The mate GOD has for you will identify you as THE option, not AN option.

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  • @sierracollins3387
    @sierracollins3387 Před 6 lety +465

    "Because he will see a part of him in you." Beautiful.

  • @djinkentertainment
    @djinkentertainment Před 5 lety +141

    I don't believe in a soul mate, but I do believe in a rib mate!! Well said!

  • @remessinger
    @remessinger Před 6 lety +252

    I have been married for over 30 years and moments after meeting my wife, we both knew we were to be married. We may have had a few troubles during the years, but I believe I married the right person. Only she would have stuck with me through this illness of the last few years. I thank God for setting us together.

    • @e.turn.ot.e9850
      @e.turn.ot.e9850 Před 5 lety +2

      There is only boys left. No men.

    • @deathcreeps6227
      @deathcreeps6227 Před 5 lety

      @@e.turn.ot.e9850 That's what it seems like yeah

    • @Yahshuaismyeverything
      @Yahshuaismyeverything Před 5 lety +3

      @@e.turn.ot.e9850 it May seem like that, but trust me there's still very loyal men out there that hate cheaters. My ex was very loyal but he was a narc so of course it wasn't going to workout. However, there ARE good men out here theyre just hard to come by but pray to the Lord. Don't have this negative mindset of mem it shows ur not ready to meet him yet. But when you do become ready he will sweep you off your feet and show you different. Just believe in it. Ya a lot of men are idiots but not all men are you just have to be patient enough to come by a real man.

    • @spirit1366
      @spirit1366 Před 5 lety

      R. Messinger AMEN

    • @codybsiley7546
      @codybsiley7546 Před 5 lety +1

      I found my rib but she didn't want a relationship this is watch my video about what happened in my relationship I've lost my virginity somebody I thought I loved lost my virginity at 31 any more no more relationships just booty call and Friends with Benefits

  • @maryjaneegos972
    @maryjaneegos972 Před 5 lety +140

    "Rib Mates" love that word .. GOD BLESS YOU

    • @artgallery7376
      @artgallery7376 Před 3 lety

      I pray and I start looking for my love like Jacob from a Bible. I dont sit around and wait. I never seen a man to sit in a house waiting and all the great things and great lovely beings to come into his door lol. Thats not how God created the blessings and gifts, because the blessings are so big that they can't fit in your house. AMEN?! Who wants to chat with me? I want to learn about you.

  • @Kekeke230kekeke
    @Kekeke230kekeke Před 5 lety +48

    Amen !! Agreed 100% .
    It is a connection of the spirit not of the flesh !! Many Christians are unfortunately married to people God did not give them a go ahead!! And then they wonder how come they’re always fighting, sad etc 😔

    • @lucrecepatrick9234
      @lucrecepatrick9234 Před 4 lety

      How to know when it's a connection of the spirit? What are the signs?

    • @lostmic
      @lostmic Před 4 lety +2

      @@lucrecepatrick9234 Maybe I can help with that question... so what I understand is the person who you will meet. She/he and you will be like glue together, she will want to be around you, she is interested in who you're. what you do. You guys have to same ideas wants. Spiritually you guys connect in away through christ that shows the person who you love most and that is God. You will see Jesus in her and it will be like hearing the word from God as she uplifts you spiritually in God's word and it will be the same for her as you will be her other half.
      She will put God before you in everything she does in order to cater to you. For me, my idea right now is to get to know God even more while waiting because from what he has told me is the woman who I will marry would have him in her, so right now it's like getting to know her, spiritually speaking and as I work on trying to become the best Husband to Christ that I can possibly be for she even meets me. I hope that helps and if there are others that want to add to this as well... (=

    • @paulcosta8297
      @paulcosta8297 Před 4 lety

      But the Bible says the two will become one flesh. There really is no biblical support for the idea expressed in this video. Correct? What about lawful non-ideal yet permitted remarriage?

  • @Catherine_AZ
    @Catherine_AZ Před 6 lety +49

    I can honestly testify to this. I had a relationship with my ex husband off and on for 17 years before we married. This marriage was also before I rededicated my life to Christ. I didn’t even tell him when I was baptized, because I knew he would try & talk me out of it. The Lord opened my eyes, WIDE open, when I was baptized & when I told him, he blew up at me. It wasn’t long after that the marriage fell apart, mainly because of his infidelity. I now live a happy life in Christ, without fear. I’m SO thankful that I brought Christ back into my life. I can also tell you this....it was trauma that drove me away from The Lord, and trauma that brought me back to him. ❤️🙏

    • @thebrideofchrist6294
      @thebrideofchrist6294 Před 6 lety +1

      Catherine Mobley awesome testimony sis. Your a very strong women. God Is taking you some where great. When your elevated things that dont suppose to go with you will fall off. Continue to live for God and watch God move on your behalf. He's not done with you. Blessings is coming your way.

    • @misstee8007
      @misstee8007 Před 6 lety +3

      Catherine Mobley If it's not God's will...then there's no point being in a marriage when God isn't in it. I've been there. It's so important to wait on God to give us the go.

    • @sarahann530
      @sarahann530 Před 6 lety

      Catherine Mobley
      god took 17 years to tell you to leave this guy . Why so long ?

    • @frankvizen5480
      @frankvizen5480 Před 6 lety

      LOL

  • @AlainaNicole
    @AlainaNicole Před 6 lety +641

    “Rib Mates” YES! Love this 😊

    • @bradleyhannesson1973
      @bradleyhannesson1973 Před 6 lety +10

      I'm sure you guys are being sarcastic, but just to clarify, she is talking about rib-mates, as in coming from one flesh... aka, Eve having Adam's rib, etc. which is actually a very cool expression. Very deep spiritual concept if you consider that for awhile.

    • @Em_Elizabeth
      @Em_Elizabeth Před 6 lety +5

      Made for each other. X-D

    • @jamesrogers3871
      @jamesrogers3871 Před 6 lety +2

      Prepare the Way for the Messiah, He will Pray to the Father for Us to have the Spirit of God, for a Teacher, and Comforter Forever, in the Bible book of John, chapter 14, verse 26... John, chapters 14, 15, and 16, Are Spiritual Rebirth Chapters... The God Human is body, Soul, And the Spirit of God, living Within Us... Peace

    • @AlainaNicole
      @AlainaNicole Před 6 lety +5

      jeremy fautner Jeremy, I am praying for you and I will keep u in my prayers. God loves you so much and he has everything planned for you in your life. Pray, talk to him and trust in him.

    • @xpunkchic
      @xpunkchic Před 6 lety +5

      @jeremy fautner your life is worth something. I have been there, totally wishing I could just disappear from this earth. But if you haven't heard it from anyone else, God has better for you. He has a purpose for you. And if you're willing to seek His purpose for your life, He will certainly bring many great things upon you. Psalm 37:4 says if we DELIGHT ourselves in the Lord, He will give us the desires of our heart. Basically, that means that as we spend time with God..His desires become our desires.
      I encourage you to see yourself as a prize. That's beautiful that you have still saved yourself. Guys at your age are usually sleeping around and taking advantage of women. God honors that celibacy, and from a sister in Christ, that is a beautiful thing to see men save themselves. You are rare, and a prayer that someone is praying for. Don't give up! Get whole in Jesus, and see how He blesses your life. You're not alone, and you have a rare prize that a woman will treasure, when God let's you find her in His timing.

  • @amnabbasi
    @amnabbasi Před 6 lety +293

    Couldn't have come at a better time. Popped up when I was crying my eyes out.

    • @rainbowfinch3589
      @rainbowfinch3589 Před 6 lety +17

      Amna Hasani-Abbasi stay encouraged. God loves you ❤️️

    • @jmissesblac2006
      @jmissesblac2006 Před 6 lety +15

      Awwww dry your eyes. *Hugs*

    • @conniechoward
      @conniechoward Před 6 lety +12

      Amna Hasani-Abbasi God wants you to know that you aren't an option love but the option

    • @angiemathew9005
      @angiemathew9005 Před 6 lety +2

      Me too ☹️

    • @thebrideofchrist6294
      @thebrideofchrist6294 Před 6 lety +7

      Aww keep your head up princess, and know that Jesus love you and has the best for you. The man God has for you will be so much more than you can ever imagine. And it will be a testimony, it will be a way to point others to God. We have to go through some fakes and Ishmaels before we get Issac which is the promise one. Be strong and keep the faith sis...hugs🤗.. your built for this! you will make it!..This to shall pass! Speak the word over every negative situation. And praise your way out. I will keep you in my prayers.

  • @Dontbitetheapple777
    @Dontbitetheapple777 Před 5 lety +13

    i was 19 years old and alone prayed to God for some one been with her every since.

  • @josephhoward4010
    @josephhoward4010 Před 6 lety +15

    Thank you! "Don't think of yourself as an option." Really needed to hear that. God bless you, sister.

  • @bryanadams457
    @bryanadams457 Před 6 lety +41

    1st Corinthians 7:32-35
    But I want you to be free from concern. One who is unmarried is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord;
    33 but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife,
    34 and his interests are divided. The woman who is unmarried, and the virgin, is concerned about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and spirit; but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how she may please her husband.
    35 This I say for your own benefit; not to put a restraint upon you, but to promote what is appropriate and to secure undistracted devotion to the Lord.
    God comes first. The more time I put in the word the more I will grow. Turn to Him, not a husband ladies.

  • @boydmking1
    @boydmking1 Před 5 lety +41

    I was warned to stay away from
    my ex, but I didn't listen. What
    a mistake.

    • @samuelplacensis3523
      @samuelplacensis3523 Před 5 lety +4

      Mike Boyd Proverbs 31:1-3 read if brother

    • @AR777bomb
      @AR777bomb Před 3 lety

      Who warned you?

    • @boydmking1
      @boydmking1 Před 3 lety +1

      @@samuelplacensis3523
      Thank you for that scripture. Most excellent sir!

    • @boydmking1
      @boydmking1 Před 3 lety

      @@AR777bomb
      A friend from our regular bar alerted me that I should avoid my ex. Her name
      was Sunshine. Never saw her again. Should have listened to her.

    • @AR777bomb
      @AR777bomb Před 3 lety

      @@boydmking1 I was warned about my ex from a prophetic word. I didn't believe they were talking about my ex and now I'm going through so much pain

  • @whitneymosley8169
    @whitneymosley8169 Před 6 lety +190

    Ugh Allyson, you are the dopest. Such a blessing!!!!!

    • @jwking5021
      @jwking5021 Před 6 lety +1

      dopest? really??

    • @robertcowan54
      @robertcowan54 Před 6 lety

      Of course, redeemed ex-druggie language. Don't you recognize it? Perhaps you weren't a druggie or around druggies.

    • @whitneymosley8169
      @whitneymosley8169 Před 6 lety +4

      Yes, dopest.

  • @smisondlovu8785
    @smisondlovu8785 Před 5 lety +163

    This video is popping up again. It's not a coincidence coz I've been praying alot for my mate

    • @5winder
      @5winder Před 5 lety +3

      Wait for Him... to bring you HER.

    • @corporaterobotslave400
      @corporaterobotslave400 Před 5 lety +11

      That's because you're praying out loud and your government spy device aka cell phone or computer was listening.

    • @FCain-mf4tf
      @FCain-mf4tf Před 5 lety +3

      @@corporaterobotslave400 I do believe that because I have thought to myself that same thing.

    • @corporaterobotslave400
      @corporaterobotslave400 Před 5 lety +1

      @@FCain-mf4tf It's been scientifically verified, and admitted by gov't.

    • @Knight766
      @Knight766 Před 5 lety +2

      Your microphone picks everything up and the data is then used by algorithms to target content and ads at you.

  • @lostmic
    @lostmic Před 4 lety +13

    In this video, I felt Allyson spoke to me in a spiritual language that is not of this earth. And God went through her to speak to me on this very question that I presented to God like 30 minutes ago... No words can explain the feeling I have right now and the love from God. Low key I am somewhat attracted to Allyson right now because of this and I don't even know her, but I kinda do because it's God that I see in her... Thank you for the words Allyson you have aided me in my life's adventure with christ. Much love, Godbless...

  • @JoseRodriguez-mk7fc
    @JoseRodriguez-mk7fc Před 6 lety +28

    You're not crazy. This is beautiful-thank you. God bless you.

  • @constancewelton1724
    @constancewelton1724 Před 6 lety +90

    I pray for God's will and not mines, 2 years strong, I am holding on until my Father says here is my will for you Amen

  • @louismat319
    @louismat319 Před 6 lety +167

    Its too bad that not alot of girls dont see it like you. So many marriages can be saved if people thought like this

  • @johnnyz9927
    @johnnyz9927 Před 5 lety +2

    Thank...Got served divorce yesterday after 27 yrs..Raised her daughter's and she left , coldly..More than a year later.. I'm still Hurting badly.. Family , friends left also..I will never curse or stop loving my Lord..However , I need his embrace..My tears soak my shirt nightly...Alone and hated for no apparent reason..There is not one to love me..I spent my life loving them all..I no longer want my life to go on another day..

  • @spidykat7188
    @spidykat7188 Před 3 lety +4

    I lost my wife of 17 years March will be a decade ago. I've been living alone ever since wondering if I ever will find love again. God bless you. You are a beautiful person inside and out

  • @damarisfozaopowell3137
    @damarisfozaopowell3137 Před 6 lety +106

    “You are not one of many dear one. “You are one of one” yes! Love this and love you too Ally😍

  • @Freespirit512
    @Freespirit512 Před 6 lety +38

    Awe Allyson, thank you! You are a blessing to the women who are in the season of singleness. Love you girl!

  • @lizziesanders7743
    @lizziesanders7743 Před 6 lety +209

    And who is preaching to the MEN how to PURSUE? So many women being preached out on how to wait, yield, etc. That is great and all but if nobody is teaching men how to pursue it's all going nowhere. I'm getting sick of the women doing all the soul work and men just being plain lazy and lustful and satisfied with their instagram models on their feeds.

    • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
      @user-zx5xw4yw2e Před 6 lety +10

      Lizzie Sanders. 😂I hear ya

    • @lizziesanders7743
      @lizziesanders7743 Před 6 lety +21

      I don't think that. But many preachers teach that a woman's job is to "wait". I hear it all the time. For some women God literally plopped their husband in front of them without them having to put in any effort. So they then think that'll be the case for everybody too. I can name several woman who teach this mindset.

    • @sailormoon6505
      @sailormoon6505 Před 6 lety +11

      I known this guy at my church for 2 years. Never saw him in any kind of way, but then around 3 months ago, I decided to grow closer to Christ and then God presented this guy to me as possibly my partner. The only thing was.. I was scared to tell him and be rejected. And I had to get my own feelings together because this guy was not my ideal type at all.. Well about 2 weeks ago, he randomly texted me saying how he noticed I might had feelings for him and him being a leader in a church, he has to be careful, and how he just wanted to be friends with me. I was crushed, and also felt ashamed. But I feel God's presence still inside of me (though I know to move on at this point) but why would God give me those feelings for him if it wasn't meant to be?

    • @Tony-dh
      @Tony-dh Před 6 lety +13

      Don’t blame guys, it could be the females in general who make it so difficult for the guys to even think about pursuit. With all their makeup and slutiness and inflated sense of self worth. 80% of females want the top 10% of guys. Maybe yours is in the 90% group but you won’t find him because you are looking in the 10% group, which you have to compete with the other 80%.

    • @loseweightwithmealplanning
      @loseweightwithmealplanning Před 6 lety +24

      Sailor Moon hey sometimes and more than likely those are our own feelings and not the voice of God. I’ve been there many times and what I believed was God was just me all up in my feelings. God will always confirm His word! He’s not a man that He should lie and He will never put us to shame.
      This guy did the right thing, he didn’t lead you on, he told you straight up, didn’t leave you wondering maybe is there isn’t there, he’s right being a leader he does need to be careful. If you’re truly supposed to be friends, pray on that, that God will help you be the right type of friend.
      Please, don’t feel embarrassed about that. You don’t have to compete with ANYBODY!!

  • @niccivictorious5594
    @niccivictorious5594 Před 6 lety +4

    Amen I am the only option for the man God has for me.

  • @sujithabonnie1908
    @sujithabonnie1908 Před 5 lety +22

    "Rib mates "are long lasting for sure.

  • @mariaelda6271
    @mariaelda6271 Před 6 lety +8

    Watching this over and over and over until it's embedded in my stubborn head!!!
    Key words: Identify, THE option, yield

  • @naomiengoyontjega8092
    @naomiengoyontjega8092 Před 6 lety +8

    oh thank u JESUS i m a french girl i learn English but each time i listen to you i understand very well GOD speak to me GOD bless u so much and all the glory to our Father! your beautiful and spiritual what Else?! your man Will be blessed♡

  • @WarrickRanger
    @WarrickRanger Před 6 lety +200

    Thank you Allyson! Shout out from your male viewers, we are listening as well! I’m hoping that God puts my wife in my path and gives me the insight to pursue her.

    • @Denise-ob8dk
      @Denise-ob8dk Před 6 lety +5

      Daniel Mitchell He will. Trust Him and never give up.

    • @rustyshepperd
      @rustyshepperd Před 6 lety +12

      Daniel Mitchell I'm with you brother. It's not easy, but we know the wait will be worth it.

    • @mariaelda6271
      @mariaelda6271 Před 6 lety +13

      Yes!! "Pursue" her. We need more men like you who pursues. The Bible says, "he who finds a wife..." it's the man who makes the effort sure Ruth made sure she caught Boaz's attention but he did the rest to win her heart.

    • @johnjacobs6725
      @johnjacobs6725 Před 6 lety

      Rusty Shepperd

    • @hellothere9318
      @hellothere9318 Před 6 lety

      Pennywise why are you even on here troll.

  • @stevemadison7895
    @stevemadison7895 Před 6 lety +2

    This is what happened for my wife and I 20 years ago. But first, I had to "see" her for who she was. It took nearly 5 years before that happened and I nearly lost her in the process. Pray to the Lord for your mate. Chances are she/he is someone you already know. Cheers!

  • @joshuamorgan1049
    @joshuamorgan1049 Před 3 lety +2

    Love this recently was studying genesis on this topic all my life had been chasing what I thought I needed but now listening to his voice I see that's what Satan does gets us to chase what is not meant for us. And so the thought I had was God took eve from adam's rib and created her from him for him as a help mate but why a rib and then it came to me to be by his side to guard his heart but even deeper she shared a part of his soul two can't be made one unless they were made to fit one another.. What's beautiful is once you see that u see that only by waiting on God to put her in your life can u receive what he has for you. I agree you have to pursue but at the same time you have to wait on God's timing. One other thing that came to my mind was even though man was made to lead he is to lead by example. His authority is not to dominate nor is his leadership to be that way just as Paul told the believers at Corinth follow me as I follow Christ. so what does this mean a godly man must lead by example and in order to lead by example he must follow Jesus you can't lead until you've learned to follow Jesus.

  • @cathy40
    @cathy40 Před 5 lety +6

    Wow, I so needed to hear this! Thank you for confirming my thought that God will bring The Right man to me.
    Im 56 and never been married. Im still waiting on Gods promise to send me the right man. I made the mistake of choosing my own mate and stayed in a miserable long term relationship, always thinking "why does this guy make this so hard"? But i loved him. While i was taking care of my dying Mother he was flirtinging w some stranger. He was never there for me in the hard times. I always had to deal w problems by my self... only God stayed be my side.
    (It concerned me to hear a pastor on youtube say it was selfish of me to think God would take the time to bring the right man to me. That I could have a wonderful marriage to ANY compatable man).
    Thank you so much for your insight & backing it up w God's Word!

    • @badpiggy2403
      @badpiggy2403 Před 2 lety

      Sorry to hear about your ex, stay strong

  • @paulrobinson3685
    @paulrobinson3685 Před 6 lety +65

    Beauty is in the faithful believer!! Believer in Christ Jesus!!! Yes wait on God to lead you to guide you and direct you!! Take your hands off the wheel and let him steer!! Not your car but but every movement thought , action and word. He already knows you heart your desires and what is good for you!! He will take the guessing and risk out of all you do in life!! Surrendered in full as I wait on Him!! Ready to receive all you have planned for me Abba Father in Christ Jesus' mighty name YESHUA HA'MESHIACH!!! Thank you in advance. 1SENT 1Cent

  • @1111starseed
    @1111starseed Před 5 lety +23

    God said I'm better off staying by myself less complications I'm just to tired to try any more

    • @winstonsmith6113
      @winstonsmith6113 Před 5 lety

      Ditto

    • @BLACKRAIN390
      @BLACKRAIN390 Před 5 lety +1

      I FEEL YA✊

    • @richardjackson9083
      @richardjackson9083 Před 5 lety

      THATS ALL IN YOUR MIND,WHEN GOD SENTS THE RIGHT ONE YOUR,WAY YOU WILL KNOW,BECAUSE GOD WILL PUT IT IN YOU.JUST KEEP WAITING ON THE LORD

    • @rochellecortelyou8515
      @rochellecortelyou8515 Před 3 lety

      Feeling the same, not sure I even care to try anymore. God is and should be my priority. I'm not alone, the Lord is with me.

  • @ChellZelda
    @ChellZelda Před 6 lety +2

    Alley this is soo true!! I kept saying why does he remind me of myself and why do I feel so spiritually drawn to this man!! I couldnt figure it out at the time...and I thought of this video to RE watch it AGAIN, and this blew my MIND!!!🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @christinacataldi877
    @christinacataldi877 Před 6 lety +1

    I’m in tears right now, such an important reminder to be equally yoked. I really felt the Lord speaking through this beautiful sister directly to me. I love how she is so present even in her gaze into the camera where you can really feel like she’s talking directly to you.

  • @Jackie8923
    @Jackie8923 Před 6 lety +42

    Omg Alison I love you thank you for never shying away from Gods truth even if it's not the most popular thing people want to hear. God bless you sis. You spoke to my soul today

  • @kaleygertken8185
    @kaleygertken8185 Před 6 lety +19

    Don't mind me, I'm just going to keep watching this until it sinks into my spirit ❤️ Love your Videos Ally

  • @jamesdavies542
    @jamesdavies542 Před 5 lety +19

    A timely word, God Bless you Allyson for making this video

  • @rachelortiz1157
    @rachelortiz1157 Před 6 lety +2

    I can't say this enough I love this women of the LORD words of wisdom right here 🙌🙌👍👍😄😄💗

  • @AlwaysK2withD3
    @AlwaysK2withD3 Před 5 lety +16

    And she really really was Adam's only option. Just playing. Good analogy.

  • @annabenavides8966
    @annabenavides8966 Před 6 lety +28

    can you say perfect timing?? this just gave me so much peace. i love your videos, God bless you

  • @randallburgess6393
    @randallburgess6393 Před 4 lety +3

    Thanks Allyson, your words are very impactful. Sadly for all my prayers there doesn't seem to be a women who sees any worth in me. It breaks my heart as I am feeling more and more worthless and wonder why no women see any value or desire to be with me. Please pray for me

  • @randallburgess6393
    @randallburgess6393 Před 4 lety +7

    Please pray for me as I have been alone now for close to 7 years and the loneliness is crushing. I long to have a wife again. Thanks for your prayers you guys. God bless

    • @badpiggy2403
      @badpiggy2403 Před 2 lety +2

      Try to stay strong, things can get better

    • @returningtoperfection
      @returningtoperfection Před 8 měsíci

      Study your Bible. If your season is crushing you it's probably because your walking in the desert without hearing from Jesus.
      Study His word, He will give you strength and from this strength you will enjoy being single. There is too many good things to do, to be sad

  • @ingaricks7591
    @ingaricks7591 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for this encouraging word. You have confirmed something that I’ve always felt but didn’t know how to explain it. Peace and blessings! ♥️♥️♥️

  • @nurturingwings3793
    @nurturingwings3793 Před rokem +1

    “We are not one of many, we are one of one.”

  • @moniquejordan2712
    @moniquejordan2712 Před 6 lety +24

    THE ANTONYM FOR OPTION IS NECESSITY..IT WILL BE VITAL FOR THAT MAN TO BE WITH YOU..I.E JACOB SEEING RACHEL FOR THE FIRST TIME HE WEPT..SO THAT MAN WILL KNOW WITHOUT A SHADOW OF A DOUBT..THIS IS MY BELOVED IN YOUR HOM I AM PLEASED!!

    • @imancampbell3207
      @imancampbell3207 Před 6 lety +1

      Amen! I love that. I'm a single woman and I hold fast to that too. Jacob wept when he saw Rachel. I told God I want my Boaz to weep when God sends him to me and vice versa.

    • @starmoon1590
      @starmoon1590 Před 6 lety

      Monique Jordan - thank you...that's true

  • @joannalongwell6739
    @joannalongwell6739 Před 6 lety +60

    Confirmation that the guy people are trying to set me up with at church is definitely not my future husband! People need to leave well enough alone sometimes.

    • @prosperitylee7624
      @prosperitylee7624 Před 6 lety +3

      Joanna Longwell I agree. I am just getting out of a dangerous marriage. Have had peace through it all. I am still separated yet "Christian" "men" come out the woodworks seeking for a "wife". Immediately I am turned off. What happened to lasting, loving, gentle, only friendships that somehow manifest in God's timing with God's Hand in it into something more THEN marriage. Like woah pull the reigns frt lol

    • @kimberlytaylor6538
      @kimberlytaylor6538 Před 6 lety

      Joanna Longwell I agrew

    • @kimberlytaylor6538
      @kimberlytaylor6538 Před 6 lety +1

      Joanna Longwell agree

    • @Denise-ob8dk
      @Denise-ob8dk Před 6 lety

      Joanna Longwell Yes. Please follow God and His personal word to you.

    • @anonymousnearseattle2788
      @anonymousnearseattle2788 Před 6 lety +1

      Is Eric six feet tall? Does he make six figures? Does he have a year's worth of living expenses in his bank account? "God" is very superficial and materialistic, you know! ;-)

  • @Aa-wv4gh
    @Aa-wv4gh Před 5 lety +13

    Just make sure a narcissist isn't mirroring you to fall in love with yourself.

  • @tadaskalanta9733
    @tadaskalanta9733 Před 8 měsíci

    everything i asked God gave it to me , but up on receiving all them gifts i realised that God knew better what i really needed. So trust in God and instead of asking for what you want , just give up your self to God and ask him just to guide you

  • @barcrrt850
    @barcrrt850 Před 6 lety +2

    Single and excited about the return of Christ! 😇

  • @perceptive25
    @perceptive25 Před 5 lety +4

    That is a very beautiful take. I would follow that up with taking your time, spending time in the word, and prayer, before making that spiritual Covenant of marriage.

  • @missamericausa
    @missamericausa Před 6 lety +3

    I’m waiting patiently -He must be a king!!!

  • @DrLakeciaReddrick
    @DrLakeciaReddrick Před 6 lety +8

    Exactly Allyson!!! I have said this for years-why do people think God wouldn't have a say in who you partner with for life. We have been bought with a price and our lives are not our own. Love you for saying this because I have heard no one say it. God Bless!

  • @KLRJamz
    @KLRJamz Před 6 lety +1

    Amen.thats why I'm waiting for God's unction! It's a beautiful dance of confirmation.

  • @ceciliamitchell4269
    @ceciliamitchell4269 Před 4 lety

    Am soooo glad I hear someone that believes the way I do

  • @christh
    @christh Před 6 lety +179

    My ribs is missin, anyone has mine? 😭

    • @mrgreyman3358
      @mrgreyman3358 Před 6 lety +14

      file a theft report.

    • @christh
      @christh Před 6 lety +6

      I just learnt from Christian Vigilante that Godly man should not troll, this is basically a "troll" comment. Please sorry forgive me peeps :)

    • @Grace-yl9sb
      @Grace-yl9sb Před 6 lety

      😅

    • @sekushiiOnna
      @sekushiiOnna Před 6 lety +3

      ehchrist1 😂. You have his missing rib so I'm sure he's looking for you too. 😊

    • @christh
      @christh Před 6 lety +1

      I´m a guy yo :(

  • @markgreer6921
    @markgreer6921 Před 5 lety +41

    I don't have much self worth in me I'm a born again Christian but I'm really struggling right now alone.

    • @lashondarochell7584
      @lashondarochell7584 Před 5 lety +2

      Praying for you Mark that GOD gives you His Peace!🙏🙏🙏

    • @5winder
      @5winder Před 5 lety

      You really are a peach. :-} @@peacheslomax7269

    • @5winder
      @5winder Před 5 lety

      God be with you... I've been alone seven years --- since I got saved.

    • @jaskoe1
      @jaskoe1 Před 5 lety

      Pull yourself together...there is no god or gods. Man up and help yourself.

    • @charlesappiah8892
      @charlesappiah8892 Před 5 lety +2

      Believe that God will bring to you your person and stop stressing and change you mindset from struggling to blessed.

  • @itgirl_kriss4553
    @itgirl_kriss4553 Před 6 lety +45

    I pray that God presents me to my "Rib Mate" soon🙏

    • @taahiraht1767
      @taahiraht1767 Před 6 lety +1

      Itgirl_ Kriss he will babygirl. God is smiling on both of you Now.. It is coming..

    • @aaronpate6617
      @aaronpate6617 Před 6 lety +2

      Itgirl_ Kriss. i'm 54. Still single & waiting. Maybe i'll meet her when i go to the ol folks home. Ha

    • @1brathwaiteenterisellc39
      @1brathwaiteenterisellc39 Před 6 lety

      I wrote a book catered for women that love God first. To give them (Women) incited into getting a man for marriage. The name is " Exclusively for women: 7 ways to get your man to the altar" A hand book guide for women of faith, on Amazon Kindle for only $2.99 (E book edition) and $3.99 paperback. Good reading and very entertaining, get your copy today...

    • @maeganjames2490
      @maeganjames2490 Před 6 lety

      Itgirl_ Kriss same

    • @nicholasr82
      @nicholasr82 Před 6 lety

      Itgirl_ Kriss
      Dont use that stupid phrase again. Its not biblical at all. Only once was a rib used to create another human and never since. There is no other mention in the bible of this ever happening again. There is no mention in the bible of a spiritual connotation for a rib connection this is a stupid made up little pricess girl philosophy.
      Get out and talk to people because you wont get married unless you do and love grows over time. If you think you are in love right away with a person you dont know then your not and you dont know what love is.
      As soon as you get to know that person you'll know it was not love.
      This is why there are so many unbiblical divorces in the world.

  • @christineries6026
    @christineries6026 Před 4 lety +2

    I Decree and Declare!!! I agree with this word!!! You are Beautiful inside & out Sister ♡♡♡

    • @irenelala
      @irenelala Před 4 lety +1

      (...) she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.
      I Corinthians 7:39 NKJV
      bible.com/bible/114/1co.7.39.NKJV

  • @dynastybee6533
    @dynastybee6533 Před 5 lety +5

    You brought tears to my eyes... I needed to hear this. God bless you sis.

  • @jessicat2304
    @jessicat2304 Před 6 lety +59

    I think he finally found me. I will keep you guys updated 😊

    • @kudzaimawoyo1077
      @kudzaimawoyo1077 Před 6 lety

      J A Y S I C K A yaaaaaay!!! Happy for you!

    • @blesimo
      @blesimo Před 6 lety

      Hallelujah! I hope it works out for you! Sending prayers your way!

    • @maraka8106
      @maraka8106 Před 6 lety +2

      Please update us... We are with you in spirit

    • @FelixTheGhost
      @FelixTheGhost Před 6 lety

      Update?

    • @jessicat2304
      @jessicat2304 Před 6 lety +6

      Felix-The-Ghost yes! We have been together for about 2 months now! He is a church man and plays in the ministry. I never feel or question how he feels about me. He has brought me around his church family friends and coworkers. We speak about the future and this feels different than just dating.
      It's challenging but it's worth the effort. He doesn't want any sex from me. It's difficult but we make sure we communicate and keep God in our relationship.
      We both care about eachother as individuals as well and want the best for eachother whether we marry or not.
      It's a unselfish type of courtship and it's so fruitful

  • @MinxStackz
    @MinxStackz Před 4 lety +4

    This is deep because someone i spiritually connected with we said were just alike and we act like eachother he said i’m a female version of him we share so much and pray for each other so i’m wondering is this video confirmation!!!💖

  • @stephenkabya3008
    @stephenkabya3008 Před 5 lety +10

    I just ran into your video and I would say it was God sent

  • @lucycortez1147
    @lucycortez1147 Před 6 lety +1

    Thank you so much. You inspire me to try to work on my relationship knowing my worth and putting God first. I found you and two videos later Subscribed.

  • @reginehinshaw9307
    @reginehinshaw9307 Před 6 lety +1

    Thank you for this Ally. ♥ We love you too! I do hope he's my rib mate..that God has for me. Much love!

  • @cherylmcleod7357
    @cherylmcleod7357 Před 6 lety +7

    I LOVE ALLY...I FEEL UR SPIRIT AND NEVER MET U...U HAVE AN ANOINTING ON U...BLESS U

  • @peacheslomax7269
    @peacheslomax7269 Před 6 lety +76

    Amen! When God do send U your rib mate both of y'all will know that each other is the 1! It would never be 1 sided! It would be confirmation 4 y'all both. Everything will blend so well together & y'all will truly know that y'all was really made 4 each other! The perfect fit! I am happily divorced but I did married the wrong guy! I didn't even seek God when I married him! That's where I went wrong! Seek God in everything! Then he didn't even believe in God a red flag! So wait on God to send U the right 1! When U get a head of God U will make a big mess of things! A lot of heartache & pain U could have avoided if U just would have seek God 1st & waited on His timing! I learn that lesson the hard but God got me thru it! God willing I will get remarried to the right man that He has planned 4 me! God want nothing but the best 4 us! His children! He loves us! If U ever question His love read (John 3:16)!

    • @peacheslomax7269
      @peacheslomax7269 Před 6 lety

      Victoria Charlesworth may God bless your future greatly as well!

    • @peacheslomax7269
      @peacheslomax7269 Před 6 lety +3

      MS LRJ i understand completely! People have to understand that God doesn't put too much on us that we can't bear but we bring stuff on ourselves that we can't bear! But because of who God is He gets us through it! He forgives us and welcome us with open loving arms! All Glory B2 God!

    • @peacheslomax7269
      @peacheslomax7269 Před 6 lety

      MS LRJ you is welcome! All Glory B2 God!

    • @christianwarriortv7233
      @christianwarriortv7233 Před 6 lety

      Peaches Lomax Hello, you wouldn't checking out my channel, you won't be disappointed. 😇🙏😇

    • @peacheslomax7269
      @peacheslomax7269 Před 6 lety

      Antonio Coburn I will check it out

  • @imanicecelia
    @imanicecelia Před 6 lety +10

    Amen!! Thank you Allyson I needed this, God bless you!

  • @SyrenthiaRice
    @SyrenthiaRice Před rokem +1

    I agree. A few months ago, I liked a guy I went to church with. I prayed about my interests to God, hoping to get clarity on if he was my future spouse. I even had dreams that he was my partner to be. I really thought God was speaking to me. Then I let him know I was interested not to pursue him but just to be honest about my feelings for him. He politely told me he wasn't interested. I admit I was very hurt but understood. This month and last month, he has sent me a text. I'm not sure why because I have moved on from liking him. I am no one's second choice, and I know God has a man that will pursue me with equal interest in Jesus' name!!!!

  • @paulamckeva9548
    @paulamckeva9548 Před 5 lety

    I think that many people don’t realize how crazzzy GOD is about them. He cares about every every every area of our lives. I’m sooo glad that I’m aware of whom I am in Christ. I AN THE RIGHTEOUSNESS OF GOD IN CHRIST!

  • @shianem9996
    @shianem9996 Před 6 lety +66

    Amen!! Thank you for this message! God truly works in mysterious way. But oh how I do love it 😍🙈 I love everything that you're doing with this channel! I pray that God continues to expand your influence that you may continue to be the blessing that you,are to, me and many other young girls! Even guys! All over the world.I hope you're having a great day! God bless 🙏🏻💕

    • @clarnicpsu05
      @clarnicpsu05 Před 6 lety

      MsCrystalwings did you already have a rib mate? Was your late spouse your rib mate?

    • @Kitty39ish
      @Kitty39ish Před 6 lety

      Amen.Father God, touch Ally in all she does on her You Tube channel,in the mighty name of Jesus. Give her strength,endurance,and favor,on You Tube,may she have the freedom to bring us us messages without the interference of the evil one.

  • @nunyah1111
    @nunyah1111 Před 5 lety +4

    Amen 😘 keep speaking to me lord 🙏🙏🙏

  • @sharongideon3726
    @sharongideon3726 Před 6 lety +4

    Greatly spoken. U r a blessing Ally !!

  • @tonyallen3138
    @tonyallen3138 Před 6 lety

    This is soooo true, women have to set the standard in their life that they won’t settle for anything less than a man that respects and treat them as the beautiful woman of God that they deserve to be treated as!!

  • @tiberiuvartaci48
    @tiberiuvartaci48 Před 3 lety

    She really spoke to me in this video this woman of God is worth more than all the money and riches of the earth combined 😍😍😍

  • @marbellydaniel6091
    @marbellydaniel6091 Před 6 lety +22

    Please pray for me as well..Allyson☺

  • @jimmywallisjr3718
    @jimmywallisjr3718 Před 6 lety +7

    Truthfully..tell me..what next for me...ive been waiting on the lord for so long...i dont think anybody could love him as much as i do...he promised me a princess and a financial blessing beyond all measure...those that wait upon lord...he will mount them with wings as of an eagle...they shall walk and not be wiery they shall run and not faint..teach me lord to wait

    • @killjoyana2925
      @killjoyana2925 Před 5 lety +1

      Jimmy Wallis Jr keep waiting on God. His promises are never empty, they are always fulfilled, whether it happens next month, next year, I don’t know and I can’t tell you when or how it’ll happen. But I do know that God never breaks a promise. Keep waiting on God my friend. You’re in my prayers

    • @stan020265
      @stan020265 Před 5 lety

      Jimmy Wallus. You are not alone

    • @amandafey
      @amandafey Před 5 lety

      @@killjoyana2925 Tell that to ALL the women who've died single, waiting on God to send them a man. That doesnt even make any sense to me.

    • @Yahshuaismyeverything
      @Yahshuaismyeverything Před 5 lety

      Maybe you were called out to singleness. God doesn't doesn't ser everyone out for marraige.

  • @selan551
    @selan551 Před 6 lety +22

    Wow! I needed this so much! It fits 100% to my Situation now! God hear and answer through one person!!

    • @studmalexy
      @studmalexy Před 6 lety

      do you care about expanding the kingdom?

    • @meirymuniz1791
      @meirymuniz1791 Před 6 lety

      yes it happened with me too Prayse God

    • @1brathwaiteenterisellc39
      @1brathwaiteenterisellc39 Před 6 lety

      I wrote a book catered for women that love God first. To give them (Women) incited into getting a man for marriage. The name is " Exclusively for women: 7 ways to get your man to the altar" A hand book guide for women of faith, on Amazon Kindle for only $2.99 (E book edition) and $3.99 paperback. Good reading and very entertaining, get your copy today...

  • @christianmarchan6577
    @christianmarchan6577 Před 4 lety

    That's the best example I've ever heard in my life about the one God has for me!!

    • @irenelala
      @irenelala Před 4 lety

      (...) she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.
      I Corinthians 7:39 NKJV
      bible.com/bible/114/1co.7.39.NKJV

  • @si_a_to2086
    @si_a_to2086 Před 4 lety +1

    Yesterday I was praying to God about my life partner, and found this beautiful video today 😍.

  • @Bells_Ville
    @Bells_Ville Před 6 lety +14

    I dont know how I keep ending up on these marriage things....
    Cause im sure not lookin for marriage right now😰😂

    • @journeytrials
      @journeytrials Před 6 lety +2

      iloveabeni brielle I will say this women and men who are engaged in sexual relationships outside of marriage, marriage will not be for them. Because God demands people with serious heart and views in marriage. Once married you can’t go back on it.
      So if your not a serious person then I would advice people don’t get married until God changes you!!

    • @acharich
      @acharich Před 6 lety +2

      Preparation Miss Jackson, preparation.. 🔑

    • @amandafey
      @amandafey Před 5 lety

      I know I don't wanna get married. I prefer an easy life. Plus, no one is good enough for me. Lol!

    • @rachelbrad6436
      @rachelbrad6436 Před 5 lety

      Same here😂 everyone is possessed by jezebel this girl reminds me of her to lover of herself😂 im not listening to her to seductive looking. False profit.

  • @ReinibaChan
    @ReinibaChan Před 6 lety +18

    Lol interesting. I know of so many couples in my church that didn’t think of the other person as the 1 from the onset. Some of them took time to see each other as the one. Some of them several years. But they are together now and have been for decades. But it took work and still takes work.

  • @yolandalujan9726
    @yolandalujan9726 Před 5 lety +3

    Amen Sister. !! GOD knows and cares. Thank you Sister. God bless you !

  • @nurturingwings3793
    @nurturingwings3793 Před rokem +1

    “A spiritual covenant identification in the Spirit of God”

  • @annamaria8731
    @annamaria8731 Před 4 lety +2

    Missing your videos lately, Ally. So blessed by your insight, wisdom and strength in the Lord 💛

  • @beautimazing
    @beautimazing Před 6 lety +7

    "I'm one of those crazy, uber spiritual Christians" - YES! You just took something that people, especially church people who don't get it, use to insult me and made it a proud statement of identity: "YES, I'm one of those people." I love it!!!

  • @kaitlinmanley8562
    @kaitlinmanley8562 Před 6 lety +84

    #amensister preach it, love you ally

  • @Jim_why
    @Jim_why Před 5 lety +3

    Strong powerful true... thank you

  • @Roberti3571
    @Roberti3571 Před 5 lety

    Amen Sista Girl!! I needed to hear this just the way YOU put it!! I keep saying, whoever my Wife is, she will be a Woman who is at least as in Love with THE MOST HIGH as I am. I can not and will not be unequally yoked. I can't imagine it any other way.

  • @Regularguy1798
    @Regularguy1798 Před 3 lety +1

    Simple of course and yet Very Profound - Adam is the Rib Cage and Eve is the Rib. Now I can go on to other things, but that's another story.

  • @zionpraises6286
    @zionpraises6286 Před 6 lety +4

    Offff perfect timing I needed this thank you 💎🔑🎀🎉🖼💟✝️✡️💟💜💖

  • @tritonbradford1688
    @tritonbradford1688 Před 6 lety +4

    Two become One flesh!

  • @Goldchainz730
    @Goldchainz730 Před 6 lety +9

    If only you guys knew how perfectly timed this was!
    All I can say is but God!!

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 Před 3 lety

    Yes. He definitely care about who you marry. Because He knows that some people are sent by the enemy to distract, hinder, and deter you from His will. He is also concerned because He predestined you to be with someone that will enable you to fulfill the purpose that you all have for one another. They will build you up and vice versa.

  • @nickpreyma7374
    @nickpreyma7374 Před 6 lety

    love it. really needed to see this today. the right mate for me is going to view me as THE OPTION. not as an option.

  • @naturallybree8301
    @naturallybree8301 Před 6 lety +9

    Thanks for this, sometimes guys try to make women options n play games.

  • @lesmcc8103
    @lesmcc8103 Před 6 lety +8

    not married myself, but with SO many people (Christians) who are divorced...did those people just not marry their "ribmate"? did they go against God's will? What if my "ribmate" married someone else? Is there just one person meant for me??

    • @exposingliars9824
      @exposingliars9824 Před 5 lety

      I think so. YES>

    • @elizabethwood7097
      @elizabethwood7097 Před 5 lety +1

      No sir. People make Choices. If the Lord has someone for you He will direct you to the right ribmate.

    • @ella_64
      @ella_64 Před 5 lety +1

      All of us have free will. And sometimes we use it to make the wrong choices. Also people change during their lives - sometimes in a good way an somerimes in a bad way. There is no guarantee your partner will stay the same for the next 40 years. But am totally convinced that there is more than just one perfect match for us. It is just easyer to say "oh, there is just THE one" to provide one of using its God given brain and make choices(led by the Holy Spirit) as well as taking advantage for those. I see it very often that Christians like to hand over the responsibilities for their choices in life towards God.

    • @donnascott1390
      @donnascott1390 Před 5 lety

      Good question...

  • @teamjesus7087
    @teamjesus7087 Před 5 lety +3

    It's 2019. The only mate you need now is JESUS ! That's the only Marriage Supper of The LAMB you best be looking for.

    • @InitialPC
      @InitialPC Před 3 lety

      adam had jesus, god said it wasnt good

  • @TheSuperprincess50
    @TheSuperprincess50 Před 6 lety +2

    Thank you for speaking and Letting God speak through as His Vessel i enjoy this Word

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 Před 3 lety +1

    Amen! I totally agree with this word. God bless you. Thank you for sharing. ❤❤❤