"Date Me Or You're Transphobic!" - Trans Activist
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- čas přidán 14. 07. 2020
- Reacting to people who think that those without a preference for trans people are inherently transphobic.
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Like this video or you're transphobic.
Blaire is the absolute f'ing Queen!
Girl where did u get that top? I need it in my lifeee
Love u ❤️💕
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Much love and support!
No one owes you sex or a relationship.
Period.
exactly unfortunately many cannot grasp this concept.
Yep. The more Blaire spoke, the more I realized that this logic is very similar to the way incels think -- that the opposite sex owes them something, namely, sex. And guess what, they hate women, so...
facts ^^. i love how they mentioned how they’re not famous as if it matters..? like most straight men don’t want non-feminine ppl regardless of the fame that may come with it. idk it just sounds kinda manipulative and gross to me
They don't but people are built for it. Without it, most people are miserable.
Also, no one owes you sex when you're ON your period.
People: "You have to respect everyone's sexuality!"
Also people: "if you're not attracted to a trans person, you're transphobic".
Me. o.O
Me: Surprized pikachu face.
If the left didnt have double standards...
@@shadowsa2b they wouldnt have standards
Them confederates trynna drag blaire
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shadowsa2b im leftist but i agree the left has some issues
as a lesbian a lot of trans “women” love to gaslight us when it comes to dating and it is a turn off
omg right
this is so true, I had a guy (not transitioned and then after i blocked him he changed his pronouns in his bio to he/him 💀) wouldn’t take no for an answer and kept texting me off different numbers. he literally did nothing to identify as a women and got mad when i said i didn’t like him
As a bi woman I see this as well.
@Ana Luisa I understand very well. I don’t think I could do that either. It just doesn’t feel ”right”. Ok, Blaire could be an only exception, ha 😂
@Ana Luisa ?
“They look like *this* and are CONFUSED as to why straight men don’t want them.”
That got a good chuckle out of me when you put up their pictures. Those two are borderline narcissistic and entitled if they think their ethnicity,not the fact they have a beard, is the reason straight men aren’t trying to date them.
As a women with ancestors from India, I can assure you, we have no trouble getting a ton of matches on dating Apps in a predominantly white society.
@@SaheeliRai That was her point. Straight men are not dating them because of their "ethnicity" - they are not dating them because they are attracted tp females, not gay male crossdressers, lol.
Borderline? They're full blown narcissists. Just like any religious nuts, cultists, or leftists, they think their fairy tales should be validated. Their actions are driven by faith, assumptions, feelings, and fairy tales instead of facts.
I always assumed they were looking for gay men? Not straight men smh
One of them has nearly Austin Powers level body hair, and that character has the extreme case of male body hair! 🤣 They want straight men but lack feminine form, lack of body hair, breasts, and girl bits. Basically just men in dresses with makeup and think that's all it takes to look like a woman. If straight men went for what they had, they wouldn't be straight. 🙄
"Straight boys are so cute"... they're not even saying these boys are so cute, they're literally saying that they have a fetish towards straight men. Some people within the community have a sick fantasy where they think they can turn a straight man into something else as if it's a choice
Predatory undertones in there, definitely. It's embarrassing the article tried to play it off as well. I'm gay, I would never say anything like that.
That's Jeffree Star right there
Yes yes yes, well put!
Ever hear the line 'spaghetti is straight until you warm it up'? That kind of fetish isn't completely unheard of, unfortunately.
LITERALLY, I am so sick of hearing phases like that. It’s so wrong.
Why doesn't anyone ask them why they are not dating gay men? Are they homophobic?
Little Witch Good point - I genuinely think defining themselves as cross-dressing gay men might be their best bet!
I am gay and I won't date them either. Sorry. Let straight dude have them.
@@sohailape I dont think this is a gender issue. These 'beauties' look like they just discovered fire. Let no one have them
Funny thing, they are not looking for trans female to male that are attracted to females. I would call that a masculine or butch lesbian, but with this line of thinking, surely that means they are straight men.
Yeah no lmfao. Let them go for straight men cause my gay ass won't be 😂😂
But honestly no gay man with common sense would be caught dead with these two.
As a Transsexual, I never imagined in a million years we'd see the evolution of '' Non-Binary '' and frankly I support gender non-conformity, but this demand to expect Men who sleep with them is beyond insane. The dating world isn't designed to be '' inclusive '' in the way in which they'd like it to be. We're all going to find different people attractive. I've never gotten so upset if a man doesn't find me attractive.
The irony is that they call themselves as non binary but they put their sex in the app as female.
@@samuelsouza3054 thats the only thing they can fall on when they lose their smoke of genders and sex and binary fussing
@@samuelsouza3054 fr
I have an idea, I can be a " Schrödinger's Transphobic ".
When I meet those creepy crazy trans activist, I turn transphobic.
When I meet the decent trans who have human common sense , I am no longer transphobic and welcome them to be friends.
These same 'women' don't understand why we don't feel comfortable with them in private female spaces either! Delulu.
lmfaoo this is so embarrassing imagine having a whole article written about how you can't get laid
Their poor parents.
Lol I didn't even think of that!!!!!😂🤣😂🤣
This !! I would be like "girl stfu, do not put my name in this" hobestly i knew whk it was about before she brought it up. Its hella sad
C'mon.. did you see the pictures? These guys have no shame
nordic bear Uhhhh no they aren’t.... most liberal men are good looking
As a heterosexual man, women aren't my "preference". They are literally the *only* thing I'm attracted to.
*transphobic*
@@acerowoodberry1236 I'm not afraid of trans people 😂😂😂
@@Grizzlox tell that to *Jacob and Alak*😤😤😤😤😤
lol mood
@@Grizzlox Transphobic means showing dislike to the trans community but go off
I'm an old Christian lady. Straight & have never been attracted to another woman. It hurts me to see some of these people so lonely & desperate that they feel they have to attack someone who isn't attracted to them. It's downright pathetic, especially when you can make yourself more attractive. I dated a guy who literally hated makeup. Is there a phobia for that? LoL
Found out about you from the Snowflakes video. Tom sure has opened up a whole new world I was missing. I admire & respect you immensely. Wish you were my grandchild. You're amazing.
So well stated, I feel the same way. She is just a beautiful soul inside and out.
I agree with you, Dawn. I'm a straight grandma and love listening to Blaire. She's adorable and very intelligent.
@@thinkmirror8507 Feel the same.
most makeup men wear is very neutral, Concealers, lip balms to cover acne or dark circles
Blaire has mentioned in an old video she's estranged from her grandma on her dad's side so I'm sure she appreciates this comment
blaire literally sticking her neck out for us trans women who remember what being trans was. LOVE YOU BLAIRE
tbh, im trans and i so GO BLAIRE sticking up for tradtrans girls
“Women”
@@MB-xv7er yes we are in fact not biological women, but pardon are you living my life right now? thats SO weird cause i thought I WAS living my OWN life. As a hybrid.
Listen bud, it doesnt help you. Transwomen know they are not bio women. We never asked to be called bio women, and dont want to be because we have different needs at different times. Love is important, spread love to those who love, and you can keep out those who are TOXIC to love.
No need for trans this or trans that, evaluate the person for who they are. Transness shouldnt count against someones ability to be HUMAN.
Love ya pls get with it.
@ava farris
I don’t have to “get with” the delusions of people who want to change their gender, nor does any other conservative have to accept those delusions either. The safety of our future is in jeopardy because of delusions such as men like yourself thinking you can be a woman. Many aren’t going to ever accept it; deal with it sir
@@FrancineL81 as a tradtrans man, I stand with you love
On Twitter, I saw the saddest post from a lesbian who was asking for advice, because she's in a relationship with a pre-op trans-woman, but she's not sexually aroused by her. At all. And she was saying 'what's wrong with me? Does anyone know why I might be feeling this way, we've tried everything!' And it made me so sad for her, because she felt like validating her girlfriend was more important than her own preferences. She genuinely couldn't wrap her head around the idea that some people just aren't attracted to penis, and that's okay, it doesn't make you a bigot.
She's been so brainwashed she can't wrap her head around why she, a lesbian, is not attracted to her girlfriend with a penis.
that is genuinely sad and shame on her 'girlfriend' for not pointing out the obvious.
That's rape with extra steps
I had a similar problem. My ex came out as nb and ... I’m a lesbian. I wanted to be attracted to them, but I literally couldn’t be. I got attacked and guilted for it and it had me wishing I could change my sexual orientation bc they made me out to be so awful. ;;;
@@lucoai153 Stay strong girl, you can't decide who you're attracted to
*ITS OKAY TO HAVE PREFERENCES.*
*ITS OKAY TO HAVE PREFERENCES.*
*ITS OKAY TO HAVE PREFERENCES.*
IT IS NOT OKAY TO MAKE THIS KIND OF COMMENT
IT IS NOT OKAY TO MAKE THIS KIND OF COMMENT
IT IS NOT OKAY TO MAKE THIS KIND OF COMMENT
@@curtisyue182 buuuut y tho it's an opinion and preference
@nordic bear 100% agree
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Lucifer agrees
I'm a trans female and 100% agree with you. You can't force love and attraction. Who would want that anyways, lol.
Right?! It’s like yelling at the people serving you in a restaurant. Like if it’s that bad - leave and find a better fit. But I’m not risking someone spitting in my food! And forcing a relationship is like that
Yeah I have a friend whose trans and she literally believes you can’t force others to be attracted to you
I remember going on the app HER and talking to women, but there was a handful of “trans women” who kept harassing me and making new accounts to send me death threats because I didn’t want to enter relationships with them. Two of them called me transphobic for not wanting them to send me nudes. They drove me off an app I had hoped would be a safe lesbian space.
I left, too. Most of the people I came across were transwomen. I'm a masc top, and I like feminine women. Not transwomen who look masculine and don't try to pass. I got so tired of having next to no options besides them, so I just deleted my account. Now, they're banning women for speaking up and saying that they prefer bio women. And their Twitter is one of the most foul things I've seen. They're defending pedos, using nasty language to insult people who disagree with them and sending people notifications on their phones like, "A Message for Transphobes: Time to delete the app. Don't let the door hit you on the way out." I'm not transphobic, but I'm not attracted to most transwomen. So according to them, I'm a transphobe who doesn't belong on their app even though trying to force people to date and sleep with people they aren't attracted to comes off as predatory. And they're being praised for it.
Yes! Also, so many of the trans 'lesbians' are autogynephiliacs!🚩
Her have kicked lesbians off the app for putting in their bio that they only want to date biological women... Because they're embracing lesbians now ridiculously being called 'non men who are attracted to non men' - to be inclusive. NOPE! It's getting beyond ridiculous and lesbians are suffering because these morons bought their misogyny and male privilege with them when they put on a wig and lipstick. I'm so tired of it all. My support for the trans community is rapidly dwindling. Take care.
Even if people don't care about what gender another is, they still have a visual taste for their partners
You mean looking so sweaty that I swear I can smell the BO through my phone isnt attractive?
*YOU'RE SWINEPHOBIC!*
As a gender blind pansexual, I could not agree more! Like, I don't give the slightest fuck if you're man, woman, non-binary, genderfluied etc. But I still have to find you both visually and your personality attractive for me to fall in love with you.
@@bsmith429 oh so you mean they have to be aesthetically attractive
@@EduardoHerrera-fr6bd Not really but kind of yes
For example I like Hairy Muscular Guys with nice beards, and their face can't look too weird. I do also prefer Blue Eyes though that's just cause I like blue eyes. I have found guys attractive regardless of skin color.
"If you don't date me you're transphobic"
I have chosen: Transphobia.
hey its not so bad being a transphobic bigot is it?
i know im enjoying it.
rather be transphobic than..................date w/e those are
Vexbane Aramori Issa joke
Vexbane Aramori chill😬😬😬😬
Yeah... I choose the single life if those are my only options. Yep.
Lol
"Maybe the fact that you can't get a date is because you are insufferable and not because you're trans" ............. PERIOD! 🎯🎯🎯😭😭😭
In the early 90s I was in a bar minding my own business waiting for some friends and I was called homophobic for turning down the advances of someone Transgender . I wasn’t rude and I kept my manners about me and simply said sorry that’s not my thing but good luck to you .
I was literally almost jumped by her and her friends lol it was comical !!
it got so bad that for all our sakes it was best I left the bar. I didn’t want to be in the bar when my friends arrived cause things would’ve gone from bad to worse .
Maybe I'm going to sound stupid but why don't they just date each other?
Problem solved
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Cause that would be too easy. Its the year 2020.......everything has to be complicated.
Because they both know that the other isn’t hot.
it has hAs to be a straight man theyre dating, otherwise its not going to make them VaLid and iMpoRtaNt, uwu!!
Oh because they like straight men! And they think that straight men should want to date them even if they have a hairy chest and look more like cross dressers than transwomen.
Remember when the Gay community spent decades shouting from the roof tops, "Being Gay is not a choice!" Do straight people now have to resort to shouting "Being straight is not a choice!"?
they just want their own brand of conversion therapy, to convert all the straight people gay.
Looks like they're probably going to have to, here pretty soon.
I still read the word Gay in the old fashion way. The quote reads to me as: Being happy is not a choice... *shrugs* I have no idea why.
Hey, don't forget us bisexuals. We get thrown under the "you should want trans/nb folks MORE" bus all.the.fuckin.time
Can yall stop conflating two different groups? Gay people have talked about non-trans preferences and get attacked for it. Gay=/=Trans.
As a trans girl myself that body and facial hair is horrifying to me.
I just cantttttttttttttt !!!
I’m with you girl @blaire
ikr, im trans and that hair freaks me the hell out
Ikr!!! I’m a bi woman, or pan whatever you wanna call it. I’ve dated men, women & had showers with super hot trannys back in the 90’s😋 but I wouldn’t touch those freaks with a 10 foot pole!!! Like eeeewwwww!! They are NOT TRANS!!!!! Trans means you represent as a man OR a woman, not a flipping man in a dress like wtf omg smh 🤦🏼♀️
Lol. I'm heterosexual and quite like male body hair but that has the same effect on me. Just no. Grooming is a thing.
"Maybe the reason you can't get a date is you're insufferable..." LMAO Spot On!
Remember when we all complained that straight guys told lesbians that they could change them? This is so similar, yet a lot don't see it for some reason
Exactly!
You know this generation doesn't like protecting men lmfao.
@@marckid93 Thing is those people are also obsessively targeting women so that's not really a great call.
@@marckid93 the only people that don't like protecting men are SJW feminists who only fight for equality that benefit them, and are the loud minority.
same thing is still happening to lesbians. now it's straight guys pretending to be trans, identifying as lesbians, trying to change lesbians.
Sexual Coercion... bullying or harassing someone into sex... is a felony.
and I'm pretty sure lying to the person you are pursuing can also become a crime...
@@crappyaccount Yes indeed. Rape by fraud, or rape by deception... has been successfully prosecuted. It is a crime.
PREACH
Those people look like THAT and they expect straight men to like them? I'm a straight girl and I'd rather date my female best friend than those people
"Straight men are so cute." HUH?!? This homosexual obsession with straight men is just too much. . . As a member of the LGBT, I've always been one to reject the stigma about LGBT men being predatory toward straight men, but at this point I'm seeing more and more evidence that contradicts. You can't expect a relationship or sex from ANYONE, regardless of your orientation, and especially if they have a different orientation are just aren't attracted to you. So weird
The whole “attracted to straight men” thing gets me pissed off. Stop setting yourself up for failure and rejection. Yes, you cannot help who you’re attracted to, we all have types. But at some point you have to realize what you can get. Sorry, hun.
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Exactly! It also shows they aren’t trans at all and they know this because if they were really trans why are they specifically looking for “straight men” if they’re trying to present as female? I’m trans and I don’t go around saying “I’d like to have a straight man please” like hello, who else am I trying to attract?? If I’m presenting as female, and look like a whole woman, why would I be looking for a gay man? That’s just weird lol
Me too... and also, straight men + gay men = ...men. Is this not the point they're trying to make about trans men and women being men and women? 🤦♀️ the cognitive dissonance is 🤯
Yes! Gender non-conforming people need to look for bisexual/pan sexual people. That’s who wants to date then
@@neffyg35 If only it was that easy. *le sigh*
i've said it once and i'll say it again, blaire's natural hair is so flattering and i LOVE it
Cutsiwootsi pretty sure she had a hair implant lol and she takes estrogen and other hormones that help with healthy hair
@@Love25648 no she just had the hairline lowering / forehead reduction surgery
This length is so gorgeous on her 💕💕💕
jazlynn austin True but estrogen actually helps with healthy hair she said if before the hair was brittle before hormones
Ikr my hair is flat and ugly lol
THIS IS A WEREWOLF! Where are the Winchesters brothers to capture it?! OMG
As a trans guy I’ve also never had a problem finding straight women willing to date me. I don’t know why the trans community cares about the people who won’t when there’s no shortage of those who will without hesitation.
As a lesbian. I'm tired of being called a TERF and transphobic for not wanting to date transwomen..because I'm a lesbian.
girl from a fellow gay who won’t date a trans man, let em call you what they want if it means your comfortable during sex. people are insane! i hate this bad image these people give our community. ugh! making us all look like LOONS lol
genuine question, if they had all surgeries and looked like your ideal partner, but were still trans, would you date them? i'm just trying to understand everyone's point of view
Exactly as a straight trans man I’d rather not date a pre-bottom surgery trans woman just because like, I wouldn’t be comfortable with the other person having a dick during sex lmao
@@joslyncampbell6851 I don't necessarily have a problem with dating a trans person, but if I could play devil's advocate for a moment, I would assume not. Dating a trans person comes with baggage that cis people simply don't have. Psychological issues like dysphoria, physical issues like inability to reproduce as your gender. Physical attraction is only one facet of a relationship. An important one, certainly, but not the sole basis for people's preferences.
@@joslyncampbell6851 they would still be biologically male, so no. Also, neovagina is far from the real thing.
These people are literally just incels. With worse taste in clothing, if that's possible.
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Exactly. Anyone, no matter your gender identity, who thinks they are entitled to a specific person or people as a romantic partner or sex from these people, are a problem.
They prefer the Transcel label.
Aside blaire white who has a good point, unlike you she’s not calling them incels, and do you realize that’s similar to a false rape accusation?Have some empathy, this could be you in any moment.
The irony being is that these people who state that they are entitled to love and relationships will be the same people at the fore condemning incels for wanting the exact same thing!
You wanted to live your true self. You got that! Now don’t be mad when don’t want you. Find someone that does.
Not sure they even know what a straight man is.
NB: YOU WON’T DATE ME BC I’M NB!
Also NB: I only like straight boys.
I wonder why these two NB people won’t date each other....bigots!
Personally everytime I here Non-Binary, I think: 110101110001010101001010101 1010101000101 1011010101010
Like at this rate... date your computer. Got a better chance for less heartbreak until the screen goes blue. Like they go red in rage. *shrugs*
They arent attracted to each other 🤣🤣🤣🤣
TheRubinator13 exactly 🤩🤩🙄
Well shit, you broke the code
Thank you ginger
It has nothing to do with their gender.
The guys they desire don't find them attractive.
Just waiting for uglyphobia to start.
They’re also not women
@@jessicaloveless7065 their "non gender conforming people" yet they want straight men who only like the female characteristics. ok.
@@yakuzaman5074 i think they said "femme non-binary"😂😂 how tf is that logical?!?!?
@@yakuzaman5074 and I'm waiting for the ugly acceptance movement lol
I'm as straight as you can get, and I never knew Blaire was a transgender lady, but I'd date Blaire in a heartbeat because I'm attracted to the female form and she does it beautifully! I just started following Blaire as of last week and I can't stop watching her videos just to witness her feminine beauty.
as a trans guy myself, i am so sorry to all the straight people who have to deal with being called transphobic for this reason. obviously it’s one thing if you identify as “super straight” or some shit, but your preferences are perfectly fine
Calling yourself super straight isn't a slur. It's emphasising to people you are not same-sex attracted. Some have had queer experiences and know first-hand they do not enjoy the experience, just like a gay guy who sleeps with a woman first and than sleeps with a man and enjoys it. If the rainbow can make up 73 genders, folks can emphasis their own preference to counter the absurdity. So tired of this rapey, coersive crap.
The “straight boys are so cute” makes me want to scream. Live the way you want, but being different doesn’t mean you can force others to date you as a political statement. You don’t want us to force you to conform to our idea of “normal” don’t try to bully us into conforming your ideals 😫
For real.
Amen 👏👏👏
now you know how lesbians feel lol
yup it's literally the exact same when straight men tell me i'm not a lesbian and if i just try dick once i'll love it. Like bro, that isn't how it woooorks!!!
Exactly
Blaire: “I wouldn’t date anyone who is trans.”
SJW’s: “Blaire White is transphobic!”
🤦♂️😂
To be fair, a lot of them think she's a biological woman, so...
TheKyrix82 That’s why she would never have a problem attracting straight guys like me. 🤷♂️
@@Raederman85 Super attractive, but the whole 'male anatomy' downstairs is still a deal breaker. Not that I'm remotely in Blaire's league to begin with
@@TheKyrix82 ahh, but you see TheKyrix82, Blaire's fiancee "isn't in her league" either. Blaire's league is a little different because she's trans, which is a "blemish", right? So there's the beauty of dating a transwoman. Get to date up, to someone not normally in your league! 😉
They already think she's transphobic. I recently shared my thoughts about one of Blaire's videos on instagram and some guy who's never watched her asked me to "not give Blaire a platform" (take a wild guess who has a bigger platform to begin with between me and Blaire) because she's actually transphobic. He then linked me to a video by Contrapoints when Blaire literaly had just made a video mentioning Contra has similar opinions to her and encourages her behind the scenes.
I’m glad you’re pointing out all their nonsense. Thank you.
Wish I would have found this a while ago. When I was back into the dating scene after a long marriage, I found out how hard it was as a bisexual woman. I had to call the police on a person who threatened to mutilate my genitals if I saw them in public because I refused to date them. They also had their friends messaging me and threatened to leave me bloody in a ditch because I was a transphobic terf. I told them point blank - it has nothing to do with your gender and everything to deal with you and your friends being psychopaths. Then there were the people that tried to tell me I was non-binary or pansexual...No, just No. I disengaged from the Tinder platform. I thought dating was bad in my 20s, now it's just scary. I'm glad I met someone and happily married now because I think I'd rather be alone than deal with that, honestly scary BS ever again.
It's not a crime to have sexual preferences and to not be attracted to someone.
It should be a crime to dress like these two, though
Yet.
TRUE !!!
There's a difference between sex and love. There are men who love women but can only have sex with men. They don't call themselves gay. Its their preference.
Sailing Nandji - Frothlyfe ... Yeah, not yet...
Say it with me:
YOU ARE NOT ENTITLED TO ANOTHER PERSON'S BODY!
Amen!!!!!
For now...
@@KM-zn3lx Oh snap! Good reply.
Obviously. but being trans is different from say being of certain race. a lot of times you can't tell the person you are talking to or even hving rn in bed is trans. it's a lot of times just a psychological thing more than problem in physical attraction
@Alexander Boyer Good point!
This reminds me of something a few years back. I used to date a guy online who was this total hunk. Really gorgeous. But we split up because he was trans, and he only told me a year after when I was already seeing myself having a family with him, and a pretty daughter to call my own by him.
This scenario made me realize things: 1.) I'm straight. I am attracted to men. I thought he was a man but it turned me off to find out he was not. It put a dampen on things definitely. 2.) Looks worked well to his favor in getting into our relationship. I wouldn't have dated him if he wasn't my type physically. All these trans who can't even put on some decency will definitely not get any, not even the chance, by behaving like entitled buffoons while bringing nothing to the table. 3.) It ultimately became a question of the long-term: I wanted a family. A biological family. I wanted to give birth to his kids. But he can't even fulfill that, and he acknowledged it when the revelations came crashing in.
We ended up parting on good terms at least. And we still keep in touch. But damn if only right? If only... 😞😞
"I do not consent." That should shut down everything, because you don't get the privilege of knowing why I do not consent. That's none of your business. If I say "No", that's the end of the conversation.
When did being ugly stop being a reason to not be attracted to someone?
Exactly their not even trying to pass as female
Lmao facts 💯
Because they aren’t aloud to feel. “offended” apparently
@@omonighoojeaga1820 Right! Look, be whatever you want, I don’t give a shit. But don’t just be a man wearing a dress and then complain that straight men aren’t attracted to you. Last time I checked, straight men are not attracted to dresses, they’re attracted to the women inside them! I don’t care how nice your dress is, if you’re still an extremely ugly man lol, then straight men are not going to be attracted to you. Like, fucking... duh!!
Since ugly became a trigger word xD
Straight men aren't attracted to dad bods
Exactly. If you want me to date you, at least look and sound like a woman
Lmfao
Even hetero older women don’t like dad bods ewww
Being featured in an article for your emotional fragility at reality is also not exactly flattering. It'll attract virtue signaling.
Lmfao exactly
I only saw a couple of your episodes so far. The first one I grimaced before clicking expecting a more "typical " viewpoint. I was pleasantly surprised and am very glad your thoughts are being presented. Keep at it!
The heart wants what it wants, you cannot force attraction or emotions.
"I'm nonbinary and therefore don't identify as a woman, but straight guys are so cute!"...kinda creepy and predatory but okay
That’s exactly my thoughts.....
Same. It felt creepy and predatory to me, too. Like they're trying to "turn" straight guys away from their natural sexuality. Ew
If either gender said that and acted like these two... hello 911?
@nordic bear meh, they're the extreme and in no way represent the huge variety of people who are leftist. I'd rather be on the side of people like this than actual fucking neo-nazis, science deniers, and mass shooters, but that's just me.
It’s exactly why bathroom laws were passed. I feel bad for Mz. White . She is sane , rational... these guys aren’t trans , they are attention whores
If you were a lesbian, and a man came up to you and tried to kiss you, even after you said no,how would you feel? Disgusted, right? People need to just respect other people's sexuality.
Isnt LGBT about expressing yourself and loving people who you want to love? Well these trans people dont think like that
You don't have to be a lesbian for that to happen.
It's all about respect and boundaries
That would be sexual assault?🤔
Or unwanted touching?🤔
@@charlieminaj2 According to the definitions of such, it is.
Now why does the idea of someone coercing me into dating them sound rapey...
I agree! One of my good friends that I had a crush on doesn't want to date me because I'm trans and guess what? I accepted that and moved on with my life, as well as staying friends, I now see him as a big brother! Why can't some people understand this?
As a straight man, I am attracted to the female form. For instance, I find Blaire to be stunning physically, because she has feminine features. I do not find masculine features attractive. It’s not transphobic. It’s just personal preference.
I think it's more like sexual orientation.
It's how God made us otherwise the human race would not continue.
@@Rayblondie lmao, we are just evolved monkeys thats why blaire is atractive to straight men and lesbians. Most people's brains sexual orientation works whit a raw form of identification, in some is more presise and has to do whit genitals.
But the last thing is mostly learned, not always, is not something can be changed in many ppl, no everyone works exactly the same, we are just mutant mokeys and our brains are different.
@@stefaniefanny9949 I disagree of course. I didn't descend from monkeys. I don't believe in evolution. We are moral creatures.
Thank u ! Perfectly said
Should men start telling women, "Date me or you're heterophobic?" I'm sure it'll go over well.
They're called incels. But they also have some members who unnoticeably think girlfriends and wives should be assigned by law.
Date me or you're penisophobic! // Men have many other ways of shaming women for not wanting to sleep with them, like: you're not spontaneous, you're boring, are you a nun or what, you don't really mean no you just want me to push harder right, do you always avoid funny things, this is the last time I offer this to you, etc etc. It's absurd, haha.
That’s not the same
Funny how heterophobic isnt considered a real word but still equality
@@ALu-nq8rf yup
Call normal, reasonable people "transphobic" enough and the word loses all meaning. The Boy Who Cried Wolf syndrome.
Why don't trans women date trans men?
Sounds like a match made in heaven.
To be honest, as a straight guy, you have to look and act as feminine and fun as Blaire. Then you'll have a good chance. 0% chance if you look like a hobo clown wearing a chewbacca suit.
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hey! what did I do to you lol
@@crappyaccount hey you can wear your hobo clown chewy gear, I'm all for getting on down with your bad self , just don't expect me to say yes if you decide to ask me out. Lol
That description of them is screenshot-worthy for laughs for years to come 😂😂
Omg the last part of ur comment has me dying 😂😂😂
Im going on grinder and if I don’t get matches everyone on there is sexist. 💁🏻♀️
Lol I love this comment
I know, right? All the hot guys are on grinder, so how dare they be sexist against us females and refuse to date us? :D
phangirlable lol agreed. Not fair. We need to start a movement. If your gay and dont date me your sexist. I should have the right to receive the love and affection from a cute gay man. ❤️lol!
@@claudizzle44 All bi people have entered the chat. Lol I know some who'd actually argue that point to prove bisexuality the superior orientation.
justchickenstrips lol. How about if I’m attracted to someone. They should always love me back. No matter orientation or sex. Lol. Because everyone should love me! Or they are a bigot. Lol
There isn’t one race where I can’t find someone attractive. It’s like music I for sure love a song in every genre.
By that logic anyone who doesn't want to date someone else is some type of ' phobe' or hater.
Omg. I’m trans and don’t expect all straight cis men to date me. Do they know I’m trans if I don’t tell them? No they don’t. But I tell them cuz it’s the right thing to do. What if they want biological children. I can’t do that.
I’m sorry but I don’t see either of those persons as representatives for trans people.
It's safer to be honest, there have been many cases where a man finds out the woman he is with is trans and loses his SH!T and murders her. It also shows that you're a good person. Honesty is a virtue.
these two are making a mockery of it. you're doing the right thing and selecting for the right kind of partners by being honest
@@rach2111 your right it is dangerous, I think that if your going on a date with someone you should text them that your trans so if they get angry your not in danger.
@@rach2111 There have also been lots of cases where a man already knew his partner was trans and he murders her when his *friends* find out...so fucked up.
Just be careful ans safe xx
As a trans girl myself, that body and facial hair is horrifying to me
Lmaooo omg same AF I’m so triggered by it !
Yep
I am not Trans, but I have PCOS so I have paid a LOT of money to get rid of a flourishing beard because....hormones. turns out I could have apparently saved myself buckets of moneys ? XD
I know, right? I can't look at myself if I have any shadow showing. I can't imagine these two want to be feminine at all, they just want to be pretty men. Nothing wrong with being pretty, but guys tend to admire prettiness in women, and masculinity in men, whether they are gay or straight.
@@dominadors4795 No, NO KAT! You did the right thing. Bless you.
“why dont staright men date us”
😳there straight😳
Actually now that I really look at these tweets and think...why aren't Trans people..dating other trans people?
90% of the time, I'm seeing trans people wanting cis people to date them. Like yo, why aren't you people dating each other? When cis people don't want to, its trans phobic. But if other trans don't want you...its okay? Some of these people are wild wtf
"why won't my friends get laid?", i think those pics solved the mystery
Having that lack of self awareness is concerning
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Lemme look away Chile 💀👀
For real! Don't dismiss the obvious! Let's not complicate things.
Jesus- 😂
I’d just like to state: Genitalia preference doesn’t make you transphobic
Yeah
THANK YOU I was called being transphobic for not being attracted to the person's genitalia like chill I don't hate you I'm just not attracted to you you can't force someone to be attracted to them lmao !!! Sooo ridiculous!!!?
say it louderrr
MM - good luck with convincing trans activists of that!
Daenerys Targaryen
Actually if u purely aren’t interested in them sexually because they are trans and not because of their genitals then it’s pretty transphobic as ur only reason is “they’re trans” and not “I dont like dick/vagina”
I’m a gay trans woman and I would never date them in a million years
Dating in general, no matter what gender you identify as or whichever sexuality you are, is gonna be hard for everyone if we keep exclusively only going after people who don’t want us 🙄🤣
“Date me or you’re x” is such an ugly look for anyone
YES. THANK YOU.
no one is entitled to another person’s body or time or affection
It’s like when a straight guy thinks they can “turn a lesbian straight” NO. You can’t change someone’s sexual orientation, and if you think you can you are a horrible human being. I love all the double standards 🤦🏽♀️
No one actually cares. Perhaps you're thinking to highly of yourself. There has never been a time where it's so easy to get laid by straight women. Who wants the drama and time wasted on some lesbian? Smh.
Haha I’m not lesbian, it’s just an example 😂
@@ReignRules101 people can be straight or bisexual. I bet when polygamy will be legalized in US then lesbian and gays will also be in relationship with a bisexual. which will prove orientation can be changed after some years of relationship
@@Hindu9054 sexual orientation cannot change just because you are in a relationship.
It cannot change that easily. It is not possible.
You are not gay for liking trans people. Trans women are women. Trans men are men.
Binge re-watching all your videos and just rediscovered how obsessed I am with your hair at this length. Love you💕
I'm not a man, nor a woman. I dont conform to gender.
WHY WON'T STRAIGHT MEN DATE ME?
But why don’t they date each other? Or other non binary people? Aren’t they attracted by gender non-conforming people? Such a paradox...
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Lol right
HAhaha
Great idea! Let’s matchmake.
Maybe because you find the majority online but not really where they live, at least, looking stochastically on it that 2% of the population are trans, nonbinary and what not together. So maybe it's not easy to find someone. 🤔
I'm a straight man that harbours no ill will to trans people, having said that I draw the line at dating somebody with a hairier chest than me
lmao
You are allowed to have attraction preferences dude. Don't let anyone bully you otherwise.
Lmao. I mean, that's a very fair standard
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I cackled 😂
It went from fully medically and surgically transitioning into a trans women to
"I feel like a women" -Bro with a beard 2023
Giiiiiiirl......"maybe you're insufferable and annoying as sh*t"
.......
I'm dead AF BC 9/10 times it's probably true 🤣🤣🤣
Imagine how far we would've gotten with LGBT acceptance if gay men told straight men they were homophobic for not wanting to date us.
How did we go from people are bad for their sexual orientations to people's orientations are bigotry against a particular group of people?
I mean, if you couldn't get dates before you transitioned, it probably won't change afterwards.
i just commented the same thing! gay men and lesbians never demanded anyone sleep with them to prove their allyship, so i don't see why trans rights activists think this is appropriate behavior!!
Full circle, my dear. Full circle. Now they (the alphabet community) will go as far as guilting lesbian women into being with trans women, etc. They're trying to erase women entirely, go watch Arielle Scarcella's videos on it. It's really terrifying and disturbing.
I feel like the term “ phobic” has been so misused and abused that, at this point, it’s basically inert 🤷🏻♀️
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It's quite useful, if someone still uses them unironically, you know to avoid them.
I am desensitised to the word phobic now.
@@anniegoulaheee8025 you're sensitisedophobic
@@blindtherapper2470 Lmao
So basically you're no longer allowed to have any preferences or standards or you are in some way prejudiced. I'm glad I'm married and don't have to deal with this crap. Blair thank you for being a voice of reason.
As a lesbian, I’m very offended by the fact that they completely disregard my sexual orientation in an almost homophobic way. Our fight was and still is for people to just accept that we can be attracted to whoever we are attracted to, and there’s nothing you can do about it and no one can tell me otherwise, and they just throw to the trash decades of fighting by the gays. it’s also very predatory and violent to just expect sex from anyone.
It's never Blaire White looking trans that try to bully you into dating them.
No. It’s a bearded man wearing a wig and some lipstick trying to say he’s a woman. Totally ridiculous
Absolutely true
I'm deceased 🤣🤣🤣👌
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I can't decide if that would be a movie genre or a fetish category. Either way it would find it's audience.
What people like this don’t understand is that by doing this, they’re basically arguing that your sexuality should be a choice. That goes against everything the LGBT community has been fighting against.
Kind of reminds me of an article -- think it was published by CNN? -- about how heterosexuality is bad and people need to stop being heterosexual.
I just don't get *how* these people think it's a choice, when it's being straight.
Good point!
Vgy1592 only CNN would say that
The LGBT has been turning more regressive lately... I support the TBGL
And that is why many LGB people want to seperate from the T.
You are literally HILARIOUS with your side comments. I like to be more educated with Trans and your channel not only gives me information but also gives me life. Just remember me before you hit 1 mil. Love you!!!
I am trans and I don’t think that a person who isn’t attracted to me is transphobic at all, I am NOT attracted to so many ppl in this world and it doesn’t mean I hate them... transphobic are those who date you, kiss you, have sex with you but ask to be “discreet” and can’t be seen in public with you.
Yes. This kind of thinking made me question if I’m a bad or stuck up person. I’m straight and so many many are just no for me. Maybe cause I’m pretty n I got used to more attractive men back in the day. Lol that’s why I’m trying to get back in shape.
So lesbian, gay, bisexual etc... Can be attracted to who they are attracted too but straight persons are wrong for being attracted to who they like?
Well that's the logic some of these
incels are using.
@Onix Reyes exactly they are saying that, and it's them I was referring too not the majority of the LGBT community
Circé A. Absolutely true. “Cotton ceiling”.
Why would a straight be attracted to a man? Then they wouldn't be straight.
@Circé A. It's like a horror story.
if you arent getting straight dates, maybe ask yourself: "am i ugly as both a man and a woman?"
Exactly! Literally lol!
Or ask yourself "maybe these people dont fucking like me and I'm not their preferred sexaulity"
That maybe the reason for transitioning
well thats not even the case though, even the most ugly people can find someone eventually, it usually isnt super difficult. its honestly just about your personality and character. taking care of yourself also plays into it
@@avafan-hx4lk Or maybe it's because they like straight men?
Are they trying to get everyone to hate them? I don’t think they want to be accepted. I think they just want attention and one has openly said he thinks little girls are kinky and not as straight as we think. They’re pushing the limits too far and it’s not good.
I'm literally laughing my ass off right now. Thank you for this!
When girls reject me, I... get over myself! They're allowed not to want a boyfriend without a peen. Or not want me for ANY OTHER reason. Imagine wanting to date a person you guilt-tripped into liking you. I'll pass.
I almost did that as a kid and when I look back, it's one of the worst feelings in the world.
Thank you for being a logical person. Best wishes dude.
Exactly, i'm bisexual and attracted to people regardless of their genitals but I can still understand that sex can be a deciding factor in who to date for a lot of people.
I also feel like them going after straight men specifically is down right predatory...
You got a good point there buddy
yea, why go for straight men specifically if it's wrong to have a preference... those two non-binary guys should just date each other
It’s borderline wanting to rape someone.
I absolutely love how you speak your mind and don't care what others might think. We need more people with braincells like you.
Trying to force someone to date you regardless if you're straight or transgender, is rapey. It comes very close to the guy getting angry and calling a girl a b***h because she won't go out with him because he's such a nice guy, or he bought her a couple drinks.
You know I'm not even opposed to dating a trans person, but if they had that mentality of "date me or your transphobic", that right there would be an immediate turn off. And they wonder why people won't date them.🤦♀️
or if they looked like these two.... 🤮like maybe people just find you ugly my dudes it's no big deal that just means you gotta win them over on personality and probably stop chasing after fully straight men when you literally have a beard for a start.
@@ThimbleFox350 that's also very true, I don't know any straight guy that's into beards and chest hair but their personality is probably also chasing away the few people that were willing to date them lol
@@ThimbleFox350 agreed. like. im bi( i guess pan or w/e?) . and i dont care what bits you got frontwise.
and i wouldnt date them. its just a huge clash of things and they are not attractive to me in the slightest.
but my god the personality is whats gonna kill it even if you get past that.
Yeah. I rather stay happily single than threaten in someway to like someone I have no instrest in or be given a fair chance to know without instant hate.
That's cool for you. As far as my opinion I actually think Blair here is really pretty, but Blair can't give me children so it wouldn't work even if she had already done the bottom surgery. I'd be one of their friends, though, if they wanted......until they started to try to get me to sleep with them
I"m a CIS straight woman... I'm attracted to men, but I'm not attracted to every man I see. That doesn't mean I'm biased against the types of men I'm not attracted to. It's, in my opinion, the same thing. You are drawn to what you are drawn to, but it doesn't mean you are repulsed by or biased against those you're not. It's such a circular, illogical argument. :-(
Exactly!
@Me Too I think what she meant was she wouldn't date a certain guy because of A, B, or C (biased due to outside of biological influence?) Instead of being unbiased due to an engraved biological influence. So like as a female, id pick a mate that has good health and a strong physic because that was what my biology looks for. Instead of picking a mate that's a certain race or has a certain colour of hair or hobbies? Idk I think I know what she meant but I suck at explaining things lol
You are not cis. You're a woman. End of/
@@valoxsen6003 what info does cis add? She is woman and straight
There is no level of drunk that would fool me into thinking either of these 2 were anywhere near a female.
A biological woman with a chest full of hair and beard will encounter problems dating so I can only imagine a biological man in make up