A Father Meets Killer Face-2-Face Who Killed His Son

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  • čas přidán 15. 03. 2021
  • Seven years ago, Shane Harrison and Dillin Pakai were found guilty of murdering 25-year-old Sio Matalasi during a stoush between rival Mongrel Mob members in Wellington. Sio, who had a young son and a new baby on the way, was not a gang member. However, he was friends with several members of the Petone Mongrel Mob chapter who lived in a nearby flat.
    He stepped in to try to help his mates and was shot at close range by 18-year-old Pakai. It was 43-year-old Harrison who had ordered Pakai to start shooting during the confrontation.
    Matalasi has wanted to meet Harrison since the day he forgave him in court. After seven years, the meeting finally went ahead at Hawke’s Bay Regional Prison early last month.
    #Mongrelmob
    #Gangs
    #Prison
    #samoamedia
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  • @SamoaMediaNZ
    @SamoaMediaNZ  Před rokem +17

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  • @chrisnixon8870
    @chrisnixon8870 Před 3 lety +2769

    Forgive others.
    Not because they deserve forgiveness.
    But because you deserve peace.

    • @AreLL
      @AreLL Před 3 lety +47

      best answer on the comments.
      and yes it is from the Holy Bible. Jesus lives.

    • @FuzzyDPozzy
      @FuzzyDPozzy Před 3 lety +37

      say that after your kid is dead. People make words easy without knowing what they mean. I dont know but if somebody stole my scooter or my pc i am gonna hate them and curse them for my entire life. Imagine if someone killed my son or something.

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      @judahchrist7741 Před 3 lety +2

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    • @ezrider1967
      @ezrider1967 Před 3 lety +16

      Very well said! They say holding a grudge is like drinking poison and expecting someone else to get sick. God bless you Chris! I'm not sure I could have forgiven him.

  • @SatansMinion1974
    @SatansMinion1974 Před 3 lety +1718

    This father is the most amazing human I’ve ever heard speak.

    • @whatyoutalkingaboutwillis9164
      @whatyoutalkingaboutwillis9164 Před 3 lety +19

      Yep and my dad.

    • @adewerry
      @adewerry Před 3 lety +10

      Amen!

    • @NZ_Man
      @NZ_Man Před 3 lety +13

      So very heartwarming & sad

    • @nauvalfakhri
      @nauvalfakhri Před 3 lety +12

      Believe me there are still truthful, brave and kind hearted people. Keep spreading love and kindness.

    • @judahchrist7741
      @judahchrist7741 Před 3 lety +4

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  • @zerorider123
    @zerorider123 Před 2 lety +360

    Mr. Matalasi was my high school Social Studies teacher at St. Pats Wellington. He was a great teacher but I had no idea of his challenge and the depth of character he had. To me this is the pinnacle of strength and Mana

    • @luka-ke3fs
      @luka-ke3fs Před 2 lety +2

      up the dooleys mbro

    • @johnnyjacksonson457
      @johnnyjacksonson457 Před rokem +2

      Oh damn, it's the same guy. I thought I recognised him. He taught at Rongotai while I was there

    • @africaunite4489
      @africaunite4489 Před rokem

      Which country is this?

    • @lueyR
      @lueyR Před rokem

      ​@@africaunite4489new Zealand

    • @chrisroger4416
      @chrisroger4416 Před 8 měsíci

      same here bro. waht year?

  • @anthonytabura6346
    @anthonytabura6346 Před 3 lety +104

    I myself committed aggravated armed robbery, even though I was sentenced years ago and have been out living my life differently since then there's not a day that goes by that I don't think about the victims in the situation I was in and it tears me apart and once I had children of my own I hurt me even more to realize what I had done and how it's not about me when we all have a right to live in this world peacefully with each other and coexist and there was nothing important in this life that was worth taking somebody else's right to have a freedom or to live their life to the fullest with their loved ones in my opinion, It was very touching to hear this, grieving father forgive the other two boys and years later he's going into put this behind him by confronting the other man and it makes him a wonderful wonderful father grandfather and man, Amen..

    • @ronaldedwardpotterjr.6361
      @ronaldedwardpotterjr.6361 Před rokem +1

      love you're voice

    • @tezetaaschalew6468
      @tezetaaschalew6468 Před rokem

      God loves you ❤ take care and if you can listen to some great preacher called td jakes on you tube.i hope you like it,and let go of guilt and start fresh 😊 you deserve it.much love coning your way.

    • @mjanny6330
      @mjanny6330 Před rokem

      Damn, destroying lives, raping the community around you but thinking that "feeling bad" makes it all better.

    • @squidjames7735
      @squidjames7735 Před rokem

      Pay it forward. God bless. Kiss ya kids every night.

    • @mattydnz9980
      @mattydnz9980 Před 11 měsíci

      Your karma will come brother

  • @thehidden3795
    @thehidden3795 Před 3 lety +1726

    I am not a religious person and I know about revenge but the father’s *ABILITY* to forgive is on another level ... *I truly wish him peace* 💯

    • @yessirrr5182
      @yessirrr5182 Před 3 lety +44

      Cause he knows god

    • @qloco7329
      @qloco7329 Před 3 lety +22

      @@yessirrr5182 god dont exist

    • @yessirrr5182
      @yessirrr5182 Před 3 lety +56

      @@qloco7329 he does that’s why everything exists, nothing can be created out of nothing, for god is spirit, we cannot see spirit, everything was made and everything he’s made made what’s existing,

    • @prod-brawlstars6139
      @prod-brawlstars6139 Před 3 lety +25

      @@yessirrr5182 I don’t believe in him either but I respect your opinion

    • @yessirrr5182
      @yessirrr5182 Před 3 lety +40

      @@prod-brawlstars6139 I use to not believe to, but you know by the spirit you recieve within, that’s when your eyes open up and see it, not physically but you’ll recieve godly intuitions instincts, what I mean is holiness, the Holy Spirit it reveals to you everything, you’ll have love joy peace in your heart more than ever, Jesus loves you and we can only receive him by the Holy Spirit, it sounds so stupid (I thought it was stupid) until end of last year my eyes opened up and knew what it meant, changed my perspective on life but it’s only by me praying reading going to church that makes me understand this, trust me bro , Holy Spirit is power to overcome all darkness it’s the light of god, that’s why I encourage people so much cause as much as we say we don’t or it’s not for me, the truth is we all need god, we need that spirit to help us to endure through darkness and hardships

  • @julianalderson6996
    @julianalderson6996 Před 3 lety +182

    I cant believe how strong he is to hug his sons killer, stronger than any gang"

    • @Lucky-qh1do
      @Lucky-qh1do Před 2 lety +2

      👍

    • @emilyvillanueva9766
      @emilyvillanueva9766 Před 2 lety +4

      GOD BLESSED HIM.. BECAUSE I KNOW I COULD NOT FORGET OR FORGIVE

    • @dreaminguniverse1317
      @dreaminguniverse1317 Před 2 lety +5

      you don't fight fire with fire, and you don't fight darkness with darkness, only thing you fight back with is love. trust me

    • @nekethoms9963
      @nekethoms9963 Před 2 lety +2

      @@dreaminguniverse1317 You get it.

    • @aaroncrosby2173
      @aaroncrosby2173 Před 2 lety

      Hug his sons killer? Bullshit he is playing on the attention he is getting.

  • @daniellucero2132
    @daniellucero2132 Před 3 lety +275

    A true Man and a true Man of God.

    • @mpf_agundipsht3619
      @mpf_agundipsht3619 Před 3 lety +3

      Yet god will smite a family for 3 generations for he is a jealous god . . .

    • @cristobal6434
      @cristobal6434 Před 2 lety +4

      Fuck god

    • @starlight620
      @starlight620 Před 2 lety +2

      @@mpf_agundipsht3619 But then he sent his son Jesus to die on the cross for there sins. And no longer did that. That is why he Sent him to die. To take there death away.

    • @mpf_agundipsht3619
      @mpf_agundipsht3619 Před 2 lety

      @@starlight620 that’s Hebrew religion, we live in aotearoa ………. Which has its own gods

    • @starlight620
      @starlight620 Před 2 lety +3

      @@mpf_agundipsht3619 it's not even Hebrew religion. More people believe in God more then any other religion with a god. And not just "Hebrews"

  • @jayneforster5677
    @jayneforster5677 Před 2 lety +102

    This father is an amazing human ! There’s no other way to describe him !

    • @Coldrockin
      @Coldrockin Před rokem

      I feel for this Fathers loss. But i would rather a sacrafice for my loss. Little bitch mongrel mob

    • @Wedget
      @Wedget Před 8 měsíci +1

      This Father has strength and spirituality which unfortunately I very much doubt I am strong enough to obtain and withhold, Amazing human being who is a huge benefit to the rest of us Selfish people, God Bless him.

    • @CJ-tf5yd
      @CJ-tf5yd Před 6 měsíci

      Amazing through Jesus Christ.❤️

  • @jimfromyork1
    @jimfromyork1 Před 3 lety +269

    My heart goes out to the father, what an inspiration to us all.

  • @kylieevolved7400
    @kylieevolved7400 Před 3 lety +246

    I wouldn’t be forgiving a person smiling at his murder trial. More power to that father. I couldn’t do it.

    • @Batticia
      @Batticia Před 3 lety +8

      Same here

    • @badderen92
      @badderen92 Před 3 lety +6

      Sadly you can't say that because you don't know how it is and how it would change you as a person :)

    • @louiville7
      @louiville7 Před 3 lety +6

      You would be surprised how God changes a person's heart and thinking. Forgiveness is powerful! The devil hates when you forgive others. Peace & blessings to you

    • @davidfox2586
      @davidfox2586 Před 3 lety +2

      @@badderen92 theres only one real man here and its nt the guy with the tattoos

    • @sasanrad
      @sasanrad Před 2 lety

      @@louiville7 voodoo

  • @vivienl2826
    @vivienl2826 Před 2 lety +16

    I have never seen such a story and such an amazing man as this father is! So much love and respect!!

  • @tlilmiztli
    @tlilmiztli Před 2 lety +10

    I could not forgive something like that. Its unimaginable amount of compassion and forgiveness.

  • @Pearlygatesbouncer
    @Pearlygatesbouncer Před 3 lety +593

    The father is a truly angelic being. What strength, what mental fortitude, what enormous courage he has to forgive his sons killer. Respect.

    • @kattihatt
      @kattihatt Před 3 lety +2

      @@bonnieshelswell4203 thats some big bullshit right there. You can forgive as an atheist aswell.

    • @davidnagy2336
      @davidnagy2336 Před 3 lety +5

      @@kattihatt being an atheist you are look how aggressive you came off what he means is if you have faith In Christ you have peace in your heart yes you can forgive as an atheist but when you have faith in Christ it’s better and may god bless you too

    • @kattihatt
      @kattihatt Před 3 lety +2

      @@davidnagy2336 no its not better. I dont need your blessings.

    • @frontbattles8090
      @frontbattles8090 Před 3 lety +1

      when you rely on imaginative entities to behave like a human..

    • @robotstonka7118
      @robotstonka7118 Před 3 lety +1

      @@bonnieshelswell4203 Where was "god" when innicent children's were brutally raped by priests and their church was covering their crimes FOR DECADES?!?!
      God does not care about us, because it's not real!! God is for weak minded people who are scared to die or like this father can't cope with his sons death.
      You can kill as long you become a christian, then ALL is forgiven!!🥳 3000year old believe of primitive people who back then didn't know any better and had to be controlled by clergy. You all use current science and technology now every day!! and yet you are stuck on outdated believe system, in which "god" created Eve out of Adams rib!!😂 and earth is only 5000years old not as we know now about 5BILLION years old, and so on...
      Take finelly responsibility for your own life's it's no point of being afraid so much all your life!!

  • @lbradshaw6817
    @lbradshaw6817 Před 3 lety +134

    In tears right now😭 Im a 47yr old man father of 4 this was awesome and powerful at the same time how forgiveness can set us free.❤🙏

    • @harrykhay7273
      @harrykhay7273 Před 3 lety +4

      Absolutely true brother, no doubt.

    • @darrell3391
      @darrell3391 Před 3 lety +4

      In tears with ya, 46, three grown children and four grandkids, that man had me blubbering, forgiveness is a powerful tool.

    • @emptyemptiness8372
      @emptyemptiness8372 Před 3 lety +3

      I understand bro. 54yr old father myself.

    • @jonesj811
      @jonesj811 Před 3 lety +3

      Very moving. As a father of 3 idk if i could forgive. Beautiful story

    • @xxxskillzxxx1520
      @xxxskillzxxx1520 Před 3 lety

      As a 102 year old man 😭 n have 1 week to live i lived a good life 🤧

  • @enriquetellez7362
    @enriquetellez7362 Před 3 lety +19

    I never met this man. But he's taught me a lot today. 🙏

  • @sm3296
    @sm3296 Před 3 lety +19

    What an amazing father and grandfather and man. As a mom who lost a son all too early I know the pain of loss we share. His forgiveness to those two men who used bravado to hide behind, would have touched a place inside them it would seem was completely gone.

  • @ricardoferreira2038
    @ricardoferreira2038 Před 3 lety +656

    Killer looks like a mortal kombat character... Father is a incredible Human being

  • @blank-dr2kx
    @blank-dr2kx Před 3 lety +352

    The father that forgives, he is the strongest human I've ever seen, genuinely. He really made the murderer feel at ease, that's an incredible.power to behold.

    • @OmarAbdulMalikDHEdMPASPACPAPro
      @OmarAbdulMalikDHEdMPASPACPAPro Před 3 lety +15

      It's truly AWE-INSPIRING! I don't know that I could do it!😔 I hope to GOD, He NEVER tests me like THAT! I NEVER knew love or protectiveness like that of being a dad! It's almost painful! When the dad said, "I wasn't there when he needed me"...MAN, that hurt!💔

    • @jackiedorman2188
      @jackiedorman2188 Před 3 lety +7

      God does amazing things.

    • @blank-dr2kx
      @blank-dr2kx Před 3 lety +6

      @@OmarAbdulMalikDHEdMPASPACPAPro there is still love left in this world. Spread the love today, just do one thing that will make a difference

    • @heathergardiner7013
      @heathergardiner7013 Před 3 lety +2

      @@jackiedorman2188 Like allowing the other to be MURDERED whilst looking on?

    • @thehermit761
      @thehermit761 Před 3 lety +2

      They are at ease because they have gotten away with murder.

  • @n23817
    @n23817 Před 3 lety +9

    The contrast between Sio's father and the goodness he projects and embodies and the evil that is permanently etched on the faces of the killers of his son is frighteningly sobering..

  • @erikajack9869
    @erikajack9869 Před rokem +15

    A Father's Love and the forgiveness he gave just shows what a beautiful man he is and all the love to the families involved.

  • @iluvbigbootie
    @iluvbigbootie Před 3 lety +237

    wow 12 or 13 years sentence for a murder that is like a slap on the wrist

    • @chiefy3764
      @chiefy3764 Před 3 lety +8

      Right... England is on a different level it’s sad...

    • @iluvbigbootie
      @iluvbigbootie Před 3 lety +32

      @@chiefy3764 i think this is New Zealand

    • @bdot4988
      @bdot4988 Před 3 lety +4

      @@chiefy3764 not england bro

    • @phonelounge4513
      @phonelounge4513 Před 3 lety +33

      Welcome to new zealand. People get less for worse.

    • @unknownytaus
      @unknownytaus Před 3 lety +4

      True just lock him in a cell with me over night I would change his life as an X inmate.

  • @yaratv2000
    @yaratv2000 Před 3 lety +445

    There is a Scottish saying "Forgive your enemy but remember the bastard's name"

    • @684boibeast6
      @684boibeast6 Před 3 lety +2

      Fuck you talking about

    • @andrewsampton
      @andrewsampton Před 3 lety +21

      @@684boibeast6 forgive but never forget

    • @peace-now
      @peace-now Před 3 lety +6

      Scotland is the worst and most violent place on earth. It is run by a secret mob boss based in Edinburgh, crime capital of the UK.

    • @trhoades2063
      @trhoades2063 Před 3 lety +1

      They say that in Lithuania too

    • @batissta44
      @batissta44 Před 3 lety +6

      Forgiveness is overrated. Justice is all that matters.

  • @aloha_oe311
    @aloha_oe311 Před 3 lety +30

    What an understanding loving person the father is. The world needs more people like him.
    I also love the way the killer changed and accepted what he has done and that he was truly sorry about what he has done, showing love can really change a murderer to start become a better person.

  • @sweetnaas4301
    @sweetnaas4301 Před 3 lety +33

    It doesn't matter how he puts up his face or status,the real Shane Harrison is hiding behind ✊🧐

  • @someone8505
    @someone8505 Před 3 lety +935

    People saying the father shouldn’t have forgiven his sons killers gotta understand maybe this was his only way to finally get closure and not suffer from anger/sadness and grief for all these years of the loss of his son.

    • @mastermao8592
      @mastermao8592 Před 3 lety +36

      Exactly well said heaps finally some common calm sense instead of all the keyboard warriors in the comments

    • @spikedominikovichspikearoo1900
      @spikedominikovichspikearoo1900 Před 3 lety +19

      @@mastermao8592 yes exactly Sio,s Dad is healing slowly and he has given the opportunity to Shane Harrison /Dillin Pakai to heal as well much Respect

    • @waveyproductions3729
      @waveyproductions3729 Před 3 lety +5

      That’s some facts there💯

    • @pluto2397
      @pluto2397 Před 3 lety +12

      There's only two ways to get peice and move on,and that is to get revenge or to forgive

    • @spikedominikovichspikearoo1900
      @spikedominikovichspikearoo1900 Před 3 lety +6

      @@pluto2397 yep i agree but if revenge is going to put you behind bars that would be a waste

  • @cherieleti5692
    @cherieleti5692 Před 3 lety +308

    This had me in tears so beautiful the power of forgiveness and his faith in God definitely played a big part love this 😢❤️

    • @sheeeeessssh2990
      @sheeeeessssh2990 Před 3 lety +6

      God is good in many ways TU TANGATA IWI TAPU 🙏

    • @chesmith8594
      @chesmith8594 Před 3 lety +2

      Unconditional love is all that really matters

    • @sharonsingh9919
      @sharonsingh9919 Před 3 lety +1

      shit got me tearry eyedd

    • @judahchrist7741
      @judahchrist7741 Před 3 lety +1

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      @judahchrist7741 Před 3 lety +2

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  • @Karimokiro
    @Karimokiro Před 3 lety +48

    God JUSTICE is better than this world “Justice”

    • @h1mura285
      @h1mura285 Před 3 lety +1

      God does not exist

    • @oluwashikemijohnson6178
      @oluwashikemijohnson6178 Před 3 lety +2

      @@h1mura285 In your dreams

    • @bibin6766
      @bibin6766 Před 3 lety

      Is this God's justice?

    • @yaratv2000
      @yaratv2000 Před 3 lety

      where is god when you need him/her? if exist he/she is not fair and makes him/her bad which gives a valid fact, he/she doesn't exist.

    • @mercymasai3494
      @mercymasai3494 Před 2 lety

      True

  • @rexbanner7611
    @rexbanner7611 Před 3 lety +10

    Powerful stuff. God bless this man and his grandsons.

  • @dcp1116
    @dcp1116 Před 3 lety +63

    Hes a special person I dont know if many of us could be this forgiving respect.

  • @boxerwayne6660
    @boxerwayne6660 Před 3 lety +362

    This is about forgiveness and Iafeta who is a religious man is actually putting into action what he knows, taught and learned from following God's teachings. Bless your beautiful heart Iafeta🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️

    • @adambamf9365
      @adambamf9365 Před 3 lety +5

      iv also had the same lessons but man i would still cry for blood he is a very strong person

    • @CrazyWhiteVanDriver
      @CrazyWhiteVanDriver Před 3 lety

      Government
      Ordinance
      Department...

    • @harrykhay7273
      @harrykhay7273 Před 3 lety +3

      I'm with you brother. There is a place for people like this father. Forgiving and rising above and to see his grandsons through, what a man. Not many find this courage for sure.

    • @conejoXX209
      @conejoXX209 Před 3 lety +4

      If there really was a god he did a good job protecting that man's SON... 👎

    • @jestnutz
      @jestnutz Před 3 lety +5

      @@conejoXX209 God does not intervene with free will, it isn't free will if hes in control.

  •  Před 3 lety +10

    I would NEVER have been able to behave like this "father" who's forgiven the killing of his son ! Never ever !
    I would have seek revenge and destroyed the killer's family and then ended him in the most painful way...
    I don't care if it's not the "right" thing to do ! if you do me harm, i'll do you harm + bonus !!
    Where's the justice for the person killed here ? his life ended without him having any choices about it. Can someone ask him if he's willing to forgive ? it's not possible, therefore there's no forgiveness to be given !

    • @BoMalki737
      @BoMalki737 Před 3 měsíci

      I am much forgiven by The Lord, therefore I am able to forgive. 😊

  • @Metatron141
    @Metatron141 Před 3 lety +13

    Wow, amazing father. To forgive your boy's killer...blows me away. God bless this precious father. An example of pure love. A pure example of Jesus.

  • @drstew1
    @drstew1 Před 3 lety +164

    When he said nothing I do or say will bring my son back. And chose forgiveness. That is truly breathtaking and human. It’s love like this that will change our world

    • @Shawnx-jb7sv
      @Shawnx-jb7sv Před 3 lety +5

      We always find it incredibly powerful and emotionally moving when someone excercises this level of love, in direct response to follow JESUS'S example for us to lovingly copy and spread! 🙏👍🙏😘🤗😍

    • @Snajdan
      @Snajdan Před 3 lety +1

      u call that love? lol

    • @drstew1
      @drstew1 Před 3 lety +2

      @@Snajdan For you, no seems ? Me def and the Forgiveness...

    • @bengraham9305
      @bengraham9305 Před 3 lety +2

      Love will always win. Jah bless ❤️💛💚

    • @thehermit761
      @thehermit761 Před 3 lety

      but it is not going to change our world what happened to Ghandi?

  • @kingoftheworld53
    @kingoftheworld53 Před 3 lety +67

    What can one say, this man is a perfect example of a person.

  • @jclyn8248
    @jclyn8248 Před rokem

    Forgiveness is powerful. Thank you for sharing this video program...May their testimonies continue to touch lives and change hearts.

  • @mrjpcool
    @mrjpcool Před rokem +1

    What a very real, touching story that shows how a fathers forgiveness can not only heal & set himself free, but everyone in that room! And everyone who has watched this interview/ story! I do take my hat of to him! A very sad story but such a beautiful truth & meaning in it of what life is really about! And what this world needs more of!! LOVE…..

  • @judejay2971
    @judejay2971 Před 3 lety +71

    I'm from Sri Lanka. We have a saying . " Making mistakes is what men do. Forgiving is what Gods do "..... This man is above a normal human being.

    • @nicolepicknell6351
      @nicolepicknell6351 Před 3 lety +1

      He true kiwi Maori respect our country

    • @lulumagele26
      @lulumagele26 Před 3 lety +1

      This is Man is human like the rest of us. Only the Holy Spirit within him has enabled him to truely forgive this man for killing his son. Only the power of God can help us to forgive like this. God is real and He lives in the life of those who are true Christians. Praise God.

  • @JasonBrockStick
    @JasonBrockStick Před 3 lety +89

    I will strive to be the MAN that father is - he experienced the heights of pain in this world and was able to grow as a human. His son is able to feel this even from the other side, I know how proud he is and how his father is helping so many people get an understanding of what is truly possible. You sir, have touched the deepest part of me. Thank You.

  • @aihelpline
    @aihelpline Před rokem

    Thank you for such a wonderful video

  • @arianamarsters5013
    @arianamarsters5013 Před 2 lety +4

    He may not have bought his son back, but his son lives on in the compassion his father shows every day. What a beautiful human being his father is.

  • @steve660917
    @steve660917 Před 3 lety +64

    As a father myself and grandfather this made me cry!!

  • @natural9743
    @natural9743 Před 3 lety +91

    This man has an inner strength that is beyond belief. He is an inspiration to the human race.

  • @rcmwsibby3368
    @rcmwsibby3368 Před 2 lety +3

    My dad got murdered on 14th April 2021 and my sister got murdered in August 2019 in Papua New Guinea while I was happy living here in Palmerston North, New Zealand. I am reduced to tears watching this because I am struggling to forgive the people who killed them. All I have is hate within me. The worse thing is that I know these people. They are my family. I couldn't go and pay my respects to them because of COVID-19. Once the borders open, I will take the first flight out.

  • @leapaituiletufuga9484
    @leapaituiletufuga9484 Před rokem +2

    This is absolutely amazing, thank you to this wonderful father and his family.

  • @chansevanatta9606
    @chansevanatta9606 Před 3 lety +84

    Holy shit!!! I couldn't personally ever forgive someone who hurt my child but, must say, this man is a much better person than me and, this truly touched me and, made me tear tf up... especially when he gave his victim impact statement... life is crazy and too short for grudges

  • @dylanham1993
    @dylanham1993 Před 3 lety +56

    This made me break down in tears.. very powerful!

  • @sm3296
    @sm3296 Před 3 lety

    The power of this meeting turned my heart over, what beauty in this meeting, what strength and change it inspired. This act of forgiveness has had a chain reaction that will be felt a king time.

  • @claudiajones356
    @claudiajones356 Před 2 lety

    Thank you sir for setting this example for us

  • @ISLAND_KWEEN685
    @ISLAND_KWEEN685 Před 3 lety +25

    This testimony so very Powerful that has brought tears & love😭❤
    Iafeta Malo lava le Onosa'i, male loto faamagalo, Faafetai le loto Toa, ole alu i lalo ete manumalo ai🙌👌
    Thank You for being great example to many,
    As a Father/Uncle/Brother you are a role model to our Community and to the youths.
    Now days its all about forgiving and love each other show good examples to our children/kids and the youth and our community.
    LIFE IS TOO SHORT.
    Live life to the fullest and love your neighbour.
    God Bless & much Alofas & Aroha❤

  • @lulumagele26
    @lulumagele26 Před 3 lety +172

    All glory to God. Amazing testimony and an encouragement for all us Christians that this is true forgiveness. God showed us first and foremost what true forgiveness was through the death of His ONLY Son who died on the cross for our sons. God bless you Iafeta and your family. God bless Shane and may he through this experience come to know the Lord. Praise God. What a beautiful touching story. Brought tears to my eyes and made me reflect on my life as a Christian.

    • @roletaferetinuuola7455
      @roletaferetinuuola7455 Před 3 lety +6

      It’s a very sad situation. It’s biblical to forgive but Shane and Dillon must now reap what has been sewn and do the time. I hope they will be convicted of their actions and repent and live for the Lord. I hope Iafeta is in a church that preaches the truth because many people in churches are given half truths. We must be born again and then continue on til the end. Jesus bless you all czcams.com/video/E5igxAyX0sc/video.html

    • @lulumagele26
      @lulumagele26 Před 3 lety +2

      @@roletaferetinuuola7455 Amen Roleta! I totally agree with you 💯 with everything you mentioned. Yes, let's hope he is planted in a church that teaches Sound Doctrine.

    • @rohanharrison9220
      @rohanharrison9220 Před 3 lety +2

      Its a powerful testimony if Shane ever does come into a relationship with God 🙏🏽

    • @lulumagele26
      @lulumagele26 Před 3 lety +2

      @@rohanharrison9220 Amen. Only God can change the heart of man. Prayers for salvation upon Shane's life. No doubt there will be many saints praying for him.

    • @r.m.k.1974
      @r.m.k.1974 Před 3 lety

      Jesus is Not God and never died for your sins . Allah is your true God and you pay your own sins

  • @makamurphy
    @makamurphy Před rokem

    This is a crazy wonderful experience to share! Forgiveness is beautiful!

  • @traceyross8528
    @traceyross8528 Před 2 lety +3

    Absolutely loved this! It was such a joy to see these 2 men talk with love and respect. Forgiveness is so powerful. Cheers for the upload.

  • @jtaukilani959
    @jtaukilani959 Před 3 lety +32

    We need more men like Matalasi in the world today. God bless you Sir.

  • @koria9620
    @koria9620 Před 3 lety +85

    That is extremely powerful. Never underestimate the power of forgiveness. Of course it takes time to get to this place, very touching.

    • @DrLuke49
      @DrLuke49 Před 3 lety +6

      Forgiveness is only possible through the power of God. I have called upon that power many times.

    • @mariamnureni8222
      @mariamnureni8222 Před 2 lety

      @@DrLuke49 we

  • @jimzafiriou7808
    @jimzafiriou7808 Před 2 lety +1

    Amazing, that's all I can say, heart wrenching, lifts the soul, more videos like this please.

  • @diggernicks
    @diggernicks Před rokem +21

    With all respect man, I could never forgive someone who took my child away from me like that. Never. No chance

  • @8610sarge
    @8610sarge Před 3 lety +32

    No words can describe how honourable this man is. There's a lesson for us all, hate and revenge only divides us and makes us weak, we all need to come together, forgive those that have wronged us and live decent and fulfilling lives. What an amazing man.

  • @lulumagele26
    @lulumagele26 Před 3 lety +53

    The ultimate weapon is the power of prayer.

    • @greasy14
      @greasy14 Před 3 lety +4

      Amen 🙏🙏

    • @adambamf9365
      @adambamf9365 Před 3 lety

      but how does the anger subside ??

    • @lulumagele26
      @lulumagele26 Před 3 lety +3

      @@adambamf9365 prayer is releasing it from our hands and leaving it in God's hands. He is the judge of all. Vengeance is of the Lord. Not for man.

    • @farrenansell4826
      @farrenansell4826 Před 3 lety

      @@lulumagele26 100% fact

  • @mbalindima2153
    @mbalindima2153 Před 3 lety +1

    So much respect for this forgiving man!🙌🏽❤

  • @delishme2
    @delishme2 Před 2 lety

    What a wonderful program. Personal redemption is a powerful thing. Blessings and healing to all.

  • @666tReaper
    @666tReaper Před 3 lety +57

    The roller coaster of emotions I felt watching this was truly powerful.

    • @peppapug3789
      @peppapug3789 Před 3 lety +1

      wtf is wrong with your name

    • @usieff4866
      @usieff4866 Před 2 lety

      You need Jesus man, Jesus is literally what helped this man

  • @steveg9173
    @steveg9173 Před 3 lety +91

    Well done Dad, God is good and choosing forgiveness is what heals. We all need a lesson from this Man. He understands what holding onto Faith is. And to the ex mm member take up his challenge to go to Church you would be a mighty Christian warrior we need them more than ever right now.

    • @bmanmann7873
      @bmanmann7873 Před 3 lety

      Wow! Yup fill them ranks with more predators like yourselves 🤮

  • @TKara-bi6in
    @TKara-bi6in Před 2 lety +1

    Amazing story thank you for sharing 💞

  • @jezshaddup
    @jezshaddup Před 4 měsíci

    Great documentary, love these series

  • @jaybeecov3109
    @jaybeecov3109 Před 3 lety +74

    This was so emotionally moving.. at times i could not hold back my tears! As a father i felt the victims dads pain and im in ore of his strength and manna. What a absolute warrior of light he is! God bless him and his whanau. 🥺😢🙏🏽♥️

  • @timeistooshort2933
    @timeistooshort2933 Před 3 lety +16

    Man this doco and interview is so powerful...it brought tears my eyes, so beautiful...this father walking the steps for his moko's...so challenging and a tower of strength and inspiration...for Shane Harrison when you get out brother, hold your head up and chisel a positive path for you kids and moko's...beautiful absolutely beautiful to watch this interview 👏

  • @monicacarolina6480
    @monicacarolina6480 Před 3 lety +9

    I am speechless after seeing this. What a remarkable, brave and ordinary person that father is. If we could all have a bit of his personality, this world would not be such an ugly place. I will never forget mr. Matalasi.

  • @titanthao
    @titanthao Před 2 lety +4

    Father : “when you get out, you can go to church with me.”
    Wowww 🤯 the father is an unbelievable human being. I’m glad he’s a happy man now. Really happy.❤️

  • @viibezfam5807
    @viibezfam5807 Před 3 lety +52

    Proverbs 10:12 - Hatred stirreth up strifes: but love covereth all sins.
    Awesome story for our people in NZ. Keep safe everyone, don’t act in the heat of the moment 💙

  • @mugenshinryu7573
    @mugenshinryu7573 Před 3 lety +11

    This man showed he's strength with his forgiveness .
    Respect

  • @iamnehalipathak
    @iamnehalipathak Před 2 lety +1

    This is so so touching ❤️

  • @ChessNoobX
    @ChessNoobX Před 3 lety +16

    What they mean by "time heal all wounds" they actually saying time allows you to learn to live with grief and come to terms with what happened cause it cant be changed.

  • @kudakwashejoseph3590
    @kudakwashejoseph3590 Před 3 lety +51

    13years for murder , that's a bulls hit sentence

    • @christopherh2336
      @christopherh2336 Před 3 lety +12

      I'd wait 13 years for revenge ..

    • @knk4ever83
      @knk4ever83 Před 3 lety +2

      I agree

    • @dracotv6459
      @dracotv6459 Před 3 lety +6

      Maybe he forgave them so he can kill him after he is out then they would not suspect the father :)

    • @wl2033
      @wl2033 Před 3 lety +2

      It's New Zealand, they got a laughable justice system. Also, if you are Maori your sentence automatically reduces like 20%

    • @ineffablenefarious2799
      @ineffablenefarious2799 Před 3 lety +1

      @@wl2033 Maori privilege

  • @wandabrooks2752
    @wandabrooks2752 Před 3 lety +78

    This touch my heart and made me cry. I really believe that the forgiveness the father gave help both of them. And help Shane during his bid. The embrace they did was touching. And the fact that Shane stated he wasn't ready to get out tells me he feels like he needs to sit for his crime and also work on himself. But although this is a sad/beautiful moment the funniest part is when shame stated he don't think would be to able to attend church

    • @Elketjeable
      @Elketjeable Před 3 lety +7

      The fact he stated he wasn't ready is a true sign of remorse..

  • @GenerationJonesi
    @GenerationJonesi Před 3 lety

    What a great program! I believe that restorative justice helps the victim's family heal, and, gives some humanity to the offender.

  • @Jesus-eb8yk
    @Jesus-eb8yk Před 3 lety +1

    WOW THIS IS AN AMAZING MAN WHO ACTUALLY CHOSE THE RIGHT WAY TO SETTLE THIS, I THINK HE WILL HAVE PEACE.

  • @albion1100
    @albion1100 Před 3 lety +16

    The way those 2 men embrace and look into each others hearts speaks volumes about regret, forgiveness sadness and love. Such a powerful 3 seconds

    • @bmanmann7873
      @bmanmann7873 Před 3 lety

      Yeah we should show the same compassion to killer animals to ae 🤣🤣

    • @CT.editor
      @CT.editor Před rokem

      @@bmanmann7873 go back to school and learn proper English pal

  • @xentai8089
    @xentai8089 Před 3 lety +166

    Not gunna lie tho, if someone killed my son, no matter how “sorry” he was. I would never never ever forgive him for what he did

    • @reenzt1720
      @reenzt1720 Před 3 lety +7

      It would be the hardest pain to ever go through but try and find some forgiveness.

    • @joeznqld
      @joeznqld Před 3 lety +18

      Yeah I hope the killer would rot in hell

    • @maryfifita2327
      @maryfifita2327 Před 3 lety +5

      I understand where you are coming from, at least you are honest. I may be the same aswell if it was my son or someone dearly close to me that I loved.

    • @rethabilemaseti1195
      @rethabilemaseti1195 Před 3 lety +7

      But forgiving someone would be a way of finding peace in your life because holding resentment for someone can be very draining and would hinder you from living your life to the fullest. Better to forgive the person for your own sanity

    • @spikedominikovichspikearoo1900
      @spikedominikovichspikearoo1900 Před 3 lety +5

      @@rethabilemaseti1195 yes you are so right holding on to resentment will eat you up over time he has found a way to find peace and has given opportunities to the two to find peace in there hearts

  • @dkell15
    @dkell15 Před 2 lety +5

    I am really impressed . What a courage this father has. I bow for him.

  • @TheMetal750
    @TheMetal750 Před 3 lety +1

    Wonderful story in a amongst a story of horror. I'm glad these 2 men could see through the hate and give each other some healing.

  • @mcsuchnsuch
    @mcsuchnsuch Před 3 lety +44

    The father’s faith and will power is indestructible. God bless him.

  • @EdwardGordington
    @EdwardGordington Před 3 lety +12

    this man has more empathy than half the people in australia combined, we should all aspire to be more like this father, a true genuine good human being, bless his soul and may his son rest in peace.

    • @JediJan
      @JediJan Před 3 lety +2

      Correct me if I am wrong but I understand this in NZ and nothing to do with Aus, so don’t understand why Australia is mentioned at all.

    • @EdwardGordington
      @EdwardGordington Před 3 lety +4

      @@JediJan ​ @sprocketrocket07 i live in Australia and i was using the Australian people as my example because i live around them, if i was to say this man has more empathy than half the people in NZ i would be going out on a limb since i have no clue how they interact with eachother over there, good enough answer?

    • @mjanny6330
      @mjanny6330 Před rokem

      No, empathy creates weirdos like the freak with facial tattoos.

  • @yply.o.7877
    @yply.o.7877 Před 2 lety +5

    This was so groundbreaking and beautiful to watch. Murder is morbid and ugly but forgiveness is righteous. Hard but needed for one’s soul.

  • @matttippo8325
    @matttippo8325 Před 2 lety

    Wow, the power of forgiveness. This is one video that has the power to end evil. My hats off to these two men, and all there support workers. Respect

  • @511tt
    @511tt Před 3 lety +105

    This father is the strongest person I have seen in my entire life. Forgiveness at this level is nothing sort of divinity.

  • @maxsufi4808
    @maxsufi4808 Před 3 lety +158

    Only 13 years that's just sad tbh even though he forgave him that's nothing .

    • @porkbones8751
      @porkbones8751 Před 3 lety +18

      I agree! Should be life with weekly whipping.

    • @oliviagatesfe2634
      @oliviagatesfe2634 Před 3 lety +11

      Lets just murder those we hate then cos u only get 12 yrs?! Fkn pathetic

    • @abhisheknair8437
      @abhisheknair8437 Před 3 lety

      @@oliviagatesfe2634 You get the dealth penalty or imprisonment in those cases. This might be homicide not murder hence reduced punishment.

    • @domeliclark8359
      @domeliclark8359 Před 3 lety

      @@porkbones8751 our sentencing is slack most definitely but you don't understand what you are saying is shockingly insane let's incarcerate too punish but give more punishment on top ... U proberly haven't been too prison so wouldn't be able too comprehend your foolish remarks yes what shano and dylan have done was very wrong they have been forgiven by the father I'm guessing ur the opposite gang to the mob y u have such a hatefully opinion

    • @porkbones8751
      @porkbones8751 Před 3 lety +14

      @@domeliclark8359 My hate stems from life experiences with these criminals. Yes! I have never been in prison and I am not affiliated with any gang. I was a volunteer keeping kids off the streets from gang families in the 90s. The goverment are pussies and need to ban gangs! There will always be increased murderers and crims every year, its inevitable for NZ. You end someones life then your life should end too. No sympathy for these bastards.

  • @shukaah5020
    @shukaah5020 Před 2 lety +1

    Good to hear from you uncle Shano 🤙

  • @crystalschaaf8926
    @crystalschaaf8926 Před 2 lety

    Wowwww this so beautiful!! Got in me in tears😢 God bless both families

  • @scotthancock446
    @scotthancock446 Před 3 lety +48

    I know neither man will see or hear this comment but what an amazing story. To the father, you are the strongest man ive ever heard of and the love and faith you have in fellow man is unbelievable. To shane i can see as the father can, there is more to you brother. You are a caring man who got caught up with false promises. I hope the best for the both of you

    • @christianklein8467
      @christianklein8467 Před 3 lety

      I red this, chris from sweden!

    • @bmanmann7873
      @bmanmann7873 Před 3 lety +2

      Wow assume your gonna have them in your home when they’re out on parole?
      Empathy for a murderer makes you a sick capable person 🤮

    • @callebergqvist8071
      @callebergqvist8071 Před rokem

      @@bmanmann7873 your type of mind set is what keeps persons like shane in the type of enviroment that he was before his sentence. He got in the gang when he was very young, and its only after the father forgave him he could see something other than the gang life. When he was forgiven he could see the wrong dooings, what he had done was not just hurt one person but alot of people. His heart got a frozen heart got a spark of flame in it that what it seems grew.

    • @mjanny6330
      @mjanny6330 Před rokem

      @Calle Bergqvist nope. It's the forgiveness they get that makes them think brutal violent hatred and murder is okay.
      It's *your* attitude that keeps them this way.

    • @callebergqvist8071
      @callebergqvist8071 Před rokem

      @@mjanny6330 No, every study in this shows that low sentences and get the person ready to get in society rather than to live in the outskirts of it is what makes people dont do crimes over and over again. Norway is the best example of this in the world, very good prisons, very good education, and the least amount of repeat offenders in the world.

  • @nelehreytri552
    @nelehreytri552 Před 3 lety +70

    He makes me proud to be a Samoan, unforgiveness, anger & hatrid hinders only that who holds onto these. Rest in Paradise your son x ❤️❤️❤️

    • @mathewsmith7654
      @mathewsmith7654 Před 3 lety +2

      Exactly my bro.

    • @blank-dr2kx
      @blank-dr2kx Před 3 lety

      I'm not Samoan, I'm an English man. But I completely admire this Outlook

    • @dezterant4996
      @dezterant4996 Před 3 lety

      Yea samoa ppl always had big heart. Est aucklnd

  • @nolimitsgolf
    @nolimitsgolf Před rokem +2

    What a father........I couldn't do what he has done. Hats off to him for being a forgiving man and I really hope this has brought him some peace that he so thoroughly deserves.

  • @sonyajeffkaisabenjaminsuem885

    A beautiful story of forgiveness. God bless this Samoan man and his family.

  • @dejayz0166
    @dejayz0166 Před 3 lety +41

    I salute Mr Matalasi for his powerful act of forgiveness ..this story had me tearing up, and Shane's regret and attempt to change his life is admirable..
    I Salute the Matalasi family

  • @ladylightvybe4138
    @ladylightvybe4138 Před 3 lety +12

    RIP precious soul. This man is selfless & evolved. A truly beautiful soul. I lost my son & the pain never leaves. Sending him love & light💞

  • @nicksenkovs1525
    @nicksenkovs1525 Před 2 lety +1

    I have the absolute honor of knowing Mr Matalasi from Lyall Bay City Fitness Gym. He is an amazingly kind-hearted gentleman, with an unshakable ethos and an amazing character. Thank you for sharing your incredible journey to forgiveness good Sir.

  • @G0THB0IC1IQU3
    @G0THB0IC1IQU3 Před 2 lety +7

    Most of my family is in Mongrel Mob, But I truly feel sorry for this guy 🙏❤️ So proud of him for forgiving his sons killer, I could never be strong enough to do that.

  • @jaw3964
    @jaw3964 Před 3 lety +96

    Forgiveness will help this father get on with his life, but a rocket pointed at the sun filled to the brim with these gangs will help all of humanity get on with their lives

    • @skrog907
      @skrog907 Před 3 lety +1

      Doubtful

    • @domiedollarz5649
      @domiedollarz5649 Před 3 lety +3

      @Jordan Gill Why don’t u think of God now. The world killed Gods 1 and only son and God was the most loving there ever would be. Instead of seeking revenge, God forgave us for what we did and yet still loves us all more than we could imagine.

    • @bmanmann7873
      @bmanmann7873 Před 3 lety

      @@domiedollarz5649 that’s only relevant to your mob.

  • @sean864
    @sean864 Před 3 lety +32

    Incredible strength from this man to forgive him, when most wouldn't have dreamed of doing it.

  • @vailima49aston99
    @vailima49aston99 Před 2 lety +5

    I would’ve never shown the same forgiveness as a father ! I know that for a fact! But I do respect this man and what he’s done for his son