Zuby On 'Trans Widows'

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Komentáře • 113

  • @Flashhood1425
    @Flashhood1425 Před 11 měsíci +74

    Zuby hit it spot on. We’re going to answer for this because it’s a medical scandal like “opioids are safe and non-addictive” x 1000.

  • @katiejon17
    @katiejon17 Před 11 měsíci +49

    Zuby and Lila Rose delivered a phenomenal discussion here.
    So much to say. I’ll simply state that I had been a nurse for years by the time I had my children at 37 and 40. On the topic of this “trans” mess, I can say from the perspective of having been a middle school nurse for five years, leading up to the beginning of it - every single one of my former students (now graduating high school or in their early 20’s) who call themselves “trans” have all suffered trauma in their childhood. Almost without exception, that trauma has been sexual. My baby had just turned one when the “pandemic” hit. I quite my career because I could also see future consequences. My boys are now 4 and 7 years old - and I have/am homeschooled my oldest. When people refer to their small children or grandchildren who are delayed as “covid babies” - I know that was simply a choice. Neither one of my children lived any different of a life during covid, and it was because my husband and I didn’t do that to them.

    • @hayleymort5906
      @hayleymort5906 Před 11 měsíci

    • @indy_go_blue6048
      @indy_go_blue6048 Před 8 dny

      Today was a granddaughter's 14th birthday. She was molested at 4 or 5. She's a lesbian (has a really cute black girlfriend) and just by the way she acts when any man hugs her, it's pretty clear to me that she's afraid of us.

  • @unitysprings3631
    @unitysprings3631 Před 11 měsíci +37

    As half of mf fraternal twins, i am so glad I wasnt born in the 2000s. Me n my bro shared toys and my pram was an excellent wheelbarrow/vehicle.
    That aside, i have two questions that nobody will answer; if genitals do not denote gender, how does removing them affirm it? And how do we tell transexuals from autogynaphiles?

    • @Ladysdg
      @Ladysdg Před 11 měsíci +3

      Wow! Such great questions that have not been asked or answered.

    • @unitysprings3631
      @unitysprings3631 Před 11 měsíci +8

      @@Ladysdg I keep asking and I get silence..... meanwhile, our stupid authorities are bowing to this nonsense.

    • @Tommo77ful
      @Tommo77ful Před 11 měsíci +2

      The answer to your question is very simple. Removing them affirms it because I believe it does. End of story!

  • @kelliemicheley
    @kelliemicheley Před 11 měsíci +89

    It's not politically correct to call mental illness mental illness anymore. I'm not saying we should mock or hate, but celebration isn't helpful. It's not brave or stunning to be delusional. Freedom and wisdom are found in Christ, not vanity, sin, and hearts that are sometimes wicked and deceiving.

    • @JeremyS86
      @JeremyS86 Před 5 měsíci +2

      seems like theres a lot people out there who are proud of their mental illness. everyone has ADHD, people diagnose themselves with autism. its crazy town

    • @kellymarieapplebee
      @kellymarieapplebee Před 4 měsíci

      @@JeremyS86 Its true and it's very unfortunate, I am now 33 years of age, I cannot tell you how crippling it has been growing up not understanding and therefore being able to manage my shortcomings, with family, friends, teachers, it was my husband who recognised symptoms of adult adhd during a woman's hour on radio 4, he lightly mentioned it to me and when I eventually looked into it, I went to be assessed and was diagnosed with inattentive type adhd. What I find truly cringeworthy and bewildering is the sheer amount of people self diagnosing and believing they have adhd because oops they lost their car keys, they think adhd and autism is some quirky personality trait, sorry but I wouldn't wish this miserable predicament on anyone.
      The truth is people with adhd and autism do not have half the interest these people do to post their made up symptoms online, I've had a good day if I've just remembered to stay on top of my hygiene not making TikTok videos, it's not glamorous tbh and the fact people thinking being neurodivergent is cute is just now sadly where we're at in society.

    • @user-ld7uj9pv8e
      @user-ld7uj9pv8e Před 3 měsíci +1

      Somewhat delusional to rebound to Christ beliefs

    • @user-dl9sy7bq6q
      @user-dl9sy7bq6q Před měsícem

      A paraphilia is not a mental illness, AGP' is a condition where men become aroused by dressing and behaving as their version of a woman

  • @elizabethludden7182
    @elizabethludden7182 Před 11 měsíci +10

    I've always kind of thought "how is this any different than an older man leaving his wife for a younger woman?". "Sorry, I like a different body type now so I'm ditching you." The only difference is one is glorified one is not.

  • @trss8674
    @trss8674 Před 11 měsíci +17

    Aged care workers are required to dress men in women's underwear and make up. For some men cross dressing is a fetish. Part of the fetish is coercing women into helping them dress as women. This psychologically damages the women involved. I hope you will make your audience aware of this situation.

    • @TheParadiseParadox
      @TheParadiseParadox Před 11 měsíci +8

      I had to read this twice "coercing women into helping them dress as women". you mean a man coerces care workers to put woman's clothes on him as some kind of twisted power game. what an age we live in

    • @trss8674
      @trss8674 Před 11 měsíci +7

      Yes. That's what I mean
      It's sad.

  • @baruchvalenzuela1679
    @baruchvalenzuela1679 Před 11 měsíci +15

    Follow the money. In America, Healthcare and RX is BIG $$$. No one accuses America of being more liberal than UK, Sweden, Finland, etc.. Yet in those and many Euro countries, they are pumping the brakes/hard stopping on gender affirming care to minors. I agree w. Zuby that this end$$$ in BIG Lawsuits against Hospitals, Doctors and BIG Pharma companies.

    • @indy_go_blue6048
      @indy_go_blue6048 Před 8 dny

      Wait for it 10-20 years down the road when these people have passed the flush of youth and are approaching middle age and all that physically implies. Huge class action lawsuits and a large number of suicides, sadly.

  • @felixrcandelaria
    @felixrcandelaria Před 11 měsíci +5

    Zuby, my Brother, God Bless You For Real! Thank you for being our voice in the mainstream. We absolutely truly appreciate it. May God keep you and Lila under His Protection. I pray that you are kept safe, your voices strong and your health intact so you can continue to deliver this message. You have a way with your words and delivery that allows people to listen whether they want to or not. In the end truth is TRUTH!

  • @scurvydog20
    @scurvydog20 Před 8 měsíci +6

    It has happened one other time though not to this scale. The castraté were boys who were soprano's that were castrated to prevent puberty from lowering their voices to prolong their singing careers. There would be standing ovations cheering "long live the knife". The church stood against this to and basically provided charity positions in their choirs for those who's careers fell through.

    • @woman4womenkids547
      @woman4womenkids547 Před 6 měsíci

      Islamic slavers castrated millions of African men and boys. Survival rates weren’t great.

  • @The_Cyber_Police
    @The_Cyber_Police Před 11 měsíci +22

    Keep up the good work Zuby

  • @sjf426
    @sjf426 Před 11 měsíci +12

    Agree with all you’re both saying, but I believe the fallout will actually violent. Volatile violence.
    Zuby, you’re phenomenal. Lila Rose, keep up the amazing work.

  • @hospitalsgivingpatientsdan8894
    @hospitalsgivingpatientsdan8894 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Femininity in men is not same female

  • @Joy-qs7jf
    @Joy-qs7jf Před 8 měsíci +3

    Just seen this and thank you for speaking up for trans widows, not something that happens very often.

  • @lukekent9687
    @lukekent9687 Před 11 měsíci +12

    Parents are supposed to protect children from their own immature decisions

    • @Tommo77ful
      @Tommo77ful Před 11 měsíci +2

      Nooooooooooo, parents have to allow children to "express themselves" in any way they like, lest they be called fascists.

    • @NickyM_0
      @NickyM_0 Před 9 měsíci

      @@Tommo77ful Who calls parents 'fascists' for being parents? Only a lunatic who needs mental healrh support asap!

  • @laylassong4u
    @laylassong4u Před 7 měsíci +3

    Zuby you awesome for speaking the truth and caring about women and children. Thank you!

  • @billmartins5545
    @billmartins5545 Před 6 měsíci +4

    All these men, without exception, are abusers. To any woman whose committed partner, husband, comes out: GRAB THE KIDS AND RUN. Take him to the cleaners. Get full custody. Start recording/documenting all things said, messaged, and happening from the moment you feel something is off/he is telling you he might be trans or wants an open relationship etc. You'll need this as evidence to get as much from him in the divorce including full custody. Keep track of ALL accounts to ensure he's not removing/moving marital assets. Lawyer up. Clean him out even if he has to live in his car. He has betrayed you, your kids, your marriage, your family, your future. He doesn't deserve anything after that. He might have already cheated or is thinking about it. He might give your Hep or HIV. Just no.

  • @red-stapler574
    @red-stapler574 Před 11 měsíci +7

    If you think millenials hating on bommers is bad, the utter hatred of gen z toward gen x will be vitriolic and possibly justified. But it is the gen x and older millenials fighting against it. Gen z will be a completely broken generation. But i see real hope in gen alpha, mostly because they witnessed the BS of covid, BLM, etc.

  • @mechengineer4life
    @mechengineer4life Před 6 měsíci +4

    It's all about what Carl Trueman talked about in "Strange New World: the rise and triumph of the modern self". It's romanticization era, then pscyhological era then modernism and post-modernism and all about self-fulfillment, everyone being a little 'g' god, determining their own desires and identity, and if kids have to have their lives ruined and spouses lose the person they loved and married... well get ef'd... they have a new identity and truth to proclaim!!

  • @user-uf4sc1vz2k
    @user-uf4sc1vz2k Před 8 měsíci +4

    I was such a tomboy when I was 8 to 10 I climbed trees in my hood and chased boys up them but I ended up learning without intervention from my siblings since I had no parental guidance I was a beautiful young lady however I was taken at a very early age God damn his soul

  • @martymcfartface996
    @martymcfartface996 Před 11 měsíci +4

    A few years a go, my wife worked in childcare. Back then, about 2 out of 3 of the kids that she looked after were prescribed medication for ADHD. No where near that number would be prescribed that medication now. It seems in certain schools that above normal level of kids are being called trans. Is this just another thing that we are getting wrong, when it comes to caring for our kids?

    • @NickyM_0
      @NickyM_0 Před 9 měsíci +4

      Of course it is. That should have been a statement not a question.
      A mere few years ago the trans kid/teenager didn't exist.
      It's all trickle down from captured University education that is implemented in schools by gender ideology trained teachers, along with 'aggressive' marketing on social media at kids. 'You can be who you want to be', 'Be your authentic self' 'Create the new YOU'... etc. (typical cult language). Perfect enticement for vulnerable kids (and adults) who want to run away from themselves.
      Of course, nursery aged children+ will just be automatically indoctrinated to find their 'gender' on the spectrum, being so young.
      The whole agenda has been pure evil.

    • @helenromanelli2544
      @helenromanelli2544 Před 5 měsíci

      Yes...

  • @FierceSleepingDog
    @FierceSleepingDog Před 11 měsíci +4

    Great discussion

  • @leliablackwell5141
    @leliablackwell5141 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Great discussion. Thank you’

  • @lisadakar9928
    @lisadakar9928 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I have a paperback version of 1984. I dogeared page 267..it scarily parallels today's happenings...it's all about power...this book is not considered political prophecy for nothing...

  • @LiloulaMe
    @LiloulaMe Před 11 měsíci +20

    AUTOGYNEPHILIA

    • @zm1786
      @zm1786 Před 11 měsíci

      Yep. It's a mental illness and /or fetish.

  • @curtisbryce5096
    @curtisbryce5096 Před 10 měsíci +1

    It's about time someone talked about it.

  • @Ladysdg
    @Ladysdg Před 11 měsíci +6

    One show comes to mind... or should i say sh$tshow : I AM JAZZ... it is such a disaster and it was televised everyweek for us to see. It is so sad and the parents (mainly the mother) should be emprisoned.

  • @marzanneswart8825
    @marzanneswart8825 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you for being sensible

  • @padijeff5675
    @padijeff5675 Před 2 měsíci +1

    These Cis wives should support their Trans women spouses with love and help!😮🌈

  • @handfloboxingreview1673
    @handfloboxingreview1673 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Yet another wok term I had to search up.All this terminology is never ending.

    • @leahhart3585
      @leahhart3585 Před 5 měsíci

      I don’t think trans widow is woke term I think it’s what women call themselves when their husband runs off to be a woman. Their husband is dead for lack of a better term.

  • @johnrode7109
    @johnrode7109 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Great video

  • @jamesclark6487
    @jamesclark6487 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Watch Zuby talk at a lady.
    edit: ah it's a clip for her podcast

  • @jessicagoodall1458
    @jessicagoodall1458 Před 3 měsíci

    The good thing about Caitlyn is she still lets her kids call her dad.

  • @peacefulmindtoday
    @peacefulmindtoday Před 2 měsíci

    Yep Plenty of men clear on their male gender identity enjoy feminine expression on occasion Not a disorder Just an interest Like watching sports

  • @davidcook680
    @davidcook680 Před 10 měsíci +1

    The key to lawsuits. Is it will be paid out with tax money

  • @burleybater
    @burleybater Před 11 měsíci +1

    Although I agree with Zuby on the future impact of lawsuits and massive resentment in those 20-30 year-olds in the future, I don't think the numbers will pan out - main reason being that the "industry" will sniff it out, know it's coming, and quietly shut down the shop.
    Which initially may cause it's own different kind of resentment - a more massive demand for a service that overstretches the supply, and causes a different kind of resentment.
    Which means maybe either way, they're screwed.
    But I don't know - I never though this kind of thing could last indefinitely. A chilling comparison a lot of people make, is going back to the popular lobotomy days. Which is perhaps more accurate especially in terms of sheer impact on patients.
    What Zuby does draw attention to, and rightly so, is a thing that remains astonishingly off the radar. The sterility, the asexuality, the lack of response, the medical repercussions affecting all kinds of health issues young people now are going to have in their futures, and still while they are relatively young.
    I think it's a great thing, that a greater number of people are now aware of the repercussions, health impacts, and future problems stemming from application of the trans industrial complex. The fact that a lot of people know and are aware ahead of time, makes for greater liability - the fact that the industry itself cannot help but be aware of the hazards, and makes no effort to make this known to patients, instead taking advantage of their ignorance and their youthful lack of real life awareness and consequence.
    We all understand easily, as a society, why it is we have all kinds of laws, rules, regulations and restrictions on what young people are allowed to legally do, and what they are not.
    Many of these restrictions are minor impact compared to the reality of a full trans program.
    Yet we do not loosen those restrictions at all. But there has been this big push to "adultify" youth - as if to lose a potential patient/demographic statistic to heteronormativity, a gay or lesbian or bi identity - is some kind of tragedy.
    As if an intact body is a true abomination. Instead of perhaps the other way around.
    This is sick. This is a predatory force moving on our children.

  • @Hello-jw1pu
    @Hello-jw1pu Před měsícem

    The lawsuits are happening now. I see this happening in the next 5 years it's going to increase.

  • @tashacooper1753
    @tashacooper1753 Před 10 měsíci +1

    It is very sad all these women not allowed to be upset that the person they live is gone

  • @TheParadiseParadox
    @TheParadiseParadox Před 11 měsíci +8

    a few months back someone told me a story about a homosexual man who is married to a woman and has children. people think this is so unusual.
    I said it makes perfect sense to me. the man has a duty, he wants to continue his family line. he fulfills his duty as a father and a husband.
    people will say he should leave and be true to himself, but his dharma is much truer than any sexual whim. in these days when people value short term thinking, the simple idea of fulfilling one's responsibilities is hidden

    • @smooth_pursuit
      @smooth_pursuit Před 11 měsíci +2

      Well the problem then is for the wife, he’s going to cheat on her with men. Does she deserve that?

    • @TheParadiseParadox
      @TheParadiseParadox Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@smooth_pursuit that doesn't follow

    • @mr.centrist5789
      @mr.centrist5789 Před 11 měsíci

      If he admits he is still gay then okay his life. BUT I don't have a duty. A duty of what? A gay man has to think about his happiness. A happiness which is being with another man.

    • @TheParadiseParadox
      @TheParadiseParadox Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@mr.centrist5789 do you think happiness comes from other people

    • @smooth_pursuit
      @smooth_pursuit Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@TheParadiseParadox I’m going to guess you’re not in an unhappy relationship.

  • @stevenlarge895
    @stevenlarge895 Před 3 měsíci

    I like zubys table

  • @JohnGlen502
    @JohnGlen502 Před 5 měsíci

    Some therapists are claiming they can identify trans by one year old. The level of insanity is just off the charts.

  • @bibbole5351
    @bibbole5351 Před 11 měsíci

    Its just amazung how unqualified psychologists/psychiatrists can make so much sense - plain jane commonsense - but still not strong enough to have any impact on their ideologies & agenda- in 15/20 years time no one goes to jail - and if they do - 6months for a life time of misery & tribulations for these transpeople-!!!

  • @momariemartin8204
    @momariemartin8204 Před 3 měsíci

    He wanted me to love the one who killed him . . . slowly in front of me. Our whole relationship of 35 years was a sham unbeknownst to me. I was left shattered while he "blossomed". The unforgivable part was that he let me think there was something wrong with me all those years. I wasn't pretty enough, I wasn't thin enough . . . I wasn't a ten. I was supposed to be his audience while he slathered on moisturizer and preened, instead I sipped whiskey on the back porch contemplating my liberation.

  • @mmaximk
    @mmaximk Před 11 měsíci

    I am friends with a married couple (who have a well-adjusted and high-achieving daughter) where the husband transitioned.
    Their daughter was in her early teens at the time of the transition, and if she was in any way psychologically harmed by it, I have been unable to discern it.
    I do not mean to generalise with this anecdote, just to observe that my experience of this situation did not include the appearance of mental illness or psychological trauma.

    • @ZubyMusic
      @ZubyMusic  Před 11 měsíci +5

      How is the wife doing?

    • @mmaximk
      @mmaximk Před 11 měsíci

      @@ZubyMusic
      Out of the three, she had the most complicated adjusting to do, but she did adjust and they are a loving, stable couple.
      IMO it would have badly harmed their daughter had they broken up and to the best of my ability to tell, they have - with work and deep commitment - maintained a happy, successful marriage.

    • @errin-mp1zy
      @errin-mp1zy Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@mmaximk No, that poor woman and child are being gaslit by a selfish, narcissistic man with a paraphilia. They tend to want to do this either when their wife is pregnant or just had a baby or as in this case, when their daughter goes through puberty, the jealousy in these men to want what women have is off the charts.

  • @robertbrooks4413
    @robertbrooks4413 Před 11 měsíci +4

    GOD forgive me for saying "At least they won't be able to reproduce !".

  • @MarlaGolden-se5uy
    @MarlaGolden-se5uy Před 11 měsíci

    If all people lived with the protection of children as their primary goal = utopia

  • @user-gw9sk1zy4s
    @user-gw9sk1zy4s Před 3 měsíci +2

    Autogynephilia.

  • @connor5669
    @connor5669 Před 9 měsíci

    Very insulting to people who actually lost a spouse

    • @laurenthomas7224
      @laurenthomas7224 Před 8 měsíci +7

      These people did lose a spouse, just in a different way. Don’t gatekeep grief.

    • @connor5669
      @connor5669 Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@laurenthomas7224 You're allowed to grieve things that change in your life, but claiming you're a widow because your ex spouse transitioned is disgusting. Especially to people whose partner is dead.

    • @musicalbenches
      @musicalbenches Před 6 měsíci

      @@connor5669 I imagine it would be insulting to some. Everything is insulting to someone these days.

    • @connor5669
      @connor5669 Před 6 měsíci

      @@musicalbenches your spouse isn't dead, just trans. So stupid to pretend like you're a widow.

    • @helenromanelli2544
      @helenromanelli2544 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Loss is loss..people who divorce experience it as well...I've been both widow and divorced.