Are Chinese Girls Easy?
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Hey Winston, I lover your videos! I just have a quick question, what are those random announcements you can hear in the background? You can hear them at 11:13 and in a few other places throughout the video, and I noticed it in an ADVchina video too... it sounds like random numbers, but I'm not sure because 我的中文不好 ;) 谢谢!
serpentza your response should be: those guys that are easy are desperate.
serpentza thank you so much that's why my friend from china told me about my dark skin I didn't understand before now I got the answer thanks to you..
I think your opinions are subjective.
Interesting perspective from a lady
I love how people kept coming up to him asking what the video was for, and he had to think of something to say other than "Are Chinese girls easy?"
A lot of fun 😂😂
Same 🤣
假的吧兄弟 一看就安排的啊
Hahaha
I think it has more to do with him not being able to say that he's making videos for CZcams - a platform that is illegal to access in China.
I understand why he said hes from England instead of South Africa. He just avoided 20 minutes of interrogation of why hes not black, and also created a much smoother dialogue to get his answers.
I spent two years in China and have had a few Chinese girlfriends. I can assure you they have a direct, almost childlike set of questions that would make any politically correct person cringe.
Seeing some comments from idiots about him not saying his origins means they haven't lived in china... don't have any Chinese friends... or watched his video about the open racism in china.
True, plus he has stated in other videos before and had to go through the explanation why he’s not black. I’m sure he doesn’t want to waste film time on this
you call that wisdom
Do you think it's a cultural norm in China to ask impolite questions or there's just so many poorly cultured people? I have heard some arguments that the Cultural Revolution killed the educated, well mannered intelligentsia of China, and eventually farm folk with no knowledge of etiquette moved en masse to cities, bringing their poor manners and habits with them.
For example, in Vietnam most people cut the line, but others still get annoyed when that happens (which indicates that it is not okay to cut the line). Also, most people will smack their lips and slurp when eating. However, the highly educated families in Vietnam I have encountered do not do those things.
nhunka44 Generally, I believe it’s cultural. My wife from China along with friends and family never think about asking questions that to our western culture seem out of place or personal. I found it a little unnerving at first. But in the scheme of things it really isn’t a big deal😀
I thought the same thing.
I absolutely love when your filming gets interrupted. It is fascinating.
Those people were probably chinese government spies...
@@JordanJankLOL What r u talking🤣请你不要搞笑了好吗？
@@JordanJank 哈哈哈哈少看小说电影，多出门走走
@@JordanJank I wouldn't be surprised if that was the case
That girl bumping on somebody carrying boxes at 14:05 tho xD
White guy in a suit: exists
Chinese Women: England is your city!
Chinese people love being on cam. Winston you are cool and have patience with people intrupting your videos. Liked
I did not hear anything rude at all!
It's more like they are very curious about foreigners than necessarily being on camera. I found their open curiosity endearing.
Jay I think you like that, and was the only thing you could write about. Go... keep watching your porns. Is my opinion that his videos are truth of life in China. My respect to people that are respectful, and to the good people in China.
Jay OK, is good to learn. Tu... Aprende a ser educado con los demás, aprende español.
One of a kind youtuber who is more interested in the people and culture that the video. Kudos for him.
I love how you stopped and talked with people that interrupted. You were being very kind.
One and Only haha
lol he didn't cut it out because he knows it proves his point about the video
Yes, that shows he is actually a very good person.
GENTLEMEN
@One and Only I WAS THINKING THE SAME LOL
I love how you didn't dare tell them the real video you are making haha. I don't blame you!
Should be honest
My wife is Chinese, and we just celebrated our 14th wedding anniversary. You are correct that the cultural differences never go away. But we have learned to enjoy those differences! The only real exception is ‘humor’. As exemplified in your video, they laugh easily, but will never understand Western (or American) humor, such as sarcasm or ‘kernel of truth’ comedy. It has been a bit stifling over the years, but it’s truly funny how comedy is simply beyond their cultural grasp. 😜 Love conquers all! (except American humor)
Interesting to see this - my wife is chinese and she is damn funny. She totally gets sarcasm and everything. But I do think kernal of truth humor is lost on her... We have only been married a short time, but maybe being from the internet generation makes a difference.
Anyways, thanks for sharing your experience. Cheers!
dude i know white women who cant get/take a joke so.....dont expect to be ranting and rambling as with your buddies when youre talking to a lady....
Just met a Chinese woman in London, yes humour is proving to be an issue 😅
Culturally they are lacking western humor, however if one if brought up with some interest of the west over the internet, they are more likely to get it.
@@BillAnt I'm dating a Chinese lady now, from HK but I don't even try with the jokes any more 😄
"Are Chinese girls easy?" *proceeds to get hit on multiple times*
*When you think getting talked to = getting hit on*
First girl said "you're handsome." Second girl throws her self at him. Their faces 100% flustered. Did you watch the video?
Seens like a regular (platonic) video to me.
I think they thought he was some kind of celebrity.
They were saying that he was handsome then looking to each other and laughing whenever he talked to them. Clearly they thought he was a handsome alpha male and they were testing the waters with him.
i really enjoyed the candid interviews with people on the street. please consider doing more of those.
Yeah, interviews would be awesome!
+serpentza, is it the man trap?
it's really awkward...
+Taras MrSnailz you're right lol. but he was caught off guard when he was talking to those people. I bet if he made a real video where he interviews people it wouldn't be awkward because he would be prepared and he could speak in Chinese and just add subtitles, so it would go much more smoothly
+Nieidealny świat you understand that the conversation he had with those girls is happening every time. So in order to interview 20 people, hell have to talk about "where are you from", "what are you doing here","how long have you been here", "your Chinese is really good","how much money do you make" and so on. I feel sorry for him
Q: How to find a easy Chinese girl?
A: Being a white, make a film on the street of Shenzhen.
Makes sense.
Unfortunately I’m brown
So when I grow up I might just leave Hong Kong
Try wearing suits everywhere. 😎😎
@@aliteralpieceofbread3373 haha dpeneds how brown you are
This is completely opposite from Japan. An average Japanese person would never want a relationship with a foreigner lol although, white skinned Japanese is preferred for the same reason there in China.
@Username No, it is extreme rare to see mixed couples in Japan. I don't know about Korea. I did hear the culture is somewhat similar to Japan, but with a slight mainland vibe.
@Username good point.
From what I understand if you know Japanese it'll be a lot easier, as with everything simply being nice will go a long way
Idk I was stationed there for three years 2016-2019 and it was not too hard to find a relationship
I’ve dated several Japanese girls, and I’m just a European white dude.
Man your patience level is over the boards. And the last part was quite hilarious. Stay safe where you are and stay awesome! ♪
Again, I am from China and I can tell that what Winston says is very real. Like in America, oftentimes people ask me if a local Chinese restaurant offers authentic Chinese food, I can tell them if it's authentic. These videos are really informative even for a native Chinese like me who want to revisit the social and cultural nuisance in China. Keep up!!!
+Ming Ju Thank you! So glad you like the videos
真没想到这有中国人😀你是哪里人
lets chat about it sometime..
I love the late 80s early 90s aesthetic of your videos, like with the music and the video tape that reads stay awesome. Truly awesome.
As a Chinese person watching this, everything you say I agreed and is a fact. Awesome
yesss im crying（but im not that kind of person
And i guess you are a chinese man,lol
Although I doubt you're Chinese, I can't imagine being this cucked
@@somerandomguy7068 what do you mean? please elaborate.
@@somerandomguy7068 There are over 1 billion of them dawg, a drop of oil in the ocean doesnt make it black lololol
If only the news outlets were as honest and informative as this man, the world would be a better place.
Thank you for even saying that the title of your video can be misleading. I've watched your other videos so I know you're a decent and faithful guy, but even so, I was prepared to be upset because I'm sure a video with this title would attract the sickos wanting to know where to go for sex tourism, and if not careful, could be a hub for misunderstanding and the promotion of creepy men to go to China. Kudos for all the clarification you did at the end of the video. Not every CZcamsr makes their videos with due diligence for respect and precaution, especially when talking about other people's cultures.
He condemns cheating, yet lies straight to peoples faces. Are you a cheater too, since you are projecting your virtuous morals like that?
are you kidding? its' a straightforward title and who the fuck would go to china to get laid? if you are that creepy you can just buy a chinese girl and have her shipped to you in a box with a few holes
Dude if you have enough money 99% of all girls are easy.
I prefer the word friendly rather than the word easy.
Me too
+serpentza I just arrived in Hong kong, staying in a hostel is a great way to make Chinese friends. Hong Kong can be 50/50 but on this trip I asked a business guy for directions out of Olympic station and talked to him a little and then after he even wanted to give me his umbrella as it was a typhoon and because I mentioned about walking to another place because it's quicker than changing at central
Serpentza
not as easy as the places having US base
you r so damn clever!!!
There is something cool and very composed about serpentza. Boss level
I noticed that several videos ago. It's not something you often see to that level.
Good job on being loyal Winston, thanks god our society has people like you. That is the base value for any relationship to work.
That's one thing that I really loved about my few weeks in China around the World Roller Games in Nanjing, the open friendliness of the ordinary person in the street, the innocent curiosity about you personally, and their willingness to hear about where you come from and what it's like, from totally random situations or for no reason at all. I felt a certain sense of safety, as everyone seemed to be just so chilled and friendly everywhere, even away from the Roller Games.
My 13 year old daughter and myself went as the support squad for the Australian Roller Hockey Team and had the same event guides and security guys at the venue for the 11 days. After getting to know them in the initial few days, each time we turned up to the venue, we were offered gifts from all of them, thanking us for coming. Nothing big at all, however what they did give was personally from them and hand made the previous evening, from having taken the time to speak to them that day.
My daughter had a massive following, and we have some awesome pictures of her and the staff (Unpaid Uni students forced to work at the games during the study break.) including her being surrounded by 4 huge armed to the teeth security guards that absolutely adored her, in a nice way that wasn't creepy at all, it was genuinely nice.
There was a feel and a vibe that I loved with the ordinary people in the street, however, there were some glitches in the Matrix that I saw and felt after leaving Nanjing. It wasn't so nice anymore, and in Shangdi, it was 'get me the hell out of here!' The locals seemed so depressed and miserable. So much so, I could pick the Chinese tourists from the locals.
I've worked with a lot of Chinese students and totally get England not SA. They would be so interested to hear all about SA, you'd never get back on point. :)
They are a very naive, humble, subservient people for the most part, I believe as a result of being oppressed in one way or another for 1,000's of years under the dynasties, the concession periods and now more recently the CCP. Please correctly me if I'm wrong, they've never really been able to have a crack at being a truely free people, always under the thumb of the few.
⚫️Explain to me you “glitches in the matrix”!
🖤I am sincerely interested, and would like to request that you illustrate for me what it is you mean exactly!!!‼️‼️‼️💯💯🖤
You are very hypocritical.
I need to clarify that: Different culture, different mind
And the understanding of freedom varies to different people, I understand you r standing at your point to speak that, it's normal you wouldn't know the truth deep inside.
I'm actually pretty amazed at how well you know about Chinese and China.. . I'm Chinese from Hong Kong and one of the main reasons for me to subscribe your channel is that I'm curious to see how accurate on what your say.. . Yes, you are real!:). In fact, I have seen more than I know about China from your videos.. . Great videos!!!
Thanks mate!
I love your honesty.
Chinese don’t know about SA so normally we just say America or england
@pegan farm "I could have just chatted those girls up and taken it further... but of course I'm not interested in that kind of thing". Scratches his ear. Haha
I don't know. He did tell that girl he trains doctors and he said medical. I think he trained them in English. He also said he was English. He's from South Africa. I know he does this to save time as he gets those questions a lot and it's just easier to go with what they assume.
Love the openness of your videos and how in real time we get to see the interactions with natives.
I wouldn't say I've travelled Asia extensively (I've never been to China), but I have travelled to the continent multiple times and visited a few different countries - but I have never encountered as much curiosity toward foreigners as I saw in this short video! In my experience, usually the only people who go out of their way to strike up a conversation with you are scammers.
Makes a video "are chinese girls easy?" Gets chance to score multiple chinese girls on camera LOL.
good to see the copy and paste is working
He's a married gentleman
Andrew Fraser I like to think he has a text file that he saves for whenever he feels triggered.
he will
They ugly as fuck though...
Strictly speaking, the Chinese cultural preference for lighter skin pigment is classism, not racism.
probably this is what chinese tell you, it is classism not racism, because classism sounds less rude, but is it really so?
No: This is what my reasoning tells me, because the origin of this preference had nothing to do with race: it was a preference for Chinese people with lighter skin, over Chinese people with darker skin. That other people from other parts of the world have lighter or darker skin was irrelevant. It is unfortunate that this cultural bias now causes them to look more favorably on a Northern European ditch-digger than on a Sub-Saharan African business executive. But it has nothing to do with their ethnic backgrounds.
wlan2
so it is only about skin, not facial features, body proportions, head sizes etc.?
As I understand it, that's how it started, back when the only people in China were Chinese. Most people with tanned skin were poor outdoor laborers, and most people with paler skin were the well-to-do who paid others to work. If you want your son/daughter to marry well, you'd give preference to the ones who looked like they were financially well off, over the ones who looked like ditch-diggers.
wlan2
so what if they looked like now like a sun burned richard branson?
You mean i am a labourer. I thought i looked good.
You made me upset, haha!
Love from India
Winston you're a genius. I'm SUPER glad you did this on the street
In 16 minutes 3 girls came up to Winston. Damn.
+ManAtWork All the ugly ones. Girls who wear glasses don't make passes.
Travel Time 53 i see super hot chinese girl with avarage looking foreign
even i see super hot chinese girl with african guys from mali
if you dont believe me give me your instagram i show you
dude not be jealous, jealoust person not Will happy
Travel Time 53 This is why majority of girls wear makeup
boi I went to china 2 times, this year and last year and holy fuck some girls are hot af and a lot of them wear round shaped glasses and man that is sexy. Thank you
傻逼 fuck of she has a 60k chinese follower on Instagram
"I teach doctors" tell that to any girl and her interest sky rockets lol
I'm curious about sexual education in China, what are they being teach and at what age... And like what are they considering acceptable or not acceptable about sex.
For example, I know pornography is illegal in China, so I guess there is probably many other differences like this.
@@Reth_Hard As well as prostitution is illegal but it is full of it. However as he said, you can find some on every corner.
Liar 🤣
5:45 His point gets made AS he's making the video. Epic!
"You are different from the then... there... Chinese human"
HAHAHSHAHA
Human and person have the same meaning
snigie1 human is a race, person is an individual...
Ikr lmao
Speak Chinese *** you.
Du bist unterschiedlich von.... dem ... USA Menschen.
Shiiiit! My boy can't even do his video with all these Chinese babes hitting on him! Gotta go to China next vacay and pull a camera out like I'm doin the news!
what babes?
傻逼
dont hate the truth
Twat F off
You're too ugly
"how easy are chinese girls?"
picks up a girl who is with her bf
5:45 His point gets made AS he's making the video. Ha ha ha!
@@dowskivisionmagicaloracle8593 LOL, yeah. This makes me think about the multiple videos on youtube where they go to china (or any asian country for that matter) and ask the women what they think of western("western" being code word for white) men. The most common answer is that they thought that white men were hot. Some even going so far as saying that they thought that white men were hotter than chinese/Japanese/Korean men (depending on where the interviewers asked the question). In the comment sections of these videos, you'll always see something along the lines of "relax, weebs. They're talking about men like Brad Pitt." Seeing this video, they clearly are talking about the average white guy.
Twice. This man is ON IT!
This guy was cleaning up
This thumbnail cracks me up. It looks like a game show.
Dude, you’re a rock star.
I like this guy. His no holds barred, and honest unbiased way of presenting his broadcasts is very refreshing. It’s a shame MSM don’t take a leaf out of his book.
Well done Winston, great work, keep it up.
You guys expect so much from MSM. It’s MSM for a reason, it’s supposed to be not be offensive.
It's always MSM with you people, just say western media, so you think the Breitbarts of the world have a higher standard? I bet you think Rupert Murdoch was a benefit to news publication?
Geez, you're so transparent with your own bias and unaware of your hypocrisy.
It's all bad.
I kind of knew the way Chinese look at skin already. I have a little sister my family adopted from china, and she likes to stay tan. Chinese people have told us that you can tell she is Americanized for this reason. A girl from China would avoid the sun, and try to stay as pale as they can.
"What are you making a video about?"
"Ermmm, ahhh... oh fuck."
F.Y.I. Your faithfulness actually makes you even more attractive. 🇺🇸
All girls are easy when you have something that they want......
When you have money*
James Russell in your dream
it is true
@@vitas75 more like white man for them is enough.
Try this in other countries then.
I really enjoyed and respected how polite and respectful you were to all of the people who came up to talk to you.
You are a superior presenter. You are balanced. You speak frankly. You are introspective. You are sincere and genuine. You are brave.
I thought they would never leave!
I'm brown, My Ex Girl Friends are chinese, my wife is chinese, and my phone is Chinese...
OokTiaopi lol for the phone
He likes fine china XD
i think chinese girl is very beautiful...
OokTiaopi I bet your phone is cheating on you with a white man
OokTiaopi your phone is racist.
They are easy....if you earn a high salary. if don't, you are out.
Be white, be tall, be handsome *drops mic*
Lionel Hutz none of that matters without cash
most prefer be asian, be tall, be handsome,
if u earn a high salary, all girls are easy
Exactly, look at trump. Ugly af but hot wife. even talks about how he would date his own daughter.... ew.
This guy picks up more girls while doing a video than me in my whole life😂
@@quezmar8729Wb Latino men and arab men lol
@@man58652 Popular. Can easily take most of beautiful girl.
It was really fun watching your interaction with people who had questions for you!
Man, you handled that well. Nearly 2 decades in rural Japan wore me down, but midway through, I began asking a similar question for every question asked of me (the usual top 5: country, job, wife, kids, how long . . . .). The questioning would usually stop when I started inquiring about their work, where they work and what uni they went to . . . . Most people did it out of innocent curiosity, but (usually) middle-aged men had a chip on their shoulder toward foreigners, and they had to pay for information with information; they didn't like that.
I think the question is more are foreign men easy?
*Psst* Boys and girls are different. Men are expected to pursue women. Women are supposed to be choosy. Thus in the game of sex most men are "easy."
Samuel Epicurus Nope, that was the game in the 80s maybe but using the Dominant Strategy we have seen the light. It's a whole new game now
Ondraya
*Psst* you don't change genetics via wishing it is different.
You have to understand evolution to see why in humans women being promiscuous is obviously going to be seen as a bad thing.
Samuel Epicurus We are beyond evolution, WE control ourselves and our future. We go against human nature every single day, why would this be different? There is a reason why would brain is so much more advanced and that's so we can defy the primitive piece of meat plaguing us.
I can make a case for it to go with human evolution too, if you want.
Samuel Epicurus I have sexual urges and if I so choose to (if I was single) I would go find someone I see as attractive and hook up. I still see people as attractive or not. The Gender thing... I have only had one BF and I'm going to keep it that way; I much prefer women
You have built a strawman making an argument I never made. And as such until you come back into reality and discuss my argument that I (not YOU) am making there is nothing to talk about.
3:17 true, my Chinese girlfriend doesn't even want me getting tan 🤣
I'm Chinese, I want to say that “the light of the skin”is not a key point,because this video is discussing if really exist easy girl in chinese,not easy boy .One important point is that Chinese culture is really think “the light of the skin’s girls is more beautiful”but it’s not boys.Actually, a part of Chinese girl just adore foreigner .LOL
"Are Chinese Girls Easy?" What a sexist title for a vi.... Oh nevermind, my bad. Chinese girls are literally stopping in the street to flirt with him haha
Gruff Games they are trying to practice English
@@xijieqin8910 That's often the case.
he really is handsome so it might be easier for him as an individual than the average foreigner.
Is not that they are easy. The correct term is "friendly"
They are trying to practice English. Same thing happen in Japan, but most of them will be children and guys.
Finally, a CZcamsr out there asking the important questions..
You recon
Whos more hansome a black or white man.ok.
I am 55 and worldly in my opinion!!! You guys put out some fantastic video's that would have done me a world of good back in my early 20's!!!! I learned the hard way.....lol
I love how based the Chinese people are.
That couple was the cutest racist couple I've ever seen.
harry pot 😂😂
At least they're honest XD
Jordan Belfort Tf? U triggered or some shit? U just mad cz u have no life bruh
Jordan Belfort boi don't start more racism in these comments.
Jordan Belfort u mad annoying. Ur the one that decided to respond to my comment so fuck off. I ain't even gonna reply anymore.
Lol was that girl with a boyfriend trying to smash him while with her boyfriend???
Raul Montano they are really that cheap because they need to marry a white or better featured man so their kids don't have to do plastic surgery
You need to know that after 100 years's humiliation from 1840 to 1949, countless Chinese people had lost their beief and prid, and from 1950 to recent years most Chinese people are still suffering from the poverty. I admit that many Chinese people are not so confident when facing white people, and some Chinese people alway degrade themselves when facing you, that's just because your western civilization and wetstern countries have been far more advanced, far more powerful and far richer than us for many decades. However the good news is that we China is becoming more and more richer and powerful, and we Chinese people are moving steadiy to our bright future. I firmly believe that my country will never be backwar and poor, and sooner or later all the Chinese people will live more confidently and more colorfully.
Shut the fuck up hazel you spread your hate speech all over this comment section
She was just asking him some question.
No need to be rude. Calling someone ugly is pretty dumb, especially with anime avatar.
The guy is an English teacher and when asked about his job he says "I teach some doctors". There's nothing wrong in being a teacher, but the way he puts it causes confusion intentionally
If you are interested in marrying a Chinese woman.... trust me, marry a Japanese lady!
believe me, they just want to practice thier English with you
Luodan Zhi i do agree, haha
Are you sure?
hahahhaha，this is truth.
Luodan Zhi Yes, I think so. Sometimes I just want to practice English with local native English friends.
Steve Jansson ok next nerd~
I am assuming that life in Shenzhen is different than most of China, as Winston is correct in many of his talking points, but he does not take it far enough. Shenzhen is a relatively new city that is highly influenced by western society. Perhaps this is the reason Winston's videos are a bit light on realities here in China. This is not to say that he is incorrect. He just does not take the discussion far enough.Let me give you an example of how Winston often does not go far enough in his explanations. Are Chinese girls "easy". It depends on your definition of easy. Sexually, the answer is "no". Sex is not something that is practiced before an engagement often. Even the concept of holding hands, kissing, or "touching" is a bit taboo. Another example is the idea of marriage. Winston casually mentions that women are pressured to get married at a young age. This is true. Through his telling, you might think that it is a choice. It really is not. Girls who are not married by age 26 can often become an embarrassment to the family and society will frown upon the as having something wring with them. Families begin to put lots of pressure and guilt on the girl. By the way, the same holds true for Chinese boys who should be married by age 28 at the latest. Although things are changing in China through the younger generations with more and more women wanting to have a career and forego marriage until later in life, the pressure in most families is too much for them. If a westerner is looking to just have some fun and play the dating game, they are doing a huge disservice to the Chinese girl. She will date you with every intention of marriage from the first date. If a westerner does not have this in mind and strings the girl along with false hopes, you have damaged her, taking away valuable time and energies. This does happen all too often here in China. As such, many Chinese girls are told not to date foreigners because the odd of marriage are not great. The foreigner just disappears one day and leave the poor girl with wasted time and broken expectations. One other note about Winston's videos is that he will talk about Chinese culture, but in a very basic way. When you are trying to discuss China to people, culture and traditions usually have to be mentioned. That is because culture and traditions is everything in China. Not only do you need to know it, but you must understand the "why" and "how" of the culture to truly explain and understand. Winston does brush the issue of why white skin is idolized over dark skin, but he skirts the issue with a very watered-down version. I do enjoy his videos as it reminds me of most foreigners viewpoints and thinking here in China. Winston has been in China for 10 years and is married to a Chinese woman, which gives his a sense of authority. But, I suspect that most of his time is spent in a modern city which is highly westernized and Chinese culture and traditions are not as prevalent there as they might be in a second or third tiered city. Let me finish this comment to say that I appreciate Winston's work with his videos. He is doing what I strive to do with my blog writings and that is to try to re-introduced people to a new China of the 21st century. The old stereotypes that many westerners have are pretty much dead or dying quickly. Like many nations of the world, there are very dark periods in Chinese history, but that is a China of olden times. I am sure that Winston would agree that Chinese culture and western culture is like night and day. But, the two cultures are merging fairly quickly and that merging is producing a dawn that binds the night and day together.
Thanks for your input, that was interesting to read. So where's your blog? I could try that as well.
Thank you Oleg. My China blog is at nashboroguy3.wordpress.com. I also write for a blog at oxfordseminars.com. I hope my comment posted on Winston's site is ever misunderstood as me knocking his efforts. I thoroughly enjoy his commentary, along with his cohorts with their V-blogs. They often speak to topics that are both interesting and important to those coming to China and for those of us who live here. I am especially excited to see what their latest project will be like from their trip up north. Every one of us in China who develops a blog, writes articles, or produces CZcams videos, are giving others a certain viewpoint and a set of experiences unique to that one person. Just as Winston gives a view from living in one of China's newer, 21st century, western-infused, tier one city, my view comes from more of a traditional, country-wide, conservative view focused on cultures and traditions that are ever changing. Therefore, I suggest that if a person is interested in China or coming here to work/live, take in all different perspectives.
Thanks for the reply Bill! I read bits and pieces from random parts of your blog. I can see you've really found your calling as a teacher. I'm actually at the start of that journey, I'll be going to China to teach this year. So if you could only give me one article of yours in order to prepare me to be a successful teacher, which one would it be?
Just one? Not possible. First, let me apologize to Winston for hijacking this part of his comment section of his video.
Oleg, the first thing I suggest is to enjoy the honeymoon period of the Culture Shock experience. It is the most remarkable time of your travels. The second thing I would suggest is to make your lessons your own and develop them to suit the needs of your students and for yourself. Most schools do not have high expectations. Many teachers are discouraged by this. I see it as a blessing. If you only teach from the textbooks and do the minimum amount expected by the administration, the level of satisfaction and sense of accomplishment quickly disappears. If you take your teaching profession seriously and try to go above and beyond, you will know that you have made a difference.
Two examples from my experience. I was tired of doing the performing monkey act in classes without feeling that my students were learning anything. I quickly changed my lesson plans and developed a speaking program that enhanced the students abilities. This program took me over a year to develop and most of the information was garnered through lots of research online. The second example was when I was assigned a textbook that focused on reading and writing skills. When I discovered that most students had no idea what the four sentence structures were in the English language ((simple, compound, complex and compound-complex), I began developing my own writing program. My students had no idea how to write a simple paragraph. And, as my students were preparing themselves to study in America, writing essays was a very important skill for them. I spent nearly two terms developing this writing program, teaching them basic sentence structure to writing a five paragraph essay. Going into my third year with this program, my school has seen the value of this program and it is now an expectation.
Basically, the biggest advice I can provide to you is to make your lessons meaningful and advantageous to the students. I seldom play games or show videos, just for the sake of wasting time. My games and videos are often important to the student's learning. I have spent hours and hour reformatting PPT games and researching things to use in the classroom. I have studied the concepts of group study, project based learning, and other teaching techniques. Here is the key to the process. You as a teacher must realize that all of your efforts may fall on many deaf ears. That is par for the course. Sometimes you will only reach a small percentage of students. That is ok. Just try to bring the students along for the ride.
Finally, in China, I make two big statements to my students at the beginning of the year and reinforce it throughout the year. 1) As a teacher, all teachers can only introduce and explain skills for the students to learn. It is up to the students to become their own teachers and learn how and why these skills work. They must study these skills and put them into practice. Sitting in a class for 40-60 minutes does not automatically mean they have learned what is taught. 2). In china, teachers teach to the exam. But, to truly understand the material and to be able to use it in their lives forever, they must learn to ask deeper and more involved questions. Chinese teachers teach the "who, what, when, where" information. That is all they need to learn to pass a bubble sheet exam. Westerners not only have to learn this, but we also must be able to ask "why and how". This gives us an advantage in our careers and lives. We learn to ask why it is important to know such things and how does this information make us better employees and human beings.
In closing, I will just say to you that you must decide what kind of teacher you want to be. Think of all the extra hours our western counterparts put in to prepare their lesson plans and in grading papers. You have a choice. You can be the dancing white money spewing just what the textbook offers and become like so many other ESL teachers around the globe. Or, you can develop yourself into being the best damn teacher that your students and school has ever known. Basically, you can take the easy route or a path that is less traveled and more difficult. Many of my critics will say that all of my efforts are for naught. I totally disagree with that assessment and I have five years of experiences and result to show that they are wrong.
Alright, I got your message. It's basically about work ethic vs slacking off. I still have some idealism left in me, so let's see if China cures that xD
Rip me *sad crip walks back to the hood*
Lmao
Fucking shit!!! Lmao
Lol yeah it's an F
Nice to hear white men favoured for a change all you hear about today is how superior black men are
Only from certain agendas. Dating apps across the globe always highly favor white men, often on par or slightly lower than the local men. It's open information. It's how it ACTUALLY is, not just what is being sold to you.
I love how chatty the women are
ya uhhhhh, nothing hotter than a chatty woman :/
L Lb that's true and they are ever so polite when they're doing it
i was being sarcastic
L Lb ah the lowest form of wit
yes, and it still went over your head, derp!
As a Chinese man, I must say this video is really telling the truth. Good job mate.
+BIN GU thank you mate!
Not true. The most genetically homogenous people in the world was/were (?is/are?) Japanese and Korean people. They are the most unmixed.
I was speaking of genotype, not phenotype. From what I learned in med school, yes, Koreans and Japanese are the most genetically homogeneous people. But that may no longer as true today, due to out-breeding.
BIN GU 拜托你了别说自己是中国人了，我们中国没有你这样的人物。这个视频的制作者，在中国理所应当享受着中国人的友好和热情，他又分不清好奇和喜欢他，跟一些乱七八糟的女人鬼混在一起，出去就拿着一部分全世界都有的现象去意淫整个中国姑娘都喜欢他喜欢的不要不要的。从这个家伙欺骗路人就可以看出他这个人有多不靠谱，在你认可他观点的同时问问你自己，你家女性和你的女性朋友同学有多少对老外随意的？你可知你今天的行为给中国招黑多少？你若要跪舔讨好他，就自己去跪舔他，别拉全中国男人和女人下水，谢谢。
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In my own experience: yes. Yes they are. They are trying to escape their situation so badly, not any different than Thai or Philippino girls.
You have immense interpersonal etiquette. Impressed!
I've seen this in a couple of the other comments, but maybe it bears repeating. If you were a black man asking the same question, isn't it quite possible you'd get the answer that blacks are more attractive?
+Raymond Strunk no
no way, if someone at me the same question, i will say i like white, yellow, brown but not black, because they have less beauty feature that are popular nowadays. and fair skin, straight hair is one of them
I think its more preference based (also the white asian guy said white foreigner I just picked up on that and the 2nd woman said black guys) you will find asian women and yes men who do like other colors/race (black, hispanic, russian, hindu, etc). This maybe due to the hollywood effect where if your a white american in asia you must be rich/famous.
Adam Hagmann I work in a non invasive Nuclear Cardiology lab, and all the white guys in our lab who date Asian girls, well I have heard them speak candidly about why they prefer Asian pussy! I'm sure I don't have to go into full details but many white males express that Asian Pussy is tight and reminds them of a little young girl! That I find to be very SICK!!! I've also encountered white men from all over the world who has express this same sick fantasy about Asian women!
In my non pro job, I am able to travel a lot and meet tons of people from all the world from white, Asian , black, Arab and Native American women and every woman who refuse to date white men anymore all claim that either the white guys dick was very small or the men were mentally & sexually abusive!
My last boss told me that her white husband was such a sick son of a bitch that she had to divorce him. She says that she even had to turn the internet off completely because she couldn't keep him off the internet searching for Asian midget porn! He later dated an Asian girl that looked younger than his daughter from his first marriage! Again, there is something about white men lusting for Asian women that look like little kids.
Also, I'm shocked at how many white men on my FB are dating or married to Asian women for sex but treat the women like trash!
So you see Adam, I am not basing my claims on one or two encounters with the females that I spoke with, I am basing them on everyone that I spoke with. Again....my non pro non allows me to travel and meet diff people from diff backgrounds from all over the world.
Also what I found interested is that most women who dated British men, claimed that they were the absolute worse in bed! They said that they fell in love with the British accent and their characters but the sex was god awful!
I am a white straight male so I cannot tell you that most white men dicks are tiny as a wet mouse but I can tell you that most of the women I've interviewed or photographed have all expressed how small white mean are! I refuse to believe that all of the women I've spoken with would lie to me when in fact, they don't even know each other!
So instead of getting your asshole-wet over my comment, perhaps you should be calling out the guy who made the video and stop acting like an asshurt emotional heart broken chick with a dick! Lol😂
M Jave I'm white and I can't do as I please all the time lol
My red hair freckled friend went to China with my school and people would buy him food and stuff.
They are so friendly but you don’t deserve ,you just laugh at their kindness.damn it
LOL..hilarious!
As someone living in Beijing. Chinese girls are easy even for poor African guys who are students, I've met Africans here who has slept with lots of Chinese girls. So it doesn't matter what your skin color is, black, brown, white, you can still sleep with >1000 Chinese girls per year if you really want to. I'm not exaggerating, it's just easy like that.
Can't say I really respect Chinese girls anymore after knowing they will sleep with any and every African who hits on them.....
I think that is a typical stereotype.
@@florenceliu7666 Why do you Chinese girls believe it though? Don't you think it's disgusting to sleep with poor Africans? I don't understand it.
I think you are mean. Human are equal , African guys are not disgusting. And easy girls happening in all countries, it is happening but it is abnormal.
Just a little girl they can try with any skin color. But most of them love white and Chinese man.
@@user-sk3og4my1r yes but still disgracefull nonetheless
Are Chinese girls easy?
If white male: medium difficulty unlocked
If black male: legendary-you-wished-you-didn't-bother-mode unlocked.
I agree with Winston, I too am aware that a lot of Chinese woman prefer white foreigners.
And yet you still find loads of black tourists arriving in China and still getting married or dating Chinese girls. How do they do it? Are they loaded with lots of cash?
@@angrysocialjusticewarrior I hear Guangzou has a fairly decent African community so people will mix, generally mainland Chinese value being white more and do nose down any other ethnicity, even Winstone himself confirms being told that they get confused because he is African and white.
@@angrysocialjusticewarrior Because they want security and money. It's mainly the traditional parents who disagree on how it look on the family.
Really? I have friends from Jamaica who went to China who aren't light skinned and they do OK. Anti black racism is a reality. But I think black guys who have game or who really don't care what others think of them will still do well. Haters can't really affect you as much when their hate doesn't matter to you.
Chinese easy or not just because r u handsome or not.. it's the same standard for all guys around the world :)
hahaha.All girls love handsome boys.
People sent you death threats over this?! How about a video on "Why are Chinese guys so insecure?"
because they're low testosterone
LMAO! They already made one: "Chinese Nationalism Leads to GLASS HEARTS"
The accusation of being insecure coming from a White guy is a bit amusing given that their insecurity knows no bounds. I mean, you'll never find Chinese guys handing out leaflets saying what you shouldn't date non-Chinese men, but you will find White guys doing that. :D
Gurucha No it's because the women over 27 and still single are shunned by Chinese men a sad practice that still happens till this day.
And why does that make them insecure? SMH
It is so interesting to get a fair view of China, we hear so much that is just not true about it. Thanks, I stumbled across your channel looking at cons around the world. Subscribed!
Crazy how much can change in 4 years
So nice to see that you didn't edit all the friendly distractions you encountered. You are absolutely right about Chinese women and even Chinese men liking fair-skinned partners. It is the same in most of Asia, even in Taiwan, Hong Kong, Singapore, Japan, South Korea and India. I like your videos!
I love how genuine your videos are
My respects, everything you said was confirmed with facts, the best part is we are learning how China culture is, thanks!!!
What's really stands out is how POSITIVE the Chinese people are, 7 years ago. Nothing like that today, as they are getting back to their Mao roots.
Actually, light skin colour is not only favoured in China, but also in other Eastern Asian countries such as Japan and Korea. Whitening products and services are a big business in these countries. I did not see tanning sprays when I was in China and I do not see whitening comestic products in Australia now.
I seem to remember Emma Stone getting flack for calling herself a progressive feminist then doing a commercial for skin lightening cream
Why is that sexist or racist?
cosmichero 2025 It's not, it's just a cultural preference. It used to be the same in western cultures. The lighter your skin was the more likely you spent your life in the shade, so it was a signifier of wealth. However in modern society everyone schmuck has an office job, it doesn't signify shit. A tan could signify someone has enough wealth to take a bunch of beach vacations or something. It's all about sexual preference, and that usually has to do with health and wealth signifiers.
The Emma Stone getting flak for endorsing whitening cream is just funny. Feminist tend to think anything promoting white people is evil, and she makes a big deal out of her feminism. They make a huge deal out of everything, try to make everything about being sexist or racist. If you like asian women you have a fetish, if you aren't attracted to fat women you're fat phobic. It's a rather silly.
Once i was at a festival in the Netherlands, and i was kinda drunk. So i was sitting on this bench outside with a friend of mine. And this Chinese group of girls was walking around, and i saw them from the corner of my eye looking at me and talking to each other. But because i was drunk i didn't give a shit.
So a minute later, one of the girls, wich was HOT for Asian standards, and she comes to me, and says right in my ear because of the music: ''It's boring here, huh?''
So i leaned towards here, and said in here ear: ''Then wtf are you doing here?'' Girl got red as fuck, turned around, walked away.
Biggest regret of my life. Fcking alcohol.
Lmao
Forget about alcohol :)
Blessings :)
+TheAscension11 i did, since then...
And thats why Islam forbidds you to drink it.
cause shit like that happens.
wtf u mean by HOT for asian standards ?? Wat the fk u think u are ???
Really wonderful and enlightening video..!! Excellent presentation..!!! KEEP MAKING THEM..!!!
Your interviewees backed up your case. I like these in the field vids
As a Chinese man living in the US, I don't feel the host in this video is racist... But I do feel embarrassed in some parts of the video, but mainly because the Chinese people in the video are racist... But I don't think it's anybody's fault. Unlike US or Europe, China is not a multi-racial country, so there is no education or common agreement on how to treat people from other ethnic group, and do not make some comments on black/white people that would disturb them. But I guess this will improve as more and more foreigners visit or even live in China.
This might change but there just arent enough foreigners on the entire planet to really make an impact..
And since Han-chinese people already have extreme prejudices against other ethnic minorities within their own country there isnt really that much hope.
Well, I'm still quite positive on this. 150 years ago there was still slavery and 50 years ago there was racial segregation in north America. But now it seems at least much better. Positive progression will happen eventually, just a matter of time.
I spent a year in China. Everyone stares. lol
In Shanghai, almost no stare. Too many expats there. They got used to it.
They are saying "look a white man"
Naw, they do not do that. They usually just say "look, a foreigner".
nigga pls dont eat my dog
Proud Titanic Denier Asians look like your father！
And China just dropped off my list of places to visit
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I love this you absolutely proved your point against that article!
Most Asians say the same - especially about preferring to have fair skin. As for Thailand I remember the gossip that used to occur when the foreign teacher was black. On one occasion the foreign teacher had a Thai face - and could not speak Thai. and the Thai teachers did not believe he could not and did not hold him in the same esteem as white teachers. Just look at the job ads in China and Thailand and you will see what kind of teachers they want - the same is true in Japan. This is people not liking to hear the truth - about what they overtly say to be the case - and then they try to act all self righteous by twisting the topic to their own twisted perception. Winston was not saying they were easy sexually - but pointing out the attraction of white men to Asian women. You can go to ABC Australia and see a program on the sexual revolution in China. Most are tasting freedom social freedom for the first time in years and are expressing it like never before. So , I agree wit you - his points are absolutely valid and his title quite benign against the content which fully contradicts the fabrication of the journalist who sought to create fervor and feign indignity.
+Andreas Luebeck and love me Long time
A preference for lighter skin (because the aristocracy don't work in the fields) used to be operative in the west until Europeans and in particular wealthy Europeans started taking holidays in warmer climes so a suntan then became more desirable.
"Marriage will be on the cards". In other words - run for the hills.
There was a news story some years ago about a Chinese girl who came to New York City to visit a white guy who worked for the US. Dept of the Interior. Anyway she turned out to be a nightmare. She wanted to marry him but there was something about her that he told himself he is not ready for that. She filed false charges against him like rape. He was fired from his job. The lawyer he hired discovered she was part of a prostitution ring and wanted to operate from New York. Once they found that out she fled the country.
There was also another one but she was from Hong Kong and married a white banker. They moved to New York. While he was at work she used to have men coming to their Manhattan apartment turning tricks and being paid. This was even on the TV evening news it was so scandalous. And they even had a son that he ended up getting custody of. So yeah Chinese girls might favor white guys but there can be ulterior motives.
+Wayne Samuel only if you are rich apparently and then all women could have ulterior motives. If you are well off then find a Chinese woman that is the same status.
Ur right, actually, Asians wont change the preference of light skin I guess, cuz unlike the white , the Asians are much more easier to get dark under the sunshine.
ksh Nick Its kinda truth,but very racist, and I guess the reason is not only skin color but also education, cultural background etc.
I really like the interaction with the passing girls... helps to make your point.
Your channel is one of the best on CZcams.
I commend your work Winston, you do a fantastic job of bridging the cultural gap
I have gotten hooked on these videos.
Just by chance I ended up watching one and each was more interesting than the last.I have been to China and enjoyed it a great deal to observe the culture and people but knew very little of the language which lowered my interaction opportunities. I tend to enjoy every society I visit, ( 87 countries so far) so differences in culture from my native USA are expected and I tend to appreciate most those that are the most different. In fact I moved to Russia 15 years ago due to liking the culture and people so much.
One thing in common with all the the places visited, they are all completely different than usual western mythology about them. My first visit to Russia was when it was part of the USSR and found immediately that everything I knew, despite reading every book printed in English about the place, was wrong. The US is very isolated despite the ease of communications now, very few of the stereotypes are based on reality. In almost all new destinations, I find the societies more interesting and having more advantages than if the commonly held beliefs of people back home were true.
Great videos and presentations.
+Stan SPb thanks mate and welcome
Stan SPb wow u must be rich to be able to Travel to many different countries must be nice.
Facial features, un-oppressed characters (historical & cultural reasons), manners, expectation/assumption of wealthy status, modern western cultures etc. and of course along with pale skin all play a role in favouring Europeans. You are a very genuine person Serpentza, accurate video and keep up the work.
No money, no honey.
Money speaks in every language.
@@americanpatriot3710 das right
....“I'm from England.“ Liar, you're from South Africa!
He likes to embelish. He is not in china for 14.5years. I watched him in 2008 from south africa.
@@ahmedjaaam408 11 years in China.
He’s said in other videos that he feels completely disenchanted from SA and feels a much closer attachment to England.
@Andrew Odiit ....at 6:19 seconds, “I'M FROM ENGLAND. “ ...Serpentza SAYS! Go check it out genius!
@Andrew Odiit ... doesn't matter, he was born in South Africa, has a south African passport, so he's south African! So I can say I'm Russian, even though one of my parent is Russian and I'm born in the UK, so I can confidently announce I'm Russian. Doesn't make sense.
Im British... I did live in the USA for a while.
American girls are easy too when you have a British accent.
Oh fuck yeah
Really?
Do American guys like gals with British accents, too?