What Should You Do If You Like A Girl

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    What Should You Do If You Like A Girl
    By Br. Nouman Ali Khan
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  • @OneIslamProductions
    @OneIslamProductions  Před 2 lety +35

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    • @1BrotherFromAnotherMother
      @1BrotherFromAnotherMother Před 2 lety

      Please between 7:15 and 7:25 the word “BOPPING” is chosen to translate the Arabic word “BATIL”. I don’t know what BOPPING means but I am sure that it would have been better to chose the word FALSHOOD.

  • @gwen04414
    @gwen04414 Před 2 lety +895

    I think we all young teens needed this as much as we need food 🤧

  • @zxcrcxn9048
    @zxcrcxn9048 Před 2 lety +315

    *what to do if you like a girl*
    Me as a girl: *interesting*

  • @aadamkhan5217
    @aadamkhan5217 Před 2 lety +215

    I’m deeply in love with a girl rn but I’m scared to tell my parents that I want to marry her. I’m only 19 and I’m starting University in September In Shaa Allah. I’m planning on getting married to her after University In Shaa Allah and I’m also planning on telling my parents

    • @mohamedaadil4448
      @mohamedaadil4448 Před 2 lety

      Are u Tamilian?

    • @aadamkhan5217
      @aadamkhan5217 Před 2 lety

      @@mohamedaadil4448 No

    • @nabilr5664
      @nabilr5664 Před 2 lety +41

      Find the courage to tell them sooner than later. The longer you wait the hard it will be for you to tell them. In Sha Allah you will marry her.

    • @kopite1948
      @kopite1948 Před 2 lety +15

      If its your parents, then dont worry, youll manage, just make sure the girls parents are also happy and agree

    • @LoyalFan9383
      @LoyalFan9383 Před 2 lety +33

      Pray Tahajjud. It works wonders

  • @servantofallahthelordofthe8740

    Brothers and sisters never forget our oppressed brothers and sisters in your dua and raise awareness for them specially the uyghur brothers and sisters. They are going through pain we cant imagine. Our brothers in kashmir are also in great pain. Remember dua is the biggest strength of a believer.
    Our beloved prophet(sm) said ,'‘Whoever of you sees an evil, let him change it with his hand; if he is unable to, then with his tongue; if he is unable, then with his heart - and that is the weakest of faith.’' Narrated by Muslim in his saheeh

  • @kamraannehal527
    @kamraannehal527 Před 2 lety +82

    Dua for me please i am in very depression and anxiety.... Alhumdullilah ❤️🥺

    • @xyzg4828
      @xyzg4828 Před 2 lety +1

      AMEEN

    • @gundappingum2335
      @gundappingum2335 Před 2 lety

      🤲

    • @anaveragemuslim5355
      @anaveragemuslim5355 Před 2 lety +5

      You will get rid of it don't worry ❤️❤️
      Even i have anxiety....

    • @worshipthecreator9081
      @worshipthecreator9081 Před 2 lety +8

      Pray 5 times a day, make dua in sajdah.

    • @Trilliman707
      @Trilliman707 Před 2 lety +2

      What type of muslim suffers depression from no apparent reason yes I understand if u lost some one but or temporarily having a bad day but being depressed and miserable all the time for no apparent reason is pathetic u can even still be happy in hard times u Git Allah u have no excuse for being always depressed

  • @elmiabir7059
    @elmiabir7059 Před 2 lety +140

    The main problem is with the parents, they'll force their way,if someone proposes to them in a halal way, they'll neglect it and force the daughter to marry someone they want without her consent and in case of boys,the parents want a housemaid rather than a trustworthy companion for their child....a very common scene in Southern Asia irrespective of one's religion.

    • @cryptonitegaming5284
      @cryptonitegaming5284 Před 2 lety +15

      Very MUCH the truth... As the next generation we should stop this and make it better for the next generations to come

    • @fall1n166
      @fall1n166 Před 2 lety +6

      @@cryptonitegaming5284 yeah InshaAllah i will try my best for my childs

    • @TheUniverseZ
      @TheUniverseZ Před 2 lety +2

      Soooooooo much true.....

    • @mohamedmukthar8862
      @mohamedmukthar8862 Před 2 lety +1

      Facts

    • @kalpjain6893
      @kalpjain6893 Před 2 lety

      Just because I am curious, can you please tell me what are the halal ways of proposing a girl?

  • @jamilurrezachowdhury6586
    @jamilurrezachowdhury6586 Před 2 lety +25

    Watching this video from a rural village in Bangladesh 🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩😄

    • @MrPred
      @MrPred Před 2 lety

      He also mentioned something about Bangladesh... This is true bro

    • @arjumanara8625
      @arjumanara8625 Před 2 lety

      @@MrPred idk if this still happens in our country. Never heard of it before this video. 😂

    • @AGENT_MIFTAHUL
      @AGENT_MIFTAHUL Před měsícem

      im Bangladeshi and im watching from uae ._.

  • @nuranichoudhury9226
    @nuranichoudhury9226 Před 2 lety +186

    Who's the speaker? He is hilariously funny. Allhumdulliah may Allah guide him in the right path ameen.

  • @yoosufforhead3358
    @yoosufforhead3358 Před 2 lety +72

    wow my parents need to hear this..everything said in this video is so true

  • @garythesnail7631
    @garythesnail7631 Před 2 lety +16

    This video is one of the best I've seen so far. Ma Sha Allah for this

  • @muhammadchoudhury6818
    @muhammadchoudhury6818 Před 2 lety +194

    Man. It's not even that. A guy who can flirt with a daughter can do it with any daughter. It's not love nouman. It's lust. In reality we should all have taqwa. And have trust in ALLAH. We should at least be praying our five times Salah. Before even considering marriage. As this is what ALLAH has told us to do.

    • @haruyanto8085
      @haruyanto8085 Před 2 lety +25

      Just cause they can flirt with anyone, doesn't mean they will, that's one of the things that make it "love", we Muslims should at least be doing the five pillars of Islam, not just salah
      Allah has also told us to get married

    • @yeager9731
      @yeager9731 Před 2 lety +20

      @@haruyanto8085 that's correct but not doing salah can weaken ur ability to focus on the rest of the pillars. A heart who follows just the pillars without the salah is missing the most important piece. If you do salah your other pillars will strengthen.

    • @muhammadchoudhury6818
      @muhammadchoudhury6818 Před 2 lety +2

      @@yeager9731 JazakALLAH. I appreciate you defending me.

    • @ilyasmohammad5045
      @ilyasmohammad5045 Před 2 lety +13

      Asalaam u alaikum sorry brother your version of Islam isn't my salvation!
      Allah made man and woman ....
      I met my wife at work, we worked for 4 years together I done my research if they were single who's daughter she is does she have any brother's? Etc .....
      I then asked if she would accept my offer in marriage....she was reluctant but she was so shocked but I knew she liked me as a person so did I, and I didn't want to have wrong thoughts so I had to man up and ask .... she asked if she could have time I agreed, when she went home and spoke to her mother I then spoke with her mother and father with my parents and we got married alhumdulillah........ why can't I ask my future wife a simple question? You shouldn't speak against someone teaching you Islam especially if they are correct to my understanding . If you don't agree leave it and take what you think is right . Let Allah be the judge .
      salaam.

    • @saucepan2342
      @saucepan2342 Před 2 lety +1

      @@yeager9731 wise words from eren bin grisha.

  • @yemam8547
    @yemam8547 Před 2 lety +40

    there's nothing to do if you have no money or job , so if you're a student a university for example you can only wait and suffer for years until you finish this .... study, thats the life of most of young people, that's the reality , ya Rab help us 😢

    • @nadnad6859
      @nadnad6859 Před 2 lety +5

      If ur parents were ohk with providing ur family then u can get married… otherwise wait nd pray to Allah.

    • @molanajiserabtakaro1884
      @molanajiserabtakaro1884 Před 2 lety

      Contact to molana ji ⁹⁷⁸⁵¹³⁵⁵⁰⁶👈 whatsp now.☎️

    • @Ok-sr5vj
      @Ok-sr5vj Před 2 lety +1

      You can always keep the nikah and the wedding later whenever your financially ready if that's your case 👍

    • @mizondez53
      @mizondez53 Před 2 lety

      Or y’all can just get engaged and wait it out together 👌🏽

  • @Umair7Ansari
    @Umair7Ansari Před 2 lety +2

    Much Needed One 🖤

  • @greencoolmoss
    @greencoolmoss Před 2 lety +8

    My children are gonna be so lucky in this regard inshallah

  • @saleimahmad6753
    @saleimahmad6753 Před 2 lety +2

    Masha Allah hoping everyone would let their children listen to this lecture, really thanks for ya reminder

  • @Revelations_of_Islam
    @Revelations_of_Islam Před 5 měsíci +1

    *🌍🕊 Let's join in prayer for the protection of humanity. May Allah keep us safe and grant us strength*

  • @__-rd1hp
    @__-rd1hp Před 2 lety +3

    This make me feel good .. Alhamdulillah ...❤

  • @hannanfawzan1363
    @hannanfawzan1363 Před 2 lety +5

    Masha Allah
    This is exactly what all father's should listen ❤💟❤

  • @idealbusinessman18
    @idealbusinessman18 Před 2 lety +24

    I really needed this video! Coz I'm kinda confused and I don't wanna offend Allah.

  • @ayrafpathan7948
    @ayrafpathan7948 Před 2 lety +1

    Needed one💪💙

  • @abdulawal833
    @abdulawal833 Před 2 lety +24

    "Bangladesh and hide you in a village"
    Me: As a Bangladeshi...😶😶😶😶😶😶 99.9 percent truueee😔

  • @abdul-razakyahaya4833
    @abdul-razakyahaya4833 Před 2 lety

    Jazakha Allahu Khairan Sheikh!!!

  • @mkr5093
    @mkr5093 Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much for the guidance

  • @justweirdkid
    @justweirdkid Před rokem +1

    Thankyou sir..this video save my life and help me a lot to keep positive😊🙏

  • @rudemood9837
    @rudemood9837 Před 2 lety

    I thank you so much for this.

  • @shiekhashraf5378
    @shiekhashraf5378 Před 2 lety +5

    How great speakers we have in Islam.
    Love you so much ❤️.
    But unfortunately some ignorant traditional speakers currupted by culture ,are not able to speak truth about nikkah.
    Love Islam ❤️

  • @miratharillahi
    @miratharillahi Před 2 lety +1

    Great speech ❤

  • @tafseerrahman5736
    @tafseerrahman5736 Před 2 lety

    Thanks for the shout out @2:24 🤪

  • @kasuji1
    @kasuji1 Před 2 lety +4

    in some cultures its very difficult to approach parents regarding these matters because it is not something openly discussed....it makes things very difficult

  • @wasimcharity4all
    @wasimcharity4all Před 2 lety

    Amazing!

  • @clutchlegend6415
    @clutchlegend6415 Před 2 lety +1

    Some people when they be like 20 years old when there young they pray but when there older they think they can do anything Allah is watching don’t try to hide

  • @hassamahmed8053
    @hassamahmed8053 Před 2 lety +1

    MashAllah we all should take guidance from it ❤️
    May Allah help us to know what we’re exactly meant for and mean to be 🤍

  • @nahyanrajput3588
    @nahyanrajput3588 Před 2 lety +20

    You know what even as a Muslim, I'll say I would to like to have a better half one day Insha Allah but staying single is peaceful😌

  • @akhtars9602
    @akhtars9602 Před 2 lety +2

    4:33 first time that I heard Ustad Nouman Ali Khan speaking udru. Wow💚

  • @aineemetassan4719
    @aineemetassan4719 Před 2 lety

    its beautiful story tabarakkallah:)

  • @mo33chief3
    @mo33chief3 Před 2 lety

    Thank you because I was wondering about that.

  • @usvmah.4117
    @usvmah.4117 Před 2 lety +5

    We need to be more open minded towards these things rather than just look the other way.

  • @InshasChoice
    @InshasChoice Před 2 lety +30

    The problem with it all is that you don't know who you're going to end up marrying. I know people are always changing, but imagine getting married to someone who's a narc/socio etc and these people mask it well in front of others. All you can do is pray for the best

    • @FaHad-xx2ik
      @FaHad-xx2ik Před 2 lety +8

      I thought of this, but with prayer and a person that fears Allah and has taqwa you are good to go🤝🏾

    • @kasuji1
      @kasuji1 Před 2 lety +1

      well Allah says in the quran good men and women are made for each other....so if your from the good category you'll end up with a good guy in sha allah

    • @ismailelmassaoudi4317
      @ismailelmassaoudi4317 Před 2 lety

      That also true

  • @Thebillioniar
    @Thebillioniar Před 2 lety +1

    My All time favorite... ustadh NAK
    ALWAYS ASK ALLAH SWT TO MAKE IT EASIER FOR ME TO MEET THIS MAN BORN WITH GOLDEN WINGS... INSHALLAH..

  • @ayoubniya9576
    @ayoubniya9576 Před 2 lety

    Nice video👍🏽

  • @healthandwealth3258
    @healthandwealth3258 Před 2 lety +4

    Really great 👏

  • @abdikafarmohamed4685
    @abdikafarmohamed4685 Před 2 lety +3

    "Somali"
    "AstaghferuALLAH, SOMALI"
    "Yes ,somali"
    🇸🇴 somali greating you brothers and sisters

  • @saadtahir2023
    @saadtahir2023 Před 2 lety

    LOVE FROM CANADA

  • @ahmadcheema4202
    @ahmadcheema4202 Před 2 lety

    MASHAALLAH
    Awesome SHEIKH

  • @ilyasmohammad5045
    @ilyasmohammad5045 Před 2 lety +3

    I love this speech

  • @SenseiDotes
    @SenseiDotes Před 2 lety

    One of the best khotba

  • @mohammadayub2760
    @mohammadayub2760 Před rokem +1

    Salaam to everyone if u want every thing to go smoothly give plenty of sadqa inshallah ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @shaheenuchiha7523
    @shaheenuchiha7523 Před 2 lety +1

    This video change my whole perspective of Nikah and interaction b/w man and women before nikah

  • @ashalazmi7989
    @ashalazmi7989 Před 2 lety +4

    Please pray for me I am 21 and I am surely going to convince my parents soon and go to her house infront of her father. Please brothers and sisters pray for good because we love each other too much with respect and happiness

  • @worshipthecreator9081
    @worshipthecreator9081 Před 2 lety

    Love The Somalian sister's. Met them on Hajj... First time. There lovely people
    Ma Shaa Allah.

  • @ilimselyardm9698
    @ilimselyardm9698 Před rokem

    May Allah bless you sir, thank you

  • @messimagisterial4216
    @messimagisterial4216 Před 2 lety +1

    So underrated

  • @saadtahir2023
    @saadtahir2023 Před 2 lety

    NICE VIDEO BRO

  • @tasrickhasan6899
    @tasrickhasan6899 Před 2 lety +5

    I need to show this video to my mum.

  • @zeeshanhaider5376
    @zeeshanhaider5376 Před 2 lety

    Mashallah brother

  • @feelinggood7214
    @feelinggood7214 Před 2 lety +1

    We all need love🌝👍🏼

  • @mahfuzahmad4105
    @mahfuzahmad4105 Před 2 lety +5

    Pray for me..I’m 21 and going to marry😇

  • @ecodrive77
    @ecodrive77 Před 2 lety

    Mashallah it's nice

  • @starfishnum3751
    @starfishnum3751 Před 2 lety +2

    The humour is always in the next level

  • @AGENT_MIFTAHUL
    @AGENT_MIFTAHUL Před měsícem

    may Allah make it easy for everyone looking for spouses despite their age, their behavior, their nature, their looks. ameen.

  • @wahidzamantdr
    @wahidzamantdr Před 2 lety +11

    Dude, how did Bangladesh get in here? i haven't heard my country's name in any videos of this channel and suddenly he mentions Bangladesh. wow XD

  • @Flick119
    @Flick119 Před 2 lety +2

    The problem is that for those muslims who are teenagers like me, I am 14 years old but if you get this feeling you will have to wait for a long time until you get married, and the bigger problem is that I see her everyday at school, it is getting really hard for me to be able to keep this to myself and not tell anyone, and I am scared to tell my parents and I don't know what to do, hope for me the best please.

  • @moose1629
    @moose1629 Před 2 lety +2

    Notification Squad

  • @joeldillmann6417
    @joeldillmann6417 Před 2 lety +2

    Mashallah

  • @minecraftergamer3748
    @minecraftergamer3748 Před 2 lety +1

    A worthy 9 minutes of my life

  • @unknownh8708
    @unknownh8708 Před 2 lety

    I like his speech😅💕👍🏻

  • @samadpathan4500
    @samadpathan4500 Před rokem +1

    I’m still scared to share this with my parents 🙂

  • @samsunga4157
    @samsunga4157 Před 2 lety +1

    Ma sha allah

  • @MaksatS-qz5qy
    @MaksatS-qz5qy Před 10 měsíci

    MashAllah

  • @audiophile...
    @audiophile... Před 2 lety +19

    Tell her that you like her and get friendzoned or even blocked permanently.

    • @cryptonitegaming5284
      @cryptonitegaming5284 Před 2 lety +23

      Then u won't be wasting time on her... If she isn't interested then u know she isn't rather than just cowering and not telling her .. having that regret it's better to face rejection than to have regret

    • @lnoorplaylist
      @lnoorplaylist Před 2 lety +1

      Then move on

    • @trusfrated4645
      @trusfrated4645 Před 2 lety +1

      It might be like that because Allah has better plans. Remember that

  • @Motivationalempire948
    @Motivationalempire948 Před 2 lety +1

    Subhanallah

  • @nassermellor2878
    @nassermellor2878 Před 2 lety

    Salam alikum brothers and sisters I was in a haram relationship today and her family got involved may Allah forgive me and this video has helped me out a lot thanks

  • @Lbj-pj7uy
    @Lbj-pj7uy Před 2 lety +2

    I am 18 years old and i really want to get married but I am afraid to tell my parents i am still in college it's hard this days every one make me a dua may allah protect me from haram

    • @Al_MustafaHaider
      @Al_MustafaHaider Před 2 lety

      @Walk Straight Path astugfurrulah. I don’t think that is right to say online.

  • @bits2268
    @bits2268 Před 2 lety

    good video

  • @sohailali6193
    @sohailali6193 Před 2 lety +3

    You do nothing , you keep your head down and keep walking and forget about it.......right

  • @slaiyan_x
    @slaiyan_x Před 2 lety

    I love the way the Imam explains😂

  • @insane__one9651
    @insane__one9651 Před 2 lety +1

    I'm shooked that some persons are present.....and I'm 19 and my family told me that whole thing when I was about 16 years.....and the fun fact is that I live in Pakistan.....😅🥺😊

  • @AMAANOP
    @AMAANOP Před 2 lety +3

    4:35 🙈😂😂 epic

  • @Nasirkhan-vc9uh
    @Nasirkhan-vc9uh Před 2 lety +1

    Nice

  • @sabbirahmedsumon3678
    @sabbirahmedsumon3678 Před 2 lety +1

    4:39 I am also from Bangladesh central city.
    And that's true among teenagers

  • @lovehealth2009
    @lovehealth2009 Před 2 lety

    MashaAllah

  • @duaz9043
    @duaz9043 Před 2 lety +1

    LA ILAHA ILLALLAH MUHAMMADUR RASULULLAH🌺
    SUBHANALLAHI WA BIHAMDIHI SUBHANALLAHIL~AZEEM ALHAMDULILLAH ALLAHU AKBAR Astaghfirullah Al Azeem🌺 ALLAHUMMA SALLI 'ALA SAYYIDINA MUHAMMADIN WA' ALA ALI SAYYIDINA MUHAMMADIN WA BAARIK WA SALLIM🌺

  • @kashanahmed5890
    @kashanahmed5890 Před 2 lety +9

    Moosa (A.S) was 1000 times the manly I would never be.

    • @hellloman6739
      @hellloman6739 Před 2 lety +1

      tru

    • @molanajiserabtakaro1884
      @molanajiserabtakaro1884 Před 2 lety

      Contact to molana ji ⁹⁷⁸⁵¹³⁵⁵⁰⁶👈 whatsp now.☎️

    • @footb9ll217
      @footb9ll217 Před 2 lety +5

      Don't be sad, Moussa aleyhi salam has gone through hardships that you could never have endured.

  • @toxicwolf2548
    @toxicwolf2548 Před 2 lety +1

    seeing this video after taking out 4 dates last month

  • @taklacidadas
    @taklacidadas Před 2 lety +4

    I need guidance please.
    I am in love with a Christian girl that seems pretty nice but I only want to marry a devout Muslim since I want to be able to raise good children inshallah. She was in Turkey many times and she knows my culture very well by now. I would love if she converted to Islam but I don‘t know how to ease this besides by making lots of dua for her to be guided. Any advice my brothers and sisters?
    Jazzakallahu Khair

    • @aimersppp7221
      @aimersppp7221 Před 2 lety

      It is OK to marry a christian girl BTW , it is only forbidden for a Muslim girl to marry a christian boy , that's it

    • @worshipthecreator9081
      @worshipthecreator9081 Před 2 lety

      @@aimersppp7221 ONLY IF SHE IS A PRACTICING CHRISTIAN.

  • @Rehan.Ahmad1991
    @Rehan.Ahmad1991 Před 2 lety

    I Think My parent should Listen to this Video

  • @roonaqrafiq4936
    @roonaqrafiq4936 Před 2 lety +5

    Who is watching under 18🙃

  • @AzrafShawty
    @AzrafShawty Před 2 lety +5

    I like this girl but ... She is 2D..

  • @jayedahamedjayed6355
    @jayedahamedjayed6355 Před 2 lety

    The Hindi part with Bangladesh made me laught for five minute 😂.
    By the i am From Bangladesh. And love from me.

  • @HijabiWrites
    @HijabiWrites Před 2 lety +1

    Something everyone should understand

  • @maditationmusicbelievers4323

    Good work my name is Arif from India 🇮🇳 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳

  • @crls_roger
    @crls_roger Před 2 lety

    The Bangladesh part was funny.

  • @user-su3nc4or6d
    @user-su3nc4or6d Před 2 lety

    4:20 I wish my parents could also understand this.

  • @muhamednaufal8296
    @muhamednaufal8296 Před 2 lety

    My parents and the society i live have that more conservative type of an approach. Its hard here to actually have a communication with parents on this topic. Its not completely in our hands they have to change their perspective too Even if i like a girl and i address my parents they take it as a serious issue and make it worse inside my house. Lets just pray everything will be fine when our time comes and ask allah to make it easy and possible and acceptable. ❤️

  • @ahnaflfc369
    @ahnaflfc369 Před 2 lety +4

    4:38 we gotta take you back to Bangladesh 🤣🤣🤣

  • @moseshappy7994
    @moseshappy7994 Před 2 lety

    Bottile gets translated as boppin 🤣

  • @moriombegum8363
    @moriombegum8363 Před 2 lety

    Exactly

  • @husainnarsingarhwala856

    I hope i could have sent this message to someone 💔

  • @omarm3996
    @omarm3996 Před 2 lety

    I love the ladies