i have multisensory aphantasia, and i have somewhat of and inner monologue but its not "normal" its worded thought. its weird and very empty, and absolutely terrifying but i can fall asleep "fast". its weird seeing how aphantasia hyperphantasia affects adhd, autism and other stuff
@@__cutie14__ having an inner monologue doesn't necessarily make you neurodivergent. that being said if you think you might be, I would recommend Paige Layle's YT channel. she has some good info dump videos that could help you make a better assessment.
The bubble thing, yes! I get so snappy if someone interrupts my little internal stories, opens my door or asks something completely irrelevant out of nowhere. It usually starts a whole argument and ruins the day, but I can't really help it, and trying to explain it is almost impossible. So yeah, it's wonderful :)
"I'm doing neurodivergent burnout s**t" **contemplates showering** "NOPE" Me all the time with with brushing my teeth lmao. . . . Wait, am I burnt out? I'm also just, like, exhausted all the time.
if there is ONE thing you do to clean yourself you MUST MUST MUST brush your teeth! even if you just brush them for 30 seconds w no toothpaste it's still better than nothing! your teeth health affects everything else! once they go, so does the rest! make it a goal to brush at least once a day and floss once a week if you can't do anything else!
@@Star_Rattler I know, I hate that I can’t do it sometimes. But when the executive dysfunction hits, for whatever reason that’s just one of the things I physically **cannot** make myself do. I’ll sit and think, over and over to myself, “Just get up and brush your teeth. It’ll take 2 minutes, then you can come and sit down again. It’s not hard, just go do it. Your teeth will rot if you don’t, GO.” But I **can’t** go. Thankfully, I seem to have managed to brush them often enough over the years that I haven’t had any major issues with them; only major thing was, because I have a very strong gag reflex mixed with a phobia of vomiting, I sometimes struggle to brush my back teeth, so I had to get my top two wisdom teeth removed a few years back because I couldn’t brush them and they were really bad. Honestly I don’t know HOW they aren’t worse, because one time the executive dysfunction was so bad I couldn’t brush them for a whole WEEK, and when I finally got the motivation to brush them again, I was terrified I’d done some real damage this time, but thankfully they seem okay, no pain or visible decay (and I’ve been to the dentist since that . . . incident). I’ve actually been really proud of myself recently because I’ve been brushing them pretty much everyday (I’ve had one or two hiccups) this past month or two, even if I don’t manage in the morning I try to do so after I have a bath, so I’ve at least brushed them once. Going to try and work up to twice a day, but idk how long that’ll be, need to set the once a day into my routine first, get used to it.
@@Beeba10 That’s so awesome!!! Its nice to know im not alone in the struggle to brush my teeth. My mom was always very frustrated with my aversion to hygiene. But its not that i want to be dirty, it just takes an intense amount of mental energy to get started sometimes, and sometimes i just dont have that energy/will power. You’ve inspired me to keep going though! I’m getting better too, thank you for sharing!
@@Beeba10...I use to carry a toothbrush around, like if popcorn was in my tooth or something, but then I couldn't bring myself to carry toothpaste because I thought it would get smashed in my bag and get everywhere!... Then I started thinking that just putting a toothbrush in a ziplock baggie was going to make my toothbrush gross and you can't use an old, grodey toothbrush... I stopped carrying a toothbrush around AND yes, I do know there are travel toothbrushes, but I don't like using tiny toothbrushes even though I know it wouldn't be the end of the world if I did, but I just don't want to just stick it in my purse with other stuff in there as well! 🤷♀️ 🤷♂️... I want to find a toothbrush set that has a case to put it in and then I would like to take it with me on the go and use at home... I like when things are in cases! 😎
@@beepbow8444...Yeah Gurl, I notice EVERYTHING...What with Autistic Sensory Processing AND ADHD and EVERYTHING has way too many steps to compute at times or physically do... I can only do one or two task at once or I think of or notice that one task is actually ten task in one!... Sometimes I have to literally ask myself to stop noticing everything and every detail or my brain will start fritzing out and it physically makes me feel gross to think of computing it all.
Okay, so... i can’t be the only one who gets extremely angry when someone (most likely a family member) changes stuff in my room or clean it, like i trow things and then cry cause its just embarrassing.
Well, I don't get angry per say, but I personolize allot of my items as if they are friends that are there for me when I really need them or I want to have fun and hang out with the items (but I know they are not actual people or what not) so I literally get sad and quite worried that I lost something very important to me...Like say a stuffed animal I use to stim with or a Stim Toy... I have a good number of things I carry with me at all times that are standard to have on a daily bases for different stim needs (for example) or water bottles and medication...It's like I look like I'm moving out every time I go somewhere! I put it all in a regular size backpack as a purse, but I also have a big water bottle and Noise Cancelling Headphones (I literally need almost all the time) and a small sling purse for my phone and chargers, chords! 🤷♂️😂🤷♀️... When I was little I use to scoop up all my toys and important items in my tiny toddler arms and say, "I'M READY TO GO NOW!"...My mom would ask if I needed help carrying anything and I would literally be like, "NO! THESE ARE MINE! I CAN DO IT MYSELF!" 🤣 (I still only ask for help if I literally cannot anymore, but I do realize that I can ask for help and people who care will help me)... AND I also can loose things, so if it's not put in a certain place or area or grouping, I might loose it because "out of sight, out of mind!"... So Personalizing items is like an Autism thing and "out of sight, out of mind" is like an ADHD thing!
Is it a neurodivergent thing to practice to smile in front of a mirror and when you've found a way to smile that looks good to you, you try to remember how your face feels when you smile that way? I've noticed that I do that a lot before I'm off to a social event, in an effort to not look so awkward in pictures
I'm pretty sure it is, and it's common for those who are masking, too. I'm autistic and I don't really do this too often, but there are other neurodivergent ppl (mostly autistics from what I've seen so far though others could do it too) who practice smiling in a mirror.
I got this idea that since I don't know how another persons camera takes pictures and the unpredictability of how their picture of me will turn out... That if I do a Kawaii peace sign kinda by my face sideways or by my eye...then it might look interesting and I won't look like I'm just confused and staring deadass into the camera. 🤣😂🤣... I hate having candid photos taken cause I don't know what rando face I might be making or lack thereof like a robot! 🤪🤖
@@nostalgiameadows23...I sometimes practice looks I find interesting in the mirror from characters or famous people. 🤣... Like if I watch a music video and they looked a certain way I liked at the end of it I'm like 😏😉🤫🤭🤨🥴... I do it if I find a look interesting or if I want to try and make that face and maybe look cool sometime in the future!... It's like Facial Echolalia or Scripting with your face!...That's what I call it! 🤷♀️ 🤷♂️
I cannot smile well and I kinda just gave up a while ago. My family just thinks it’s me being moody or smth ig. It’s because I don’t know how, or any smile I do get I can’t replicate on command and even if I could it would be very draining.
I absolutely always wear shoes. I just don’t understand the ones that I’ve seen where the floor feels icky. Of course it does. That’s why I never go barefoot.
I'm the opposite. I don't really like shoes or socks because they're restraining my toes from moving, so I'm almost always barefoot. I hate hard floors, though.
Things that I do that are probably neurodivergency -Feel like crying everytime anyone starts yelling, even if not at me -Natural response to anger is to cry -Keep talking for very long periods of time -Not like sitting still -Horrible memory -Sometimes remember random things from 5-10 years ago
@@yeet3043 I like to eat some of the good stuff in between the less good stuff but favorite at the end always. I don't get how people to finish with what they love eating ? Doesn't make sense.
Ikr! I especially do it at breakfast time. Must eat scrambled eggs last. They are the best! I don’t care if they’re cold by the time I get to them. But once I start eating one food, I can’t stop until it’s gone. Then I move on to the next food- even if it’s all on the same plate
Oh god is it not normal to have a monolouge- Ive been looking at other symptoms of neurodivergency n stuff and i want to get tested but im terrified to ask my parents-
@@melissat7636 Where do you get this number from? Because according to Prof Hurlburt from the University of Nevada it's around 30-50%. That's quite a difference. I wish there was a bigger study on this.
For 28 years I thought my inner monologue is me being schizophrenic, learning that it is actually a thing led me to the self-diagnosis for ASD/ADD and seeking help without the fear of being put onto a straightjacket...also learned they don't do that to everyone with a personality disorder.
no, because i was literally talking with my aunt a couple days ago about my internal monologue.... and she said she didn’t have one & i was like... 😳 “wait, what? seriously? no, you’re the weird one.“.... oh sh*t edit: i see your Chris Top Her & raise you “To Get Her” to spell together. 😂
I relate to these like all of them…but I’m scared to ask a doctor about this cuz every time I bring it up to my mom she shuts it down and tells me I’m overthinking which very well might be the case cuz I have anxiety but..I still wanna at least ask a doctor…I’m just scared in general lol
I think it is normal for neurotypical people sometimes, especially if they're introverted and have been talking too much so they have low energy or they're talking to someone they can't stand? It's important to know for disorders that the severity and amount of traits matter. Most people show some autism traits sometimes, but only in certain situations and to a certain degree of severity (in both "strength" and amount). For example, introverts find it difficult to socialise because it drains their energy. On the flip side though, some autistic people love socialising. I know someone with autism who seems to know pretty damn near everyone in the whole college. Autism is _really_ complicated and I suggest speaking to a professional if you can if you think you may have it or you need information on it. Heck, you could find you actually have something else instead because of how much autism symptoms overlap with other disorders (e.g. ADHD)! :)
@@cantin8697 I'm not sure if you have autism or not, but here is your answer. Being non-verbal is when it is physically painful to talk. Your brain is whirring around at 100mph and you just want to shut off. You have to almost push words out of your mouth and you get 10x more tired everytime. You become passive, and uncomfortable. You can hear every sound and can't block it out. I don't think introverts experience this. Some autistics like socialising, but for the majority it's hard when masking.
This is a good compilation… Very comforting while i work up the nerve to actually get evaluated for ADHD. My brother and i understand each other on a very deep level, i think part of the reason is that he has accepted that the way i think/operate is out of the ordinary. It would be comforting to have an official label for that i think. And maybe medication would help with my executive disfunction? I know not everyone has proper respect for people with ADHD, but idk, as a nonbinary guy gal, i’m ok with being an underdog haha
Sometimes I do least to most favorite and sometimes I do "food that will get coldest the quickest" to "food that will stay hot the longest" because I absolutely hate cold food.
I see your Chris Top Her and raise you my Connect-I-Cut to remember Connecticut. Thank god it's actually spelled that way. I also raise you my Indiana-Polis to remember Indianapolis. I'll also never forget how to spell Mississippi because they made us spell it over and over in school for a week. Aaaaaaand I relate to the irrational anger of being burst from my bubble, especially when MY HEADPHONES ARE ON.
I died at "Chris Top Her." 🤣 Christopher is my middle name and when I was younger I was confused about the spelling due to the "ph." I don't think "Chris Top Her" occurred to me. I just gave up trying to make sense of it.
It started out of a joke with me and my friends noticing autistic traits I have, but I've been asked if I'm autistic by several psychologist and a education professional to the point I'm becoming worried. Nice tiktoks though, I can recognize myself on several of them and- Oh no.
I see your Chris Top Her and raise you: "up for down, down for up" to remember which way to twist the temperature handles, and which way the temperature goes when twisting handles in the shower.
“NEUROTYPICAL PEOPLE DON'T HAVE AN INNER MONOLOGUE!"... ME with Autism, ADHD and VocalT/Motor Tics, who has massive Instructional Echolalia, Vocal Stims as well and NO inner monologue: BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH! 🤣... (Seriously though! The opposite is also true depending on the person)
NTs don't have an inner monologue? Really? Hmm.... And I also get really irritated when yoinked from my own bubble world by someone who wants me back in their reality.
Ok screw you! It's past 12 am and I was like "haha it's scaringly relatable as always!" But then there is the bubble world tiktok that plays and I'm like "YES YES YES yeeeesss!!! Finally someone says it out loud... Ok now I'm scared...." And like I wasn't tested for autism or ADHD (I did a test that I forgot the name that actually can gives a good hint at autism but it's not used for it) plus ADHD runs through the family. so you know what? I don't want to have a crisis past 12am in the car to a vacation I don't want to go to so no thank you! I still love the video tho :)
wait neurotypical people dont have a silly little voice that sounds oddly like tour own that likes to cuss at you when you do something wrong? that sounds terrifying i could never
So uh the fact that not everyone has an inner monolog, that not everyone can just have like.....mental conversations with themselves and try to see both sides.....its unnerving in a very bad way......I love horror movies bc they scare me but this.......this information scares me in a way I don't know how to explain but its bad
1:27 as as someone who does this… is it bad? whenever i draw are create something i love to show people and often get really happy and exited to do so but… is it a bad thing? im genuinely confused, is it rude to show other people my drawings when im done? is that why they ignore me and dont seem interested? im lost :(
It is not bad. It’s ok to be passionate about the things you like/ love and ESPECIALLY about the things you create. Keep showing off your artwork. Who knows, maybe one day you’ll show it to the right person who’s ready to get you into your own business. It’s ok to be overly excited and passionate. :)
It doesn't by itself; however, anxiety is a pretty common symptom of neurodivergence as we live in a world not really suited for our sensory needs and it stresses the hell out of us every day. Don't self-diagnose, though! Please see a specialist if you are able to, and have them evaluate you if you feel that something's off.
Wait so can someone explain what a inner monologue is because if it’s like a voice in your head that tells u what to do then mine is muted and has subtitles on 😭 (I’m adhd and possibly autistic)
5:11 I have to say WED NES DAY to remember how to spell Wednesday I have to say TO GET HER for spelling together I have to really emphasize the Z in pretZel So I don't say prensel
all of these but also i have to say tew-es-day to spell tuesday! i wrote it wrong when i was 10 and a girl made fun of me for it so now i always think tew-es-day
1:50 ahahahah that’s just being a clean freak and overthinking, plus u live there so u notice more things, and the 2nd and 3rd one, that’s also an everybody thing lol😂 5:53 and also I do that all the time that’s normal
I definitely have that world bubble towards school assignments that say to put things iny own words. Cause I'll do the assignment but for putting things in my own words the teacher is getting 1 sentence max for each question but they end up sending it back saying it's incomplete. Like bitch- you just told me to put it in my own words not write a whole paragraph about it.
I'm AuDHD and I don't have a internal monologue. Seems extremely inefficient and annoying if you ask me. Why would you think with words when you can think with abstract concepts.
no, just because a lot of nt people don't have one doesn't mean that no nt people have one. im pretty sure it's still more common to have an internal monologue than not no matter who you are, it's just fairly common (which doesn't have to be more than half or even quarter of the population, it's a very vague term, it just means it's not unheard of) in nt people and hardly ever occurs in nd people.
Not having an inner monologue sounds both calming and terrifying
i have multisensory aphantasia, and i have somewhat of and inner monologue but its not "normal" its worded thought. its weird and very empty, and absolutely terrifying but i can fall asleep "fast". its weird seeing how aphantasia hyperphantasia affects adhd, autism and other stuff
But... I thought... I was nerotypical??
@@__cutie14__ having an inner monologue doesn't necessarily make you neurodivergent. that being said if you think you might be, I would recommend Paige Layle's YT channel. she has some good info dump videos that could help you make a better assessment.
It would be so... lonely! Like, who else is supposed to help me remember things like where i put my hole puncher and if i ate food today?
tbh I don't know what it would be like to not have it
The bubble thing, yes! I get so snappy if someone interrupts my little internal stories, opens my door or asks something completely irrelevant out of nowhere. It usually starts a whole argument and ruins the day, but I can't really help it, and trying to explain it is almost impossible. So yeah, it's wonderful :)
Ikr! That woman just described my whole life 💀
The therapy skit hit me so deep. I'm right here, right now.
"I'm doing neurodivergent burnout s**t" **contemplates showering** "NOPE"
Me all the time with with brushing my teeth lmao.
. . . Wait, am I burnt out? I'm also just, like, exhausted all the time.
if there is ONE thing you do to clean yourself you MUST MUST MUST brush your teeth! even if you just brush them for 30 seconds w no toothpaste it's still better than nothing! your teeth health affects everything else! once they go, so does the rest! make it a goal to brush at least once a day and floss once a week if you can't do anything else!
@@Star_Rattler I know, I hate that I can’t do it sometimes. But when the executive dysfunction hits, for whatever reason that’s just one of the things I physically **cannot** make myself do. I’ll sit and think, over and over to myself, “Just get up and brush your teeth. It’ll take 2 minutes, then you can come and sit down again. It’s not hard, just go do it. Your teeth will rot if you don’t, GO.” But I **can’t** go. Thankfully, I seem to have managed to brush them often enough over the years that I haven’t had any major issues with them; only major thing was, because I have a very strong gag reflex mixed with a phobia of vomiting, I sometimes struggle to brush my back teeth, so I had to get my top two wisdom teeth removed a few years back because I couldn’t brush them and they were really bad. Honestly I don’t know HOW they aren’t worse, because one time the executive dysfunction was so bad I couldn’t brush them for a whole WEEK, and when I finally got the motivation to brush them again, I was terrified I’d done some real damage this time, but thankfully they seem okay, no pain or visible decay (and I’ve been to the dentist since that . . . incident). I’ve actually been really proud of myself recently because I’ve been brushing them pretty much everyday (I’ve had one or two hiccups) this past month or two, even if I don’t manage in the morning I try to do so after I have a bath, so I’ve at least brushed them once. Going to try and work up to twice a day, but idk how long that’ll be, need to set the once a day into my routine first, get used to it.
@@Beeba10 That’s so awesome!!! Its nice to know im not alone in the struggle to brush my teeth.
My mom was always very frustrated with my aversion to hygiene. But its not that i want to be dirty, it just takes an intense amount of mental energy to get started sometimes, and sometimes i just dont have that energy/will power.
You’ve inspired me to keep going though! I’m getting better too, thank you for sharing!
@@Beeba10...I use to carry a toothbrush around, like if popcorn was in my tooth or something, but then I couldn't bring myself to carry toothpaste because I thought it would get smashed in my bag and get everywhere!...
Then I started thinking that just putting a toothbrush in a ziplock baggie was going to make my toothbrush gross and you can't use an old, grodey toothbrush...
I stopped carrying a toothbrush around AND yes, I do know there are travel toothbrushes, but I don't like using tiny toothbrushes even though I know it wouldn't be the end of the world if I did, but I just don't want to just stick it in my purse with other stuff in there as well! 🤷♀️ 🤷♂️...
I want to find a toothbrush set that has a case to put it in and then I would like to take it with me on the go and use at home...
I like when things are in cases! 😎
@@beepbow8444...Yeah Gurl, I notice EVERYTHING...What with Autistic Sensory Processing AND ADHD and EVERYTHING has way too many steps to compute at times or physically do...
I can only do one or two task at once or I think of or notice that one task is actually ten task in one!...
Sometimes I have to literally ask myself to stop noticing everything and every detail or my brain will start fritzing out and it physically makes me feel gross to think of computing it all.
Okay, so... i can’t be the only one who gets extremely angry when someone (most likely a family member) changes stuff in my room or clean it, like i trow things and then cry cause its just embarrassing.
Nope, I'm exactly the same. I don't have enough fingers to count all the fights me and my mom had for this exact reason.
My mom does not respect my curtains :/
thats normal for autistic people :>
Well, I don't get angry per say, but I personolize allot of my items as if they are friends that are there for me when I really need them or I want to have fun and hang out with the items (but I know they are not actual people or what not) so I literally get sad and quite worried that I lost something very important to me...Like say a stuffed animal I use to stim with or a Stim Toy...
I have a good number of things I carry with me at all times that are standard to have on a daily bases for different stim needs (for example) or water bottles and medication...It's like I look like I'm moving out every time I go somewhere! I put it all in a regular size backpack as a purse, but I also have a big water bottle and Noise Cancelling Headphones (I literally need almost all the time) and a small sling purse for my phone and chargers, chords! 🤷♂️😂🤷♀️...
When I was little I use to scoop up all my toys and important items in my tiny toddler arms and say, "I'M READY TO GO NOW!"...My mom would ask if I needed help carrying anything and I would literally be like, "NO! THESE ARE MINE! I CAN DO IT MYSELF!" 🤣 (I still only ask for help if I literally cannot anymore, but I do realize that I can ask for help and people who care will help me)...
AND I also can loose things, so if it's not put in a certain place or area or grouping, I might loose it because "out of sight, out of mind!"...
So Personalizing items is like an Autism thing and "out of sight, out of mind" is like an ADHD thing!
Twice my mom has moved my body wash to a different shelf in the shower and I got silently angry
Is it a neurodivergent thing to practice to smile in front of a mirror and when you've found a way to smile that looks good to you, you try to remember how your face feels when you smile that way? I've noticed that I do that a lot before I'm off to a social event, in an effort to not look so awkward in pictures
I dunno. I just never smile if I can help it. Problem solved.
I'm pretty sure it is, and it's common for those who are masking, too. I'm autistic and I don't really do this too often, but there are other neurodivergent ppl (mostly autistics from what I've seen so far though others could do it too) who practice smiling in a mirror.
I got this idea that since I don't know how another persons camera takes pictures and the unpredictability of how their picture of me will turn out...
That if I do a Kawaii peace sign kinda by my face sideways or by my eye...then it might look interesting and I won't look like I'm just confused and staring deadass into the camera. 🤣😂🤣...
I hate having candid photos taken cause I don't know what rando face I might be making or lack thereof like a robot! 🤪🤖
@@nostalgiameadows23...I sometimes practice looks I find interesting in the mirror from characters or famous people. 🤣...
Like if I watch a music video and they looked a certain way I liked at the end of it I'm like 😏😉🤫🤭🤨🥴...
I do it if I find a look interesting or if I want to try and make that face and maybe look cool sometime in the future!...
It's like Facial Echolalia or Scripting with your face!...That's what I call it! 🤷♀️ 🤷♂️
I cannot smile well and I kinda just gave up a while ago. My family just thinks it’s me being moody or smth ig. It’s because I don’t know how, or any smile I do get I can’t replicate on command and even if I could it would be very draining.
I absolutely always wear shoes. I just don’t understand the ones that I’ve seen where the floor feels icky. Of course it does. That’s why I never go barefoot.
no shoes and socks feel icky you can't move!
I'm the opposite. I don't really like shoes or socks because they're restraining my toes from moving, so I'm almost always barefoot. I hate hard floors, though.
@@CJgreencheetah I just hate clothing in general. There's so few fabrics I can wear that feel nice against my skin. I suffer on the dailyyyyyy
I only wear shoes in one room of the house with two doorways. Sometimes I have to go back the long way for shoes because the floor is icky.
Me who hates having shoes on inside:
"Where's your pants?"
"No one wears pants anymore."
"Ok."
Had me dying 😂
The not having all the social issues, burnout and overstimulation 💯 it’s acceptable as a kid but then becomes a problem
Things that I do that are probably neurodivergency
-Feel like crying everytime anyone starts yelling, even if not at me
-Natural response to anger is to cry
-Keep talking for very long periods of time
-Not like sitting still
-Horrible memory
-Sometimes remember random things from 5-10 years ago
Hold up, why wouldn't you eat starting from least favourite to most favourite food? 😂😂
Because that way you end with something you love and you don’t ruin it by having to eat something you hate after ?
@@yeet3043 I like to eat some of the good stuff in between the less good stuff but favorite at the end always. I don't get how people to finish with what they love eating ? Doesn't make sense.
I do it that way too lol. Once I start eating something I have to eat all of it until I move to the next
Ikr! I especially do it at breakfast time. Must eat scrambled eggs last. They are the best! I don’t care if they’re cold by the time I get to them. But once I start eating one food, I can’t stop until it’s gone. Then I move on to the next food- even if it’s all on the same plate
I think its kind of a normal thing to do, most of the people I’ve met did this.
Oh god is it not normal to have a monolouge-
Ive been looking at other symptoms of neurodivergency n stuff and i want to get tested but im terrified to ask my parents-
I completely understand!!
I also want to get test, i think i took a test a bunch of years ago, but i dont think it tested for autism
Bro they’re mental disorders not Pokémon badges
60-70% of all people have an inner monologue, so it is normal!
@@melissat7636 Where do you get this number from? Because according to Prof Hurlburt from the University of Nevada it's around 30-50%. That's quite a difference.
I wish there was a bigger study on this.
Every. Single. Thing. Is. Relatable.
IKR
So true 🥲
For 28 years I thought my inner monologue is me being schizophrenic, learning that it is actually a thing led me to the self-diagnosis for ASD/ADD and seeking help without the fear of being put onto a straightjacket...also learned they don't do that to everyone with a personality disorder.
no, because i was literally talking with my aunt a couple days ago about my internal monologue.... and she said she didn’t have one & i was like... 😳 “wait, what? seriously? no, you’re the weird one.“.... oh sh*t
edit: i see your Chris Top Her & raise you “To Get Her” to spell together. 😂
I see your "To Get Her" and raise you "sKience", "sKissors", and "K"nives".
@ꪖᦓᦔᠻ ᥅ꫀꪻꪊ᥅ꪀ I've never even seen that word before. I wouldn't know where to begin, lol.
i see your sKience", "sKissors", and "K"nives and raise you "fry the ends" to spell friends
I relate to these like all of them…but I’m scared to ask a doctor about this cuz every time I bring it up to my mom she shuts it down and tells me I’m overthinking which very well might be the case cuz I have anxiety but..I still wanna at least ask a doctor…I’m just scared in general lol
Go ahead you can ask for a therapist for your axiety and then ask the therapist
Ask your doctor regardless of what your mother thinks! You deserve to clear your doubts!
6:12 oh shit! guess I do go nonverbal sometimes
6:16 is for things like this that I keep thinking I do have autism
I think it is normal for neurotypical people sometimes, especially if they're introverted and have been talking too much so they have low energy or they're talking to someone they can't stand?
It's important to know for disorders that the severity and amount of traits matter. Most people show some autism traits sometimes, but only in certain situations and to a certain degree of severity (in both "strength" and amount). For example, introverts find it difficult to socialise because it drains their energy. On the flip side though, some autistic people love socialising. I know someone with autism who seems to know pretty damn near everyone in the whole college.
Autism is _really_ complicated and I suggest speaking to a professional if you can if you think you may have it or you need information on it. Heck, you could find you actually have something else instead because of how much autism symptoms overlap with other disorders (e.g. ADHD)! :)
@@cantin8697 I'm not sure if you have autism or not, but here is your answer.
Being non-verbal is when it is physically painful to talk. Your brain is whirring around at 100mph and you just want to shut off. You have to almost push words out of your mouth and you get 10x more tired everytime. You become passive, and uncomfortable. You can hear every sound and can't block it out.
I don't think introverts experience this. Some autistics like socialising, but for the majority it's hard when masking.
This is a good compilation…
Very comforting while i work up the nerve to actually get evaluated for ADHD. My brother and i understand each other on a very deep level, i think part of the reason is that he has accepted that the way i think/operate is out of the ordinary.
It would be comforting to have an official label for that i think. And maybe medication would help with my executive disfunction?
I know not everyone has proper respect for people with ADHD, but idk, as a nonbinary guy gal, i’m ok with being an underdog haha
0:18 It's funny how I was like this as a kid but now it's most to least favourite.
Sometimes I do least to most favorite and sometimes I do "food that will get coldest the quickest" to "food that will stay hot the longest" because I absolutely hate cold food.
I see your Chris Top Her and raise you my Connect-I-Cut to remember Connecticut. Thank god it's actually spelled that way.
I also raise you my Indiana-Polis to remember Indianapolis.
I'll also never forget how to spell Mississippi because they made us spell it over and over in school for a week.
Aaaaaaand I relate to the irrational anger of being burst from my bubble, especially when MY HEADPHONES ARE ON.
i raise you to-get-her to remember together
Connect-I-Cut. I honestly thought that's what most people did to remember how to spell it.
0:00 _People don't have an internal monologue??_
BROO ikr- I just can’t imagine not having one-
I have to ask all my neurotypical friends if they have an inner monologue now...
I died at "Chris Top Her." 🤣
Christopher is my middle name and when I was younger I was confused about the spelling due to the "ph."
I don't think "Chris Top Her" occurred to me. I just gave up trying to make sense of it.
Why is showering so hard? And laundry just feels impossible…. Whyyy???
I relate so much to this vid
5:45 I see your Chris-Top-Her and I raise you "First the bat then the ball " for b and d
i see your bat and ball and i raise you " Feb-ru-ary". Self explanatory.
@@nobxya I see your “Feb-ru-ary” and raise you “wed-nes-day”
@@amberb.6395 I see your “wed-nes-day” and raise you “Never Eat Soggy Waffles.” Man- it was hard to pick only one for me hah-
What does your comment mean?
It started out of a joke with me and my friends noticing autistic traits I have, but I've been asked if I'm autistic by several psychologist and a education professional to the point I'm becoming worried.
Nice tiktoks though, I can recognize myself on several of them and- Oh no.
7:50 I have *never* been called out harder in my life.
Same
I see your Chris Top Her and raise you: "up for down, down for up" to remember which way to twist the temperature handles, and which way the temperature goes when twisting handles in the shower.
“NEUROTYPICAL PEOPLE DON'T HAVE AN INNER MONOLOGUE!"...
ME with Autism, ADHD and VocalT/Motor Tics, who has massive Instructional Echolalia, Vocal Stims as well and NO inner monologue:
BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH! 🤣...
(Seriously though! The opposite is also true depending on the person)
i relate with all of these but ive never been diagnosed with any form of nerodivergency? especially the autism ones…
ah shit
5:07 I have to sing F-R-I-E-N-D-S get that inside your head to spell friends
1:28 I really want to show people my art but I think I get enough love, well probably-
5:53 I…this is so true…
I say choc-o-late to spell chocolate
Same lol
NTs don't have an inner monologue? Really? Hmm.... And I also get really irritated when yoinked from my own bubble world by someone who wants me back in their reality.
Ok screw you! It's past 12 am and I was like "haha it's scaringly relatable as always!" But then there is the bubble world tiktok that plays and I'm like "YES YES YES yeeeesss!!! Finally someone says it out loud... Ok now I'm scared...."
And like I wasn't tested for autism or ADHD (I did a test that I forgot the name that actually can gives a good hint at autism but it's not used for it) plus ADHD runs through the family. so you know what? I don't want to have a crisis past 12am in the car to a vacation I don't want to go to so no thank you!
I still love the video tho :)
0:31 keeping this spot.
7:49 im either like 'nope' or if there's a tub i lay in the bath for like 2 hrs there is no inbetween
wait neurotypical people dont have a silly little voice that sounds oddly like tour own that likes to cuss at you when you do something wrong?
that sounds terrifying i could
never
Same
I see your Chris Top Her and raise you:
Having to spell out the word dial so I don't spell it dail
5:40 I see you’re Chris top her and raise you my wed nes day to spell Wednesday.
6:05 just wear slippers sis. Never lived my life without wearing one
I see your “Chris top her” and raise you pot a toes (for potatoes) 😂
So uh the fact that not everyone has an inner monolog, that not everyone can just have like.....mental conversations with themselves and try to see both sides.....its unnerving in a very bad way......I love horror movies bc they scare me but this.......this information scares me in a way I don't know how to explain but its bad
1:27 as as someone who does this… is it bad? whenever i draw are create something i love to show people and often get really happy and exited to do so but… is it a bad thing? im genuinely confused, is it rude to show other people my drawings when im done? is that why they ignore me and dont seem interested? im lost :(
It is not bad. It’s ok to be passionate about the things you like/ love and ESPECIALLY about the things you create. Keep showing off your artwork. Who knows, maybe one day you’ll show it to the right person who’s ready to get you into your own business. It’s ok to be overly excited and passionate. :)
@@sparkless1549 ..really? thank you :DDD
7:34 WTF I literally have a double-sided blanket that stays with the flower side up lmao
0:17 i legit do the same (and autistic) and it was cuz my mom said "save the best til last" i guess i took it seriously
Omg I always eat fr least to most favorite lol this explains so much
6:01 NO BC WHY IS THIS ACCURATE
5:38 I don't know how else to explain it but that's how I do math. As a 20 year old. 🥲
Wait hold up-most people dont have inner monologues-? Frick-
I can't believe no one said "f-r-i-e-n-d-s that's how you fing spell friends" or wed-nes-day for the spelling stitches thing
5:49 I raise your Chris-top-her with to-get-her to spell together
I see your Chris Top Her and raise you a "res taur (pronounced like tore) raunt" to spell restaurant.
9:00
Me.
Does having GAD (generalized anxiety disorder) make me neurodivergent or am I still neurotypical? I’ve heard a lot of things. Someone pls explain .-.
It doesn't by itself; however, anxiety is a pretty common symptom of neurodivergence as we live in a world not really suited for our sensory needs and it stresses the hell out of us every day.
Don't self-diagnose, though! Please see a specialist if you are able to, and have them evaluate you if you feel that something's off.
1:26 What do you mean☹️
Wed-nes-day
1:33 cool anyways ;ilike your hair
Wait so can someone explain what a inner monologue is because if it’s like a voice in your head that tells u what to do then mine is muted and has subtitles on 😭 (I’m adhd and possibly autistic)
5:11
I have to say WED NES DAY to remember how to spell Wednesday
I have to say TO GET HER for spelling together
I have to really emphasize the Z in pretZel
So I don't say prensel
all of these but also i have to say tew-es-day to spell tuesday! i wrote it wrong when i was 10 and a girl made fun of me for it so now i always think tew-es-day
at 1:40
can they not see well?? like- i dont get the tiktok? can someone pls explain it
I think that they meant that they’re focusing in on random small details that no one else noticed. Idk tho, that’s just how I interpreted it
1:50 ahahahah that’s just being a clean freak and overthinking, plus u live there so u notice more things, and the 2nd and 3rd one, that’s also an everybody thing lol😂 5:53 and also I do that all the time that’s normal
I definitely have that world bubble towards school assignments that say to put things iny own words. Cause I'll do the assignment but for putting things in my own words the teacher is getting 1 sentence max for each question but they end up sending it back saying it's incomplete. Like bitch- you just told me to put it in my own words not write a whole paragraph about it.
I'm AuDHD and I don't have a internal monologue.
Seems extremely inefficient and annoying if you ask me.
Why would you think with words when you can think with abstract concepts.
I have inner monologue. Does this mean that I’m neurodiverse?
no, just because a lot of nt people don't have one doesn't mean that no nt people have one. im pretty sure it's still more common to have an internal monologue than not no matter who you are, it's just fairly common (which doesn't have to be more than half or even quarter of the population, it's a very vague term, it just means it's not unheard of) in nt people and hardly ever occurs in nd people.
I see your Chris top her and raise you
Big elephants can always understand small elephants
To spell because.
I see your chris top her and raise you I have to say wed-nes-day to spell Wednesday
I see your chris top her and I raise you "one (c)ollar two (s)leeves" to spell necessary
a coffee has two sugars!
5:49 I see your Chris top her and raise you geo party, for the word jeopardy