Effective Ways to Get Him to Commit to a Relationship
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Who doesn’t want that feeling of security and romantic purpose?
But with so many men seemingly interested only in short-term flings, how do you secure that commitment? Today, I will talk about this.
CHAPTERS
00:00 Introduction
01:02 Comparing Options
02:53 My Sisters Story
05:20 Quick Relationship Advice for Women
05:52 Best Strategy
08:10 Closing
~~~ MAKING YOURSELF THE BEST OPTION
To snag a man’s commitment, you must be his top choice. Men subconsciously compare you to past relationships and current options. Emotional connection is key here.
~~~ A LESSON FROM MY SISTER
My sister’s ten-year relationship ended abruptly when her partner called off their wedding, only to marry someone else shortly after. Why? He took her for granted, failing to recognize her worth. Men make excuses for women they undervalue but break all the rules for those they find irresistible.
~~~ THE BEST STRATEGY
Make yourself irresistible and be prepared to walk away if he hesitates about commitment. Men respect consistency. They want someone who’s a priority, not an option.
~~~ ACTIONS OVER WORDS
Take care of yourself, add value to others’ lives, and reduce toxicity. You are the prize, so live accordingly.
Ismael Gomez III
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It means a lot to me to see you want to learn about these topics.
The biggest advice I can give to woman. My dad said to me, I married your mother after a year, it does not take a man longer than 2 years to propose..if he does not propose you are not the one but he will settle. In my opinion yes but obviously when you are in high school it's different, I did not believe my dad at the time but over the years I have seen it play out. Move on if he does not want to commit..your self love must be stronger then your love for him.
6 months, capable Men know. YOU have to be worthwhile to HIM
Not all relationships need to be for the purpose of marriage. Some people are serial monogamous
@@Dahmer_Jeffthen those men are not leaders and a woman like me don't want them , I will gladly move on with my life.
@@jackdeniston6150wow you men know 6 months in, I did ot know that 😅
Girls… don’t sitting waiting for one person to commit you. Go talk to other 50 dudes. Life is too short ❤
Eum why?
@@CaraVinhso he won’t take you for granted! Don’t let him think he has you.
Surefire way to end it.
You don't have to talk to 50 dudes. All it takes is one to make him realise that he's lost you. You know how exhausting going on multiple dates are if you have no idea what you're looking for in someone?
If someone is talking to 50 dudes...they got too much time on their hands 😂
Thank you for being the father example and the older brother that I never had 🙏
Thank you for making me smile today 🙏
I had a male cousin who had a GF for 19 years. He went to a funeral for an old friend, saw a girl and left his GF we all liked and married this new girl within months. 🤦🏻♀️ It happens! 🤷🏻♀️
Yup men do that a lot.If a guy doesn’t propose to you,don’t wait for years.Move on because you won’t be young forever.One man’s loss is other man’s gain
100% brutal truth respect
Omg I love you & just started watching a few days ago ❤😮 everything so to the point & ON POINT ❤️🌸🤗
Glad to have you on board.
You‘ve recently gained so many subscribers, this is really nice to see 👏🏻 Congratulations!
Thank you dear. Hard work always pays off.
Great video from a great coach, thank you so much for sharing
Any dog lover is a true lover
Thank you.❤
Thank you👍
Such a good video and thank you so much for all your indepth advice. You make it so much more clear and easy to understand men and I always eagerly wait for your videos. Please make more. Thank you.
Thanks for the kind words. I truly appreciate it.
Best video on internet ❤
I feel we had this emotional bond very strong but he still decided to go different way, as illogical as it sounds unfortunately we can be love of their lives but if they are not ready or willing to make changes they will keep sabotaging beautiful things in their life until they hit the rock bottom and see what they've lost. My friends tell me if he loved you he wouldn't leave you.. it's not true. We all know what it really was, we can feel it in our hearts, always trust it, don't let other people to discourage you. It doesn't mean we have to desperate, we should let them go and figure it out for themselves in their own pace trusting that our love exists and this connection will always be there no matter what ❤
Very wise comment and I have experienced this firsthand in different situations with 3 different people.
thankyou sir today i walk away😢 even im hurt because i feel change now. i know im price and worth it. i watch your videos now to feel me better thank u
thank you
I love this ❤
Thank you Jeanne.
I believe in just a KNOWING. When two people MEET, they BOTH either KNOW or they DON'T. PERIOD.
That's true
Your sister’s experience is similar 15 years of mine wasted
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Mahalo
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Hi, Ismael! I wanted to compliment you first, you are a very handsome young man. God bless you. What I wanted to say, I’ve been married and divorced with two beautiful daughters and two grandsons, who are the love of my life. After I divorced my ex-husband I never remarried because, it’s something I don’t want to go through again. I’m an independent person. There is a young man, who has a crush on me, and I have a crush on him, too. I want us to start out as friends because, I don’t want to scare him off. I like to get to know him, first. I don’t mind getting into a relationship with him, because he such a nice and charming man. I want to respect his wishes, if he wants to continue with me, if not, and he prefer to be with someone else, I’m okay with that. If, there will be a commitment between us, I want it to be natural, and leave it up to God. If, I don’t have him as a commitment, I’m okay with that too. I guess I feel this way, because I’ve already been married and divorced and I know, what is to be married. I don’t miss it.
I understand where you are coming from. When you have been married and especially if you had invested so much effort into it and it still did not survive then you would be hesitant to be married again. At the end of the day two people can still be happy and committed without the title of marriage.
You say you do not mind if this crush walks away but then all I can say to you is be careful you do not get so attached into this equation where afterwards you want the commitment and he does not. Matters of the heart can be complicated. I wish you the best but just be mindful of exactly what you want and do not consent to a relationship which you later feel you were better off staying out of completely.
@ykt4343 I love this answer.
@yolandareyes518 You say you don't mind if it works out or not, but just remember the more you get emotionally involved, the more commitment you will want from him.
If there's something I've learned in life is I want "all or nothing." Anything in the middle always leads to confusion and disappointment.
We, women, also compare men, let's be realistic.
No doubt.
He will have mental issues 😂