My Husband Doesn’t Help Me Around the House | Paul Friedman

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  • čas přidán 11. 09. 2024
  • My husband doesn’t help me around the house.
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Komentáře • 21

  • @kimrobbins9747
    @kimrobbins9747 Před 2 měsíci +6

    A clean house makes me happy. When he makes a mess and wont clean up after himself, he is sabotaging my happiness. So i just love him anyway even though he is purposely hurting me?

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Před 2 měsíci

      Happiness that is real comes from giving, give him love, understanding and smiles.

  • @cynquel757
    @cynquel757 Před rokem +18

    Yeah I know it’s small but I’m still annoyed. How do I not get annoyed by it?

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Před rokem +2

      Our approach is the marriage as a whole and you as human being have to be understood, then the tools we have make sense. Otherwise you this is just one more issue. Look into my books and especially the chapter on the mind. themarriagefoundation.org/

  • @adelinalacson1226
    @adelinalacson1226 Před 2 lety +5

    Perfectly discussed dear Paul, fixed ourselves first and things will fall on its place.Good day!

  • @Jessarene83
    @Jessarene83 Před rokem +7

    I took notes, I came here expecting something else entirely. I am a child of God. So is my husband. I appreciate this message. It's teaching me to grow in the Lord. I will be an example and work on myself. God bless
    This was beautiful.

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Před 3 měsíci +1

      When we seek God first everything falls into place, then the explanations come to us and always the grace comes to us in life and in our marriage

  • @JULIET6464
    @JULIET6464 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Hmmmmm.... Thank you... I know this is the way to go... But it's hard for me but I want a great change, I will trust and obey, there's is no other way

  • @sandarahcatmom9897
    @sandarahcatmom9897 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Whatever happened to having a helpmate? If hubby is sitting on his duff, scrolling on his phone, watching tv and/or drinking beers all evening, every evening while you come home from work, get dinner together, clean up afterwords (nearly every night if not every night), doing the laundry, cleaning the bathrooms, etc. etc. etc. your "soulmate" begins to look like nothing more than just another burden who also expects sex while you feel exhausted and ignored. Women are sick of it. Sorry - marriage, as an institution, will either change or it will go the way of the wild goose.

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Před 2 měsíci

      your marriage is not a marriage but you can change that themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/

    • @LogHewer
      @LogHewer Před 2 měsíci +1

      You're created to be his helpmeet...he wasn't created to be yours. It's that simple.
      Marriage isn't a partnership. He is your head and you're to submit to him. And he is to love you as Christ loves the Church.
      So wash the dishes, do the laundry, and be happy. You have an easy life.

    • @sandarahcatmom9897
      @sandarahcatmom9897 Před 2 měsíci

      @@LogHewer Gp back to your cave.

    • @user-zk5lc9jk6s
      @user-zk5lc9jk6s Před 20 dny

      @@LogHewer your soooooo wrong....Christ gave and as a child of God your suppose to give .....not be only the head....read the bible the way it is suppose to be read ...with the love of Jesus in your heart.

  • @cynthiagallardo9759
    @cynthiagallardo9759 Před 4 měsíci +3

    So how do I get him to help

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Před 4 měsíci +1

      One way is to become the woman of his dreams so he will bend over backwards to help you. The other way is to pay him prvailing wages (That is a joke)

  • @tequilabumbum4373
    @tequilabumbum4373 Před rokem +2

    Great video, thank you so much🙏🏽

  • @Warda-f7i
    @Warda-f7i Před 2 měsíci

    you do realise that the dishes won’t clean themselves and the house will not magically turned up clean everytime we say I love you 😅, please let’s be realistic

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Před 2 měsíci

      I am realistic about marriage and know that a happy one is not based on expecttaions but on love ... look into our courses themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/

  • @waynest.bernard1978
    @waynest.bernard1978 Před 3 měsíci +2

    You need God guidance stay to your topic

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Před 3 měsíci +1

      I do my best to love God and always aske Him to guide my thoughts and actions so I can help your marriage 🙏