The Transphobes Are Never Okay 🧐

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  • čas přidán 27. 08. 2024
  • Transphobes make no sense, and that can be funny
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  • @polydactylblackcat2218
    @polydactylblackcat2218 Před rokem +1439

    The overwhelming irony of "stop teaching kids pronouns and start teaching them grammar" has melted my brain. I also want some awesome teachers to maliciously comply with that horrible idea just to watch the chaos.

    • @Alice-gr1kb
      @Alice-gr1kb Před rokem +134

      “All nouns must be stated whenever the noun is used. There is no way around this and if any person tries to say otherwise, the person is lying.”
      I - sorry, “this commenter” - would pay to have a grammar lesson but without pronouns that would be hilarious

    • @BeautyMonster1000
      @BeautyMonster1000 Před rokem +48

      All English teachers are disappointed right now. 😂

    • @mirandarensberger6919
      @mirandarensberger6919 Před rokem +153

      Miranda does not wish to use pronouns, because Miranda believes that pronouns are grammatically incorrect. From now on, Miranda would like the person reading this comment to refer to Miranda only as "Miranda". Additionally, Miranda's cat is to be referred to only as "Miranda's cat", or by Miranda's cat's name. When Miranda goes to work, Miranda will refer to Miranda's coworkers only by Miranda's coworkers' names.
      Miranda presumes this comment is an example of what the anti-pronoun people want.
      Seriously, "stop teaching kids pronouns and start teaching *them* grammar". I can't even.

    • @Rotten_Ralph
      @Rotten_Ralph Před rokem +24

      That was my favorite part really because of the oxymoronic genius of the phrase. It takes a lot of energy to get things that wrong.

    • @WombatMan64
      @WombatMan64 Před rokem +53

      Stop teaching kids numbers and start teaching them maths!! Stop teaching kids atoms and start teaching them chemistry!! Stop teaching kids evolution and start teaching them biology!
      It makes the same amount of sense. They're pretty fundamental aspects of the topic at large.

  • @prageruwu69
    @prageruwu69 Před rokem +3393

    remember: dinosaurs are cool, transphobia is not

  • @augustproductions4914
    @augustproductions4914 Před rokem +1997

    "You should wear clothes that reflect biological reality"
    Me: Ok *proceeds to walk around naked*.

    • @sluttyMapleSyrup
      @sluttyMapleSyrup Před rokem +169

      Based and nudistpilled?

    • @imNOTthatimportant
      @imNOTthatimportant Před rokem +209

      Truly the only thing you can wear that can TRULY reflect your biological reality.

    • @wolfriver9993
      @wolfriver9993 Před rokem +79

      You're not wrong

    • @ArtsyKnox25
      @ArtsyKnox25 Před rokem +1

      @@imNOTthatimportant trans people and gay people are a biological reality you pussy clown

    • @PeacheIIe
      @PeacheIIe Před rokem +108

      @@krimsonkatt IT. WAS. A. JOKE.

  • @carolmurphy7572
    @carolmurphy7572 Před rokem +834

    I am an older person who grew up in complete ignorance of transgender people even existing (as ridiculous as that now sounds). I am grateful to learn from you. Thank you.

    • @samuelpenney5925
      @samuelpenney5925 Před rokem +104

      And thank you, Carol, for being open-minded and compassionate ❤️

    • @laughsingay
      @laughsingay Před rokem +77

      Thank you for taking the time to learn! Some people will hear about something new and immediately reject it, so it's great to hear of someone being open minded and willing to learn new things.

    • @teatous7444
      @teatous7444 Před rokem +54

      And we're thankful that you're willing to learn ❤

    • @alyxleaf
      @alyxleaf Před rokem +50

      Thank you being willing to learn and support our community 😊 Having older people who support means a lot ❤️

    • @xxferalfreakxx
      @xxferalfreakxx Před rokem +41

      That's not ridiculous at all, Carol! Situations like that are actually relatively common among older folks, from my experiences at least. My 50-year-old mom didn't know much about trans people until I came out to her 4 years ago. Yes, she did say some harmful things at first, but she never intended to hurt me. Yes, it took her a while to adjust to my name and pronouns, but she put in effort into respecting my identity. Despite being very confused about LGBTQIA+ identities, she continues to unconditionally love me for who I am as a queer person. She's trying, and that's all that matters to me
      It's ok if you were ignorant in the past. What matters now is that you're actively learning and trying to respect us trans people. It's better late than never to educate yourself 💜

  • @lorenzwinterhoff8049
    @lorenzwinterhoff8049 Před rokem +504

    My GP got a little flustered when he had to ask me if I had a cervix or not. I am Intersex and transmasculine. I was born without any gendered sexual organs to the point that the doctors couldn't make a medical diagnosis. They literally sent my parents home with me after a whole month of testing and said "pick". So for me, it provided a chuckle when he had to come around to the topic.

    • @1.calm.chaos1
      @1.calm.chaos1 Před rokem +1

      I probably got something very wrong; but this comment makes it kinda sound like you neither have a vagina nor a penis.
      So (if this is not a too intrusive question to ask), where do you pee out of?😅

    • @r.d.whitaker5787
      @r.d.whitaker5787 Před rokem +6

      @@1.calm.chaos1 Nobody pees from their vagina.

    • @laughsingay
      @laughsingay Před rokem +245

      That is legitimately really funny
      Edit: Also you have the power when people ask you your biological gender to just be like "I don't know, even the doctor couldn't figure it out"

    • @tdelioncourt1268
      @tdelioncourt1268 Před rokem +105

      right answer: guess

    • @noaccount2494
      @noaccount2494 Před rokem +128

      This is peak power in a convo about "whats in your pants"
      In the least weird way possible I'm kind of jealous

  • @river-collective
    @river-collective Před rokem +691

    "Men with pretty eyes" Oh no, my weakness.
    Wait they meant that as a bad thing?

    • @whatTFisThis
      @whatTFisThis Před rokem +40

      Ohhhh nooo its Gojo, run awayy hes got pretty eyessss

    • @whatTFisThis
      @whatTFisThis Před rokem +47

      Also hilariously MOST MODELS HAVE A TRIANGLE BODY, in other words they have wide shoulders and a small ass
      And so do most Disney princesses lol
      And both are supposedly "the ideal women" in western culture

    • @whatTFisThis
      @whatTFisThis Před rokem +7

      @@krimsonkatt ik but like imagine he isnt after them and they see him across the street lol
      Theyd prolly say smth transphobic, and they then would have a reason to run from him lololo

    • @RosheenQuynh
      @RosheenQuynh Před rokem +3

      I guess Avi Kaplan isn't a man then... somehow...

    • @ThreeFortyThree
      @ThreeFortyThree Před rokem +15

      As a trans woman, I’ll admit that I will miss women making a big deal about my eyes. When I was presenting as male, it was always somehow a big deal that I had “beautiful eyes”.
      Le Sigh

  • @Itri_Vega
    @Itri_Vega Před rokem +282

    I'm only four months on T and I finally recognise myself in the mirror. I'd never go back.

    • @twix-official7329
      @twix-official7329 Před rokem +27

      I’m so happy for you!!! Well done!

    • @twix-official7329
      @twix-official7329 Před rokem +2

      @@steelfistgaming4046 L+ratio+fatherless+girlfriendless+homophobic+noob

    • @prageruwu69
      @prageruwu69 Před rokem

      @@steelfistgaming4046 your mom causes heart problems

    • @steelfistgaming4046
      @steelfistgaming4046 Před rokem

      @@prageruwu69 no she doesn't. If you think that you can blast testosterone injections, look up bodybuilding deaths. Those things can cut your life down to 1/3 of what it's supposed to be.

    • @Itri_Vega
      @Itri_Vega Před rokem +16

      @@steelfistgaming4046 Ever heard of proper medical supervision? Also, stress and bad mental health causes heart issues too. So does fatty food.

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Před rokem +793

    Jamie being chaotic in the Intro will never stop being iconic and is a sign of good times to come.

    • @b33boiXD
      @b33boiXD Před rokem +19

      Exactly, he always starts with something really random but he says it in such an innocent voice 😭

  • @thisistheaccountname
    @thisistheaccountname Před rokem +292

    1:10 It reminds me of when Cracker Barrel added vegan sausage patties to the menu and people said to boycott them. Adding the vegan option to the menu didn't remove other options from it, but it became inclusive to others. It's like the people "boycotting", Cracker Barrel didn't even fully understand or recognize that.

    • @FrozEnbyWolf150
      @FrozEnbyWolf150 Před rokem +61

      Reminds me of how some conservative Christians take offense at "Happy Holidays" because they think it "erases Christmas" even though Christmas _is a holiday_ and the phrase was meant to be more inclusive.

    • @esmeraldagreengate4354
      @esmeraldagreengate4354 Před rokem +32

      @@FrozEnbyWolf150 I had that argument with someone at the checkout at the supermarket last year. I wished the checkout person Happy Holidays and the person behind me huffed and said Oh stop it. It's Happy Christmas. To which I replied "And Christmas is a ............" The checkout person laughed and the grouch behind me left 😬

    • @thisistheaccountname
      @thisistheaccountname Před rokem +16

      @@FrozEnbyWolf150 I'm Christian and worked a grocery store for 11 1/2 years and every winter holiday time coworkers and customers would say "Merry Christmas", to me and it would make me cringe. If I did reply to them I would say "You too." People can say whatever they want, but it seems like they assume everyone else out there celebrates the season as they do.
      Then it's like, well what's their reason behind saying "Merry Christmas." Because it seems like if they're doing it out of holiday cheer and whatever then unless you're with other people who you know celebrate as you do, it would be kinder to say "Happy Holidays". These days people are literally just telling strangers "Merry Christmas", because they get some level of satisfaction knowing it could possibly annoy the other person.

    • @DesOkun
      @DesOkun Před rokem +8

      @@thisistheaccountname Yeah. I don't celebrate Christmas either. Most of the world doesn't actually celebrate Christmas and some that do celebrate it just as a holiday, not for any religious reasons, like in Japan for instance.

    • @esmeraldagreengate4354
      @esmeraldagreengate4354 Před rokem +1

      @@trevorchester4439 damn that feels like 20 years ago 🤯

  • @tod1way
    @tod1way Před rokem +356

    "A more reliable source would have been ketchup." Best. Line. EVER! 👏😂

    • @nobody1795
      @nobody1795 Před rokem +4

      Mmm katsup

    • @FrozEnbyWolf150
      @FrozEnbyWolf150 Před rokem +13

      It would probably also taste better on fries than Jordan Peterson.

    • @tod1way
      @tod1way Před rokem +2

      @@FrozEnbyWolf150 oh, no you didn't! 😂🤣

    • @adrianblake8876
      @adrianblake8876 Před rokem +1

      Well, if some people think that Mayo is a source, why not Ketchup!?

    • @tod1way
      @tod1way Před rokem +1

      @@adrianblake8876 ah! I see what you did there. Bravo! 👏😂

  • @girlie_ch33se20
    @girlie_ch33se20 Před rokem +422

    Ignoring the fact that its very weird to photograph strangers at a coffee shop and assume they’re trans, they do realize some cis men naturally have a bigger hip to shoulders ratio and vice versa for cis women?? Like not only is this weird it’s also basically bodyshaming anyone who doesn’t have the “typical” body type for their gender

    • @AlexaFaie
      @AlexaFaie Před rokem +54

      Yeah, like my partner is a cis man and actually has an hourglass figure, not that its all that obvious. But his chest and hips are both 10" larger than his waist at the narrowest point. Doesn't make him any less a man just because he has some curves on him.

    • @chantiemaya
      @chantiemaya Před rokem +47

      This!! It was so weird, like, *have you been outside* (quoting onetopic). I’m a cis female and I have a flat ass and broad shoulders. BITE ME :P

    • @Romanticoutlaw
      @Romanticoutlaw Před rokem +24

      just looking at those people, if I was inclined to make any assumption unprompted at all, I would have assumed both of them are cis. They seriously just look like any average person you'd see on the streets. Not that either of them couldn't be trans, but I'm just not seeing what's so "obvious" to the photographer

    • @Alice-gr1kb
      @Alice-gr1kb Před rokem +32

      Honestly these people get so obsessive about trying to catch trans people irl that they start accusing random cis people of being trans simply bc they committed the high crime of not looking like the most over-exaggerated caricature ever. I remember reading about a very funny instance where a cis terf tried to “clock” a “trans” woman from an image of a protest, and she mostly pointed out their forehead and eyebrow bone structure. She made a huge deal on the specific feature. Soon after her post is seen by more of her terf compatriots, they look at her (op’s) profile picture, and then realized she has the exact same bone structure! They instantly turned on her and lambasted her for “being a TIM.” So ridiculous. They don’t even know what women look like anymore.
      And also, foreheads are such a weird thing to try and make the case for perfect sexual dimorphism. I used to be very dysphoric about mine (pronounced slope and somewhat heavy brow) but the more I looked at other people’s profiles, the more I realized it’s not that consistent. Like its enough that it makes sense to generalize, but also it’s not that rare to see a cis man with a round forehead 😂

    • @imrandom5340
      @imrandom5340 Před rokem +19

      This person seems downright paranoid schizophrenic, to be honest. it is in no way normal behavior to just photograph and scope out people with traits that are associated with the opposite sex, imagine things like that being stuck on your mind 24/7 that's not typical thinking by any means

  • @sluttyMapleSyrup
    @sluttyMapleSyrup Před rokem +442

    11:15 Yeah, you'd think they'd understand how dysphoria feels after that post...
    To put it into another perspective, I'd rather have died in the middle of my bottom-surgery than not even _attempt_ to get it done. Seven years ago I came to the realization I'd rather die than live as a man - and I'm too fuckin' stubborn to die.

    • @Foxfloop
      @Foxfloop Před rokem +42

      That is some hardcore shit chickadee, and honestly I have the same stance as you.

    • @ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos
      @ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos Před rokem +11

      SMS coming in with the facts

    • @OdinsSage
      @OdinsSage Před rokem +12

      That's legit and relatable.

    • @Dyejob01
      @Dyejob01 Před rokem +10

      As a complete stranger, I am so happy for you ❤️ I hope you live your REAL life for decades to come ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️

    • @thatsanriosoftboy
      @thatsanriosoftboy Před rokem +20

      Same, if my doctor told there was a 90% chance that top surgery would kill me, I’d still get it. I actually could have a heart attack due to being on testosterone but I don’t care, I’d rather fucking die then keep living like this.

  • @sharlharmakhis280
    @sharlharmakhis280 Před rokem +251

    8:05 the old joke about 'never tell a Scotsman he's wearing a skirt, you'll get kilt' only scratches the surface here.

    • @science_bear
      @science_bear Před rokem

      Oh hey you’re non binary just like the Colorado shooter. I bet you’re proud of yourself.

    • @chantiemaya
      @chantiemaya Před rokem +4

      LOL My first thought, don’t tell the Scotts… or Arab men wearing jellaba…

    • @adrianblake8876
      @adrianblake8876 Před rokem +4

      @@chantiemaya The gellabia is a dress, not a skirt (a skirt is only the bottom half)...

    • @animerlon
      @animerlon Před rokem

      😆😂🤣

    • @animerlon
      @animerlon Před rokem +1

      @@adrianblake8876 😆 A skirt is bad enough, he'd probably be even more upset about a dress. 😱

  • @NickyTannock
    @NickyTannock Před rokem +721

    I don't know how transphobes have the energy to be this obsessive.

    • @sluttyMapleSyrup
      @sluttyMapleSyrup Před rokem +118

      Imagine if they directed it into anything else. Maybe raising their own kids... Or their jobs...

    • @science_bear
      @science_bear Před rokem

      Same way transgender people have the energy to call to kill gay men for a decade and to then go out and attack gay bars.

    • @NickyTannock
      @NickyTannock Před rokem +20

      @@science_bear You have a vivid imagination.

    • @VXochitl
      @VXochitl Před rokem +2

      I have to imagine some of them are eggs or something. Same how super anti-gay people seem to tend to be closet and self hating gay people.

    • @science_bear
      @science_bear Před rokem +2

      @@NickyTannock it’s real. If you look up woke homophobia boxer ceiling you’ll eventually find a link to a now censored google photo collaboration. If you put the link to that in the wayback machine you’ll find that it started in 2002 and was last backed up in March of this year. A decade’s worth of anti gay posts coming from trans and non binary people on sites like Twitter tumble and Facebook, on the wayback machine version it doesn’t have the receipts for the hateful messages, however a few people made videos about it and put it on CZcams as well.

  • @nerf_or_nothin9551
    @nerf_or_nothin9551 Před rokem +79

    "Men with pretty eyes" guys, I think he's tryna tell us something

    • @animerlon
      @animerlon Před rokem +6

      😆 You may be on to something.

  • @StaveErest
    @StaveErest Před rokem +473

    I am Non-binary and Bisexual and I sometimes I feel bad about it and regret coming out of the closet and every time I feel bad about it I what’s yours videos and I always feel better about being non-binary and my sexuality when I watch your videos. Tank you, your videos always make me feel better.🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 (I also see @shaaba videos and the videos you are making together.)

    • @abugidaiguess
      @abugidaiguess Před rokem +44

      experience the happy
      right now, do it

    • @sluttyMapleSyrup
      @sluttyMapleSyrup Před rokem +28

      Weird, you shouldn't feel bad about either of those things. They're part of what makes you fun

    • @larafields3106
      @larafields3106 Před rokem +36

      You are valid. Always have been. Always will be.

    • @science_bear
      @science_bear Před rokem +1

      So you’re doubly homophobic. I’m glad you feel bad about being a bigot.

    • @science_bear
      @science_bear Před rokem +5

      @@larafields3106 homophobia isn’t valid

  • @silentfriend369
    @silentfriend369 Před rokem +206

    Im a 30 year old, feminine, pansexual, trans man who has PCOS. :) Transitioning has helped me in many ways. I am excited for when I finally can afford top surgery.

    • @Person-wv5on
      @Person-wv5on Před rokem +3

      Congrats on all your labels

    • @ArtsyKnox25
      @ArtsyKnox25 Před rokem +2

      @@Person-wv5on congrats on being an official asshole! You won the "you're an asshole award"!

    • @tjenadonn6158
      @tjenadonn6158 Před rokem +33

      @@Person-wv5on Not labels. Descriptors. Communities. Tribes. Families.

    • @vintereventyr_
      @vintereventyr_ Před rokem +11

      @@tjenadonn6158 Some people Call it labels though. Or boxes. I personally refer to my labels as either boxes or, Well, labels.

    • @acid_sp1der
      @acid_sp1der Před rokem +7

      what is PCOS?

  • @PeggyWebb
    @PeggyWebb Před rokem +73

    "Everywhere I go I see..." that says it all. This is a problem of the seer's perception, not those the seer sees.

    • @themisfitowl2595
      @themisfitowl2595 Před rokem +8

      I love this! Perspective and perception are everything!

    • @animerlon
      @animerlon Před rokem +3

      The seer also has a problem with projection, allowing their fear to taint what they're looking at.

  • @jessthecat9399
    @jessthecat9399 Před rokem +46

    Today a new student decided to walk into my schools debate club where over half of the club is lgbtq+. We were deciding what we would debate today and this guy suggested trans legislation. The group became sus immediately and asked him some questions. For the rest of the club hour it was 14 vs 1 in a transphobia debate. It was an really engaging debate and fairly civilized, which I never thought was actually possible with transphobes.

    • @Anonymous-sq6eo
      @Anonymous-sq6eo Před rokem +2

      Wow, a bunch of abc people being calm in a debate? Respect, that’s extremely rare.

    • @goobergirl_
      @goobergirl_ Před rokem +6

      @@Anonymous-sq6eo This is what happens when you spend too much time on the internet

    • @aceofspades5226
      @aceofspades5226 Před rokem +3

      “NOT SCIENTIFICALLY POSSIBLE”
      Jokes aside, i enjoy when ppl have civilized arguements and debates, instead of this guy insulting me, calling me a pedo, and threatening me, funny enough all of his replies got nuked by youtube.

  • @oneish7454
    @oneish7454 Před rokem +212

    4:02 how can there be mandatory bisexuality if there are no women?😂

    • @lordofuzkulak8308
      @lordofuzkulak8308 Před rokem +15

      @Oneish - men and non-binary counts as two genders, 😉

    • @cactus2260
      @cactus2260 Před rokem +34

      transphobe talking points exist in a bubble, that's why they often say contradicting things. if they only took a bit more time to broaden their context, to see the bigger picture they would get it. for example, people who say the "lgb drop the t" line, forget that literally every trans person has been l g or b at some point of their lives so you would still need to support them all or at least most of them since you would consider straight trans women to be g, straight trans men to be l, and bi trans people to be b.

    • @Taekaleaf
      @Taekaleaf Před rokem +3

      Nonbinaries:

    • @animerlon
      @animerlon Před rokem +4

      More importantly, how do we NOT become an endangered species if there are no women?

    • @thecakeofcommunism503
      @thecakeofcommunism503 Před rokem +3

      MANDATORY GAY

  • @BlackKoshka23
    @BlackKoshka23 Před rokem +74

    Mandatory bisexuality? Well, I am ahead of the program for once!

    • @bottomofastairwell
      @bottomofastairwell Před rokem +2

      Me too hat! Yay! What blows my mind is if they "erase all the women" then how is there gonna be bisexuality? Don't you need men AND women for bisexuality to mean anything?

  • @imjustvibinghere5590
    @imjustvibinghere5590 Před rokem +203

    I found it hilarious when you joked about mandatory bisexuality because I just recently realized that I'm bi and I fit 2 out of 3 of those stereotypes.

    • @dandelion_16
      @dandelion_16 Před rokem +15

      Haha same, I wear denim and sweaters, roll up my sleeves and pant legs and I cannot make choices for the life of me XD. Haven't listened to Sweater Weather tho.

    • @naolucillerandom5280
      @naolucillerandom5280 Před rokem +8

      Same, I don't tuck in my shirt bc image issues, but other than that...

    • @Sophie_Cleverly
      @Sophie_Cleverly Před rokem +3

      Those stereotypes always confuse me because I never fit them with the exception of sitting weirdly in chairs and that's because I'm hypermobile 😂

    • @riccardozanoni2531
      @riccardozanoni2531 Před rokem +7

      i love how sitting weirdly in chairs is basically universally accepted as a bi thing now. 😅💜

    • @dandelion_16
      @dandelion_16 Před rokem +1

      @@Sophie_Cleverly oh well that's fine too! I think it's just a bunch of weird things we happen to have in common. Idk if they're even that uniquely bi.

  • @fernbedek6302
    @fernbedek6302 Před rokem +66

    Trans woman wearing the ‘being a woman is not a hate crime’ sign. ✨

    • @Person-wv5on
      @Person-wv5on Před rokem +1

      Trans women are trans women not women if the was the case the suffix trans wouldn't be there

    • @zxidenbel7000
      @zxidenbel7000 Před rokem +36

      @@Person-wv5on Trans women must be women, why else would the suffix "women" be there?

    • @dark7859
      @dark7859 Před rokem +52

      @@Person-wv5on "Tall women are tall women not women if the was the case the suffix tall wouldn't be there"
      That's how you sound

    • @lapisangstylazuli
      @lapisangstylazuli Před rokem +27

      @@Person-wv5on "trans" is "trans women" is an adjective, it means "women that are trans", I'm the word "transgender" (and many other), the PREfix "trans_" comes from the latin, meaning "in the opposite side of". Trans women are women that were assigned male at birth

    • @fernbedek6302
      @fernbedek6302 Před rokem +8

      @@Person-wv5on Tall women are tall women not women if the was the case the suffix tall wouldn’t be there
      -> does that also make sense to you?

  • @catherines8020
    @catherines8020 Před rokem +250

    I am genderfluid, AFAB, and demisexual but also attracted to people who identify as men...it's a lot, and I have had both straight and gay cis-people insist that I am just a picky cis-het woman who just dresses like a guy. As a result, it took me decades to come out, and I am actually only out to very few people because I pass, but it's totally not a phase I wish transphobes who stop pushing that idea.

    • @nathanisdying2748
      @nathanisdying2748 Před rokem +102

      @@krimsonkatt bruh that's such a weird assumption to make based on this persons comment. They literally said it took them decades to come out and you're like "hmmm might be a 12 year old tho"?????
      And they said nothing to even imply whether they do or don't experience gender euphoria/dysphoria (which is literally none of your business anyway lmao), so where are you getting that idea from?
      Please stop trying to "educate" people about their own identities when they 1) did not ask for your input and 2) know themselves better than anyone else

    • @abccba4889
      @abccba4889 Před rokem +3

      @@krimsonkatt Dude you know nothing about this person but feel comfortable saying they don’t experience dysphoria or euphoria off one comment of a few sentences. I highly doubt they’re under 25 as they said in their comment that it’s taken *decades* to feel comfortable coming out. Also people under 25 are able to understand their gender and not have it be a phase. Yes people are allowed to be tomboys and it’s definitely easier within society but that’s why this person knows they are nonbinary. They didn’t go “I like to wear masculine clothes that must mean I’m not a woman”. Probably more like “I have been told I was a woman all my life but I know I’m not so I’ll make the difficult decision to accept that and embrace who I really am”.

    • @LaurenMartins
      @LaurenMartins Před rokem +1

      You are a Bisexual, just stop making up nonsense.

    • @mlorencetti1
      @mlorencetti1 Před rokem +20

      I'm a grown adult and I'm nonbinary and deeeeeeep in the closet because it's hard to feel valid. I feel gender dysphoria but I'm not even sure what I could do to be "genderless". So, like, yeah, I'm just a "girl that dresses like a guy" or whatever. I don't talk about that anymore. I'm too tired.

    • @Nakia11798
      @Nakia11798 Před rokem +2

      How are you both demisexual and attracted to men?

  • @cat21860
    @cat21860 Před rokem +63

    Great timing, I just had a ‘Phobe replying to me on a community post on a different channel, trying to convince me to stop taking T, “find a dad”, and Accept That I Am A MAN. LMAO, they do literally no research.

    • @sluttyMapleSyrup
      @sluttyMapleSyrup Před rokem +30

      And then claim to have done _ALL_ the research - in the same breath they prove they can't even comprehend the subject matter.

    • @sluttyMapleSyrup
      @sluttyMapleSyrup Před rokem +6

      @@krimsonkatt Thanks, it's a Pankakke, and it's positively *_blursed._*

    • @FrozEnbyWolf150
      @FrozEnbyWolf150 Před rokem +7

      Obviously "T" stands for testostrogen.

    • @chromedruidess2546
      @chromedruidess2546 Před rokem +1

      I'm sorry, "find a dad"... what?!

    • @cat21860
      @cat21860 Před rokem +2

      @@chromedruidess2546 some people think that trans women are caused by absentee fathers. And don’t realize that trans men exist. So basically, they thought that I was a trans woman, and that it was caused by not having a father figure. While I’m actually a man who still lives with his parents (that are still together).

  • @FaeFayore
    @FaeFayore Před rokem +30

    A few surgery regret rates:
    Trans Operations:

    • @Random51960
      @Random51960 Před rokem +1

      Source?

    • @tjenadonn6158
      @tjenadonn6158 Před rokem +1

      @@Random51960 Oh so now the transphobe cares about sources, but when it agrees with you you'll take any out-and-proud pedophile at his word?

    • @Random51960
      @Random51960 Před rokem

      @@tjenadonn6158 pedophile? No idea what you’re talking about

    • @Random51960
      @Random51960 Před rokem

      @UCKqCJO3neQhjWMHzvQ4aPvg I don’t support Matt Walsh. I don’t belong to the far right.

  • @sugarmonster4611
    @sugarmonster4611 Před rokem +35

    Even a few hundred yrs ago in western society it was normal for men to wear dresses and women pants the whole pink and blue thing was also switched

    • @tjenadonn6158
      @tjenadonn6158 Před rokem +10

      When we say gender is a social construct that applies to cis people as well.

    • @queerantine69
      @queerantine69 Před rokem +3

      @@krimsonkatt mmh gender rolls☺️

    • @jill1594
      @jill1594 Před rokem +2

      @@krimsonkatt I understand where you're coming from and what you're trying to avoid, but gender is indeed a social construct. This is one of the scientific foundations of gender studies. The problem is simply that people have a very poor understanding of the notion of social construct. Saying that something is a social construct is not at all the same as saying that it "doesn't really exist", quite the contrary. Social constructs are deeply inscribed in our societies and shape our identities. "Physical and mental gender" absolutely doesn't exist apart from social. It doesn't make our identities any less valid, because our identities are inseparable from the social structures that shape them. Philosophytube has an awesome video about it, called "Social construct", I recommend it to everyone

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Před rokem +53

    2:47 Some people clearly didn’t pay attention or were absent from school when Pronouns were being taught in English class.

  • @laurelgardner
    @laurelgardner Před rokem +43

    We don't even have mandatory bisexuality for bisexuals.

  • @sashastanley7764
    @sashastanley7764 Před rokem +305

    Shout out to all trans people and all non binary people 😊❤ everyone here is loved

  • @537zun4
    @537zun4 Před rokem +49

    "Men with pretty eyes." That is so adorable, I mean theres an asshole speaking but still... pretty eyes 🤣

  • @CertifiedNEETClassic
    @CertifiedNEETClassic Před rokem +33

    "Mandatory bisexuality"
    "The total erasure of women"
    🤔

    • @ttintagel
      @ttintagel Před rokem +2

      Mandatory Bisexuality would be a pretty good band name.

  • @elfilin-to6dh
    @elfilin-to6dh Před rokem +33

    7:44
    Don't you just hate it when a man wears a skirt and the very fabric of reality collapses into itself

    • @rachy48
      @rachy48 Před rokem +2

      That explains the Red Hot Chilli Peppers then.

  • @maccasmiz
    @maccasmiz Před rokem +13

    Here I am, a bisexual with a clear phone case, t shirt tucked in and not sitting on my chair properly, feeling thoroughly called out

  • @m0L3ify
    @m0L3ify Před rokem +20

    Trans people: This isn't about you.
    Karen: And I took that personally!

  • @TheTeflonTranny
    @TheTeflonTranny Před rokem +12

    Transwoman here...transitioning saved my life..
    It was definitely the right decision for me.
    Love your channel..xx

    • @jacineyatrakos3149
      @jacineyatrakos3149 Před rokem +4

      @@SteIIar cope

    • @averywow
      @averywow Před rokem +4

      @@SteIIar sounds like you're going through something, whatever it is I hope you get through it and come out a better person with a better perspective on life. Please change as a person

    • @jacineyatrakos3149
      @jacineyatrakos3149 Před rokem +4

      @@SteIIar coming from the person who keeps making new accounts to come and huff copium

    • @jacineyatrakos3149
      @jacineyatrakos3149 Před rokem +3

      @@SteIIar stay mad kid. You're obsessed

    • @jacineyatrakos3149
      @jacineyatrakos3149 Před rokem +1

      @@SteIIar only one crying here is you

  • @misti_future
    @misti_future Před rokem +61

    "If sheep can use pronouns then why do transphobes find it so difficult,"
    Ohmygod Jamie, what a burn! Shit my guy that was epic!!

    • @WarriorKalia
      @WarriorKalia Před rokem +2

      Because they refused to "be sheep" and "follow the herd" to the point where they will literally make themselvces stand out so much that they paradoxically become easier to ridicule due to their "individuality". Or, you know, get eaten by wolves or summat

    • @misti_future
      @misti_future Před rokem

      @Donnell0303 why are you even here? No, seriously why? If you don't like the content and are just going to be transphobic then why engage? Just go and sit in your little transphobic echo chamber and watch your good little transphobic content.

    • @WarriorKalia
      @WarriorKalia Před rokem +1

      @Donnell Okafor ... "those". Okay, what are you even talking about now?

  • @nicholeayt509
    @nicholeayt509 Před rokem +10

    I'm a mom of a teen NB and it's been a journey for me to come to full acceptance...I love my kid but just really didn't understand how complex gender can be. Channels like yours have really helped me grow and be a better parent. I'm grateful that my kids felt they could come to me. I see lots of their friends not telling parents if they're transitioning or questioning and hiding their chosen names. It breaks my heart. It took time for me to accept, but I always recognized it was a ME issue, not my child's issue. Ultimately I decided I don't need to understand to accept. I just need to line them and educate myself as much as I can. Thank you for the part you played getting me here.

    • @kenzeitzu
      @kenzeitzu Před rokem +1

      bro adopt me when I came out to my mother she directly said it was a delusion 💀

    • @kitwillihnganz5972
      @kitwillihnganz5972 Před rokem +2

      @@kenzeitzu I'm sorry that happened.

    • @kenzeitzu
      @kenzeitzu Před rokem +1

      @@kitwillihnganz5972 it's no worries, she's openly homophobic and I came out to her because I didn't care to hide anything from her anymore and couldn't care less if she didn't support me. Overall I have a bunch of supportive family members so it doesn't bother me too much

  • @momamiandkiddokelsi9027
    @momamiandkiddokelsi9027 Před rokem +154

    Daily reminder!
    ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You are valid and amazing just the way you are!! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

    • @sileudies
      @sileudies Před rokem +8

      Maybe soon, when im old enough for hrt then i will be amazing

    • @Xuurls
      @Xuurls Před rokem

      I am a serial murderer ❤️

    • @msjkramey
      @msjkramey Před rokem +4

      @Sileudies you're amazing now and you'll be amazing then. We're all on a journey and it can be messy sometimes but that's okay

    • @ambereagleswood1429
      @ambereagleswood1429 Před rokem +2

      @@sileudies you're already amazing!! There's just extra levels of amazing to grow into

    • @hhi2319
      @hhi2319 Před rokem +1

      You are to

  • @RiverWoods111
    @RiverWoods111 Před rokem +28

    I am not an expert in any of this, I am just a CIS woman who likes to learn about other people and how I can be respectful of them, but I am beginning to think that transphobes are afraid that they are or will be mistaken as trans? I mean why else would you spend so much time fighting something that doesn't affect you? They're rather embarrassing for the rest of us that just want to support your community!

    • @themisfitowl2595
      @themisfitowl2595 Před rokem +9

      Hi there! Fellow Cis gal here. I think it's wonderful that you are willing to take the time to learn about people and be respectful to them! That is commendable! 😊
      There is a theory that transphobia stems not from a fear of trans people, but rather a fear that they themselves are a trans person and are in denial of it. Many experience jealousy from seeing people so open with their identity while they feel they have to hide theirs.
      Nether of these are excusable though. Lashing out at people out of fear or jealousy is still wrong and hurtful.
      And yeah, they are an embarrassment. Sadly they are also very loud and vocal and they drown out the positive voices.
      We hear noise before we can hear music. 😔

    • @wintergray1221
      @wintergray1221 Před rokem +7

      I feel that homophobia and transphobia often go hand-in-hand for the same reason: most homophobes are Christian, and biological sex equating to gender is VERY important to them.
      For instance, I had a conversation with my mother. She's not outwardly homophobic because she takes a "judge not" stance, but she does think non-heterosexuality is wrong, and is willfully ignorant when it comes to trans people despite my stepbrother being trans male.
      Anyway, our conversation was a hypothetical scenario I had presented to her. She's young and engaged to the perfect boyfriend. He's so handsome, kind, devoted, and a master in the sheets. On the day of their wedding, he confesses to her that he was born as a girl. Would she still marry him?
      She said no. She could never be with a "woman." Even if "she" looked like a man, treated her right, and she had fallen madly in love with "her", my mom said she would never be a lesbian.
      It's so disappointing. I don't know how to make her understand anything related to LGBT, especially my own identity as aroace. Anytime the subject comes up anymore, I just deflect because it gets so exhausting saying the same things and not a word of it being heard.
      Well, sorry for the comment novel. But thank you for being supportive and willing to educate yourself.

    • @RiverWoods111
      @RiverWoods111 Před rokem +8

      @@wintergray1221 I am sure that is awfully hard for you and your brother to live with. There is a lot of insecurity in being phobic about other people's differences. Also, my being autistic/neurodivergent really helps me to understand other people's differences easier. I know what discrimination feels like!

    • @melissabarrett9750
      @melissabarrett9750 Před rokem +1

      Most transphobes are scared that they will be tricked into certain levels of physical intimacy with trans people, if the individual transperson isn't open that they're trans and it scares them, especially the homophobes

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Před rokem +21

    Quote of the Day: “I think a more reliable source would be Ketchup.”

  • @Prence
    @Prence Před rokem +26

    Boys and men have no problem calling other boys and men "girls" and "women", but have a difficult time or just generally refuse to call trans girls "girls" and "women"! They only use those terms as insults! Well if that's the case, I'm a trans girl and you can just insult me by calling me a "girl" or a "woman"! Please!

    • @jurassicsmackdown6359
      @jurassicsmackdown6359 Před rokem +5

      Hello ma'am
      (This isn't an insult I just wanted to say hello 💕)

    • @Prence
      @Prence Před rokem

      @@jurassicsmackdown6359 Thank you sweetheart. ❤‍🔥

  • @thedinothing1024
    @thedinothing1024 Před rokem +64

    4:43 One of my trans friends who takes Estrogen sometimes calls her drugs “Fem&M’s” or “Tittie Skittles”

  • @TheSuzberry
    @TheSuzberry Před rokem +78

    People who are threatened by the world as it is are pitiful. Whether it’s modern music, clothing, thinking, or acceptance of people as they truly are.

    • @DansuB4nsu03
      @DansuB4nsu03 Před rokem +15

      It's not those people's fault necessarily. Some people (like me) have been brainwashed by conservative traditionalist propaganda to an extent in their lives, and as a result have a much harder time to adjust to this constantly changing, ever globalizing world with its own newspeak, rules and standards. People in the West (such as North America and Europe) don't always understand just how privileged they are when compared to the rest of the world.
      Greetings from Russia. I hope one day we can be friends again.

    • @perimele6
      @perimele6 Před rokem +1

      Accept people as they are: don't encourage massive artificial doses of hormones, castration or amputation of healthy natural body parts...

    • @copenwiththestress3732
      @copenwiththestress3732 Před rokem +16

      @@perimele6 me transphobe me use scary word to describe bad thing

    • @maskedmallard537
      @maskedmallard537 Před rokem +1

      @@perimele6 Yes, if someone has a wonky heart leave it alone. Sure they may not live very long, but that's what is natural, right? Also, all those children undergoing premature puberty at age four, leave those alone too. Don't give them all those chemicals to make them stop until they are the right age. /s
      If you're making the argument that, well of course that's not healthy, plenty of non trans people get surgeries and treatments on healthy tissue for a variety of reasons, such as nose jobs, breat reductions/enlargements, botox, etc. Nobody questions this the way trans people get questioned about gender affirming treatments and surgeries. To condone the first set and condemn the second is inherently transphobic.

    • @actualgoblin
      @actualgoblin Před rokem

      @@perimele6 what are hormones?

  • @beardlyinteresting
    @beardlyinteresting Před rokem +13

    Now I want to be referred to as a testicle haver rather than man. It's funny because it will annoy transphobes and it's biologicly accurate.

    • @tjenadonn6158
      @tjenadonn6158 Před rokem +5

      Testicle transporter.

    • @beardlyinteresting
      @beardlyinteresting Před rokem

      @@tjenadonn6158 One of Jason Statham's more risqué films.

    • @tjenadonn6158
      @tjenadonn6158 Před rokem +2

      @@beardlyinteresting Up there with Jacked Off.

    • @liz090833
      @liz090833 Před 4 měsíci

      No friends, don't do this! They're gonna call you "woke" & try to sell you powdered eggs for the inevitable apocalypse. Don't do it! This will no doubt summon a vast army of MLM huns that will never stop. Never. 😂🐣

  • @HaleyJo1992
    @HaleyJo1992 Před rokem +68

    I'm not sure exactly how old I was when I learned about the possibility of being transgender, though I'm pretty sure it was in high school, so the 2000s. It made perfect sense to me when it was described as the brain not matching the body. I'd heard of and learned about lots of different birth defects before - biology and anatomy nerd here - so it made perfect sense to me that, as a trans person, you'd change whatever might be needed or wanted on the body so it matches the brain living in it. Since you can't change the brain, change the body. People change LOTS of things due to birth defects. No one has said anything about me fixing my eyes or removing a bad gall bladder. Both were birth defects and I elected to have them fixed. It shouldn't be considered any different, whatever form a person's transition takes.

    • @gazepskotzs4
      @gazepskotzs4 Před rokem +21

      Yup indeed, never heard anyone shouting "this is not how biologic works" when someone got open heart surgery for example.

    • @tjenadonn6158
      @tjenadonn6158 Před rokem +4

      @@gazepskotzs4 Hell, using soap and water to wash our hands goes against our biology and I don't see anyone getting screaming mad at that aspect of public restrooms.

    • @cafeaulait69
      @cafeaulait69 Před rokem

      @@gazepskotzs4 has anyone got heart surgery because they identify as having heart disease when they haven't or have they taught their child they can do this if they're not suffering? What if someone identifies as disabled, should they sever their leg?

    • @gazepskotzs4
      @gazepskotzs4 Před rokem +1

      @@cafeaulait69 not today

    • @HaleyJo1992
      @HaleyJo1992 Před rokem +2

      @@cafeaulait69 That is precisely why they need so much confirmation from several medical professionals before they can get surgeries, calm down.

  • @kalger1469
    @kalger1469 Před rokem +68

    im genderfluid and pansexual but my parents arent accepting so im not out and i die inside everytime my dad says something transphobic and homophobic. im glad some people can have accepting parents

    • @imanolarizmendi1128
      @imanolarizmendi1128 Před rokem +10

      I'm so sorry to hear about you're situation. I hope that either they come around eventually or you can get out of there to live as your true self. And yeah, family is messy. Like my family isn't phobic, but I wouldn't call them supportive either, they don't hate my queerness but they're ignorant and don't wanna learn. Anyway, hope your situation gets better!❤️❤️❤️

    • @chantiemaya
      @chantiemaya Před rokem +5

      I’m so sorry you don’t have a supportive family! I hope they will come around and you will build a chosen family around you that will be welcoming and accepting. You are 100% supported and accepted on this channel!! It sounds like you’re still young, so you are probably still dependent on your parents. It will get better little by little the older you get, I promise. Hold on!

    • @riven799
      @riven799 Před rokem +6

      I hope one day you can be in a safe enough situation where you don't have to hear that anymore and can be as out as you wish to be

    • @imanolarizmendi1128
      @imanolarizmendi1128 Před rokem +1

      @@trevorchester4439 Mate, I'm as cisgender as they come. There's no need to be trans to empathize with someone else's shitty experiences, just not being an arsehole.

    • @actualgoblin
      @actualgoblin Před rokem

      @@trevorchester4439 what's grooming?

  • @EloquentTroll
    @EloquentTroll Před rokem +24

    I'm not here to erase women, I'm here being one. And I'm pansexual but I'm not here to force that on anyone. My parents are cis and straight, my brother and sister-in-law are cis straight, yay happy cishets! Heck I'm a trans woman dating a trans man, I'm in straight relationship with extra steps.

    • @Anonymous-sq6eo
      @Anonymous-sq6eo Před rokem +1

      ** I’m here pretending to be one. **
      Fixed it for you.

    • @gamepalc1208
      @gamepalc1208 Před rokem +6

      @@Anonymous-sq6eo no you did not darling, you did not.

    • @Anonymous-sq6eo
      @Anonymous-sq6eo Před rokem +1

      @@gamepalc1208 a woman is a word that has meaning, and a male doesn’t fit that.
      So yeah, I fixed it. 😄

    • @strwberriem5306
      @strwberriem5306 Před rokem +2

      @@Anonymous-sq6eo
      you thought you ate ☠️☠️

    • @aceofspades5226
      @aceofspades5226 Před rokem +1

      @@Anonymous-sq6eo ** is a word ** words also have multiple, changable definitions.

  • @IsisAlv
    @IsisAlv Před rokem +65

    there are treatments for going bald. instead of looking for them that person decided to take the worst option. the best option is learning how to live with it, because going bald is natural for men and should be respected

    • @renkazakiewich427
      @renkazakiewich427 Před rokem +4

      It sure is awkward for a trans woman tho... and they wonder why I always wear a hat.

    • @IsisAlv
      @IsisAlv Před rokem +20

      @@renkazakiewich427 sorry you're made to feel uncomfortable with your appearance. women with baldness should be respected just as much as men. my ex mother in law had some baldspots in her hair, due to genetics. women that go through chemo are also made to feel like shit for going bald when it's simply a consequence of a medical treatment. that happens to cis and trans women and i think people need to stop being assholes and treat others well.

    • @melissabarrett9750
      @melissabarrett9750 Před rokem

      It isn't natural for all men to go bald. Some men never do, even when they're centenarians

    • @IsisAlv
      @IsisAlv Před rokem +1

      @@melissabarrett9750 i didn't say all men. it's a common phenotype though, enough that half of the male population goes bald by 23

  • @Thecuxspm
    @Thecuxspm Před rokem +33

    jordan peterson is the 1 out of 10 dentist that doesn't recommend the toothpaste in the comecials of psycology

    • @tjenadonn6158
      @tjenadonn6158 Před rokem +6

      If Peterson was an oncologist instead of a psychologist he'd be the one that tobacco companies hire to prove that their products are harmless.

    • @Wednesdaywoe1975
      @Wednesdaywoe1975 Před rokem

      @@tjenadonn6158 He's a twat. Full stop, end sentence.

  • @onxiii_
    @onxiii_ Před rokem +9

    I have a friend who's parent is a pre-k to 1st grade teacher. They wear make-up, dresses, and dyes his hair a bunch of colors. Yet their pronouns are they/him. He teaches 3-7 year olds and none of the parents are mad. They're not going to force them to take testosterone or force them to be gay. People need to calm down

  • @rabbitorgans
    @rabbitorgans Před rokem +7

    3:17 "I think a more reliable source would have been ketchup"💀

  • @WantedVisual
    @WantedVisual Před rokem +11

    Fun dress code fact: the "pants are for men, skirts are for women thing" weirded out a bunch of Ye Olde Cultures, too, including the Romans. They went up north, saw men wearing pants, an article of clothing hitherto only seen on images of Asian women, and assumed they were wimpy, effeminate types. Real men, after all, wear togas. And have to be threatened with fines to do so, because five square meters of wool is very heavy and very hot to have on each time you leave your house.

  • @franz9850
    @franz9850 Před rokem +113

    This is random but for April Fools this year, you should release a video and call it "Is Your Mother Okay" and have the whole video just be your mom jokes

  • @auroramcbride1688
    @auroramcbride1688 Před rokem +42

    Transitioning is the best decision I ever made. Being my genuine self has given me so much confidence it's astounding. The only things that have ever sucked about being trans femme are how society treats me. When I realized that it got really easy to ignore the four jokes the attack helicopter mafia slings at us.

  • @alyxleaf
    @alyxleaf Před rokem +18

    "Men wear trousers and women wear skirts."
    My school did this until this year. They've been open 7 years but this year they changed the dress code so girls could wear skirts. And my androgynous presenting she/they self was extremely happy. Still won't let boys wear skirts though, which is sad.

    • @SuperBegh
      @SuperBegh Před rokem +5

      Wow, my school has been open for 60 years, I entered it in 2011. They forced boy to wear trousers and girls to wear skirts… they even made me loose a year because I refused to wear skirts, every single day I was send to the principal and every single day I had to endure the “you are a GIRL so you MUST wear a skirt” bs, I spent a total of 8 years in that school but never give them the “onor” (as the called it) of seeing me in a skirt… on my last year there they changed the school rules so girl could wear trousers but not more than three times a week (school week was six days) and in total they had to wear skirts for at least 70% of the total school days (professors keep count). Still never wear a skirt, even when the principal called me out for it during an assembly in front of the whole school (about 1800 kids)
      Really loved high school (joking obviously)

    • @LiEnby
      @LiEnby Před rokem +1

      @@SuperBegh uniforms are abuse

    • @ttintagel
      @ttintagel Před rokem

      One time some boys at my high school staged a "protest," whining about how girls got preferential treatment because they could choose to wear skirts or trousers. One of the teachers got sick of it, looked up the school dress code, and told them there was no rule against boys wearing skirts. The next day they wore skirts to school to "protest," only to discover that absolutely nobody cared. Nobody tried to make them change, nobody laughed or got upset; we all just went about our business. They did it for a couple more days and then stopped.

    • @LiEnby
      @LiEnby Před rokem

      @@ttintagel i don't get it, why'd the protest after that? didn't they get exactly what they wanted? wernet they complaining girls got options they didnt ?

  • @viviennestone8851
    @viviennestone8851 Před rokem +8

    7:49 we were born with trousers and skirts apparently? Clothing isn't a biology based thing, it's called fashion and being beautiful.

  • @Jack_Saint_Archive
    @Jack_Saint_Archive Před rokem +60

    *I love when Jammi said "It's reactin' time!" and reacted all over the transphobes. Truly one of the videos of all time.* 🤗🤗

  • @themisfitowl2595
    @themisfitowl2595 Před rokem +11

    This Cis/ Bi gal is here to say:
    You are loved! You are valid! Be yourself every day! 🏳‍🌈🌈💜 💙💗🤍💗💙

    • @berrysnowyboy5251
      @berrysnowyboy5251 Před rokem +1

      Thank you 💜💜💜💜
      -from an Autistic trans and enby dude

  • @tarahebert1657
    @tarahebert1657 Před rokem +13

    Whoever thinks men dont have pretty eyes has never looked at cillian murphy....

    • @pixelsbykris5494
      @pixelsbykris5494 Před rokem +1

      This is so true! I'm a lesbian, but even I can admit that man's eyes are *crazy* pretty.

    • @Wednesdaywoe1975
      @Wednesdaywoe1975 Před rokem

      Chris Evans?

    • @kitwillihnganz5972
      @kitwillihnganz5972 Před rokem

      Nice choice. I bet you appreciate the smoldering eyes of Rufus Sewell.

  • @notarobot1231
    @notarobot1231 Před rokem +9

    I’ve heard a quote before “you’re so used to privilege that equality feels like oppression” it feels so powerful to me. The whole “if you’re a king for years then it becomes a democracy it feels like you’re a peasant” (cuz apparently I can only think in completely unrelated connections?) idea is so true. You can be the president in this democracy and have the highest power (cis het nuerotypical white men) but if you don’t have complete power it can seem like you have none and I see many people basing their views on this claiming they’re being oppressed just because some people came out and said “you’re a shitty king let’s all have some level of power at least”. Also the quote came from a person on tik toc and YT shorts called The Mann. He’s a great advocate for people who aren’t cis het white men. He is a cis het white man but he advocates for us and unfortunately, society is a bitch and needs a cis het white man to say that he agrees with us before they’ll listen. Anyways go check him out. The Mann is great.

  • @redwritinghood8741
    @redwritinghood8741 Před rokem +11

    the dress code one made me laugh cause just yesterday I was talking to my boss at the very well known company I work at (it's a global brand with luxury products but I ain't gonna doxx myself) and they've asked me (a nonbinary person) how they can better update their dress code HR policies to be more broad and inclusive as they've realised the current one is heavily gendered. it's a simple thing but shows how much they're pushing to be more understanding and reasonable with a diversity of staff.

  • @alyxleaf
    @alyxleaf Před rokem +38

    Hey Jamie, you probably won't see this, but I just want to thank you. When I first started watching you I was in a bad place and my relationship with my gender identity and sexuality was so confusing to me. Seeing you being so confident and just existing as a member of the LGBTQ+ community and you saying that everyone is valid helped me so much. I have now managed to sort through who I am, come out to my friends and I am working on coming out to my family. So thank you so so much for doing what you do. ❤️❤️

    • @tkrause1116
      @tkrause1116 Před rokem +3

      As a queer cis mom of queer cis and trans teens, I'm cheering you on! Way to go Amelie Hulse! You've got this!

    • @alyxleaf
      @alyxleaf Před rokem +1

      @@tkrause1116 Thank you so much! 🥹

  • @thunderdakota9653
    @thunderdakota9653 Před rokem +4

    "Men should wear trousers and women should wear skirts"
    Just wait till they find out about high heels

  • @j.apenrose7896
    @j.apenrose7896 Před rokem +34

    Hey lovely trans friends, remember you have the support of all us spuds!

    • @missnaomi613
      @missnaomi613 Před rokem +3

      That's me. I will adopt you. *Everyone deserves to be loved and accepted as they are*! 💙💗🤍💗💙

  • @johnsatan117
    @johnsatan117 Před rokem +10

    Sometime in the early 1930s, Germany had a whole library filled with gender affirming books. Then the Nazis burned it to the ground

    • @tjenadonn6158
      @tjenadonn6158 Před rokem +6

      And now the transphobes are burning books again.

    • @PinkPuffball1992
      @PinkPuffball1992 Před rokem +1

      @@tjenadonn6158 Which is just so pointless because, you know, Internet. These books are readily available on the Internet, sooooooo yeah, don't really get why they do it

    • @tjenadonn6158
      @tjenadonn6158 Před rokem +3

      @@PinkPuffball1992 Transphobes aren't the brightest crayons on the Christmas tree.

    • @PinkPuffball1992
      @PinkPuffball1992 Před rokem +1

      @@tjenadonn6158 Lol yeah

    • @melissabarrett9750
      @melissabarrett9750 Před rokem

      @@PinkPuffball1992 The internet has only existed since 1990, the book burning was done in the 1930s and 1940s. Half a century before the internet

  • @ricequin
    @ricequin Před rokem +18

    My post-hysterectomy oestrogen HRT has not had a calming effect on me.

  • @silversam
    @silversam Před rokem +7

    "Stop teaching kids arithmetic and start teaching them maths" - GCs a year from now

    • @ShinyTillDawn
      @ShinyTillDawn Před rokem +2

      "Repeal Obamacare and keep the Affordable Care Act!"
      (they're the same thing)

  • @sodakuwun0707
    @sodakuwun0707 Před rokem +6

    you make me so happy. i had a huge dysphoric meltdown today and my mom did not help (shes pretty supportive in terms of me being trans, but she can say some pretty horrible things in other ways)
    seeing someone living so comfortably and naturally as who they are while being so down-to-earth and supportive makes me feel like everything is gonna be okay. thank you.

  • @FlickeringEmber
    @FlickeringEmber Před rokem +71

    The person complaining about baldness, who I assume is a FTM trans person...many, many cis men experience hair loss so even though they admitted that PCOS meant they'd started losing their hair pre-transition, it's strange to complain about it in the way they were as many people experience baldness and it's even seen as a sign of virility and masculinity by some.

    • @marnenotmarnie259
      @marnenotmarnie259 Před rokem +13

      i think they might have been saying they were already losing hair, but that they think testosterone has expedited the process or made them lose more hair than they would have if they hasn't taken it. that's my best guess to make it make sense

    • @MrHodoAstartes
      @MrHodoAstartes Před rokem +23

      That's just a grift. "Oh yeah, sure. Total transition regret here. Give moneys, please. What, detransition?! Naw, I... I'm too far gone or whatever..."
      The vague waffling about supposed others, the continued HRT, it just doesn't make any sense. This has to be about farming TERFs for money and/or clout.

    • @Kylora2112
      @Kylora2112 Před rokem

      "I took T and went bald. Losing my hair made me sad, so I'm gonna attack the transes!!!" Like, seriously, hair loss is a major source of dysphoria for people of any gender, and there are plenty of ways to treat it without being a massive douchenoodle about it.

    • @marnenotmarnie259
      @marnenotmarnie259 Před rokem +4

      @@MrHodoAstartes not a bad theory

    • @superfluousnscrupulous9458
      @superfluousnscrupulous9458 Před rokem +23

      They admitted in the thread that they didn't want to detransition and they were happy to be perceived as a male/masculine person, it's a huge grift in their part

  • @krzysztoph
    @krzysztoph Před rokem +4

    It never stops to surprise me how close minded, limited, and toxic people can be … it is exhausting

  • @emma-janeadamson4099
    @emma-janeadamson4099 Před rokem +5

    Smear tests are definitely for people with a cervix. My mother was called for one 20-something years after her hysterectomy, so that went well.

  • @Kyle___Broflovski
    @Kyle___Broflovski Před rokem +13

    Guys, gals and non-binary pals, always remember, dinosaur are cool. *unless it’s a transphobic dinosaur. Those aren’t cool.*

  • @huggledemon32
    @huggledemon32 Před rokem +2

    8:06 lol-exactly Jamie-who wants to explain to that person that , heels, wigs, makeup etc were originally worn by MEN!? And watch their head explode!?

  • @jergunglefinger
    @jergunglefinger Před rokem +3

    I should protest like a transphobe and say "I'm not a cis woman, I'm a woman. Do not call me cis." Because I'm a trans woman instead

  • @RedJadeArt
    @RedJadeArt Před rokem +3

    4:23 I did hear that you can have biochemical dysphoria from having a brain which is programmed to receive X hormone, in a body producing Y hormone.Just the act of correcting that does a lot of good

  • @poorlittlewritergirl
    @poorlittlewritergirl Před rokem +7

    I had someone tell me recently that they know at least 10 trans people and "all but 2 of them have fully regretted it!" I tried to tell her that the rate of de-transitioning is low. But she also then said that one friend regrets her breast implants because they are a kind that has been recently called back and they weren't good for her health. I dont think that equates to her friend de-transitioning. It's the same as a cis woman regretting her breast augmentation. She wouldn't listen and I 2as not in a place where I could discuss it further so I dropped it. I also realize I'm not trans and don't get to make those distinctions. I would love input from trans voices -only if you have the energy (self care is important) Also if I have worded something offensively please let me know. I know there is always more to learn. Thanks in advance to any responses.

  • @Some_queer_kid
    @Some_queer_kid Před rokem +3

    “Transition so their straight”
    My trans gay self: i think i transgender’d wrong ya’ll😂

    • @LiEnby
      @LiEnby Před rokem

      Ace trans: "im a whatnow?"

  • @meadowb9124
    @meadowb9124 Před rokem +9

    'Mandatory Bisexuality' would make a great band name

  • @bearowl4101
    @bearowl4101 Před rokem +17

    Being biased isn't always a bad thing. It makes things like history and journalism difficult, but it's fine for activism. After all, activism is all about spreading your opinion and opinions are biased by their very nature. You shouldn't have a cold, disinterested and passionless view of the things you're fighting for. So long as you can back up your biased opinions with facts, you're all good.

  • @lorifiedler13
    @lorifiedler13 Před rokem +5

    I agree there shouldn't be men working in women's prison or women working in men's prison.

    • @tjenadonn6158
      @tjenadonn6158 Před rokem +3

      There shouldn't be prisons. Abolish prisons. They clearly don't work.

    • @PinkPuffball1992
      @PinkPuffball1992 Před rokem

      @@tjenadonn6158 I generally like you and your stances here friend, buuuuut this is one point I'll have to disagree with ya on. Where are we gonna put dangerous criminals and the like if there are no prisons? Plus the fact that there are people that work at those prisons, if we get rid of them, no more jobs for those people. I say make the prisons better, not completely get rid of them, unless you've thought of a better place to put criminals or maybe something else entirely

  • @JuMixBoox
    @JuMixBoox Před rokem +64

    I just had an extended discussion with someone who honestly tried to convince me that trans women breastfeeding (which I had just found out was possible and got exited about) will lead to cis man getting into women's prison pretending to be trans and SAing other inmates. Because it was "denying biological facts". This person also felt that her being a lesbian was relevant to this discussion. In the end, she stopped replying after I asked her for a source after giving mine and she claimed CZcams wouldn't let her post it.

    • @naolucillerandom5280
      @naolucillerandom5280 Před rokem +6

      No no, you don't understand.
      Everything is about her, always at all times. How dare you add extra reasons why she shouldn't commit that (possibly SA) crime she's been planning? 😂

    • @naolucillerandom5280
      @naolucillerandom5280 Před rokem +5

      Also the whole "biological facts deny biological facts because I don't like them". Top tier.

    • @FrozEnbyWolf150
      @FrozEnbyWolf150 Před rokem +11

      It's possible because cisgender men can and have done that too. Both male and female bodies have functional breast tissue, just in different quantities, and both are capable of producing the hormone prolactin. This also means it's possible for cis men to get breast cancer as well, which is something to be aware of.

    • @cactus2260
      @cactus2260 Před rokem

      the only people denying biological facts and putting ideology over it are transphobes. their ideology says "men can't breastfeed", but then both trans men and women (and cis men too sometimes) can do it, so they just have to deny it instead of adapting to the new information.

    • @tjenadonn6158
      @tjenadonn6158 Před rokem +2

      @@littlecatfeet9064 Breast milk. Women are awesome, but they aren't sacred or superior to men. It's all the same fluids coming out the same glands caused by the same hormones.

  • @bagelprince3
    @bagelprince3 Před rokem +43

    just did my week two injection on friday! i feel the man juice flowing... im so excited! sending love to all of my fellow transes and GAYs

    • @PeacheIIe
      @PeacheIIe Před rokem +6

      but why you gotta say man juice

    • @bagelprince3
      @bagelprince3 Před rokem +1

      @@PeacheIIe its better than man goop or boy fluid uwu

    • @bagelprince3
      @bagelprince3 Před rokem +1

      @I exist 🇺🇦 thank you!! 💚💚

    • @themisfitowl2595
      @themisfitowl2595 Před rokem

      I'm crying at the man juice comment! 🤣
      By the way, I am also very happy for you! Congrats on being you, and keep that man juice flowing! ♥

    • @littlecatfeet9064
      @littlecatfeet9064 Před rokem

      @@bagelprince3 glad it’s not a drug though.

  • @heather8374
    @heather8374 Před rokem +4

    transphobes: 'i am uncomfortable when we are not about me...'

  • @Ashecomics
    @Ashecomics Před rokem +20

    ' a more reliable source woulda been ketchup' Too epic

  • @ZatWonGuy
    @ZatWonGuy Před rokem +7

    When testosterone was the dominant hormone in my body, I was _unbelievably_ depressed. It was only after I started HRT that my baseline emotional state went up. So, no, I don't think it does have an antidepressant effect, thank you very much

  • @xiaoclouds
    @xiaoclouds Před rokem +3

    i was CALLED OUT in minute 4:03 ISTG. my clear phone case, tucked in shirt and position on my chair are SHAKING rn

  • @BeatrixTomomizu
    @BeatrixTomomizu Před rokem +6

    ... Jamie just killed me... "a better sauce would be ketchup"
    I really have a problem with puns... I like them too much...
    And he even delivered it just like my father used to tell us jokes when I was little - dry and without a smile... But he actually did burst into laughter after we actually caught up xD

  • @Worldbuilder
    @Worldbuilder Před rokem +6

    That’s a lower regret-rate than *marriage*! I mean…

  • @meerkatablefilms7077
    @meerkatablefilms7077 Před rokem +6

    Petition to start a rock band called ‘mandatory bisexuality’

  • @heeyo5056
    @heeyo5056 Před rokem +3

    "men with pretty eyes" dude, that gives homosexual in denial energy xD

  • @ysucae
    @ysucae Před rokem +10

    how tf do they have all that energy thinking about things that are irrelevant to them and hating people they've never met, and here i am dead tired after 1 phone call, fucking unfair

  • @_JoyceArt
    @_JoyceArt Před rokem +10

    Lol, 2:00 I did this a while back to a picture of myself from 20 years ago, and my shoulders were double the width of my waist, and my hips were 1.5 of my waist.
    Here I was thinking I was born a woman, but apparently my wide shoulders say I’m a man?
    (To clarify, I’m a cishet woman).
    It’s also too short, because she’s standing on an angle…

  • @astranaut3967
    @astranaut3967 Před rokem +4

    Homophobia and transphobia are exhausting- that is a 2022 MOOD! Thank you Jamie for your wonderful positivity in this world 😊

    • @astranaut3967
      @astranaut3967 Před rokem +5

      @@CrusaderGeorgeWBush Isn't there something wonderful, dare I say magical, in people being loved and accepted as who they truly are?

    • @Callum_1275
      @Callum_1275 Před rokem +1

      @@astranaut3967 yes there really is

    • @astranaut3967
      @astranaut3967 Před rokem

      @UCgkJQmyIGaxvFcloA8iNq2Q If that's what a consenting adult wants to do then what is it to you? Body modification is nothing new. Nose jobs, breast augmentation, tattoos,and implants are all common surgeries now. Your just being pedantic when you exaggerate that surgery should extend to children. No one thinks cosmetic plastic surgery is acceptable or legal for under 18. Plastic surgery is always acceptable for competent adults.

    • @Callum_1275
      @Callum_1275 Před rokem +1

      @@astranaut3967 I cant see their comment but I kinda know what it’s about based of your reaction. The marriage rate is lower than the detransition rate. Take that into consideration.

  • @Jcknight7996
    @Jcknight7996 Před rokem +3

    The bisexal not being able to sit on a chair correctly hits hard

  • @jgcoverkknot5701
    @jgcoverkknot5701 Před rokem +33

    Being a transphobe must be like waking up and getting mad at the birds outside because you are being extra quiet so it feels like they are loud

  • @canned-confusion7950
    @canned-confusion7950 Před rokem +7

    "Men wear trousers and women wear skirts"
    Have you seen, idk, THE ENTIRETY OF SCOTLAND

    • @mischarowe
      @mischarowe Před rokem

      And as a cis woman, I refuse to wear a skirt (or dress) ever again.

    • @BlightestBlight
      @BlightestBlight Před rokem

      Scotland is not a real country, you're an English man in a dress.

    • @gamepalc1208
      @gamepalc1208 Před rokem

      @@BlightestBlight what? now were are not longer denying science but a country... acctually thats way cooler than being a transphobe, yeah fuck scotland that shit its not real!

    • @BlightestBlight
      @BlightestBlight Před rokem +1

      @@gamepalc1208 it was a TF2 reference

  • @huggledemon32
    @huggledemon32 Před rokem +4

    11:21 I am a cis woman and have always considered myself an LGBTQ+ ally, but have always said “I don’t understand what it must feel like to be ……(insert LGBTQ+ identity here) but this REALLY explains it well for me- like yeah/ the idea of feeling so uncomfortable in your own. Key that you want to run screaming from your own existence must be HORRIBLE!? (The only thing I can remotely compare it to is that I am obese and disabled with a whole host of medical issues that make my life hard, and I’d LOVE to live ina healthy body- but no one is bashing me/threatening my existence/ completely shunning me(ish?) for being disabled and fat!?)

  • @Resters52_official
    @Resters52_official Před rokem +7

    7:17
    the person on the far left is fucking rocking it

  • @Zenith7jpg
    @Zenith7jpg Před rokem +4

    “Well I think a more reliable source would have been Ketchup!” I love that