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why is he wearing eye makeup?
I had my first baby at 18 nt second at 30 my third at 35 my last born at 43 and she a genius...
What's her name
Wow...who.made you the expert?
Allah can do whatever he pleases..simply review surah Maryam
Like how her reply was still a, "no" 😂
I had my first baby at 29 my second at 33 and my third at 37 If Allah wills it will happen. All natural pregnancies and deliveries. Alhumduliah
True. My mom had me at 29 ish so it's possible
Anything is possible ofcourse, I think he is just stating the fact that it becomes alot less likely after 30. Btw there are so many couples in their 20s who can't get pregnant
@@Sg190th yep mom had sister wich is 4 years old now at 34
This is anecdotal experience. Allah has blessed you with kids even at a later age but you're not the norm. Statistics do not lie. After 30 a women's fertility starts dropping and after 35 it's harder to conceive. It's called geriatric pregnancy due to the increased risks to both the baby and mother.
But it's not the rule, your situation is part of the exception.
Bro is a husband, an electrician, a lawyer and a gynecologist. Basically Johnny Sins.
I would love to be a Johnny sins with this chick lol and make her little Jaw knees lol
😂
yet he is not completely wrong. 5s googling result: Definition of geriatric pregnancy
We define advanced maternal age (formerly geriatric pregnancy) as those who are 35 years or older at their estimated delivery date. In other words, stop being an idiot and research a subject youre unfamiliar with before arguing. Im no biologist, but he meant what he said, geriatric pregnancy is basically higher risk of complications. Which he explained, and you refused to listen because youre too arrogant. Welcome to the world of retards, youre one of them).
Oh shit😂😂😂
You do not need to be a weatherman to know it is sunny outside.
I am 44 and i have 3 healthy kids alhamdoulillah. I had the first one at 33 and the last one at 41 years old. But i am a different mom to my children.. I don t have the same level of energy anymore and i wish i married in my twenties and have teenagers now. The clock is a real thing at so many levels. If you have a chance to get married to the right person in your twenties please do.
He lost his brain cells in his teenage.
Facts. He was indeed brainwashed, and he's out here brainwashing others. So let's just move onto doing our own stuff
Facts heart
She*
@@skywalker4128 Exactly, do your own stuff. Gaming, watching porn, masturbating and making memes on the internet. Go on.
90 percent lost at 30 .....3 percent left at 40 .......his brain is working just fine .....
My sister fell pregnant Naturally at 37 and had Quadruplets. 3 boys 1 girl. Alhamdullah they are almost 5 years old now all born healthy and adored by the rest of us 🥰❤
The avg age of first time moms in UK is 31. Healthy women will still have pretty significant chance of getting pregnant if they're having intimacy regularly without birth control up until their early 40s. Making the number of the women's eggs as their sole fertility factor is weird cause that would meant a 5 year old girl being more fertile than an 18 year old girl. Weight, diet, exercise, stress, sleep are better factors than the number of eggs
Multiple child pregnancies are usually due to ivf especially considering her age. Its possible she just didnt tell you about it
@@BooBones My family has 9 sets of twins, 1 set of triplets and 1 set of Quadruplets.. All Naturally Conceived Alhamdulla.
@@NoName-bt6xdAbsolutely! You can be 20 but stressed as hell and drinking 4 coffees a day, you just won't get pregnant!
And don't forget men's fertility with sperm count, viability and motility, also affected by these factors you mentioned.
Blaming women only for fertility is silly.
@@BooBones not really. I know a woman who was struggling to conceive for years and had a lot of miscarriages, but in her mid 30s, she had a successful pregnancy naturally, triplets. I mean sure IVF can give you fraternal twins but it isn't the only way and Allah is capable of everything
Bro has a Bachelor’s in Brain Wash.
😂😂😂
Its facts
Elborate on why you feel that way and what he said thats wrong?
I'm pretty sure the science on this is well established.... Your not a science denier are you?....
This is how jihad are fooling girls in abroad,
This is the issue when you learn "science" from a Madrasa instead of a school!
Prof. Maulana
At least they tell how to fly a donkey
That is why Muslim families are stronger while some other groups support their own women having casual fun.
Madrassa created science
Never heard of Baghdad madrasa in Abbasid caliphate
A woman hits menopause when she's in her 50s. When she's 30, she still has functioning eggs and can get pregnant well into her 40s.
Some woman get menopause in 40s
@@slavonijacro u well said ‘SOME’ so they will know themselves more
@@slavonijacro a woman who hits menopause in her 40s is an extremely rare case. That means there's an underlying medical issue
@@DaTiger45 not really it can be stress too
Im 49 and I got in menopause 2 years ago same as my older sister in her 40s
@@slavonijacro yes, stress is an underlying medical condition
Not necessarily every person is unique. I got married at 34 and had my fourth child at 45 so faith is everything
No it’s not. The exception doesn’t disprove the rule. Vast majority of women cannot get pregnant at 45. That’s like me saying it’s about faith when if you want to survive a plane crash when 99% of plane crashes end in death.
@@YungPhilosopher Sarah had a child at 90
95% of women i know age 35 and above cant get pregnant. Women delude themselves a lot as a way to cope. You can deny reality but cant avoid it.
@@julianjdogg and Jeanne lived until 122, does that mean everyone's going to live that long? No Jeanne is just an acception to the rule
You probably got pregnant young once atleast and either miscarried without knowing or had an abortion.
Bro def gained this knowledge from reels!!!💀
Sure martial gaming
He said nothing that is not fact, these are all well documented clinical terms, and the ages are pretty much spot on. I had this discussion with my wifes doctor back some years ago, she said if you are going to do it, do it now, like yesterday.
@@bwebmasta1 study 10th class biology book u would understand everything abt menstruation!!
@@martialgaming1317 I already know all about that, many years ago. What you are saying addresses nothing what he said nor I. I don't debate clinical terms, facts, or data from medical professionals. Read up on the AMA Journals.
Explain what he said thats false
Each woman is different. My mum had my brothers at age 35 and 37.
Nope he isn't too wrong. A woman's body ovaries are meant to be done with child birth around 45, beyond this is in miracle territory but the significant changes begin aroound 30 and could become significant by 35. At this stage getting pregnant without clinical help is less likely and it keeps declining very significantly every year till menopause.
In a nutshell, its smart to be done with child birth before her eggs begin changing at 30, because after then you're probably going to have pregnancy issues and the older you get even the child could have development issues if the mother managed to get pregnant and carry to term.
I wish life was easier, no one likes late parenthood. Its just more difficult to start early
@@JamesMathison1 Like I said each woman is different. My mum had my brothers at 35 and 37 with no clinical help and my brothers are healthy boys, all thanks to God. But I do agree it's best to have children early as bringing up children when you're in your 40s/50s is very difficult compared to 20s/30s.
I had my first kid at 27 and second at 30. My sister had twins at 38. My sister in law had her first kid mid thirties and her last kid at 40. The Almightys timing is perfect
I impregnated my wife at the age of 13 we had son when she was 14 now she is 19 we have 3 kid and the 4th one is coming soon
@@abdulazad2381 13???? How old were you? Why so young did her parents say anything
@@santiagokurti I was 17... We asked their parents permission and the girl was also agree.. now she is very healthy happy..
@@abdulazad2381 13??? that is a child. you impregnated a child?
@jessica rose my mom was 16 when I was born. It's going really great right now. They can retire in their early 40s.
Alhamdulillah I had my first child at 36 then my second at 38 and my third child at 41 MashAllah they are all now in their mid to late teens happy and healthy what ever Allah gives will be
No you lie. Women having menopause cant have kids
Yeh my sister had her baby at 43 😮. Baby is small but doing good
Exceptions are not rules.
@@johningle1 a lot of exceptions all around. In Netherlands and Spain average age of woman having her first child is 35. So exceptions make a rule
Allah doesn't exist. True story.
Please RELAX! I got married at 35, had twins at 36 and I am expecting another baby in 4wks at 37! Don't let these people worry you ladies. Eat healthy, marry when you're ready and enjoy your husband. Stress doesn't help fertility.
However, developed countries like India see lots of infertility from 30s. Even though i don't support this guy, its kinda true in third world.
If zechariah had yahya when he was over the age of 70 whilst his wife wasn't able to have kids how suddenly did she have a son answer is Allah, so no matter if you cannot have kids always trust Allah and he knows whats right and whats wrong for you
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Exactly, get married whenever you want, people don't need to jump immediately into adulthood, kids are too much responsibility and we need time before them, otherwise life would be just a waste
Thank you for this… I was almost worried sick… I’m on my 30s
A man’s sperm vitality decreases after 25. When a man has children later (late 30s-40s) his sperm quality is lower, he is more likely to have disabled children and the chance of a miscarriage increases.
I used to work at an urgent care clinic and the amount of 40 something year old men that came in hoping for viagra prescriptions was astounding. Meanwhile no woman ever came in with issues with libido or anything else. And we saw many pregnant women in that age range. For as much as men shame women into feeling bad about having children later in life, it's like it's their karma they can't even keep their wives satisfied without a prescription at that age
The logic went over her head, and she was more concerned with how she is feeling when you said that 😂
Exactly these women live through feelings and emotions but not logic
Sadly
Look, raising children in a poor environment is not appealing to some women
Yes because all he was doing was trying to make her feel bad. There’s absolutely nothing for her to gain from what he said.
@Maily
Doesn't matter. You gotta take what's beneficial and move on.
@@thecerebralexplorer what did he say that’s beneficial to her?
What people are in denial about is that women simply are no longer interested in children and marriage like we used to because we fear abuse and being a doormat…so much that we forego the joy of motherhood and being a wife now.
That's why many women are accepting in fear of becoming doormat are now becoming toy for playboys
And vice versa. What do men get from marrying "modern" women these days? We get a headache when we come home, sexless marriage, threat of divorce and if divorce happens we lose more than half our shit and our kids too. Too much of a risk, better not get married. Main reason why marriage in the west is down the shitter.
Better get kids through surrogacy or something. Single father households are much better.
They aren’t until they are 30… it’s so common that’s it has its own name… it’s called baby fever where they are obsessed with marriage and kids because their biological time is ticking. YES woman do want marriage
@@Aamirmhmd99 no reality is that statistics and studies show that men thrive in marriages and women don't.
that is reality. that is why men are the once pushing for it all the time.
@@leonelhernandez220 yes they do but with the right man. women today do not want to settle anymore that is the difference.
Men trying to scare women into marriage. I had my 1st at 30 & 2nd 35 both without struggle.
It can and does happen
Its not scaring women😂😂😂 sheesh yall will make anything up to go against biology. Its a medical fact, your eggs are about done at a certain age. All he's saying is the odds are against you at a later age, can u get pregnant, sure!! Smh you've only heard of the success stories, but trust theres double the unsuccessful stories.
My Mum had me at 40 it still doesn't change the fact that 80% of your eggs are gone at 30. For 1 woman who had children after 30 there are 3 to 5 times more who failed. So start using your brain instead of your émotions when you speak to younger génération your words can ruin lives.
@thesniper321 Why so aggressive? Did you perhaps spring from a damaged egg? Or did you take one too many boosters?
I never said it changed facts, I said It can & does happen.
This is the age of information, women know eggs deplete before you exit the womb even! If that's the chance they wanna take its up to the individual.
Men need to start being emotionally available/mature in order to lock a woman down, then procreate. That's why I had to leave it so late, it has to be right.
These gender wars benefit no one.
In this day and age you cannot scare a woman into marriage. Men have shown women for decades (via abandonment & abuse) that we can walk alone, and so now many do
Anyways enough of the essay. stay blessed and stop with the boosters xxx
L comment
Had my first at 32 AND I'm a type 1 diabetic. Had an all natural pregnancy with no complications
You can see in her eyes that she did not hear a single word this man said.
He is chatting FEAR. Joker
You can see in his eyes he enjoys wearing makeup
Because it is probably not even true
because it is nonsens because in her mind she thinks about all her aunties, mother, grandmothers in the muslim community who have had kids way into their 40's he is trying to scare while he should know better certainly as a muslim that children are not in your hand nor the woman but in god's you can be twenty and have difficulties and 40 and pop out four kids after another.
Good for her in that case.
My mother had my sister when she was 30,
my brother when she was 33,
me when she was 35
and my younger brother when she was 38, you're telling me all of that was in "old people pregnancy" ?
No old..but you get the point...it is always harder the older you get.
@@jrjoseph9213My aunt got pregnant at 40 and she's now 50 and healthy 😂
Bro is living in his own matrix. 😅
When she refuses you saying it's "too early to think about marriage anyway" and you try to convince her
😂
If this girl believes what he said. She's gone to doom.
She didn't, don't worry
But he is right
@@ElGabazo he isn't.. 😭 a lot, and I mean A LOT of people conceive children at their 30's and 40's
@@minnamiinStill 90% of your eggs are gone. What are you gonna do about it? But sure you’re going to be a loving mother of a child with Down Syndrome.
@BeansPredi-ch6xk if you're a muslim then you should fear Allah for speaking that way to another person. Disabilities are not jokes and you should never wish that upon any parent.
I know a sister who had her first child at the age of 22 and that baby had downs syndrome. Many sisters in their early 20s are birthing children with disabilities nowadays, not necessarily downs syndrome but other disabilities
I was born to my mother when she was in her 30s and my younger brother was born in her late 30s. And alhamdulillah we had a healthy childhood. I am against putting off marriage for some superficial important career but giving these exaggerated worrying traits to sisters and appealing to a certain demographics of your viewers would not help the community. May Allah swt give you Hidayat and help our sisters who are finding it hard to get right match or have children.
I do tend to disagree with brother Mahdi but this is definitely something that needs to be said. Do people really believe all these Muslims don’t ever do anything at all with the opposite gender until their 30 and done with school and are super established in their career with a big house and 2 cars etc? Maybe you’ll say I know someone and more then likely that person is texting, or dating without your knowledge or at least they are watching haram videos to please themselves. This culture of getting married late needs to end. We shouldn’t make people rush into marriage but we should advice them to look in to it and I would say as early as possibly. Although I am no scholar and people should look to them for advice.
@@somerandomguy3037 "getting involved with someone" is too much of a big thing to resolve when one has the education system which is focused on dumbing down people and delaying intellectual maturity. We are unfortunately all part of the system. I am not saying people don't get involved till they are married. Mostly people do but then to mitigate that one should have a working system where both boys and girls are married in their mid teens and they are trained to bear the reality of life, work, growth, knowledge. Just blaming someone for not being able to marry till their late 20s is childish(most of the viewers of his channel are inexperienced young people). And one thing I would like to tell muslims living in the West is that you people have to compromise on the wase of practicing of Deen if you people are not willing to do Hijrah to muslim lands especially if you don't have a family support in West. Our religion is not for everyone to make uncalled comments on from people with no expertise and similarly muslims anywhere are not for being narrowed down to stereotypes. Well one wants to marry young, okay go and find a willing potential spouse and get married. How is community keeping one from marrying? People who are "super established" won't want to marry, so how is it my headache if they fell into sin till then? They are responsible for themselves and their potential spouses are at liberty to either except or reject their proposals. One needs to move on and get over with marriage or kids and just continue doing work on one's own self in a new situation. Cannot wait for the world to fix because making Personal decisions. Whole of the kanging of these online gurus and virtue signalling personalities is based on some erroneous notion that people own anyone anything. No. Nobody owes you. I am free to marry whomever I find fit for my life situation and preferences untill I don't outrightly some violation of sacred Islamic laws. Similarly people are free to make their own decisions in life without being answerable to popular cult culture.(And to be honest mostly people in reality do the same)
Nothing healthy about your face
Exceptions are not the norms
It's scientifically proven too.
Had my first child aged 38 and my second aged 42. If Allah wants to bless you with children then He will.
he said chances of pregnancy decrease after 30s if you have not been pregnant before
My mum had me at 35 chill. Women are generally fine up until 35 onwards and even then most will be fine upto 40. This guys facts are like the extremes
I love how he only talks specifically about a woman’s fertility and not a man’s!! A man’s sperm becomes less viable in his thirties!! Male fertility kits are available, please stay humble out there and stop shaming the opposite sex!!
Uh actually no that’s fallacy. You women are the fertile doomsdayers. What you just spewed is non sense. Look at Donald trump for example, he didn’t stop having kids until into his 50s .. because he didn’t have too. My father is another prime example, he was 62 when I was born. You women ABSOLUTELY are no longer fertile and ABSOLUTELY geriatric after 35. Period, amen. End of story. Any rebuttal is cope. Men age like wine 🍷, women age like milk 🥛. Been that way since the dawn of time. I’m 28, and I literally am planning to get married when I’m 40 because my sperm count is so high and my doctor told me this himself to wait to have children because my sperm will be viable well into my 60s. So you can keep coping 🚮
They want to instill fear & desperation into women that are not interested.
@@justinaacorn5721 💯Exactly!!
@hentzarthurharmel5823 no such thing as a 60 year old girl
Tell that to my Dad. Had one at 50 😂
Even at 60 you can have a baby if Allah wishes it. If a woman is destined to have children then she will have children even if she’s above 30 or 40. And if a woman is not destined to have children, she can try for a baby from the age of 18 till menopause and still she doesn’t succeed. So dear Mahdi as a Muslim you shouldn’t talk like this coz the blessings of children lies in Allan’s hands not these statistics.
Don't take it that way my dear! He was just telling a scientifically proven fact. I remember that even Prophet Muhammad's (PbuH) advice was there supporting early motherhood! But one thing is there to keep in mind that for everything there will be exceptions! That's it!
💀💀she’s only 27 it’s extremely normal to have kids at that age and beyond, all you’re doing is discouraging her and trying to make her feel bad🤡. She still has 20 years of fertility left. My mom had me and 3 of my siblings after 30, don’t act like it’s a foreign concept.
27 isnt bad but time is still running out. Obviously it's time for her to get serious if she wants children. Some women are less fertile than other so everyone case is different BUT it's a fact that you lose your fertility as you age. We think 27 isn't too old because our lifespans are longer in the modern era. But 200 years ago when the lifespan was 20 years less. It would have been a different story
Marriage takes time so it would be smarter to start acting now so you can be ready by 30
times are changing men have less sperm count in 2023 by about 60% compared to 10 years ago so women fertility also changes because of the processed food etc we eat just because you know 1 or 2 people who did get lucky doesnt nean the majority will
27 years old is a bit late, unless she's willing to rush things which would come off as a red flag
@@sanane66543 men could check their testosterone levels, do women even check the amount of eggs they have left?
Women don’t let a guy off the internet educate you on your body You should know these things
Allah knows your body more then you take a humble pill respectfully
@@ClixCFC uhh allah does know our body, yes, but this guy doesn't, the age of menopause on average is like 45-55, that woman is 27, let her enjoy her life, a lot of women get pregnant when they're legit in their fifties
@@minnamiin i agree that's what im trying to saw also i think that is a girl from her profile pic idk it could be a man aswell🫠
@@minnamiin how is staying single, no man with you and childless enjoying life especially as a Muslim woman, imagine have a 10 year old kid by 40. Fertility greatly declines by 35. Above 40 and she’s done.
@minnamiin so she will have baby when she's supposed to be almost grandma. Even at that age, parenthood is not easy and effective on children. That's more self centered than family centered thoughts. Not islamic as well. These are the women who are leftover in marriage markets and nobody wants to marry when their youth is wasted. Go ahead and enjoy.
This man has never had anything good to say in his life. 💀
At 35, most women have a 15% to 20% chance of getting pregnant in a given month. That could mean a 78% chance of conceiving within the year. But 35 seems to be the point where fertility for womens ovaries does decline.
So what Mahdi is saying is overly exaggerated, a number of women in their 40s currently are falling pregnant, how would you explain that?
Everything he says is exaggerated
@Sultana Banana he is trying to be Tate but an Aldi version
the likelihood of having genetic problems and unhealthy children increases with age
and the likelihood of pregnancy complications increases with age.
and the maternal mortality rate increases with age.
(it is not much in older ages necessarily, but it is much higher than in ages between 15- 29)
also the chances of conceiving decreases.
and the quality of eggs decreases.
@Sultana Banana
If Allah wills, it can happen even if the woman is 70
But we need to (الأخذ بالأسباب)
@Sultana Banana
Yes, in our current time with all the media , still no known cases of such things
So people should know what is most probable thing to happen.
Men who think they can shoot the gun and hit the target at any age.
@Hentz Arthur Harmel Yeah, but watch if it is your load of DNA inside your young wife. Neither every load nor every gun is the same, if you know what I mean.
He lost 90 percent of his brain cells in his 20s
"No"
You cant make this shit up 😂
My grandmother was 45 having her last child, my friends grandmother was 49. One indigenous and one Pakistani - many healthy women have no issues getting pregnant.
what you forget to mention is that she had her FIRST child young. He said the process must be kickstarted young. If she had tried to have her 1st child at 45, it wouldve come out disabled
I agree. Women can have children into their 40’s but who the hell wants to do that?!? 😂 my kids wear me out!
If a woman is pregnant before 30, she can become pregnant more easily at 38 than a woman who wants her first child at the same age. My girlfriends mom had 3 children. Her last child born when she was 41. My girlfriend being born when her mom was 24, her brother at 32 and her sister at 41.
@@zimulatetoecgirlfriend? You mean wife
This is the exception to the rule.
Hi honey
I have a friend she has her 1 child at 35
her second child at 39
She’s fit , well dressed and beautiful .
My aunty has her first child at 49
Stop telling lies to woman your not even a woman to say that .
That's science. People do not need to be a women to tell that. And I understood that you know nothing about hormone secretions. Not all women have the same breast size.
@@TheRagul90 keep your brain living with the herd
@@Jhonsmithandy keep your head brainless as always.
@Angel Just ignore. He is a Muslim😂. They are not to be taken seriously.
@@rickysingh3262 all religious people are devil
bro . no woman wants to get pregnant, they are just like us, they want cute little children as her kid . you're the one responsible to make that journey pleasant for her
Old people pregnancy statement 😂😂😂 has me rolling on the floor 🤣 with laughter.
that 90% by 30 is pure BS lol.
It's true actually, research it.
It’s true scientific research.
Why is this man not cancelled yet?
For what?? Cancelling for stating the fact 🤣🤣 Go and cencel the scientists who discovered this hella fact🤣🤣
@@sakaaroibrahim9686 Practice what your username preaches.
Imagine getting told by a man how your reproductive cycle works
Scare tactics 😂 She's 27!!! She can still have children in her 30s
Respectfully...I don't think she understood what you meant when you said "yesterday". She just said "no" unknowingly 😅
She’s a smart woman, highly educated and speaks 4 languages. English is is just not her first language
@@lipsme1673 she still didnt understood
@@lipsme1673 one of those languages is Womanese
@@lipsme1673 not about her language she looked like she spaced out for a bit or didn't pay attention, or something just clicked for good while😅
Or No means no and she didn’t agree that she should have had kids when she was younger
Being endowed with kids is totally up to Allah. And its pre written. If Allah has written motherhood for a women, she can have them regardless in teens twenties thirties or evn fourties
So with that logic if I had an exam I should not bother revising because what grade I’ll achieve is already destined for me?! Smart.
@Sultana Banana
You brought up an interesting point and I don’t think you realize it. If death is pre-written and you have no control over it, then why is suicide possible? It shouldn’t be.
Yeah being rich is pre written even if you work in a cake factory allah will give it to you, no my friend thats not how it goes. You have to put yourself in a position to be blessed.
@@malaakghanem7901 if you can't have children, your life will be limited. No options to have your own children, if you can't have children there's no future for you, therefore your lineage and thoughts die with you. Can you really call something life if it's extremely limited?
@Sultana Banana yes,if you believe in islam .
Damn shes 27, im 26 and i don't want kids till 50
@@nat1381 true 🤔💭 well since I'm a man and not a woman 😂 then I'll take 40.
My mom has 3 children she got her first child at the age of 38 so ur on something mate
I conceived in my late twenties and lost the fetus then conceived again 11 years later and Alhamduillah it was successful. So it was a very long wait , having alot of patience , and making dua all the time. So it is harder to conceive as you get older
Is Allah wishes for you to have children you will conceive without any problem.
Not a fetus, a baby. Are you pro choice?
“Modern Muslim woman”-not a compliment. It’s almost an oxymoron in the most unflattering of ways.
Right because Muslims need to be primitive
Bro studied biology in an engineering institute 😢😢
I am a doctor and I can confirm one thing beyond 35 years the chances of getting pregnant becomes is less and the chances of congenital anomalies increases.
I’m 36 I was done having kids at the age of 25 😂. I have 4 kids . The oldest 16 and the youngest 11. Alhamduilah
love Israel ❤️
He gives me the creeps.
my mom had me at 36...whatever he is saying is true but it feels as if even if we don't find a good match for us we have to get married and have children with anyone... it's kinda sad... it's upto Allah what will one get..
When your girl keeps saying no to getting married but you're still trying to convince her.
The end loool.😂😂😂
Hello Andrew ,please hire me i need a job. I.will do anything you ask
@@jjj-hs7tk 🙄🙄
Abu Andrew 🙀🙌
@Raider Trader I'm a peasant. I'm tired of being worthless in the Matrix
This man is sus. Always going on and on about women’s age and fertility
😂😂 he's a narcissistic to busy always trying to undermine women which is why his 2 wives divorced him. I hear he abused them too
A WOMAN CANNOT USE LOGIC. THIS IS WHY THE CREATOR PUT US IN CHARGE.
Exception are everywhere . I know someone who deny having kid at age of 27 later she come to know she can't have a child after 29. Now she is cries cries cries and cries but doesn't accept her feministic fault.
I had a baby at 42
Only 1 ?
Hello, just did a bit of research. women have about one to two million eggs before puberty. 300k to 500k remain after puberty. 300k to 150k left around 20’s. thirties, approximately 100k-150k eggs left. Late thirties, 1/4th of that is left. Considerable deterioration from then to menopause which is when we hit zero. Early thirties isn’t a bad time to start a family.
yes isn't a bad time but still not a good time tho 🧐
I started at 30! It's a great time.
Had my first baby at 37, now second at 40. When it’s your time, it’s your time.
he is trying the forbidden " scarizz " .
I know a couple who got married in their early twenties. Both practicing mashallah and health wise nothing wrong with either. They were blessed with a son 20 years later subhanallah.
Everything is written by the Almighty.
This is what I’ve been saying, it all depends on Allah not these statistics.
@@Aissa_gilly975 No, Allah has given us limited free will to make our own choices. And we're accountable for our own choices. What she said above is an exception, a rare case.
If u delay having kids at your prime even though there's no health issues, that's your choice. And when you're struggling to have kids at your 30s, that's the consequences of your choice. U can't blame Allah for your own bad choices.
Talking advice from a man who’s had 3 wives and 2 have left him due to abuse 😅 this is the same man who couldn’t even bother visiting his wife in the hospital while she was giving birth
A lot of misinformation here.
😂😂😂 he's a pathetic narcissist
@@PerigoBerro all true. Also, this guys a complete psycho, like a snake.
I had my children at 28...i really wish i would have had them sooner kids are so much work take advantage of ur energy when u are young.
You may have wished it but it's the plan of Allah maybe you think youd have more energy but you really wouldn't have compared to now, Allah knows when the time is right❤ im a brother
Me when I bring all the science, logic and facts but my woman ends the conversation with one word.. 😅😂🤣
I was 31 going on 32 when I had my twins w/ the help of invitro fertilization ..my sister- who is 35 now- just had her 1st baby... I feel like this man is doing young women a real disservice... do not rush out & settle with just any man.. science is on your side . women in their 40s become pregnant all the time . don't let him scare you!
This is an anecdotal experience. Your your sister is blessed to have kids at such a later age when the majority of the women at that age are struggling to have even 1. Statistics don't lie, it's a fact that after 30 a women's fertility starts dropping and by 35 she's entering geriatric pregnancy territory. For every one woman who has kids at above 33, there are 1000s who can't and will be childless.
It's upto each individual whether to take this risk or not, at the end of the day you're accountable for your own choices.
To be fair a women who a sexually active before marriage and use chemical contraceptive will definitely damage their reproductive organs. I know muslim women who've easily gotten pregnant in their late 30's and in their 40's. This is because they have preserved their chastity and kept their wombs protected. Unfortunately in our modern Muslim culture it's taboo to have multiple wives. Many our our chaste sisters remain single. Only the prettiest will be hand picked while a majority of Muslim women in the Muslim world remain single and vergin till old age. This is a harsh and depressing reality of single conservative Muslim women who don't want to choose the path of harm.
Lmao u can talk like this if u are in ukraine. In muslim countries there are more men than woman. And in the world there are more men than woman. So mutliple wives rule is a selfishness
@Fatin Iyanie lmao how unmarried woman are more important than unmarried man? Unmarried man has more sexual hungry,more survival issues thsn women. If u woman and unmarried there will be everytime anyone can protect and provide you. But if u are lone man u must do everything. And your religon dont concern about woman with valueing unmarried woman more. Because your religious guy says this words to take second wife for themselves. And its okay to say man polygamy cannot be solution. Because there are no 4x women population in the world. And i think u learning statistics from jihadis lmao. In the world 100 women to 102 man. Only women polyandry can be solution if it needed.
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assuming men and women have the same numbers, still many men aren't ready for marriage, men have the responsibility of providing for the wife, and generally they are the ones who are proposing, but the numbers of unmarried women is a lot, and many men aren't coming and proposing to them, but polygyny can solve this, because a man who is able, can marry another woman and decrease the number of those unmarried women.
@@IBRA-nm9kc
assuming men and women have the same numbers, still many men aren't ready for marriage, men have the responsibility of providing for the wife, and generally they are the ones who are proposing, (more men are not ready for marriage than women who aren't) but the numbers of unmarried women is a lot, and many men aren't coming and proposing to them, but polygyny can solve this, because a man who is able, can marry another woman and decrease the number of those unmarried women.
@@IBRA-nm9kc be careful with your words. Saying it is selfishness when Allah permitted it is dangerous. Do you know better than our creator?
ALLAH blesses you with children ...inshallah ALLAH make it easy for the Ummah 🎉
There are actually some women out there that don’t want kids. Nothing wrong with that. Especially if she has plenty of nieces and nephews to spoil. Or they having a calling in life or they want to live their life doing everything. There’s nothing wrong with that
What bull I married a woman in her forties regnant twice no problem
27 is so young 💀 i’m tired of ppl making women feel bad because they didn’t get married and pump out kids at age 20. Get your education and leave the rest to Allah, His timing is always right no matter what these weirdos say.
No, you're accountable for your own choices. Allah has given us limited free will, u can't blame him for the bad choices u make. If u waited for so long to have kids and now u can't have, then it's on u not Allah. U willfully made that choice and now u have to live with it.
It's upto u to have kids at your prime or have a geriatric pregnancy with increased risks.
it seems you got triggered
The lady in the video isnt even in a relationship. So she would have to find a man first. Then get married and that takes time. Then try to conceive. Courting a man. Bagging him. And waiting for him to propose could take yearsss. All awhile her body clock is ticking. It is considered a high risk pregnancy to get pregnant at a later age.
Exactly
I know right, stop telling the truth! ☕️💀
The bride of our prophet Khadija Ra married. The prophet at age of forty. And she gave birth to four children at her forties.
Prophet Muhammad SA. said: "𝗪𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗱𝗲𝗳𝗶𝗰𝗶𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗹𝗹𝗶𝗴𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲".... It's really True unfortunately.
How can women not understand simple logics 😅
This is interesting, because I know of many woman who had their first child at early or mid 30s. Wonder where he got this information from as 90% is a big number
That's bcs avg age of first time moms is actually 31 in the UK
I think it's true about 90% eggs are gone. Bcs women don't produce eggs constantly like men does with sperm. Women are born with fixed amount of eggs and it decreases steadily even before puberty. But if we take the number of eggs alone as a factor of fertility that means a 1 year old girl is better than an 18 year old girl
The average 40 year old woman has about 3% or less eggs left, I'm a man and I know this, you can fact check ✅. Any man knows that if a woman suddenly wants a man at 30, it's due to desperation not love. If it is love, then why not before? If the answer is because of priority, then she should respect the men who prioritize going after the younger women
@Sultana Banana 90 % is exaggeration and i am a med student
@Sultana Banana i am not talking about miracles i am talking about majority average of women have their first child in 31 32 yr old what does avg mean then? Also depends on your ethnicity and your life style
And fertility decline after age 35 both in men and women only difference is that women reach menopause
Man her expressions went from happy to sad so quick. However, facts are better than dreams.
Yes they are. Here's another fact: Allah doesn't exist. Just like the tooth fairy doesn't exist. Happy to be of assistance.
her expression went from what is he talking about to. every woman i know has had children in their 30's and 40's she is a muslim woman. in their society wo have children way up into their 40's so yeah she thinks he a fool
This scares me to my soul. I’m 36 and want nothing more than a baby.. I pray it will still happen. I know it’s possible, but I worry for sure.
it is possible
To sum it up, yes ,she could still have kids well into her 30s early 40s but by 30 your chances of risks occurring increase and as we know there are exceptions to this, but we all also know that exceptions don't make the rules
If a women gets pregnant at 40 her chances of having complications or giving birth to a child with deformities or mental disabilities is very high
Is it possible? yes
Is it recommended? No,medical professionals will have a long list of things that could go wrong as she gets older trying to conceive and give birth
And the mental toll would be quite high with each failure
This man is far from right. He's left the building
How so?
Cope with facts
Another yusra in denial
@@TMNmedia😂
Can I know why?
not everyone’s biological clock is the same. it’s not uncommon for women to have children over 40 years of age if they are healthy and fit my opinion is “not a leaf falls without the knowledge of Allah” therefore Allah is capable of everything you couldn’t imagine neither science could imagine. when you have tawakul in Allah nothing is impossible ❤
Every hijabi girls are not religious but every religious girls are hijabi Alhamdulillah ❤ for my mother and sisters
Definitely your right trust me ❤❤❤❤ love this guy what you say is absolutely right
Watch the full version. She’s not disagreeing with him just can’t believe it. She just another girl caught in materialist trap of the feminist ideal of hardworking, independent, partnered and not married to create a family-unit, women.
His face reminds me of every antagonist I've seen in Bollywood movies😭
Fathers are to blame for pushing girls into careers. Most are in the dating scene and haram relationships citing careers and not ready to settle down. But once they hit mid 30s they are scrambling to find a man.
Bro. U are a good man why do u want the sin of every man looking at this woman
Good men ? Bf
For the greater good of society.
Good man? 😂😂😂😂😂😂
She's in denial. She wants 2 kids but hasn't found a husband and is almost 28. She rejected every man who approached her without any reason why. Clearly her education in the liberally indoctrinated universities has destroyed her common sense.
I pray that she realizes it before it's too late.
Children is real life. Talking about it is easy but the world ain't easy..... Thing he said everyone understands. But it really doesn't work in the end times now.....
@@kikidailyswipe off grid living homeschooling only find other families to hang out with create a community and find suitable people that compliment one another for your kids to marry off but they must both agree ez solution ez clap but most yall are modern Muslims that can't survive off grid 😂
in my opinion education ruins women life bro
@Smon Regmi not necessarily you can be educated and humble but most women egos be like king Pharoah once they earn 60k lmaooo
@@FamilyIsGone 😂 exactly
As a descendant of isaac. I can say that science doesn't speak for the I Am. Grandma Sarah birthed grandpa isaac at 90 years old.
From a student who is studying zoology, fertilising power starts decreasing from your early 30s. In case you are not ready for an early marriage then you can always consider options like IVF and adoption.
Noone should hurry their way into a marriage.
A 30 year old woman has a 20% chance to get pregnant every month compared to a woman in her 20s which is 25-30%. The difference isn’t really that big, so you still have a good chance of conceiving.
ikr but this "muslim" is extremely toxic and honestly scary in a way. our mosque community is openly discouraging our people to not listen to or follow this man as he spreads an insane amount of misinformation.
(hes also referred to women as dogs and people who want to be degraded etc, hes just really creepy)
the likelihood of having genetic problems and unhealthy children increases with age
and the likelihood of pregnancy complications increases with age.
and the rate of maternal mortality rate increases with age.
(it is not much in older ages necessarily, but it is much higher than in ages between 15- 29)
also the chances of conceiving decreases.
and the quality of eggs decreases.
@M A
I never denied that age increases the risk of health problems in babies, but the chances of genetic problems aren’t as high as people make it out to be. It’s very possible to have a healthy baby in your thirties especially with good medical care. Also, why did you put 15 in that range? 15 year old girls should not be having children. Teen pregnancy is way more dangerous than being pregnant in your thirties. Since apparently you know so much about women’s bodies, you should know that.
@Sultana Banana
He still called us holes, so that’s not any better. No one should be taking advice from this scumbag.
@@malaakghanem7901
I made a comparison
The odds of Genetic problems and mortality even if the woman is forty are generally not that high, so I would still tell women to get pregnant in that age if they can.
So, although they aren't that high, they are higher compared to ages from 15-29
By the way, statistics on maternal mortality rate were done on 144 countries (the biggest research in this area till now as far as i know) in 2014, they compared maternal mortality rate in women of different age groups (15-19, 20-24, 25-29, 30-34, 35-39, above 40), and do you know what they found?
They found that the lowest maternal mortality rate in more than third of these countries is for pregnant women in the age group(15-19), example of these countries (egypt).
But for the majority of countries, the lowest rate was for pregnant women in the age group (20-24).
If you collect all the countries together, the lowest will be in (20-24),then (25-29) and (15-19) are nearly the same, and then (30-34), and then (35-39) and then (above 40).
But Generally the mortality rate for all ages isn't that high to not allow women to get pregnant, and if you add good medical care, it decreases so much.
So yeah, women can handle pregnancy in (15-19) physically very easy generally speaking, the WHO for a long time put the maternal mortality rate in this age as more than what this research found, and the researchers commented that the WHO exaggerated the numbers, the WHO also put the maternal mortality rate for pregnant women under 15 years old as a certain number, but the research didn't look at the maternal mortality rate under 15, but even if you take the estimation of the WHO as true(they probably exaggerated this also), still pregnancy under 15, will not have have a higher mortality rate than above 40 according to the results in this research.
Lol my mom had me when she was 40!
My sister in law is 4 years older than my brother he was 32 she was 36 when he married her and he’s an incredibly high value man. He is tall good looking, very successful in his career highly educated, great character. Higher than this narcissistic piece of trash. He could get an 18 years old if he wanted to. But he’s not shallow. He chose his wife .And they have two beautiful healthy kids. He loves her and cherishes her and we love her too. She’s the best woman he could ever have because she treats him very well and she’s an outstanding mother. She’s very responsible, great communicator. Amazing problems solver. I see her like my older sister and I always seek her advice. Why would he choose a passive younger woman who cares only about Tik tok and nonsense ? 17 years of successful mariage.
My other brother is also a very high value man an engineer with his own business he married his university girlfriend who is only one year younger than him. They married when she was 28 he was 29! They had all their three daughters when she was in her 30s. Perfect match. Never argued. They are always supporting eachother though good and bad times. 16 years of successful mariage.
My sister got married to a heart surgeon and a university professor at the age of 34 after She finished her PhD. And they have two beautiful healthy children together. And her husband is amazing. He loves her and treats her well. Been married for 8 years.
The common thing between all of these three is that they are all highly educated high value people who read a lot. Travelled a lot . They understand that reality is a complex thing. And they think beyond their nose.
Thank god not everyone is stupid and bitter like this narcissist . Women in their 30s can have healthy babies. It’s completely normal. Guys like you want very young girls from 18-23 because you want to raise them. You want to control them depend on them. You do feel like taking care of them. They can accept abuse and can accept anything you give them since they have no life experience.
Guys like you are not mariage material anyways. Very immature.
High value people be it men or women marry the person. They check the compatibility. They look for a partner who will live with them for much longer. They don’t care about this dominance nonsense. High value couples support eachother and care for eachother. They don’t seek benefits like beauty or money.
Besides who the hell in his right mind will take advice from a guy whose has a past of domestic violence? And the anger and narcissism is coming out of his eyes?
Only teenage boys , or some guy who has a bad personality and wonders why women don’t want him.
No it’s not because of the looks or the lack of money. It’s because women sense that there’s something wrong in your head.
If we lived in a world where we all looked at our own flaws and tried to fix ourselves and be humble we wouldn’t see the likes of this guy and Andrew tate, third wave feminists and so on.
Women over a certain age have enough life experience to spot the bullshit and you don’t like that. You know there’s something wrong with you but you justify it . I hope those young women understand that these guys for most part (not all ) I mean much older guys with a specific social status, are out there to abuse them.
I think you wasted a lot of energy here. It's very clear what they look for in a woman. But that won't stop them from complaining when their desired woman is marrying them for their bank balance. Compatibility is the last thing on their checklist and then they blame the same 'youmg beautiful' woman they married when things turn stale. Lol. Anyways. Let's be thankful we're not born in a family of men like this guy here.
Haha calling him a narcissist just coz you disagree with him
And btw in Quran husband is dominant leader of the family
Iam not a fertility or baby producing machine. Producing baby is not my only job
I have to establish myself in the world so that I can work and live independently have friendly relationship with my husband and not that of master and slave
I have brain and can decide when to have baby according to my own health and finances.
In today's world of developed science we have have healthy baby at 35 or even 40.
Adapt
she said no 😂😂😂 u have no choice baby 🤣🤣
He’s trying to wife her up and dang!! gets rejected.
Denial is a river in egypt
You're wrong but you're right.
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What does this mean😂😊
I was got married at 28 had my first boy at 31 then my daughter when I was 34 so el hamdouleh ,you wrong!
Guess he forgot about Prophet Abraham, as, and Sarah.
Prophet Zachary, as, and his wife.
The miracle of the virgin birth.
Women need to save their eggs and the species by not falling pregnant to these type of men at any age.
he said chances of pregnancy decrease after 30s if you have not been pregnant before
@@ibraheemq7859 thanks for mansplaining that.
Hopefully she gets good guidance by wise older woman in her life
@redchocolate9066 If I was Muslim I would probly have that knowledge for you but sorry I'm not. May our creator lead you to the knowledge you seek.
Wise old women are the reason there are girls like her in this time. Any ideology whether it’s a feminism or religion, anything. If it’s not practiced by thought through well educated(of that ideology) wise opinion it’s a disaster