comfort. So, it isn't hard to do. Now it would be hard to stop doing this.

  • @joannsolano1094
    @joannsolano1094 Před 12 dny

    My condolences to you, family and friends. Thank you for sharing. I lost my grandson 4/17/2023 of fentanyl/meth overdose a couple of weeks before his 31st birthday. Pain is very difficult, I feel your pain.

  • @angelawilson3313
    @angelawilson3313 Před 14 dny

    I realize nothing I have to say will help but know that what you shared and how articulately you shared has touched my heart. I shared this with my son and my granddaughter who are 18 and 20. I pray your message has a profound impact to stop this evil. God bless and comfort you and your wife. And your daughter. 🙏🏻💗

  • @kathypetersen7558
    @kathypetersen7558 Před 13 dny

    My heart goes out to this man. Thank upu so much for sharing this. You are a good man.

  • @FrostyBillz
    @FrostyBillz Před 8 dny +1

    One of the first ones that actually made me tear up, love this story and love this dad.

  • @karliann1
    @karliann1 Před 12 dny +1

    Thank you for sharing your story. I have to believe these videos and those sharing these difficult life altering circumstances are saving at least one person every time. I am so sorry for the loss of Jack.