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Look at hololive and other female vtubers. Majority of male fans pay lots of money just to chat with her. Is like something similar to rent a girlfriend experience.
I will be honest personally I would have spend that type of money to f her.
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Got similarity to female idols. Like the male customer feeling of exclusive gf experience.
"Did you cut your hair?"
"Police! Throw this man to jail!! Now!"
Ken Suzuki catching strays without even being part of this video
Very informative, and you still had time to make fun of Ken San 😂. Great video, arigatou 🎉
Read my comments.
Just one curiosity: People think this is somewhat exclusive to Japan, but I know for a fact that in Brazil many men go to brothels and don't actually engage in sex with the prostitutes. Many of them just stay there drinking and chatting with the prostitutes, just like they would do with a hostess. The difference is that in Brazil the prostitutes don't earn ANY MONEY for doing that, they don't even earn commission for the drinks and food they consume, they only earn money if they have sex.
We as humans still don't understand sex. So we go about it in ways it will affect someone in a negative way
I think it’s okay to say this service is unique to Japan and that without it, men from different parts of the world go to their local bars, restaurants, strip clubs and brothels and misuse the facility to treat it like a hostess club.
@@OPUP The point I was trying to make is that some people are surprised and judgemental when they hear that Japanese men go to hostess bars just to chat with women, when in reality, this might be occurring in their own country, as I know it happens at least in Brazil. I'm not disputing that hostess bars - and also Maid Cafes, which offer a similar kind of service - are unique to Japan.
@@Funkensturme I misunderstood the intention of your original comment and fully agree with the clarification.
There are guys who pay prostitutes normal sex price just to talk to her. You know why guys do that?
Is like hololive and female vtuber. They want the 'girlfriend experience'. (It is sad, but I understand why they do it.)
The next craze will be ai girlfriend. Whoever makes that work, will be filthy RICH.
Ken Suzuki San is my spirit animal.
Ken san can never take a break, even she knows him as a creepy-san 😂😂😂
Hostess clubs exist in my country(Turkey) too. Especially Ankara city is very famous with Hostess clubs. We name "pavyon(pavillion from English)" them in Turkish.
When I was in Japan, I dated a Japanese girl I met at a ice-skating rink. Young men should try new things, have fun.
I loved the succubus picture, haha. At least everyone knows the situation.
I always look forward to watching your videos Meshida! :)
Mesida is doing the best he can I want promote him to Japan Audit Commiittee special researcher cyberspace firewall consultant.
Please stop picking on senior citizen Ken-san. In Shōwa era, when he was a salaryman, all the girls he worked with used to fear him. He is a major reason why there are harassment laws today in the office. As a way of thanking him you should go see his comedy show. But please do not bring fruit. He cannot afford laundry bill.
We do that here in the US too
Happy NY Meshida san 🥳🥳🥳
Hey man. You're really funny!
Mix just comes off you are some kind of human breed. Half keeps it personal.
LOL, that's not too different from the OnlyFans epidemic here in the US.
At least its a physical interaction in real life over there I suppose 🥶
Japan's version is called Myfans and alot of young Japanese girls have been making Myfans recently.
😂😂 ああ、メシダ兄さん、道化してる兄さん、面白すぎるよ
9:50 Both laughing their asses off : "That's so sad!" "Yes, it is"
I can understand laughing at men who just want to show off their money and their so-called "power" or men who just want to do sexual harassment "legally". But I don't think affective and/or sexual misery is a laughing matter.
I would like to tour Japan with Meshida San...!!
LATINA Japanese??? Now as a Mexican dude, that's what I call "a dream come true" 😂 chingao
I dated a few kyabajou..... never learned my lesson. Sukehara panda desu.
Hey Meshida San! I’m interested in learning about what happens to men who get big debts at these places. Recently there’s been news about young women being forced into prostitution to pay off their host club debts. Do those guys just get a “friendly” visit from some guys with tattoos?
Mix is a racist word🤣 0:42❤️🔥
Well you were funny as always and Ken was just great. But now for the girl you have here learning that she is half Latina my only thing to say is great I bet her grandparents are really proud of their kid on that one.
She is beautiful 😊
In 2012, I remember getting a panty from a Kabazyo at a restaurant, at our table under the tablecloth 😎 Felt like fuckin James Bond. It was better than sex. 😎😎😎
TF did I just read?? 🤣
Is there any way employees can avoid the hostess bar? That sounds like hell for anyone wanting to be narried and/or sober.
Meshida san looks enjoying the conversation...メシダさんがめっちゃ楽しそうじゃん。目がキラキラしてまっせー (^^/
Business cards are documents in Japan, as well as, being a member of trade policy public interest groups or private organizations (usually published in a membership list or document). Referral services with these resources need a common purpose of business. People can not be traded as a commodity or financial service. In the United States the OSHA 300 program consultants have known this legal condition with postal matters.
凄いですね😮
bro im glad im not down bad for women, paying money just to see them is crazy to me.
Vos videos sont toutes très instructives, que ce soit sur nos travers (en tant qu'occidentaux) comme sur les vôtres (Nihon Jin).
Merci pour vos partzges de vidéos, je vous souhaite une belle réussite dans votre carrière d'humoriste, encore, pour cette année 2024.
Je me permets de vous souhaiter mes voeux dans votre langue (veuillez me pardonner pour les erreurs que je commettrai) 新年明けましておめでとうございます
ありがとうございます😊
あけおめです!
the thing is some women there will have physical relationship with you , so you will keep coming to met her next time. that kyabakura girl are smart.
Lonely man talking about their hobbies? huge market
Alcohol harassment is something new I just learned. I think it makes sense not everyone is interested in drinking but is forced to go and drink
Really enjoyed the interview 👍
Japanese Comedian Meshida.
Women are beautiful no matter what age they are.
I love this channel! So funny but so real! I recently went to a snack bar with friends, a little different from Kabakura right? But my Japanese friends love these bars, anyways, I made sure they paid as I didn’t want to go and unlike them, I receive no Santa bonus. Really strange culture, would never work in my country Jamaica, just buy some 🐈
guys want to spend time with young pretty gurls. honestly it doesnt sound like a bad way to spend an afternoon
Quite a few westerner ladies worked in such places too. I'm not sure now with the low yen.
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Great video and very informative.❤️ Lotsa men seek companionship. Trouble is the way they do it. And how they approach a woman. Especially me. Lol such a lively woman and I love her sense of humor. I'm too old though. ❤ Happy New Year to you Meshida-san , you and the young woman. ✨️✨️✨️
So Kyabakura is basically the American version of strip clubs 😂🤣
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It existe depuis les temps en France we call it les filles de joie
Japanese latinas looks different in their attitude, probably due to their latino background.
It is often easier to talk openly with a stranger, than it is with a friend or family.
With a friend? Then its not a friend dude..
I can understand the problem with "alcohol harassment" or sexual harassment, but if saying "half", asking about a perfum or a haircut is considered harassment, then it seems that the Japanese youth is becoming soft.
Replace soft with respectful. There, it's fixed. No woman wants to hear that from others... Everyone on earth knows it's a come on. It's unwanted. You're infringing on their right to not being harassed...
Half most likely because it insinuates you're not full of any one thing. Mixed doesn't have that connotation.
Think before you speak/act. It'll help you in the long run
@@ohdaUtube Thank you for your superior wisdom.
I agree with you. Seems like the first signs of myopic political correctness... It is not the words that matter, neither their original meaning, but the intention of the person using the words.
Where I'm from, we use our expression for "son of a bitch" both for praising and for offending, and everyone is capable of understanding the intention in both cases.
@@Funkensturme Right, it's a matter of pragmatics. There's a difference between "You're being a mate, cunt." and "You're being a cunt, mate." Unfortunately, virtue signalers are so busy chocking on the ivory tower in which they live that they convince themselves being pusillanimous equates to being superior.
@@Funkensturme words have impact to the person you're speaking to. The intent of words is to relay what you're thinking. If you're relaying thoughts the other person receives as disrespectful, you fail at that aspect of communicating. It's not just intent you need to consider. It's intent (important) and how it's received (just as important, if not more)
(4:38) Does the boss lose respect of his subordinates if he does not flaunt his money?
Half japanese😂 may sound racist but it is what it is😂😂😂. Ken san can never be replaced in your show😂
‘’完全肯定“ my Japanese is getting better. But that doesn't solve the root of the problem.
This was a hilarious conversation, signed future s3 xual oji-san :)
Biracial:
Of, for, or consisting of members of two races.
Having parents of two different races.
Consisting of, combining two races.
But the word "race" itself is racist. We're all part of the same, unique, HUMAN race. Ethnicity is what differs. Not "race".
you know you're at the lowest point of your life when you need to spend money just to talk with a woman!!!!
Sounds like teaching Japanese men how to talk to women is a business opportunity.
From what I see from other channels about Japan, it seems to me that, in general, Japanese women don't enjoy being approached like western women, so our experiences might not apply to them.
@@Funkensturme I might be wrong, but I think it's illegal to approach women in Japan. For dating, asking directions is OK.
@@Funkensturme from street interviews women say that they want to be approached as long as it's not done in a creepy or harassing way. People are just too shy and don't know how to talk to strangers.
@@daniel-zh9nj6yn6y it's definitely not illegal. I think that might be France actually. Pick artists even exist in Japan. Not sure if dating coaches do.
Japanese pick up artists duh
One of the reason is that there is simply no point talk with the woman at home.
will never understand this part of the culture. You can straight up go to the soapland next door and have sex and it costs less. These kyabakuras charge by hour or 30 minutes plus the drinks are expensive. You end up spending more than for sex 😂
people want a connection to a young pretty gurl.
Maybe some of them have much money and must be very bad at talking, at sex or both so wtf
In the US, Americans pay extravagant sums to psychiatrists and psychologists in order to manage their mental illnesses, which are incredibly widespread in America since I've never met a sane American. They're always unsettled with themselves, others or their environment. They're never at peace. That's why some of them seek alternative treatments in Japan. Hostesses are better than Dr. Shrink, and they only give you alcohol as medication, not harmful psychiatric drugs. They cost much less too. In Japan, you can even talk to similar girls at maid cafes, idol shows or even at the streets where the girls hand out flyers to promote their shows, cafes or bars. You can even rent a girlfriend, a family or any thing else that your mind needs to heal it. A lot of people in Japan tend to be autistic, but in America, they tend to be manic, gay or bipolar. In any case, Japan offers them all alternative medicine at an affordable price!
What kinda people do you hang with?
What about pay per click hyperlink and top level domain name as cost benefit analysis for Japanese adult graphic lewd content (age restrictions insurance regulations).
I like this line :That's why some of them seek alternative treatments in Japan.lol
According to NIH, "the 🍷-Related Disease Impact application estimates that each year there are more than 140,000 ☠'s (approximately 97,000 male ☠'s and 43,000 female ☠'s) attributable to excessive 🍷use"
@@Notme-tq4xs People he met on Twitter and Reddit, why do you ask?
You could have this in the US. Plenty of guys scared to death of women. Lots of them post here.
(Happily married for decades myself.)
On one hand this is interesting that men can have this outlet to socialize, on the other hand it is disappointing that the true feelings towards the men are so negative. Meshida if you interview her again, please ask what guys can do to make things pleasant like good behaviors to do and not bad behaviors to avoid.
These guys should be home with their wives and kids and stop wasting money on people who think they are creepy. Keep the money and take the family on holidays. Investing in family relationships is better for them in the long run.
@@vivianidelacerda9708some of them just marry for appareances, some lose the sexual appeal for their wives and shi.. they get bored or whatever.
In other videos they talk about the social and marriage problems of Japan.
ホステスのところには行かないでください。 彼らはあなたのことをとても悪く思っています。
話はちょっと傾いていると思います🤔2、3回指名したらエッチはだいたい確実です。私が外人として、カバ嬢の話がつまらなくて、僕がギャラをもらうべきです😂
"Saying half is racist" 😂😂😂 How soft and pathetic.
Who let this babyman out of Xitter?
Why this type of clubs not in Pakistan why????
Would the laws and religion even allow such a thing?
Yeah absolutely not allow
You got an ansver.
@@clinton4161 🤣 dude knew the answer before he even asked the question LOL like wtf
Thats why I prefer a country or society not dominated by religion.
Glad she quit early
Nah, I rather pay a woman so I can take her out to go motorboating...
BRBRBRBRBRBRBRBRBRBRBRBRBRBRBRBRBRBRBRBRBRBRB!!!!
Happy ending in Bangkok Manila HCM costs only $50
@@dongshengdi773
USD? That'll be 250+MYR in my money though...
E is my maximum tolerance though, any bigger than F is a no go for me btw.
you're definitely a virgin LMAO
@@dongshengdi773thats approx 4 days of my salary in Brazil, almost a weekend not cheap at all.. but Im a minimum wage guy so thats it..
Loosers
Well, this makes lots of material for comedy, and, OK, if you can make a living off it, fine. Funny stuff. But, on the other hand, this is tragic for Japan and many other countries around the world. We all need a religious awakening or we all are falling off a cliff in the future. Nothing is more beautiful than a married couple with children staying in their lane being moral, of standing against all the temptations the world can throw at them.
Shut up Jesus! This is just for fun. And fun it is.