@@rafaymuhammed5889 It wasn’t meant to be my friend but all I can say is Alhamdullilah. It hurts but it has made me realise I’m not even ready to get married and honestly ask myself if I was this girl would I marry me the answer to that is No I’m not even finished my degree and can’t provide ask yourself are you actually ready and worthy to be married at this point in life? Can you provide for and pay rent for a place are working and can afford to live? If not move on focus on yourself and ask her again when your ready or throw it out there and be prepared for heartbreak best of luck brother may Allah grant us all Pious wife’s and children insha allah
Nouman Ali Khan just stated what I fear about marriage, "A hungry lion out there to traumatise me." And I try to put my hopes in Allah otherwise I have no hope in the people around me.
I fear the same about THE girl. What if she is cunning, demanding, patience-less and drama-creator. But I know if I'll be right, Allah will choose the right for me. الطیبات لالطیبین... Pious women for pious men. Al-Quran
In both qur’an and hadith,we are told to seek the kind of spouse or partner,and we can never judge a person or how he’s inside,but however we can trust Allah swt and his decisions,and right for us would be to choose that kind of person,if a man or a woman fears allah swt and follows sunnah,in shah allah we r supposed to find the right person, zazak allah khair
@@rajibkhan8964 and how would you be able to tell if a man is God-fearing or not? He may be punctual in his prayers, fasts, pays zakat but in the end could be a horrible monster, you just never know.
It's true it happened with a relative of my friend, she was only 17 and literally don't have any idea how to deal with a man, and one day her parents forced her into marriage. her husband brought her back to her family after a week saying she wasnt ready or shes not grown enough. the girl was traumatized.
I feel really sad for her. I hope no girl gets to face this situation. I also hope that she gets a better partner in the future. May Allah grant all of us Hidayah.
Very well said, I always tell people what u just said. Being over conservative just ruins the mentality of young people and then haram things start to happen because they don't know any other way. Well explained :)
Struggling to get married, unable to find a suitable spouse 😮 Please pray for me brothers to find a righteous and suitable spouse, I will also pray for you brothers who are struggling to get married May Allah swt make easy for all of us, ameen ❤
This is so true😔💔 Especially what he said about Makkah... It is so restricted there that you never know how to deal with the opposite gender. So many lessons in just a couple of minutes Jazakallah khair Ustadh
SubhanAllah ... Utz wow! You can be so so funny when you talk about a serious subject like marriage ... MaasyaAllah what you said is so true too where I came from! Parents and adults need to change progressively successful in this dainage!
this opened my eyes a little. I always had a thought, how do i get to know someone if i cant get to know them. how do i meet someone. and then with him saying 2 people not knowing each other getting married, done @3:11 . was also how i was thinking getting married was going to be like. i hope to learn more. even online i see this type of conservative when im trying to learn more, and leads me back to thinking the same things. There is also a question i dont know how to look up because its kind of specific
listen everyone don't take it as its just a video or its just about ustad nouman we are youngsters we can bring the change in our society if you see anything like this (what ustad has said) try to stop it at least open your mouth against these wrong and worst things. Remember saying haq is aslo an important part of Islam.
Bro. Let's talk about Mutaa. A private marriage which an independent woman can dictate terms of. Why do men approach women, even engage in haraam..but refuse the halal option of Mutaa? Surely, a private marriage is sanctified? Peace.
Bro marriage is done with good intentions that is establishing a musilm family having children and raising the future muslims, fulfilling each others needs in a halaal way.
*Haram.... Sahabas discontinued Mutaa & Was Discontinued in the times of Prophet himself, but some sahabas continued it because they were unaware of the change. Mutaa was destroying lives and starting something you can describe as legal prostitution because they saw what it was turning into, and to be honest was destroying lives for women. And Allhamdhllillaah Sunnis don't practice it only Shias do and if you wanna know what it looks like CZcams Mutaa and you will get documentaries about Iran where women practice Muta and get paid & they do it on weekly basis with different men and it's basically prostitution now.*
Biggest challenge Dajjal age Hard to find true people to get Job income to earn money all having Shaytaan expectation having sickness of Dajjal.... Then think what this single Man can find true brave righteous women righteous Muslim family ????? He don't know why this much whole Muslim world ignoring to get spoil his life ... When Man asking support for Marriage keep searching right truthful family it's like a joke funny to Hypocrites..
What is meant when he says a buy that has never dealt with women and a girl that that has never dealt with a man? What about mother, sister, brother, father?
The fact that this guy got busted for trying to commit zina with women and was found guilty of it makes this video all the more hilarious, the same guy that invented a LIE regarding the Prophet S.A.W to normalize women coming to the masjid, what a joke.
Whoever impressed by this brother please know about Quran and Hadith, how prophet Muhammad (pbuh) arrange his daughters marriage and companions followed his way. They comes first in Macca and Madina not the current Saudi Arabia. Muslim brothers and sisters use some logic in here. Watch and listen Quran and Hadith more and more not this funny lecture and btw Islam is not a funny religion. Allah show us right path.
الله يهديك اقل شيء ان تقول بعض الناس ، لكن تقول مكة والمدينة وتعيبهم ، مثل لنفسك فأنت احقر من المدينة والمكة وانا أهل المدينة اعرف اكثر منك وعشت في مكة ، وأيضا تضحكون عليهم ، هذا مثل لماكان الإسلام جديد ، يطحكون على صحابة
I’m going to ask this girl I like next week, brothers make Duaa for me
Good luck my brother may Allah make it easy for you
what happened bruh? how's everything going?
what happened bro i would love to know am kinda in the same situation i could really use your suggestion
@@rafaymuhammed5889 It wasn’t meant to be my friend but all I can say is Alhamdullilah. It hurts but it has made me realise I’m not even ready to get married and honestly ask myself if I was this girl would I marry me the answer to that is No I’m not even finished my degree and can’t provide ask yourself are you actually ready and worthy to be married at this point in life? Can you provide for and pay rent for a place are working and can afford to live? If not move on focus on yourself and ask her again when your ready or throw it out there and be prepared for heartbreak best of luck brother may Allah grant us all Pious wife’s and children insha allah
May allah make it easy for u akhi
Nouman Ali Khan just stated what I fear about marriage, "A hungry lion out there to traumatise me." And I try to put my hopes in Allah otherwise I have no hope in the people around me.
Have hope in them and talk to them. Ask Allah for the strength and then talk to them. May Allah help you Amern
@@talhatariqyuluqatdis Yeah, about that, I can't even do that until my father confirms everything 😒
I fear the same about THE girl. What if she is cunning, demanding, patience-less and drama-creator.
But I know if I'll be right, Allah will choose the right for me.
الطیبات لالطیبین...
Pious women for pious men. Al-Quran
In both qur’an and hadith,we are told to seek the kind of spouse or partner,and we can never judge a person or how he’s inside,but however we can trust Allah swt and his decisions,and right for us would be to choose that kind of person,if a man or a woman fears allah swt and follows sunnah,in shah allah we r supposed to find the right person, zazak allah khair
@@rajibkhan8964 and how would you be able to tell if a man is God-fearing or not? He may be punctual in his prayers, fasts, pays zakat but in the end could be a horrible monster, you just never know.
Behind the fun a very serious true and powerful msg
Salute you man👏🎓
Have seen such things in society.. very sad and really true
It's true it happened with a relative of my friend, she was only 17 and literally don't have any idea how to deal with a man, and one day her parents forced her into marriage. her husband brought her back to her family after a week saying she wasnt ready or shes not grown enough. the girl was traumatized.
I feel really sad for her. I hope no girl gets to face this situation. I also hope that she gets a better partner in the future. May Allah grant all of us Hidayah.
@@reem4039 Ameen
May Allah help her, her family, her ex husband and you Ameen
what kind of parents are they😠
@@talhatariqyuluqatdis Are you an embicle why pray for her parents or the ex husband. This poor lady, may Allah bless her.
"A hungry lion and a lamb who doesn't know the characteristics of the lion"
Depressing thing to know if someone could feel
Very well said, I always tell people what u just said. Being over conservative just ruins the mentality of young people and then haram things start to happen because they don't know any other way. Well explained :)
Allah said
"You can't make Haram what I made Halal,
You can't make Halal, what I made Haram"
Struggling to get married, unable to find a suitable spouse 😮
Please pray for me brothers to find a righteous and suitable spouse, I will also pray for you brothers who are struggling to get married
May Allah swt make easy for all of us, ameen ❤
Amen 😢
You put this matter in its right perspective ...Jazakallah.
Such concern for women... May ALLAH bless him
I wish I could show this to my parents 😭
Diamond Light
Yes you can dear
Diamond Light you can show them now
Haha send them
Diamond Light Send them this from an unknown number & if u don’t hv Desi parents then i can guess u can send them from ur number too 😂
@@sarashah1558 They won't even know its from her 😂
This is so true😔💔
Especially what he said about Makkah...
It is so restricted there that you never know how to deal with the opposite gender.
So many lessons in just a couple of minutes
Jazakallah khair Ustadh
SubhanAllah ... Utz wow! You can be so so funny when you talk about a serious subject like marriage ... MaasyaAllah what you said is so true too where I came from! Parents and adults need to change progressively successful in this dainage!
I really enjoyed the video & laughed a lot 😂😂. But it was really informative
There is nothing seems wrong she has not given her own number but her father's number but still some people overreact
He describes everything so good
I just saw a girl and liked her so i was searching how to approach muslim girl for marriage
Good approach bro mashallah
this opened my eyes a little. I always had a thought, how do i get to know someone if i cant get to know them. how do i meet someone. and then with him saying 2 people not knowing each other getting married, done @3:11 . was also how i was thinking getting married was going to be like. i hope to learn more. even online i see this type of conservative when im trying to learn more, and leads me back to thinking the same things.
There is also a question i dont know how to look up because its kind of specific
SubhanAllah , well analyzed, well said and all true. Keep up the good work sir.
Just how perfect...Lecture...!!!!
Mashallah...Subhanallah....
Drone attack marriage letter received for proposal 😂😂😂
Guys pls make dua for me, im gonna ask her hand for marriage, pls make dua so i have the courage 😭
Thanks for clarifying
listen everyone don't take it as its just a video or its just about ustad nouman we are youngsters we can bring the change in our society if you see anything like this (what ustad has said) try to stop it at least open your mouth against these wrong and worst things. Remember saying haq is aslo an important part of Islam.
Anybody have the link of the whole lectute?
Thank you ❤
Allahumma barik he gave the most amazing example of a hungry lion and a lamb who doesn't know the characteristics of a lion
Anyone have the full video link
Plzzz
Cant believe its 7 yrs ago
Where can i find the full lecture
semo _lishy bayyinah institute
Read ayatul kursi after the 5 fard prayers to attain jannah -> Source: al-Mu’jam al-Kabīr 7406
Unfortunately a lot of ppl nowadays go to extremes very unnecessarily and at the end of the day it just leads to haram😢
Assalamualaikum brother....can u plss tell where can i find the full video?
@@banhtulensoii damn, delicious recipes
This is soooooooooooo serious... So serious
Ustad! U live in USA so u understand this thing! But conservative families don't understand this
You may need to understand he is talking about how marriage was proposed 1300 years ago! Nabi Pak fell in love too!
I think its the most important portion of this lecture.... 1:48 to 2:30
Thank you!
Where can I find the full video?
ending is superb
We rlly need to stop taking religion to extremes cuz allah has made things easy for us and we just make things hard for ourselves
Excellent may allah grant you long life
Ameen
АLLĀH.capitalize the letters
امين يا الله
Mashallah
hahahah,awesome video
Full video
❤
AYYYYEEEE
Assalaamu alaykum warahmatullah
@@umarmohammed9018 wa'alaikumasalaam wa rahmatullah
Hahaha
Bro. Let's talk about Mutaa. A private marriage which an independent woman can dictate terms of. Why do men approach women, even engage in haraam..but refuse the halal option of Mutaa? Surely, a private marriage is sanctified? Peace.
Bro marriage is done with good intentions that is establishing a musilm family having children and raising the future muslims, fulfilling each others needs in a halaal way.
*Haram.... Sahabas discontinued Mutaa & Was Discontinued in the times of Prophet himself, but some sahabas continued it because they were unaware of the change. Mutaa was destroying lives and starting something you can describe as legal prostitution because they saw what it was turning into, and to be honest was destroying lives for women. And Allhamdhllillaah Sunnis don't practice it only Shias do and if you wanna know what it looks like CZcams Mutaa and you will get documentaries about Iran where women practice Muta and get paid & they do it on weekly basis with different men and it's basically prostitution now.*
Biggest challenge Dajjal age Hard to find true people to get Job income to earn money all having Shaytaan expectation having sickness of Dajjal....
Then think what this single Man can find true brave righteous women righteous Muslim family ?????
He don't know why this much whole Muslim world ignoring to get spoil his life ...
When Man asking support for Marriage keep searching right truthful family it's like a joke funny to Hypocrites..
😢😢
What is meant when he says a buy that has never dealt with women and a girl that that has never dealt with a man?
What about mother, sister, brother, father?
He meant non-mahram men/women .your colleagues, acquaintances etc. apart from your family members
@@skull5309 and because dealing with mahrams and non mahrams are two seperate and extremely different things
ASlm what if someo😮ne was already brotroted to this girl giving out her fathers no
The fact that this guy got busted for trying to commit zina with women and was found guilty of it makes this video all the more hilarious, the same guy that invented a LIE regarding the Prophet S.A.W to normalize women coming to the masjid, what a joke.
Whoever impressed by this brother please know about Quran and Hadith, how prophet Muhammad (pbuh) arrange his daughters marriage and companions followed his way. They comes first in Macca and Madina not the current Saudi Arabia. Muslim brothers and sisters use some logic in here. Watch and listen Quran and Hadith more and more not this funny lecture and btw Islam is not a funny religion. Allah show us right path.
ﷺ
Hey give me your dad number 😂
الله يهديك اقل شيء ان تقول بعض الناس ، لكن تقول مكة والمدينة وتعيبهم ، مثل لنفسك فأنت احقر من المدينة والمكة
وانا أهل المدينة اعرف اكثر منك وعشت في مكة ،
وأيضا تضحكون عليهم ، هذا مثل لماكان الإسلام جديد ، يطحكون على صحابة
فنحن اذا تزوجنا نحترام احترام ، وليس ما قلت